Why do girls constantly ignore me? Doesn't matter who I message on kik, dating sites, I don't get a response, despite them reading the message. It doesn't matter if I start with a simple hi, or with a compliment, I get fucking blanked.
Am I that ugly that I don't warrant a response?
Because you're a cuckold, Seth.
>>23608618
Might have something to do with the fact that you plaster your face on the front page of this website every day, and on every thread. Desperate is not attractive.
>>23608618
we paid attn to you in the discord and you left don't whine
>>23608664
Which one? I joined like 3 lately, but left them all.
its simple to solve your problem bro. just put on a long black coat, then go into the subway and the first woman you see pull your penis out of your pants and show it to her. this is sure to warrant a response.
>>23608739
Yeah, that's not happening.
Bump for answers.
>>23609106
try to take some selfies outside your house and talk to ugly woman or 30+ old
>>23609113
I don't really go outside. I have social anxiety.
>>23608618
because you literally send messages that consist onl of
"penis."
What do you expect?
>>23609137
I don't know who you are.
>>23608618
"simple hi, or a compliment"
Alright, some rules for you:
1.) Being desperate shows, i mean, if you write them constantly, etc. Girls will know if you are desprate.
2.)It's the things you write, you're just not interesting, i mean, what do you do for a special hobby? Skydiving maybe? Of course not, i bet you work in an office, and mostly spend your free time on a computer playing a game, and not going outside.
3.) A wise men said, do the things you like, and do them good, girls will automatically come.
4.) Go and be a Man for christ Sake, she didn't write back? oh no there are 3 Bilions more.
5.) Just get it Together, if you're so desprate just fuck a Hooker.
Best wishes.
Because you're ONLY INTERESTED IN WOMEN!!!!
You wouldn't have such problems if you let a guy suck your dick once in a while, but i take it you've had a "masculinity issue" growing up and now you get hostile when someone even says anything remotely close to homo. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO FUCKING PROVE AARON, YOU FUCKING GERMAN WANNABE RECLUSE?!?!?!?!?
>>23609119
>social anxiety
>plasters his fucking mug over every dating site going
Nice
>>23611613
It's more about validation more than anything. I don't plan to meet anyone on dating sites (not that anyone has initiated it in the first place).
Social anxiety yet you have no problems spilling yourself all over this forum. Twizzlerdick Britfag strikes again. Also you don't just say hi, you harass women that you're into and throw pity parties at them.
Stop making threads about yourself. That's pathetic and annoying.
>>23612161
You realise internet is COMPLETELY different to irl, right? Of course I act different as I do irl.
Do you have anything to back your claim of "harassing women?" I don't think you do, because it's bullshit :P
>>23608618
literally brandon 2.0
>>23612291
>:P
Autist XDDDDD
>>23612463
xDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
>>23612609
Nice autism, dude.
>>23612291
Liz.
Case and point. Faggot.
>>23612862
Doesn't ring a bell..
>>23612862
Literally sat here thinking and I can't recall who you are. You mustn't have been relevant if I can't remember who you are.
>>23608618
probably because youre an ugly ginger autist with no value or redeeming qualities.
>>23612862
>>23608618
This even when you have people helping you out and giving you good advice you just go nope she wants to see my dick -_-
>>23612038
So not only are you a cancer to this board you're also a cancer to the online dating world
Now be a man quit bitching and do this
>>23609195
>>23613220
That's not very nice.
>>23612862
Still waiting to hear from you, Liz.
>>23608618
Also gtfo 4chan this isn't a place for the weak minded you're doing more damage to your self worth here then good especially since you don't listen to a damn word of advice you ugly tiny cocked socially retarded out of shape balding twat
>>23613279
lol
I'm pretty sure I matched you on tinder. This shit is seriously offputting though. comes across as "nice guy" shit.
You're not unattractive but in terms of internet you will be ignored. Girls get flooded so can pick and choose. A simple "Hi" or "compliment" will not stand a chance desu.
>>23613942
I'm doubting we were matched. Are you from the UK? Do you have a pic?
>>23608618
You're a "nice guy". You are the literal embodiment of betadom. You're chubby, balding, your nose has an ass, and your beard is disgusting and likely the product of laziness. You look like you have fucking autism and probably also browse reddit you colossal faggot.
If you don't seize life by the testicles and quit being a nu-male you'll probably end up killing yourself. So get your shit together.
>>23613279
pretty good
>>23613997
yes, and no. I'm not saying for no reason. I know a face when I see it constantly
>>23608618
No but I've talked to you before from here and you are way to forward and super expectant of something.
Right after you saw pics of me you were like 'this is acceptable, I choose you as my partner' while expecting me to be like 'OH FINALLY!' I don't even know you dude.
>>23611613
You seem to not know how the internet works...
>>23613942
girl here, and this
>You're not unattractive but in terms of internet you will be ignored. Girls get flooded so can pick and choose. A simple "Hi" or "compliment" will not stand a chance desu.
absolutely this, when I wake up to 50-100 new messages, why would I waste my time with the "hi :) ure pretty" when I can pick someone that sounds like talking to him/ her wont actually be just me doing them a pity favor?
maybe if you were in my class or something then yeah, I might be more lenient because IRL, but when im looking for fun online the standards rise up
>>23615860
Post your pic and I'll say yes or no to the match.
sorry OP
>>23616284
I'm not fucking posting my picture. We matched and I take it back. You're a dick, evidently.
>>23616350
I'm a dick because I'm curious as to who are you when you said you matched me? Well, unless you're one of these, then obviously it's not true.
Stop being an uptight cunt.
>>23616476
no, you're a dick for your general attitude. 5 matches though? I wouldn't be in new matches either... maybe I am thinking of someone else but narrow it down. which part of the UK
Is it just me or does OP look like Tony Curran?
>>23616298
The thing people interestingly leave out when they mention the OkCupid study is that women were more likely to message some one they perceived as unattractive than men.
>>23616526
Those women are probably just soaking up attention and looking for beta orbiters, though.
If you get 50 messages from women wanting to fuck you will probably never fuck the ugliest ones and prioritize the hottest ones, right?
>>23616516
I'm merely just saying that you're wrong in thinking you've matched with me lol. Yes, I only have 5 matches.
>>23616517
Just you.
>>23616535
That makes no fucking sense though. As a woman you get a shitoad of messages on okC. You don't need to actively seek out other guys to get that.
Also, it's about initiating messages, not replying. Men are way less likely to try date down for success than women according to the okC study.
People who cherry pick the study like that are generally just looking for excuses to justify their lack of success with women. If you're taking it at face value, while women rated men harsher on looks, they obviously didn't give a shit about it anyway since they were way more likely to initiate messages to guys they perceived as ugly based on other things.
>>23608618
How about we just talk about how your problem might be a theory
https://youtu.be/9nJO7LHcPMI
A GAME THEORY
>>23616535
no because i have variety and taste in the woman i find attractive.
for example people think Cara Delevingne is like 10/10 or 11/10 maybe on simple metric scale of beauty yeah she is pretty but that doesn't mean i think she is an instant 10 just because she has symmetrical face,blonde and high cheekbones
>>23616576
cont.
give a woman someone like sage northcutt and its a done deal. at least for 90% of the teenage girls. they don't have evolved sense of taste when it comes to picking men, its all surface
Use this. You'll never be alone.
>>23618479
Why..
JUST
>>23618571
That's fucking creepy m8.
>>23608618
Okay so like. Here's a really broken metaphor.
Dating is kind of like an economy. Women being the pursued and men being the pursuers. This puts men in a position where they have to "sell" themselves since the value of cock is inflated. Dick is abundant and low value.
So it's like ok. What do you have to offer and how do you show you have that? Like, ok, you're kind -- how do you show you're kind? You feel me?
The reality is that you're average as fuck looking. The way you groom yourself doesn't exactly have you put your best foot forward.
I mean, are you funny? Smart? Talented at something? How much so then your peers?
The other issue is that you're in this position where you're constantly looking for validation from women. When you put people on a pedestal like that it's creepy as shit and dehumanizing.
You're mentally ill. You're hurting. Your illness *lies* to you every day. I don't blame you for being all fucked up. But until something, whether that's you, time, experience, or likely a combination of all three chips away at it enough nothing's gonna give.
>>23618614
Also most men don't get responses on dating sites. The fact you're getting little to no responses is pretty universal. Basically just make your profile funny and take really good pictures. Then just send some intentionally stupid pick up line or something personal you gleamed from their profile as well as their name. After that it's just a numbers game.
>>23618614
I guess you talk a lot of sense. I don't see why men have the be the chasers, though, but I guess that's the way it is.
I need to start thinking differently, but you're right, I'm mentally ill. I guess it'll have to be time, meds and therapy for me to get better.
>>23618632
You might get some good out of stoicism. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is more or less a collection of stoic aphorisms. I don't know if you're receiving therapy already, but Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as well as mindfulness are what you're likely to get prescribed.
With that in mind you might get some mileage out of this site: https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
as well as Mindfulness in Plain English and Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy.
Also the idea of pursued and pursuer is a very gender roles driven thing. It's definitely some troglodyte cave man bulllshit but unfortunately most people don't question that sort of thing very actively.
Best of luck m8. Feel better
Just so you know OP: I'm only being a cunt because your spamming you mug like a faggot.
>>23618660
I've done CBT before and I'll be doing it again. Also in the process of coming off meds to go on another one I believe. Need to go back to the Dr and see what he recommends. Tried citalopram, Sertraline and propranolol briefly.
>>23618681
Yeah, don't worry about it.
