>>23490732
Depends what you mean by beta. I've always been jealous of 'Chad' type alpha guys and how easy they seem to have it with women compared to me, including several who my gf slept with before we got together, but I've come to accept it and if anything have turned jealousy into a kink of mine. So you could say I'm a happy beta who knows his place and has learned to live successfully in it?

What about you, OP? How are you beta exactly?

>>23490732
And yes my gf is pretty much the one who makes the decisions in the relationship, and I'm cool with that, I just love being with her and am happy for her to take the lead.

>>23490763
>>23490769
I hope thread is not going to be overrun with cuckoldry, femdom fans.

>>23490893
Where did I say anything about cuckoldry or femdom? Why don't you tell us what you mean about being beta in a relationship?

>>23490763
I am beta by not being alpha I guess. I am not very competitive, loud, aggressive or dominant in general and don't tend to be pushy or douchy with girls. I had 2 girlfriends before her and just couple one-night stands at current age of 22, so that's definitely not an alpha sex record. I'm pretty caring, sensitive and attentive when it comes to dating. Make your girl a surprise dinner and massage kind of guy, rather than "booty call fellow".
What kind of kink did you develop? Don't say it cuck crap.

>>23490930
Kink developed on the basis of jealousy? What could it possibly be?

>>23490940
I am turned on by stories of alpha guys 'exploits'. I in no way want my gf to cheat on me.

>>23490966
Alpha exploits? Like pick-up stories?

>>23490769
That's also somewhat relaxing and nice. My girlfriend pushed me to quit smoking and be more physically active

>>23491022
That kind of thing, yeah.

>>23491033
>That's also somewhat relaxing and nice.
Exactly. We understand each other now.

>>23491058
Is it erotica or there is porn genre for it? Why do you think it developed into kink? I always been curious to how pick up girls with such easiness, but not frustrated about it.
Is your missus controlling or more of directing?

>>23491137
I think it developed as a way of coverting potentially negative feelings into something I could get off on, but it's difficult to explain people's sexualities. It is what it is.

My girlfriend is more directing, she doesn't tell me what to wear or anything like that, she is just the one who tends to make decisions that affect both of us. And I do get a real feeling of peace from letting her have that role and encouraging her in it. She likes being in charge and I like supporting her.

How about yours?

I'm an 18 year old guy, and I have always been into femdom.

I am 6ft 4, 230 pounds. I'm a big guy, and not fat, I look built.
I am aware that the majority of girls are submissive, it's kind of biologically hardwired in them.
I look dominant, but I like confident girls. I'm fairly sensitive, I attract alot of girls with daddy issues, and I'm fine with that, but I am just worried that I am going to have to pretend to be dominant for the rest of my relationships.

As much as people will say "There are dominant girls", they are so few it's not worth mentioning.
Girls like dominant guys, and physically I am dominant, but I'm scared that if I show my submissiveness, girls will be turned off.

I realise I rambled here, but I hope someone understands the jist of what I'm saying.

>>23491175
I know these feels all too well, brotherman.

You're not alone out here.

>>23491175
This explains past me, even including my weight and heigh. I was exactly like this, except I stopped giving a fuck a couple of years ago. I'm 30 now, and I'm glad it happened.

>>23491198
Sorry it makes no sense. I'm high as fuck, and I forgot what I was about to say mid sentence.

I guess this applies to me, my gf is the bread winner and makes most of the decisions

and no it doesn't bother me at all, I like that she's so supportive while I'm trying to get a music career going

>>23490732
This will become my future. I'm currently "wearing the pants" in our relationship. I put food on the table, put the roof over our heads, and make the major decisions. Once I'm done supporting her through school I'm going full on stay at home dad mode and she knows it and is totally down since im supporting her at the moment. I'm almost there guys

>>23491198
So you just stopped giving a fuck about women? Just kind of did what you wanted?
Please explain how you changed

Bump this, I want to hear more from fellow betas.

AB / pet / slave here, granted its for a man but i figured id chime in. Sexually i am the complete bottom in my relationship, often in chastity or tied up. When im in a little boy head space i am treated very similarly to an actual toddler, maybe even younger. To the rest of the world however, we appear as a happy normal couple and i wouldnt have it any other way.

>>23490732
I've pretended to be dominant in my past two relationships. It hurt like hell and has left me pretty messed up, in addition to other issues I was already dealing with. I'd much rather meet a woman who, while respecting my independence and individuality, took the lead in the relationship.