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What is wrong with me? I've only been with 1woman for 7
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What is wrong with me? I've only been with 1woman for 7 years in my life. No one talks to me unless they want a cig or spare change. I'm a psychological mess and won't even risk approaching women because I rarely talk anymore and don't know what to say. Probably scare them.
I can't even get people on the net to talk to me without insulting me.
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>>23657474
Cute as hell, go gay
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>>23657534
I have no interest in stuff like that. I crave women but no one ever expresses any interest in me here. I don't even know anyone here either but so many people are rude pricks. Once in a while a woman will give me a smile but it looks like more like a hello smile than an I'd like to know you. Only once or twice in the past decade has anyone started a conversation with me
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>>23657474
>>23658893

Stop over analysing things and startchanging your life. If that is a photo of you then you clearly look fine. You seem to have no outward deformities; provided you don't have awful breath, smell bad or have some unintelligble accent then you will be fine talking to people.

No one expresses interest in you here? Then don't be here? I normally lurk /b/ but fuk why would you WANT anyone here to pay attention to you? It's the internet. Anon is glory.

You are setting up barriers in your own mind. Anything you 'can't' do is a result of some pre-conceived limitation you have established for yourself. Sure, you might have been rejected and friendzoned, but look at it statistically. If you talk to enough women eventually you will find one who wants to fuck you (provided you make some effort).

Now sure, you might be doing something that is rendering your efforts obsolete. I don't know you well enough to see what it is. Perhaps you are very overbearing and forward with women? Are you one of those "asl 27m" dudes? If so, that dries women's vaginas right up. This will take a strong degree of introspection (looking at your actions) and truly observing other people. If you have some form of autism (lel) then this may or maynot be challenging for you (depending on your spectral location).

Also, not to be condescending in a public forum but you seem to attribute many negative things to your life. Fearing that you would scare women, going on the internet and getting assaulted. Try focusing on more positive attributes of yourself and encourage and build on those.

Now, go outside. Get some coffee or a sandwich or something. Go to the library. Talk to a co worker. Go get a drink tonight. Or tomorrow. Do not put it off. Social people are social because they socialise. Don't be a reclusive fuck and complain when you die a hermit.
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>>23658965
I meant here as in this city not the forums. I started wondering long ago what the fuck was wrong with my personality because people always seemed to want nothing to do with me unless they controlled/dictated every interaction. When I'd recognize new people trying the same domination crap I'd just walk away. Almost everyone I ever tried to interact with would start trying to dominate me in various ways. I can't even buy a cup of coffee without constantly being short changed, over priced or the cup not full.
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>>23658965
Also, What does asl 27m mean?
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I think it's all about what you say and know. I'm Hella fully but still smash with 7-8's weekly it's all about approach. Do you have any female friends or aquantances. I've also found that tone of voice and context helps.
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>>23659330
It's sad! When I do rarely talk to someone I have nothing to talk about because nothing interests me. Had a chance to talk to someone a couple years ago but couldn't hold a conversation.
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