Ask him if he's ever tried to use a mood ring as a butt plug

>>22912675
You cannot change someone's nature. If he is not kikny enough for you either:
A) You love him enough to overcome this difference.
B) Kink is too important to you to stay in an unfulfilling relationship.

>>22912675
For the record, what kind of kink are you looking for?

>>22912689
It might be that he just doesn't realize he's into that shit.
When my girl confided in me that she wanted to call me daddy and get slapped and choked and degraded during sex, I wasn't into it, at first, but I started to do it because she did things for me that she wasn't too into (pretty much just face sitting, was my only big fetish), because that's what partners in a healthy relationship do, they support and nurture each other, including sexually. After a few times, I came to realize that I just thought I was vanilla, and that I really liked it when she called me daddy, when I'd choke her or slap her around.
Same thing when she brought up that she was into rape play, I was really against that one, at first, until I gave in and tried it and loved it and I'd say that it's our rape fantasies that lead to the most post-coital cuddles and lovey-dovey bullshit.
OP, just talk to him about it, and see what he's comfortable starting with, and go from there.

>>22912700
Dom/ sub stuff (maledom), and dirty talk in general; toys, outfits, slave/master things.
The thing is, he likes these kinks, he just never wants to DO them, just watch porn about them

>>22912710
You're right, I suppose, and we have talked about it. It's just, that as a hardcore sub, I feel uncomfortable for asking for it and interrupting his pleasure. I only get off on turning him on, or making him cum, and so I hate bringing it up during the act

>>22912733
>>22912742
Men are stupid, and you literally have to tell us what to do until we figure it out and can fly solo.
It's why I've never been able to enjoy a one night stand, because the chick is never comfortable enough to say exactly what it is that she wants, and then she never cums and I just can't stay hard if a chick isn't really enjoying it, the pussy feels different and everything.

>>22912753
>and you literally have to tell us what to do until we figure it out and can fly solo.
I mean, speak for yourself. It just sounds like you're not very confident.

>>22912757
I'm confident that I can pound your faggot boy pussy until you squeal, gay boy. Fuck off, homoqueer.

>>22912753
Speak for yourself man. Most guys are naturally dominant and can listen to their instincts I think. You just sound particularly weak and stupid.

So anyone wanna give a cute sub some tips on dirty talk?

>>22912772
>"faggot" ad nauseum as an insult
Thanks for proving my point. Now you just sound like you're 15

>>22912854
>cute sub
Sure, but it'd be a hell of a lot easier to have a conversation like this not on anti-/soc/ial

>>22912854
I hadn't experienced this until a met up with a Tinder match on Tuesday who said "sje wasn't trying to hook up". Basically with her she used a very submissive tone of voice, and asked how she could please me. Occasionally she'd intentionally act up so that I'd have to punish her. But I'm not sure how submissive you are and what you're into. At a certain point you're going to have to talk about it