>meet girl on okc
>have a date, she seems nice
>second date goes well but I don't actually feel that attracted to her
>meet another girl who I actually like
>refuse like three dates with first girl with shitty excuses (oh no I'm sick I can't make it, there are strikes on my train line so I can't come, things like that)
>she doesn't get it and I'm a pushover so I actually accepted a date with her
>later on she tells me she still has her unused okc account, then immediately "oh but I shouldn't tell you this, I hope you don't mind?" like we're already a couple
what do?
Be honest?
Have you tried using your words?
>>17295264
Yeah but there's gotta be a diplomatic way to be honest. I've always been civil to her but I never actually made any move towards her (nor has she towards me, except for that last line) so if I suddenly go "I actually don't like you" it would be weird.
