any women on /soc/ 25 or older?
It hurts so damn much to be considered as old in a few months.
Yikes.
But I bet your still gonna be sexy as fuck
>>23009157
Well as a 43yo guy then you ain't old at all
>>23009136
Sure, but they're all late 20s single mothers with mental issues that do nothing but complain that their baby daddy doesn't pay enough child support even though they're supported enough to never have to work. But they probably spend most of the child support on drugs and alcohol.
Welcome to older women on /soc/. Don't say I didn't warn you.
>>23009170
That's kinda part of the trouble. I miss the times when a 28yo was able to qualify as an interesting as I have a thing for age gaps.
It sucks, sexy or not.
Everything is less fun once you've become 18. When you turn 20 it's a bit worse. Turning 25 is horrifying. Turning 30 - well, I'll avoid if possible and if I find the guts.
>>23009187
kek
>older women
>25
>>23009201
If they didn't make it that low an age, I imagine there would be almost no ladies posting.
It seems rare to find a woman in her 30's on /soc/. I'm getting there at 27, but I'm also fat, so I never really join in these kinds of threads lel.
What kinds of ages do you see in these threads? I've only looked once and I believe I remember a woman in her mid 40's that seemed to have no idea how to quote a post.
>>23009226
>fat
stopped reading there
>>23009188
Idk, I stopped being poor in my 30's. That's an encouraging thing :)
>>23009188
Well age doesn't make people interesting, iys what they have done with themselves and their outlook on life that makes them interesting so age only deters into it so far as having more time spent getting out there.
You just need to stay young at heart and years don't bother you as much as you think they do. Or you can just start counting every other year or every third year if the numbers get too high lol
>>23009229
Of course you did, you super stud of a guy.
>>23009226
I remember one femanon, mother of two or three, posting her rather well-in-shape end-30s body and got flooded by messages of two or three guys.
And although she really did look good for her age, it was a damn pathetic sight.
>>23009234
I am not interested in money. I earn enough and make a living, I am soon going to have my phD, my outlooks are good
>>23009235
I see that and I could do that, but with every year I loose a bit of what I love.
I simply don't want to see myself wither and if I age while staying "young at heart" I will turn into one of the pathetic old sluts I despise so much today.
It's my issue alone. I don't need help (except it is help with erotic assisted suicide. I'd take that. Ha.)
>>23009188
Good to know. Might as well just kill myself now.
>>23009188
>have a thing for age gaps
What about the other way around? The older you get, the more likely to find a young guy that thinks you're attractive. Brings back some youth maybe? Could boost your ego a bit
>>23009188
Don't agree. When I turned 30 I felt more relaxed, more sure of myself and more in charge. I stopped doing stupid shit and grew out a beard. It had really little to do with the age and more to do with manning up and owning my life.
43 here, but I'm a lesbian.
In my teens and 20's I was almost exclusively into older women. Dated a 52-year old when I was 25 and a 41-year old when I was 27.
Not that I'm "older" I still like women my age or a little older.
I am a 43 year old woman too! I am bisexual. Had my first experience with a woman at age 42 and it was wonderful and I would like to have more.
I'm turning 30 in june, everyone always says I look much much younger and they can't believe it but I feel it. I kind of miss the mindless carefree early 20's when I look back on it. I dunno.
>>23009504
>>23009490
>>23009454
We like pictures :)
>>23009513
Is this the kind of thread where people post photos, I don't know.
>>23009534
those threads are always my favourite!
>>23009513
Pic is not me >>23009454 but it's what I look like
>>23009534
Yes, photos are always welcome
>>23009541
Love your nails
>>23009541
You're right, you do look younger than 30, but damn you look good
>>23009538
Very nice :), You dont want to give us the real deal tho?
>>23009541
Gorgeous :)
>>23009560
>Very nice :), You dont want to give us the real deal tho?
Thanks, but no. Work for a very conservative family law firm and while they are very accepting of my sexuality I'm not going to put my face or body out there (I have a lot of unique tats that are very recognizable).
>>23009566
Better safe than sorry when you are in that kind of situation. Makes sence
>>23009566
Ah I see :)
Anyway you look great
>>23009541
Would've pegged you at under 25, happy 30th for June though, best time of the year to be born :)
>>23009560
>>23009580
Thank you both
>>23009541
Jew?
>>23009585
It's a hexagram in this connotation not a star of david. So no.
>>23009351
Not interested in younger guys, so far. :/ And I don't see myself being interested in them. It's a dynamics-thing. I like relationships that have an inherent dom/sub vibe. Which relates to the fact that the dominant part has to be older than the submissive part. I see that I am very narrow minded there, but that's just what it is for me. The idea of an older lady (esp. when this lady is me) getting laid or dominated by a young guy feels wrong.
>>23009583
You're welcome, any other body art hidden away?
>>23009589
I've got 5 tattoos all together, 2 on my arm, one on the back of my neck, the one on my chest and one on my leg. All pretty small and lacking in color.
>>23009592
pics of those ones? Small subtle tattoos are the best tattoos
>>23009592
Colour can sometimes detract from the design, plus all back tattoo's generally last the turn of time and don't end up washed out
>>23009587
So, do you do stuff?
>>23009627
Stuff and things? Sure. I read books and occasionally eat food.
>>23009632
Nice, me too.
what kinda books are ya reading?
>>23009541
>>23009632
Am i wrong in thinking that the tattoo on your chest is a Ouroboros.
The thought that I'm expected to have my first child before I'm 30 (so within two years) is terrifying. I want my youth back dammit. I'm afraid of my first wrinkle, my first gray hair, my metabolism slowing down....as someone who gains weight so easily it kills me.
>>23009725
This
>>23009725
Ah I'm 27 and already have tons of gray hairs =[ luckily my hair is thick so it's not noticeable. And I feel you on the kid thing. I still want to travel and go back to school. Like when the fuck am I gonna have time to have kids? Not to mention I still need a baby daddy dang. Life happens too fast
>>23009714
Yes
>>23009736
>>23009744
Well I mean you don't have to have kids, if you want to have them of course it's your choice when you decide it is time to give birth. You can also live cf pretty happily. Things should be done on your own terms though, travel and live your life, your own happiness is important to your mental well being.
(though yeah I feel your both on the slowed metabolism)
>>23009744
My parents traveled a good deal after having me and later my sister. It can be a pain at times but honestly going with friends can be just as perilous, and we learned fast how to travel and not piss off our parents at the airport! So I say continue pursuing your destinations even after you have a little monster or two!
>>23009768
I definitely want children. One day. I'm not quite ready yet.
>>23009790
I mostly travel alone thus far. But I think traveling with kids might be better than with friends... They have to do what I say muwahaha jk I know that's not how it really works
>>23009541
Holy shit. I would absolutely
>>23009768
>Yes
Youre a homunculus, kek
>>23009808
I've traveled alone as well. Been on a few trips with friends in my younger days and there was so much drama...Id much prefer a temper tantrum from a 5 year old than a supposed adult. Plus, as you say, you can scold the shit out of them and they're likelier to cut it out!
25 is old? :////////////
I'm 28 but not old...
>>23009744
I start grad school in the spring and I want to just die. I'm afraid of what child birth might do to my already fragile body. I put on moisturizer day and night like it's my job.
26 atm. Sad face.
>>23009188
>Everything is less fun once you've become 18. When you turn 20 it's a bit worse.
What? Everything when I was a minor sucked. When I turned 18 I could at least hit on older people without them running away screaming. I'm 20 now and I still feel like such a baby. I'm limited from most of the places that real adults want to spend their time just because I can't drink. It's embarrassing.
>>23009454
How did you meet those older women?
>>23010281
>How did you meet those older women?
52-year old:
>as mentioned I work in a law office
>female attorney comes in
>beautiful, stylish, nice smile
>can't keep my eyes off her
>stare at her almost continually
>day winding down, she's getting ready to leave
>she walks over to my office
>"your a lesbian, right?"
>almost die
>she hands me her card and takes on of mine
>"I'd like to take you out to dinner this weekend"
>so starts our relationship
>>23010281
>How did you meet those older women?
41-year old
>be dating woman into BDSM
>not really into it but decide to give it a try
>get to her apartment, have a few drinks
>decide BDSM isn't my style
>woman goes beserk
>beats the crap out of me
>drags me down the stairs and leaves me laying on sidewalk
>cop pulls up. female cop gets me into an ambulance
>takes my story but don't rat woman out
>three months later I'm drinking in bar
>BDSM woman is there
>starts giving me a lot of crap
>mentions my dead sister
>it's on
>one-punch her and break her nose
>cops called
>same female cop as above
>explain what is going on
>she lets me slip away in the confusion
>she calls me later to check on me
>end up daying
>>23010416
as a side note to this, the attorney belonged to a social club made up of bi/lesbian women in the closet. Wives of politicians, judges, corporate people. all were in the public eye but chose to stay in the closet. All of them older than me. I "dated" most of them.
>>23010435
It's like you stumbled into a goldmine, nice.
>>23010449
So true.
>>23010281
Well maybe that's because I live in europe. AoC is 14 here, I am allowed to do everything since I am 18. And between 14 and 18 I had a lot of fun.
>>23011272
you cant have fun now?
>>23011313
Not the same. It has always been a huge turn on for me to be too young for what I've been doing. I was a damn early bloomer. I didn't like puberty, I didn't like going to school - but I liked the amazed expression on a mans face when he came closer and closer and I showed nothing but appreciation for it. More than everything else...
>>23011272
I didn't feel mentally mature enough to have a bunch of relationships, emotional or sexual, between those ages. I feel a lot more comfortable with it now.
It's foreign to me to imagine girls that age going out on the town, since I was just a child then.
>>23011344
you can still roleplay if you want to be molested i guess.
fuck you OP, now I feel old ;_;
>>23011345
I can see how it must be strange for a lot of people. It's not like I knew a lot of other girls who were like me. Another point I miss. Nowadays I am just like any slut, back then it had a different vibe.
>>23011356
I am looking for older guys with a wicked mind. That helps. But it's getting harder an harder.
It's just not the same.
It's a weird 'problem'
it feel like,alot of women become bi or a lesbian after 30
>>23011822
My best friend is a lesbian and in love with me. It's super hard because I don't want to lose her as my friend but she gets so worked up every few months. I would kill to become gay because we'd probably be the happiest married couple ever.
Why do ladies not want to get older? I'm a guy approaching 30, and I feel like I'm just starting to figure it out. I'm more comfortable and confident in my own skin, physically I'm in better shape than I probably have ever been, and I feel more accomplished. And most importantly, I fuck way better now than I did when I was teen & early/mid twenties.
>>23011881
Because society puts a lot of pressure on women to settle down early. That women become undesirable after age 25 and men become more desirable. Then men at our age only want younger girls and by that point we are pretty much doomed.
But honestly I'm looking forward to 30.
>>23011913
To be honest who cares? I mean society might influence your perception or perspective, but it doesn't change the way you actually look or behave. I would imagine that kind of 'pressure' drives people to excel. I care less and less what people think as I get older, and I'm way better for it.
>>23009490
wow i'm 21 yo bi fem and i hope it doesn't take me that long to get lady laid ;_;
>>23011923
I don't really care you asked and I'm telling you the number one thing I get the most with my age. My mother looks at me like I'm the most pitiful thing in the world because I'm not married. All of my sisters are though. But I'm happy where I am and I'm in to rush to get married to the wrong person. I am really anti divorce so I don't see the problem in taking my time to settle down. I also want to be financially in a stable place when I get to that stage of life.
>>23011937
I've always been anti marriage but seems more optional now that I'm getting older. Really depends though, it would definitely need to be ideal an ideal situation. Most women my age tend to fall off personal aspirations and cling to mine/mens', seems like most women around me are eager to be housewives. That's their idea of financial stability, and honestly the older and more stable I get the more appealing that is to me too.
>25
>older
nah, 25 yo are still children. big ones who are finally making adult money.
>>23011966
If I'm being honest I've always wanted to be a housewife. Well I always have wanted my own family to take care of and love all that jazz. But I also want to work.
>>23011977
I think most girls/women feel this way eventually. So sooner than others I'm sure. Not saying they aren't ambitious or driven, but at some point primal instincts really start being the focus. And children are work, I don't even have any and I know that. Having one and a job might be manageable, but having any more than that and you probably need to have at least one full time parent.
>>23011913
I'd rather be with a lady over 25 than under. People under 25 tend to be super immature. Not that people over 25 are necessarily better.
Anyone have some advice on meeting an older woman? I'm a 27 yo single guy, love women 40+, but haven't been able to find anyone online or IRL.
>>23012581
I agree the older I get the younger 18-24 seems
>>23013220
Craigslist?
Yes, 36 here
I'm 20, male, and I find girls of my age or younger so fucking interesting.
>>23013334
Yeah, that what I was trying. That and POF, Match, etc. Problem with CL is that there's so much spam, and you don't get noticed. POF and Match has older women, but none of them are attractive, or aren't interested in younger guys.
>>23013220
Change your dress code, slacks and button down shirt, loafers instead of gymshoes. Don't go to shitty bars. Try a marriot bar. Biggest thing is dress like a man in her age group would, not her son lol. Do that and as long you have your head on straight you should be good
22 yo make here I just find that girls around my age play too many games. I want a woman that's why I date older haha, they have their head on their shoulders and know what they want in life makes less drama
>>23013334
Yeah, I normally don't think about my age much so from time to time I'll see a girl post here and suddenly realize I'm almost a decade older than half the people here.
>>23011837
had you talk to her, about how you feel?
Hello there anons lol
25 but I still get carded
>be in Army
>about to be in a new class for my job school
>waiting on a 28 year old specialist who like is cool with dork shit
Battle Boo goals.
>>23014425
picture <3 c:
>>23014433
like what?
>>23011822
I really, really hope that's true. Maybe I'll have a gf when I'm older.
>>23014399
Totally. I am completely straightforward with her and we have the same conversation over and over. I just think she thinks I'll change my mind.
>>23014425
I still get carded too. Even for NyQuil.
>>23009188
30 isn't old oh my fucking god you people.
Even for women that isn't old
As a 32 yo guy this thread interests me greatly lol. But seriously, younger girls obviously look younger, but women 30-35 are super attractive and usually have a better idea of what they want. Not to mention more experience and confidence. I like that!
>>23009541
Prime example right here. You are absolutely goegeous.
>>23016279
*Gorgeous even lol
>>23014435
Me
>>23017314
Well hi there QT!
