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Who else is whoring themselves out to pay for college? Males
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Who else is whoring themselves out to pay for college? Males and females welcome.

>a/s/l
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
>How well do you maintain your double life?
>Will you tell your significant other?
>How much do YOU make?
>Do you like it?
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
>Things you've learned?
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>a/s/l

19/f/murica

>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?

Escorting and camming

>How well do you maintain your double life?

Pretty well. My family and boyfriend don't know about it.

>Will you tell your significant other?

Nah. It's not his business.

>How much do YOU make?

Enough that I don't have to take out loans. My parents think I'm on a scholarship.

>Do you like it?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. The sex is much different than regular sex. Neither is better than the other, except when the john has a really huge dick. Then it's usually extremely good.

>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?

Be safe. Work with a partner. My best friend is in a similar situation so we check in on each other.

>Things you've learned?

My boyfriend can't tell the difference when he's wearing a condom.
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>>23448620

How do you find the time for a bf between studying and work?
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>>23448631
The same way everyone else does. He and I spend a fair amount of our time together studying. That helps.
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>>23448667
How much do you charge a client by the hour? Do you do anal? Swallowing? What has been your weirdest request?
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>>23448667

Fair enough.
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Is college actually worth it fuck up your whole personality?
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>>23448620
Would you suggest to other females to do the same compensated dating to fund their education, and lifestyle
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>>23448680
It depends on a number of factors, but a good amount. I live close enough to a major metropolitan area and its airport that a lot of businessmen and travelers come through.

I do anal, but I don't swallow. The risk of STDs is too great.

Weirdest request has to be this one time a guy sent me a picture of a girl asking if I'd wear the outfit. Nothing kinky: black Misfits shirt, daisy duke shorts and fishnets. I tell him he'll have to buy the clothes, which he says won't be a problem. A few days after we have sex, I reverse image search the picture and come up with the girl's Facebook. There's a family picture of her with the guy.

I fucked her father dressed like his daughter.
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>>23448620
uh I'm not really against what you're doing otherwise but

if you're dating someone exclusively than yeah it absolutely is their business otherwise keep doing what you're doing.
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>>23448693
Troll harder, please.

>>23448700
It's a personal choice. My circumstances are unique enough to accommodate the profession. I have my own room in the dorm. The walls are thick. It's a pretty open campus, which makes it easy to sneak in clients, but if there's a problem I can call security without issue.
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>>23448715
Good point. He should be allowed to look at porn, talk about sex with his bros and masturbate whenever he likes, but I'm a bad person for not telling him how I'm paying for an education.
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>>23448723
I'm not trolling. The constant lying and avoiding of any emotions will fuck up your personality. Or was it meant as in yes it is worth it? Genuinely curious
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>>23448707
Damn. I'd fuck my daughter if she dressed like that too.

>>23448723
What I am trying to ask is with the steady increase in tuition and inflation, do you think more and more girls will do the same since, maybe not you, their friends who do the same will pressure them to do so.
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>>23448731
If you're not being exclusive in an exclusive relationship then you're s cheating whore. Of course he deserves to know he's at as much risk for stds as you are and he deserves the right to make the choice to take that risk.
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>a/s/l
20/m/usa
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
camming
>How well do you maintain your double life?
no one knows so I suppose pretty damn good
>Will you tell your significant other?
She knows. We cam together.
>How much do YOU make?
Anywhere between 200-500 a night
>Do you like it?
yeah. It's easy and really fun
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
just do it. It's not as scary as you might think. It helps if you think it's hot when people watch you fuck, like I do.
>Things you've learned?
people are dumb enough to give me money to fuck my girlfriend
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>>23448738
Your question doesn't make sense or contain a question mark.
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Honestly I thought being a male stripper sounds fun and I work out a lot but apparently I'm not good looking enough for that which is disappointing but oh well
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>>23448747
>you're s cheating whore.
>you'res a cheating whore.
>yous a cheating whore!
>pic related

You tell em', Cleetus.
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>>23448731
Uh I don't really see how "looking at porn" and masturbation is the same as unknowingly fucking other people since those are normal things people do even when they are in relationships.

I honestly wouldn't mind dating a girl whoring herself or stripping or whatever as long as 1. I knew about it and 2. I could fuck other people.

I mean there's really no argument you can make where it's fair for one person to fuck other people but the other can't even if you're getting paid for it.
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And it's like the other anon said

You're carrying over your risk for stds to him as well. You're endangering your "boyfriend" in a way that most guys would just not be ok with. That is absolutely his business.
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>>23448749
This is really cool. How did you guys get in to/how did you find a girl willing to do this? This seems like something I'd find fun.
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>>23448764
Obviously the 's' was supposed to be an 'a' you're reaching.

She's still a whore and the guy has a right to know.
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>>23448803
She was already doing it when we started dating and asked me if I wanted to do it with her. I thought it was hot so I said yes, and we made enough money together for me to quite my regular job.
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>>23448783
He's more likely to orgasm from masturbation than I am from having sex with a client. Looking at porn is essentially emotional infidelity. Feel free to look that up.

I'm not having sex with these guys for fun. It's work.

>>23448794
I get tested for STDs each week, more often than I have sex with my boyfriend. If he was at risk, I'd let him know. He'd probably understand.
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>>23448820
Congrats on living the dream, friend.
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>>23448827
Well if you guys are having

But most of the girls I know actually tell me about porn they like and share it with me and I've watched porn with girls before( a very odd situation considering I'm virgin but still). So the emotional infidelity thing doesn't make a lot of sense to me. Some of them have talked about watching porn with guys they were dating. So to me it just sounds you just aren't a person who likes porn.

Although please don't misunderstand this as me criticizing you. Like I said I'd probably date someone in your situation if I were actually aware of it. I'm just very ignorant of how human relationships work and very curious is all.
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meant to say if you guys are having sex less than once a week of course he's looking at porn
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>>23448620
>i'm cheating on my boyfriend for money
>it's not really his business
you should be shot
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>>23448850
>you don't like porn
>guys with girlfriends jerking off to porn aren't getting off to other women
>me liking or not liking porn changes what it is

>please don't misunderstand this as me criticizing you
>accuses me of endangering my boyfriend
>claims there's no argument where it's fair for one person to fuck other people
>says he's not criticizing me.

Grow and pair and stick by what you say or find someone else to debate with.
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>>23448827
When you are in an ongoing sexual relationship with someone, especially if they believe it to be exclusive, your sex work is absolutely his business. Besides risking hurting him significantly, emotionally, your sex work puts him at greater risk of contracting an STD. Some things (like genital warts) can be spread even while wearing condoms.

I'm not saying the risk isn't worth it, but he deserves to know so he's properly informed of the risk next time he wants to stick his dick in you. Just talk about that shit, trust is important.
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>a/s/l
f/18/usa
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
stripping
>How well do you maintain your double life?
its not hard...
>Will you tell your significant other?
they know
>How much do YOU make?
on a good night 500-1000 on a bad night i have even lost money...
>Do you like it?
its not the worst.
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
be careful where you decide to work, lots of creeps try and sell strippers like slaves
>Things you've learned?
my dad likes too sneek out get drunk and go to strip clubs D;
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>>23448827
masturbating addresses a physical need, there isnt any emotion about it. You're a fucking retard senpai
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>>23448948
lmao what? did your dad go to the club you work at?
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>>23448948
How does a stripper lose money....
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>>23448971
yes :( he is one of my biggest tippers D: i've had to give him lap dances more than 6 times :(
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>>23448986
uh wow that's really creepy to be honest dude
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>>23448979
a guy ripped a really expensive piece of clothing i was borrowing from the club, my asshole of a boss made me pay for a new one. i went home $300 in the hole that night :(
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>>23448991
the worst part is i cant tell him because he doesnt know i work there :(
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>>23448997
You probably could have made 300 for a hole
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>>23449007
probably..
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>>23449003
>i've given my dad lap dances
>he doesn't know i work there
is your dad literally blind? what the fuck
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>>23448876

I'm not debating. I'm just going by what sounds logical to me but like I said I'm very bad with other people and have never been in a relationship or had sex and have no idea how that stuff even happens.

But masturbation is a biological urge and has nothing to do with any emotional attachment as someone else pointed out. I was just saying it's presumptious of you to say that he'd understand if you suddenly told him you had an std from selling yourself when you don't really know that since he doesn't even know you're doing it to begin with. I can't imagine

In a reverse of this situation I'm sure if a guy were having sex with money and dating a girl I'm sure the vast majority of women I know would not be ok with not knowing about this.

I'm not criticizing you. I'm trying to look at this logically. And I don't see how fucking other people when the other person can't is logical.

And my comment about you not liking porn(which you also pretty much don't argue with) is because I know girls who watch porn themselves with or without significant others or even just for fun and it just seems like a really insignificant thing
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>>23449032
he's always completely wasted he got called out on going to strip clubs by a friend of his and he couldnt even remember going....
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>>23449003
were you just so caked in makeup and he was so hammered he didn't know? how does this even happen

Also since you're a stripper can I ask something? If you didn't have an so would you be ok with a customer trying to get your number? I've considered asking before but I didn't want to hassle them or make them uncomfortable and I know clubs are usually assholes about girls not giving out numbers.
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>>23449051

:/ I'm sorry to hear that. Do you really have to do it though? Can't you just tell your boss "Hey this is literally my dad and I'm not comfortable with this?"
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>>23449061
were not allowed to on company time but if you were to ask me on my way out it would be fine.
>>23449078
i do tell him, but the asshole is so greedy he makes me. if he isnt around the other girls will take my place.
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>>23449095
Well that's nice of your coworkers to help you How long have you been stripping?
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>>23448620
Yeah, once you're in an exclusive relationship, it becomes his business who you have sexual intercourse with.
Like, I've seen the string of rationalisation through this thread and I can't be fucked linking to all of it, but

>masturbation/porn
Nope. Not equal. Sounds like you're trying to make this a tit-for-tat in your mind. "If he's basically doing the same thing, it's ok for me to do it too".

I think everyone has missed the point though. You're lying to your partner, have been since you started, and now will continue to for the rest of your relationship, and beyond if he stays in your life. The adjective I'm going to go with is "toxic".
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>>23449111
since about a week after i turned 18. so a month before my junior year of high school ended. im in my senior year now.
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>>23448948
Have you tried camming?
Like I've just read that you lose money, and that you struggle with the people you work with, your boss etc.
If the picture is you, you're objectively attractive and should be able to make a killing on a generic cam-site. Knocks out the overheads of outfits, you avoid being under the thumb of a would-be pimp and don't have to grind your twat on your dad's hard-on (although to be fair anon, I have trouble believing that).

I'm so bored I'm giving economic advice on stripping. Send help.
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>>23449166
too many guys i know would see.
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>>23448979
not that poster but basically the girls at the club I work at (and am leaving for in 20 minutes), girls get charged rent, late fees, they have to sell so many drinks/do so many stages and if they dont meet that quota they get charged, etc, so if you sold 2 dances but didn't sell any drinks, you were late and you missed a stage you'd walk away with like 20 dollars, which is usually what the average person would spend on smokes/booze/food
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>>23449192
>too many guys I know would see

If your father shows up at the strip club, chances are pretty high that guys from your school that know you might end up going there with their buddies whenever they hit the age limit of the club or bring fake IDs. Some of them you might not even have noticed before.

I'd actually say there's a less chance of people finding you out while camming.
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>>23449248
guys i would rather not see me naked would see me. the only guys from my school who go to my club are jocks and rich kids. im not friends with any of them. none of my male friends would ever go to a club.
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>>23448620
Seeing this makes me so unbelievably pissed. My ex used to do this to pay for school and I was the first person she told about it. She stopped right before we got together. If I found she was still "working" with me I would never talk to her again.

You're a disloyal piece of shit. Rationalize it however you want. When you're in a relationship with someone it is their business. Fuck off with your "It's my business, it's how I pay for college"

Break up/Come clean/Or figure something else out if you're going to keep your "boyfriend" involved
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>>23449192
Honestly this seems like more of a concern stripping locally in a club where your dad came in and solicited you for dances multiples time

Plus camming would give you an added layer of deniability since it's a lot harder to prove it's actually you and not some girl who looks like you
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>>23449279
maybe...
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Interested in sugaring but in a relationship. So I'd like to keep it discreet. Is it likely I could find people who are cool with that, or are they usually demanding enough of time/jealous/possessive enough that keeping my real relationship and my relationships4dollas separate is unrealistic?
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>>23448827
>except when the john has a really huge dick. Then it's usually extremely good.

>I'm not having sex with these guys for fun. It's work.

Holy shit fuck off with your special reasoning. You don't get to decide for him "He'd probably understand"? No, you go fucking ask him and let him decide
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>>23449122
I don't think I missed the point. Since like I told her I'd be ok with this in a situation where I was dating someone if I knew and could fuck other people and I repeatedly cited that the issue I saw with this was that he didn't know and should know if they are dating.
But between this and >>23449269

really reinforces what I was saying about my own viewpoint.
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>>23449192
Subtly figure out which site they use, don't use that site.

I see your point though.
>>23449262
Is actually a pretty cool point of view.
But still, it's not exactly healthy or safe in a club.
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>>23449286
It's worth considering. And if nothing else it'd be a lot safer than working in a club and you don't have to worry about paying your boss 300 bucks for clothing that a customer ruined. Plus like you said yourself strippers get treated and sold like slaves. And I'd hate to see you or anyone end up in that situation.

The bottom line is to do what you're most comfortable with. But logically what you're most comfortable with should be whatever option is safest for you.

Plus you wouldn't have to give your dad lap dances anymore.
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>>23448827
>this fucking whore
Jesus Christ at least I'm not her
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>a/s/l
26/f/midwest
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
All of the above except stripping
>How well do you maintain your double life?
extremely well.
>Will you tell your significant other?
hell no, it would destroy him
>How much do YOU make?
best day i've had $1000.. most days 1-$200
>Do you like it?
90% of the time
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
always get checked, get a gun, and get the money FIRST
>Things you've learned?
How to pretend to be confident. how to dominate men. How to get literalllllyyyyy anybody off. I'm good at what I do.
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>>23449580
>Will you tell your significant other?
>hell no, it would destroy him

I don't hate you for your life choice. I hate you for being a cheating whore.
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>>23449580

You're a whore for an average of $1400/wk? Really lol
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>>23448827
Porn is emotional infidelity? Haha, as if (emotionally healthy) guys attach anything to porn what so ever. It's purely for the visual, and to stimulate the imagination.

Looking stuff up isn't a great source either - 99% of the internet is bullshit these days, especially anything remotely related to sexuality. Most of the supposedly peer reviewed scientific/medical papers etc I've read online are so fraudulant/mass produced to get the writers numbers up, it's hilarious.
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fuck these cheating whores. this is why i'm SINGLE. no guilt and i'm not destroying myself by constantly lying on top of breeding for dollars
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>>23448620
kill yourself
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>>23449580
>>23448827

When this inevitably blows up in your face, you better hope you have some good people to stick by your side. Just remember you might not make mistakes but that dumbass you just fucked? He might say the wrong things too many times and suddenly you're going down with him. My ex narrowly escaped it and she said she was hiding it so well too...All I can say is good luck
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If I found out a girl cheated on me, I'd go out of my way to tell every guy I see taking an interest in her after I dumped your ass.
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>>23449820
Nice ass. Hope you find something better if that's your goal
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>>23449820
nice brown hole. whats it smell like?
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>>23449920
i really like what i do. no really. i was born a slut i want to die a whore. i want to write a book about the hobby. i can't see myself working a proper job any time soon but hopefully i grow up before i meet with a terrible fate
>>23449943
roastbeef
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>ITT: comparing literally whoring yourself out to watching porn

shoot yourself troll
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>>23449732
better than I made working a shitty warehouse job
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>>23449988
Nothing wrong with enjoying it. Not the safest career but at least you haven't convinced yourself that having a boyfriend in the dark is okay
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I'm a male shagging the landlady for free rent.
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>>23448827
>porn is essentially emotional infidelity

HahahahahHBHHhahahhahhahahahaha

Please.
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>>23448620
Should tell your BF
>>23448731
Porn isn't cheating in anyway, unless you are delusional enough to think all orgasms he has must be with you... in which case all of yours should be with him and not Johns with big dicks.
>>23448827
STD's can also take up to 6 months to show up... in which case your BF will have contracted it from you well before the test confirms it. AKA he is at risk and you should tell him.
TLDR
>You are a joke.
>Men everywhere appreciate your services
>Your BF won't when he gets aids from you
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bump for stories
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I'm a male, and I'd do it, don't know if i have the body/face for it though.
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>>23448820
how hot is she? how hot r u?
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>>23450379
think he is actually troll
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>>23448575
>>a/s/l
21/f/France (Paris)
>>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
Escorting
>>How well do you maintain your double life?
It's easy. My parents are not in the same town and i pretend i work in a supermarket. Plus i am single.
>>Will you tell your significant other?
No
>>How much do YOU make?
100-300 in day.
>>Do you like it?
It depends on the guy. But i choose mature men and they are more gentle. So it's not bad.
>>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Candom and select carefully the customer
>>Things you've learned?
How i can seduce men
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>>23449095
Why am I so turned on by this scenario?
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>>23448620
>It's none of his business.


Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooow.
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>>23449580

Lose weight.
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>>23448575
>>Things you've learned?
cock makes you dumb
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>>23449804
Yeah, this is why I was confused by her comparison of watching porn/masturbation(a normal healthy thing that even people in relationships do from every account I've heard) is "emotional infidelity." If I watch porn there is no emotional attachment. I'm not in love or have feelings for whoever I'm watching. It's entertainment/strictly to satisfy biological urges. I have no idea what she was on about and honestly feel vindicated calling her out since literally no one agrees with her

And the fucked up thing is where she tried to

>>23451049
This is where I'm at too. I actually work out so my body isn't horrible(in fact I know literally 1 person who has worked as male escort/cam whore and he's shorter and in worse shape than me) but I've told I'm not good looking enough to be a male stripper otherwise I'd totally do that.

>>23451753
You are very cute. How much do you usually charge?
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>>23449864
>good people

Any 'good people' they know would refuse to ever talk to them ever again if they found out they were cheating on their partners.

Its something only worthless people do.
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>>23449127
Just because something isn't the worst thing you could be doing doesn't make it something worth doing..what do you need all that money for anyway?
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>>23451970
>You are very cute. How much do you usually charge?
I charge 300 euros for one hour or 100 for a blowjob. Sometimes they give me more for all night but i do that rarely.
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>>23451753
You a hot?

Weirdest request?

Do you do anal?

Ever had a threesome on the job?
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>>23451753
Charlotte c'est toi ?
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>>23449820
You're probably single because of your retarded archaic views on sex.
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>>23452551
>You a hot?
Don't understand sorry.
>Weirdest request?
A guy order a blowjob at his office. It was pretty weird to talk with his secretary about the appointment when i came to his office. Definitely not the first escort he met during his work time by the smile she made.
>Do you do anal?
No anal.
>Ever had a threesome on the job?
Yes one, but i don't like it. Not awful but not my kind of stuff.

>>23452590
Non pas du tout. :)
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>a/s/l
25 / bi cis male/ USA

>What are you doing?
I'm actually a submissive bottom, but found that Dom/Tops have lucrative enterprises on craigslist and backpage.

I started out on CL and Grindr, but then finessed my way up into collarme, backpage and fetlife.


I ask for 'roses' from older 'GENtlemen' to do all the 'degrading things they want'.

We talk a bit on kik, then we have a video chat (my face our of focus), then we have an appointment.

I book appointments, spell out dos and don'ts, and prepare the needed equipment. I typically don't do penetrative anal sex, but would rather use dildos and buttplugs due to disease transmission risk. I'm also on PrEP.


Also, while most guys doing this have a preference for 'married/MWM', I have an aversion to it because I don't want to get in the way of a marriage. I tell them outright to show me ring finger (to check for discoloration) or it's off.

No scat, no blood, no drugs, no diseases, all else is fine.

>How well do you maintain your double life?
Originally I just made them host, and typically still do.

I only use kik or a throwaway email.

However my roommate's uncle has a basement/cellar outside of town that he converted to a nice place to keep his tools (handyman), and since he moved out of state until summer I keep my bondage equipment there.

Otherwise by not revealing any of my contact info, real name, or anything that can be associated with me.

When I drive, I park the car sometimes absurdly far away, so they don't take down my make, model, year, color and plates.

>Will you tell your significant other?
I don't have an s/o, and would feel it would be inappropriate to have one when my time is devoted to this 'business' and studying.
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>>23453054
When I get back into the dating game, I would be honest about what I've done, and have no issue
>How much do YOU make?
I averaged out to 10 appointments per week, 100 'roses' per hour, 2 hours per session. So that's 2,000/week supplementary income, combined with the socks and underwear I sell can go up to 2,500 at times.

>Do you like it?
Being in the dominant headspace is.. unnerving... but I just block out the discomfort, man up and just do it.

>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Don't do it if your heart really isn't into it.

Get tested often,

use PrEP, Gardisil, or whatever your doctor recommends,

be open with your doctor,

don't be afraid to tell a psychologist if you're uncomfortable,

keep your identity on the DL,

wear protection

>Things you've learned?
Upper middle class gay men happen to like meth in a greater proportion than the general population. I tell them 'NO T, NO 420, poppers fine' but some still want to offer it anyway.
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>>23448620
>Escorting and camming
>Nah. It's not his business.

>Escorting
>Not his business

I've done some fucked up things, but this is really fucked up.

It's as if you entered a contract with an employer with the expectation that a previous non-compete clause is in effect (through some clause like 'the existing working relationship will be assumed') and you just go out and moonlight anyway, stating
>well, it wasn't EXPLICITLY in the contract
when you damn well know it's implied.

You damn well know that when you started a relationship with someone, there is an expectation of exclusivity from the other person-

in exchange for exclusivity of his sexual and romantic activities except for those with you.

That's not event to mention the increased risks you bring him of:
>STDs
>Guys and their embittered wives and girlfriends stalking him

Not to mention:
>His opportunity cost where he could be spending this time with someone else
>His opportunity cost where he could be spending time with multiple women while still claiming to be your boyfriend, as you spend your time with multiple men while still claiming to be his girlfriend


Yes it is his fucking business. I'm glad everyone in this thread is shitting on you.

>>23448731
Are you some elaborate troll?
>He should be allowed to look at porn,
I'm sure he would have no problem with you looking at porn
> talk about sex with his bros
I'm sure he would have no problem with you talking about sex with whoever
> and masturbate whenever he likes
I bet you $1,000 cash that he would have no problem with you masturbating.

>but I'm a bad person for not telling him how I'm paying for an education.

These mental gymnastics are astounding. No, you're a bad person for having sex with other men, and even more so having sex with other men without telling him about it, and even more so, expecting him to go along for the ride with you by the mere fact that you keep secrets from him.

Because he might leave you otherwise.
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>>23448764
>Brings up implied expectation of exclusivity and implied right to know the risks associated with a certain transaction

>Le Cletus meme

>>23448827
>He's more likely to orgasm from masturbation than I am from having sex with a client

So you have action 1
>Him masturbating to porn
Which you don't like, but which he does not keep a secret from you, and you in turn allow him to do while still keeping a relationship with him.

and action 2
>You fucking other guys
Which he probably wouldn't like, but which you keep a secret from him, and he in turn may not allow you to do while still keeping a relationship with you.

>Looking at porn is essentially emotional infidelity
So your argument is that his transgression of emotional infidelity is equal to or greater than your infidelity, and you still keep a relationship with him

therefore your infidelity is justified, and he should keep a relationship with you.


What you're missing is the fact that the former is not kept a secret from you, the latter is kept a secret from him.

>What_Is_Asymmetric_information.PPTX

> He'd probably understand.
If he's probably understand, then why not tell him?
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>>23451986
I mean dude I'm sure some people actually enjoy stripping or at least think it's easy for the amount of money they get

>>23453168
lol did you read up to where she defended against the std comments by stating that she gets tested once a week and that's more than she fucks her boyfriend
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>>23454196

>the std comments by stating that she gets tested once a week

Yes it ignores the fact that
>a.
At any given point between testing,

she may have contract a trasmittible STI

whose nondetectability can skip multiple testings,

during which time she may be performing an act with her boyfriend in which tranission may occur.

Compounded upon multiple acts and over a period of time, the chance of him getting an STI increases purely statistically.

>b.
The usual battery of tests only focuses on several STI , since it's logistically unfeasible to cover everything.

It's therefore quite possible that she may be transmitting or has transmitted something that testing did not detect.

Why are you defending this piece of garbage, and doing so badly at that?
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>>23454310
>>23454310
What? I'm not defending her at all what are you talking about

I'm the person who called her out and she was arguing with in the posts your quoted of hers. Check the post ids
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>>23452702
Interesting.

You are hot.

Was the 3some mmf of ffm

Any other weird stories?

Have you really liked a client and given then extra?
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I've lost control of myself. After leaving the military the and fiance leaving me while I was on tour, I've been nothing but bitter and lonely. It's been six years. I've deleted my Facebook and all social media because I could care less for it. I cover my depression with a smile and act normal. At night I just lie down and think to myself and it fucking hurts how lonely I am. I tried curing it with multiple hookers and one night stands but nothing beats the feeling of falling asleep and holding someone you love. Sure the sex is great but in the long run, I yearn for human contact.

I love all you even though I may never know you in real life. Find what you're looking for and money can't buy true happiness.
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>>23454509
Mea culpa anon.

It's just she got me to rage so hard, (combined with upcoming exams and a couple flakes yesterday), I lost my cool for a second.

>>23454310
Forgot to mention
>c.
Even if the possible increase is marginally low by these activities (assuming protection, preventative medications, selectivity, and frequent testing), say 1%,

(the very fact that it cannot be 0 means that a risk will always be present):

not telling him would still constitute a violation of the agreed upon relationship, and in come cases may be be a legally recognized offense.
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Guy here. Is it ok to wear a mask or something? Are there specific cam sites or in general is it ok? I don't really want to reveal my face.
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>>23451753
If I ever go to France, I would love to spend time with you.
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>>23448986
And he doesn't know that it's you? I smell bullshit
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>>23448620
If you and your boyfriend are serious than I'd say it is his business.
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>>23455077
oh anon you're in for some great reading after that post you quoted
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18 M Australia

I am male (although I x dress a lot) prostitute in melbourne paying his way through a science degree. I do all sorts of stuff. BJ's, fucking, X dressing, pretend dates, scat, piss, group stuff, bukkake, eating out, rimming, bdsm pretty much anything you can think of...

>What am i doing?
Im doing a lot of prostitution work, mainly for guys but some girls. I have a couple of daddys who like to send me things like sexy girls clothes, sex toys and other girly stuff. Also do some camming but I dont enjoy that....

>Maintain double life
I dont ahhaa everybody im mates with knows about it and they are all chill, im luckt in australia as prostitution is legal.

>Sig other
Dont have one

>How much do I make
ABout 750 a day for three or 4 hours work with weekends off, which is awesome, prices depends on what the clients want. Stuff like scat costs a hella lot (though i enjoy it) due to its risky nature. But lesser fetishes dont cost that much.

>DO I like it
Yes, best job ever, apart from the pay it also has great hours I get to meet all sorts of people. i get to have lots of great sex and explore all sorts of kinks

>advice
Always inspect clients genitalia for STI's. Always have someone who knows what you do/where your going. Advertise well. Have lots of pics for clients to inspect. Be nice, one of the reasons people use you is cause they are loney, dont just fuck them, talk to them as well.

>Things ive learnt.
How to give an almighty blowy

If you would like to see me dressed have a look here http://crossydossy.tumblr.com

ANy questions?
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>>23455860
you look like a bigger faggot than that cory worthington

No offence
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>>23454517
>You are hot.
Thanks :)
>Was the 3some mmf of ffm
mmf so maybe that's why i didn't love it. A little too rough i guess and i wasn't really comfortable.
>Any other weird stories?
Well i met a guy for his first time. That wasn't that weird but this is the kind of thing you remember. But i am the GFE kind of girl so i meet mostly men who want a good fuck with a cute student and not a porn actress.
>Have you really liked a client and given then extra?
Yes sometimes when the client is cute or really nice. And i have two clients i see every week so i don't really count my time and try to fully satisfy them.

>>23455066
Well, i'll be happy to meet you. :)
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>>23456580
Where do you advertise?
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>>23456945
http://tahirasecrete.escortbook.com/
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>>23457090
Maybe when I go to Amsterdam to visit my family I'll have to make a trip to Paris and meet you

If I recall correctly Paris isn't very far(although I've never actually been to France). It'd be nice to visit someplace new anyway.
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>>23457137

yes it is its like 3.5 hours you retard.
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>>23457137
It'd be nice sure. If you plan to go to Paris in car its' 6 hours and hours by train. But if you're motivate why not. ;)
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>>23457150
How am I a retard? I knew it's fairly close but I've never been to France as I said and I haven't been to the Netherlands in almost half my life. This was unnecessary.
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I mean why would I know exactly how close they are? I live in the US and have my entire life aside from the like half a year I went to school in Germany when my mom was working there. The fact I even know the Netherlands and France border each other is more than I can say for most people I know.
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>>23457090
You are really pretty! What are you studying?
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>>23448575
>to pay for college
I love how sluts use this to justify what they're doing. "I-I'm paying for college! A girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!!11!!"
You're completely ruining yourself and trading in your perception of men/love/intimacy/finance for your shitty liberal arts degree (which you will use for nothing once you've trapped some poor beta into fatherhood).
Even if you argue that you don't care that you'll never find a self-respecting husband without hiding your past completely, you're literally taking the easiest possible route to your mediocre "successful" career, and it takes away from any actual sense of accomplishment.
And eventually, any actual success you may obtain will eventually be over ridden by the fact that photos of your asshole probably still openly exist on the internet.
The fact that you've participated in sex work (especially cam whoring) will follow you for life, and shut so many doors for you.
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>>23457090
on the one hand i feel like that's a lot for overnight but on the other hand you're pretty and if I made that sort of side trip I feel like I'd have to keep you overnight

>>23457280
man take your slut shaming elsewhere. how is yours or anyone elses business what they do with their bodies or lives? Some people actually enjoy it.
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>>23457320
"she" posted pictures with facebook filename, not sure if legit
just sayin'
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>a/s/l
27/f

>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
Just some sugaring, online only.

>How well do you maintain your double life?
It's not hard as I am not doing it hardcore.

>Will you tell your significant other?
Nope.

>How much do YOU make?
Not much, a couple hundred a week. It helps pay the gas and so I dont have to eat shitty food all week.

>Do you like it?
Yep, its fine. I did a lot of digital sales before and it helped me discuss the "arrangements" or making deals.

>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Start slow perhaps. It can be overwhelming. Having tough skin will also help, I wish mine was tougher.

>Things you've learned?
How to not be pushed around by buyers, buyers of digital goods and sugar daddies alike. And learning how to say no.
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>>23448979
Typically girls pay for stagetime, at least around here. If you plan badly you can end up paying for slots with like, 2 guys around the stage. Doesn't really matter how good you are if nobody's watching.

>>23449032
What the fucking mcwhat what WHAAAAT, are you like, actually me?
>>23456636
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>>23457357
She also posted a link to her ad so if those pics are legit she's likely real

And considering I just had sex for the first time with an escort from backpage I've learn that with enough research unless someones really new at it's not that hard to find out how legit they are.

At least with Americans it's often as simple as just plugging their phone number into facebook if they aren't using a throw away phone lol

And I think if the body shots on the site she linked to were real that's good enough. I don't actually care what girls look like since I'm told I'm not especially good looking and I've never been successful with women anyway. Girls who advertise online often use fake pics and it's always a gamble but so far I've been pretty lucky to have both girls I've fucked be exactly the ones in their pics(and one of them literally used pics from her facebook and the same phone number so it was easy to find)
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>>23457320
Hahaha, slut shaming. Of course.
Another way that sluts justify this. Feminism.
Keep clinging to those ideals, I hope that you can continue to cling to them when your future children are able to pull up photos of you with a black dildo in your ass.
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>>23452634
no, i'm single because i'm not a lying whore. just a whore.
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>>23448575


>20/f/virginia
>escorting
>no significant other
>$500-$800/week
>love the money hate the men
>dont get into it, you will learn to hate men forever
>that men are horrific, but easy to control. how to make a man cum early before he gets to fuck so i collect without fucking, my favorite trick. how to document the men so i can come back for more money later if i need to.
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>>23448620
lol if i was your boyfriend and I found out you were doing this behind my back I'd murder you slowly and painfully your worthless cheating cunt.
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>>23457502
I'm not a girl. I just don't particularly care if a girl is selling themselves if that's want they want to do. And neither should you. It's none of our business.

Unless it's a situation like the first girl who posted in this thread is in. But everyone already tore her apart for that including some of the other sex workers.
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>>23457518
I can somewhat imagine how awful the men are. I don't think I'd ever survive whoring in real life. Oof.
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>>23457579
The girl I had sex with last week for my first time said that she'd been robbed at gun point by customers and had guys try to rape her(although fortunately not succeeding) and now she keeps a gun on her and

But she that there have been really nice guys that she actually enjoyed being around or fucking.

And I mean it's just as risky to be the guy. I've read all sorts of reports and talked to people who pay for sex who have had girls just straight up rip them up and run out on them first chance they get, set them up to get beaten up or robbed, held at gun point, etc

It's really not the safest thing for either sex and there are awful people on both ends. Just like everywhere else in the world.

Besides look at people like the first poster in this thread who was jumping through hoops trying to justify why it was none of her boyfriend who she is in an exclusive relationship with business
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>>23457594
Yeah I guess you're right.
People in general are shitty as fuck.
I am just all too familiar with the entitled, arrogant, pigs that bother me even when I'm not trying to whore. I mean, I get them at the bar when Im just trying to have a drink with a friend. I get them unsolicited on facebook. So it's not difficult to imagine how much worse they are when you're doing prostitution. It's the things that are unique to men that I am imagining, although I completely concede that people are pieces of shit in general regardless of sex, race etc.
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Of course this is also why the US should legalize and regulate prostitution like countries have.
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>>23457567
You sound like the biggest cuck in the entire world.
Men are starting to call themselves feminists and spouting sjw garbage to appeal to women, but nothing makes my vagina more dry.
It's like, I will now have to physically go and put lubricant on my vagina to avoid chafing from the dryness you massive faggot.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MEWXzLuJ3sY
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>>23457608
And this
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>>23449820
34 m maryland kik: solidwill1981 luv that ass. Hmu!
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>>23457612
I never said I'm a feminist though and I have no idea where you got this. I don't care or know anything about feminism or politics in general really. I just don't think it's my place to judge how other people want to live their lives as long as they aren't hurting anyone or themselves. It has nothing to do with being a cuck. It just doesn't matter. Sex is a fun thing. Why not capitalize if you can/want to?

>>23457606
See women say this stuff about men but I know women who treat guys like this too even if it's far fewer.

But honestly I don't see how people are supposed to meet the opposite sex with without approaching them wherever they are. And I've had both men and women tell me it's the only way I"ll probably get anywhere(although it doesn't really work for me so I just don't bother or care anymore). I actually hate feeling like I'm bothering women but what you're describing does work for a lot of guys I know. Otherwise they wouldn't keep doing it. Plus that's literally why a lot of people go to bars at all. To socialize. Otherwise it just makes sense to get booze or weed and get fucked up at home by yourself or with friends.

Plenty of women I know are entitled though and don't have much going for them themselves but think they deserve a model boyfriend. Most people aren't realistic. It's not a single gender thing.
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and if i were really a cuck I'd wouldn't have called out the first poster in this topic's bullshit arguments about how her selling herself is none of her committed relationship boyfriend's business and she didn't have to tell him because she allowed him to masturbate and watch porn

lmao that whole thing still just kills me
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>>23457659
Approaching is fine. I don't get bothered.
It's coming up to me, slapping my ass, me pushing them away, and them telling me Ill be sorry for telling them to fuck off when I "find out who they are". Entitled fucking pigs. Im sure a lot of that shit works with dumb bimbos who wanna fuck for the night. Im just not one of them.

As I said, people are shit, but as you described, each sex has their unique experience with the other.
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>>23457579

that's why i only work 1 night a week, i spend the rest of the week trying to forget those assholes

i do have a few nice guys now and then, dont get me wrong, they are awkward af but they are kindof fun, i tease them along and get them to cum early and they get all apologetic, its funny to me

im kindof a guy hater now desu though, if it werent for getting paid i'd be asexual
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>>23457699
To be fair I was in a bar/arcade once and the machines were free and I was playing skeeball and this persian girl comes up and steals my throws then she's like playing with my hair and grabs my ass. I honestly had no idea what was going on and she gave me her number because the people I was with told me to ask for it(and it's to this day the only time I have ever gotten a number from a girl I asked). It didn't bother me because she was attractive(way more attractive than girls I typically get rejected by even) but I guess it would have if I were someone it actually happened to a lot or who didn't basically get no attention ever.

But I understand where you're coming from. Although I've definitely heard women both "dumb bimbos" and otherwise admit that the degree of what they put up with does correlate to how attractive they find the guy

People are just different. We all have different wants/interests/quirks. Even among overly similar groups. Good for you I suppose if you're not interested and just don't put up with that shit though.

And even a lot of girls and guys I know who sleep around around want to actually date someone and haven't found the right person(although there are still both guys and girls who are dumb bimbos as you described;I just think it's unfair to pigeonhole people for willingly having casual sex because that by itself doesn't actually say much about a person's intentions overall). Nothing wrong with people getting laid in the mean time.
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But yeah I don't think it's ok to just walk to people you don't know and start manhandling them. But again there are women who do that too even though it's overly associated with men.
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>>23457376
Oh woops. I messaged the wrong anon... this is my brain on no hours of sleep! Redirect to >>23448948
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>>23456580
You are a cutie


Can I see the merchandise? Boobs and pussy?

Ever done a solo show for anyone?

How often do you Cum?
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>>23458001

this anon thinks he'll get it for free

>my sides
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>>23448620
>cheat on your boyfriend for money
Yes it is his business. Are you daft?
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>>23448731
>let other guys stick their dicks in you for money is anything like stroking yourself in the privacy of your own home
Is this real life?
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Everyone blaming the "whores" in this thread for doing what they do is missing the point; they aren't immoral people because they do this shit. Rather, it's because they're immoral that they do it.

Whether or not they've decided to act in this way doesn't change who they are, and why they're going to be terrible SOs regardless. I'd wager that most of them have a cluster B personality disorder, as this is fairly typical behavior in that setting.

...Most of them are probably trolling you virgins, though. The "THIS IS WHY I'M SINGLE FUCK WOMEN" responses are baited pretty easily.
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>>23448731
Masturbating is not the same as cheating. You're intentionally keeping your double life from your BF.
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>>23458408
>>23448731
Yeah. It's selfish to take that decision away from him, and extremely vindictive.
If you told him and he accepted you, then whatever.
But if you know he wouldn't be okay with it (you do know) then you're straight up lying.
Omitting information is lying.
If your boyfriend had another girlfriend or a female fuck buddy but just never said anything because you never asked, and omitted that information, you would freak out and slash his tires.
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18/f/USA

Used to cam, found it more lucrative to sell photos and premade videos to individuals

Very well, sucks to not keep up with irl friends on social media sometimes

He knows, makes videos at times with me

Depending how much I'm online I make 100 to 250 a day, generally. Sometimes more. Record was 2k in one day

It's ok. Some ppl make it frustrating others are nice and make what I do worth it and worth the money.

Don't ever let anyone get you down about looks, there's rude people everywhere, if there's one person willing to pay, clearly you got something.

Sex sells, period. And don't be ashamed to do it.
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>>23448827
Just when I think I could handle dating a younger immature girl I read something like this and remind myself of why I don't date under the age of thirty anymore
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>a/s/l
Male 21 US
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
Stripping/Escort
>How well do you maintain your double life?
Very well, no one knows.
>Will you tell your significant other?
haven't been in a real relationship since starting.
>How much do YOU make?
Enough to live on.
>Do you like it?
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Be smart, don't lower your standards.
>Things you've learned?
Most "straight" men aren't straight.
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>a/s/l
20/female/Midwest
>What are you doing? Sugaring? Stripping? Escorting? Camming? Some or all of the above?
Stripping, and curious about camming
>How well do you maintain your double life?
I don't, I'm very open about it.
>Will you tell your significant other?
I don't have one
>How much do YOU make?
I only work weekends and make over $1,000 each time
>Do you like it?
I love it!
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Your friends and family will probably find out. Know yourself before you do it.
>Things you've learned?
I've learned to be assertive, to love my body, blah blah whatever yea
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>>23458174
The only person I've seen giving anyone shit for being fucking whores based on their posts seems to actually have been a woman.

Most of the people don't seem to care in this thread aside from about the girl who works as an escort but her bf doesn't know

And even the other sex workers were giving her shit.

Like I said I'd probably actually date someone who did but only if I knew about it and were allowed to fuck other people. The problem is she was literally jumping through hoops to justify why it wasn't her "boyfriend"'s business when it totally was since he was under the impression they were in a commited relationship and had no idea. She literally tried to justify it by saying that allowing him masturbating and watching porn is the same thing. Which it's not. And even if it were the difference is she knew about that and he didn't know she's selling herself and putting him at risk for stds.

There weren't really any this is why i'm single fuck women posts. But there have been a few this is why I'm single posts from the girls lol
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>>23459251
>Midwest

Indiana?

Worth a shot
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>>23459325
Illinois
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>>23451970
Yep, my GF has no problem with me watching porn alone, or getting off to it solo when she's not in the mood/too tired etc, but she'd rip my dick off if I slept with another woman. She sometimes enjoys porn with me or (very rarely) by herself too.

Porn & cheating aren't even remotely related, and I'm fed up with all the idiots who try to tell people they are, so they can justify some bullshit they're pulling on their own partner.
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>>23457503
I respect that. Keep up the good work.
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>>23458174
The only "This is why I'm single fuck women" response was from one of the upstanding whores who ISN'T cheating on anyone to do her job? Pretty sure none of the guys have said it so far.
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Hello again boys and girls. Hopefully the dust has settled.

Tonight was quite..interesting. For the sake of confidentiality I won't reveal too many details, but it was my first experience with a sub hierarchy.

>>23457503
Your logical consistency is absolutely commendable.
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>>23453082
What is PrEP or gardisil?
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>a/s/l
24/M/Aus
>What are you doing?
Sugar
>How well do you maintain your double life?
It's not much of a double life, just means I can't spend my nights socialising like everyone else
>Will you tell your significant other?
She knows, but we aren't entirely exclusive
>How much do YOU make?
She's paying for my degree, so technically I'm not paid anything, but I've done the math and I am one expensive whore
>Do you like it?
I enjoy the sex, but it does feel ethically wrong to me, particularly when my SO is in debt for her degree
>Advice for people thinking of getting into it?
Be prepared to do things you're uncomfortable with, and don't be afraid to say no if the request is too ridiculous, just always have a way to make it up to her.
>Things you've learned?
Prostitution is incredibly common and has an unspoken acceptance with a great many people you wouldn't expect it from
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>>23448827
You make a bad name for not only girls in the industry but girls as a whole.
I hope he finds out in the worst way. Hopefully he pays for whore and sees your ad, calls yoi and both of you are crushed
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>>23448731
Your a bad person for fucking strange men while he believes that he is in an exclusive relationship. But you know that else wise you would have told him. Then again your whole story is full of shit so fuck off.
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