Lets see who many people are on tonight. Everyone sound off.
OP is here, obviously
red leader reporting in
Virgin leader reporting in
Fallout leader Reporting
>it's night in the whole world
>>23489990
>implying its not night for op
I'm not online
it's 10:20am here but still
punkanon reporting for duty
whats up my neighbours
>>23490076
boring as fuck
>>23490076
eating applejacks at 4am
>should be in bed
>on 4chan instead
yup sounds right
i am human and i need to be loved
3:42 central time reporting in.
Tired and bored. 9AM here but haven't slept, can I join tho ?
>>23490090
jealous
lonely romantics like me are on here 24/7 hoping to find the perfect someone
awake and ready to die.
>>23490143
i feel you son
>>23490151
I found a cute girl here a bit ago too, but I'm too shy so I just saved her pictures
fuck rate threads man
>>23490143
don't get your hopes up famicom that's a dangerous game
>>23490143
>>23490151
just find a nice christian girl
>>23490122
Just like everybody else does
>>23490164
why christian?
>>23490164
hello little marco
>>23490064
Hey
We should have nightly chats again since i cant fucking sleep anymore
Love lorde
>>23490159
lemme give you a tip of the fedora and feed you a line from some corny fluffy fanfiction I was reading earlier to ease my desperation
If I stop hoping, I stop loving, and if I stop loving I dont have any reason to live
>>23490164
I did on okcupid once, she never responded to my first message
>>23490168
>>23490178
it was a joke. Honestly find someone who shares your interest. talk to them. get them to enjoy talking to them. Then, out of left field, start distancing yourself from them. if they get upset and confront you about it chances are they probably have feelings for you.
the sure fire way into someones heart/head is to ignore them.
>>23490122
>>23490166
hello my friend
>tfw dubs for the smiths
>>23490194
Didn't even see that until you lined em up
>>23490177
okay but not tonight cause i'm tryna sleep asap cause i gotta do stuff today and if we start talking i won't want to stop for a while
>>23490178
>if i stop loving i don't have any reason to live
i am past this point, it's not so bad over here once you get used to it
>>23490188
its hard tho, all the girls Ive met at friday night magic (the only social gathering I go to) all have boyfriends
to be honest its harder to find someone to get to know here on /soc/ than it is in real life, I dont need some gimmick I need someone to accept my feelings
>>23490122
I am a human and I need to love
>>23490200
that point is cold and grey, even if I never find someone to love, Ill keep being a romantic
shitposting erryday since 2010
hi
>>23490199
you into the other "typical goth" music too?
i.e. the cure, bauhaus, siouxsie, sisters of mercy, misfits, nin, joy division
>>23490204
its not a gimmick. its a real thing. and have you ever tried finding someone not over the internet? it might be easier to talk and i get that, it sucks. you cant type out what you're gonna say. my advice is to ask advice from your girl friends. ask them what qualities they look for in a guy. or just ask us.
>>23490204
Have to tell you, finding love won't solve all your problems. Yeah, it will ease the pain and loneliness , but don't expect to be happy even after finding "the right one", you'll be deceived
>>23490221
it helps you feel less empty inside when you have someone to completely open up to emotionally
hard to trust anyone that much in order to be able to though in this modern society
>>23490214
what? I just said that its easier to talk to people in real life than it is here
I dont have friends that are girls tho, and I dont need help getting with a girl, I need help finding a girl to get with
>>23490221
but love is always whats made me happy, in tv shows, books, and anime my favorite parts all have to do with people getting into relationships or being lovey dovey
>>23490229
people are awful. but they help you keep warm at night.
>>23490230
you literally can;t make a person fall in love with you the instant they see you. talk to girls. get out there.
>>23490231
this, i had almost a sure thing with someone set up recently (literally sent me nudes in fb after we traded numbers/info at a club the night before) and when she disappeared and came back hours later after i tried calling she hit me with the old:
>"i was sleeping"
and
>"i started my period today"
excuses
i felt like a piece of me was ripped out for having faith in someone who wrote a check with their mouth that their ass couldn't cash.
it was pretty obvious to me that she had buyers' remorse about making plans with me and then felt so bad about it or for having ignored me that she had to feed me excuses to make herself feel better and less shitty for bailing on me.
i just told her to let me know when she feels better and closed the chat, i doubt she will but you never know
>>23490207
Not really, honestly I was thinking those were tatu lyrics. I do listen to NIN on occasion
>>23490235
but the type of girl I want doesnt go out, like where should I be looking if I want someone who likes they cutesy shit im into?
my best bet is here, even if its full of ratewhores and idiots, theres bound to be something Ill like in this landfill of meh
>>23490242
i would suggest joining as many discussion boards/facebook (yeah, i know) groups and participating on all the chan discussions for these things that you like and are into?
>>23490230
> in tv shows, books, and anime my favorite parts all have to do with people getting into relationships or being lovey dovey
Have you ever been in a real relationship ?
>>23490235
actually you technically could, its rare as fuck but its possible
>>23490230
OKcupid will be your best bet. if you tried it before might as well try it again. ton of shut ins where i live.
>>23490240
Mmmm thats the best my dude. Love that trick.
>>23490245
I dont have facebook and Im too discouraged do anything more than what I already do here since NOTHING happened when I tried okcupid and pof
>>23490261
just small ones during school, things never got too serious because I moved around a lot
I went to 6 fuckin highschools before graduating
look dont bully me, I just want someone to make me feel warm and fuzzy on the inside
I've gotten 2 hours of sleep over the past 2 days.
>>23490267
sometime before you someone can make you feel that way, you need to be able to make yourself feel that way yourself. self care. treat yourself. and you don't give yourself enough credit. sometimes you need to make more attempts with those sites.
>>23490267
Sorry I didn't mean to be rude, I guess I'm projecting 'cause even if I found the perfect person for me I still want to kill myself on a regular basis. But hey you're not me. Best luck !
>>23490265
yeah, i normally wouldn't care but when someone sends a text message with a picture of her fingering herself that says "Take me. Own me. Play with me. I'm yours" makes me assume we are going to meet up again and fuck each other's brains out. Also I just found out about being cheated on and dumped her a week ago so I really needed all of what was supposed to be happening so i could move forward
>>23490267
online dating is so demoralizing, its heavily skewed towards females. sometimes you just gotta suck it up and go out to talk to people, just be sociable with people who seem nice, and if its hard to tell i would suggest just looking up how to read people, hell you could even follow things like poker and politics and psychology like i do and really learn how to get inside people's heads
>>23490265
okcupid gets too impersonal
I dont wanna lie about myself to get someone and posting a profile for someone to judge you is so gross, I want to get to know someone from what they wanna tell me on a personal level not what they think is going to attract someone
>>23490270
I CAN make myself feel that way, I do everyday with the things I read and watch
I just wanna share it ya know, this site seems the best since its a place where you DONT have to be afraid of what others think
>>23490272
I dunno, I dont REALLY feel like killing myself since im generally happy with my life and actually like who I am, but I just want someone to share my emotions with and possibly make them feel loved since I never found anyone that made me feel that way
>>23490275
I know how to read people very well, Im actually an attractive guy and have a killer smile, but I have a very judgmental personality when it comes to people who are average that I tend to avoid people in real life
>>23490286
>I dont wanna lie about myself to get someone and posting a profile for someone to judge you is so gross
this is /soc/ thats kinda the main goal is for people to get their egodick sucked and feel good about the opinions people they wont ever meet have of them.
and nobody said lie about yourself. be honest.
>>23490286
i have also been described as very attractive, although i used to be very fat/overweight and have serious trust issues due to bad upbringing so i am very insecure
>implying you couldn't tell by reading my posts
and as a result i just can't with most people. like i just don't think its worth the effort of getting to know them unless we have mutual interests, and my interests are pretty niche, especially for where i live, so it's difficult and i mostly spend my time on 4chan/tumblr listening to the smiths and feeling crappy for being all alone aside from some friends
>>23490293
dating sites dont work if you dont, ALL of the messages I got were from judgmental bitches who "accidentally" messaged me cause of my looks then regretted it when they finally got around to reading my profile
and trust me, I dont need me egodick sucked, most people think im overconfident in my looks and personality already
>>23490294
thats exactly why I lurk here since I can test the waters before I show someone what I look like, its just hard when anyone im attracted to is stupid or a slut
>>23490307
>"accidentally" messaged me cause of my looks then regretted it when they finally got around to reading my profile
>its just hard when anyone im attracted to is stupid or a slut
Seems pretty much the same to me !
>>23490307
also its a unique situation for me because women either are very attracted to me or they are not at all because i have long black hair and i am not very masculine looking in the face, i am 6'3 225 12% bf /fit/ bodied though.
people think i am constantly confident and able to get laid/friends easily and i am confident for the most part and can get friends/laid when i feel alright/manic, but i have periods of time where i feel like complete shit because of life situations i only have so much control over (for example, my grandmother died last month, i also found out my cousin murdered my other cousin in cold blood and that 2 family members have cancer) and sometimes i just need people to be there for me and to be outgoing so i don't always have to be the one who initiates. and sometimes i need women to have around to give me praise and attention i never really got outside of relationships without me having to be in one with them first because i don't want to deal with all the anxiety/fear of inadequacy/trust issues that come along with getting into one
i know your feels bro
>>23490324
Wow, shit... sorry dude, hope you get better.
>>23490318
no cause on here I at least get the chance to SEE if someone has a decent personality, on dating sites I ONLY get messages like that, plus I dont have to pay for any stupid features like being teased about who likes your profile or whatever
>>23490324
I get that all or nothing thing with girls too since I have long-ish hair, perfect skin (I try HARD to keep my face blemish free and shaved and take great pride in that) but Im not tall or muscular just average and slender
but with me its always been a fear of them not living up to my expectations, Ive always been the one to set myself up for disappointment but I cant help it since I overthink things
things can get rough but I dont think you should depend on a relationship to escape reality you know? a relationship should be about genuinly liking the one youre with and wanting to make them happy not using them as a distraction
Its 4 am tho so ima go to bed, nice chat my lonely vagabonds
>>23490338
i try my best to have no expectations from anyone outside of employees working for me/classmates working with me. i do break that rule for myself sometimes and it sucks.
its hard for me because i have a 500 foot tall bitch-shield and a hole inside that's 10 miles wide (high five if you get the reference) and so its difficult for me to be able to open up emotionally at all to anybody that i can't be sure that i trust. i have felt genuine feelings for girlfriends after dating and getting to know each other well, but their feelings either aren't as strong or they weren't there to begin with.
feels so bad man, i just want to meet the female version of myself and be happy together
>tfw i have already done that and she hates me literally due to her own insecurities and mental issues
who's armed?
>>23490346
i live in a liberal shithole for university otherwise i would be. moving to a red/purple state after i graduate
>>23490349
where? hurry up anon
>>23490351
i go to sdsu and i hate it because i am goth and conservative and down to earth while the majority of everyone else is a superficial liberal snob who listens to garbage music.
moving to henderson or summerlin, nv or to texas or back to my home state of ga
>>23490354
my home is georgia, athens
where u?
>>23490366
grew up in marietta but got family in rome and woodstock, and mates in suwannee too. got to spend a month at home in december - january, felt so good man except for the whiplash i got on 3rd jan
>>23490371
i feel u, i need to go back to the GA in dec, been living in wisconsin for 4 years. i miss dat southern roots doe. keep up
>>23490374
>tfw my room is my own little piece of GA and i fry my own okra at home:
>>23490262
>>23490376
lol okra? what about them grits doe? keep up i like you
>>23490384
oh man, grits and greens and okra and catfish, you're making my mouth water
>and tobasco sauce on it all :^) (^:
