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>be me
>live w roommate who turns out to be really abusive person
>have to relocate cat, source of my sanity, because of her bullshit
>live in a city where it's really hard to find affordable housing
>refresh craigslist obsessively for three months
>find the perfect place with nice roommate, 10 minute walk to work, close to friends, only $75 more per month
>could move in next week
>not willing to take payments on deposit (paid in full within 2 weeks of moving in - first month's rent paid before moving in, obviously)
>literally no way i could have enough before the 1st
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>>22963273
did op die before finishing his story?
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>>22963281
that's it
i just
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>>22963294
Where are you and how much are we talking about?
Do you have any friends or family who could spot you?
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>>22963319
seattle. i need $1350 to move in, i'll have $1100 by the end of the month but that's before i account for other bills i have to pay this month. i'd basically need like $600 to move in and survive til my next check. i can borrow about $300 from work, I THINK. no family to speak of. i only have two good friends, one of which already knows the situation and hasn't offered (i don't want to ask because i feel like she'd offer if she could). i'm not sure anyone is going to spot me $300 t b h
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can someone hit me w their car at least
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>>22963353
Do you have paystubs? There are plenty of payday-loan type places around Seattle. The rates and fees suck but if you're -sure- that it's a one-time thing and you won't have to do the Payday Loan Death Spiral, it isn't a terrible deal. Take one out on the 28th or something for only what you absolutely need.
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>>22963543
i mean you can always start sucking cocks or jerkin dudes off for some cash money
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>>22963543
Are you a cute girl?
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>>22963543
yes y
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>>22963582

Don't listen to this idea. There is literally nothing worse than trying for a Payday Loan.
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>>22965778
i applied for a low-interest, personal loan thru my credit union. is that preferable?
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>>22963582
nononononononono
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>>22965822
what do you suggest then
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>>22965778
>>22965822
OP sounded desperate! It's better than being stuck with an abusive roomie for at least another month over $300. The $25-30 they'll charge sucks, but it's far from the end of the world IF you're sure you can cover it and not have to take another one. I called it the Payday Loan Death Spiral for a reason.

I think it goes something like this, best to worst:
> Loan from friend/family (pay them back)
> Credit-union loan
> Credit-card cash advance
> Pawning your granddad's watch (make sure to pay off your loan)
> Selling your granddad's watch
> Payday loan
> Vinny the Slugger's House Of Finances

>>22965783
Oh, yeah! If you can get a low-interest personal loan from your credit union, it's much better than a payday loan. That's what having decent credit is for!
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>>22966312
my credit is really terrible. i have no idea if they will approve me but i'm supposed to hear back from them tomorrow or wednesday

if that fails, is it possible to get a payday loan w shit credit?
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>>22966467
I hope it pulls through for you! Even if they give you a higher interest rate, your credit union's the way to go.

Payday loans don't care about your credit at all, they just care that you get paid regularly. Usually what happens is you cut them a post-dated check for the full amount due (typically an extra 10-15% if you're borrowing for two weeks), and when payday comes they deposit it. You can see where this can get you into a lot of trouble really quickly if it's not absolutely a one-time float.
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>>22967581
okay, thanks for help! i really appreciate it. i was like crying my eyes out this morning but i'm feeling less hopeless about it now
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>>22967598
I should point out that "higher interest rate" in credit union terms is still really low compared to a payday loan. A credit union might charge you 15-20% per year. A payday loan place will charge you 10-15% per two weeks (over 3500% per year). So when >>22965822 and >>22965778 say it's the worst option ever and I say it's only an option because of your abusive situation, we're not kidding.


Where in Seattle are you, by the way?
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>>22967641
north end
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>>22967796
Ah, that probably won't work out then. I'm working every day this week but I might be able to buy you dinner sometime next week if you need someone to listen for a while. I'm closer to downtown, though, so it might not be worth your trip.
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