/tinder/ - Tinder General
I need your help /soc/. I have a 36 year old milf who wants to go get coffee this week and I'm terrified. The brief conversation we had was pretty serious/not flirtatious whatsoever. I can't help but feel like this is going to go more like a job interview than a date, and I don't want to waste my time on that. How do I find out if she's DTF, cause that's all I want really. She's also a lawyer and seems pretty straight laced.
Also, tinder general. Post profiles, get tips, etc.
TINDER, Lol I'll tell you about tinder
Did you know the name comes from a tinder box because it contained lots of matches
But like, did you ever try to actually light a match with a tinderbox, you need a fucking striker, a tinder box does not only contain matches
so like, you need a match and a striker in your tinderbox.
so like, I guess striker represent having a good profile pic and some game now?
>>23733724
That was the worst analysis of the situation. Congrats on your sub par metaphor though
>>23733708
Well its hard to say without context
Can you post the convo?
>>23733878
There wasn't much to it. I've done a lot of traveling in the last couple years so she asked me about that. Then we talked about what we each do for work/what we studied in school. Then she asked me out for coffee. It wasn't more than 10 messages each, and nothing flirtatious at all. That's why I feel like I'm going for a job interview, not a date.
>>23733946
It's fucking tinder, just ask if she's sucking your dick after coffee.
I probably need help.
>>23733708
As for you, OP, just go to the date and feel her out. I doubt anything but a second date will come out of it, but if she's DTF, she'll show it. MILFs don't fuck around. Don't be too coy, show her you're interested, and watch what happens. Good luck.
I get a decent amount of matches but no one really talks. Anything I can do?
>>23734258
I'm stuck in the same situation. Have a somewhat decent match pool for someone with my looks, but nobody ever talks. The few that have stop talking like with a few days of exchanging phone numbers. Why make a tinder if you are unwilling to talk and meet up. Guess its just a giant hug box for women I aint know
Tell me what to change
>>23734146
Not a tinder ace or smth, change the first pic, it is what sells you and looking at your other pics, you can do much better. No selfies in your room m8o. I like the profile, would drink a beer with you.
>>23734258
Delete the strange naked pic and the one in which you keep your finger in your lips somehow. First one is weird and the other one is girlish. Nice description and the other pics. Cool guy!
>>23734598
I dont know, the status is funny and the pics are good, I really dont know man...
Rate mine, tell me what to change in terms of pics and description. Yeah, I know, I have to loose weight, I'm onto that
>>23734653
yours is good, there is no real reason for pic number 2, no one cares about an artsy pic, but you can leave it in if you want.
i'm so bored of tinder desu
>>23734693
Forget Tinder and msg me bb.
>>23734701
are you rich young and hot
>>23734716
i'm young and hot
not rich
2/3 good?
>>23734716
my id starts with 69 ;)
>>23734719
kevy boy, the money matters
>>23734721
Should I use this pic?
Am I sexy?
Anything suggestions /tips to improve my profile would be appreciated.
Remade my tinder yesterday and only got 1 match so far.. I used to get a lot more but idk what happened lol any suggestions?
This is the furthest I've gotten with a tinder girl in my brief time trying. And then she disappeared. What the heck!!!
>>23736573
nigga you is desperate as fuck lmao
>>23736580
I was considering redacting my half of the conversation but figured it was beside the point so it didn't matter.
>>23736580
>>23736589
But in my defense she's got a ddlg kink so I was/am definitely more interested than usual.
Suggestions??
>>23736272
Any one
>>23734258
I hope your actually gay and didn't just fuck up your profile that badly?
>>23734693
>swipes left
>>23736272
pic 4 should be first
>>23736668
you have a really awkward and nervous looking smile
>>23736668
would swipe right for bromance, not sure about the ladies tho
how often do you guys reset?
Is their a way of filtering out all the prostitutes or basically anyone who isn't a real person? About 99% of my matches either message me with some bullshit phone number to dial or a fake url to what is obviously a phishing attempt
>>23735176
ayyy who are all the pretty girls in the third pic
>>23735176
holy shit, you look like I did in high school but with better eyebrows
biracial I'm guessing?
>>23738352
My home girls from an Ethiopian club I frequent.
>>23738369
>better eyebrows
Thanks lad, gotta shave that unibrow.
>biracial I'm guessing?
Half Mexican and half Ethiopian.
Any suggestions on how to get better matches? Mostly fatties and black girls. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I don't want my friends to catch me. Where the white women at?
>>23737297
You sure? My face is at a weird angle and looks different but I'll try it for like 2 days and see what happens
>>23737508
Bump I'd like to know too if anyone does
Any good? Tips? Would you swipe right?
>>23739202
Here's the rest of those pics. Switch 2 and 1? I always hear people telling me "no serious face, always smiling pics" but is that really necessary?...
>>23739260
Fuck. Forgot to attach image.
help me out /soc/
Why can't I like people anymore? The green heart symbol is filled like 10% with green, rest is "empty"
Didn't even swipe a lot today, don't think it could be the limit already kek
>>23733946
Older women prefer real flirtation. They also play less games. She just got straight to the point.
Been talking to this girl on tinder and she agreed to a drink tomorrow while she's walking to her friends house.
Give me a game plan, please.
Obviously Im not getting laid at that second but how do I sow the seeds
>>23740856
>she agreed to a drink tomorrow while she's walking to her friends house.
Lol, I woulda told her to meet me when she's actually free.
>>23740856
Wat
>>23733708
Are you the guy who asked people for help against a 36 year old milf who was a financial dom?
I get like 30 matches a week, 29 of which are bots and 1 just wants me to get her drunk and pork her
>>23740856
>Been talking to this girl on tinder and she agreed to a drink tomorrow while she's walking to her friends house.
You realize shes using you to get drunk then going off to do something else, right?
>>23743218
>1 just wants me to get her drunk and pork her
I fail to see the problem here
>>23743240
I dont drink
>>23733708
On average how many matches do you get a week?
I'm also interested in hearing answers to it from those who live in 2nd or 3rd world countries
>>23743246
>Get HER drunk and pork her
I fail to see the problem here
>yfw a girl messages you first
Mfw met current girlfriend on tinder and have been dating for 6 months
Feels good bros
>>23745695
Probably ugly irl or bot
What the heck.
>>23745822
mfw i fell in love with a girl on tinder after texting for a month while she was out of the country, and after two dates she says she loves our texting but she's not feeling anything romantic
>>23734716
Pick 2 out of 3 greedy bitch you're not that special!
>>23747805
Great now downs can use the timbers as well.
>>23736668
meh
Just getting back to these apps after getting out of a year long relationship and holy shit, do real people even use these anymore? It seems like 9 out of every 10 profiles are blatantly fake, and even the people I do match with just end up being bots. This shit is practically unusable now.
>>23734598
>is 6'4
>profile says he's 6'4
no, no - looks like you've covered all your bases there m8. happy matching
>>23739267
Remove 5,3 and 2
finally someone in my town and then this...
>>23734258
I'm in your same situation. I've actually just got into tinder for the first time.
South Korean girls are the cutest.
>>23751090
What do I say? I know nothing about Korea or Korean culture.
>>23751115
Why is this girl wearing a goddang Korn necklace? Why would they use a this as a bot photo?
>tfw you see a super cute girl on tinder, goes to same school
>recognize their workplace, short nice little bio
>match them, gathering the right opener
>before you can send them the message, get "hey bby im town week call me at 1111111111"
Fucking sucks.
Is there a better way than tinder to meet girls for relationships? Haven't been with anyone from tinder longer than a week.
>>23751995
>Is there a better way than tinder to meet girls for relationships?
Is there a worse way than tinder to meet girls for relationships?
Do you guys just open up with your best joke/pick up line right off the bat with a match? Or do you lead with a greeting and then a joke if they respond.
So far i've been greeting them and maybe saying something about their bio but havent gotten responses. Am i supposed to be like a jester and impress them right at the start ?
can i get some advice/critique?
>>23734693
dude i totally saw you while i was tindering haha
>>23751117
Ooze that white confidence and let her feel the dominance.
Asians love that shit
As a guy, what's my best strategy for using my super-likes? Or should I not use them?
>>23735176
I'm just a straight dude. But seems good.
>>23752688
I super liked a girl either yesterday or Friday and she liked me back yesterday. I messaged her last night and haven't gotten a response so it was either a pity like, a mistake or she just hasnt wanted to message back yet. I generally use them when the girl seems like she'd be really cool. Better than accidentally super liking someone terrible like I've done before
>>23752325
I've tried both. I haven't gotten responses when just saying "hey, how are you?" or the same with a question or comment. I also got unmatched when making a joke or a pun. I think you definitely have to make your decision based on what type of girl she seems like, plus what her bio says
