Got myself in a bit of a predicament, id appreciate any help
Basically a girl joined my college last week, she's in all my classes. She's kind of a loner, very shy, never speaking to anyone, I know how it feels to be shy and have everyone just ignore you, so after a week I grew the balls to sit with her and talk to her.
We instantly hit off, we both love anime and vidya and we talked for about 2 hours straight. I never really got a good look at her face because she's always looking down, but she looked up at me when we were talking and she's absolutely beautiful and she has the cutest smile/laugh I've ever seen. I think I fell in love with her right there and then.
Now here's the problem; she has a boyfriend. When I found out it totally destroyed me, I've never felt this way about a person before. I only found out about her boyfriend by stalking her Facebook friends, shes literally never mentioned him once.
What do I do?
Talking to her and knowing I'll never be with her because she has a boyfriend is extremely painful. But I can't just stop talking to her because I'm literally the only friend she has in college.
This is so fucked up.
I've flirted with the idea of trying to cuck her boyfriend, but I don't know if that's even possible or if it's the right thing to do
Such is life. I'm in the exact same situation right now. I'm just gonna leave it on the back burner and hope for a rebound when/if she gets dumped.
Yeah I wouldn't try and manipulate anything, it could blow up in your face.
I've found out that friends overall hold more value then a relationship, sure you got burned but if you hit it off and connected build a friendship, and you might like her because you are socially starved and interpreted her social interaction as something more, though could be wrong about that last.
