Post ITT if you're unattractive/lonely, share feels
People get mad when I post here but I am lonely. Not attractive either I guess.
>>23148572
>not lonely
>not unattractive
>not sad
>not happy
>not excited
>not bored
>not angry
>not guilty
>not interested in sex
>not interested in porn
>not interested in financial success
>not interested in social success
what the fuck
>>23148603
you're not even unattractive.
>tfw you deleted all your pics because people fucking hate you so much and you're pretty much at the end anyway
I look like this
I can't get laid ever on account of having a vagina
Really lonely, lost all my friends in the last few years. Trying to put myself out there and facing a lot of rejection due to my weight. I managed to lose over 100 pounds in the last 2 years my reward for this is an unfortunate amount of skin sag..
I'm trying to find some kind of relationship even just physical.
>>23148629
I delete most of my shit after a while too.
Who are you? You can't be that bad.
And if I'm not unattractive then I'm dead set boring average. Not that good either.
>>23148643
eh you know who i am
i'm pretty fucking ugly
>>23148650
pics
>>23148650
If you're the guy I need to give a hug
Don't
You're not ugly
>>23148603
I genuinely enjoy seeing you here, and you're fairly attractive in a fatherly kind of way, go find a girl/guy with daddy issues and you're set. :*
>>23148634
You've got nice eyes, just lose weight and shave the bum fluff.
>I'm pretty lonely, but it's because I struggle talking to people in RL.
>tfw F and lonely. Too scared of rejection.
Idk my ex used to call me unattractive frequently so I think that I kind of am. It sucks and it's sad. But, meh.
>>23148887
>my ex used to call me unattractive
where do these people even come from
>>23148898
I just have awful taste in men. Met him through work and after that experience i refuse to date anyone I work with.
>>23149020
Mmm
>live in boring shithole called Illinois
>every IL thread is sausage fest
>seems all women are already taken
>even hambeasts have bf
>everyone is a normie and have pleb tastes
>dark, sun is late to rise and early to set in winter
>cold, freezing to death would be preferable
>god help us all if there were one, Illinois is proof that there isn't
26, never had a girl interested in me just shoot me in the face desu
>>23149087
What are you into sexually?
>>23149096
i'm up for a lot of stuff as long as it is hetero i guess
Worst pic of me ever taken.
>>23149126
That is so vague, are you into being dominant? submissive? like femdom? like toys? panties? feet and so on.
>move to a new city
>still have no friends at all
mfw
I'm kinda alright looking but my personality is a mess. Too depressed, negative and cynical it puts people off.
>tfw trying hard but can't change
>>23149225
why are turbulent meme lovers always so sad
>>23149087
You've got killer eyes tho.
>>23149238
we use memes to pretend like we're not completely depressed and hopeless i guess
>>23149209
Never really bothered to make a list but i think i would be a switch? As long as it doesn't get too crazy with pain or pegging and stuff i will probably be into it. I like stocking too, a lot. Tall girls too, taller than me (about 5'7-5'8). But honestly my tastes have always been pretty eclectic and i have had all kinds of weird fantasies i don't really think much about them, they just come and go since they play out only in my mind and don't leave a lasting experience as i imagine they would if another person was involved.
>>23149240
people often compliment them online but i think it's because there isn't anything else to compliment and people in general tend to overrate brightly colored eyes for some reason
>>23148603
I always enjoy seeing your face here.
>>23149087
I enjoy seeing you here too.
>>23149225
Same with you.
>>23149230
And you.
It's weird, I have great friends, so I don't feel terribly lonely. But they're all guys. I've never connected with a girl on that same level. Other than a couple flings, there's never been a girl I could honestly say I loved. And now I feel like I'm missing something essential out of life. Don't even know if I'm capable of it, now that I'm 23.
>>23149238
also read this
http://disdainforplebs.com/study-meme-abuse-linked-to-soul-crushing-apathy/
it's satire but it's still a fairly good representation of what goes on in the meme lover's brain
>>23149299
>stopped spouting memes every five seconds about six months ago
>suddenly half-decade long depression has ceased
is this literally meme magic?
>lonely
I think my issue is just autism I guess, I've never really been told I'm 100% hideous or unfuckable but I'm not attractive either. Little chubby, but I've been working on that the past couple years with little change in interest of guys as the pounds came off. Just very plain Jane average I guess. I don't really stand out and I'm too afraid to approach guys myself.
Guys just don't talk to me irl, even when I put myself in social situations.
And in your early 20's, seems like nobody actually dates anymore, just casual hookups which I just can't do. Because while I'm somewhat decent clothed, I got hit with just about every negative trait you can get nude. Big dinner plate nipples, stretch marks, weird unflattering ass, and roast beef vag.
I feel like it would be a real bait and switch to guys just wanting a hook up even if I wanted to, only thing worse would be having a dick.
>>23149320
yes. donald trump has already made meme magic real and he isn't even president yet.
Before I could blame social anxiety and stuff for lack of women. Struggled to get fully past one issue only to find I had many more, I guess.
>>23148634
Wouldn't Tumblr be a better place than /soc/ to find people that would be into that? Not trying to be a shitter. Just an honest question.
>>23148603
>nice eyes/good look with glasses
>good skin
>symmetrical face
>dat jawline
who you tryin to kid?
>>23149327
Well, just don't give up. I'm sure you're just over exaggerating your traits.
average attractiveness but utterly lonely aside from family so it doesn't make much of a difference. No friends any more, never been in a relationship. Social cripple. I'm fucked.
>>23149343
What's the flag in the left corner?
>>23149422
I mean, for guys who would fuck anything with a vagina I'm sure its no big deal but, idk I don't feel like I'll ever be actually desirable to someone. Like, theres no dude thats like "wowee i sure love these giant nips that cover most of the surface of your tits, and I sure love how they're innies and never pop out ever, and your gross dangly roast beefy vagina is great, this is ideal to me"
Or at least there are like, 40 dudes in the whole world who are into that and chances are unlikey I'd ever even meet them let alone find them desirable as well.
>>23149439
Bermuda
>>23149439
You can always make friends, heck, I'm sure some here would be happy to be your friend. You just wait.
>>23149443
There's always someone out there for you, just don't give up hope. Sometimes things don't always go as planned but you shouldn't feel discouraged, as long as you stay firm that you will find someone. Well. You will.
>>23149486
>There's always someone out there for you
Nope not for everyone, some people are just meant to die alone. Not saying he's one but some people just are.
>>23149501
Stranger things have happened, friend. And we all will die alone, but it's the time alive we really cherish.
I'm very much lonely and socially awkward.
>>23149513
That's what I'm saying, not all people have things to cherish.
20 years old KV
i can't even remember what it's like to have friends
hahahahahahahahaha
>>23149068
Come on, Illinois can't be that bad. At least we've got... two baseball teams?
>>23149537
I sense some resent in you friend, care to share why?
>>23149385
Shave face, trim hair and get product for thick curly hair, condition more and shampoo less, maybe get it into more of a style or cut if you're brave enough. 24 f here.
>>23149567
Just your usual loser man, nothing different. Got made fun of, told that I'm disgusting and deserve nothing, treated like dirt. I tried to improve myself for years but I'm just fucked in the brain, I'm done with everything. You born with things you need for success or just play catch up for years to get to the same level as them.
>>23149603
Why shadow people? You do what makes you happy. And yes the world is unforgiving at times but you always have time to make good of yourself. Besides people around here are probably worse off than you so don't think you're the only one.
28 khv never had a gf never been on a date, the ride never ends
>>23149627
Well nothing makes me happy particularly. I just want to find someone to share my life with and do stuff together but it's proving to be impossible after 25 years.
>Besides people around here are probably worse off than you
heh, majority of these website's users are from first world not from a 3rd world shithole where there are suicide bombings almost every month like me.
>>23149385
Probably yes but I grew up on 4chan, I was culturalized here. At 25 the 16-20 crowd only carea that I'm trans and they don't understand that op is a faggot
>>23149652
I..I don't believe you.
Began distancing myself from my friends and rejecting them for no good reason. I don't miss any of them and enjoy being alone. I am so fucked
>>23149704
Nothing wrong with this. Read 'Party of one'
>>23149385
Get a hair cut and an okcupid account and you're set.
>>23149087
>>23149225
>>23149672
People find love at ages man. You just need to wait. Also how don't you know, there are users here they weren't here yesterday because of some shit that happened. You should be fortunate you're able to post and be depressed at the same time.
>>23149744
>there are users here they weren't here yesterday because of some shit that happened
Like what?
I'm a 5 at best. Maybe a 6 on a really good day.
I have friends, but I'm a gay dude and all my friends are female. I love them, but its not the same. And fixing it is probably just a matter of me going to the gay bar or something else alone and that's super intimidating for me.
I'm just here to see some new Pepe memes and am disappointed niggers!
Not really that lonely, but my self-esteem's worth shit. I can't for the life of me see what some people see in me. Can't even stand staring at the mirror.
I'm the guy.
>>23149806
Honestly, a lot of gay bars are very dance oriented, and I'm sure if you invited some of your female friends, they'd happily join you. And plus, being with women, other single men there will probably assume you're single, and you've got a built-in group of wingwomen!
okay, lonely as fuck and only attractive to some. here's the thing that causes that: im in western canada amd from eastern canada where most of my friends still are and every girl i fall in love with for almost ten years now has been an american citizen. to this day none of them have been able to come up here and i get stopped at the border on my way to visit them as a " potential illegal immigrant " so its frustrating as fuck.
to the point where any american girl wants me they almost have to slaya dragon to get to me, atwhich point all i can do is give tips on how to them.
also i'm trans and lesbian but the fact ididnt bring that up until now only emphasizes how much the problem isthe other stuff and not about being trans pr lesbian. though it is depressing that three quarters of people who hit on me are guys
>>23149225
How long ago did you move? Give it time. And dont forger to smile
>>23148634
>I managed to lose over 100 pounds in the last 2 years my reward for this is an unfortunate amount of skin sag..
You're not alone, anon. I've lost a ton of weight myself and still need to lose 80 lbs more AT LEAST. Everything looks like absolute ass on me between the loose skin and the being completely covered in stretch marks thing. I'm not sure I'll be able to have a normal relationship because I'm so embarrassed about my body already and it's only going to get worse. Working hard to change your habits while knowing you're never going to have a normal body like everyone else anyway is pretty depressing sometimes. I'm at least happy that I don't feel so terrified going into public though.
I also have a form of rosacea, so my face looks like I'm drunk or I've been out in the cold for too long. It's difficult to take a proper shot that shows it well, but you can kind of see how the skin is pale around the eyes and forehead while my cheeks and nose have more of a reddish look. My face feels like it's directly in front of a blazing fire sometimes and it's pretty uncomfy.
As for me I thought everything would get better if I stopped posting on here and put myself out there. Yet my social life is just as dead as before. I ruin eery relationship I have and push my friends away. My sister is the closest friend I have and she's away at college. Its pretty lonely but it's ok
>>23149547
>>23149225
>>23149087
>>23148603
I imagine all of you guys just not wanting to talk to people because you're either shallow or don't give people a chance. I apologize if I'm wrong.
>>23148634
You're cute.
>>23149652
you're beautiful
>>23149926
i never get into a position where i have to give anyone chances or anything like that
I don't even know what I am
I had a 10/10 gf once but people say I'm ugly af.
I'm lonely and have been since hs (5 yrs ago)
I don't even have any friends.
>>23149962
I like your hair.
>>23149962
Post gf please. If you had her, dont give a fuck she's your ex now, just post her.
>>23149958
Maybe you should. I think most people are just as afraid to approach people as anyone else. You just have to keep trying. I mean, if people approach me I usually try and give them a chance unless I'm in a bad mood or am busy. If that's the case, it's not personal. You should try making some online friends, too.
You aren't unattractive, so stop thinking that. You're making yourself a victim -- in the end that doesn't matter.
>>23149693
>>23149929
:3
>>23149962
>I don't even have any friends.
who took the photo
>>23149962
People only dress like this much of a fag to impress a goon-squad of retards in a social situation.
This is a troll post, disregard
>>23149991
Myself
>>23149999
I'm into fashion, and the only thing I spend is clothes.
Those aren't your cheap swag clothes.
>>23149987
Don't make me regret this anon pls
>>23149990
>I think most people are just as afraid to approach people as anyone else. You just have to keep trying
A dog learns to avoid stuff after getting kicked enough.
>>23149990
All i see is extremely social people my age everywhere, definitely not as anxious and afraid to approach as me, i've had plenty of negative previous experiences that are hard to overcome. I don't even know how to keep trying when everyone prefers me to be a statist in the background.
Online friends just don't work for me. Also i am just being honest, i really don't see how i am victimising myself in any way. This guy knows how it's like >>23150018
Also my looks are at best subpar, another person in another thread summed me up nicely just now
>super long face, no cheekbones, shit jaw and chin, you could literally land a place on your philtrum
this is objectively correct and it puts me in a lower position than the average male who already has it tough depending on where he lives
>>23150017
nowhere near a 10/10 so theres problem number one for you: you put pussy on a pedestal.
>>23148603
you're not unattractive bro, we can clearly see the potential of your face behind the little chub, just lift some weight, drop some %bf and you could be fucking handsome.
For me.. well, i think i'm pretty fucking average/less average, so most people ignore me, i just can't have this "sexy" vibe that some guys have, i'm just friendly with most of people, strong character and value, no socially awkward, i'm not autist, pretty funny and still, girls don't find me attractive or see me as bf material, don't know really why, i thought it was because of my personality since that's the regular answer here in 4chan but...why i have so many people that like me and yet nobody want to be my partner ?
I thought i was nice and caring, maybe that's not enough ?
So that's why now, i think it's only because of my appearance, it's pretty frustrating.
But i refuse to let myself go, i still have hope and i'm 50% certain that someone i find attractive will love me one day :)
>>23150048
>i thought it was because of my personality since that's the regular answer here in 4chan but
It's a meme because they like to think they care about personality to not to seem shallow. Your face and height as a man is all that is matters, anyone that says "personality" matter is memeing. No women gives a shit about personality it's all about face, height, dick size and status.
>>23150031
Do you think you're exclusive or something? Most women I know have really negative experiences and have been put down by a lot of people. I assume that most males have the same experiences, but are just more discrete about it. What people say on 4chan isn't true. You shouldn't take it to heart. I think that "dick rate" threads are really amusing, as well as what you listed as what people think are attractive. You can't speak for everyone. I might not be attractive to a lot of people on here, but other people may find that I'm their cup of tea.
You are capable of changing. If you want to be more social, you can do that. You can't expect a full on personality change in a given period, though. You have to be realistic. For starters, I suggest you stay off of 4chan. Social media is really toxic.
Also,
>objectionably unattractive
Pah-lease. I see through your intentions -- do you just want compliments? If you have low-self esteem, you aren't going to get anywhere by talking shit about yourself.
>>23150073
i wouldnt be this hard with 4chan, bro.
Let's say that appearance is the first thing that people see, so if you're really good looking, people TEND to be more open and forgiving about your personality flaws, i guess.
But still, you can be brad pitt tier handsome, with a shitty personality, the only thing you'll get in life is some sex, maybe.
It's the same for us, as a male, i find some girls obviously hot, but if she's a complete bitch, i tend to rate her lower in my mind (like a 8 >6) and her personality don't make me want to approach her...
The opposite is true too, but it's more difficult for ugly people to make people appreciate them for who they are because people judge too often because of the appearance...
>>23150018
I'm sorry, are you a dog? I don't know why I'm indulging this pity party. If you want to feel better about yourself, you need to do yourself a favor and be proactive about who you are instead of posting on 4chan about your appearance.
>>23150083
I never implied other people don't have issues or anything, maybe i can't deal properly with mine, i don't know really. I do say the truth on 4chan so why wouldn't other people do as well? I don't take anything about myself here to heart, just some of it resonates with my own thoughts and some of it doesn't. I am not saying that there isn't some woman with obscure taste that might find me attractive but if we are talking objectively i believe the other guy i quoted is not wrong.
Sure i could probably be more social but for some time now i have no friends and i have been stuck with the same people in my bachelors program which was quite miserable since we are radically different and i didn't really want to be friends with them after they didn't bother acknowledging me in the first place. I will have to start a job soon so maybe stuff will change then. However 4chan is probably one of the few sites i bother visiting and staying off it will leave me with nothing and i don't really see a point in doing that.
>>23150141
It's sort of an untold truth that most people are dicks on 4chan and want to get a rise out of you.
It just sounds like to me you don't want to take the risk. Which is fine. But I can tell you this much, with the way you're going, you will be suffering in comfort.
What will you be thinking about when you're about to be put 10 feet under? You aren't going to be thinking about how hard you worked, what Sally said to you the other day, or frivolous bullshit. You're going to be thinking about who is important to you and what is important to you.
You're placing so much value on appearance and it's something that is faulty. It sounds like to me you'd benefit from cognitive therapy and start practice mindfulness. You have to have some hobbies besides 4chan. If you don't want to stay off of it, then fine. I don't think this is healthy, though. You should really take care of yourself.
>>23148634
Would you take my one free relationship coupon? Once I find it of course
>>23150094
Nope, a handsome guy can treat people like dirt and they'll still love him. I saw this loads of times in real life, specially at work.
>>23150109
You don't have to, just ignore me. I'm posting the truth.
>inb4 le man up meme
>>23150141
PS. This is sort of an unrelated thought, but it wasn't until really recently that everyone was super connected all of the time. I use to live in the country side of Ireland, and there is literally nobody there except for a few hundred people in the town I lived in. Everyone was up each other's arse and it's not as romantic as everyone thinks it is.
Reading is a good way to connect to people, as well as film. I don't think it's very realistic for everyone to feel connected to everyone all the time. It makes people go insane. You WILL find people that will be good friends to you. You just have to cut through all the gunk first, like anything in life. It makes it worth it.
>>23150238
The truth according to whom?
>>23150238
Maybe you confused "love" with respect/fear, but handsome or ugly, nobody "love" people who treat them like shit, especially at work !
>>23149898
Well I really wish I'd seen this earlier. Youre such a strong person thank you for reaching out to me. I genuinely feel little bit better after reading what you said if only to know that someone else is experiencing what I'm experiencing.
>stretchmark feels
For what it's worth it always found people who aren't like others to be beautiful so maybe there's people like me out there who can see past how I feel
>>23150237
Probably I bet you wouldn't even need the coupon
Kik:mangrypikachu
>>23150184
Sure there are dicks but there is honesty too. I am not sure what exactly you mean by risk, risk of approaching people i have observed and already know i have next to nothing in common due to past experience and upbringing? Taking a risk would be worth it if there is a decent chance to win something, right?
I have always lived mostly for hedonism, and i imagine on my dying bed i will know i didn't have enough of it. It's not like i didn't try though, i know i did what i could.
True aesthetics have always been very important to me, not only in humans but in general. In humans i believe aesthetics is probably the most important factor in relationships, for me everything else is a combination of settling and rationalizing according to the individual case.
I did visit a couple of therapists but here in the balkans those people are mostly hacks and they did more damage than good for me. I do agree about the hobbies, though most of what people do seems quite dull to me.
>>23150238
>Nope, a handsome guy can treat people like dirt and they'll still love him. I saw this loads of times in real life, specially at work.
Yeah, the halo effect. I have seen it in action so many times it's not even funny.
>>23150250
I have lived for most of my lifetime in two small cities, it's pretty nasty in my opinion, i don't like small communities at all. I would much rather spend my time in the biggest city possible, where even if i fuck up with someone i could try and look for completely different people that don't care.
I do enjoy reading and films though it's almost impossible to find new movies that i enjoy. I don't read often though, it's hard for me to keep my attention unless the book is really interesting for me.
>>23150262
Forget it I'm just drunk rambling.
>>23150269
Who knows, whatever they just get treated better while ugly people gets treated like shit
>>23150309
>Yeah, the halo effect.
yep finally someone gets it
>>23150318
maybe because the person himself is so handsome/gorgeous that people are intimidated by him/her ?
I don't know, but as i said, when you're really handsome i'm sure that people tend to be more forgiving and open, but still, i don't think they'll let themselve be treated like shit...
anyway, you sound more angry than sad bro :/
>>23150342
If you have low enough self esteem and you really like someone for whatever reason, being treated like shit could at some point be preferable than not being treated at all. It doesn't last usually i guess but it's definitely possible.
>>23150342
not mad just frustrated
>>23149962
Well I can't conclusively say you are or aren't good looking. But you're not bad looking! Plus you seem to know how to dress, so unless you live in the middle of nowhere, you should be able to get the ladies. But what's the real problem? If you're like me it's probably confidence. So figure out what makes you feel good about yourself, and avoid things that make you feel bad about yourself. Martial arts worked for me!
>>23150356
Yeah, i know some people that prefer that, but even if loneliness is pretty harsh, i prefer this situation than being treated like shit, i'd probably be more miserable.
You have to stand up for yourself sometimes, ok you may not be the most handsome guy in earth, but you're still a human with feelings, morals and values, so if someone treat you like dirt, you should kick them out of your life asap.
>>23150361
i don't know what say to you bro, maybe you should start focus on your own happiness, do things that you enjoy a lot, keep your mind busy, travel, maybe one day, when you'll be happy alone, people will want you because a person happy is always attractive, especially if this person "spread" his happiness around him like a warm sunshine :)
Don't let the asshole get the better of you, or the girls, if you don't give a shit about them, they'll respect you at least, and respect is the foundation of love.
Sorry if i speak like a neandertal, i'm not english
>>23149532
who needs friends and lovers when you can execute a pop up powerbomb
>>23148918
>I just have awful taste in men
so lonely you can say with certainty you have a certain "taste"
>tfw /r9k/ was right
>>23150386
I don't have any money to travel or focus on hobbies, I already hardly have enough money to survive. even if I want to travel I need to hop through so many loops for a visa that it's fucking ridiculous. 3rd world countries not even once
i forgot how it felt to be happy, last time I kind of felt happy it was almost a decade ago I think. my life is just suffering and struggling not to starve fuck everything
>>23150386
Yeah i did kick out some toxic people but only because they went too far and i realized what was going on, it could have not happened at all if they didn't.
>>23150407
Why you just dont make a radical change then ?
Why don't you change your job for something that pay more ? Maybe go back to study while working to have a more usefull degree ?
If you're alone in your appartment, maybe share it with someone ?
I know that can be difficult, but they're always some solution to a problem, you "just" have to find the strenght to endure the hard times.
Courage bro...
>>23150410
Hmm i don't know about that, after some time when you grow up as a person, you start being less "patient" with people who always ask you things and never give you anything...
At least for me
>>23148763
Lol
Thank you anon, but why do they have to have daddy issues
>>23149087
You're cool senpai
>>23149260
Thanks m8
I'm not too annoying?
>>23149385
Kidding noone, either not good looking or super average/boring.
>>23149547
I feel you bro.
>>23149926
I'm really fucking shy and too scared of making the first move.
>>23150048
le potential meme
You're pretty attractive though, I reckon. You look like you'd be a good mate too.
>>23150390
You have won my heart this day. And if we ever meet, I'll be sure to have a pop up powerbomb waiting just for you. <3
Insomnia has recently pretty much destroyed much of my social life. Those lonely feels are a flowin'.
>tfw too ugly and hideous to post my own pic
>tfw no gf or friends ever
>tfw don't have it in me to just kill myself
When will the ride be over? I just want the suffering to be over.
>>23150437
Thank you bro, but don't put yourself down this much, i remember that you're pretty tall, why not lifting ? Being a giant buff guy can be attractive to many women, maybe you're "not attractive" because you look like a bit soft and not confident enough.
Just try it, at least for a year, and if nothing change, if you still don't like yourself and don't have any attention from other people, well, you could say that you tried, no ?
>>23150448
There, there...gingy, we're all there for you <3
>>23150431
radical changes are for rich people, it took me months to find this job and I was close to getting homeless. i'm working 12 hours a day back breaking labor job and sleep as soon as I get to home i have no time for pleasantries. i live with my family and help them with money
courage doesn't mean shit in this country you deal with hand that was dealt to you at birth
>>23150448
go get some labor job gingi, i couldn't sleep for days before too now i pass out when i get home
>>23150455
not soon enough brother ;_;
unattractive and awkward. Also got raped and given genital warts.. There was someone who sort of wanted me and I'm still talking to him but he's not going to want me now. No one ever will :(
Sad sad sad and lonely. Also sick. Also my eating problems are resurfacing. Shit sucks
>>23150471
I don't have any money to give you but if you kill me you can have my stuff. I live in NYC and I'd be willing to at least pay your way over here to do the deed.
>>23150471
Where are you living ?
>>23150492
some shithole doesn't matter
>>23150496
Dude, if you want some money and if you are already a hard worker enough, just emigrate in Australia for a year with a working holiday visa, i'm sure you'll find a job who pay nicely enough to help your family too.
Europe is pretty shitty to find a job, at least a good one
240 pounds of ugly coming through
>le suit
My company has a dresscode that i kinda half-ass
>>23150510
i was studying to be an english teacher but had to put it on hold because of money. teachers get paid pretty good in here so it was kinda my only hope but now i'm almost 26 and still have one year of college even if i graduate no one would take a guy graduated at 27 i want to get out of this place so fucking bad you can't even imagine
how do i do that holiday visa thing do you have any info?
>>23150475
Dont give up hope breh. if there is one who was into you, there can be another :)
>>23150475
like 9/10 normies have hpv though
>>23150526
ooookey so, the shoes and the shirt is a fashion faux-pas...
>>23150533
Well, for a working holiday visa, you just have to be less than 30 and have a certain amount of money on your bank account to not get broke the first weeks you come in Australia.
And you have to have a plane ticket back, ofc.
That's pretty much it, but without any information about your country i can't say if your government made the WHV deal with Australia..
>>23150547
Not with a permanent std they won't
>>23150550
Not always the wart kind which is something people really don't want..
tfw I was a virgin and everything. I feel like I need this guy in my life but I'm scared of his reaction.
>>23150565
w-well it's turkey pls don't remove kebab, I'm 25 and have like 10 bucks in my bank account
>>23150568
I don't know what you could really do but tell him everything.
That seems better than cutting contact or something.
I'm 22 and a virgin, never had a gf. I feel very lonely and am not sure if I'm worthy of attraction. Most people here say I'm attractive but you know, /soc/ meme rates. I'm getting an ok number of matches on tinder but I don't recall a single time I when thought "wow! this girl is very pretty and my type! I wish she'd match with me" and she did, and I've swiped plenty, plenty of such girls right. It feels like shit, as if I'm not good enough for girls that are actually hot, and there's a lot of them on tinder. Do they only swipe right male models?
>>23150570
oookey Turkey is eligible for the visa.
http://turkey.embassy.gov.au/anka/Work-Holiday-Visa.html
In France, they ask us to have a minimum of 3500€ in our bank account.
Add to that 440 AUS for the visa + your plane ticket.
Good luck with that :/
>>23150611
well looks like i need to get used to spiders eh?
>>23150618
You'll need to get used to make a lot of money ^^
It's not rare there to make 5000$ a month or more if you get the right job.
The ones that pay well for backpackers are jobs in mines...
>>23150568
meh, I mean how contagious is warts anyhow?
I'm not sure if I'm attractive honestly.
Night shift makes life very lonely and makes keeping friends around difficult.
>>23150628
>• Letter of approval / support from the Ministry of Foreign Affairs agreeing to your stay in Australia under the Work and Holiday visa agreement – the selection process will be administrated by your university in conjunction with Higher Education Council (YOK)
and there goes my hopes again, i need to go back to school for this one and beat the competition off also
>>23150647
change shifts
that takes a certain kind of person. I did it for about a year and it made me really depressed.
>>23150639
very although I know most guys won't show symptoms. There's some argument that the virus gets cleared eventually but nothing very solid..
>>23150651
I don't think there is a special "competition", everyone is elligible, i think they say stuff like this to make sure that not EVERY turkish people emigrate in australia :p
Just do it, you don't have anything to lose anyway
>>23150647
Upload pls
>>23150651
Hey I live in australia
Pop over sometime :)
>>23150662
>The Australian Government does not have any role in the nomination process for Turkish nationals. For specific requirements - including current student status, academic qualifications, and military service obligations – all enquiries on the nomination process should be directed to YOK
>Visa applications will not be accepted without the approved nomination from the Turkish Government.
and I don't I can cover the expenses at all. I already struggle to make ends meet. Ah man this and I'm sobering up a bit and seeing the stuff I wrote fuck this is embarassing
>>23150665
It's already over before it's started m8
>>23150664
your cute
>>23150681
nah it's okey bro, i don't really know the situation in Turkey about the employment, but don't stay inactive, you're working now and that's great, if you want to make more money, start searching some solutions, your situation is not doomed but you have to believe ...
>>23150665
hey, if you find me a nice paying job, that something i could do :D
Elliot was right. He was always right.
>>23150699
We have almost three million Syrian refugees taking entry level/labor jobs so young people can't get experience, since employers don't even have to pay them minimum wage+insurance. Normal jobs require you to know someone or millions of unrealistic qualifications, Turkish lira is losing value against € and $ ( 1 € = 3.2 liras, 1 $ = 3.1 liras) so it's becoming hard to buy stuff, like you can easily build a decent computer with min wage in Europe/USA I have to sell my fucking organs to get a decent gaming computer here not to mention you are a potential immigrant every time you want to take a vacation. I saved some money and wanted to visit my friend in Belgium last year and got rejected because they thought I was shady, didn't had enough money. My situation is actually doomed for sure, shit is hitting the fan with Kurds lately and ISIS is bombing shit left and right(there was a suicide bombing two days ago). I'll be getting conscripted in a year and get shipped to god knows where, If I get shipped to East I'm %90 sure gonna die.
>>23150756
Well well well... i don't know what to say to you bro, the way you say it, the situation is very difficult to handle :/
Your best bet is to keep studying and get a better job..
>>23150737
aren't you like 16 though
>>23150401
On this thread for a reason, breh.
>>23151416
No.
>>23150479
I didnt need to read that picture of yours
>>23151625
Sorry. I know it's really depressing
Had a match on Tinder, she was 7/10, we talk, set up a date. 20 min before that she tells me she changed her mind, then she blocked/deleted me. Feels. Bad. Man
>>23149898
Hey hun, I don't visit soc much but I wanted to know your post made me stop. You aren't alone in what you are going through. As of today I've lost around 110lbs, and still have about 80 more to lose to reach my goal weight. The skin gets better in time, and depending on your healthcare provider you should go get a physical. Your doctor will tell you how much weight to lose and if you lose it within a year I know blue cross and blue shield WILL PAY for removing the skin if you make the case you were even heavier before and you are developing sores from it all. That should work for most insurance companies, but you have to have a physical on record and recorded weight loss from your doctor / nutritionist.
Keep going. You're doing this for your health. looking good is just a consequence of being healthy. Good luck
--
Also not linking every photo but I just wanted to say I don't see a single "ugly" person in these threads. If I saw you all on the street I wouldn't think you were suffering from the social problems that you all claim. Its all in your head because you all look fine.
>>23148669
yeah i am
>>23151800
*hugs*
M8 you're not ugly, you need to at least cheer up. I know how hard it is having >no gf
But you need to find some sort of other hobby to keep your mind at ease. Do you have any interests?
>>23148572
i love you<3
>>23149547
you're cute but if you're that guy from r9k then you're probably only a kv bc you're a dick
>>23150448
ily<3<3;;*
>>23150664
you're definitely attractive
>>23150737
lol f off, you're "lonely" by choice and you know you're attractive. plenty of girls like you but your standards are way too high
i'm a khv with no friends and i've never had a guy like me irl bc i have really bad social anxiety and im ugly and my nose is disgustingly huge.
plus, ive been called insane by like 5 different people. idk.
>>23152091
Ill be yours...youre so beautiful
>>23152091
>le quirky girl that tells all ugly guys she'd sex them xDDD
>look at me i name all my pics "eew" "disgusting" "dont hit on me silly guys"
kill yourself you whore, bet you've been real slutty and now you have mental baggage.
>>23152091
how are you so sure you know who i am
>>23152091
Never gets old
I took this picture maybe two days ago after I got home from work, but I'm lonely as hell. It seems no one is ever interested in me, and it's hard especially because one of my friends is apparently insanely attractive to women, has a hot wife and she lets him hook up with attractive women. Meanwhile, I'm home. Alone. It really hits me right in the self esteem.
>>23152091
i love you too, you're not ugly miss lady
>>23149385
i think you're hot
except for the hair, i like long hair but not sooooo long
and i love that hippie kind-of-drogadict face haha
>>23149962
wtf! do you have snapchat?
Been seriously considering offing myself the past month or so. I'm so sick of never being happy. I can't find anything that satisfies me with life. I wouldn't even normally post on /soc/ I'm so desperate for any kind of meaningful human interaction.
>>23152249
handsome desu
It's okay anons, you could be me!
My girlfriend of three years left me two months ago because I'm degenerate hikkikomori scum, I'm pretty awkward, chubby, and unstable, as well as socially inept. But hey, I'll survive ^_^
>>23152259
Thank you. I appreciate it.
>>23152270
Nice beefy arms tho
>pushed all my friends away because of crushing depression, self-loathing, and misanthropy
>don't even get me started on women
>just sleeping and going to work, collecting paychecks and building up savings to give to my mom when I inevitably kill myself sometime before my 30th birthday
Lonely in the sense of I have like two friends. Romantically speaking, I don't really think about that because I work a bunch. Rarely think about dating. Guess I'm too busy to be lonely in that aspect?
>>23152249
yeah you aren't bad looking dude, sorry you're depressed, but have you tried seeking out a mental health professional for it? Some times it takes us a very long time to reach our true calling in life, but it IS there, and it WILL satisfy you, more so than anything else or anyone else ever could. So don't give up, alrighty?
>>23152249
until you've traveled every corner of the earth, tried every single hobby available, eaten every type of food from every country, and done everything out there in the world, you can't say that you've tried everything and given up on hope. there is something out there that will make you happy.
if you have the guts to think about offing yourself, you honestly have nothing else to lose by breaking out of your shell and doing things that you always wanted to do. if you're going to kill yourself anyways, reach out for other people. find a cuddle cafe, or something.
i honestly have no pity for people like you, who give up and throw the word suicide around because they're too unmotivated to get out of their comfort zones and find their own happiness.
you make your own happiness, it's not going to come to you.
Still a kissless/virgin, have friends but terrible at reading girls emotion, just stopped trying, ive been rejected 8 times, i hate being so ugly
>>23152271
I consider myself about as attractive as you and I'm also a depressed fuck
The depression/solitude bit is the sole thing that might stop you from finding the human interaction you want
I try to be as honest as I can, and you really are definitely above average
I dig the hair, too
>>23152249
There's always brighter days to come. I know that sounds incredibly cliche. I promise that your problems will never be solved with suicide.
>>23152304
Confidence is key. It's best to just befriend women first. People in general are hard to read; even the open books have a few pages stuck together.
Almost 21 now. Never been with a girl. Virgin.
Yes, I'm lonely. Wanna die.
>>23152290
I've thought about it, I don't have the money to actually pursue any of that stuff. Thanks man, I appreciate it. Just gotta keep searching I guess.
>>23152295
I'm not like "lol gonna kill myself" I haven't talked to people about it. I don't have available people to talk to about it. I would love to try everything in the world, everything in the world is not easily attainable. I don't want to live for another 25 years just to find out that I saved up to travel the world and didn't like it. That's only an example, but do you know what I mean? I'm not asking for sympathy. I just don't know what to do. I'm so lost, and already so tired.
>>23152091
Your pic is titled 'Grossest pic I've ever taken' You're a solid 8 at least, just from that picture, and you hang out on here, so at the very least you're most likely interesting. Big noses are common and yours isn't as big as most, and your piercings would detract from it enough even if it was. I would almost say the same thing you said to the last guy in your post back to you.
I want to commit suicide but I'm too much of a damn pussy to do it. I find myself extremly unattractive and I feel like I really have nothing to give in a relationship, other than I would shower her in love and attention. I had a girlfiend once and she broke up with me, without ever even giving a reason why. I think I was too clingy...
So I'm lonely, I guess.
>tfw the smile is fake
>>23152308
Thanks man. I've had human interaction but it just hasn't meant too much, I guess. I broke up with a long time girlfriend a few months ago and I rebounded so hard I latched onto this new girl after a week and I'm pretty sure I scared her off. It's not the end of the world but definitely something I didn't need at this point. I know everything gets better with time but this time it feels different.
>>23152311
I know what you mean, and I've been in better days, they just always seem fleeting. Thank you.
>>23152330
I really know what you mean. It's hard to just kind of give up on trying to look for love when the rest of your life doesn't really give you the time to. Giving up is just so defeating.
>>23152304
I don't think you're unattractive. 9 times out of 10 you have to take relationships slower than you would hope to. From my experience anyway.
>>23152315
Women (assuming that's what you're interested in) are some of the most people things I've tried to understand. I'm not saying I miss being a virgin but I will say that I didnt experience 80% of my problems until after I started having serious relationships with women. It's not everything.
>>23152329
Not killing yourself doesn't mean you're a pussy. It means you still have hope. Try to hold onto it.
>>23152360
*most complicated people
I fucked that all up.
>>23152329
It sounds like you're more upset over a girl than anything. They can get you feeling like that, but desu I think you look pretty normal except for the fact that your eyes are a pretty nice color, if I were you'd I'd think about losing the glasses and getting contacts. Besides that, confidence is key. If you sit around sulking and telling yourself you're a pussy because you're too intelligent to end your existence, you're going to end up with a negative outlook. As for girls, they usually don't want very much attention, they want it when they ask for it and sometimes the want something spontaneous every now and then, but generally they just want to know that you'll be there when they need you.
>>23152091
Consider killing yourself. I'm not lonely by choice. No girls like me.
>>23152387
Do you have a bad personality,anon?
>>23152374
I dont think contacts will work for me. My glasses already made my eyes really small, and I think it would be gross/painful to use contacts anyways.
I sorta get that girls dont want that much attention, but I really wanna make sure they feel loved, I guess. I think thats just because I sorta have a thing for girls with depression; they make me feel like I have a purpose in life (making them happy).
>>23152400
One of the most difficult things I've found out about being with women is to tone your feelings back. It's very easy to come on too strong. You have to love yourself before you can love truly love someone else. It's very, very difficult to "fix" other people.
>>23152387
dude wtf
>>23152409
I guess man.
I gotta go to sleep, its 11pm and i have to get up at 5:30 for goddamn skool. Thanks for the advice maynes
>>23152409
THIS.
Just keep in mind, you wanna give people the gift of missing you. Don't spoil the book, just give a synopsis and have her read it at her own pace. Let her discover all the pieces of you one at a time.
>tfw am good at giving other people advice but shit at applying it myself
makes me feel worse
>>23152387
You're single because you're an asshole, that is why. Why the fuck would you tell her to kill yourself? Jesus. I know we're on 4chan but really? In this thread?
>>23152442
*herself*
>>23152096
Aw, ty <3
>>23152319
Ty, you're very sweet <3
>>23152387
I liked you. But I obviously wasn't good enough for you considering what you did to me. You really have no reason to complain
>>23152456
You like EVERYONE. Eat a bag of dicks.
>>23152442
She's a batshit insane annoying cunt who needs to leave me the fuck alone.
>>23152514
What a nostalgic roast.
Reminds me of my days in middle school.
>>23152456
>what you did to me
what is it? did pedro post your nudes on r9k?
>>23152531
Oh you sure showed me.
Have an upvote.
>>23152539
I'm curious as well.
>>23152539
>>23152548
Nope, that was someone else. And not to be rude but it's not any of your business
>>23152570
it was rude, and you already mentioned it
>>23152329
you must be 18 to post here
>>23152315
>never been with a girl
and with good reason too.
>>23152249
just do it
>>23152603
savage
>>23150272
>>23151776
Even though it's a bummer for all of us, it really is comforting to know others are going through the same thing.
Thank you both for the kind words and encouragement as well as the mention of BCBS.
I'm not sure I'll be able to do much yet since I actually have a lot more obstacles other than just this, but I will definitely keep it in mind in the future when things are a little better. I've already saved some pages to look into for now at least!
>>23152635
have you even posted your face yet or do you just come here to gawk at the ugly motherfuckers like i do?
Everyone who has posted a picture on this thread is attractive enough to find someone. Some fashion and hygiene would benefit a few of you, but overall everyone here should be capable of dating based on appearance. You all either have catastrophically low self esteem, fantasy standards for the opposite sex, or mental illness that turns others away. Confidence matters more than anything else, so sack up and get involved in some social activities. Take it from someone who was foreveralone and turned it around to successful dating, and I'm just as fat as I ever was.
>>23152270
then how did you get a gf
>>23152603
If I ever do actually decide to do it, Ill do you first
>old
>ugly
>awkward as fuck around people
>socially isolated because of medical issues
At least I'm in relatively good shape, I guess.
>>23152603
>and with good reason too.
Why do you think?
>>23152777
Dude you reek of desperation. It is extremely unattractive. You need to learn to care less.
>>23152722
Tbh, we met in highschool, I was a junior, she was a freshman, she played WoW and had issues with her dad, I comforted her and was one of the first friends she made in our state since she had just moved there. The first time we hung out outside of class was on Halloween. Her, a few friends of mine, and I all went trickortreating (even though I was like 18 lol) I didn't have a car or a job or anything but I really liked her so I lifted some candy from a store and walked to her house a few days later. Idk why she fell for me, I don't know why she stuck with me for yours, and I wish I could do something about her leaving, but all I can really do is hope and wait. She is my reason to live.
>>23152756
lol, just do him instead
>>23152964
I should note, I only started becoming a shut in after I met her, I started avoiding friends to spend more time with her, stopped talking to my dad and started sneaking out to be with her, etc. until whoops all my friends are like "Who dis?" The moral of the story is, Bros before hoes.
I really really dont like how i look, my self esteems kinda fucked, i have social anxiety and im not close with any of my friends anymore
ive been trying to do shit on my own and be happy but i just get bored and lonely
>>23149898
I think you're really cute.
>>23152329
Shave the stache, pluck the brow, grow your hair out for a better haircut. Problem you're making yourself look like a pubescent child. A lot of chicks dig the attention but being too needy can be a problem. Just dial it back a little, play it cool. Wait for some of the attention sometimes.
>>23152387
This guy has one of the worst personalities I have ever seen. I've seen his posts on other threads. A real shit head, and wonders why he can't get a girl.
>>23153050
Play a scary movie in the dark, you won't feel alone again. :D
>Moved to a college to get away from people in my old school(bad times, negative people,constant fights, feminism), no one here talks to anyone new. I've still got no friends after about 5 months, not bad but it kinda sucks.
Tried talking to people but everyone here is the typical teen; they're content to just fill there lives with gossip about who's dating who rather than talk about anything of any substance.
TL;DR I'm alone because I don't understand people and there enjoyment of petty drama.
>>23154876
>le personality is why you don't get girls
Pic related.
How is it my personality if women don't even talk to me? They wouldn't even know.
a bit more than a year ago my best friend died. I was kind of in love with him. Suddenly he was gone. Three weeks later my dog died, she was 16 years old so it felt like another part of the past was ripped away. Another month later or so I almost lost one of my closest friends in my arms, had to keep speaking to him for like 40 minutes until the medicine drive thing arrived. Alcohol overdose mixed with shrooms, doctors said if I didn't stay with him/talk to him/hold up his head he would've died in 20 minutes tops.
Now I'm kind of trying to get out there again to meet cute people and maybe have some sort of a love life again but it's fucking hard. I've also gotten really chubby and I hate it.
hopefully 2016 goes well without any deaths (except for bowie and rickman of course)
hope you all are well, would hug each and every one of you
>>23153050
I like how you look anon, I'd hang out with you. I'm sure that pullover and that face get looked at a few times a day by QTs on the street.
>>23154944
I like that you actually stayed for your friend, you also look like a pretty chill guy. Best of luck to you.
>>23155019
Obligatory
>>23155025
nevermind then i guess i cant be lonely because im a female and can have sex with someone easier.
>>23155031
Ding ding ding
>>23154994
thanks, although anyone should do that for people they call friends. or people in general.
anon do you really think everyone in your new school is the "typical teen"? I'm sure there's a few others, there always are.
>>23155031
are you complaining or trying to be funny? I don't really see an OP by you so I have no idea what you're talking about.
>premature balding
>overweight
>excessive body hair
>depressed
I used to look so fucking good, then I got a job. I'd rather be an attractive NEET than an ugly workslave.
>>23155059
show your face anon, I want to tell you that you're nice looking, maybe give you advice on how to be more confident.
>>23155053
I'm sure there are people here which are..I don't know what the right word is...normal? But so far I haven't found any and because of it I'm getting grumpier due to the isolation...
Honestly, I haven't found a single person in my classes that I actually click with.
>anyone should do that for people they call friends. or people in general.
I wish there were more people that think as you do.
>>23155066
Fuck no. I actively avoid photographs, have done for the past 10 years. I only own one small mirror that I use sparingly. That's how much I hate how I look. Thanks anyway, but it's too much of a big deal for me to just post.
>>23155055
a lot of /r9k/ say that women can't be lonely because they will always have some fettishist or horny guy there to fuck them.
>>23155076
You know you'll never get better at it if you don't start at some point anon. Might just be posting pictures of your face on the net. I hope just posting helps you, even if it's just words. Be well!!
>>23155074
Try talking to the people who sit alone, I always identify with those the most even though I'm an overly extroverted person (at times). Or those with headphones on, it's a sign of isolation too. I'm sure you'll find someone anon, there might just be someone in the exact same shoes as you are in.
>>23155089
And guys who would date you, so long as you're willing to date on your level.
>>23155097
Yeah, I'll try. I just need to work on making friends, then I can work on my confidence.
>>23155108
That does not solve loneliness. You need a deep emotional connection to feel fufilled, at least most women do. Looks don't mean much to a lot of people when someone carries themselves well.
>>23155114
I dare you to post a picture of your face right now!!:)
>>23155123
No. I knew posting here was a bad idea.
>>23155122
ie you need an emotional tampon on the side so you can fuck Chad happily.
Either way you aren't lonely. You don't know how it feels to be entirely undesired. At least people want to fuck you.
It's like going to McDonald's and complaining to a bunch of starving kids that they gave you the wrong kind of burger.
>>23155129
It's not a bad idea man. I was just trying to cheer you up, sorry if it didnt work out.
>>23155153
No offence, but you seem like kind of a knob.
>>23155169
Seems like it, yeah.
Don't listen to that anon, being a girl comes with loads of disadvantages, one of them being that people think just because you look nice that you're a human being with the permanent potential for well-being.
>>23155169
I have nothing but contempt for you worthless whiteknights.
>>23155190
lol nice, shitposting in a feels thread - you must be one hell of a disappointing human being.
>>23155097
Thanks, anon.
That's kind of a good reality check.
>>23155129
>Hey dude, set yourself tiny goals to help deal with your depression. Like getting up on time, or having breakfast, or doing one random act of kindness.
>As for the overweight just start exercising and eating less.
>You can shave/wax but some girls dig hairy dudes.
>>23153050
You're kinda cute, try and find a hobby to do on your one. One thing I've been doing recently is learning German and trying to draw.
>>23152514
...You alright der, anon?
>>23152436
I'd just recommend that you meditate on this and actively practice what you preach, rather than passively go through the motions and expecting the same results...I don't know if what I just put is clear or not, I'm pretty damn tired.
>>23152387
"Kill yourself"
"No one likes me"
Well...I see your problem.
>I'm an asshole, but at least I try to be a kind asshole.
>>23152329
Most people do just want love and attention.
Don't commit suicide.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFLdIGNUKuw
Here's a song that helped me when I was going through some shit, just keep your head up...and shave.
>>23152315
Sex isn't as great as we make it out to be, just be a sperm donor then go out and do what makes you happy.
>>23152287
Tinder's a thing...I think...that was what you were implying you wanted...
>>23152286
Do what you enjoy, and let that kill you.
At least you can go out with a smile.
In all seriousness, this life and the lives of others I've seen on here are fairly are much the same. Just try to find something that makes you smile.
>>23152249
I'm going to be a hypocrite and suggest you go see someone. It sounds like you might have/or are developing depression.
I usually get the emo fag , or scene fag , and when its not that I'm automatically gay. People think I'm ugly , and berate me constantly , I have a perf girl once , and she cheated on me and left me for someone better . I've recently moved and none of my friends cared enough to even try to stay in contact with me ...
>>23155203
The Whiteknight is immunized against all dangers: one may call him a cuckold, beta, subhuman, weak, it all runs off him like water off a raincoat. But call him a whiteknight and you will be astonished at how he recoils, how injured he is, how he suddenly shrinks back: “I’ve been found out.
>>23155210
If you're confident of your coloured/wishy washy hair why don't you try to find new people? What music do you like? If you're into screamo and the lot go look for local places where small bands play those genres, there's always new people around those spaces that would appreciate you being there. I'm sure of it, scenefag-anon <3
>>23155207
See >>23154913
Both the image and the actual post.
