I've been using tinder for about 7 months, I liked about 99% of the girls and still no answer from anyone. Is tinder only useful for girls or I'm the unluckiest guy using it?
Something like 20 percent of the guys sleep with like 70 percent of the girls, or statistics to that effect.
>>22843955
So, have I no hope?
>>22844519
Post your profile!!@
>>22844519
Money is your hope. Success is your hope.
If you are ugly..
..Get good career.
..Be healthy
.. Go to other country where women will treat you like God..
>>22843917
>I liked about 99% of the girls
There's your problem. You're desperate.
>>22843917
don't worry man i get a bunch of matches (not a shit ton) but 90% of the people don't respond to messages 9.5% are spam profiles advertising to people and the other 0.5% are people who reply
Post a pic op, I'll tell you what's wrong with you.
>>22843917
Tinder works better for pretty people first, and funny people second. If your profile is neither of those then you're fucked.
protip; use the opening line "truth or dare"
if they answer truth, say
>"now you TRUTHfully have to give me your number"
if they answer dare, say
>"i DARE you to give me your number"
whoever doesn't respond well is one of these things
1) stick up their ass
2) on tinder to "make friends"
neither of which should be on tinder anyway
i suggest deleting your account, getting your profile reviewed to make sure its not garbage and you're not using terrible pics, and re-activate your account. it resets all your swipes
>>22844733
This is fucking stupid.
>>22844774
its not a guarantee but it works well on the kinds of girls you want to meet through tinder and I've had decent success with it.
>>22844814
It's basic, desperate, and uninteresting.
Dunno I had a guy come over tonight after meeting after a littlle bit of convo.
Step one: be attractive
Step two: don't be unattractive.
>>22844934
Thanks for the descriptive and helpful essay, numbnuts.
>>22844934
Slut
>>22844873
alright, what do you use for a greeting?
>>22844940
>>22844945
Is there a problem with being a slut now?
What do you want me to tell you.
Im a trap. The hardest time I have is people just being flaky but thats with eveything in general.
>>22843955
Glad to know I'm a 20%'er
>>22843917
On Tinder it's 100% about how your main photo looks, so take a clean pic with really nice lighting and shop out anything that looks bad
>>22844774
>>22844873
It is, but if you're attractive it literally doesn't matter and it works anyways
>>22844977
>using tinder for months
>no trap matches
WHY GOD
Need profile summary ideas
>>22843917
Here I will give you a tinder overview.
>Photos
DO
>Have a clear face shot
>Have an activity photo with friends
>Have a pet photo(with or without you)
>Activity should be outside, and not a bar
Donts
>NO mirror selfie
>NO gym selfie(you're dyel anyways)
>NO pictures with chicks(None)
>Bios
DO
>Keep it funny
>Post you height if you are over 6'2
Don't
>post your height if you are under 6'2.
>be serious
>conversations
Do
>always one liners to start(can't stress it enough)
>always end it some sort of question
Donts
>end conversations with "ok" or "lol"
>start a conversation with hello or what's up.
The object is to stand out, there is probably 10/1 ratio of dudes to chicks. You aren't the only horny dude texting that chick.
>>22843917
It's because its used for porn not spamming and nothing else. Bunch of keks on here actually believe they're talking to real women.
>>22846572
>Bios
DO
>Keep it funny
Help
>>22846578
I don't know how tall you are but my bio says
>Life's short, good thing I'm not.
>6'6
I have over 850 matches and I don't even swipe right to everyone anyone.
>>22846572
Would like to add that swiping right on everyone at first is a must. Talk to people and you it will become easy as fuck.
Yes shallow sluts will block you, who the fuck cares. Have fun with it.
>>22846600
>>22846572
Last thing I'll leave the thread with is it won't hurt to widen your looking range. Definitely if you aren't good at talking to people, just swipe right on everyone with a wide range. The fat chicks, the black chicks, the ugly chicks, the sluts, the Asians, ISIS, and most importantly the traps.
So following a month of no luck, I followed advice like this from a previous thread, and I just got 3 matches, 2 average and one very pretty.
How the fuck do I start talking to them? What do I say? Am I supposed to message first?
Help me, guys, I'm flying blind.
>>22844733
I immediately unmatch anyone who opens with this bullshit. it's like you never developed past middle school
>>22846578
Try to be kinda nerdy/corny assuming that you look like someone that uses 4chan. I switched to something nerdy and I've been getting way more matches (mostly 'geek' girls but whatever) and some girls have even asked me about it. If you can't think of anything unique say 'my mom says that I'm pretty cool, so I got that going for me'.
>>22846820
Look at their profile/name and try to make a pick up line or a joke based on it. If they have something interesting in their pics just ask them about it. Don't use a generic pickup line. If you do, use a generic obvious sounding one and make a twist to it.
>>22846837
And I can just message them right away? No stigma if I do it immediately? Or if I wait a while, for that matter?
>>22846845
anytime after a minute
I'm curious, are you actually talking to real people on tinder?
I mean, the few times I have even bothered firing it up, 99% of people are spam bots.
Thought about getting tinder but i just made an ad on Craigslist instead amd lost my virginity there.
I got bored, I never use my tinder and usually just use my swipes per 12 hours. Messaged the three cutest girls, got three numbers by the end of the night. I hope to god I didn't get their names wrong because I put them as Girl #1, 2, 3 in my phone.
It's pretty easy if you don't look like Shrek, and can communicate. Look at their profile, do some research, try and show like you're attempting to engage in a meaningful conversation.
Usually for the ones out of my league I go with the "I couldn't really find anything on your profile to open with, but I'm going to guess you're a model". I get a response for that MOST of the time.
Im planning on banging all 3. Should be a fun week.
>>22847130
Are you a girl, or jealous?
Either way, he turned you off to that line.
Everyone: I'm thinking of losing my virginity on craigslist. What should I post as an add? I have a decent face, but I'm unsure if craigslist is the right place for a picture.
Advice?
>>22846959
How long ago was it? What did you say?
>>22844939
This !
>>22846577
2butthurt2furious
>>22847038
Why save their numbers at all?
>>22846577
Lol, the level of beta where you stop believing people actually have sex since it's so utterly alien to you.
>>22846833
[x] stick up your ass
>>22848581
>is mad you sound like a 14 year old on kik
>>22843917
How Facebook integrated is tinder anyway? Like how much of my Facebook would be seen on tinder and vice versa.
>>22844733
please reread
>>22846833
>it's like you never developed past middle school
Truth
>>22848638
again, people with a stick up their ass don't like it, and you don't want to match with people who have a stick up their ass, they shouldn't be on tinder.
>>22843917
Post your profile dude.
I'm thinking of losing my virginity off craigslist, before moving to tinder.
>>22846572
This is near perfect but >have a pet photo
wtf?
>>22847454
>>22847436
Oh look, shills
>>22852431
go to park find pet owner ask can i pet him. take a selfie with it.
>>22846448
Sorry T_T
I just wish half of the people who match would send a message like hi. It's not like I'm going to bite you hard.
>>22852431
Ill be honest if you have a photo with a pet Im more likely to swipe right on you.
Also I can post my tinder and yeah if you want
Granted this is my opening Photo
>>22852665
look a little like a mormon guy with daddy issues gone full transgender. But still, enough pints & I would probably throw you a bone.
This happened to me, I was unmatched by both of them haha
Been on tinder for about two weeks.
Honestly man I've had about 150 matches (see pic) and I've been on a date with Two of them and one was boring as fuck and one was cute but sorta annoying.
It's a numbers game I don't even talk to half my matches.
>>22852995
Oops
Been in relationship for over 10 years. This sort of thing wasn't even invented last time I was single. Jesus even iPhones didn't exist.
Would love to just plough through a load of casual hook ups from tinder, I'm 6'6 so according to this thread in sure I'd get some matches. I would probably swipe right on most girls.
Never gonna happen tho...
>be a guy
>pick 3 best pictures out of facebook account
>remove the ones who make me look retarded
>only swipe selectively, end up only liking one out of 10 girls or so
>wait a couple of hours
>get 5+ matches
>one of them a 10/10 barely 18 year old aussie over here for just a few days
>delete app cause I'm in a relationship
>get depressed
>tfw
