Post here if you:
Are a Virgin
Never had a GF
>>23529072
What's with the pinch?
>>23529072
Jesus christ, with a face like that, no shit.
>>23529090
I pretend to do stuff when I take pics because I look even worse otherwise
You really could not look anymore virgin or nonsocial.
>>23529099
I'm straight but I like your face. I wouldn't say you're bad looking at all. You've got the cute nerdy thing going. Cheer up!
>>23529097
Many people lose the genetic lottery. I am one of them.
>>23529105
The sad part is I'm an autist going into compsci because I'm shit at everything else, and what you said is completely fucking true
Was busy studying
That's my excuse...
Hey guys is this the new virgin thread what's up
>>23529105
not op but fuck off with this shit
>>23529130
I'm an autist and have been trying to learnt o code since I was in middle school. I hope you're more successful than I've been.
>>23529174
It's 1:46 am and I have yet to sleep
I feel as years go on my friends become less and less available
I have social problems
>>23529194
Same. You are very cute though. I'm sure someone will be interested.
>>23529194
Like what?
>>23529194
Don't we all at this age, regardless of looks
(though they certainly come into play in my case)
>>23529207
ditch the harry potter glasses and do something with your hair ffs
>>23529225
>Glasses
all others look worse due to lens width because I'm +7.5 in both eyes
>Hair
J U S T
>>23529194
the dreaded "i don't know how to say yes" disease
that's literally all you have to do, dumb roastie
Rest well lads I'm going to bed now that it's 2 AM
I'll check the thread (or the archive of it) when I wake back up tomorrow.
>>23529235
At least ur better than me
>>23529235
>+7.5 in both eyes
at least you're not short sighted. still there gotta better frames for you.
the 5 head can be fixed, get a hair transplant. make your dreams cum troo.
>>23529185
I've never really had any friends. It's just turn 2 here as well
Meant to go to the gym(my gym is open 24 hours) but I instead chose to shipost and watch the flash
>>23529249
I have asthma :^( but your decision making skills are probably better then mine
Okay now I'm going to bed for real... I hope... send help
You're a better hair cut and contacts away from being attractive.
I used to have +6.75 but my eyes got better and it's now +2.5 so I have regular glasses. But seriously that is an awful hair cut and if you can get contacts(I did at 6.75 I'm not sure how high they go) you'll be fine.
i can't fucking stop thinking about being alone forever. there are 3.5 billion girls in the world and none of them will ever like me. i'm fucking 25 and a khv
i tried to go to sleep and i just started shaking uncontrollably and weeping because i know that there is nothing for me in this world. i know i need to just end it but i just can't fucking do it
>>23529358
/fit/ here
join us, we're the best improvement board
Fook mi life
>>23529358
git gud
>>23529358
jk, but srs man, youre not even bad looking, I've seen some really annoyingly ugly people in school get gfs. if they can do it, you can do it. just get gud. currently working out since I'm not happy with muh belly. if anything you should work out too, it'll make you happier
>>23529072
Khv here.
ehhh
virgin life
>>23529480
Fucking shit it came out sideways
Heres another one which will hopefully come out normally.
>>23529487
FUCKING FUCK THIS GAY PHONE
I give up
>>23529484
You look pretty good desu senpai
>>23529492
kek
learn to flip your photos
(also thanks weeb)
>>23529358
You never know how good you'll look unless you lose weight. Listen to >>23529439
>>23529237
But i don't want to have sex with the people that are asking me like that
>>23529207
Yeah, I have aspergers, and I think you look fine anon :)
>>23529199
thanks
>>23529204
aspergers
A few months ago I posted in one of these threads, met my bf, and lost my virginity at 25. I just want to say, thanks /soc/.
>>23529663
This shit will never happen to me.
>>23529358
Fucking kek, crying like a little bitch.
>>23529358
why are you so upset anon?
Now I want to delete my picture but can't fuck
>>23529358
Yeah dude just work out. It won't immediately get you a GF but it will make you feel better if you actually tear some muscle. Also if you don't get sunlight you need to. The suicide rate in Alaska is like fifty percent higher or something because of the way the days cycle there.
We love you anon.
>>23529706
Keep it up. I'm bro-tier anon you replied to last night, you look good dude.
>>23529720
even if you think that, it will not help. Anyway I'm done with this board, it just makes me angry and depressed. And I don't think that's healthy for me. See you all around, I guess.
>>23529072
You've got a decent face. Those glasses, that hairstyle, and your anorexia are what's fuckin you up. You could atleast be average looking if you fixed that.
Meh. Virgin in all ways here. Dated online twice, never dated irl because mild August with mild anxiety at the time. Never had sex with guy or girl. Not necessarily worried as much, as I think I'm am ace sexually. Would be nice to have someone to hug and cuddle though, y'know?
This is me when I'm babyfaced from shaving. I have facial hair, but I usually dgaf and let it turn into a neckbeard a lot.
>>23529857
Shit picture but eh. I got ditched in puberty when the testosterone train came chugging. Almost missed it entirely.
Virgin here, I'm turning 29 in June and never had a girlfriend.
>>23529875
It's because of the anime
>>23529875
You're almost a wizard harry
>>23529884
Almost.
>>23529877
Maybe, anime is very nu-male right?
I should have gone with basketball and motorbikes =/
>>23529895
Nevermind, it's because you use terms like nu-male
>>23529897
As if girls even talk to me to hear the term used.
I only heard of the term because somebody here told me I was one and had to Google it. I know all the terms used on on social media but I wouldn't use them in real life, especially boipussy.
>>23529877
How does liking anime stop anyone? Weebs get laid too.
People seriously need to stop with this shit.
I started trying to use internet dating but I have low hopes.
>>23529072
Female here
Kik? I have a thing for lonely nerdy guys (if you're straight that is)
>>23529072
Change your hair and you glasses, wear normal, casual clothes.
>>23529670
Yes the mormon country part should be fixable.
>>23530010
I'm growing my hair out, it will be awkward for a while.
I can't stand short to medium length hair anymore or doing all kinds of stylish shit to my hair, mainly because I don't know how, I'm more of a let it do what it wants guy as you can tell.
I had long hair only once before and I loved it.
My fashion sense isn't great I know. I just flannel and shirts because they're easy to throw over a t shirt.
I need to invest in more jumpers and sweatshirts though.
>>23529875
>studio ghibli
>DBZ
>Hobbit
You're the perfect nerdy guy for a boyfriend
Just go to anime cons love, you'll find plenty of ladies!
>>23530049
>>23530010
Oops I confused (OP) with (You) I might go back to bed now because I'm clearly not awake.
Usually I get the same advice you gave OP so that's what threw me.
>>23529072
don't worry OP, neither have I
Honestly I have bigger issues than not getting laid.
Like being 27 and still not being able to physically tie my own shoes.
>>23529954
wow r u really a virgin i want to be your boyfriend right now right at this second... back off bitches... If you r dating with boys ofc :)
Another beautiful morning to contemplate killing myself because I struggle with basically everything
>>23530051
Never been to a con, what do you do once you get there? I'm terrible at being a social human being sometimes.
I'm kind of scared of something like that, so many people.
I went to some anime and gaming cons(I still go to Gencon sometimes since my family lives nearby) when I was younger and had a hard time getting people to speak to me at all and it kinda aggravated me to see other people meeting or hanging out and having a good time
I'm literally going to become Elliot Rodger.
>>23530146
Would you like someone to talk to hun? I hate seeing guys like you waste their potential, you seem rather handsome and funny
>>23530160
Well I'm a cosplayer so photoshoots and meet ups are usually what I do. Though for you I'd suggest going to events within the con like the gaming events or anime showcases. I think you'd really like it plus you'd be around other geeky people, so it won't be as awkward since they'll have the same interests. People at cons are always super welcoming so I'm sure you'll fit in fine. Go to the more unknown conventions (not comic con) since there's less people and more stalls, they're great places to build up confidence!
>>23530168
I know what you mean, it always feels like you're on the outside looking in.
yall niggas need to fix your social issues or whatever the fuck's fucked in your head
some of yous actually cute lookin
>>23530175
lol
>>23530175
>whatever the fuck's fucked in your head
Autism, Schizophrenia, PTSD, Brain damage. All legitimately diagnosed by a doctor.
You can't really "fix" schizophrenia even though it can be treated.
![dont give a fuck].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/AGZywQj.jpg "dont give a fuck].jpg")
>>23529358
your problem is that you take life too seriously, stop crying and get alcoholic at a night-club, keep doing it till you get results
>>23530160
u r actually really cute exactly my type :)
>>23530008
You can have mine. seanv2
>>23530171
>handsome
I actually do get that a lot in real life even from people I don't know. But according to /soc/ I'm below average and dating sites people I used to know put me on were a bust. It's weird because I've literally had girls I don't know walk up to me and tell me I'm handsome or cute pretty frequently when I actually go outside. People online seem to think I'm lying about this or insist that women do not do this though(even though I can safely say this has happened to me at least a dozen times). But when I approach people(female or otherwise) I just get ignored unless they have to talk to me for some reason.
I'm not really interested in socialization or communication anymore. I've talked to a few people from soc on skype that said I seemed to get along with who every single one just vanished. So I don't trust people and have no desire to waste my time or anyone elses' anymore.
I suspect I might be too mentally ill to really form a connection with other people(I've never had friends), and it stresses me out to try anymore.
>>23530199
I've never had any of this shit. It would make my fucking day if someone actually came up to me and called me handsome.
>>23530194
Thanks :)
>>23530209
u date with guys or straight as an arrow? :)
>>23530173
Honestly, seeing you talk in these threads I feel like you'd be ok
But obviously I don't know you or exactly what issues you may have. Definitely don't follow my example though. Just a couple hours ago I was told by someone they were glad they "don't associate with such neuroatypical people normally." I've been in a therapy my life, and will likely kill myself eventually(although not yet since I'm indifferent enough not to go out of my way)
You come off as an otherwise normal guy who just hasn't adjusted well socially based on what I've seen/read so far.
>>23530199
I'm very sorry to hear love, as someone who has struggled previously with mental health conditions I know vaguely where you're coming from. Although some relationships fade through time you should always know that it opens opportunities for new ones to be made. Please don't give up on friendship and relationships from previous bad experiences, no two people are the same so no two relationships will be
Stay strong and remember you have people cheering you on, everyone needs a number one fan to encourage them so in the meantime even though we don't have any relation or even talk for that matter know I'll be rooting for you to get better
>>23530207
It actually means basically nothing as far as I can tell. ANd people online tell me all the time people are only doing it to be "nice" which doesn't make a whole lot o fsense for random people I don't know to do(women I do know but not well have only called me unattractive).
I don't even post in rate threads looking for validation since attractiveness is subjective. I just legitimately have no understanding of what people find attractive or how it works or what people would find me physically attractive(which if I go off soc is basically no one). It doesn't matter if I'm ugly or good looking because unattractive people get laid or date all the time. But people always talk to me about going for people in my "league" or lowering my standards that don't exist to begin with.
Literally none of it makes sense to me or seems very logical. But I like analyzing/trying to understand things. I actually got a warning for making a thread hypothesizing about these things and how someone could have my experience(although I made it totally anonymous because theoretically it could happen to anyone and I didn't care about about me specifically). I just wanted to understand how or why other people think/work. But I got a warning for making a "whining thread" even though I wasn't complaining about anything. I was just curious.
But people considering it whining or complaining anytime I ask for clarification or theorize about things at all for some reason so I shouldn't be surprised.
>>23530008
Or mine if you aren't a troll.
Kik: Noicebrew
>>23530232
mate I just hate being average or whatever, and just being ignored/having no confidence it pains me
its happening even in this thread noone gives a fuck
>>23530217
I always like making new friends and I struggle with a lot of things.
If you're interested my skype is omnishake and my kik is noicebrew.
Here's a picture of a robot I drew when I was 4 I'm compensation for your consideration.
>>23530240
The point is there is almost certainly SOMEONE who thinks you're above average(even if you objectively aren't somehow) but it doesn't matter there's literally any number of factors that could contribute to your situation and looks, while they do matter more than people like to pretend they do, aren't the end all of a factor.
It honestly seems like a giant random die roll where some people get really lucky and others have abysmal luck.
Being told you're handsome isn't very useful on it's own.
But I guess maybe this is a difference in self-esteem issue between us.
>>23529072
Im not a virgin and I've had bfs but recently my agoraphobia has taken over and I'm only 18 like what am I going to do with my life, friends try to reach out to me but I just have fear rise up in my chest like shit fuck what am I going to do and how am I going to live so I ignore them, and I don't go to college, or work, I just breathe and eat and shit. I'm scared of everything else. I barely leave the house. Sometimes I can summon up some courage and go to convenience stores but ultimately I fuck up somehow and work over that one thing for days and days until I curl myself into a crippling ball and weep as gently as I can so my family doesn't hear me and realize how bad I am gettingshameshameshameshame
Maybe someone can relate.
If so cool
>>23530289
>virgin thread
>im not a virgin and ive had bfs
>Maybe someone can relate
>>23530298
Obviously not about those things you fucktard I'm a girl, it is easier for girls to do the sex thing. It's just facts. I'm talking about the social stuff
>>23530217
Whatever, man.
The only person that seems to like me is the middle aged post woman.
She is kind of hot though.
>>23530304
>Hey guys I know you have your thread for this specific topic but can we all just stop and talk about me for a second?
>>23530215
Not socially adjusted might be a good way to describe me, it's like playing a video game and just being shit at it because you don't know how to play it.
I can be social in the right environment like a workplace, etc but when it comes to free form socialising in real life with random strangers, I just can't do it, I freeze up.
>>23530214
Honestly I think I would consider date with guys but generally I'm not attracted to manly guys which many of them are, maybe like emos/twink types. Androgyny is good too. Transgenders too, I wouldn't rule any out as long as I've an attraction to them.
>>23530304
Yeah I understand what you were getting at. The problem is where this is explicitly a thread for people who are virgins to relate to each other. I have nothing against you being a girl who has sex. You post is just super offtopic. But it's still something a lot of people can relate to if that helps.
Not me though. I've never really had that kind of anxiety. I'm sorry you have to deal with it though.
>>23530325
How about chubby ones :p
>>23530341
I don't mind chubby but like I say, I'm not attracted to guy who look like guys, I only like girlier looking guys because I prefer women, if I was to consider swinging that way.
>>23530381
do u have kik?
>>23530393
Yeah I think it's called cyberdelik I don't even use it that much so I don't know if that's how it works even.
almost got a girlfriend last week but my friend fucked me over. otherwise never kissed a girl or anything.
>>23530481
please expand on this story, what happened
>>23530481
how could you have "almost" got a girlfriend without ever even having kissed the girl before?
>>23530494
head-canon
Anything you want can be true as long as you truly believe it's true
>>23530217
Sorry for being dismissive before. If you're still interested in talking I might as well try to talk to someone.
>>23530494
>>23530490
>Friend introduced me to the girl, thought she was cute but too beta to make a move on my own.
>Girl started giving me the signs, hugs, "you should come hang out more", ect.
>Took her out a few times and things were going well.
>Knew my friend was into her as well but he said he was cool with it.
>Got a text from her last week saying my friend told her his feelings and we couldnt be anymore then friends.
I suppose almost isnt the best word for it but we definitely had a thing for each other
tfw permavirgin bcuz of ED :(
>>23530565
cuck'd
I'm so sorry lad
>>23530565
Your friend is a twat for telling you he was cool with it, then pulling that shit without telling you.
>>23530565
Damn. That sucks mate, he straight up backstabbed you the fucking rogue.
>>23529875
you are very cute , just lose the glasses , perfect smile there :)
>>23530603
>>23530603
Yea I was pretty pissed.
According to him, she said he was harassing her by giving her complements constantly. Then things kinda spiraled down from there.
He's a social retard so I could see it happening. Probably didnt mean to do it maliciously, but definitely didnt use his brain.
>>23530627
Thanks, I can't see without my glasses though!
Socially inept and too busy watching anime and playing League. Also, I think it's because I'm ugly, lol.
>>23530654
wait at first I got the impression it was weird because your friend ended up with her instead but now you're telling me she wasn't even into him?
I don't see why his fuck up means you two can't be friends.It has nothing to do with you. Especially since she apparently didn't reciprocate or am I missing something
>>23530680
>>23530654
I was thinking the same thing, why can't you both continue your own relationship and ditch your "friend".
>>23529954
*cough cough*
23 f here
would fuck to death.
>>23530680
>>23530696
I think its more on her end. She said he doesnt want to ruin a friendship over her, which I dont think would happen.
From my point of view it seems that she was pretty shocked because he was also good friend of hers. Probably didnt want to deal with the the stress or something. Cant really blame her for that. I feel if she liked me enough she wouldnt really have cared and we woulda carried on.
I would try contacting her again, though word on the street shes already with somebody else who isnt my friend.
Tfw indian
>>23529072
43, virgin, kissless. You all loose.
>>23530898
You're quite attractive. As long as you don't have social issues, I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. Do you go out with friends at all?
>>23530905
Social anxiety mostly
No friends
I just go to class and gym
>>23530898
it would be so nice if you just write if you are straight gay or bi :)
>>23529640
>>23529194
you're cute. so who do you want to have sex with? i feel like in order for you to lose it, you'd have to view doing it as just an experience, all feelings aside, like if it was just as formal as getting a massage or something lol
>>23531064
iirc from last thread she's religious so that might also have something to do with it.
>>23531064
>>23531150
also ASD.
I'm not even bad looking but I have autism and weird hobbies.
Not too worried about no bf though, I'm alright with it. I want a family and stuff, but if that never happens, that's ok too.
>>23530900
Can you teach me crystal soul spear?
>>23531261
what do you look like?
>>23531263
lmbo
>>23531150
nah, I'm not like that
>>23531064
Well, I have a hard time really communicating with people. I was always the weird girl, and I never really fit anywhere. The guys that have talked to me are usually not my type, or overly sexual. I do want to lose it, but I feel like I have to at least trust the person before hand
>>23531273
I don't want to post a picture.
Will some girls lurking this thread the disconnect between me getting consistent 4s in rate threads and what I'm tlaking about here?>>23530199
I don't think I'm anything special but it stands to reason that if I below average this probably wouldn't happen to me so much since the guys I know who are successful or above average looking say this sort of stuff never happens
Plus the girls are usually far more attractive looking than girls I typically get rejected by or that rate me low on soc or elsewhere.
Not really sure what the heck is happening here.
But then again I'm trying to apply logic to human interaction and attraction lmao
>>23531289
I don't blame you. i don't know why I ever did on soc.
>>23531275
Oh so it's just not being able to find a guy who mutually is attracted to you? Well I'm sorry to hear that. But that's a pretty legitimate reason.
>>23531296
Yeah, I have found people I am attracted too hit on me etc, but overall im too narrow to really get to trust them
>>23531291
idk, I'm kinda the same way, but I don't post on rate threads often
>>23531291
not a girl, but trying to apply any logic to how soc rates men is stupid. wholeeeeee lot of dudes who are super insecure shitting on other dudes to make themselves feel better, whole lot of jealousy towards anyone who looks like a chad (reeeeeeeeeeeee also r9k please go back to your fucking containment board)
>>23531291
just find an ugly fat women and bang her. will help your social skills and confidence . also you will look better when older
>>23531306
How old are you?
>>23531261
What hobbies?
>>23531306
So it's more that you have trust issues than anything else? Is there any reason for that?
>>23531306
That's probably for the best. Rate threads are cancer and it's weird how people seem convinced that everyone on here sugarcoat their rates when in reality some people actually have pretty ridiculously high standards from what I've seen(to be clear I'm not referring to people rating me here). Undeservedly so. idk I actually find it really hard to rate people on a scale and I'm face blind to an extent. I know whether someone is attractive or not to me but I don't usually notice minor differences.
>>23531345
My first impression of people from looks changes a lot after talking with them the rare times that I do.
Like, I can think a girl is Meh, but after talking to them a bit can think they're a little more attractive..
Or I can think a girl is attractive, but then talk to them and think "Meh"
Happened to me today:
> Me in the gym, trying to become /fit/
> Literal 10/10 (we are talking Doutzen Kroes tier here) coming out of the girls changeroom
> For a split second she looked into my eyes and I don´t think it was an accident
> Wut
Now I´m even more depressed.
>>23531318
Older? I'm almost 30 lmao
And I've already tried to find some ugly/fat/both. That doesn't work for me and I"m not interested in trying anymore. But that has nothing to do with what I was asking
Also I'm only lacking
But as i've said several times I'm also severely mentally ill(schizophrenic, autistic, ptsd, brain damage etc) and I'm not really interested in looking for someone to fuck anymore. I'm just curious why people on here rate me so low but what I was describing happens so mcuh with girls I actually find attractive.
They never express interest in fucking me though. Even unattractive ones.
It actually makes me super fucking angry when people tell me I'm lacking confidence. I feel pretty confident but nothing I do is working
>>23531324
22
>>23531345
mostly growing up I never really fit in, and I never really had someone that would help me. It's like im too worried people are trying to hurt me
>>23531345
from what I understand, looks really aren't the most important things, its getting along with people, chemistry, personality
>>23530669
SHINY BEADS!! MUST EDUCATE IN MANIFEST DESTINY
>>23531312
Yeah, but I'm not a chad. I do think it's weird I get rates THAT low though so frequently.
What you're describing definitely happens but I don't necessarily think that's what is happening to me. A lot of the time my lowest rates are actually from women not guys lol
>>23531352
I usually go to the gym at 1 am when no one is there personally
>>23531351
I'm told that's how it works for most people.
But for me personality and physical attractiveness are entirely separate and what someone is like doesn't really affect my perception of they look. But I've been told many times I'm in the minority.
Of course I'd rather talk to someone who is a cute and not annoying. But at this point it doesn't really matter either way.
I've tried to make friends with women I wasn't attracted who seemed cool. But me enjoying interacting with them didn't make me more attracted or attracted to them at all.
>>23531339
Pokemon TCG, bugs, cars, video games, mma
Not all of them are that weird I guess, but weird for a girl.
>>23531387
Playing pokemon tcg is pretty weird for most adults but....
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>>23531356
i would give you a 5/10 because you look young , facial hair could help a lot . i guess people rate you 4 because you look exotic to them most of the faggets here are nords or usa . where are you from
>>23531396
I'm from the US but I'm multiracial. In fact I literally don't know every single thing that I am to be honest.
And yeah I would like facial hair actually. But I literally cannot grow a beard. Here's as close as I've gotten(and this was 6 weeks of not shaving)
It's pretty ridiculous my facial hair grows fast enough that I have to shave at least every other day but then it just stalls and doesn't connect fully.
>>23529130
i recommend a different haircut anon.
>>23531263
>Can you teach me crystal soul spear?
That is on my to do list. Thanks.
Ayy virgin checking in! I'd very much enjoy losing it but i'm not all beat up over it since I know it's my fault for being so anti-social outside of school growing up
>>23531424
welcome to the club, pal
>>23531275
gotcha, trust is a solid reason. trust only comes with the passage of shared experiences, ie successful dates. gl out there
i'm about ready to go to the netherlands under the guise of visting my grandmother and consulting with a doctor about euthanization
thank you, vice, for bringing this to my attention
>>23531430
You all got snacks?
>>23531396
lso why would you rate a 5 because I look young? what? I'm very clearly over 18
I mean if I'm a 5 then I'm a 5. But what does my age have to do with anything? Hell I'm probably older than a giant chunk of people who post on soc
And people rating me low for looking exotic sounds weird since I've literally been told that's the only thing attractive about me more than once
I need to just stop trying to understand other people.
>>23529235
Try square rimmed glasses
Pic related is me and I have +8.0 in both eyes
Also, virgin here too. Unless giving BJs count as losing your virginity...?
>>23531475
>square rimmed glasses
Hey bud
I'm supposed to wear glasses too but I lost mine and can't afford to replace them lmao
I honestly can't believe working out for several years hasn't helped me out. It worked for a lot of other guys I know who weren't noticed before they started. Which is literally why they hassled me into it.
>>23531366
What? lol
>>23531387
Where you from dude?
>>23531367
I usually go there after work so it´s very crammed (with a lot of 9/10 and 2 or 3 real 10/10). And usually I enjoy it because it´s the sweet pain we all know... But this girl was just too much.
Imagine her with some chad bf that treats her like shit and drags her into his shit circle of friends...
>>23530199
I know a dude just like you m8.
I won't type a wall of text since it's useless with your kind, but your problem is that you expect way too much of people, much more than you deserve even though in your mind you do.
You've probably been told to stop doing something by someone but you didn't just because you thought that would stop that person from "manipulating" you or "Muuh honor".
M8, I know your kind, and you have plenty of room to improve, just try to look at yourself the way others look at you first.
Honestly I'm looking at two paths for my life:
A. Go to Netherlands to be with my grandmother and her boyfriend before I go through assisted suicide
or
B. Go full Elliot Rodger
>>23530199
Man, I have that exact same problem of people just disappearing. Out of my several dozen people i met on soc, I only talk to like, 1 girl often.
You got a kik?
>>23531505
Or choice C. Buy fleshlight and give it a name
>>23531501
I don't expect anything of anyone. I will literally talk to anyone. I have zero expectations. I just have no idea how these things work.
I don't have any idea what I do or don't desrve.
And not really because Iam completely unable to get people to speak to me in real life.The situation describing doesn't happen because I'm not socializing with other people. Period. And not for lack of trying.
And I am ttrying to improve but I've in therapy literally my whole life and no one
If you're talking about my skype conversations though I'm literally looking at my recent conversatiosn they all last an hour tops and I was never asked not to do something and they all seem totally positive but these people just never responded again. But a couple of them were from mentally illness threads as well so that's to be expected.
>>23531395
I guess. I'm in a league and most people there are my age or older.
>>23531499
Oregon
Like I just do not connect with other people. That's no one's fault and I have literally no idea why you're talking about manipulation or honor at all frankly.
Your post seems rather angry toward me for no reason and a bit presumptuous of the situation I'm in.
It's really pretty simple though: I just have connected on a personal level with everyone and I'm pretty much personally incapable of doing so. I'm literally rereading my conversations and no one did anything wrong in here and I have no idea what the hell you're talking about.
>>23531498
My great great grandfather killed Indians in the 4th cavalry. Gib me your land
>>23529954
HOLY SHITDICKS ITS OBI WAN
>>23531556
*have never connected on a personal level(or any) with anyone
Why does there always have to be some implied blame or some one did something or thinks they are better than everyone else
>>23531560
"I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of anons suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced."
I'll be Anakin and purge soc the way he purged the Jedi Temple
>>23531518
One that I have used exists but I don't remember my login info. As I said earlier in the thread I've pretty much just lost interest in communication though.
>>23531568
From what I can tell you're just a really passive , neutral guy. That's not a bad thing of course, but for most people it just makes you not so memorable.
Idk, this might just be me projecting, but have you ever tried being the one to drive the conversation? The one to bring up a topic to talk about, the one to set up meet-ups, being proactive, that sort of thing.
>>23531521
I'm not killing myself because I can't get laid.
I'm killing myself because a schizophrenic brain damaged autist with ptsd from literally being raped by my landlord who is 27 and literally cannot tie his own shoes despite literally having spent hundreds of hours attempting to learn.
>>23531578
Well you're communicating now and you're talking about this stuff with other people. So, I'm assuming you haven't entirely given up at connecting to people.
>>23531583
I'm not passive at all. I'm actually forward and aggressive. I just stopped caring of years of not getting anywhere.
Yeah I'm always the one trying to drive the conversation. I don't set up meetups because I'm never in that kind of position so I'm sure what that has to do wtih anyhting
But I don't know why people assume my lack of ssuccess is because I'm not doing anything. I definitely go out of my way to talk to people a lot. In fact most of the time I'm the only one driving the conversation and it makes me feel like I'm bothering people and they are just too nice to say so
Honestly if I were off my meds and you told me it's because I must be passive I'd probably be ranting about wanting to stab you in your face about now. So at least we don't have that problem.
>>23531592
I'm not posting in here think I'm going to connect with anyone. I'm mostly just posting rambling. I don't expect anyone to respond at all.
>>23531595
Ah okay, I get what you mean now.
>>23531606
Then why post at all? Even if you don't expect anyone to respond, posting it at all still means you want somebody to read it.
Killing yourself is your prerogative, you've given it your best shot and you got nothing to show for it, it's all good.
A shame you aren't into guys, you seem like a nice dude who I'd love to talk with.
I'm still baffled
Why do people go around telling other people hwo tehy think or feel aboutsomething and act like they are the authority on that persons thoughts? His post was completely wrong about how I feell but it really bothers me and I keep wondering why that just came out of nowhere.
>>23531622
Because I feel like it? The same reason as anyone else I guess. Do I really need any other reason
>>23531652
Projecting. You see a guy's post and it either reminds you of A. Someone you know, or B. How you used to be like in the past.
It's very triggering.
>>23531676
It just really bothers me whenever I see that not even because him trying take a stab at my situation. But because he sounded so damned sure and authoritatize about something he was wrong about and I hate when people do that.
I have a lot of problems myself but I don't tell other people how they think or feel like I know better than they do. I don't claim to know what people I know are thinking or feeling. Much less anonymous people I don't know.
Not everyone's situation has to be the same. Multiple things can lead to the same or similar outcomes. This just seems very narrow minded.
And posting in this thread is a huge difference between having a personal text, kik, skype, snapchat, etc conversation with someone
I admit I maybe ignorant due to my lack of social interaction, but those things like they add another layer of personality and then you become more of a burden on people. At least in topic people can just ignore me
I hope I'm making sense
Well I'm sorry for posting so much nonsense guys. I'm gonna go nap and go to the gym. Everyone have a nice day.
>>23531475
My last glasses were square-rimmed but they look like shite on me
>>23530521
I am still interested in talking, I inderstand why you were dismissive since your previous attempts at talking from this site didn't go well. Leave your contact info and I'll gladly chat and maybe try and help with you problems
>>23531969
My skype is mechamaster. I'd post my kik but I can't actually remember it since I never use it kek
>>23530199
Ayy lamo I'm the reverse, rated high on /soc/ and successful on tinder but not that good in real life I think
I mean I do get attention but I don't remember people calling me handsome
Feels bad man
>>23529130
>>23529185
>>23529238
I just wanted to tell you that in my opinion you look cute. Its not as bad as you might think, I believe there's more girls who find guys like you physically attractive. Mental problems are another thing, but well... weird looking guys who are unable to have normal relationships or anything are somehow attractive to me, so there gotta be more people like this, if you care for that. I just wanted to let you know that you are not ugly.
>>23532085
>cant remember people calling me handsome
I mean irl
Have had sex with a few girls (3) but never had a "girlfriend" because I'm fucking crazy
Sup
>>23532106
>had sexenings
Yoy don't belong here Chad REEEEEEEEEE
>>23532002
oh my kik is gradius21 if anyone wants to add me there or on skype. Realized I was still logged into kik in an android emulator on my laptop
>>23532113
A Chad would have had a girlfriend, therefore I'm not.
>>23531364
Maybe someday bb
>>23532085
I mean realistically I think Tinder seems a lot easier than real life despite what people claim if I'm being honest. The exact degree of my lack of success actually seems uncommon. I know guy and girls who only meet up wiht one person every month or two. I don't even get enough non bot matches for that when I swiped everyone right(which is why I haven't used Tinder in a year;but I had it the first 2 years it was out)
I described this situation I'm in to someone a couple days ago and I know of other people both in your situation and mine.
It's all just being photogenic. Some people are and some people aren't. I'm probably not and you clearly are.The person I mentioned this thought to actually explained this to me and also said there are people who are photogenic who aren't as good looking in real life. This somewhat makes sense to me.
But also do not equate my experience to success. It doesn't lead to anything. Not even anything platonic. Literally nothing happens.
But that's what I'm saying. Even the "objectively" attractive guys I know say this never happens and isn't a common thing. I understand guys are expected to engage, driver conservation, etc But I've literally had more success with women approaching me(and I'm only calling it success relatively) than my track record of zero people engaging me just from me trying to talk to them normally.
>>23532106
Every time we have one of these threads some sexhaver shows up to lord it over us
>>23529072
18 here
College is something.
>nothing on tinder
>nothing on OKC
>nothing IRL
dating sucks
>>23532150
But I'm not photogenic lol, my first selfies were fucking horrible, and even now I sometimes get a terrible photo while recordings of me are relatively stable looking. I have just learnt how to take photos - I know that natural lighting (sun) shows my eye color (deep blue) so I always try to have the sun in front of me. I used to clench my jaws in photos but I dropped it because it felt too fake and I discovered that putting your tongue on the roof of the mouth makes me look good too and that's something you should do all the time (correct tongue posture, I think it has helped me accentuate my jaw and cheekbones).
Other than that I basically don't even use other angles than frontal and maybe a bit from below because I want the photo to be an accurate representation. Needless to say I don't use photoshop; I used to use filters in VSCO but moved away from that as well.
I hope I'm not looking worse irl. Tbh it's hard to imagine a guy whom girls randomly tell he's handsome in my country.
Also as for tinder being easier than irl, I think it's not the case: even girls that wouldn't get much attention irl match with most guys they swipe right so they can choose. I've heard tinder is actually pretty bad for guys.
>>23532126
Chaddinho pls
>>23529194
you 100% dont look like you have any problems hamilton.willingston is my sk yp e
>>23529358
Ive never seen a man cry because of his own ugliness before. prayers are with you sir.
Heavy depression and afraid of girls. Also pretty sure I have a horrible personality.
>>23529874
lmao dude you dont look ugly at all but there is something animalistic about you. in a licking your own ass and eating your own poop kinda way.
>>23532327
>afraid of girls
>depressive
That means you do have terrible personality :^)
>>23532364
afraid of grils because I went to an all boys school for my entire teen years, an studied a course at college and uni with maybe 3 girls total out of 150 people.
>>23529207
Cute :)
>>23532411
haha gay
>>23531475
if you're straight then that puts you even farther back in the virgin category
yo we in here
squad getting together to play wow again so chances are improving in great strides for positive female interaction
Alright faggots, let's make it clear ! Yes, there are people who just lost in the genetic lottery.. that's how life is. Not everyone can win. I didn't win either, I also have things I'm not satisfied with.. for example being skinny, acne, no cheekbones, weak chin, a lot of moles and currently living under poor conditions. But instead of crying and feeling sorry for myself like a little bitch Im trying to change the things I can change.
>being skinny -> I can change it by hitting the gym
>having acne -> proper nutrition and accutane threatment
>no cheekbones -> can't change it, I need to deal with it
>weak chin -> also can't change it, but I can emphasize my jaw by chewing gum and certain face excercises, with might bring out my chin at least a little more
>a lot of moles -> maybe being confident about it and remove the ugly ones
all that can improve your looks.-
and yes I'm aware that I'm probably not able to get the 8-10/10s, but with confidence and optimism I might get the 7s.. and I know it will take time until I get success maybe I need to approach like 200 chicks and of those 50 are getting interested and with 10 of those I might get laid.. basically the more you approach, the higher the probablity that you get laid.. and don't take women too serious, basically just don't give a fuck what they say and just go forward if you give a woman permission to destroy you and your goals you're basically weak and really need to kill yourself but not because of your looks but because of your shitty attitude towards life..
find a hobby or passion something you always feel love for and never let a women destroy it and ruin you. Women should never the be the main priorities in your life, they're coming and leaving. My last advice cure your fucking autism and go out more, hit the gym or start doing some sports, this is an easy way how to meet new people.
>>23532604
Not all skinny people can Gym
t. Asthmatic
>>23532604
Not all of us have problems with looks
I too do face exercises btw
>>23532717
Surely you asthma doesn't prevent you from lifting weights? You should probably do some cardio type stuff if possible, but putting on a little muscle is what is gonna fix being skinny.
>>23532165
Don't shave. Grow a beard. It'll balance the high brow
>>23532850
I can't eat enough to support exercise anyways due to problems throughout my entire digestive system anyways desu
>>23529244
>That hair
Dude, your hair's nicer than a chick's.
>>23532728
>Not all of us have problems with looks
Im not claiming that, I was making sure I reach those who think their looks is preventing them to get laid
22
Not kissless
everything else-less
The longer I go, the more ok I am being a virgin
Half of the people in here have glasses. I do too, so can I be part of the cool virgin club now?
>>23532863
>I can't eat enough
This is what I was thinking too at first when I started. You just need to get used to it. Start with 4 meals a day, than go for 4 meals with some snacks in between and than with 5 meals a day etc.
>>23532898
I don't even eat 3 large meals a day, I have 2 big ones (Lunch & dinner), and various snacks/mini meals throughout the day. Eating too much at once causes physical pain.
probably because I fucking larp. Pic related.
>>23532951
Also I'm 20, not 12.
>>23532958
Trap?
>>23532978
I'm female, if that's what your asking. I'd grow my hair out so it would be easier to tell, but I look like shit with long hair
>>23532333
lol wat
>>23532951
I'd bang you, you're pretty cute I like larping so you'll have to keep the horns on
>>23532850
Doing cardio is probably just going to aggravate his asthma like it did for my brother. Lifting should be fine though
>>23532604
What if I already go out and go to the gym and still can't meet people even though I regularly approach them? Then wah t do I do
>>23529358
Dude, you could get a girl.
>>23532951
The OP is probably aware of the sex with minors laws. Seriously how old are you ?
>>23532958
>>23533075
20 apperantly
>>23533075
>>23532958
They have to get the manager when I buy liqueur, even with 2 pieces of ID
Im 22.
Look better WAY fucking better in person. I hate cameras so much.I hate technology (which is funny cause i work for microsoft in IT)
Im not anti social, im not weird, Im very VERY outgoing. As a matter of fact i have been on many dates.
But have never made her my Girlfriend. + a lot of times i just end up never calling them or contacting them again.
I have trust issues. MAJOR trust issues. My role model who was my older brother meant the world to me. He went to prison for killing someone. That pretty much made me trust nobody. If the person i thought was so great and awesome turned out to be a bad person was not enough. I had to watch my friends become pot heads and drop out of school. (who by the way had a way wealthier family than me) now they think EBT is "free" and sell pot from their apartment and bitch about how "tough" life is.
And they pretty much are such addicts that one time i smoked without them while we were fishing and they all threw hissy fit like girls.
Seriously i quit smoking and just dont talk to them. SO i dont trust girls. ESPECIALLY in Western Washington. Which is where i am.
GA and The south are different. Im more relaxed there.
Made out plenty. Never had sex.
Ok to be honest i had condom sex.
AND IT SUCKS!!! It fucking sucks so much! it should not count as sex.
Sex with condom = fake pleasureless sex.
>>23533188
DON't
Have conbdom sex.
Seriously It was not the way humans were designed to have sex.
And its meaningless!
Any retard who thinks condom sex = awesome. Should seriously shut their fucking mouth and jerk off for once.
Because jerking off IS WAY WAY! better than condom sex.
>>23533188
>>23533201
I wish i was still a virgin :'(
>>23532951
please be in California
>>23533093
not from US?
21 drinking age, etc~
>>23533004
ah, and okay xD
and short hair girls are cute!
>>23533214
>>23533213
Canada
>>23533242
and single?
'
Canada has no taste
>>23533275
thanks man
>>23533242
w..where in canada tho
>>23533280
Niagara Falls area
>>23533290
Dam,
I was hoping you'd say 403 area. Then we coulda porked. Oh well.
>>23533280
for a second there I thought you asked "what is Canada" as an ebin /int/ joke...
>>23529358
>>23529238
>>23529174
And others in this thread. Just be confident. I'm confident, looks don't matter as much as you think :) you guys are 5+/10, that's better than average!
>>23529857
love this look, post skype pls
im a virgin too (f)
>>23532302
I meant it's easier for someone like me because I can't tell when someone is interested in me or an yof that nonsense at a glance so Tinder cuts out the guess work.
And yes my former female roommates were pretty average looking but one of them bragged about literally every right swipe being a match for her
And yeah I think it's hard for most people to imagine that. But I've had it happen a couple handfuls of times. That's why I made my post asking how that would happen with my low rates to begin with. It seems very unusual and like something most guys I know say never happens.
NERDS!!!!!!
I turn 21 in a month, I don't mind being a virgin but I want to become a politician and you can't be a successful politician without a wife.
