Tinder thread, giving advice and sharing experiences. Been tindering about a year, been on tons of dates.
>>23858963
First advice, Live in a big city.
>>23858963
bump because I need some advice for good tinder pics.
Been on tons of dates? Then you're not tindering efficiently. You'd be in an actual relationship if you did it properly.
>>23858963
Is there anything I should change? I've had an account for about a year, at one point had about 300 matches, moved, made a new account and now I'm not getting any really. Is my bio too long?
Also I'm using tinder for relationship purposes not hookups, I have my bio set up more to attract a partner than a quick fuck.
>>23859144
3rd pic is the worst thing I've ever seen. You are literally posing with a can of red bull what did you expect.
>>23859144
втopoe фoтo лyчшe, чeм пepвoe
(yдaли пятoe)
>>23859166
It's a joke senpai. Slav squatting. Making fun of gopniks. Plus it's the only decent "group" pic I have
>>23859192
Cпacибo
>>23859137
Not everyone prefers to be monogamous, I prefer sleeping with lots of girls and having a few fuck friends. Maybe I'll want something more serious in future.
>>23859215
I don't have any group pics on my profile, I don't think it's strictly mandatory.
Thoughts?
>>23858963
Swipe right on every profile- pick and choose from the people that you match up with.
????
Sex
>>23859955
Exactly, why would guys waste time checking ever profile. Just check the profiles of the girls you match with and then choose who to ignore or chat with
>>23859215
You fucking spy, real gopniks don't squat on their toes. You got to put full weight on the whole surface of your feet. Only a well balanced slav is a happy slav.
>>23859939
Looks good, is it working? The guy who said living in a big city makes a huge difference is right
>>23859987
Created the account yesterday, I live in a town of about 60kish people and already have 8 matches (although I'm not right swiping every single one) so it's working a bit.
>>23859144
Pretty good pictures
The one where you're standing on the hill is bad though
Profile text is cringy
>flags
>Imma nerd
>>23859939
Pictures are ok
Can't find you on picture 2
>>23860154
I'm the second from the right
Should I just join the priesthood?
I've had chances to meet up with one or two girls way out of my league but spaghettied in the chat :(
>>23860492
Is that your mom in pic 1
>>23860492
>paranormal
>session
yeah idk if that's working
Advice?
Atty rate lmaoo
Need advice as well. I think I'm going to take up that advice about swiping right for everyone. In my bio (next pic), I try to be as straight up as possible as to what I'm looking for.
>>23860670
Bio. Is it too long?
>>23860675
Yeah, I would say so. Not that I have any success, but basing that on generic/successful profiles
>>23860563
Duely noted
>>23860543
Aunt
Installed tinder four days ago, and still no matches. I know somethings not working, but don't know what.
>>23860675
Don't mention low standards, girls don't want someone that sounds desperate
Mention height more confidently "little nigga but my dick long" (but don't use that one lol)
Don't mention ex you dingo
>>23860624
>you're
Recently had to remake tinder because it forgot my fake Facebook info. Decided to try something more more plain so it could have more than 20 matches in total
Updated. Any better? Tried to remove some cringey shit and bad pics. I know there's still like lame jokes and the gay first line but I mean if I'm not a little corny in the bio, then she's not gonna like me irl. Just trying to be real senpai
Any tips on how to approach a hookup versus a date? I'm fine with getting matches I just don't know how to proceed after that, specifically when if I only want to hookup. Male, virgin if that makes a difference.
>>23861245
Update
>>23861531
Hmm, I wouldn't say the bit about the fake name. Also, just say what school you're at; lots of people don't have that set at all. That's all info from Facebook anyways, not something to add within tinder. My 2¢
>>23860658
>>23859939
Your first picture should never be partially your face. People will judge you harder when they see the next picture of your entire face.
What do you guys use as an opener, just "Hey how's it going?"
>>23862091
2/10, gotta set yourself apart. There a sweet spot between boring and trying too hard
>>23862143
Fuck I'm not good at this.
Thoughts?
>>23862457
I'd date you
Thoughts?
I'm shit at these
>>23862457
i stay noided would have caught my attention. if i had a tinder i would swipe right. you a new yorker?
Don't die
Always up for some tips.
I'm curious what y'all think
I am seeing a fuck tonne of profiles that don't really seem to get how tinder works is an instant like / dislike app the dev said so it works on first impressions
keep it short SHORT small two line paragraphs one for quirks hobbys n shit fuck your stats that shit can happen when you match
try something like
faglord
loves anime cuckolding and freestyle backhanding
has pets is up for rampant strap on anal and Fuckery ! soul searching in public bathrooms and sea turtles...
better matches guaranteed that the shit you have now
also upsale yourself make yourself ound like a fucking stable ass meet no cunt wants a port to port wanker like this faggot here
off to serve n delivarrr dude just shit it out I am in the army looking for hook ups or looking for stable non psycho cunt bucket to play 20 on 1
this other faggot who the fuck wants you to meet their parents on date 1 get that shit out of there up sale you dilapidated ass
>be me
>live in italy
>try tinder because everyone talk about it
>tree likes and one chat in a mounth
>"this thing if fucking broke"
>summer comes
>going to miami
>"hey lets try tinder here, just for fun"
>30+ contacts, 6 hookup and get laid with 3 of them
>in just 10 days
>fuck
>my
>country
also soc/ my love hurts but my words be true xxxx
married 27 open relationship kinky fuckers considering a clothing optional place in two weeks
just an FYI we started tinder last night as a cpl and already have matches with some pretty cute girls tips stay away from any cunt who uses CIS in their profile it means but hurt will blather on and has no real intentions to play
uhh, thanks n8...
go for girls couples looking to hook up or girls who say adventurous those bitches are thinking about messy stuff it dosent matter if your a 2/10 as the b/ros say those girls DONT get hit on because guys are scared to take a dip get some psycho in your life go fucking skiiing for the first time break your leg and watch her kiss your boo boo's better
1 steps getting back the basement dewlling fear of she's to hot thats socially constructed bullshit if a girls bitching about how hot she is get up and walk away femdoms are open and honest with that shit self absorbed cunts are time wasters and are looking to bring people down
>>23863703
>>23863705
>>23863707
>>23863714
All very good suggestions really.
>>23862797
Can I get an opinion here?
Not really Tinder advice but, I met a woman on Tinder, she is older than me but has taken a liking.
We moved to whatsapp and we are talking dinner plans, but she says it would 'likely' stay at dinner unless I am able to "convince" her otherwise.
We've been talking about sex a lot, and everything I say that I love doing to a woman makes her go "wow" "go on" "I'm going to play with myself reading this". So sexually, we are VERY compatible, she has said this herself many times.
She is also not looking for a relationship, so she is purely "vetting" me as a potential boytoy I think.
The thing is, she literally said she has "lowered her standards" for men, because she usually doesn't date men that aren't older than her, and aren't academic.
That being said, I still managed to get a dinner out of her, so I'm kinda optimistic. I just have no idea what to expect when she wants someone more "academic".
That I'm 2 years younger than her doesn't seem to bother her anymore, but the she hopes to be able to hold "intelligent conversations" with me.
I think I'll be able to do it, but her demeanor has gotten me questioning my abilities.
>>23863157
Nah. North carolina
>>23863904
where in nc
>>23864005
Greensboro
I changed my bio to literally just "6'1" to see what would happen and matches came flooding in, even when I was being extremely picky with my swipes. What is this shit?
I fucking hate Charlotte NC.
>>23864304
Time to buy some stilts?
>>23864306
I'm fairly close to 6 feet already so maybe elevator shoes would work if I was actually interested. It still pisses me off though.
>>23864304
Dude charlotte is awesome.
How is this? Had tons of luck using tinder back home
>>23864373
It's alright, I'm just rambling because I never have any luck in this city compared to other places I've lived at in the state.
I speculate it's because beards seem to be popular here.
>>23862457
The first picture makes you look super innocent, not sure what you're going for but I'd move the mirror shot up to 1st or second it shows you have good fashion taste and a great body
>>23864784
By mirror pic I mean #4
>>23862797
Would eat food with, you look like a foodie friend.
But I'm a dude, so...
>>23864819
I appreciate the opinion, though. Anything you think I should change? I know I got a shitty profile, got only 2 matches on 4 days.
>>23864834
I would think about switching your first and second pics. Try to keep the selfies to a minimum, although I understand the challenge that could arise there since my profile is mostly filled with selfies too and I feel weird asking people to take my picture.
Otherwise you're good to go. Two matches in four days is actually not bad for a guy, I have some pals that I envy in looks and it took them weeks to get a match (which I assume is because we're in a highly populated city where the Tinder competition between males is enormous).
>>23864870
The funny thing is, I got the matches with the profile set up like this rather than what you are suggesting. Idk, Buenos Aires is weird. Thanks for the feedback, though. I'll mess around with it and see what works best.
It's a bit disheartening, though, I seriously look better irl than in photos.
Wanna share your profile? Can give some suggestions as well
My matches went through the roof when I replaced some goofy pics of myself with shirtless pics showing off my abs.
Girls may *say* they find pics like that douchebaggy but it's what they're actually looking for.
Don't treat tinder like a normal dating app, it's primarily a meat market and you gotta show off what you got.
>>23864908
but what if I'm a 52 kilogram 21 year old with a hipsterish look
im doomed forever
>>23864784
The first one was just the only decent pic i had with red hair. I changed it to an old photo, but i cant tell whether i like it. What are your thoughts?
>>23864917
I honestly prefer the red hair one. I don't know, I'm weak to that hairstyle and color
>>23864923
Yeah i wasnt a fan of the change either desu. I guess i change it back, but im probably gonna aim for a better photo bc i dont get a lot of matches.
>>23864917
That one looks kinda blurry. I'd say best bet is current fourth pic as main then keep the rest the same. I'd prob super like you desu I'm a sucker for your stylr
>>23864930
I find that hard to believe, but oh well, it's tinder.
Anyways, since you're a girl, can you give some feedback on my profile? I'll be thankful
>>23864930
WOAh. I did not type desu... i typed t.b.h.
>>23864937
welcome to 4chan
>>23864936
Sure post it.
>>23864954
this one: >>23862797
>>23863873
Go for it; she's waiting for you to make the move.
>>23864961
Good pics, but switch 1 and 2
>>23864937
First time on 4chan?
>>23864975
Can you do mine too pls
I suffer from having very few pics of myself
>>23864975
welp, I guess I'll do that. Thanks.
Would you swipe left or right?
>>23864979
>world meme database
>that bio
i like you, but I don't know if that stuff will get good feedback from women
>>23864991
Alotta girls comment on my bio but ya maybe I should delete that pic just. Just did it for the epic lulz
>>23864994
you're funny. I'd replace the meme one with some other funny pic that you can come up to
>>23864979
I like your bio and make 4 your second photo and keep the other order.
>>23864977
No just the first time the desu thing has happened.
been up for a few days, no matches yet. Help
>>23858963
I'm thinking about starting a Tinder profile for the first time. Any absolute Do's and Don'ts?
>>23865490
I guess try to have interesting pics. At least one full body one. Try to not use mirror selfies, those are pretty boring and look awkward sometimes. If you have a female friend, get her to help pick your pictures.
>>23865537
That's not a bad idea, thanks. Anything aside from the photos?
>>23865490
Look like a Chad as much as you possibly can, and write something in your bio that screams "I'M A CHAD".
I'm absolutely serious. Girls claim they find it annoying but they'll right swipe you anyway. Shit's hilarious.
>>23865643
I'm pretty normal, pretty nerdy, but I have communication skills and I'm fairly accomplished. You're saying play up the weightlifting and action shots, play down my intense love of video games?
>>23865606
Your bio is your chance to sell yourself. I would say you don't need to go into too much detail, leave it a little vague so they have something to ask you about.
As for chatting with them, I don't stress too much over the opener. A lot of the times I just ask "hey :) how's your week going?" Using emoticons in moderation is okay, it makes your messages seem more expressive. Talk to them about stuff they're interested in. Also, you don't have to wait days before asking them out. Usually the first day we match I'll ask them to go grab a beer.
>>23865695
Very appreciated!
I feel like the hardest thing to learn is the etiquette with social media...don't want to make myself look like a retard in the first five seconds. It's kinda like 4chan culture, you can only learn it by immersing yourself in it. For Tinder, though, I'm happy to take an advice-based shortcut.
>>23865722
I just always try to come off as positive, if they ask how I'm doing I'll say "I'm doing great :D" I guess it makes you seem more confident.
Any chance to improve? First pic looks blurry for some reason but it's not
>>23865810
for some reason, the "and bored" part seems a little off putting to me
>>23865071
it's only been a few days, dont stress too much.
but maybe get rid of "recently divorced," it could come off as intimidating. and the costume pic may be a turn off for girls who aren't very nerdy.
>>23864979
this is damn near perfect. dogs? check. good looking? check. humorous bio? check. i would say maybe include a pic of you engaging in one of your hobbies.
>>23864556
a pic with your face closer to the cam might be nice, all of the ones you have up are pretty far. (also change "eat" to "east", if you havent already noticed)
Tried to make improvements from the other day, thoughts?
>>23860993
Fixed. thnx mate
>>23865810
>>23865854
>for some reason, the "and bored" part seems a little off putting to me
This, make it "18 and stoked" or something like that.
>>23864917
You're fucking adorable, but you gotta stop putting such blurry pics as your main. Makes it look like you're a bot.
Pic 4 or 6 would make the best main imo.
>>23865071
The other guy nailed it, nix "recently divorced" and the costume pic, or at least put that one last. I'd also put pic 2 behind 4 & 5, avoid having two sunglass pics in a row.
>>23864979
You're fucking hilarious m8
>>23865884
Delete pics 1&4; make pic 3 your new profile pic.
>>23862797
So I really just need to swap 1 & 2? Only that? Mmm
>>23865854
Damn I didn't even realize. Uploaded a new selfie pic with a dog, think that's better?
>>23865938
Done, thanks senpai. Is the sunglasses one ok?
>logged in to facebook throguh app
>cant log back in to tinder
>restarted both and phone multiple times
what do
>>23866670
It happens. Log off facebook and log in via app. Reinstall tinder. Try with a different network. Etc.
does this work
>>23866717
I've done all of this :/ I have a really cute guy talking to me and I'm worried he's gonna lose interest aaaaaaaaa
>>23866738
I had this same problem yesterday, and switching to wifi fixed it... I don't know, you'll have to wait or google harder. Good luck with that!
Any suggestions? I have absolutely no idea what to put for a bio
>>23866814
"The photos might be blurry, but my dick is high definition"
>>23866830
The first one is blurry here for some reason but not on the actual profile
>>23866830
Probably because of my shitty att internet
>>23866841
Blur them and use that bio.
In all seriousness, I struggle with my bio as well. I like to keep the thread alive
>>23866855
Not a bad plan
Also: bump
>>23866941
Wait for someone more knowledgable than me to reply to you. I've just broke up from a 2 years and a half relationship and I lost all my confidence about dating
Had tinder for 4 days, changed my pics and bio maybe 3 times, and still nothing.
>>23867032
Forgot pic
Does everyone who links their instagram to their tinder profile get a bunch of spam? I get at least a few random likes and followers on instagram every day -- most of which look like spam bots. Are these things coming from tinder?
>>23864027
you are about an hour away from me, if i see you ill super like you but i usually dont have my shit on anything about 30 miles
I've recently downloaded Tinder and have matched with a few cute women.
Any criticisms or comments please?
Bio:
"I've been an actor for 7 years, web development for half a year and I'm starting to learn piano. I could be a hippie or a massive nerd. Sometimes I can be somewhat socially retarded (not actually true), but that's part of what makes me a fun person."
How retarded is it? What should I change?
>>23868433
"I've been an actor for 7 years, web developer for half a year and I'm starting to learn piano. I can be a hippie or a massive nerd. Sometimes I can be somewhat socially retarded (not actually true), but that's part of what makes me a fun person."
Fixed some shit, was translating from spanish.
>>23860492
>paranormal things
>>23860624
remove picture where you are dressed like a pirate
wtf is this, middle-school?
>>23860658
Mainpicture is shit, can't see half your face
Picture 2 is shit
Picture 3 is shit
Picture 4 is shit
Picture 5 is pretty good
Text: pretty shitty. Starting out by talking about your height seems weird.
Sounds weird that you call your cat your buddy. Asking people to hit you up with good grammar is cringy. You're not their fucking 2nd grade teacher.
>>23860670
Picture 1 is ok, I guess
Picture 2 is pretty bad but ok
Picture 3 is bad - why do you have pictures of kids on your tinder profile?
Picture 4 is ok idk
Picture 5 is bad - it's a car.
Your bio is too long and too cringy, dogfucker.
>>23860977
Main picture makes you look like a child
Picture 2 is ok, I guess
Picture 3 is weird
Delete picture 4
Bio is not funny.
>>23861245
Pictures are ok, but use picture 5 as main picture. It's the best you have.
Bio says nothing about you.
>>23861256
This is much better.
>>23861531
>"I'm into Guns, Gadgets and uhh... G-strings?"
kill me
>>23862457
you look like you get a lot of messages from cringy dudes
>>23862797
Remove picture 1, it's shit
All your others pictures are ok
Bio is ok
>>23863660
Remove picture of dog
Remove last line of bio
>>23863698
Picture 1 is not ugly, but taken from a bad angle
Picrue 2: unless you're going after girls who are into explicitly military dudes, I'd say it's pretty shitty. Some girls who like horses might like it though.
Picture 3 is shit.
Bio is cringy. Bitches ain't into patriotism.
>>23864556
All your pictures are good except for the fact that you don't show your face on your main picture.
>>23864917
All the same
>>23864979
Use picture 3 as main picture
Bio is pretty funny
>>23865071
Picture 1 is ok but women who aren't into bikes might find it pretty lame
Also, people can't see your eyes on picture 1 and 2
Picture 3 is cringy
Picture 4 is kinda bad - can't see half your face
Picture 5 is cringy
Bio is too much information. People will find it intimidating that you were just divorced.
>>23865810
Pictures are ok.
Picture 1 is kinda try-hard
Bio is ok but boring
>>23865884
Remove main picture
Remove picture 5
Other pictures are ok
Bio is funny
>>23865900
This is better
>>23866814
Remove picture 2
>"It's hunting season and a fox like you shouldn't be out in the open!"
>>23867039
Better but still shit
>>23867949
Pictures are ok, I guess
Bio is cringy as fuck
I get some matches but i really need some help in the chat. I mainly want to fuck but i have no idea of to say it and i always end up with girls searching for true love.
Also fot those of you that does'nt already know
flamite dot com
Dont live in a country where english is the main language hence the short summary.
Thoughts comments?
>>23868613
that flamite site is cool. Thanks anon
>>23868695
it does'nt work that well for swiping, but for chatting (or googling matches picture for stalking intent) it's great
>>23868705
Yeah, unlimited swiping is helping me come to terms that I'm ugly or tinder is broken
>>23860492
Sexy as fuck mate.
>>23868925
it's not unlimited, after 100 it keeps going but does'nt do really work.
>>23868936
ah, fuck that, then. Well, I've been maxing out a lot these days and only managed to get 3 matches (and one of those was an accidental superlike). So yeah, my confidence is below water level
>>23868938
like >>23868496 said, your bio is cringy.
>>23868947
that's not me, friend.
this is me >>23862797
I've updated it, though, will share the updated bio soon
everyone who matches me is a fucking My Chemical Romance Fallout Boy Fanboy.
Though I have been skyping with a qttwink boi and we plan to meet up so it can't be that bad.
>>23867949
Okay, comments on pics? Comments on bio? Trying again.
>>23868957
here's my updated profile
>>23869065
and this is the english translation for my bio: >>23868437
anybody tips for good bio?
I do not really want to meet anybody for sex or relationship, just get some feedback
>>23869309
Grow a beard
Where do I go from here?
I think i need other pics...
Heard first with sunglasses is a nono?
>>23869584
"ay bby wan sum fuk"
>>23869584
do you want the pipe?
I'm fucking terrible at this only got a handful of matches
>>23869770
I don't think you should have a pic of you with a girl, especially not as your main pic.
Went on 3 really good dates with a girl, now whenever I try to make plans she brushes me off. Should I just drop her number? It's just frustrating not finding out why someone who seems into you just drops you. But at the same time, it's not really worth expending energy on someone who doesn't want to hang out.
>>23870314
Dude, you know why. She found another guy. Drop her.
>>23869584
literally just ask her for a reasonable portion of fuck
>>23869832
And yet if he has pictures of just himself most women will think he's an antisocial loser.
The only way to win on Tinder is to go full Chad.
>>23869770
Also do something about your fucking bio description dude, it reeks of desperation.
>>23869770
Swap 2 and 4 and change ur bio. I understand its meant to be funny, but i dont think its doing you justice.
>>23870652
I dont have any pics with friends or girls and i get lots of matches
>>23870652
I disagree about needing to go full Chad, I just act positive and enthusiastic and that gets me laid
>>23870657
Not sure how tinder bios work what should I put
>>23870765
how the hell do you pull it off? I'm starting to hate this app, haha
Rate? What can I improve?
Already picked up a date with a cute guy an am talking to some other guys/girls. Just wondering what I can do.
Also, photo ideas? I -really- don't take photos of myself much so I'll basically go out and do it lol. All i got is this cheese shot of my in my uniform in my car.
>>23870652
rofl what a bullshit
>>23859144
Just bump your height to 6'0 no one will can tell the difference.
>>23871082
I'm this guy: >>23858963
I'm just decent looking and my pics are funny and interesting
Whats a reasonable amount of time to wait before asking to meet up? I've been messaging a few girls since the weekend, as was wondering if it's not to early to ask them. One has a birthday on Saturday, if it matters.
r8
the pics in edit mode are blurry for some reason, I replaced #1 with a clear version
I've gotten a decent amount of matches with liberal swiping on my part. I think I'm shit at chatting grills up 2bh
>>23871465
A lot of the time I ask them to hang out the same day we match
>>23871786
They're younger, and there's not much people on tinder around here, so people try to make the most of their matches, and they often to get to know each other better first, but I'm not the best at the "when" part, can't really read what they feel like through texts, and they're hesitant to meet up regardless, most guys here have similar problems.
>>23871835
Unless they're "one wording" you, you should assume they're still interested cause they're still replying. If they use a lot of smileys, it's easier to tell what they're feeling.
>>23858963
Moving back to small hometown, is it even worth getting back on tinder?
there any point in starting a tinder profile to meet new people? 20/m/asian living in manhattan soon, dunno if it's just a waste of time for me
>>23871878
How small? Might as well try it when you get there.
Help me out here
I've gotten 85 matches in about 3 months. Not sure if that is a good amount or not.
>>23871911
Non college town, about ~30k people iirc, when I visited very few people were actually close by
Advice?
way to do it
>>23872287
Kek
I'm okay at getting matches but how the fuck do I get them to sleep with me. Conversation falls flat long before it gets sexual.
>>23864912
Someone help this guy, he's me
Help flip my profile /soc/
I am tindering for fun for almost 1 year, I am in a long term relationship so I never looked for sex. Anyway things are changed and me and my gf are not anymore in the same state, so I decides to speed up things and got like 20 matches in the last 3 days. I want to ask you why on earth girls swipe me right, do not send first message, and even when I decide to say hi and stuffs, they still do not answer back.
>>23872455
I'm in a touristy place, and this is my experience, so the result may not be the same. Try to spice things mentioning to have a coffee and maybe more after 5/10 strings, and dont forget to add that they are interesting grills!! If they aren't looking for that they will probably ignore you and keep talking (bitches love talking), if they look flattered and answer back with a spicy line, then man, you got your tinderfella;)
>>23871996
How about adding a proper picture of you? I like your bio, but dont your pics. I would let you delete the 2nd, 5th and the last and adding a close up with no shades (not an obvious selfie), and 2 more sporty pics with you and no one else, try to choose them by looking at how you looking in that pic, not on "how hard was that day" or "how was it was"
>>23869770
Just updated a little.
>>23872890
Lul
>>23872897
If it can make an anon chuckle I think I'll get more matches.
Plus I found out if you switch the date on your phone you get more likes. WE out here
>>23872914
Do they actually work after changing date or they don't count even if they let you swipe, like flamite? Have you got a match swiping while switching the date?
>>23873068
I just found out about it. I will update in a day or two if I get anything
>>23873228
Coolio
>>23858963
what city do you live in?
>>23869584
"we should make attractive bastard children. ill go half-sies?"
>>23869603
Shameless self bump
>>23872852
Good tip but what do you mean by 5/10 strings?
please help me guys
I'm on tinder since like 3 days.
I swiped many-many girls (like 97% ) left and liked only like 30-40. Got only one normal match.
This shit now says there are no new people around me since yesterday, occasionally it shows 3-4 tourists + 1-2 "normal" people, but it's not very large pool to find the hotties.
Will the girls I swiped left show again or I'm fucked?
Also I don't think there are no other people around me even is 30-40 miles radius, I live in a 2 mil. city .
>>23874262
reset your account and you'll be fine
>>23874264
thanks, this was a possibility, if I do not get more matches in next few days, i'll reset it.
>>23874262
Just right swipe them all and then choose the cute ones from your match list
>>23874306
I'd do this if I'd have tinder plus and if the tinder wasn't constantly bringing up people from uni where matching not the right people wouldn't be so funny. anyway now I have only like 10-30 people to swipe a day and half are tourists so it's pointless anyway. I think my tinder is broken or something.
But still, thanks for the advice.
Probably a good idea to keep pictures of myself and my ex out of my profile yes? I look decent in some of them
>>23874324
Sometimes resetting your account helps you get more matches for some reason. It's like the site thinks you're new so it puts you back on the top of the list again.
>>23874343
Definitely don't put pictures with your ex. If you can crop them without the pic looking awkward then it should be fine.
also I can reset my tinder only by deleting account?
>>23874535
I think so, try it out and report back
>>23874357
That's what I thought just wanted to hear it from someone other than myself
>>23871740
Probably one of the best profiles here in terms of the way you've got it set up. I have nothing but selfies in mine and it's done me far more harm than good.
>>23858963
messaging a grill with "pls sit on my face" as first message, yeah/nah?
>>23875537
fuck no man
Isnt there something on the computer you can log into your tinder account and get permanent swipes?
>>23864556
You get pussy with a bio like that?
>>23875537
Depends on the girl, I tend to send something like "Can I wear your thighs as earmuffs". You'd be surprised how many of them reply.
Been on Tinder (with Plus, mind you) for three weeks now, and gotten no matches.
I live in bumfuck Belgium.
Recently got out of a 4 year long relationship and kind of feeling lonely so getting no matches is really bumming me out.
>>23875995
I actually changed it up about a week ago. More recent pic attached.
>>23876012
>maybe I'm not the right person to give advice but I think you should change your first picture
Go to a park or somewhere with nice background and natural light and take like 50 selfies and apply a instagram filter on the ones you think are decent and then choose the best (after filter it'll maybe other picture that will be best, because it changes lights, your skin color etc.)
also guys often do not get many matches, especially when choosing only the real hotties
>>23875995
>>23876012
some other Belgianon said he got tons of matches when he changed his location to Cologne.
so if you don't mind driving...
>>23875537
She's fucking cute, I'd honestly be tempted to say the same thing.
But no, probably not the right thing to do unless she's just a total slut.
>>23864556
Wish I had more scenic pics like you, holy shit.
Male here, I just got Tinder installed four days ago and I've been swiping to the daily limit ever since. I live in a big city so there's probably lots of competition.
I've been extreeemely picky with my right swipes, only swiping for females that I at least consider an 8; however I did manage to get two matches with real grills who weren't bots. Again, it's only been four days.
Am I doing decently so far or nah?
>>23876722
I'd say give it a week or two before evaluating how you're doing. You also said you're only swiping 8s and above but that's a relatively subjective measure so it doesn't say much about how many girls you're actually swiping right on
>>23876803
Well if it gives you a better picture, I'm swiping right on around 2 out of every 10 girls.
>>23876814
If you're getting cute matches, that's all that matters. I'd say youre off to a good start
>break up after 2 year and a half relationship
>install tinder
>get only 1 match
>talk with her, lots of fun
>invite her for a drink tonight
>'no, i only wanted to talk idk'
Just fuck my shit up
>>23877010
It's just Tinder, don't take it seriously. Most guys (even decently attractive ones) actually have better luck just going to bars or clubs.
The app used to be fairly useful when it was first popular but now there are just too many people on it and women have too big of an advantage. Economy's fucked.
>>23877074
Yeah, I feel ya. My game's much better irl and I feel like my photos are shit. Oh, well, it's a sad re-enter to the market, but it'll get better eventually
What are the chances of a profile with no bio being a bot
>>23877183
I'd have a skewed opinion since i've only ran into two bots, but i'd say about 100%. Don't even bother if there isn't some semblance of a bio
>>23877183
I've talked to real girls who didn't have anything in their bio, so it's not 100%, but still pretty likely a bot. Just look at her pictures. If there's only 2-3 photos and they're all similar looking selfies, then it's a bot for sure.
>>23877218
>>23877234
>tfw literally the only person I convinced myself to reply is going to be a bot
just end me
someone super liked me, how do i check who did
>>23877358
wait, how do you know someone super liked you?
>>23877570
I got a brief blue pop up while rapid swiping saw super like and their name thats it
>>23860624
pic 4 is creepy AF
but the pirate one is fine
>>23863904
damn, if you were from ny i would say fuck tinder lets listen to death grips.
>>23860675
Don't ever mention trying to get over an ex dumbass... Or that you're looking for hookups. It's tinder, they're not stupid. They know what you want already
>>23860977
i'd switch 1 and 2
2 gives you that hipster look that heaps of girls would go for
>>23862457
Photos 2, 4, and then 1. Leave the rest in order after that
>>23868687
4th picture is so much better than your main for me
>>23872215
Fucking shit m8
First photo has been said time and time again to be a massive turnoff for girls (unless you're looking for guys)
And pic 6... Just stop. Pls stop
>>23858963
Do I need pics of me doing stuff with my friends? Can I just have a profile pic? I don't have any friends...
>>23858963
>tell girl she doesnt look too happy in her pictures (she genuinely doesnt, all frowns and dead look in her face)
>gets mad and unmatches me
Kek
>>23872215
Stop being a degenerate.
Jk you seem like a cool guy, just change your main pic it looks gay.
>match with a girl that has pics of her and her dog in every shot
I know this is a red flag, but it is sooo easy to get them to like you. Just ask them about their dog and you have them eating out of your hand.
What are the red flags for not sweep right for you?
For me:
>Tattoos
>Nose piercing
>Only one picture
>blurry or some other reason to not see face clearly
>duckface
>the 'golddigger' look (photos in expensive car, fake tan etc)
>the 'gamer' girl style
and of course
>photos with men (of course except party/group photos)
>bio like 'if you managed to swipe right, write first' (I write first but this shit is so annoying)
and there are some "orange" flags, when looks must be really good for swiping right
>bartenders and professions like this
>too much emoji in bio
>stupid work
>>23859144
reads like a third grader had to write an autobiography for class. first three photos are god awful
>>23859939
>coffee addict
>fitness junkie
boring and forgettable
>>23860492
you're super cute but your photos are in the wrong order. should be 4, 2, 6, 3. delete the other two.
>a nice session
??
>>23860624
also cute but
>you're
plus that sentence is a run-on
and sepia photos are never okay. replace w non-sepia versions. keep photos 5 and 6 but reorder them, and delete the other two
>>23860658
>>23859939
can't really offer any suggestions because i'd probably left swipe no matter what
>>23860675
total trainwreck, so many red flags, hard pass
>>23861256
with the edit i'm now suspicious that you're a confederate sympathizer
>>23862143
this
>>23862457
don't really have any suggestions for you once again bcs ur already qtaf
>>23863660
another run-on sentence and
>your parents might like me, but i doubt you will
k left swipe
>>23863698
this profile made me nauseous
>>23864556
>eat coast
it's like no one proofreads their shit after writing it
intrigued by photos and reference to morrissey but no idea what your face really looks like so probably pass
>>23864917
honestly i liked the photos before, in that order, except perhaps 4 as the main one
>>23864979
pretty decent but could use a photo of your face that is both well-lit and close-up. dogs and memes are good but i feel like u bit that bio from somewhere else
>>23868487
it's his senior photo l o l
>>23865810
ur attractive but like 10 and boring, hook up with the girls the old fashioned way by flirting w them in your algebra class
>>23865884
photos 1, 4, 5 should go. have 3, 6, 2 in that order
>>23869770
last pic should be main photo
bio is fucking awful, the other photos are okay but probably a let down compared to the one i mentioned
>>23871740
pictures are okay, your bio needs more but that line is okay. you just seem boring to me
>>23871225
you look like one of those mormons who tries to give you a pamphlet about god out on the streets except the mormon boys are usually much taller and cuter
>>23871996
accountants are super boring and your main photo wouldn't get me to look at your profile. actually all your photos kind of suck except the last one which hints that you may be kinda cute and just suck at photos
>>23872215
another trainwreck, hard pass
>>23872890
bio is still terrible, that photo is better than the ones previously but there's something off about it to me
>>23878577
>>23878554
btw female here so
>>23878578
post own
im curious
>no you did not offend me i didnt post mine
>>23878597
ok i guess
keep in mind i know my audience and it's not your typical 4chan poster
>>23878623
your first pic is the worst i dont get you
>>23878635
i knooow it's not a v good photo of me, it's just that i haven't had any new ones in quite some time and i finally changed my hairstyle so i felt obligated to add a new one. it's not even representative of my daily look either. i'll replace it eventually, just haven't really been interested in tinder lately (finals week, i'm moving, etc)
>>23878641
youre super cute tho especially in the third pic. with your current hair you look much more serious not sure if that was your intention?
>>23878623
>polyamorous
Only Cucks are gonna swipe right senpai
>>23878701
the guy can be polyamorous as well i guess?
>>23878681
yeah it's too cutesy for me. i actually don't usu wear my bangs like in that photo, i usually wear them parted a bit more like this but i usually style my hair pretty big - going for more of a brigitte bardot thing. i've been wearing my makeup differently too, i just felt like it was misleading not to have any photos of that look but i only ever really take selfies for snapchats anymore and never think to save them for tinder. i switched up the photos a bit but i'm still not really happy with how they represent me, tho it is a concern for another time.
>>23878701
false, and it's much better to be upfront about it than not. i don't want to date anyone who isn't cool w it anyway
