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Hey /trv/ My girlfriend is going to going to travel around Europe
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Hey /trv/

My girlfriend is going to going to travel around Europe in the summer and will be away for about 5 months.

How worried should I be right now?
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How long you been together???
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>>108974
5 months is a really long time for her to travel without you. She might not be planning it now, but women are far more promiscuous when they travel.

Honestly, you need to have a fuckton of faith in her.
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>>1089747
Europe... I live there! *Don't worry anon I'll take good care of her..... In all seriousness what part of Europe is she going to? As culture varies enormously from country to country, Italian and Spanish guys are relentless when chasing a woman whilst I find the more Northern Europeans are a bit more respectful of her having a by etc (always exceptions to the rule though).
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>>1089747
She'll probably fuck some guys, might be easier to just have a break whilst she's gone. You won't miss each other as much and neither of you need to feel guilty about sleeping with other people.
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>>1089781
i guess you can just break up in the first place then.
There is no way any respectable man would give his woman a freepass for a europe trip and then take her back
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English anon here. Travelled around Europe last summer for 2 months. The one girl I had sex with and 1 of the 3 guys had partners.

The Danish girl I fucked in Amsterdam which is a hub of debauchery. If she's going there, I'd be cautious. She showed me her pics of her boyfriend who was skinny and generally not manly looking (desu I would have rather fucked him). She was crazy as fuck though.

Now that I think about it, I find most of the girls that have cheated with me have skinny or effeminate boyfriends. And I guess want someone with chest hair for once. Do you lift anon. Have you ever wrestled a bear on a mountain.

>>1089776 is right. Everyone throws caution to the wind when they travel.

To be honest is her cheating when she's half a world away for 5 God damn months that big of a deal. Just use it as an opportunity to fuck some other people. Maybe go traveling yourself. Then when you two meet again you'll be glad to see each other or you'll realise you didn't really give a shit in the first place.
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>>1089747
Mate if you allow her to go, you are a cuck in the purest sense of the world. You will literally be aware that she is having sex with other guys and be okay with this.

Make no mistake about it, no young, attractive girl is going to go 5 months in the countries with the most permissive attitudes toward sex on earth and keep her legs closed.

It WILL happen. She WILL cheat on you.
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>>1089799
The thread was doing okay until here.

OP I've been that guy that women cheat on their partners with and it makes me sad sometimes. But every now and then and you meet one of those Chicks who stays strong and I have a little bit of faith again.

If you guys are for real, and you can be cool with her sleeping around and knowing she'll come back to you/could still love you, then you might be fine.
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Separate "having sex" with "love" and all is fine.
Having sex with someone doesn't mean you love someone.
If you can accept that, you're all good.
If you can't, you either trust that she'll spend 5 months in another continent without having sex or take her decision of going as a proof that she doesn't love you and move on.
This last option is extreme but it's based on the extreme assumption that "loving me"="sex with me and only me".
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How is "loving me and sex with only me" extreme? Is this board full of hippies or something? Have you never been in a proper relationship? I know my girlfriend would be pretty devastated if I slept around and she's pretty paranoid about it. I wouldnt shag someone else either. Why would I want to? If I wanted to sleep with other girls I would just be single again.

I hate this rnk shit that assumes women are animals that will sleep with chads if they only could get the chance.. If she loves you as much as you love her of course she won't cheat. Girls aren't this untrustworthy other species. They're like us. Some are decent and some are not. It depends on the strength of your relationship, your own permissiveness and her integrity.

Now if she does sleep with someone else I would just drop that and break up. I would expect exactly the same if I slept with another person. I believe that self respect and having high expectations from others is important.
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>>1089807
I've always had the attitude with the women I've been in relationships with btw. It's hardly too much to ask.
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How much do you love her anon.

She is absolutely going to fuck other ppl in Europe, don't even doubt it.

But can you take it? you'll never meet a pure woman, all of them will have swallowed gallons of cum by the time you kiss her.

So ask yourself, Am I a cuck?
If the answer is yes then it's aight, otherwise breake up with her, meet other ppl if you still want her back by the time she comes back well then do it, but you don't want to be wondering every night if she is fucking some french guy.

For the record most of the girls I fuck here in sydney are south american or nordic girls, and 80% of them are cheating, they all be like ''It's all about the memories'' or some crap like that to justify it.
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This place is so full of jaded assholes that watch too much porn so think all women are like that.

Anon if you trust her let her go have fun and see the world, if you wouldn't do it to her then I doubt she's the type of person that will do it to you. Maybe you can go visit halfway to break up the time apart.
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>>1089803
Like, totally maaaaaaaaaaan. You can't, like, control the woman who loves you, she's like, a free spirit who can sleep with who she chooses. If you can separate sex from love, then you can still love the woman you're filming having loveless sex with Tyrone.

What great advice, maaaaan
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>>1089823
>Having faith in people.

Look at him. Look at him a laugh.
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>>1089823
>jaded assholes that watch too much porn so think all women are like that

or we're jaded assholes who've been cheated on multiple times by gfs who swore on every book and saint they'd "never do something like that". girls cheat. they also use weasely language to make you think they didn't cheat because they either think you're stupid or they can manipulate you with sex. and they're probably right.

if you believe my attitude is that of a jaded asshole, you'd be right. but also the thread's right. if she's out of sight for more than a month, she's going to fuck at least one random. welcome to adulthood: population everyone but you.
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>>1089809
This OP

We aren't jaded r9kers
Fact is women (and men too) sleep around when we travel. it's just human nature. If you were worried about her travelling you should've gone with her because she will 100% get drunk at a fun dance/party/bar and sleep with a hot European guy .

The question is OP : Can you handle that? is she rich, is it worth staying with a girl like that?
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>>1089831
Such bullocks. You've clearly just been in shit relationships with skanks. I've certainly been with girls who have cheated on me and I've certainly been with girls that I've cheated on. However those relationships were not much to begin with. I've also been in responsible, adult, trusting relationships. It's such a defeatist attitude to say all girls are cheating sluts because that's all that happened to you. It's also classic r9k and tobh it's such a horrible, cynical attitude that I'm not surprised that you haven't been in a functioning relationship.
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>>1089826
>/r9k/

Get a life.
>>1089809
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>>1089809
Lol, this is so true. Scandi women are huge sluts and scandi men are huge pussies. Even here in the US I have ploughed through scandi women that were either au pairs, or just travelling. At the start of the night they talk about back home and bfs and five drinks later they are porn stars. Tl; dr don't date a Scandinavian girl

>>1089747
She'll most likely cheat on you. Just leave and move on.
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Hm,I have bad news for you, OP. There is a girl from another continent who told me that she is going to stay with me for 5 months flat and wouldn't take my cock out of her dirty mouth during this time. Also, she showed me a photo of her boyfriend, who looked like a pussy, implying that she would be glad to cheat on such a fag with me, hairy russian man. Just a coincidence, I guess. Nothing to worry about.
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>>1089807
No, it's just that the board also has people who don't view love traditionally. I was in an open relationship and I knew she could separate love from sex. Better than I could, actually. So she always had more to worry about than I did.

It's just about entering a relationship with someone who sees things the same way that you do. I do think that people who can separate the physical act of sex from love/feelings is a minority, but it does exist.
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>>1089823
Agreed. You must think she has no self control and that every girl would fuck a relative stranger at the drop of a hat. Speaking as someone in a relationship who's considering long-term travel my partner wouldn't be able to go on with me, she'll probably just bring her vibrator with her and otherwise spend her downtime going on local walks, watching local TV, or going online, maybe studying the local language and planning her next day of touring, but more likely just zoning out before bed. Not everything revolves around dick.
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>>1089878
but no, anon. Cuckity cuck cuck cuck cuck!!!!!1111oneoneone
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>>1089878
War and Sex. There isn't.much in the world other than this.
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What's her sex drive like?

Honestly? I wouldn't be able to do it. Month tops. See if you can visit or go along with her.
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That's right, ask a bunch of strangers on a Cambodian sewing website about the girl YOU are dating for x amount of months/years whether or not she will remain faithful to you. The fact that you have to ask is bad enough.
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>>1089747
You shouldn't be worried at all, but she will fuck someone. Just don't worry about it. Now if she was going to stay in one spot for 5 months, may be a reason to worry because then there is a higher risk of her leaving you, or maintaining a relationship with whoever she is fucking.
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>>1089747

If you were in a serious relationship, she would have invited you to go with her.

If you are under 30 and not married, then sorry but she will be getting all different flavours of Euro-cock on her trip.

Once she is done with her cock-carosel of self-discovery and comes home, she will return to you as her beta fall back guy.

That is assuming she even comes back. She is probably break it off as soon as the first swarthy Euro-Chad gets balls deep in her with his uncut cock.

If it was even close to a serious relationship, she should have taken you on such a long trip so you can form memories and have good experiences together.

Instead, she is going on her own specifically because she wants to create new experiences and memories without you and with European Chad-bulls instead.

Break it off now.
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>>1089809

Meh.

OP, it really just depends on how much faith and trust you have in your girlfriend. My girlfriend went on a month-long graduation trip with other people from our university. I was nervous at first, but didn't have any reason to not trust her - we met when we were both 21, she was still a virgin, and I'm her first boyfriend.

I've traveled much more than she has and had a lot of sex on the road.

I don't think she's a cheating sort, and I've never had any reason to doubt her. You have to accept your partner for who they are, unless you want her to be a stay-at-home Muslim wife who never leaves unattended.

But honestly... five months is a long time. I don't think there are many girls I'd trust on that kind of trip. Fuck, I wouldn't trust myself.
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>>1090581
Lol what kind of backwater conservative Christian sticks do you come from where you don't have sex with a girl youre dating?
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>>1090594
>>1090594

>she WAS still a virgin

Can you read?
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>>1090596
No they couldn't
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>>1090578
This. Just end it now OP.
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Pierre's gonna be running his baguette through the back of her throat in no time.
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>>1089823
You sound like an idealist with very little actual life experience.
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>>1090578
best advice in this thread
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