How many matches do you guys get on tinder? I read threads on bodybuilding.com where they state ridiculous numbers like 100 in a few days or 1500 overall...
Also post your photo if possible
if youre attractive you get matches
if you're not attractive you don't
simple as that
>>23269421
I'm asking about numbers. I do get matches
>>23269421
Not really. My girl friends were just swiping yes to all kinds of ugly guys because they liked his bio. You should of said "if you are repulsive you get no matches"
>>23269421
im attractive, I don't get matches. dont be bitter.
I'm black, and i'm somehow doing pretty well on this app
Bump
Post photos and how well you're faring with matches
>>23269550
no shit, it's filled with mudsharks
>>23269717
Lol never heard that one before
Now that timestamps and last active are gone, how long do you wait after messaging a girl before unmatching?
I get probably 3-4 matches a day but I've only messaged one girl because I actually knew her other than that I'm socially retarded. Give me advice, critique, and for fucks sake someone teach me how to open
>>23269910
Don't slouch lol
>>23269932
Would girls honestly swipe left for bad posture in a pic?
I got 8 matches over the course of about 3 months.
>>23269421
That's false, I'm average at best and I get 5-7 matches a day.
i got like 4 matches over 1 month period
>>23269421
>>23270201
Given I live in a college town, am tall, and have a good bio. I get "I loved your bio" all the time.
>>23270207
but it's important that I live in Poland, and people here don't use tinder that much. what is more i swipe left most of the girls i see
>>23270208
post bio then. Or at least a bit.
Swipe right on everything. Don't even look. Whoever you match with start talking to even if they are a hideous ghoul.
This gives you some exposure to the types of girls out there and what does and doesn't keep a convo going.
It also gives you an idea of the type of girls who are swiping right on you.
>>23270180
fuck yes, girls are very judgemental.
>>23269332
Oh Oh I just made one anyone wanna help.w mine (Mines usually not this blurry.)
>>23269910
somehow I already knew you were socially stunted just from these pics.. forced smile, weird poses, weird high school graduation photoshoot... the whole thing just screams shut-in. Maybe try some more natural photos?
recently met up with some tinder bitch
>got to know her, she's actually a bretty cool person
>a week after we met, we netflixed and chilled, she turned out to be a freak in the sheets (my fetish 2bh fayum)
>a week after we fucked, we go to this pizza place
>she pays for the whole tab, even after I offered to help pay for it
Tried texting her after that point, but she started to ignore me, or give me one worded texts.
Oh well lads, at least i've gotten laid+free food out of this.
Ok so here's mine,. Not a lot of photos as you can see and I'm not ready to go active until I've got a decent bio.
I decided against using my crappy general /soc/ pics and included ones with my cat and others socialising with actual people, those pics are four years old though =/
At least it doesn't look like I'm a NEET with no friends though.
I could probably do with some more pics, any tips?
If it's outdoor stuff, I'll need more time, like planning an event with someone I know and I'd prefer my hair to be a little longer than it is, I don't feel confident yet.
>nobody ITT gets 70 matches a day
>people at bodybuilding.com do
Hmm...
At least I feel better now
>>23269474
Grill here.
My process is about the same, if they're remotely attractive (like 6+/10) I check their page. No bio means anyone below an 9 gets the boot, bad bio means they get the boot regardless of looks, good bio even 6's get about a 70% chance of a like.
Oh, then I guess I swipe through the rest of the pics before making a final decision. If they have any of my red flag pictures (small children who I don't know the relation to is a big one. Not after any daddies) it's a no.
>>23271442
eh I think most girls just judge by the first photo so I don't have any bio, also because I think it's pretentious and all that "le short and sweet" shit is unfunny
>>23271442
what size benis do you prefer?
When I was on tinder I had about 900ish matches.
I'm /fit/ which helps massively on tinder and unconventionally attractive which results in chicks either being not interested in the slightest or think I'm really hot.
I just swiped right on everyone while I took a dump each morning.
It's a waste of time reading anyone's profiles you haven't matched with.
Check out who I've matched with, unmatch the dudes and the bots then see who's left. If it's anyone interesting then messege them.
If you're a guy it's a numbers game and it's not in your favour.
Stopped tinder after I met my current girlfriend on fetlife.
Here's a tip I learnt. Don't use a clear face pic as your main picture, use something a bit more ambiguous. It will draw people into your profile much more.
Remade mine about a week ago. At around 110 matches now. Over the two years I have been on it I have met up/slept with 2 girls. I mostly just mess around on it. Any advice for my profile would be appreciated.
>>23271770
Your profile will most likely turn a lot of women off.... anything mentioning "the sheets," although often what they're looking for, doesn't scream "swipe right" but instead "I want your pussy and don't care about anything else."
>>23271770
>110 matches in a week
What le fuck
>>23271822
Idk I guess I just have that werid musician/artsy vibe some girls like.
I got decent matches when I last used tinder ~6 months ago, at least maybe 1 or 2 a day, and that was with the radius only set to about 12 miles.
Made a new profile on Monday, with better pictures and a far better bio (before it was just edgy as fuck bio, photos and selfies) and with the distance set to 30 miles.
Trouble is I've only got 2 matches so far, and both of those were pretty much straight away (maybe an hour) after I set it up.
I'm not using the latest version (because the newest on android fucks up the picture quality), that's got to be the reason, r-right g-guys?
I'm not even getting matched with the boring uggos and chubbies like I used to ;__;
>>23271859
Post your profile. I used to have a lot of matches on my old Tinder (a little over 500) but that was because I would basically say yes to anyone as long as they weren't like 300 lbs.
>>23271859
Sure.
Any suggestions? Good or bad, everything appreciated. Bio too long?
I get matches, I talk to them a bit but usually just stall out. How to go from playful conversation to potential meetup? Also im going to start swiping right everytime.
>>23271045
If you could write a joke incorporating ukelele i think it would be helpful. Other than that, maybe consider a couple less pictures?
>>23269910
forget about trying to get girls when youre actually talking to them, try only to amuse yourself but in a way that will draw them in. Try and get a picture of you having a good time with friends or something. anything with other people.
>>23271922
>taking pictures when you're with friends
Normie tier
>>23271770
picture 4 should be your main pic
is it worth making a tinder if you're a friendless loser who doesn't know how to take pictures
>>23271967
No, it will crush any self confidence you have.
>>23271384
Some miscers are tinder gods
>>23269910
My opening usually works: "I bet if you sit on my face I can eat my way to your heart"
>>23271972
absolutely none
>>23272065
I only got selfies and some 3 year old photos outside where you can't even see my face and I still got like 100 matches in a month
I've learned how to take good selfies though
>>23272065
dont do it bro, being rejected by hundreds of women a day isn't good for your mind
>>23269332
in a week I get about 200-300
>>23272091
post profile
>>23272079
i just started university again so i'm trying to find a way to meet people and talking to people irl is too much for my anxiety right now
>>23269332
I got no bio, average 4 a day in a City where no one uses, so there are about 8 new girls a day in total... decent enough, without even showing off my /fit/ness levels
>>23271859
>>23271869
Here's my profile for you guys to maul
No idea why the picture quality has gone so shitty
>>23272140
looks really good hmm
and I have the same problem with blurry pics on screenshots, I know many people do too, but I haven't found a solution yet
>>23272151
Quality looks fine on my phone, but if I update to the latest version, every picture literally looks that pixelated.
I'm just gonna pretend that my lack of matches is down to me using an old version and it generally being shitty or whatever
>>23272140
you look rather handsome, I've seen far worse than you getting a lot of matches
>>23272175
Thanks m8, makes me feel a little less shitty.
Fuck this app though, its just crashing my phone now and a space for "new matches" has appeared with nothing in it
>>23269332
>How many matches do you guys get on tinder?
My real me?
Between 0.1 and 10 per day, dont know what makes those come in waves, or makes for dry periods.
so I was also inclined to believe that those high numbers are bullshit. I'm certainly no 10/10, but from all girls IRL I have heard that I am fairly OK.
So I made a catfish account with some 10/10 models pic's, two of them topless on the beach, showing off his fantastic abs and such.
Put my GPS to a big city (LA, for that matter), and now I'm swimming in pussy! (That I cant use, but oh well).
Maybe not 100 per day, but when I swipe a lot, I easily get 50+ per day! And my model is 30+ and I get 18 year olds, as well as 70 year old ladies, both of which normally give me their number within 10 messages or so, and even when I try to go totally over the top, not all of them say stop, but I am a quite good talker.
I had girls admitting to me that they are into being choked and dominated (and then they realize what they just said, and that the coffee date they had agreed to an hour earlier probably would take a different turn), I had 18 year olds discussing possible clit piercings with me, and I managed to get 50 year olds to strip for me on kik.
So to sum up:
>(LA?)women are as shallow as us guys, you just gotta be 100% hot and you need to be able to sweet talk them.
If you are not 100%, well, you gotta work some more, but talking is important too.
Never get matches. Literally every match - and I mean literally - has been a spambot asking me to download another ap. It's so fucking depressing.
632 in 2 months I've had it
Live in rural Britain so I don't get many matches unless I go to a city, that's when I get the majority of them. Makes me wonder how much better city life would be than farm life
>>23272216
yeah but you're using photos of a 10/10 model and I somehow doubt most miscers are such models, and the majority of them claim to be getting like 100 matches a day like it's something casual
>dude lmao why you get so few matches XD
>>23272252
post your profile m9
>>23272271
Yeah, but that's the thing! You have some muscles and some abs and you are showing them, you get matches. Loads of them.
And that's were the work starts!
>>23272280
Here you go lad
>>23272299
Looks pretty good, I'm damn jealous of 600+ matches.
Reckon its better to have a serious bit of info or a jokey one liner as your bio?
Been using the Bateman routine for bio lately, seems to work just as fine as my old, normal bio which leads me to believe that no one really cares about your bio (provided it isn't edgy)
Like, one a week. But I'm also in Alaska, population is not in my favor.
>>23271045
Remove the thing about being bored and throw in a question like: guess my favorite cheese.
What do you do if you get good matches but don't know how to set up decent dates and/or hookups? Wasn't super outgoing before graduating so I kinda missed out on learning the ropes of this stuff.
>>23269332
I get about 1-2 matches a month. It's not because I have a bad personality or are genetically shit, I am just really picky about people I talk to and I'm too set on the fact that I want a girl that is just my "type."
>>23270463
It's just my height with a witty remark about what I could do with my size.
Then I go off about only super liking Natalie Portman and we all know they aren't her, so not to get flattered.
>Trick is I always use my super likes on babes :^)
I'm picky as hell. If you aren't white, attractive, or dont have a clear photo I swipe left.
>>23273207
nice. some day I will cut and get some sexy beach ab pics.
>>23271808
I disagree. It's a funny bio (for girls who aren't retarded.
im pretty sure ive already given this guy my 2 cents. choose a main pic that doesn't reveal you to be a manlet.
One issue, is I'm pretty sure I was more attractive when I had hair a few weeks ago and girls don't like me now that I'm bald
>>23271770
This motherfucker needs to make pick 3 or 4 his main photo and I love your bio
>preferably 4
>>23269332
I have 100 matches over three weeks. A part of me is surprised because I half-assed my profile, and have had some really cute girls swipe first; still, it's starting to slow down. I'm more interested in harmless flirting and sharing a pint than sex, but the more people to talk with, the better.
What should I do?
>>23273712
I have had about the same number of matches/time and you're pretty handsome so I guess it's not that bad
also same with slowing down
>>23271770
All advice is bad. Your profile is perfect as is. Ive had a little over 50 matches but nothing other than 2 casual dates come from it
>>23274359
Oh here's mine for reference I guess
I'm a grill. Have 364 matches, started January 14th.
>>23274376
ook merci pour ta contribution
>>23271667
Maybe. I'm not sure I fit the profile of average tinder girl (actually I know I dont) but that's just my process. I like the bios because A it gives me at least something to talk about and some idea of who you are, and B it allows me to get a better feel if you're a psycho rapist murderer or something. But for chicks who already know they just wanna bang some random dude and don't care who as long as theyre hot I can see only needing the one pic.
>>23271696
Wouldn't know. Never had one.
I would assume on the average/smaller side though, big ones in porn and shit actually turn me off just looking at them.
Tinder seems to have gotten kind of fucked up for me. I think I got bumped up in their ELO too much or something.
I used to get tons of average girls, and lots of matches. All of a sudden, 9/10 girls I see are really hot, and I can't get matches to save my life.
>>23273301
Same here...
But the setting up dates part is somewhat easy to learn.
Just pick a date and a place and tell it to her. You dont need to be some alpha asshole, as in
>yo bitch, get your ass to 2nd street diner at 8 tonight
but you certainly shouldn't do something like
>well, I... I d-dont have anything to do all week, so we could like, err, m-meet, whereever and whenever you maybe have a little bit of time for me
Even if you have time all week, I'd still say something like
>How about we grab some beers at XX on thursday? I'm already busy on Wednesday. Or if you are spontaneous, we could also do tonight ;)
works most of the time.
My tinder, not even that buff
>>23273737
i would probably only go with one "women" joke. It kinda makes you sound like a misogynist...
I know you're not, but two jokes about it is gonna turn a whole bunch of women off. Get rid of the "i like my women ground up and in the freezer" line
>>23275409
where do you live
I get about a match per week, if that. Fite me.
>>23275659
In a relatively big city, as the other guy pointed out it makes a big difference
Send help.
I partied with this chick a few times. Never hit on her because she had a boyfriend. Also hooked up with her best friend twice.
Who the fuck does this on Tinder? Thinking I should drop it but she seems pretty cool and I wanna go for it now that she's single. What do?
I'm just gonna keep deluding myself and pretend that tinder is buggy.
I wanted to test this shit out by liking everyone, I'm not even getting matched with the actual gargoyles and half tonne land whales
>>23277285
dude just b urself ;))))
no seriously, I don't get why you aren't getting matches, because I think you should
can you post your non-blurry profile picture?
>>23277446
Here's a better version of that main profile pic. I've got other ones of me not looking at the camera, think those might be better?
Is this a good photo? Also, I'm making a tinder for the first time. Any tips?
p.s. will not having an instagram make me less attractive?
>>23278225 decent pic bro, background is kinda boring though. Try taking it in a different room with better lighting and no coat hanger in the back haha. And no, the no instagram thing has never stopped me from getting matches.
>Lesbian
I haven't found matches in a long time.
If anyone has advice on what I should change I'd really appreciate it.
Also, would you say its better to have some witty comment as your bio or a list of everything that you like (like what I have rn)?
Are some my pics a right away turn off?
Be as critique as possible y'all
>>23269332
Can't even log in since the most recent update. Anyone got any ideas?
Help no match
>>23278296
For reference sake, I'm not a lesbian
But I guess lesbian women and I have the same preferences right? Women?
Idk
Anyways your main pic isn't that good. I'd get rid of it. Put 4 or 6 in the main spot imo
I have things I like plus a little witty line so idk, just bee yrself
>>23278326
how long you been at it and where are you?
location seems to make a difference I think
>>23278296
Straight guy here, I think you could choose better pictures. Not really into the sweater ones, from the dress pic you look like a beautiful girl, and the two sweater ones and hat one don't do you justice. That's just my opinion though.
As for the description thing, 9 out of 10 girls leave it blank which is annoying cause it gives less opportunity for a creative first message. So putting a list of stuff you like is fine, or just a quick description that encompasses your personality, goals, and hobbies/interests.
Anyway hope this helped at least a little :)
>>23278357
San Diego. So although I look good, I have some serious superficial competition here.
>>23278357
Location means more girls in your area and more girls on tinder. It's pretty straightforward. If a guy has a profile that's not working though, maybe location isn't the only problem.
>>23278275
It gets cropped out anyway but thanks for the confidence boost dude. Really mean it.
>>23275814
Put 3 as your main pic, tell that it's you straight away, show off the beard and the ginger. Could maybe take a better selfie, you're a good looking guy like.
>>23269332
This is the last screenshot I have of my match list from a few months ago, I haven't used it in a while because I have a gf now
Any tips for someone new to tinder?
So is this acceptable? I don't play hockey but I watch a lot of it. Not sure if it's okay to put that in there.
>>23278640
Ya that's good. I put in my description "definitely message me if you're down to grab sushi" and I don't really love sushi or anything but because of it I get first messages from girls like "lets go grab sushi :D"
>>23278538
fucking Chad hold me guys...
>>23278669
Really? I don't like sushi either but okay lol. If it works, it works.
>>23278538
fuck off chad reeeee
post profile tho
>>23278936
Here's mine. The "let's climb trees together" line gets good responses too
>>23278939
>>23278909
I'm far from a Chad lads, I'm not that good looking. I'm just a funny guy and my profile stands out
>>23278990
How old are you? Also, is it necessary to have lots of pictures? Who takes those pictures anyway? You seem pretty outgoing. I don't think I'll get as many matches as you desu. You're everything a girl looks for in a man. I'm not :c
>>23279042
reee...
>>23279072
I've no fucking clue what that means man
>>23278990
I'm 25, and I don't think it's necessary to have lots of pics. It's more about knowing what your profile projects about you. And my pics were taken by a friend and a few by me.
>>23279094
It's the sound of screeching in despair
>>23279153
Yeah I had a feeling it was, what's with the despair though?
This: >>23279117
Was meant as a reply to: >>23279058
My bad
>>23279163
I'm lonely and a virgin
>>23279195
Post your profile m8, we can help
>>23273207
that is fucking golden
>>23279094
>doesn't know what ree means
REEEEEEE
NORMIES GET OUT
>>23279185
Oh ok. Thanks dude. Hopefully I look as good as you in seven years.
>>23279755
Having a nice beard helps a lot.
>>23279273
Thank you friend :^)
>>23275814
Shameless self bump here
>>23278442
Appreciate the complement mate and I switched the photo over to number 3 thanks <3
being ugly + being shit at taking pictures suck m8
What's with all the travelling pics on euro-girls profiles? It doesn't seem that bad in the US, but here in Europe (or rather, Germany) every damn bitch has pictures of herself in front of famous international landmarks, and some shit like
>travelling is the only thing you can buy that makes you ritcher
in their bio. WTF is up with that? I want to see if you look hot or not, I dont want to calculate your CO2 balance from flying.
Or should I just give up and do the same? Havent looked at guys, but I guess if I start with a nice pic of my face in front of Gloden Gate bridge and add some other shit, from the arctic to asia, I at least could get those 'real traveller' points? Maybe even add in my bio that most of my flights are paid by my work?
Can you guys offer any advice?
What do I say?
>>23269542
obviously you're not attractive if you don't get matches
>spent an hour on tinder
>no one has any common interests
Just
>>23273389
why only white girls? What if it's a hot latina?
Europe here, i have 300+ matches but as stated in my profile i'm not really taking it seriously.
>>23282556
rekt
>>23282560
yeah that was disappointing
thinking about my matches though I think there's at least a few cuties who have some nice common interests listed
I should message them at last
thinking of switching my 2nd pic with the one on the right... it works great, but i've used it for a while now
thoughts? thots?
>>23271770
>Ben Gibbard/10
keep it up man
>>23274365
You're a good looking lad, smile more!
>>23282798
You're gorgie and buff, the shirtless pic makes you seem like a douche tho
Otherwise 8/10
>>23281986
Anyone?
Does the door as a back drop work though? I know not in a bathroom itt
I get some OK matches but I'm hopeless at making them go anywhere. It's always the same random small talk for a day or two and then one of us loses interest.
I wish it were easier to actually find out what the fuck people on Tinder were like, every profile is pretty much a carbon copy of every other one, and nobody talks about anything except for super generic basic shit. It's especially bad here in LA because everybody's from somewhere else and trying so damn hard to be in the industry.
I don't even really know why I bother trying Tinder. I haven't gotten laid in a long time and would really like to, but don't really enjoy fucking girls I don't like at least a bit, and I'm horrible at this text chat thing.
>>23285369
Ask them to meet somewhere public in the day or two you're still actually interested in talking to each other. Set up the date for less than a week away.
>>23285396
I get that, but I pretty much never make it past a day or so of talking.
>>23281986
>>23285276
honestly when I can't think of anything to say sometimes I'll ask "are you mean"? usually gets a response, lol
This new update is garbage
Is there seriously still no similar app that doesn't require a fagbook?
I had mine for a few days and got about 25 matches 3 months ago, deleted that shit after I hooked up with a girl I know irl
I've had it for 5 days and have only gotten 30 matches what am I doing wrong
Had it since August and sitting at 2600
>>23281986
Tell her she's gorgeous, duh
Couple of matches a week, doesn't help that I live outside of the city though.
Girls I match with are legit psychos though
>>23284217
it does, but it works so i'm not complaining
>>23287501
You won't attract everyone with that profile, but I'd still think you'd get quite a lot of matches unless you're super picky
Unless you're humblebbragging, in which case fuck you. I've had 2 matches in the week since I got it m8
>>23287501
haha sissy
how does it feel that many people get 100 matches in a day
Tinder master reporting in. 1063 matches
got matched with a hot self proclaimed lesbian and no idea what to say send help
>>23288042
It's hopeless. ;_;
>15 or so matches since I started it last week
>5 of those were bots
>no replies from the humans
>>23288102
more pics needed
0 matches that weren't bots in a month. I am starting to think i might be ugly
>>23288042
profile
>>23288117
post profile
>>23288110
Roger that.
Any ideas on what I should add?
>>23288132
some pics that don't just contain one subject matter...ie not just your face looking awkward too close to the camera. Some that other people have taken are good...shows you have at least one friends. Some of you driving, or sports etc
>>23288121
So basically dressing in a suit and making a cool pose is enough to get 1000 matches?
We all know women don't read those descriptions or browse other photos
>>23288132
also, be realistic with your likes. like people you think will match with you, not super hot chips that are out of your league
>>23288125
Might just be horrible at taking pictures of myself.
>>23288140
>>23288150
Thank you
>>23288166
I remember 1 guy from Uppsala here who was average at best and got 20 matches in 1 day lol
>>23288147
I think you are wrong. I would say most woman actually spend more time than men using tinder. But no, its all about appealing to the broadest spectrum possible. In my photos, I'm a snappy dresser, no I'm a dirtbike hooligan, oh no I'm rich, oh no look now I'm into animals, shit now I'm into sports. Its about offering something to everyone. Regardless of if you actually surf etc. Do i surf? do i fuck. am i rich? nope
then its about finding out what they want and appearing as if you can offer it, again regardless of your actually ability to do so.
I will admit though, i use it to fuck random people. Not for love...although that has happened
>>23288181
From there, not living there.
Currently in a substantially smaller town in the north.
>>23288166
if your face isn't your strong point then avoid it. Look at mine, only one picture of my face...the rest its hidden. use your strong points. I don't put lots of pictures of my face because i wouldn't get likes.
>>23288211
Good advice. Don't really have that many pictures of myself, might have to get some first.
And most pictures i have is from a while back, when I had some beard and longer hair, so can't really use those. Looked to much like a serial rapist.
>>23288247
try a black and white filter. or timer on your camera so you can take pics of you doing stuff
>>23271045
I updated my bio and saved off a few pics. Is it good now?
>>23288933
Forgot pic
>>23287945
>>23287695
I honestly think I should be getting more matches desu, I don't swipe right to a lot of girls tho, but still.
I have ~1200 matches but that's probably explained by the fact I travel quite a lot.
What makes a good tinder pic?
Are indoor self-shots ever acceptable or are outdoor ones mandatory?
What about the rest of the profile?
>>23288934
Make your face main pic
>>23289034
no don't
>>23269332
I'm pretty attractive, got 15 matches in about 10 days. Live in a smaller city
>>23272002
loved that thread
>>23269910
yup, you look 100% socially retarded. Try to open with something funny or at least something they'll be inclined to answer, that they haven't already heard 15 times that day already. You'd be surprised how well "Hail Satan" has worked as an opening for me
Just downloaded Tinder 4/5 days ago. I think i liked at least 200/300 girls, and did not get one single match. Must I consider suicide?
>>23289180
Post profile
Honestly it depends on other shit apart from your profile, like your location and if you actually show up for others. I heard something about tinder being selective about whom they show to whom but that might be bullshit.
I've convinced myself that my lack of matches is down to it being buggy. Ignorance is bliss, so long as I can keep lying to myself
When I was 17 I would swipe right to everyone (unlimited swipes) apart from the real uglies
I also travelled a fair bit so over a year I managed to get well over 1700 matches in total
Now that I've turned 18, and since deleted my old account and started anew, the limited swipes have come into place, as well as a tinder algorithm that seemed to be mostly missing in the under 18 version
Coupled with over 18 girls preferring to swipe right to older men (all the 16 and 17 yr old girls that I matched with in the past are unavailable), turning 18 has kinda screwed me over with tinder
Living in the countryside doesn't help either
Currently have 10 matches and I started this new account 4 days ago
>>23289204
Thanks for the reply. I read that you need several pics to really increase your number of matches, and I only have one (pic related). I live in Paris btw.
My profile is in French but it's basically saying I'm studying management and cinema.
>>23289263
Oh and I'm 20 fyi. Maybe I look a bit childish. I know I'm not very handsome but come on 0 match out of something like 200 is kinda depressing
just thinking here. what are most women on tinder for validation or sex. can some femanons clear it up for me.
>>23289437
I was at a party just yesterday next to two total stacies and they were laughing at matches they were getting and joking about how they would never hookup with anyone period, and I talked to them about it and they were all smiley and talking about how its just for self validation, and when I asked them to say it again they said the same thing, smiling at me and not skipping a beat.
And they weren't smiling in a devious way, but just a happy smile like if you were eating good food or something.
I just walked away from them.
>>23289491
thats kinda gross. but whatever floats your boat. although i sincerely doubt they'd turn down their dream guy.
My app won't load matches and I had just asked this girl if she wanted to get coffee on Friday.
Restarted phone, logged out on app, uninstalled app...
How do u fix it hanging on loading matches??
>>23289754
I think you can try to log in and out a few times and see if that works
>>23289840
Didn't fix it
>>23289204
idk if it's bullshit
I live in Paris too and I had waves of "normal girls", "supermodels" and such.
If you're average and the apps only gives you 9/10 over and over, gl getting one
>>23289619
It's the truth, I'm not a woman but all I used it for so far was to see how many matches I could get and how many people I can recognize from my university.
The female friends of mine who are using it too said the same, or they are using it to actually find a boyfriend/relationship and not a quick fuck.
Maybe some of them would use it for sex too, but didn't want to admit it. I doubt that though, most of them are honest, pretty outgoing and open when it comes to sex, relationships and that stuff.
>>23289031
Seconding this
>>23289031
>that feel when only have selfies in my house
>that feel when still getting ok matches
my selfie game is stronk though
>having a good conversation with someone
>we are both writing mini essays to each other basically
>reply to her last message continuing the convo
>she just never replies again
Does Tinder just stop working at points, or did she just fuck off and stop caring?
turns out I got a girl from tinder pregnant last week
fuck my life
>>23290546
How'd that happen?
Thoughts??
>>23290546
Please do tell the story....
>>23277221
ask how her kittys doing
Plz Rate, I get about 1 Match per day, what am I doing wrong? am I just ugly?
>>23290928
>banter
Instant turn off
>>23290934
im not good with bio's what should I have said instead? I like bantering
I want to use tinder but I don't want my wife to find out. Safe to verify with my phone number?
>>23290542
the latter
>>23290954
nice id you nazi fag
>>23290934
Dude m8 it's just bantz xDDDD
>>23291197
chekkin that tag
>>23290916
second this. its a shit test so you may as well have fun with it.
>>23291178
Welp. Guess that's what I get for trying to relate to people instead of being a pervert I guess.
>>23290951
if you have nothing interesting to say, just don't say anything at all
This thread just depresses me, most of the people in here are above average or have great complexity. I'm fucking 5'8 skinny and have baby face and small hands. Don't think I'll ever have a dating life
the secret is actually not really to be good looking at all. There are a sea of good looking guys. They key is to be different and offer something the normal guy cant.
This is why i only have about maybe 70 matches right now after about a solid month and a half........but ive fucked 32 of them.
So even if you have thousands of matches, you still are only fucking a small portion of those. And i mean small portion. Maybe 10.
its about offering something else from the jump.
oh and 9 times out of ten my matches message me first. You just gotta find your own thing that always yields results.
>>23291885
whats your opening line?
My Chad friend wrote the modern romance line for me but idk how I feel about it.
>>23292004
I don't like the type of girl that would find that line appealing, but you might. You're asking for a bunch of "Old Soul" talk though.
>be asian male
>use the app a few times a day
>not even high standards, right swipe on anyone I find remotely qt
>it's been months and the only person I've matched with is the Deadpool advertisement
I want to die, lads. This is empirical evidence that I am unattractive to women.
>>23292155
all i get is niggers. the white girls just ignore me
> have 4 matches in 3 months
Pic is profile picture
>>23292096
That's what I want so cool in
>>23292004
you sound like a fedora gemntlemen
>>23291885
you've fucked 32 chicks in a month and a half?
lets see this profile, romeo
The two main/only factors are how appealing your profile is, and how high your standards are. Being hot will get you more matches, but so will swiping right on every chick you see.
>>23271835
Yeah and a face they like too.
>>23287552
Change number 6 to number 1.
>>23288121
dear god why are you wearing a watch on your right wrist you faggot.
>>23292004
you could just write "Celibate against my will" instead of all that faggy shit.
>>23269332
Is Tinder worth it though?
>>23295205
Definitely
>>23292566
>>23291885
I'll second that... really love to see this
>>23295309
Its just super complicated to set up on my phone :/ Id probably have more of a chance on there than here tho
>tfw wondering if I should reset muh tinder again, it'd be like the 6th time
sitting on like 120 matches after a month, r8
>>23295588
Is it really that complicated? Just set it up with your Facebook.
>>23295782
I was getting about 10 matches a week but no one was replying. I reset mine yesterday for the first time and I'm already at 9 matches and have a date tomorrow.
Ive had tinder for about a month and have aprox 15-20 matches, pretty much all of them are pretty cute.
Did i do good /soc/?
>>23278296
4 is better
>>23288166
just flash ur music reviewer money in the pic doofus
Where the fuck do I take this? I always sprerg so damn hard in this app. Apparently she also likes anime and nerd shit too.
>>23297616
just take a fucking risk. What do you want out of this? a gf or your dick sucked?
0 matches over 4 months
My profile...
>>23298161
>>23298082
might wanna try real life bro
>>23298233
Am I just that ugly?
How quickly do you guys try to escalate towards seeing them in person? You usually ask them out for coffee or something?
>>23290954
>KKk02gay
nice
have over 400 matches but figured i'd post for fun since i never see girls
don't have hobbies or friends so selfie mania :-)
>>23298676
>don't have hobbies or friends so selfie mania :-)
That right there is what might make me misogynistic at some point. Even if we are good looking, us guys have to invest a lot into presenting us well in this app, and as a girl, you just have to show that you have a somewhat decent face and are not fat, and you get the matches rolling in.
Dammit, I hate you! Still, would totally swipe right...
>>23298700
And regarding that point:
>us guys have to invest a lot into presenting us well in this app
Should I add an office pic, of me in a suit and tie, sitting on my desk, being all busy, with all kinds of tables and curves on the wall behind me, yet smiling in the camera to my tinder?
Does this make me look like an uptight bore, or does this help, implying I have an important and well paying job? Plus, girls like a guy in a suit, right?
