What's the point of a relationship if I have to go out of my way to pretend to not care about the other person.
When I'm myself and actually care and try to make my partner feel appreciated they get bored of me and don't give a shit, but if I go out of my way to ignore her, don't reply to her messages, etc, she suddenly comes crawling back giving all the attention, but I don't want to be like this because I'm forcing myself to be someone I'm not, so what's the fucking point?
Should I just give up on relationship and convince myself I'm not fit for one?
>>17305960
Give and don't expect anything in return from anyone.
>>17305960
>my experience with one woman is indicative of all women
Date people who like YOU and not the attention they can give to them.
>don't date people who don't mesh well with your personality
>don't be needy
>don't pretend to be something you aren't
You have to find a fine balance between being self absorbed and being needy. If you keep acting like a needy faggot, you're going to irritate most women and attract shitty, needier women that you're going to either cheat on or kill yourself over.
Learn to be happy with yourself
