submissive male thread
tell stories(real or fake),give advice to other subs and new doms,or try to find a dom (don't be too thirsty)
>>23748409
no male subs
okay i hope this is kosher
i am a usually sub girl
but i've started hooking up with this qt boy who is v submissive and he wants me to dom him and like
i like him so i wanna do the thing for him
he's into ass play and ball play but he's really weird and shy about telling me what he wants me to do and i am a very nervous person who doesn't want to accidentally hurt him in a way he doesn't want, does anyone have any tips/advice/what they would want a girl to do to dom them?
i'm okay with the dirty talk i think, like i can tease him really well and sit on his face and not let him cum and that's gr8 for both of us, but the meaner stuff i'm not sure i know how to handle
help me do good by a qt qt qt lil sub boy
>>23748696
You know you dont have to be mean to dom, you could just be a gentle dom
If he enjoys what you're doing then just keep doing it
>>23748974
bump
>>23748696
I feel like the only way you're going to get more information is by asking him directly. Or alternatively you could tie him to a bed and do a bunch of different stuff to him and see what he's into, but either way kinky shit is not universal, you don't want to shove your hand up his ass without knowing if he's into it.
>>23748409
Where can i find a dom who wants a relationship and not just sex or a slave she can abuse? I wouldn't mind getting abused but i would want her to love me and care about me for that.
Searching for femdoms online just brings up findoms and professional dominatrixes who charge money for their services.
i dont know if its my appearance or how i carry myself, but nearly every girl ive slept with has said something along the lines of "ive never even considered being the dominant one but something about you makes me want to abuse you." ive had one night stands and at the end of them i would be handcuffed on a collar and leash ect. in all 4 years of high school I had a gf who was very dominant. the last year i wore a chastity cage for most of it and went weeks without cumming. ive been ziptied, gagged and had a plastic bag put over my head for breathplay. ive had clamps on my nipples and my hair in pigtails. I have crossdressed multiple times. i once cleaned an ex gfs room dressed as a maid. ive been mummified in duct tape. i wore a collar and kitty ears for halloween and got dragged around by my lock on my collar all night by giggling flirty girls. i once spent an entire weekend wearing a locking collar, kitty ears and stockings for a girl i had just met on tinder. my sex life is so strange in that respect because most people have the assumption that dominant girls are either extremely rare or nonexistent. i guess im either lucky or only have sex appeal to sadistic girls.
My personal experience:
>be dominant alpha male
>randomly meet hot as fuck dominatrix
>be open to different things
>start with assplay which wasn't extraordinary for me besides the fact that she gave instructions
>she wants me to smell items that were in my ass, but I'm clean so it wasn't bad, still weird though
>she wants me to pee in a glass, completely full
>I do
>she tells me to drink it, she'll give me the vag if I do
>I do
>vag was great
>I leave an experience richer and certain that I'm not the sub type. Not because of the things she wanted me to do (idgaf cause I'm a dirty motherfucker anyway), but because being in a sub position wasn't enjoyable or arousing for me at all.
>back to wrecking vag my way
>>23749407
nice
>>23749282
Get yourself into your local scene (Fetlife is good for going to meet ups) chat with people, make friends and try to get a gf through that route.
So, l;like a normal gf but in the fetish scene
>>23749822
nice
>>23749282
Ya, most femdoms online just want your money. They are fake doms ... never, never pay them.
>>23748696
I would start out by fingering him while you're giving oral and possibly move up to getting a dildo to use as a strap-on (make sure to get a harness too). As for the "ball play," I'm assuming you mean pain? Squeeze them a bit when you're giving him oral too, and try slapping them lightly if he responds well.
>>23751981
WHO IS THAT GUY source me. hot damn thats my type to a t.
I remember seeing this cock tying how to that had some long haired guy getting lead around by his leashed cock, made me wetter than a monsoon. never could find it again.
>>23748806
What exactly is a gentle Dom?
>>23753091
Someone who doesn't kick you in the nuts and focuses less on pain and more on pleasure or the denying off imo
I personally hate pain play with testicle involved, I want kids some day
Shaking my head at all these pansy ass nancy boys that don't like getting beaten half to death by a domme.
That said, CBT is gross
Sadly all my submission is in my head because the gf is a super submissive slut.
So in my head I imagine all the guys she's fucked, pretend she's raping me etc.
Kik: Davespparta m 22
Looking for a dom
>>23752008
His name is Kip Johnson
http://www.kink.com/model/51603
>>23751973
Well I'm indifferent about it lol.
Would love to be a male sub to a girl. I'm very submissive, but have so far only served online.
Only offers I've had so far are from other males, but I just don't swing that way.
UK, Midlands anyone?
>>23753594
damn
>>23753768
ty anon
24 m 412
Looking for a girl that will let me worship her feet
Kik: soc412
I guess I fall in this category. But I'm not into the really wild stuff. I just like a girl who takes initiative. I.e, being shoved onto the bed, and having her tear into my clothes eagerly, and going to town on me and maybe degrading me a little bit, and threatening to punish me if I cum too soon. Problem is I'm shy as fuck and don't know how to go about finding a girl that's into this...I'm 22 and I think I'm pretty ok looking, I just want to know how to go about this stuff.
>>23757837
so a gentle dom?
>>23758244
I suppose
>>23758244
Need a caring big sis / gfd qt too. Not even dropping a Skype as none will ever answer
>>23758641
oh fuck off with this woe is me attitude
>>23758644
Let's face it. Get a classic gf and try to get used to
I am not even looking for any specific practices, I just want girl who takes what ever she wants, likes to tease and loves it when man gets embarrassed for what she has done to him or made him do. is that way too much to ask?
It's not a story, it's more like a self-introduction.
Hoepfully someone will understand me.
> coeliac, then strict gluten-free diet, or else I die
> discovered this allergy of mine when I was 13: back then I was 139cm tall and I weighed 36 kgs. Girls of my age looked like literal giants to me
> since then I started developping giantess/goddess/tall woman fetish, passive bondage fetish, gentle femdom fetish, male chastity fetish and so on
> now that I'm 27, I'm 170cm tall and I only weigh 56 kg. Due to my allergy, it's almost impossible to me to put on weight, thus becoming muscular. My allergy also made my body development much slower, which is why I look much younger than men of my age
> terribly sensitive body: even holding hands with a girl I like can cause me intense, unpredictable boners and I rarely masturbate because I moan too loud and my heart beats like crazy
> due to my weird body reactions, I've always been afraid to embarass a lady during sex, which is why I'm still virgin
> I still dream of a big girl that picks me up and takes advantage of my little body
> my idea of manliness = paying honour, respect, devotion, loyalty and obedience to my lady
> in the country where I'm living, women are brought up with the idea of wanting a big, cocky, dominant man
>>23758742
169cm // 56kg reporting in
Be brave, I feel you man
>>23758843
>>23758742
>tfw 171cm// 73kg
h ha ha m manlets amirite?
>>23758854
Indeed
On the outside I am your typical guy.
I'm 6'3, 275# and fairly muscular. Been a chubby boy most of my life, had allergies really bad when I was a kid, had to take steroid shots and ballooned up.
Now that I'm all growed up I'm into weightlifting and other shit and am just a big manly dude all around.
On the inside? I'm the little boy. My wife is 5'4 and I constantly fantasize about her growing/me shrinking so that she can physically overpower me.
Maybe she'd demote me to "little boy" and take on a Mommy type role with me. The lovey dovey snuggly cuddly get lost in her breasts and my cock just barely big enough to penetrate her if I'm lucky enough to get that.
I love chastity devices and puppy play, and I guess I just wish I wasn't so damn ginormous so I could be a cute little boy toy for her or whoever she lets me play with.
We have an open relationship so maybe I'll find an amazon who's as tall as me but wears gain heels so I have to look up to her lol.
I also have a huge fetish for premature ejaculation. I dont do it, sadly, but there are some really fun hypno files out there and coupling those with chastity and some pseudoephedrine allergy meds have gotten me really close before.
I'd love to be locked up and given a timer to cum. 5 minutes. If I don't come, locked back up and try again. If I do come, locked back up and next time the timer is shorter.
I imagine her conditioning me to come in seconds. To lose all control so I cant even make it into her pussy before I spurt. She'd coo at me and tell me how sexy it is that her little boy gets to excited for Mommy. How it's so great that I've finally fully learned my little place.
Eventually she'd bring in another guy to help because I'm essentially useless when it comes to pleasing her with my cock.
Her or any other woman, I'd be totally ruined. Sure she'd let me play with whoever, but would I really want to risk embarrassing myself and outing myself as a pathetic little preemie boy?
>>23758742
>>23758843
>>23758854
176cm can I join your club?
20/bi/NY twink who wants to try more fem dom stuff (crossdressing, pegging, incest rp etc.) Open to camming.
Kik is Ahladdog
>>23759280
couldnt find your username. Am also from ny here :)
I like books and getting spanked
the books part is really really important
kik is dongfacemcgee
This fetish is objectively fucking disgusting and degrading to your humanity, but it still arouses me. I would probably have to fight the temptation to beat the domme to death after a session though
>>23759722
>>23759722
>i'm so fucking tough and manly that i'm disgusted by my own sexuality
>>23759741
Better than being a little cucked boy with broken will t b h.
>>23759744
It is objectively disgusting though. Yes, I am disgusted by my own sexuality.
>>23759687
I hate books but I like roughly topping and spanking nerdy bottoms.
>>23759759
>i have so little willpower that i let society decide that the consenting sex i like is disgusting
>>23759763
>I hate books
Not gonna work. Sorry, pal, words are my passion. I get bored with people who don't like them a lot.
>>23759764
Nice memeing. Alright, I can see your point, but the concept of such humiliation and inequality intices a burning hatred in me. Such porn also happens to arouse me a lot. I'm not really sure how to resolve it yet.
>>23759800
>you're objectively wrong
>but i can see your point
>>23759800
so you have a fear of being a beta male?
>>23759877
either sean connery
>a dude who beats his partners
or james bond
>a dude who spends all of his time shooting people and having sex with randoms
represent your alpha plus
>>23759969
it's better than being beaten :^)
>>23759987
i suppose
i also don't think that someone who hits someone who sucks his dick is mentally stable enough to be alpha
24/bi curious 301 area
I just want to be completely dominated. Want to find a dom gender doesn't matter
>>23760015
I think so too. I am for equality of partners t b h, "dominance" (well ok, except for strictly sexual) on either side is repulsive to me.
what is to far for you subs?
>>23761340
>murder on the same level as crossdressing
i don't even
>>23761507
sexual violence?
>>23759623
My name is listed as Austy Pooh i think, what's yours so I can add ya?
>>23761340
I have no limit it seems, other than intense ball pain honestly.
posting from another thread
21/M/AZ
I was in a relationship with a girl for a while, and she was really into BDSM stuff. We really liked one another and we were both curious/willing to try new things, so we would take turns being the dominant and submissive in bed and then try new kinks as we went along. Soon enough though, we both realized she really enjoyed being the dominant one, and I really enjoyed being the submissive one. Pretty soon this led to her becoming a full-fledged mistress to me, and we set up rules for how we would act (in our own houses/apartments, mind you) and we really took off. She degraded me, loved me, rewarded me, punished me, and just blew my mind with some of the stuff she did. Soon getting pegged was a regular thing, I kissed her feet whenever we met, and she treated me like a dog (both good and bad) for the better portion of a year. I loved it. I really, REALLY loved it.
It tore me up inside when I had to move for work. Besides having this longing for her, I now have this insatiable desire to be dominated by a strong yet affectionate woman. It's been a mess trying to find someone else to replace her. Hell, it's been a mess just trying to find someone. I've almost given up hope on this kind of stuff, but here I am.
If you're a dominant female who is interested, even slightly, please feel free to message me on kik or snapchat at paragon1337
is there a natural Domme here? preferably with more than 3 years of experience?
I've been a Dom for 10 years and i'd like to discuss some things.
Any tips on finding a dom that's willing to do stuff over like, just skype? I tried fetlife and got nothing, 4chan hasn't net me anything either.
I'm always quite eager to please, and humiliating me shouldn't be too hard (quickshot with a 4in penis). There's not even much I'm not into but lack any bit of funds for toys like dildoes or a chastity cage.
>>23761340
Level 4, but I only have promised experience, but it doesn't work out for whatever reason. I just want a girl to play with my butt and sit on my face and I want to eat her out.
>>23762581
Wait I'm on level 4, 5 gets too much. I'm honestly just tired of buying bigger dildos and making various techniques to simulate women fucking me.
>>23761340
Level 5 is too much, excluding crossdressing, piss, and piercings. I wouldn't mind being turned into a state where I can't impregnate it even cum anymore, but I don't want it to be painful.
>>23759759
>superiority complex based on fetish
>calls others boy to feel like a man
>femdom is cuckolding only
Sure is insecure in here
>>23761340
Eh hard to say
It's more like there's things I'd do and things I wouldn't do at each level
Some level 6 shit looks hot for example but level 4 has this metal thing going inside the penis (sounding it was I think?)
Never in my life will I do that and woe to whoever thinks they can disrespect that
Looking for a Dom that's into pegging and face sitting. Preferably in the southern US. My kik is Sp0kan
Hi ;)
More of me. Not sure why but just love to grind against a mans cock like to feel girly
>>23759687
This faggot will get your pics and post them claiming them to be his girlfriends. He's a creepy loser. As you can see by his shitty attitude in this thread.
>>23764049
>shitty attitude
you what? not even going to address the rest, shit's absurd.
>>23764308
If you're really craterface, have you addressed your receding hairline issue yet, or are you just doing with it like women do to you and pretending it's not there?
>>23764049
Wtf? That's despicable. Who would send him pics in the first place though? He looks like a creepy grandpa
>>23761340
Like between 4-5
I fucking hate feet but everything else on 4 is a-ok, I'd be into a few things on 5 but no pegging.
Who fucking knows though
>>23761340
I really like that chart. Thanks for posting it.
>>23761340
Everything in the first three levels is fine.
Things I will not do in level 4:
Light trampling
Whipped
Light Urethra insertion
Things I will not do in level 5:
Penis stomping
Violence
Reverse NTR
Domestication
Things I WILL do on level 6:
Crossdressing
Interested in public pegging, but probably just fantasy territory
Dom turning sub after dicking
Hello,
I'm a 21 year old bisexual sub boy. Looking to be dominated/owned long term. I've been looking for a male or female dom online but it's hard to find a committed one...
Contact: ethansmith95 on Skype
>>23764915
Here's my chart if anyone is interested!
>>23764377
i fucked ur mom last night boi
Male switch here, have a switch g/f so it's the best of both
So a switch is someone who can be a Dom or a sub right?
>>23762251
Mine is candidcaleb add me soon :)
