Post ITT if any of the following sound like you:
>unattractive
>lonely
>unhappy
share feels or whatever
Have you ever slapped yourself?
>>23166315
Eg ville bare holdt en siste gong rundt min faaar, eg redd mitt hjerte er for svakt det e for svakt :(
Lonely and unhappy sometimes femanon here. Somedays I am fine, others I just want someone to cuddle and watch shitty movies with.
Don't really care about the unattractive part, I've come to terms with having one of those faces you love after you know the person.
>>23166628
lets see dat mug of yours :)
>>23166628
Post your kik or something. I feel the same sometimes and am male.
>>23166642
Pic from new years eve, gave no fluffs.
>>23166646
I've never bothered with kik. Just got out of a long distance relationship like 6 months ago, can't do that shit again. Chances of anyone here being close to me are very low.
>>23166671
hm, ur cute.
wanna chat?
>>23166671
>Chances of anyone here being close to me are very low.
just say the vague location, you don't have to do an LDR
>>23166682
Thx. I don't have kik tho, not really sure I want one either.
What's got you feeling down, anon?
>>23166698
Midwest usa, I almost never see anyone say they are from my state.
>lonely
that about sums it up
>>23166708
I take it it's like nebraska or something
I live in Indiana
>>23166700
U know, the usual stuff. no job, no gf and no friends. how bout u, how u holding up :)
>>23166723
Close enough, the Midwest is pretty much all the same desolate place.
>>23166307
all of those sound like me. i made this thread last time
>tfw lonely because nobody likes you because you're ugly and dumb
>not even 4chan talks to you anymore
sorry
>>23166726
I have a job and a couple friends, but my closest friend moved out of town with her boyfriend about the same time my bf and I broke up. BFF and I lived together for three years and did everything together. I think what makes me the loneliest is I had so much change at once that I hardly feel like myself anymore. Living with my mom right now because her ex bf left her high and dry in a place she can't afford on her own, and she just had major surgery so I'm helping her recover from that. Plus I always get down during winter.
>>23166729
try one of those dating apps/sites
The girls on there get so much attention that they actually ignore most of the people who message them. And it's online dating so it's not like they're really attractive women.
seeing okcupid kind of blew my mind
>>23166754
heh, looks like it might turn around for you then :)
>>23166751
you're like that underageban girl who posts in these except that you actually do look bad
stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it
I wouldn't even care about you posting here all the time if you didn't type out all of this sobby shit to bait people into replying to you. They've said a million times that you look average and that you just need to lose weight.
You always say that you look just as ugly when thin but you've never posted any proof of that.
in sweden i dont get a single tinder match but when i was in us i got a pretty decent amount. guess swedes only want rapeugees these days :( thanks media
>>23166671
I find you to be fucking adorable!
>>23166307
Kissless virgin, I have no fucking social skills and I have no female friends. Also I'm a solid 5/10.
>>23166776
er borgerkrigen langt unna?
>>23166758
I've considered it, but I'm not even sure I want a relationship right now. I still feel to vulnerable, like I'd only end up hurting them or myself.
I honestly want to be living with my bff again. I miss her more than my bf.
>>23166765
I'm hoping, waiting for my motivation to return so I want to do more than just read and nap all day long. I hope things turn around for you.
>>23166785
Social skills are hard. I've come to realize I have pretty shitty social skills. I can make small talk like a breeze, but I'm awkward as all hell of the conversation turns even slightly flirtatious.
>>23166817
tnx breh :)
>>23166817
Yea I can talk about everything under the sun I just can't develop relationships, shit is rough lol
>>23166628
>>23166671
>>23166700
>>23166708
>>23166729
>>23166754
>>23166817
I remember you used to post all the time, you were my /soc/ crush for a while. You're really attractive with an awesome body, sorry to hear things are so shitty right now
>>23166837
Thx, man. I appreciate that. Shit happens tho, and some days are much better than others. I'm just hoping I start feeling better once winter passes.
>>23166307
lonely anon reporting in
girl i fell in love with, whom fell in love with me, left me for her ex
and yeah
>>23166872
my god, are you a mormon?
>>23166872
wtf man?! You are so fucking adorable. Holy shit I've never seen you smile and you look fantastic at that weight.
Please lose weight. Eating well and getting at least a little exercise in will probably also make you feel better at the same time. It helped me with my depression at least.
Also, I saved your picture before you deleted it, ya cunt. Don't worry, I'm not going to post it anywhere or anything, but you are a qt under that sad.
>>23166966
who are you?
>>23166970
Just some girl that sees you post often.
You really shouldn't have deleted that photo either. I'm sure other women would say you're cute as well.
I know it sounds silly, but I teared up a little seeing the pictures and the difference between them. I've only ever seen you in this sad and depressing state you're in right now, but to see you were healthier and your wonderful smile was so amazing. I know if you find the will to lose the weight and gain some confidence from it, you will find someone and not be lonely.
I am being completely honest that you are not an ugly person and you have the sweetest smile.
>>23167018
wew that's a really nice comment
hopefully this changes his mind and if we see him again it will be a progress pic
>>23166966
>>23167018
repost it then
>>23167032
He decided to delete it and I'm going to respect that. If he wants to post it again, he will.
Phew, just back from a 12 hour shift. People keep saying I'm not that unattractive but years of wallowing in self pity took it's toll on me. I'm trying to change my negative and avoidant personality but it's been proving difficult, specially the negative part. It's like every time I look at something I always think about how it can get fucked up in million ways or the worst possible situation. Because of this whenever I meet a girl there is this chorus of "she thinks you're disgusting, you have no chance, just go back home and watch chinese cartoons, no one is gonna like you you wacko". God I'm so fucked in the head with insecurities and shit. At least I have couple of good bro tier friends and lets me keep my sanity.
Even my fucking online friends don't talk to me now. I'm a 27 year old guy with absolutely nothing in life beyond some fucking horrible premature balding.
I'll fucking die alone, I know it.
>>23167018
thanks. that was way nicer than i deserve.
i still want to put a face to this comment though, it'd mean a lot. idk if you have kik or something if you don't feel like posting.
>>23167032
i guess i don't really care.
>>23166865
yeah winter always sucks, I get down pretty hard a lot too. Hope you start posting more too, seeing your pretty face is always rad
>Personal info's online
>Can't delete, because fgts gonna fag.
>Winning.
>>23167064
You're not even a virgin
>>23167132
Why is your personal info online?
>>23167182
he's 16 also, according to that bird nose 17 year old girl who always attentionwhores in these threads
I pick all of the above.
I'm not living past 24 if nothing changes.
>>23167190
why are you mean about that girl?
>>23167184
...I got emotional, started telling personal shit to someone in a thread.
Stupidly had my face in the same thread.
Now the thread is archived.
I feel like an idiot.
>>23167064
Of course there will be. How should a virgin even know how to take a virginity
>22
>college student
>lonely a lot of the time
>only 1 friend on campus who considers me a in-class friend
>never talks to me outside of class/lunch
>no lucky in-person
>try tinder and OKC
>no luck, very very few matches
>no responses when I send messages
>messages usually pick something on her profile she likes and try to find some common ground and start a conversation
my brother's girlfriend likes to give me shit about being a virgin and say I'm gonna die alone
wish i could hang out with him without her coming along, but they're late 20s and are probably gonna get married
>>23167202
you fucking pussy
>>23166671
>Danger red hair alert
>Bad eyesight
>Fat
>Insecure
-3/10 would laugh at on the street
>>23167219
you can probably report it on the archive and get somebody to delete it for being a dox (which is illegal)
there was a certain girl on r9k who had a bunch of her personal info posted and I think the guy who did it had it all deleted a day later
>>23167238
You can't, there's no contact info available.
>>23167233
Shut up, bitch. I still lift more than you.
>>23167240
what kind of info is on there?
>>23167235
You missed the choker, I hear that's a red flag too.
>>23167244
Contact info.
Stuff about my family.
Some real personal shit about my past.
sounds like me senpai
>>23167254
false
lonely, unattractive people patronize the services of prostitutes or engage in intercourse with other lonely, unattractive people. they are having sex.
>>23167230
have you tried suckin a dick?
>>23167284
I'm not gay
so no
>>23167299
just put one in your mouth to see what its like, you might like it
>>23167299
oh, thought u where a grill. sorry b
>>23167306
I'm pretty sure being gay isn't like that
you don't just put a dick in your mouth and suddenly become gay
>>23167362
nah lol
>>23167448
You seriously dont look bad. And Im a racist.
>>23167362
nah lol
>>23167448
in reference to how i looked 55 lbs ago.
nobody ever even said you look bad
>>23167463
have you tried taking a shower?
>lonely
>unhappy
I'm pretty sure I'm not unattractive, I just have high standards
gone fishin, instead of just awishin
>>23166751
Oi, Famalam.
We've talked to you, we've told you have to fix up.
Pay attention, stop walling in self pity.
If I saw you in real life I wouldn't hesitate to pull out some blusher and beat some beauty into you.
>>23166785
Honestly dude, and I'm just going off of on your picture, if you worked on your self esteem and took a conscious effort for self improvement you'll find more girls are actually interested in you.
>I, hand on heart, value personality over the physical form.
>>23167018
You're sweet, thank you.
>>23167047
Good on you for trying to improve yourself.
You have a really cute smile, IMO. You'll find a girl, trust me. You're adorable.
>>23167064
You told a girl to go kill herself, I've got no sympathy. Fuck off.
>>23167230
Trust me, don't worry.
I've said it time and time again, college/uni are the loneliest places on earth. I too don't have any true friends, just keep your head up.
>>23167510
people always say that, but it's depressing
>don't worry anon, your life will begin when you leave highschool and the bullies get shitty jobs
>don't worry anon, your life will begin when you graduate college and get a job and women will like you for your money
now that I'm about to graduate I wonder what the next thing will be
>don't worry anon, your life will begin when you get your first true friuends and your first relationship with a single mother at the age of 30
>don't worry anon, your life will begin when you stop paying alimony and child support for kids that aren't yours
seems to be a really shitty existance
especially when 90% of people seem to alredy have friends, have relationships, and have happy lives this whole time
and considering any woman I could possibly meet at this point will have gone through her "experimental" phase and want me to accept all the slutty things she's done, but won't do with me
>>23167510
In my defense, she was also a complete bitch to me btw.
>>23167518
We can both jump off a cliff, you can first though, since death scares me.
>>23167539
>>23167546
More screenshots required
>>23167537
Not to be too pessimistic, but yes. Ultimately we do live shitty lives.
Placing sex and relationships atop a pedestal is similar to self flagellation. You must learn to be happy by yourself, don't depend on others to bring you joy.
Your only true purpose in this life is to pass on your genetics, just donate your sperm then pursue do what makes you happy.
You cannot live this life constantly waiting to be handed things, learn to take and to generate.
>I don't know how much of this is helpful, it's just regurgitated teachings.
>>23167539
> I love niggers
>>23167510
what is blusher
>>23167561
Only one more because this one makes me laugh
>>23167510
>You'll find a girl, trust me. You're adorable.
[doubt], personality is hard to change familia
>>23167546
I try to help out.
Oh lord forgive me for I have sinned.
>>23167539
Oh no, a white person called a nigger a nigger.
If you don't wish to be called a nigger, don't nig.
M'Kay?
>>23167539
>I love niggers
>>23167573
...Okay, yeah. That is kinda desperate. :P
>>23167576
But it can be changed.
>>23167572
...Make up.
>>23167573
Holy shit
Where can I read more this is hilarious
>>23167607
Here's another :^)
>>23167596
yeah that'd work
>>23167611
...I think I'm starting to see it now.
More?
>>23167611
Big up, nigga. Shit is cash LOL
>>23167611
Does she actually like black guys , heart broken
>>23167617
Kek.
Okay, you're not that bad. XD
>>23167629
MFW
>"I don't see the point"
>"That's a lot of work"
>Do I look like a trap btw
>>23167644
>>23167624...Yes.
>>23167644
any nudes?
>>23167641
>Okay, you're not that bad. XD
nah i'm pretty fucking disgusting
>>23167590
>But it can be changed.
Yeah, I'm kinda better now but I still think I'm a disgusting piece of shit while talking to girls. Can't stop feeling like one.
>>23167654
dude i can't see how you think you're unattractive. that girl was obsessed with you, and a lot of people think she's gorgeous.
>>23167679
i already did and she doesn't even respond
guess that settles it. i'm fucking 0/10
>>23167679
I wouldve if i didnt see the i love niggers thing, no thanks
>>23167691
nah i mean she has responded before. she never messages first though and she responds less than 10% of the time
fuck everything
>>23167697
I think his main compliant is that she casually called him a nigger to his face
>>23167697
I dont mind the no shower, would she still date a white man like me tho
>>23166307
Constant rejection from women, and still being a virgin at 25 has lead me to believe I must be one ugly motherfucker. (If I hear the words "I'm just not looking for a relationship right now" one more time, I feel like I'm gonna lose it.
I used to think I looked okay, but I guess I was wrong. I really wish I looked half as nice as the majority of people on /soc/ do. You people are all so beautiful.
>>23167705
No i dont like coal burners
>>23167709
Super cutie, anon. Would be interested if you approached me irl
>>23167707
just accept that you're definitively less of a robot than me and be happy ffs
fuck off with that elliot rodger bullshit too btw, you have no idea what the fuck he's talking about.
>>23167656
Work on that confidence.
Just take baby steps, dude.
>>23167652
Okay then sour puss.
>>23167709
I've seen your other picture...you look better now.
Fix your hair, you look like a try hard artist.
Have it straight and pushed to the side (I don't know to describe it)
You're a 6.7
>>23167744
>Okay then sour puss.
dude it's obviously just the truth. i'm actually in a decent mood
>>23167732
fuck off you're underaged
>>23167750
I'm not gonna argue.
I'm just disagreeing silently behind a screen.
>>23166307
Lonely and unhappy.
I just want someone in my life who I can cuddle and talk to about anything without getting judged and watch movies and do drugs with
Oh well life goes on
>>23167510
Well thank you, I have been taking an effort to put myself out there its just hard is all.
>>23167779
that's fine i don't really care. nothing matters
>>23167769
Same familia, minus the drugs.
I am a generally happy person but I am rapidly approaching 20 and still a virgin and I just want to get laid already! Argh, I'll make it, r-right?
>>23167859
I didn't have sex until I was nearly 22 and I'm at least mildly handsome.
>>23167872
Thanks for the hope, anon. :^)
Welp I guess I found where I fit in. Incoming novel!
NEET and completely isolated shut-in. Live alone in an apartment I sometimes don't leave at all for multiple months in a row. Got no purpose in life, no dreams, nothing that drives me forward. No reason to get up in the morning, if I could I would sleep 24/7 without a doubt.
31 years old and feel like I've had about the equivalent life experience of most get at around 16-20. I've been to 1 "party" in my entire life, which eventually turned into the girl I was interested in at that time hooking up with someone else at that part. I've never been drunk, never used drugs (well, not counting prescribed anti-depressants) and I don't have a drivers license. I'm freakin' 31 years old and have not had a solid job in my entire life, the only little I have worked was at a computer store when a bit extra help was needed, so very few hours total. My school life was extremely lonely, had next to no friends, spent most of it at home in front of my computer.
Somehow I managed to lose my virginity (thanks to the internet) when I was 18 (awful one-night stand with a girl I never saw again) and after that got laid probably 2-3 times with another girl when I was around 20-21, but she had a kid so that wasn't ever going anywhere. Then after that it took about 9 years before I got laid again, another one-night stand with a girl that in hind-sight I think mostly did it as a pity thing, think I saw her twice after that and it was like pulling teeth to try and get any kind of contact with her so I figured she can't be interested so I just left her alone.
Currently my life is at the worst it's been by far, I haven't gone outside whatsoever for multiple months (think I'm reaching 3+ months now) and I'm living off take-out food. I got empty pizza boxes stacked to the ceiling. I see no reason to actually go outside and even if I did I have almost no energy for it anyway.
Ugh nevermind why am I even writing this....
>>23168132
Could've been worse
>>23168286
True, things can always be worse.
Overall I'm extremely apathetic to almost everything, even sex is mostly meh and frankly I don't Actually care. It's just that everyone makes such a big deal about it when personally what I miss MUCH more is just the simpler type of contact like a hug.
Oh and there's a pretty big chance I've got prostate cancer (or something that has similar symptoms) and this isn't just me being a hypochondriac either. But frankly the thought of that just makes me think "thank fuck, now I'll have a legit reason to die"
Oh and I'm pretty sure I've got a bedbug infestation going on at home right now as well, but again.. meh who gives a shit. Honestly I'm probably only still alive since it's too much trouble to actually kill myself anyway.
>>23168132
I'm 23, haven't told my parents I'm failing out of college, I've never had a job, and I avoid everything and everyone. Almost no one even bothers contacting me anymore because they know I won't answer my phone. My room is littered with empty food cartons, soda bottles, and pizza boxes because I'm bulimic and my whole day often revolves around weighing myself or getting high.
>>23168388
and I forgot my image.
This party is getting crazy.
>>23167111
I'm just that fat chick in the black who's losing a ton of weight and was lamenting about her fugly body from the last thread.
The magic and mystery is ruined!
>>23168132
Is there anything at all you do enjoy?
Even if it's video games, books, cartoons, toys, history, computers or music, I bet you could find some kind of a skype chat on the boards and be able to at least make some online friends or someone who makes you want to achieve something in life. I'm only suggesting this because I was in the same situation besides the not virgin thing and being a few years younger. Just meeting some people that were going somewhere with their lives and doing all these impressive things inspired me and made me want to better myself. Maybe pushing yourself to talk to people besides here anonymously could be what you need?
>>23168335
That does not sound like the kind of way you want to go if this is prostate cancer, anon! I know it's annoying having some random goob tell you this, but please try to go to a doctor before you perhaps regret not doing so sooner.
>>23168388
My first tip is, talk to your parents. Well assuming they are at least fairly reasonable people of course.
Honestly that's probably the only thing I've got going for me in my life, I am honest and open about just about anything. I can talk to my mom about anything and everything, she helps me as much as she can but there's unfortunately not much she can actually do to help. Hiding your problems just causes more problems I've found and it feels so damn good to just not have to hide shit.
It's easier said than done at first though and you gotta be a bit careful with who you share with as many don't actually want to hear that shit. Seek treatment and give it a real shot, use help that you can get from around you (and ignore/stay away from those that aren't helpful)
That's probably the saddest part for me, I've been more or less trying to deal with this shit since I was 15, actively seeking treatments and trying all kinds of stuff but nothing has any actual considerable impact. That doesn't mean it's the case for everyone else (I still haven't Completely given up, damn close though) and everyone gets different results. Just have to actually give shit a chance though before you know how it turns out.
>>23168433
There are things I do to pass time, there's occasionally something that is just slightly more interesting than "just pass time" such as a movie, tv series, anime, book or game that catches my attention. This never lasts though and I'm back to apathy right away after.
I do have internet "friends" I guess, people I play games with and chat about random stuff to pass time. Some I've even talked about this stuff with, some in more detail than others (I don't hide anything and if I think they are the kind of person to actually listen and/or care then I definitely share)
Problem is, nothing has sparked a passion or will to do something or live. At most I've gotten a "meh well if I'm still alive I guess I'll get to see if a new movie/series/anime/book/game comes out for a short period of mild enjoyment"
Something that you'd think I would want to do would be game development for example, I got people I chat with that do that and they've even tried to get me to join them in projects but there's just no passion there for me...
>>23168433
Hey thanks for posting a pic. I appreciate knowing who's talking to me.
Thanks for being nice. You're a good person
>>23168476
>Something that you'd think I would want to do would be game development for example, I got people I chat with that do that and they've even tried to get me to join them in projects but there's just no passion there for me...
Gosh darn, this is pretty much what got me out of this horrible place I had been for so much of my life. I joined a group from /v/ to make a video game and that's how I became closer to people, became passionate about something and decided to change myself. Did you actually join and just give up after a while? If not, maybe you could try it out and see if along the way is where it hits you? Joining such a big project made me feel like I had a purpose in life and like I was a person.
I wish I knew how to really do something for you though instead of just telling you what is helping me. You sound like a really nice person just talking like this when sometimes people get all pissy at even suggesting anything to them.
>>23168517
No problemo! For some reason, I switch between being a party pooper and...well, attempting to be cool.
>>23167064
Glad I'm not the only one annoyed by that shit.
Seriously, normals think they can stay as depressed as someone who's never dated anyone for 30 years.
>>23168623
I know what you mean, people have a tendency to get defensive when their thoughts/ideas get confronted. I look at it like this, obviously something is seriously wrong and I need to change, since I don't think my current life is an acceptable way of living. I just can't find a way to change (or find what to change to for that matter)
Dismissing an idea or thought without consideration would mean I've given up entirely and then there's only one way out.
Oh and with the game development, I've worked on a few smaller projects (emulator for an MMO named Dark Age of Camelot was the largest) and we did get some stuff done that's for sure. But in the end it was just something temporary like watching a movie. It held my interest enough that I bothered for a while but then kind of fizzled out. This is a recurring theme through my entire life really, initial slight interest -> grow bored/apathetic -> can't motivate myself to do it anymore
Thanks for caring enough to engage with me btw!
That goes to you too!
>>23168433
>>23167463
it's your personality.
you're okay on the outside but trash on the inside. stop going on /r9k/ and it'll get better, but you probably won't.
>>23168623
can you post your body i dont know what you're talking about
>>23167629
>>23167644
>tfw talked to her but ignored
>tfw no girl to talk about cats with
>>23166307
I've always felt unattractive but I had many years where I had no problem getting sex, but could never get anyone to date me beyond just the sex. I really wish I could figure out what the problem is but I'm always viewed as just a friend. My life is pretty great as a whole so not a lot to complain about, just wish I could figure out what the problem was.
Ok i need some advice preferably from a female. Last night me and my friends were at the bar and there the was this cute short girl that was there, i knew who she was because she worked at a gas station i go to often and she was always super nice to me and sometimes pretty flirty. anyway, while we're at the bar i see her looking at me alot and when she walks by we exchange glances and hellos.
Later when we're out side me and a couple of my friends are talking to her and she mentions how she is going to smoke a bowl and walks off and my friend hops on the opportunity to go with her and try to get laid. at this point i figure i lost my chance and although it sucks i might i well let my friend go for it.
Later when we're all back at my friends house he shows up with her. we're all hanging out in the kitchen and im drunk but i keep noticing her looking at me. At first i brush it off as wishfull thinking but she is making straight up eye contact to the point where its becoming impossible to brush it off and sometimes smiling at me and looking at me whenever she would laught even though she showed up with my other friend who was trying to hook up with you. Before i went homes it was brought up that she thought my beard was hot and she really liked my hair.
Even before this night i had a vibe she was into me, but this whole situation was just really confusing to me and i would like some input from you guys, especially the females here.
>>23168708
You sound so mature and intelligent, which makes this whole situation sadder to hear.
You mentioned in your first post that you take or took antidepressants...Did this do anything for you? I apologize if I'm getting into stuff that's way too deep.
With the combo of isolating yourself in your apartment and eating nothing but take-out, it makes me think that you would benefit so much from a change in your diet and just moving around more.
I'm guessing that most of your diet is simple carbohydrates and you're not getting enough of the vitamins you need. I know that eating too much carbs can actually make women depressed (not sure about men though d'oh) and everyone feels lethargic after consuming them.
Exercising just a few times a week has been known to help fight depression and just walking alone for half an hour releases endorphins.
Is there any way for you to get yourself out of the house or have someone bring you proper food at all?
>tfw sound like a douchebag know-it-all
And you don't need to thank me! I'm just sorry I take incredibly long to post. I'm kind of insecure talking to people (even more so with my face posted here) thinking everything I say could hurt them, so I go over what I type about 20 times trying to change things around.
>>23168906
I'm not going to post without clothes, of course, but you can kind of guess that my body isn't going to look normal after allowing myself to become so massive. I was actually larger than 310 lbs, too. I've been fibbing to people because it was so embarrassing, but I've lost something like 120 lbs in eleven months. I still have quite a long way to go, too.
>>23169049
>wrote ",too" twice so close together
It hurts to live.
What about femanons that were one 0/10 and now a good 7/10, although I still feel 0/10 despite my puberty being nice. I still feel terrible.
>>23169109
You should post a pic of yourself. Positive reinforcement will help a lot.
>>23169049
Where do you live?
>>23169109
I was the worst looking adolescent. Going through puberty was the fucking worst as a brown girl.
I had a unibrow, mustache, my nose was too big for my face, had terrible acne and my hair was insanely thick and knotted. My parents wouldn't let me wax my face or take any actual useful acne medication. Literally looked like a little cave woman.
I'm maybe a 5-6/10 now so whatever. Those were horrible times though.
>>23169180
neither do you, you're at least a 7/10
>>23169208
you are by far attractive enough to get a gf. You are either going after racist grills or have a shit personality. I would date you if I knew you irl and you were nice and into the same hobbies.
Why do you even come on /r9k? just to complain about nothing?
I'm a virgin grill and a guy has never asked me out.
For the most part I feel like all 3
>>23169227
whats your mix anon?
>>23169049
your hips improved like ten fold; i know this is asking you to put yourself out there but do you have a bikini / underwear pic you're willing to post? I'm really curious
>>23169232
Mix of problems or mix of race?
I'm all white, with like, the smallest bit of Asian ancestry, like probably 1% Asian in my blood.
My mix of problems is just the fact that I've been single for so long I can't even pick up small flirting hints of I tried.
>>23169142
When I was in middle school people couldn't tell if I were a boy or girl and I went through some weird phases to get where I am now, and thank you, I still feel like I'm not enough, y'know?
>>23169159
I still have pretty bad acne and have to use meds to keed it away, I have such a shiny, greasy face at the end of the day and I always feel like I need a good wash and no matter how many times I scrubadubdub nothing can wash away my poor self esteem. I so feel you.
>>23169257
I don't think child-you looks as bad as you think, you looked like a normal tomboy. How old are you now?
>>23169239
Unless those men were incredibly subtle, I think I would've noticed being asked out. I repeat, no guy has ever shown interest in me irl. My standards are literally be male, 3+/10, nice and have common interests.
I am also pretty damn socially inept so there's also that. 20 year old kissless handholdless virgin here, join the club. I'd love a socially awkward, average looking, kind /co/ bf.
>>23169267
I was 11 on the top and 17 on the bottom, and currently 19. That was before me emo phase.
>>23169257
jesus you're a qt now, how did this even happen? Are your teeth still a little messed up though?
>>23167709
I think you look cute as fuck.
Would take virginity/10
>>23169287
is it because you're /a/ scum?
>>23169274
But I am lonely...
>>23166708
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>>23169282
I've had braces, from 5th to high school freshman, I never had good hygiene so my teeth are yellow as fuck so I don't teeth smile in photos and I recently bought all the of the crest 3D White shit, it seems to be working but I still have a habit of covering my mouth when I laugh or smile.
>>23169049
I've gone through different periods throughout my life, as I mentioned before right now it's at it's worst though. The antidepressants never really helped, well the current one I'm taking had a short period where it had a slight positive effect, I got a little more energy during a short time during the day. It didn't last though, that energy boost went away after maybe a few months or so, during this time I tried using that period of higher energy to exercise (I have a rowing machine here at home) and I did do it for a little bit.
It didn't last though.
I've had periods where I also went to school, of course this was a while back but I was more miserable back then in the sense that I was forced out and had to do stuff I absolutely loathed. Of course I took any opportunity to dodge having to do it. Sorta managed to get through most of it even with missing a ton of stuff as most of it was pretty easy.
Here's the thing, I'm not sure it's just depression that's the issue, if that was it then you'd think that antidepressants would have at least some kind of effect, I've also tried quite a few different ones and varying doses so it wasn't just that either. Of course doing healthier stuff is good for me in many ways but without finding the underlying issue I can't see myself maintaining something that requires so much effort.
Oh and I have no issues talking about personal stuff so don't hold back, honestly you can't offend or hurt me, I've been around waay too long for that.
Awesome progress there by the way! Very impressive effort.
>>23169303
you have a body pic too?
>>23169303
I think you're cute as fuck and too hard on yourself. You should kik me so we can talk. My kik is ultratusk
>>23169317
I'm not sure, I'm typically not in situations to have a full body picture, does this count?
>>23169330
You're super cute btw.
>>23169304
But my personality was shaped around being unattractive, so although I grew boobs and took many showers I'm still the introverted, insecure mess I was when I wasn't 'pretty'
>>23169330
lel it was more of an idea to get ur body type and all that. At least it looks like you have a booty?
>>23169367
>>23169378
do you ever wear tighter clothing? are you chubby or are you still self conscious from being a fat kid?
>>23169378
p good, u look kind of busty too
>>23169385
I love loose clothing, I was a fat kid, then joined track and then I started to wear dresses as I went to college, so I am still a little chubby but I went from 180 to 150 and stayed there
>>23169394
I used to have huge titts in middleschool, like almost D-cups, then to a B now a C, I had an ex that made fun of my B-cups, he was my first boyfriend and now it's ingrained in me that I need bigger boobs
>>23169415
a C's still pretty good though, you've got nothing to worry about
>>23169324
I don't actually know how to use kik, like I have one but I never use it, I don't know how to add people
>>23169453
I want bigger and rounder and not pointy and not lopsided
>>23169415
>had bfs
>has orbiters
>SO LONELY
Fuck this world.
Not overly lonely, but generally unhappy with a lot of things
>>23169472
Hello, we can talk, I have a snap if you want to snap me, I'm always around to snap, never busy
>>23169288
Well thanks, man. That's actually really nice to hear. Even if you are dude. Not that I'm into guys or anything.
>>23169479
1. I'd rather not compete with the hordes of Chads trying to get your attention
2. I don't want any friends, only gf
3. You are a liar. You claim to be lonely, yet you've had boyfriends? For fucks sake.
>>23169479
can i get sum fuk to?
>>23169479
wow, it's like I too can orbit my own /soc/ attentionwhore with inflated ego!
what a privilege!
this about sums me up desu
>>23169495
It's still possible to be lonely currently, it's not like there's mountains of penises flying my way. I'm not some god sitting on a shrine of plebs, I'm asking to be your friend and you choose to stay away, how do you think you get a girlfriend? You be their friend first. Do you choose to be lonely? I'm trying to help both of us.
>>23169537
>it's not like there's mountains of penises flying my way
Where do you live? I can arrange at least one.
>>23169468
>pointy and not lopsided
lol stop being hard on yourself
>>23169512
Here's some pug eggs to cheer us all up
>>23169537
>how do you think you get a girlfriend? You be their friend first.
that's not always true. if that friend doesn't have a crush on you the entire time, nothing happens
>>23169537
>It's still possible to be lonely currently, it's not like there's mountains of penises flying my way
>not like there's mountains of penises flying my way
See >>23169497
>>23169453
>>23169394
>>23169385
>>23169367
>>23169341
>>23169324
>>23169317
Take your pick from them.
>>23169553
nah man, I don't get it
you post on here, knowing you'll get attention, but then you act like you don't know exactly what you're doing
fuck off
>>23169558
So what's to lose from having a friend that doesn't have a crush on you? Or through time could develop one?
>>23169560
What's up, drunk and just feeling kinda shitty lately
>>23169559
In this thread sure, but in reality, I'm speaking of afk, and staying low, and not making friends generally. It's class then home and binge watch Bones and not shower for a few days because I really like Bones. A lot.
>>23166307
Yes and especially lonely
>>23169592
this shit always happens
>virgin or lonely thread
>attractive woman comes in
>"I'm not any of the things other people are, but I'll still post my face and body for validation"
>gets dozens of replies
>"teehee, stop hitting on me you silly boys"
>"I don't know what you're talking about, I'm not attentionwhoring at all"
people like you what make me sad, the reason why virgin threads aren't around on /soc/ for very long
you come in, get your validation, play around with the heads and hearts of men you don't even consider to be human, and then leave, so you can wait for some attractive guy to sweep you off your feet
>>23169603
>"I'm so introverted LOL"
>I only have 50 people I constantly snapchat"
>"forever alone like you guys"
>"my boyfriend says my boobs are too big :("
>>23169600
I really enjoy your beard, cheers to you mate.
>>23169603
I'm pretty sure the people posting here are real. How about you ask them to send a mountain of dicks your way? How can you even complain about that? If I had women on here offering to send me a mountain of vagina I'd take it in a heartbeat and wouldn't complain.
>>23169603
Also, you have fucking had someone show enough interest to DATE you.
Unbelievable that you think you belong here
>>23169625
I'm not looking for dick, I'm looking for friendship, conversations, not just guys, girls and anyone really
>>23169638
I'm sure if you lead one of your orbiters on enough they'd be glad to give you the conversation you seek.
>>23169638
guys aren't just machines you can put kindness into and friendships come out
>>23169621
Why thank you =]. Also screw what that guy has to say. you might be too pretty for this thread but at least you seem like a nice person.
>>23169650
Here's a tip:
>pic related
>>23169647
Lead on? I just want someone to ask how my day was now and then, genuine friendship and a sense like someone cares enough to let me play TF2 with them or something
>>23169670
Ask one of your many orbiters m'lady.
>>23169662
>>23169647
even normies think they aren't normies
I've noticed this
fking special snowflakes
fk them
>>23169685
I don't even know why they WANT to act as though they aren't normies.
>b-but I only had like 362 boyfriends :)
>I'm so lonely :)
Meanwhile I haven't even had a female talk to me besides family members and unavoidable interactions.
Living with tourettes is horrible. People just don't understand why I don't want to deal with being in public or hanging out. No its not because I hate you or don't want to. No its not because I am scared of being social or don't have social skills. Its because I shake my head, blink like a madman and do other stupid things. I also tend to hold them in and it causes me to be irritable/angry sounding. Fun stuff really. Its fun to feel like you have no control over yourself. Just feeds my inhuman feelingness crap.
more shitty night time selfies
>>23169670
Do you use Skype? I'll post mine if you do.
>>23169693
because, identifying as a lonely fuck makes them feel special because they can attention whore it. It's not derived from any emotion besides their own vanity. They will lie to themselves, deceive themselves, and in the end, still be normie.
I belive there is a dualistic nature to normieness. It is something known only to normies, because non-normies would not engage such behaviors due to our own nature.
>>23169462
How about Skype then? What's yours?
>>23169704
I wish they would just leave the people who are actually lonely alone. Instead they come here as if to mock us, to laugh at us for being as pathetic as we are. It's unfair.
>>23169670
Oh shit. Lets play some pyro then.
>>23169699
Probably going to get shit on skype for having symmetrical face but I guess no one sees past the facade to sit down and think that I don't have a gazillion snap friends or skype friends or any friends and that's why I'm spending my saturday/sunday posting on /soc/ at 2am because I just have so many boys to crawl to and aren't creepy. I'm sorry if I'm lashing out nut I can still have a pretty face and feel terrible about myself.
>>23169717
I advise you to go to reddit /r/theredpill
I think you have some fundamental problems (like everyone), because your looks are fine. I don't want to accept that we are pathetic, or that we will always will be. Rather, we are not making the changes that enable us to succeed. If we do nothing, we cannot expect anything. You and I, we need to take action and believe in it--if only to get what we want.
>>23169733
Post steam then. Block out the assholes.
>>23169705
I also spent some time going through Kik and I figured it out, woooo
>>23169733
Add me on Skype if you don't want to post your screen name
yumboyack90
Won't shit on you unless you're into that sort of thing
>>23169737
I'm a lost cause for the most part, friend. I've essentially given up already. There's no hope for me. I just enjoying whining. I know that I'll die a kissless, handholdless, virgin.
>>23169738
I mostly play terraria by myself so I haven't gotten around to playing anything else, and played League for about 6 months, I wasn't too keen on it after when I found out it's addicting, steam: Tiffkitten
Not so much as in lonely, I like my own company. Just never been in relationship, never get matches on tinder or okcupid; only if I change my location to LA or something, Welsh women are too picky. Too many men to compete with when it comes to online dating.
>>23169733
>think that I don't have a gazillion snap friends or skype friends
that's exactly what we think
I have seen so many women on 4chan claim to be lonely, only to find out that their definition of lonely is that their 100s of friends aren't snapping them back immediately
> I can still have a pretty face and feel terrible about myself
no, what you're doing is comliment fishing
>"lol, I'm so ugly and lonely, please give me compliments"
>"add me to kik/skype and be another of my 100s of contacts who I keep around just in case my main friends ditch me"
the fact that you're posting on soc, in a thread primarily filled with lonely guys makes me about 99% sure you're just a teenage girl who didn't get enough likes on her latest selfie and wants to tap into the plentiful amount of virgin guys on 4chan she'd find "creepy" IRL
>>23169750
I'm kind of the same way. Recently, doing drugs just to handle reality. Not anymore, but I know the feeling. I don't think we have given up though, because we are still alive.
I know you must have some hope for that reason. I do advise theredpill, simply because there are some realities in it that will help you cope later on, should you ever succeed. Even if you don't succeed (I think you will), it will help you feel like you are not missing out on too much besides the never-ending pain inside you.
I'll probably eventually start doing steroids. Maybe I'll get aesthetic enough to fuck bitches. Idk if that would solve anything though.
>>23169781
I don't have hope my man. It's more of the fact that I'm a pussy who couldn't actually commit suicide.
>>23169775
THIS
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>>23169794
You have no hope yet you are adding chicks on kik and I see you post occassionally >tfw no gf
and shit? Don't fucking lie to yourself. Stop making excuses for your own bullshit and live up to yourself
>>23169814
Like I said, I love whining. Also, no girls kik me besides catmolester before I blocked her, and all she did was annoy me/insult me as you can see in this very thread.
>>23169737
Thank you, I'll be heading over there, much appreciated.
>>23169831
meh, she doesn't even respond to me. Lucky you at least got something out of her besides "i love you <3" out of fuck nowhere.
guess i'll never the qt
>>23169850
not you you dumbass cunt
leave them the fuck alone holy shit
whores like you are what ruined r9k recently
>>23169831
i would have killed to have catmolester message me like that
>>23169852
That's what she did to me too. When I ignored her, then she got more desperate. She's a literal succubus.
>>23169850
I don't think that was meant for you, normalgirl :)
>>23169831
she was shit testing you. typical bitch move man
If you love whining, that means you haven't given up. Because you don't constalty whine about shit you don't think you can change.
And no, catmolester said girls love black guys. That was a compliment. Her calling you nigger was probably because you were ignoring her or something, and her being a dumb bitch.
>>23169884
Either way, she can go fuck herself.
>>23169872
oh shes as full of shit about her situation as it gets. I don't believe it at all after seeing how she responds. Its pathetic if anything to watch somebody look for attention as hard as she does. Honestly I didn't believe it in the first place but hey she looks cute so why not attempt right? Wrong. Shes so full of it. What ever honestly not the first female to attentionwhore around here right? she just needs to get the fuck out of my /r9k/ goddamn it.
>>23169897
Women can't be truly lonely. That's something you'll have to learn my man. Never listen to their complaints.
>>23169920
The only reason I bothered was because shes a qt. Didn't know anything about her, still don't.
I know full well they don't understand what its like to be alone. No, they have a boyfriend but "no friends". They complain nobody shows interest in them yet they still reject guys left and right. They say nobody understands yet this entire place is filled with the same damn girl who says the same shit. They all sound the same, do the same things. Its all bullshit even their problems. "I have social anxiety!" No you don't you just heard some dude say it and thought it would make you cute. Toxic creatures.
>>23169942
They're all the same the lot of them, with their long sexual histories and revealing clothes. Drugs, sex, every sort of filth. And they hate virgins, don't they?
>>23169965
Who the fuck cares about any of the sex stuff. You won't get far enough it'll ever matter. I care about them being shitty salesmen. They are the same person and I'm looking for somebody new. Ya know? Fuck anything else lets start at point A and work to point B and so forth.
>>23169976
I was making a little joke based off a quote. But yeah, I understand what youre saying. I mean, I personally don't think I could love a woman who wasn't a virgin, but whatever. Like you said, I'd never get that far.
>What about femanons that were one 0/10 and now a good 7/10, although I still feel 0/10 despite my puberty being nice. I still feel terrible.
Pic related, me. ; (((
>>23170141
Go write a song about your feels.
>>23167539
I was nice to you and we traded nudes and you posted mine. People that I know have them now and you've completely ruined my life. I still have yours btw but I would never post them bc that's wrong. Even after you destroyed my life, I still forgave you and was nice to you. The only thing I've done was call you a nigger which I did after you posted my nudes and told me to kill myself. And that doesn't even compare to what you've done to me
>>23166307
all of those sound like me yeah
i kinda wish i had a girl attracted to me or something
So, what are you guys into? Like, do you like movies? I like movies.
>>23170760
https://youtu.be/gKRzfU3dHGQ
>>23169649
I'm that kind of friendship machine. As long as you're hot and make a good wing woman. If you're the kind of triflin' ho who wants to sex players and complain about the emptiness of it to me because I'm nice and don't charge as much as a psychiatrist? No thank you.
>26yo virgin neet
Ask me anything.
this happened the other day and i realized that i'm still just as hopeless as i ever was
>walk in pawn shop
>there's a qt facing the door
>we make eye contact for about 2 seconds
>this is too much
>completely forget what i came in the shop for
>wander around for a few minutes, then go up to the front desk
>she's standing there too
>the guy is like "can i help you?"
>she starts to talk but i cut her off like an autist and ask if they have electric guitars
>the electric guitars were right behind me
>"oh haha i didn't see those thanks"
>pretend to look at them for a minute then leave silently
>>23172402
How long have you been NEET and do you ever plan on stopping?
>>23172485
Since 14 and I'll stop when my parents are dead.
With some luck they won't spend everything they were left with so I might get to keep my basement.
>>23166776
>filename
>>23167243
Your 185 bench isn't impressing anyone kiddo
>>23167539
You are a piece of shit, and thats why youre a nigger.
>>23169481
Actually not a dude. So hopefully that makes the comment a bit better then.
>generally lonely
I have no real friends, which is entirely my fault. I all but failed high-school, due to truancy. Any close friends i made in high-school began leaving me out during junior year, due to never being around. Forced to go to school senior year, because if i missed more than 10 days in the school year i would fail most definitely. I became bitter, further alienating myself from everyone.
i have no real relationship with my family. Only in the last couple years have i actually connected with my father, but even that is limited. After high-school i went to visit my grandparents who preceded to tell me that they have always hated me. My parents supported their nonsense, so i joined the military the next day. My parents never knew i joined until the day the recruiters came to pick me up and take me to MEPS to be shipped to training. First time my dad ever shook my hand, while muttering, "so this is why you were putting all your stuff in storage." Did the military for awhile. Didn't make any real friends that lasted, but everyone respected me for the most part, because I was a PT stud and extremely competent. Got out of the military, then re-enlisted in the National Guard and began going to community college. Got into strength training. Around 23 years old I was 5'10", 205lbs and about 8% body fat. The way that i carried myself at the time and my physical appearance made me unapproachable to almost anyone, especially 18 year old adults fresh out of high-school. Not to mention i am very soft spoken, which makes almost everyone think that you're an asshole and have a chip on your shoulder. Made zero friends in community college, except one instructor who recently died of cancer. He helped me gain acceptance in an Ivy league engineering school, where i will graduate in a couple of semesters. Still haven't made any friends yet.
should i continue with my shit life?
>>23172824
Oh, well yeah, that makes it even more nice to hear. Thanks again, Anon.
