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What does it feel like to be loved? Did it has a real impact
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What does it feel like to be loved? Did it has a real impact on your life?
Serious question.

Pic related.
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>>22871232
>love
>pic related
>pic is porn
Typical male.
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It feels perfect and wonderful and blissful when you're loved back by someone you love but it also hurts like hell when they forget about you.
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>>22871256
But... but... she loves dick!
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>>22871232
The impact love has increases the length of your life.
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>>22871425
never been loved and i hope i due soon so yea this makes sense.
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>>22871431
die
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>>22871232
I've only ever beein in love with and felt loved by one person including my family, and I can tell you that it's amazing.

It's kind of like being able to see yourself through the eyes of someone who sees you as someone amazing, not just some shitty average dude, and it makes you appreciate yourself. It's nice to have someone you can trust and be vulnerable in front of. Those are when you get the most important glimpses of yourself through the eyes of another, and the times when you grow the most as a person, and you grow closer together as a couple.

I kind of don't want to form the thick callous around myself that's necessary to have sex and not have strong emotions for the other person. Sex when you're in love feels just so amazingly intimate that I can't imagine doing it with someone I didn't love. I've never had sex with someone I didn't love before though, so I guess I have nothing to compare it to.
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>>22871232
It really depends on the person, I think

My current bf says he loves me, but I really don't feel different about it. And for a long time I honestly thought my goal in life wasjust to be loved. It's just like... I don't even know. I am just ok with it? My reaction to it is the same it would be to a weather report
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>>22871431
I too haven`t experienced love and am trying to avoid it at all costs because if you look at women these days (i assume you are male like myself) love is literally not worth it. If you poke around google & look up what are the goals of feminism, you`ll understand.
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Made me realize how much of an asshole I am, how much of an asshole women can be, how selfless and nice both men and women can be, and gave me perspective on why guys here pretend all women are evil and men are saints. Easier to blame your mistakes and shortcomings on others.
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>>22871232
>asking this question on 4chan
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>>22871232
3 girls have told me they loved me at 24. It's pretty validating.
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>>22871256
Thread.

Now that's done, let's talk business, source for the vid?
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Oh look, another guy equating sex and love.
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>been terribly infatuated many times
>but have never been "in love"

Not the best feel t b h
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>>22872163

Sex does not equal love, but passion often equals both.
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>>22871232
Both of my exes still want me, my current gf loves me, my family loves me, two of my friends -very good friends - love me, met a chick at the university today that wrote me a love letter about how open, funny and cool she thinks i am.

>mfw i don't know what and how to feel

what impact? i never asked for this. i just live my life. with or without love.
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>>22872211
> met a chick at the university today
> wrote me a love letter
She cray.
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fond but not in love, thats what i say
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Really depends on the situation. Mutual love is actually rare, and most won't have it (even married couples).

Being loved and not loving the person back is awkward and hurtful. Unrequited love is more painful than almost anything.
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>>22872562
I am pretty sure, getting your dick stuck in a blender hurts more.
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Love sucks, makes you do and say stupid shit, being in a relationship is draining just don't do it
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>>22871256
As a male, I'd just get a dog and just watch porn on the side to relieve carnal urges.

Other humans can't compete with a dogs ability to selflessly and unconditionally love you.
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>>22871232
>what does feel like to be loved
>pic related

That make no fucking sense
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>>22871232
Moar of this?
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>>22872608
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It feels amazing, better than anything Ive ever felt. When it goes bad it makes you feel worse than you can imagine. Almost to the point that it's not worth messing with again.
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I love someone who doesn't love me back as much as I love her. It hurts, bad. I hate it most days and some days I just feel like I'm carrying on.
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Love is like being single, but there's two of you.

Your anxiety is generated by two separate people, same with guilt and regret.

The difference is losing agency in the other half, so coping mechanisms and constructive habits get thrown out the window.

It's a genuine hell that you chose not to leave.
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>tfw forgot that such a thing actually exists
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