I have an amazing girlfriend. She's beautiful and wants the same things out of life as I do. We're currently sophomores in college. I cant seem to find anything that I really have an interest in at the school we're going to. I'd really like to do Architecture, but it doesn't offer it. Nor do I have enough money to pay for a school or to relocate to one that does. I've always wanted to join the military, and I thought about joining the Air Force. But thats 4 years of my life gone, and then 4 more for school. I'm afraid being away from her might make her distant and fall for someone else or something. Yknow? I couldn't be there for her. She assures me she'll love me forever, no matter what. And I believe her. But I've also never had a long term relationship before. I'm conflicted about what to do honestly. Do I just get a basic business degree but stay with her here? Or do I join the military and go for a career I'm actually interested in? When it comes down to it, I'd rather have her in my life than anything else. But I know I'll have to support her when we're older and want to be prepared for that.
Any advice? Thanks for all the help.
>>16905227
bumpp
>>16905103
>wants the same things out of life as I do. We're currently sophomores in college.
The former statement is invalidated by the latter.
My statement is supported by your statement here:
>I cant seem to find anything that I really have an interest in at the school we're going to.
>>16905103
Do what you want to do in life. If you're meant to stay together, you'll both find ways of making it work. Tell her what you'd like to do, ask her what she needs to be happy in that situation and make the effort to give her what she needs. If she loves you then she'd want you to do what makes you happy and support you through it.
