any dominant women or female switches on /soc/?
>>24017982
Completly Dom girl here. Not submissive at all.
>>24018004
Kik me? circadrum
I demand replies and attention now.
>>24018004
Very submissive 24 year old Male here. Would love talking more if interested, have skype or kik?
>>24018004
are you into sadism?
kik: papadonboredom
male/28/oregon
very submissive here
>>24018013
>>24018017
Give Skype. Don't have kik.
>>24018047
Kingjames12427
>>24018069
What's the Bible passage for that?
>>24018069
That's my skype
>>24018047
lionedcoma
>>24018004
Can we talk dom to dom?
There's no one to talk to like this.
[email protected]
>>24018047
skype: ragglesprazzle
I am willing to serve.
31/m/337
kik: SkaMasta097
Submissive male here. Into friendly femdom (no violence, disrespect/abuse, or pegging) and a little bit into mommy Dom/little boy.
>>24018047
Skype me at sarevok408 pls
>>24018112
>>24018119
She hasn't even added me on skype. Starting to doubt if even a real dom female.
>>24018047
Count.Zero_ hmu if i want
>>24018137
I don't know why she would add you on skype. There are so many subs. So many. It's honestly almost too many.
She could also be sleeping. I'd put money on her being asleep or just busy since people on soc are usually nice and tend to add each other.
>>24018137
Fellow domme here. I really don't get why you would just add random skype accounts of random subs without knowing the first thing about them.
>>24018015
>>24018047
God, it's so cringe
>>24017982
Any lesbian dom/switch?
Into cuddles too if possible?
>>24018047
hurstain
>>24018774
I agree. How the fuck do u not have kik...
>>24018406
>There are so many subs. So many. It's honestly almost too many.
I know. And it sucks. It fucking sucks. :(
If anyone's interested, I'm 20/M/USA, extremely submissive, and my kik is UtterDegenerate, but I've pretty much given up at this point
sad face me.
Dom here.
22/F
Kik! Goddessmagda
>>24020570
Do you have skype?
>>24020570
>>24020620
Yeah, my skype is
morphing.jar
>>24020591
that made me happy
Being a male sub is hard its like being a small fish in a large group of fish.
>>24020587
why?
19/m
sub
ready for alot subvirgin but ready to learn;)
kik:tommyantrax
Fit, hung 27m switch
Kik dmc107
bump
i'm interested, i like assertive women
22/M/Florida
kik:articduskwave
Mistress here.
I browse often looking for good little sub girls because honestly they are less pathetic then sub men.
not giving out info, just know you are being payed attention too.
>>24022637
It made my heart go doki doki.
I am a bratty sub though. I might be small but i am quite arrogant and actually prideful (dont get off of being called a slut or such things)
23 European male sub, never had any luck in finding a domme, any tips?
>>24022637
what make female subs less pathetic in your eyes?
>>24024081
seconding this, i am curious actually
>>24018047
Showzen69
Make me empty my balls for you
27/m/USA
Enjoy crossdressing, pegging, foot worship, facesitting, light bondage.
Just looking to chat about sex or not sex, like regular people.
kik: nemotrap
>>24022637
:D
I'm more of a switch... I like being dominant sometimes...
>>24024081
>>24024240
Another Femdomme here. Not all of my male subs have been totally pathetic but like 60% have turned into cuck loving pegging addicts.
>>24024081
>>24024240
Less eager to degrade themselves for pictures
have a better understanding that a dom/sub relationship isnt just about getting off
>>24023266
hope i run into you in the future
>>24024445
Aah I see now!
I hope so as well. But it reassures me to see some femdoms into girls, gives me hope.
>>24024456
Same!
Itzasinfulworld
>>24020591
Paywhore.
>this whole thread
The thirst is horrendous
just because you're a submissive guy doesn't mean you have to take leave of your dignity for christs sake.
Though i doubt many of you are submissive, probably like the majority of people on /soc/ just trying to get your rocks off by any means and will do or say anything to get there.
>>24024445
>Less eager to degrade themselves for pictures
So you want male subs to play hard to get?
>>24024657
>The thirst is horrendous
God forbid men want sex/relationships. Heresy I know.
>just because you're a submissive guy doesn't mean you have to take leave of your dignity for christs sake.
Isn't being submissive about submitting? Do tell us what we're doing wrong.
>>24024698
>God forbid men want sex/relationships. Heresy I know.
Ah yes i totally forgot that spamming any id posts with "/f/" is how you go about getting those. Thanks for clearing that one up anon!
>Isn't being submissive about submitting? Do tell us what we're doing wrong.
I'm not really sure what you're trying to say here? That you forego your dignity when you submit?
>>24017982
>tfw no kind and extremely clingy but assertive girlfriend to take my virginity and then spend the rest of her life with me, training me to become her perfect husband
>tfw fully submissive guy
>know full well i'll probably never get a fully dominant gf ever
>enjoy reading these threads anyway because of the thirst
18/m
Never tried anything submissive but I'd like to give it a try. Femanons hit me up
Kik - fingspiderman
Question for all the femdoms here. How do you find subs? What is your selection process?
I'm so glad I found my switch gf. So many subby boys begging for attention. A bit of a hint: you might want to be degraded in bed, but that doesn't mean you should act pathetic up front. No girl is gonna date a man with no self-respect, domme or otherwise.
I see a few comments like "Well, aren't we supposed to be acting submissive and pathetic? Isn't being degraded what we're meant to do?"
And the answer is sure, yes, definitely... in the bedroom. But the way you present yourselves - "19/m/us loves being degraded fucked in the ass and humiliated, please dress me up and cuck me" is just fucking gross. It's like a drunk whore knocking you over in a bar trying to get in your pants, and the closer you look the more you realize she's covered in piss and cum and shit, and that there's really nothing else to her other than being a disgusting filthy whore. That's how most subs advertise. "I'm disgusting, please take me in and love me." Um, no thanks? Maybe you should try to be an actual person, show them what there is to love about you... because the best domme/sub relationship involves love, too, not just degradation. The problem with /soc/ as a whole is too many neckbeards forget there's actually a social aspect required for social interaction - you gotta talk, be a person, not just a horny ape on the other side of a computer screen. There's more to sex and bdsm and femdom than just tying some bitch up and hurting them inside and out.
M sub looking for girl Dom kik urbs12
I don't think dominant women need to come onto /soc/ to find a sub. They have the upper hand in this situation and can find subs pretty much everywhere they go. Finding attractive male subs might be a little more difficult though.
>>24024698
No of course not. but most male subs ive met here are more then willing to do anything i command them too within literal minutes of meeting them.
that does not make you a good sub
It feels like it's absolutely pointless to even look for dominant women. They are so rare compared to submissive men that each one has had a lifetime of pick of the litter for finding a partner. I don't want to be humiliated or degraded either; I basically just want a normal relationship with leader-follower/predator-prey roles reversed. I'm a recovering emotionless husk who derives most of my pleasure from a quiet, ascetic existence, so I need a woman that is charging ahead under her own power and wants to drag me along for her own enjoyment. I'm just what I am and I'd like to belong to someone who wants me. Sure, some of the fetishist stuff interests me, but those interests always boil down to hedonistic pursuits of physical pleasure or fulfilling the "being wanted" psychological trigger.
I sometimes wonder if I just got unlucky by having compatibility with only the rarest type of woman, but then again I don't have Olympic athlete or genius level IQ as requirements so I guess some other bastard is unluckier.
>>24024698
>>24027164
What i am trying to say is the best part of 'degrading" someone is knocking them down a peg. Knowing this is a normal person who only you have control to make them your little pet.
Like ive said any sub (man or woman) who is willing in a short conversation to completely submit isnt a sub, just a desperate person. >>24026516
basically what this person said
>>24027164
>No, of course not, but most male subs I've met here are more then willing to do anything I command them too within literal minutes of meeting them. That does not make you a good sub.
Ok, so what makes a good sub? You seem to be implying not to be so desperate, or to hold back some.
>>24027392
read my above post
Its a relationship. Its not just submitting, its pleasing and being pleased.
>>24027375
>I don't want to be humiliated or degraded either; I basically just want a normal relationship with leader-follower roles reversed.
This is me. I don't want to be abused in any way, or get pegged. I just want a strong woman who will take charge, as I am not an assertive/aggressive guy.
>>24027394
You mean these?
>>24026485
>>24026516
If so, duly noted.
Do we have some eu domms here? Or only crazy muhricans? I have kik...
>>24027404
Personally, I'd be up for pegging. I already pursue such a pleasure on my own, and if I ever had a woman give me a joyful smile while reducing me to a twitching heap I would probably die of happiness on the spot.
>>24027389
so you want to turn guys into subs,but dislike an already made sub?
ITT a bunch of hard up dudes who don't understand being a sub and only know what they know from gleening shitty femdomme porn or reading awful erotic stories.
A couple guys have posted that weren't so disgusting and that is a nice sliver of light in a sea of desperation.
>>24027979
Shots fired, shots fired.
Cmon m8ey. Everybodys got their own expectations of femdom and of being a sub. Cant throw all in the same pot, that aint fair.
>>24028045
Myself and most of the other femdommes that come into this thread say all the same thing. It's fine if you want to be degredated and pegged, if you want to be cucked and dressed like a girl. But you have no personality outside of this, there is no introduction, no breaking down or discovery. It's literally '22/m/please fuck my ass and turn me into your little sissy, you try and chat with them but all there is, is that persona there is nothing outside it.
Very discouraging and generally not what most ladies are looking for.
>>24028054
That's sort of the majority here, though. Understandable frustration, sure, but you have to be aware if you're fishing for the right guy here, it's gunna be hard to catch something decent in the fun pool of soc/internet.
>>24028060
Oh I am not looking for a sub here, I have 2 I met in RL I currently own fulltime. I was just commenting because there seems to be some confusion from the subs here when the other Domme commented about the 'pathetic' nature of these threads. There would be a lot better chances of finding a match be it a sub looking or a domme looking if you showed more personality outside of your wanton sexual needs.
Hey, I'm looking for a dominant femanon to boss me around on snapchat. I'm bi so I'm open to anal play
Snap me jakewinston7
>>24028054
>"these subs aren't subs I'd like"
I bet you have a fetlife with a bunch of writings titled "what a sub can do to deserve my attention" or something similar.
It's a 4chan thread. They're talking about their fantasies, not their life story. Relax.
>>24028071
I don't use fetlife, it's a terrible site.
Again I was commenting as a followup for what the other Domme said earlier in the thread, a lot of us feel the same way. I don't care how depraved your fantasy or fetish may be, you need to have a personality outside of it.
'this isn't the kind of domme I like, stop having your own opinions'
>>24028077
>implying I'm a sub
Friend, when the topic is "subs, sell yourself to a domme" then you can judge.
You realise people have different fantasies, and think of being submissive in differemt ways, right? Some genuinely find their headspace in being purely a sexual object.
is being a sub basically being a loser?
t. femdom with humiliation gets me horny as fuck but I detest the idea of being a loser
>>24028067
Fair enough.
You wanna have an overview of my personality? Oh no wait your not even looking for a sub, since you already have 2 on a leash. There are a lot more subs than dommes, which makes the subs go more extreme or show that they are open for everything. I guess they are just desperate. While you are a customer in the supermarket they are looking for gold in the river. But i see where youre coming from.
>>24028084
>You realise people have different fantasies, and think of being submissive in differemt ways, right? Some genuinely find their headspace in being purely a sexual object.
This same thing applies for what I said.
You realize that people have different fantasies, and think of being submissive in different ways, right?
I shared how I prefer mine to be. So did a few other Dommes.
>>24028096
why do you write doms with capital letter? do you think yourself superior in any way to people with submissive tendencies?
>>24028097
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-significance-of-titles-and-capitalization-in-BDSM
>>24028096
And then proceeded to refer to these threads, the people in them, and their desires as "pathetic".
You didn't share, you shamed, and not in a good way.
>>24028097
Semantics. Doms can be captured by melodrama just like anyone else.
>>24028088
Not necessarily. I wouldnt describe myself in rl as a loser. I could blend in with mainstream expectations of what women want from a man. But being a sub sounds more arousing to me. And im also a virgin, shy whenever a woman is around me and quite insecure about women.
The question is: how do you define a loser?
>>24028104
That's pathetic frankly. Both "doms" and subs alike are fucking mentally ill. Why did I have to develop this shitty fetish...
bump
>>24028124
well most people get thier fetishes from childhood experience
Anyway. Sub boy here. Anybody want to chat my kik and skype are boy coinoperatedboy0
pumb
>>24022637
>I browse often looking for good little sub girls
Hello! I am a sub girl. I agree with what you've said. Are you near the Pacific Northwest? I'd love to chat. I can make a throwaway email to exchange kiks.
>>24018789
>>24023266
You sound fun! Would you be interested in chatting too? We could discuss our woes of wishing for a Domme.
>>24024411
Also hello, I see you too. Are you near the Pacific Northwest?
24 USA (New England) M
intellectual, introvert, submissive into pegging, toy play, body worship (pussy ass feet)
willing to cam or face time, once comfortable possible meet up ?
looking for a femdom
skype elchululu
kik rhodygrad
>>24031626
also open to being dom if you're cute submissive.
>>24031580
California
you can just kik me i posted it in another thread anyways
same for any sub (male or female) who understands what i meant by the posts in this thread
kik:iwishforpizza
>>24031641
That's a little too far for me. But thank you!
>>24031712
Shame. you could still message me if youd like, no pressure
>>24031641
Oh hey you're the girl from the mommy or dd/lg thread right? I forgot to kik you (because i don't have kik, i should ddl it but i didn't want to bother you on the thread after being absent for so long). So sorry about it.
>>24031580
I would totally be open to chat anon, i would love it, even! I'm happy there are other girls, it always seems like it's full of dudes around here.
Trying to lose weight. need a dom female to help me get my ass into shape! already talking to one online, down about 10 pounds right now...
email: [email protected]
hmu if you wanna chat :3
>>24026516
I don't get this. There's nothing wrong with being into hardcore femdom.
The problem with male subs is that a lot of them are physically unattractive.
>>24033212
I think his main point, though he's not particularly eloquent about it and actually quite abrasive. is that too often in these threads people just reel off their fetishes and hound after contact rather than having a conversation to show some personality.
>>24033004
Falls under your stereotype
>>24033225
Usually I would get all butthurt here but instead of getting my panties in a bunch what exactly can I do to be more attractive? I'm guessing it's cardio/ lose belly fat and love handles, yeah?
>>24033314
lift and do cardio. And if you need to, count calories.
>>24032784
No please bother me
>>24032784
>I would totally be open to chat anon, i would love it, even!
How would we chat though, if you haven't downloaded kik?
19/m/Belgium
I am a submissive male looking for a dom female open for whatever
kik: t2hard4me
>>24033362
Hey we're the same age and from the same country dude!
Except i'm a female and (bratty) sub. Good luck m8
>>24033360
I dowloaded it finally!: melon.pann
>>24033353
My kik is melon.pann
i'm coming.
New Mommy Domme here
For the past few months, boyfriend has been expressing his need for domination (to which I am gleefully exploiting). We have currently been experimenting and exploring CD, feminization/sissy stuff, diapers, pegging, ageplay, chastity, etc and we're having a blast! I wouldn't say I'm clueless, but I'm newer, so I wanna discuss some things about it. He is very good at communicating his needs, and his sentiments are very positive about my domination of him. Although a maternal and controlling role comes naturally to me, I am seeking some insight to the submissive male mind. I know that I know what is best for him, and I am glad to push limits and boundaries to provide an overwhelming and satisfying experience, but sometimes I am worried about miss-stepping with this. Not only is the submissive role new to myself; it is new to him as well. He is still very sensitive and vulnerable with this role (body issues and feeling out of place in this less than masculine role). I would like to take more agency in this also, being more decisive when it is time to submit etc, whilist being sensitive to the delicacy of the headspace. I, and he, would say that we are doing extremely well as far as communication and fun goes, but I wanna be the best mommy I can be!
Having prefaced with that, here are some questions if you'd be so kind to elaborate on;
>What do you like/need in a dominant?
>What do you like to hear as a sub?
>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
Thanks for helping me navigate this new territory, sorry if this isn't the best thread to post in but I wanted to hear from all different subs.
>>24017982
retrovoid1992 is my skype. I have a very short fuze and no time for fuck boys. Be a good boy.
>>24033786
fuse. haha. Im all dom, not a switch.
>>24033724
Congrats on your kinky new relationship! I'm a sub male and I'll do my best to answer your questions.
>>What do you like/need in a dominant?
Confidence is the most important quality I look for. They need to be assertive (which doesn't mean bossy or controlling) and guide the play where both partners want it to go. For me, a good Domme is supportive of the sub's desires, but that doesn't necessarily mean doing what the sub wants.
>>What do you like to hear as a sub?
I most want to hear that I'm doing a good job pleasing my Domme. That's my role in the play, and I want to perform the best I can.
>>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
I'm into crossdressing, so getting dressed up gets me most of the way there already.
>>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
Reassurance that I'm doing a good job. I def don't look that feminine, so I like being told that I'm pretty or sexy when I dress up. Communication outside of play helps too. When you're done playing, talk with your partner about the things you guys liked or didn't like and apply that to the next session. Kink is a process that you improve over time.
>>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
The thing that can take me totally out of it is when a Domme acts disinterested or unenthusiastic. It's gonna happen sometimes and that's OK, it happens with any kind of sex or relationship thing.
>>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
No public play. Safewords are important so that any participant can stop play at any time.
>>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
Be direct. That's related to being assertive. If a Domme wants to play, a Domme wants to play.
>>24033724
>>What do you like/need in a dominant?
The same as in any relationship: Respect, trust and a connection
>>What do you like to hear as a sub?
I have a soft spot for being told "good boy" or "Good (insert name)" in general terms you just want good communications and in the bedroom or whatever that also holds true, you need to know if you're satisfying your domme and if there is anything you can do to improve
>>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
being touched by the domme, hair pulled, an some stuff that the domme says. Though really aren't we always in the submissive headspace maaan
>>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
Encouragement from the domme.
>>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
eh idk, whining?
>>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
no deliberate pooping on each other
>>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
slap my ass and call me shirley
>What do you like/need in a dominant?
I think my submissiveness comes from a lack of sexual experience so I prefer them to be at least as experienced as I am if not more so.
>What do you like to hear as a sub?
Encouragement, teasing,
>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
Certain tone of voice can be enough for me lol
>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
Encouragement, good verbal feedback, as another anon said communicating in general is very important
>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
I had one girl who wanted to try being dominant and she was constantly needing to be reassured which while understandable got old fast. Generally I dislike a lack of confidence in people trying to be dominant makes me feel like they don't know what their doing and trust is a big deal to me in any form of relationship
>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
No sounding, no scat/watersports, nothing too demeaning in public
>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
I like a little surprise now and then so anytime they can catch me off guard when initiating is fun
>>24033786
late as fuck, but sent a request.
>>24033724
>What do you like/need in a dominant?
I'd like her to be a mix of extremely cruel and very sweet, depending on our (or really, her) mood.
>What do you like to hear as a sub?
How worthless or good I am. Along those lines. Dependent on mood, again.
>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
Seeing a woman a foot taller than me and stronger. Or just a woman having a dominant personality in both away from the bedroom and in it.
>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
Alcohol and video games. I'm a simple person. I kinda have low self-esteem when it comes to being a sub, though, always worried I'd royally fuck it up.
>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
Rudeness. One thing being demanding and insulting, other thing is being rude outside of roleplay/in the bedroom. While I would love to have a permanent Domme/sub relationship at all times, I've found that people can't separate bedroom and the streets (if that makes sense).
>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
Ironically, I'm not a huge fan of pegging. Although, if she's the *perfect* Domme, I'll consider it.
>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
A slap in the face followed by a sloppy makeout in which she drools/spits in my mouth. Kinda have a tongue/spit fetish.
Communication and respect is key. I'm not a pathetic, groveling piece of meat. I'm a human being with a job and a pursuing education. Many times I've met Dommes who were overly quick to judge based off the first conversation we have and they immediately remove me for no reason.
21/M/California
Subvirgin lean azn
Kik: Stripesll
>>24033724
I like this questionnaire a lot!
>>What do you like/need in a dominant?
I would say that what I really *need* in a dominant partner is kindness and affection.
Which, pretty unsurprisingly, is what most people need in their partners. I think a lot of people don't fully understand the need for support in a bdsm relationship, but you seem to, which is good!
>>What do you like to hear as a sub?
"You did well!" "I love you." "C'mere."
>>What puts you in the submissive headspace?
Getting orders. Being kissed.
For me, it's not really difficult.
>>What helps you take away nerves or worry about not fitting in to the role, if you have any?
Body confidence! One of the most boring people I've ever met outside of the bedroom kept me around for a long time because she made me feel super sexy.
>>What don't you like/want to hear from a Dom?
I don't want her to be mean, honestly. Some gentle condescension is fine--and kind of hot--if it isn't constant, though.
>>What boundaries do you have with your Dom, if any?
I mean, the normal pee/poop/blood/etc, but I don't think I've ever had a dom try something with me that I wasn't totally down for. Except the aforementioned girl, but to be fair she also had a fantasy about being fucked with a shotgun
>>Best ways for your Dom to initiate play time.
Slap the butt
Bite my ear
Tell me to bend over
I like sudden, honestly. One of my favorite things from a different girl was when we'd be sarcastic and funny-rude towards eachother, sometimes she'd put her hand on my throat and be like "Why don't you say something nicer?"
while I'm here, I'm gonna post pic and contact info. obvi not for the person I replied to, I know how to read. skype is dongfacemcgee
>Tfw I'm a switch but I love being gently dommed.
I'm absolutely in love with the idea of being dommed by a female, but every female dom I've ever met ever are usually incredibly rude and cruel, and that's just the hugest turn off.
Like, you can take my body and absolutely dominate me in the bedroom without being a complete bitch to me. You'll get my submission easier with sweetness than cruelty.
21/M/the Netherlands
Submissive and not really experienced, so if there's any femanon willing to show me the ropes?
Kik: mattmeisterrz
I prefer using websites like share-dare.com they're purely for this reason and meetups are easier there imo
>>24035461
bump
tender doms when?
>>24037315
I feel you. Maybe one day. Chin up, guv.
>>24023266
As a male newish to dom I love this kind of sub
Any MILFdoms? Sort of like a Daddydom but female.
Rare dom, extremely sexy
>extremely confident woman
>nuturing, loving
>somewhat condexensing but in a motherly way
>wise, patient
>often beautiful, curvey, and very fertile looking
Hnnnngggg
>>24037905
pretty sure they're just called mommydoms anon
>>24033788
You on snapchat?
>>24037905
i'm one of these, but i don't think it's rare imo
>>24037905
What he said.
>>24037911
And I really want that, as well. Never had one, sadly.
>>24037905
I don't like being called "Mommy" but I have very motherly tendencies and I love calling a boy my baby/baby boy/little boy/etc. Apparently, I'm also very "fertile looking" haha.
What do mommydoms usually do in bed? Like spanking or..?
>>24037967
The dream!, they just nurture their sub and punish them when they are bad,..I think
>>24018004
very submissive boy... im 18 from chile and willing to do anything for my dominant lady add me on skype: d.wiedman1
>>24037967
Spanking is nice. Forced, sloppy makeouts are lovely... but really, loving and nurturing.
Same way "daddy" makes me cringe is the same way "mommy" does, too... I prefer calling my Goddess a Goddess.
>>24037967
Like anything there's a pretty wide definition and not everyone's going to fit into it.
Typically speaking, from my experience, the daddy/mommy type doms are more nurturing than a typical dom and a lot of the activities are centered around punishment/reward in a more nurturing sense.
e.g. spanking when bad, chores, reward for good behavior but all with the sense of positive reinforcement (calling them a good boy, providing pleasure) and positive punishment (spanking) rather than negative reinforcement (threat of being beaten if they do something wrong) and negative punishment (taking away orgasms until the sub acts 'right')
Obviously a gross oversimplification from a psych perspective because there's a lot of overlap and none of the above is exclusive to each set of doms, but it's just to give you an idea.
Think nurturing dominance vs sadistic dominance.
Additionally, something that sticks out to me is the thought process of "I'm sorry that I have to hurt you but it's for your own good"
I recall seeing a cbt clip where the girl was super sweet while doing it. Each time she'd kick or hit him (hard) she'd hold him and let him take a breather and tell him that it was going to be okay before repeating the process.
I guess I'm just into like sweet/nurturing domme, like give you spankings or wedgies and being bossy in front of her other girl friends.
Not into the like cruel and degrading kinda shit, that's like cringeworthy trying too hard BDSM play-tier imho.
Unfortunately not many dommes out there like the one I described :(
>>24037946
>>24037967
Would love to meet a momdom. Add me on kik? I have questions
>>24033786
That's not what a fuckboy is. A fuck boy is litterally a beta, submissive type.
>>24028054
>But you have no personality outside of this, there is no introduction, no breaking down or discovery.
Litterally what i'm looking for in a femdom. Someone to talknto and let down the walls to who's strong enough to handle what ive been through and not make me feel worse.
Instead they end up cruel or making me the dominant because of how hard my shell is.
Bump. I know there are more dominant women out there...
25/m/southeast US
Submissive male here (what a surprise, right?) that would love to find a cool Domme to get to know. I've been without a real domme presence in my life for... fuck, about two years now, so I'm not going to pretend like I'm not the least bit thirsty but I'm definitely more interested in getting to know one another pretty well first before just diving headfirst into depraved fun. Down to talk about whatever, surprise me.
I don't want to stretch the page TOO badly, so if you're curious about something please just ask.
So with that said, let's have a chat and see if we click?
kik:yespleasefemdom
I have Skype as well but would prefer to either add you or disclose that privately.
>>24033786
I'm so ready to be your good boy
>>24033788
I tried to add you but i wont pull up your name on skype
>>24038665
Her name did for me, but she hasn't responded so...
Probably too busy.
yespleasefemdom.tumblr.com
Femdom blog for any interested parties
>shameless attempt to bump with something other than bump
>>24039397
>no pain
boooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggggggg
>>24039475
Sorry to disappoint, anon.
Another blank bump.
>>24039397
so use pics
>>24034910
>A slap in the face followed by a sloppy makeout in which she drools/spits in my mouth. Kinda have a tongue/spit fetish.
Domme with spit fetish here. This is relevant to my interests.
M 28 kik whatsshaking2
Very small downstairs
Anyone welcome
Msg your favourite food so I know your not a bot
22/m/585
kik: kcodyh
Newly single, fit switch, looking for someome casual w whom I can wrestle for dominance day to day. Love being grabbed, bitten, scratched, and slapped by a hot dom but also love taking a bitch and making her scream my name til she has to tap out. Also curious about anal play but not a necessity
>>24041341
>those sad fake tits
>>24041079
Well, pleased to make your acquaintance. I love morning breath, too... gets me insta-hard.
My Kik is Zettadude if you wanna chat.
>>24041341
>that fake pain face
>>24042110
>that everything
>>24041540
Can't say I have an expose-people-to-morning-breath fetish tho.
>>24042324
It's a thing I have personally. Literally no one else has it, from what I've seen. I dunno, man, I'm fucking weird.
>>24031580
If you're still posting/interested in someone, my kik is gagegotem, add me and we can talk!
>>24042407
Best ever.
>>24042419
Ruined it.
why is it so hard to find women who are into giving pain
like seriously, half this thread is just dumb wankers trying to get someone to tell them to cum and then break contact
>>24042859
they're not dumb anon, they're just not elite subs like me and you that love the whip
I have a fantasy that I guess would be called 'casual feminization'. No cross-dressing or name-calling - I just want a girl to lock me in a chastity cage permanently, with normal sex replaced with pegging and pussy licking, depending on Her mood.
(The cage would also force me to sit down to pee)
>>24042918
who is this?
>>24041079
I've always been turned on by the thought of having a domme spit/drool in my mouth but have never met one actually into it. What about it do you like?
Bumping again.
>>24043749
why?if it die just make a new thread
Any dominant women in Sydney?
>>24043150
It's fundamentally degrading. Feeding my sub various bodily fluids is a major kink of mine.
>>24045455
Yes please that sounds so amazing
>>24042859
>>24042888
I find that if you skim these femdom or kink threads you will encounter scores of dudes into gentle femdom/role reversal/whatever that specifically list (heavy) pain/cutting/blood as a hard limit. Makes a sado like me sad.
>>24045469
>>24045473
Me and my sub were on a cruise two weeks ago and had some sparkling wine in the cabin, I spiked his with my pee. He didn't even notice at first, probably because the alcohol had already gotten to his head, but when I told him he curled up into a horny, subby little ball. Adorable.
I think part of why I like to play with bodily fluids is that I myself am very particular with what goes in my mouth. For this reason I have no idea what cum tastes like, but I am assuming it tastes like it smells and I don't want it anywhere near my mouth. My sub is expected to ingest cum, pussy juice from fingers, period blood, pee, sweat, saliva etc. though. Delicious unfairness.
>>24045499
But anon, you don't know the first thing about me. I could be a deformed psycho mouth-breathing acne-covered hambeast and you would never know. Calling me "perfect" for having one specific kink is creepy.
>>24045495
On the subject of pain, mind sharing some things you and your sub do? Preferably something hard
>>24045615
I don't like typing things up when prompted (unless I am on something and feeling chatty). That's too unspecific of a question to inspire me to share something. I have a decent amount of edgeplay experience though (cutting/bloodplay, breathplay, play piercing, caning for hours etc).
>>24045726
Does your sub injest your brown/chocolate as well?
Being trained as a full toilet is my absolute biggest fantasy.
>>24045791
Nah. That's disgusting.
>>24045791
Brown chocolate.
Jesus fucking Christ.
Kik: amberb_1051
Switch here.
Melbourne, Aus doms (dommes?) chat with me, I'm interested in this stuff but don't know too much about it.
Kik: Regardedon
>>24045726
Fair enough. Where do you make the cut(s) for bloodplay? Do you just smear it or do you do other things with it too?
>>24046459
There is something very erotic about blood running down a nice torso. Leaving it as streams is more esthetic than smearing it imo. I also like cutting the upper back and the back/inside of the thighs.
>>24046658
Do you use a scalpel and is it possible to do this solo without experience? I'd love to try this
>>24046682
I have mostly used single razorblades. I'm not about to encourage you to solo cut without experience, there's probably some handy dandy guide to doing it safely around.
Niggers this is the reason sub dudes get no fucking attention or respect. No sooner did someone post "domme here" but someone is demanding attention and calling her out on being fake (which is probably correct. Remember: all women are men and all children are fbi agents)
If you cant manage to make a (probably fake) woman feel like a person you arent going to be able to make her (probably him) feel like a goddess.
>>24046923
step aside guys, seems we've got an expert in the field here
>>24046947
>>24046923
Dont forget, REAL doms are very rare
Most of the actual female "doms" here are just Lazy, Bossy, Butt-fucking-Ugly bitches.
a true FemDom is worth her weight in Higgs Bosons
all this Shitty fake "doms" we get on /soc/ make them even more rare and valuable
>>24046923
This guy is the guy ! Respect
This thread is even more crab bucket-y than it normally is
>>24045495
I've been trying forever to fully articulate what turns me on so much about it and I think you've just nailed it. Your sub is very very lucky.
>>24047815
Even then, this thread isn't even normally up.
>>24048550
How the hell do you get into fetlife
>>24048891
Uh, I don't? This shit isn't that important to me, nigga.
>>24048891
pretty simple anon, theres a sign up form, you put your email address and other details in, and in no time you are into fetlife
Shameless bump. Morning, dudes.
Any girls in this thread specifically into getting your ass worshiped?
