What apps do you kids use nowadays to date/flirt?
Fuck apps, i'm 22
I go outside, I find a fucking personal approach much easier, can read their body language and no bullshit reply time.
I dunno
But again im not from the land of consumers.
>>23272914
Then why are you here?
>>23272905
I don't, flirting has only ended up with me getting hit with restraining orders, faces full of drinks and makes in the groin
>>23272921
To let us all know hes better than us
>>23272905
Facebook mostly, or snapchat
Only Grindr works, and Grindr is shit.
I've tried OKC and tinder, because outside world dating was failing me.
OKC landed me with nothing but autism and 60+ year old men wanting me to be their barely legal sugar baby or something.
Tinder has been a bust so far since I'm not looking for a one night stand.
I'm growing to accept my fate of dying alone.
>>23274276
OKC has worked for me it just takes a lot of time, especially as a guy.
If you are female you just need to sift through the guys you find physically attractive, talk to a few of them till you find a good one. As a guy you need to message 50 girls to get 20 replies if you are handsome and then you need to compete with the other 50 guys each of those girls is messaging.
![2bc[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/mCKbkiR.jpg "2bc[1].jpg")
>risky
It's RISQUE you FUCKING normies
This is almost as bad as people who say 'definately'
RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
>>23272905
MeowChat gets me nudes like butter.
>>23274276
Shit, I'd date you if you are female, but you probably aren't local at all sadly.
IRL mostly. It works better than people give it credit for. Just be pleasant to be around. I've punched above my weight in women my whole life and never resorted to cyber dating and have still gotten more action than I feel I should rightly expect, based on my (slightly above average, though barely) appearance, spectacular lack of financial stability and quirkiness.
>>23272905
Whatsapp, snapchat, facebook
>>23272905
9gag app, 9chat app
Thank me later
>>23274321
That is defiantly annoying.
>>23274293
Eh if you're just looking to get laid maybe,
but even still I'd say its tit for tat. If you're a solid 4 your chances of hooking up with the 10/10 dude is probably still very slim. You're competing with the other more attractive girls always, dudes will always bang the hot chicks before coming to the uglies for a half hearted after bang.
But I'm not looking for sex really, and I advertise that as to not waste anyone's time. I try to be courteous about that shit.
I'll just say though I'd kill to have 50 guys clamoring for my attention. In reality I'm lucky to get 2 or 3's attention for longer than 5 minutes. But then again I'm not very attractive so it's no surprise. Usually I get about 2 messages out before a hotter more DTF woman comes along and takes them away. It is what it is.
Honestly I think were all more alike than it seems. Sex isnt the problem its attractiveness. If you're an 8+ you're gonna have an easy time getting laid. If you're below a 5 you're fighting off every single person who outranks you, whether you're a man or a woman.
Only difference I'll give you is men are at least more likely to fuck ugly women for the lulz, but not many women actually feel good about being a pity/lulz fuck. At least I don't, I'd rather just masturbate and probably have a better time anyway.
>>23274398
Probably not lol, which is the other reason tinder failed me. Tinder is not for the type of people who live in tiny ass country towns for most of the year. Even being on a college campus couldn't save me from only getting 2 new dudes to even look at a week. And 80% of them are middle eastern exchange students.
>>23274514
>>23274524
Pity you're having trouble.
I'm in a weird sort of twist. Married to a woman with whom we have discussed polyamory, she had a boyfriend who she dumped because he couldn't understand that she didn't want sex. She wants me to find a girlfriend even though she only has me.
Trouble is, I don't even think I'm over a 5, and just try to get a woman to believe that you're married but encouraged to date even if you're an 8 or better.
>>23274576
Its not that I don't want sex per se, but that I don't want stranger sex. I mean, I'm a virgin so I'm particularly wary of having that awkward "probably going to be painful and suck for everyone involved" first time with just some random asshole. Rather it be someone who knows and understands me ya know?
But also because I question if I'm even capable of having sex, since I'm too tight to even be fingered. Which, if thats the case I'm killing myself because I am not going to live like that.
But I see where your wife is coming from. My issue if I am completely incapable of having penetrative sex is that it would pretty much cripple my chances at even getting married, because I'm sure finding a dude whos willing to stand at third base his whole life is going to be like finding a unicorn. (Props to you if you are one) But I honestly can't see myself sharing either, although I've thought about it, because I'd be convinced he'd fall in love with her and leave me anyways. After all she'd be the whole package, someone to love and to fuck, where as I could only be half that (and from what I've seen not the important half). I've had a complex about feeling second best my whole life really tho, so thats just me.
But yeah, thats a very unique situation although there's a lot of like, swingers and couples who are into 3somes and shit at least if you're into anything like that.
>>23274321
I think they mean risky, as in a message you were taking a risk in sending.
Like saying I love you.
You seem extra angry over something you don't understand.
>>23274524
where are you ms. 4/10
>>23274657
Midwest US
>>23274657
ha, fl. a little far for a date huh
>>23274678
Story of my life lol. Nobody lives in the vast wasteland that is the midwest. Except old people and new young families.
>>23274637
Sorry, I was unclear, she didn't want sex with him specifically. She and I still do.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Have you spoken to a doctor about that? There might be something they could recommend. Alternately, you could always work on gradually stretching using your smallest finger.
>>23274321
>it's risque
actually it's not
>>23274276
I'm guessing your a female?
I guess here is another f experience.
OKC isn't popular here but tindr is.
I got a 1 year relationship out of tindr.
Was a great relationship too.
>>23272914
>But again im not from the land of consumers.
Wat
>>23274321
yeah, theyre two different words, troll/noob
Real Life.apk works best.
>>23274637
I hope I don't come off as a total asshole, but.....
Get yourself some lube and a few different vibes. Get some porn or whatever is going to get you turned on. Then lube up and get into it. Don't give up, that's the most important thing. If you can use a tampon then you can be fingered.
And you can always try anal play to, as a standby option.
Oh and try the "system jo" lube. It works really great! ;)
>>23274321
actually risky works fine in this context. congrats on making a fool of yourself
>>23274758
Ah I see. I havent really talked to my doctor, I don't think she'd take me seriously given my age. Like its not a problem that a 20 year old can't have sex, I don't need to be having sex, come back when you're 30 and can't have sex.
But seeing a doctor is about all I havent tried.
>>23276207
I can't use a tampon. I never have been able to, aside from maybe once when I was 12 for about 30 seconds before the pain and discomfort made me decide I didn't want to go swimming that badly. I've tried everything. Nothing goes in, everything hurts/burns. Basically I'm holding out hope that the intimacy of actually being with another human being will loosen me up enough, but I can't do anything penetrative wise myself.
Last dude I was with got about a little more than fingertip in before I flinched. It was like he was hitting a wall, if I had to describe it. But I had literally met that guy that day and didn't really expect to go that far, so I wasn't exactly prepared.
I don't really see anal in my future either, I can hardly take a shit without tearing my asshole and bleeding and its not like I have some crazy diet or anything. Plus its a rather large turn off for me in general.
>>23274524
>Tinder is not for the type of people who live in tiny ass country towns for most of the year
Basically my problem, too. Also the fact that I live in Central Europe shithole doesn't exactly help cause people here don't even use sites like tindr/okc that much
>>23276438
Yup, everyone always says college is for going to parties and socializing and making connections and all that noise, my college life for the past 3 years has been:
>Go to class
>come straight home
>do some homework
>stare at a wall for a while
>go to bed.
All my school has to offer is about 50 different kinds of yoga classes. Which is a tacofest and not exactly a great place to meet guys.
Everyone else goes to the bars but America's shitty priorities ban me from going for another half year at least.
This is what I get for taking a bullet for my sister by going to the really cheap school so she could go to the expensive one out of state in a cool city with lots to do and lots of like minded people.
And I'm here with the "gud ole fashion cuntry boies" in hicksville where everyone is convinced they're a cowboy and their giant ass monster truck doesn't scream "I'm overcompensating"
>>23276469
Well that surely sux. Word of advice tho, try to find a job in a city after you finish the school. I dropped out of the college and now work from home which is pretty fuckin sweet but it also means I have literally no contact with the real world and/or other people. Good luck, you seem like a cool anon.
>>23274637
Pls be my gf
>>23276682
Lol I'm planning on applying for JET after graduation and teach english in Japan. If not that then I'm planning to apply on military bases to teach because I really just wanna get out of the country and see the rest of the world. I'm a high school education major, which unfortunately is also a female dominated career so idk how well I'll find a date through work, but its possible. But yeah, if I am getting stuck in the states I'll def be looking into higher populated cities, but not like big inner city shit schools lol.
>>23276744
Out of curiosity I'm genuinely asking, what about that whole spiel is attractive to you lol? Is it like your fetish or something?
>>23276773
No it's not a fetish. You're made of pure love be my gf pls
>>23276773
Where do you go anon? We have the opposite problem, I'm at a stem school notorious for being full of dudes. Sweaty engineering dudes.
It's in a big city though so I do always find stuff to do. It's just that the only people to do it with are male friends
>>23276947
I'll put it this way, the only major grocery store in town is a Super Walmart and there's literally a cow farm across the street from it. Oh and the biggest event that everyone who lives there waits patiently for every year is the county fair where they can catch the tractor pull demolition derby. I wish I were kidding, every year the whole town flocks to this park to watch tractors beat the shit out of other tractors. Pic related.
Don't get me wrong, my school's population is pretty 50/50 male female wise, but there's just not many in general. And the dude pool to pick from is usually dominated by this one mentality (the "good ole fashion country farm" boy) which isn't anything I'm attracted to. Also since I'm in a major that is dominated by women, meeting guys in class is near impossible. I think there's usually a total of 5 guys I see on the regular because they're in the same major as me. For every 1 dude in my major there's 4 thirsty girls all fighting for the scraps and at least half of them are more attractive than I am.
So getting out there and meeting people, male or female, is a little difficult in my situation. A.) because there's absolutely nothing to do if you're under 21 and B.) because there's just not as many people around to begin with.
At least when may rolls around I can make alcoholism my new hobby and numb the crippling loneliness at one of the 20 bars that encircle campus.
>>23274662
i'm cute and i live in Iowa. if you figure you're thing out we can be friends and I'll take your virginity since that's inexcusable. contact?>>23276395
>>23277476
your*
can't believe i did that
I use snapchat a lot. If anyone wants it its emily40341. Im a girl btw
>>23274644
>>23274788
>>23275399
>>23276223
>can't read subtext that's not explicitly wrote
Unless they're talking about murdering someone or some drug deal, it's risque.
>inb4 no accent on the e hurr
>>23277512
risque is the more appropriate diction but risky is not incorrect.
>>23277476
lol Iowa. I thought only people above 60 were allowed to live there. Just how old are you anon?
I've got grandparents in Ottumwa and Chariton.
>>23277536
hey there's a big college town that you may or may not be familiar with here. that's where I live. I'm 21 and my birthday's in June
>>23277553
Hah, thats what my parents say "All of Iowa isn't Ottumwa, anon!"
But Ottumwa still fucking sucks lol.
Anyways I figure why not, I'll take you up on your friendship offer, my skype is socweeb. I can only do text tho, my cam is shit.
>>23277621
alright added you>>23277621
What about apps like Twitter and Instagram? There are loads of cute girls on there and theres not as much pressure for romantic shit.
Has anyone ever sent a DM? If so how did it turn out and how did you go about doing it?
>>23276395
I'd say talk to your doctor anyway. Most aren't going to judge you, and what's the worst that can happen? They say don't worry about it?
When it says seen but theres no reply after a few hours :/
>>23274678
what part of FL? Tampa Bay area here
