Can we please get an insecurity thread going?
I just need to wind off somewhere it's too much for my little heart to carry. Also other people feeling bad can do the same.
>pic related is me,19yo,girl,5"3...
>i always wanted to be cute in a kawaiidesoo tiny loli way
>i'm trying to grow out my hair, take care of my skin,...
>i feel too tall,too big,too old
>i just want to look smaller,cuter,younger,cuter,..
>i feel like crying because no matter how hard i try i feel like i'm shit and will never be cute like all the girls i see doing kawaii shit
>body dysmorphia is coming back lately and i feel absolutely terrible
>tl;dr i just want to be a cute tiny girl (and be the precious little baby of someone.)
>>22571687
idk i think you can easily put it off if youd do the smiling part and shit + make up
If that's you in ur pic I think you already posses the facial features that are considered very fm wine and cute. Just because you are not super petite like the girls you're talking about, doesn't make you any less cuter. Keep growing out your hair and trust me, you def have the potential to pull of the look.
>>22571687
But that's just it, you are extremely cute as is. Don't try to be what others are because you're fine the way you are. Now me on the other hand, I look like a caveman from the geico commercials.
>>22571696
Yeaah i should.
Once a weeb friend of mine dressed me up in kindergarten clothing haha. I look SO disgruntled (was the end of a long day so i probably was really tired and tend to be grumpy when tired) but inside i actually liked it even though it was childish and "weird".
Should i do anything to look more cute and younger?
>>22571699
Aw. I'm like 5"3 so that's on the small/average side but sometimes i don't know i just feel so big in this world, i wish i was so small i could crawl in a hole sometimes. Back in high school, my 6"2 tall friend would put me in his locker for giggles
You look more like 30.. I'm not trying to be mean but I thought you were like 27..
>>22571703
Geico commercial??
Also thanks, i just wish i could like,you know, do better!
>>22571730
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8o_YqzMBoo
You don't need to do better because you're great the way you are.
>>22571725
Eh? How do i look so old..?..haha wow, it's ok anon. I can take criticism. I'm already bawwing anyway haha. It's ok, i know i have flaws.
>>22571687
You have such a pretty face. Just needed to say that.
>>22571687
How small do you want to be? your already small enough. you look really good you don't need to change anything
>>22571741
That's really sweet anon,on this pic i'm at my worst i guess (i look tired too,i barely sleep because i spend nights crying and looking in the mirror haha i'm a mess at the moment but trying to get better). So wow. didn't see that kind of thing coming.
Moooooh t'es la petite frenchie bi sexuelle de la dernière fois !
T'es mimi comme tout ! T'es si mignonne que je te mangerai ^^
>>22571753
Salut ; - ; Je suis pas vraiment bi en fait?.
T'es adorable. Je me sens vraiment horriblement mal ces temps ci et comme j'ai personne j'ai ouvert une insecurity thread parce que pourquoi pas? Et comme ça je pouvais retirer ça de moi.
>>22571753
>>22571760
Débarquement de français !
Tu as l'air mignonne, il manque juste un sourire !
Je ne pense pas qu'ouvrir un thread ici puisse vraiment aider, après je dois surement me tromper.
Au final une bonne discussion bien deep fait toujours du bien .
>>22571760
Ah bah j'en sais rien moi t'avais posté chez les filles bi/lesb alors je me suis dit que tu l'étais !
Mais je comprends, si tu veux parler un peu on peux toujours, je suis gentil de nature (et c'est même pas moi qui le dit mais une amie !) alors si ta besoin de te sentir un peu mieux... Demande !
J'aimerais trop pouvoir te cuddle jusqu'au bout de la nuit t'as l'air d'être un vrai bébé trop mignon j'adore !
Mais bon, je t'envoie un mental hug à la place :p
>>22571777
Woop woop.
Je crois parfois que je souffre du syndrome de Peter Pan. J'aimerais avoir un corps et un visage d'enfant. Et vieillir ou même ressembler à une "jeune fille" ça me met mal..Je suis vraaaiment pas bien dans ma tête. Je sais pas vraiment sourire tellement je vais mal, je souris à peine en fait et jamais en photo. La joie de vivre ultime.
(translating, i just said i think i miiight have a peter pan syndrome, idk, i just wanna look like a child body wise and face wise when i think about it. Also about my smile i rarely ever smile tbh, feeling terrible so i smile even less, i try but it's hurting my cheeks and nothing else, yes i'm a very joyful person)
I fucking hate my eyebrows
>>22571687
you need to stop worrying about other people and how they look like or want to be them if you be yourself and like who you are the more people are going to like you and the more your going to like yourself if your not happy with yourself you will never be happy in life just be you and don't worry about other. my name is Jordan by the way
>>22571786
Et moi je crois que je dois souffrir un peu du complexe du sauveur ;_;
J'ai BESOINS qu'on ai besoin de moi, c'est pour ça que le côté ptite fille ultra needy ca me plairait à fond !
>>22571786
Moi même j'ai un peu du mal a vieillir mais ça ne me met pas aussi mal que toi.
Encore niveau taille tu n'es pas bien grande je trouve ça mignon, tu as l'air d'avoir une jolie peau toute pâle. il manque plus que l'air enfantin quand on te regarde dans les yeux !
Un conseil si je peux me permettre mais ça se ressent tout de suite dans les photos ton malaise a travers ton regard, la façon dont tu te tiens, commence par travailler sur ça peut-être ? Se sentir bien dans sa peau est un premier pas pour se sentir mieux dans sa tête
>>22571799
Haha moi je le cache à mort mais j'ai besoin d'ENORMEMENT d'attention,j'ai besoin très souvent d'être rassurée,qu'on me donne un sentiment safe,que on me dise que tout ira bien,que on me laissera pas. On m'a déjà laissée tellement de fois en fait je fais très difficilement confiance et je "mords" pas mal, je parais aggressive,hostile et tout mais au fond je suis un genre de boule d'émotions qui pleure avec son doudou la nuit et qui a besoin de câlins.
Je suis très virile.
>21/f
>5'1"
>piggish nose after rhinoplasty (an improvement but not much)
>large forehead
>chubby cheeks
>jowls stating to come in
>basically ugly as fuck
>huge eye bags
>hair thinned out because sick
kill me this is suffering
>>22571687
Don't be silly, OP
You're one of the prettiest things I've ever seen. I'd be as nice and mean to you as you could take. 5'3 is cute as fuck.
>>22571721
You pull off the cute little loli thing pretty well
>>22571818
Oh my god.
Et je suis typiquement le genre de type qui rassure, qui donne énormément d'affection car je veux voir l'autre heureuse (avant meme ma personne) stable, rassurant et tout... Je te need.
>>22571829
hon hon hon
Putain trop de français. J'espère au moins qu'un de vous est québécois.
>>22571821
Pic ? Im sure you exagerate
>>22571837
Sud-ouest de la France monsieur ! Toulouse pour être exact
>>22571835
Baguette
>>22571835
Exactly
>>22571837
Non désolé pas pour moi, je suis un bon connard de france
>>22571842
*frerepoing*
I apologize on all the french invasion here tho, keep on ranting i'm listening.
En fait je parle français mais je suis de Belgique.
>>22571837
Le Quebec c'est bien, j'aimerais y aller un jour!!
>>22571823
Awe...well right now i'm shaking a bit bc cold and cried like a child. Ha ha. But i can handle things pretty well i was bullied for 5years at school bring it on!!
>>22571829
Le dernier type à qui j'ai donné ma confiance (il me rassurait toujours,on parlait de trucs de kikoujap ensemble,...) c'est averé être un psychopathe pédophile. Je me suis barrée.
Après 3ans. Je suis plus attirée par les filles en fait mais y'en a jamais...; _ ; Je veux juste quelqu'un comme ça dans ma vie pour avoir quelque chose de stable dans ce monde instable. Pourquoi la vie.
>>22571827
Eh? Don't i look too old and weird?
>>22571888
No, you're really cute :3
>>22571888
>Belgique
Ton pays est un meme. Bruxelles?
>afraid of pedos
>on 4chan
Y'a quelque chose qui marche pas là.
My nose (pic related) and my total inability to gain any muscle
>>22571903
Ouip, Bruxelles.
Non mais je sais, ils me terrifient pas non plus j'y suis habituée j'en attire IRL aussi la joie. Mais ici encore ça va je suis habituée j'ai tout vu je crois.
>>22571787
shave them off then. Do it dooo eeet!
>>22571888
Oula oui, je comprends... C'est à toi de voir, si tu veux faire connaissance jpeux te filer mon kik : garzwook
Mais pour l'instant je vais me coucher, demain je bosse :(
>>22571888
Aw, I could hold you and strangle you a little if you wanted, maybe leave you all red and warm and read to you until you fell asleep.
This is you right? You're already really petite at your height, 19 is young and virgin is a major plus, ffs anyone on this website would wife you in an instant.
Plus sérieusement en fait je sais pas je me sens trop "grande"? J'aimerais être une petite chose toute mignonne parfois et même que je fais 162cm et que souvent on me prends pour un peu plus jeune j'aimerais juste être encore plus petite que ça. Je suis pas normale. Mais faire "mature" comme les filles de mon âge qui se maquillent,mettent des talons,des vêtements "femmes" je hais ça et je veux pas.
Puis je rentre dans des trucs rayon enfant encore donc je profite parfois ils ont des trucs jolis. Moi aussi je veux un petit lapin sur mes bottes d'hiver.
>>22571923
Si t'en attires IRL c'est que t'as l'air d'une enfant non ? Faut voir le bon coté des choses, héhé...
>>22571923
Exactement ce que >>22571939 disait, ça devrais te rendre contente.
Sinon trouve un mec grand et bien bâti pour compenser ton manque de petite taille. Les Pays-Bas sont juste à coté ça doit pas manquer de géants.
>>22571687
5'3" is short, but you don't look very young, I would've guessed you were at least 25 to be honest
You could pull off hipster pretty well
>>22571821
IF you need a vent, hit me up on Skype, at Not Just a Stun
>>22571687
Well fam I am definitely insecure over the fact I've never gotten anywhere with girls and how average people seem to claim I m
>>22571936
Heyyy you found me there, it was a reaally lucky pic of me from a photoshoot. Aw. That made me feel a bit better thanks.
>>22571933
Je peux essayer toujours? Je vais reinstaller kik. Je devrais aller dormir sinon demain je saurai encore pas étudier correctement. Dernière fois que j'ai passé la nuit à chialer devant mon miroir je me suis endormie sur mon syllabus je me suis reveillée avec des marques de surligneur. La grande classe.
>>22571934
Why would you strangle me tho? I know i'm a brat sometimes so that may explain things.
>reading before you fall asleep
Hng
>>22571947
Eh, why don't i look very young anyway?
It's kinda depressing to hear.
Oh god i HATE hipster. It's even more depressing.
>>22571939
>>22571946
Meh, je crois que ils craquent sur les filles de genre 16-17ans en général donc pas vraiment pédophiles... Les mec me font peur et ne m'intéressent pas vraiment, je suis souvent assez aggressive et hostiles avec eux parce que je suis mal à l'aise.?
>>22571687
Get your roots touched up, then your frown will turn upside down.
Fuck OP tbh ever since you posted the month before I thought you were cute as fuck and didn't even try to contact because I'm sure you don't want to risk talking to some fucking stalking weirdo(I'm not but there's a shit ton on here). I liked the picture you're in a jacket and kind of twirling your hair. I wish I could hug and pick you up no bullshit. I dig the black under blonde hair color.
>tfw will never hug and cuddle cute little French speaking insecure princess
>>22571977
Meh, y a t il un moyen de te contacter ultérieurement ?
>>22571963
Honestly if I was Canadian I'd just tell you to come live with me and be my loli-maid and I'd spank you senseless and cuddle and whatnot. You have nothing to worry about and fit perfectly into what you're trying to go for.
>>22571963
Because you need be quiet sometimes, duh. I could read to you for hours pretty much. It's one of my favorite things an pretty girls deserve privilages sometimes. And sometimes they need lots of pain.
>>22572016
I'm actually pretty quiet in real life, i don't talk much unless i'm talking about something i really like or to someone i like a lot
>>22572004
Oh gosh i need cuddles so bad...I'm just feeling awful tonight like i'm crying since two hours now.
>>22572033
Tonight? Fuck that means you're far as fuck then. Can't even be hopeful to meet fml.
erm, I'm not sure if I'm insecure, but I can't really talk to people without spilling my spaghetti anymore, because I just can't see a point in talking to anybody, since everybody I've known has screwed me over, but now I'm alone and only have friends from Kik threads, in different countries now
>>22572033
you're kawaii as fuck and the cutest fucking weeb I've ever seen, I'm sorry you're insecure, you're a real beautiful person, if I must say so myself
and I'm from the UK, I'm supposed to hate French people apparently
>>22572033
kik Jupiter92, skype hilal.russell
let it all out babygirl
I think i'm looking old bc of how tired and sad i am lately, i think that might be it, it doesn't make you all radiant and youthful.
>>22572048
I'm from Belgium, i love the UK i dream to go there once. You're adorable thanks, made me a bit less of a sobbing mess. Wow i swear tonight i beat my crybaby record. When i'm alone i let it all out actually.
>>22572056
adding you once i installed kik, sorry to bother
>>22572080
ahhh thanks!
honestly though you don't really look old or tired or anything, you're sweet as shit for your emotional side though, it's like a breath of fresh air
you're very lovely
(also I'd love to get your kik as well, to talk and stuff whenever, if you don't mind I guess)
>>22572033
Aw man that's cute
>>22572101
I'm just some girl that wish to look like 14 i'm not mentally sane probably like the thought of being called adult/madam and being told i look my age or older just litterally makes me wanna cry
>>22572123
you look pretty damn young in the OP, but I bet you would look even cuter in short sleeved tops
I don't know what makes me think that, but I think that's what makes you look so adorable in the photoshoot pic
>>22572123
Hush baby girl, it'll be ok, my id changed but just kik me, I'll calm you down, you're a little Angel
>>22572123
Hey OP. How long has it been since you realized that shit made you feel bad?
My paws. They're so pink!
>>22572146
It's cute anon i'm feeling a bit better already...I get told i'm young and cute and to stop worrying but sometimes it won't stop
>>22572123
You're pretty alright...honestly, you make a pretty good loli in my books and I'd love to take you home with me
>>22571912
I like your nose. It's a good nose.
>>22572172
i would say about some months ago because of a "lolicon" guy and i felt "pressured" somehow? Not like "muh oppression" or anything but i pressured myself hard to be cuter and cuter and younger and it stayed.
>>22572158
I installed it, i'm login in anon i'm ok i stopped crying at least still shaking a bit you sound so sweet i'll talk to you...
>>22572195
Ok now that was way too cute.
Your paws are absolutely beautiful Mr. Flufflepaws.
I just want to eat you up, bury you in my arms. Don't cry hun.
>>22571912
No offense but that nose is cute anon i would poke it.
Also muscle isn't all that? I mean unless you wanna be ripped af?
>>22572196
>>22572212
well I hope you add me on Kik, once you've made one
best take a not of mine
MisterMagpie
I try not to tell people they have nothing to worry about, because nobody who gets told that just agrees right there
but yeah, you're an incredibly sweet girl, plus you seem loads younger than me, when we're the same age
>>22572212
OP, I don't think that what you need right now is people telling you you look really young and worshipping your pics. I think you don't need yes men atm, but to really talk.
>>22572261
Yeah, that's it. I just added that french guy bc he genuinely seemed nice and not like guys trying to score or get nudes or anything. Anyway i can see clear through that usually so...the last one idk but i can give a chance uh?
My eyes stopped raining and the mist has gone away. It'll get better.
But yeah nah i don't want compliments actually nor do i want worshipping, seriously that's not what i am after, like "ooh but you are a perfect young kawaii babyyy" that's nice and all but i don't want that. Just talking and all.
>>22572278
I'd actually like to talk and be genuine friends. Every time I talk to people who say they want conversation they say 5 times max and stop talking.
>>22572278
I'd give you my kik; but I really don't wanna post it here. Do you talk to someone regularly about stuff like this?
>>22572296
Idk no one, except my therapist since my suicide attempt last year (spoiler: it failed, few pills away, but i'm kinda happy i'm still alive sometimes i mean hey there are anime and games coming out, i would have missed that really cute new animal crossing game too. So i still look forward things.)
>>22572293
I wish yeah, most of the people i had on kik if not all actually were just creepers and once they saw a pic of me they harassed me to get nudes and stuff , also a guy pretending to be a girl to catfish me haha. It was sad but kinda funny.
Soryr i haven't seen >>22571987 before, awe i wish we could, i'm mainly attracted by girls if not totally but inside i still have this tiny soft spot for things like this with guys? It's too weird.
>tfw i'll never have a oniichan to take care of in a tsundere way and be gross weebs with
>>22572378
Don't you find it curious how most depressed people almost always tell you "Yeah, I was at a low place; but I'm doing better now", and you, being the depressed person look back at the moment when you said that and think you weren't doing well at all, but now you are and over and over.
>>22572378
I'd honestly want to hug you in shit regardless if it was sexual or not. I'm content with giving affection . I want an outlet that gives a fuck. If you would OP message me you kik [email protected] lets be real buds.
>>22572463
messaging you and going to sleep, it's 1.21 am here. All this crying and shaking and bawing just made me tired so i'm going to crawl under my blanket,put on a fluffy pajama and going to bed with a stuffed animal
>>22571781
Ah et oui je suis mainly lesb. En fait les garçons me font un peu peur, les filles me rassurent.
Hug hug aussi, je vais dormir il est très tard ;;
>csq j'aimerais cuddle all night
Sometimes I hate everything about myself. My droopy, too-close-together eyes, my pronounced chin, wideset node, big forehead, puffy cheeks and boring skinny boyish frame with awkward short-person proportions. My eyes are blue, but not the good kind of blue.
Honestly, I never believe people who call me pretty. During the day when people "hit on me" or "catcall" I assume they are making fun of me. Any romantic or flirtacious advances are really cruel tricks.
I feel ugly a lot. When I drink, I think I'm cute. When I drug I think I'm a model.
Probably fucked me up because I had a modeling contract when I was 15 but never started and it ended in the worst way ever. Was basically torn apart so his cruel words always overshadow the kind ones.
>>22572378
You should message me your kik handle here: [email protected]
>>22572539
I think you probably don't feel ugly; but not pretty enough. Are you seeing a therapist?
>>22572610
Yea, I am. I am on lotso meds.
>>22572670
Do you feel like you're abe to be completely honest with your pill-provider?
>>22572539
Do want !
I don't know why you are so down on your self
I fucking despise myself. I probably won't even end up submitting this message because I don't believe in burdening other people with my pathetic and essentially non exists any problems. I have some friends and I can get on reasonably well in social settings but inside I just feel constantly distant. I consider myself to be too ugly to be worth looking at so I won't post a picture on here, and I always assume the most negative outcome in any situation. I used to do well when I was in highschool and I still consider myself somewhat intelligent but I don't have the self confidence to ever believe that I can succeed at anything and I'll downplay any tiny skills that I have. I'm resolved to living a life of boredome and mediocrity, though people tell me I can do better. I think they're only saying it out of sympathy and I don't consider myself to be a special person that could succeed if only they had the motivation, I know that I am shit.
I slept with one of my closest friend's girlfriends after an alcohol fueled night out when I was eighteen, and despite the fact that she was a poisonous bitch and was only with my friend to get closer to another friend, and the relationship was doomed anyway, I still can not forgive myself for it. It was nearly two years ago. My friend has forgiven me but that just makes me hate myself even more, I could never be as good a human as him. The bitch made all the moves and had intended to cheat on him for a while, I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, but that doesn't take away any of the blame. I still betrayed a friend's trust in weakness and virginal desperation. Earlier that night I had promised that friend that I would never do anything to hurt him when he saw his girlfriend flirting with me; the worst bit was that I meant this when I said it so now I can't even trust my own word.
>18/m/bi
>5'6"
>chubby cheeks
>timid as fuck
>pirate eye
>huge nose
>baby face so no one likes me
>a forehead like 6 fingers long
>>22572775
All I've ever wanted is someone give my love to, and hopefully receive some back from, but I know I don't deserve that.
I'll probably kill myself when I've visited a few more of the cities I'd like to see and finished my backlog of books and music.
I'm so skinny and pale my arms literally look like I took them off a child sized mannequin
>>22572929
all the photos from my phone are TOO FUCKING BIG
>>22572785
Your cheeks look fine to me. Unless you meant your ass
I like your pirate eye, it actually makes me more attracted to you
Your nose is big, but not giant. Can always get work done
Grow a beard if you want to look more manly
Get bangs if you want to minimize your forehead
1st time posting but whatever, i have nothing lose.
I'm 23, i look like a kid still, most people say i look like 16-18 years old. I'm way too skinny (107 lbs) i actually now how to act with confident and joke a be social, and most people say that i look like i have a lot of confidence but it's not true. i worry because my nose and lips are too big (at least i think so) and since i look like a skinny kid when i hang out with some of my friends i look out of place, even in college. Also i stopped taking my medications the psychiatrist gave me for depression and schizophrenia because they make me feel like shit. Now i have a lot of weird toughs and depression started to kick in again so i probably look like shit. I make a path with a friend who have some mental problems too, if nothing changes by the time our 30th birthday come, we will off ourselves.
Anyways, thanks for reading if anyone did.
>>22571687
I personally think it's your bleached hair that's making you look older and less cute. Maybe go back to brown or try a cuter color like on the pastel range like some of the jfashion asians do.
You're not very big nor tall. If you went to Japan you'd be able to fit into so many things so cheer up OP.
>20/m
>baby face make look like im 16 or less
>big cheeks
>introvert
>i get nervous when i talk to new people IRL, but no problem online
>0 facial hair
>tiny eyes
>dont find myself interesting
>>22571787
I kinda like big eyebrows on girls. I know it's really out or fashion to have thick eyebrows right now judging by how many girls get them done regularly.
Maybe even them out more but I prefer the natural look.
>>22572785
broad, tall forehead is masculine af so long as you have a decent hairline which you do.
Baby face and chubby cheeks should go away with age as long as you dont get fat.
pirate eye lol kinda cool though but I can see how it's offputting to some and probably hinders in eye contact.
>>22573231
to use eye contact i need to go through a super expensive surgery :(
every compliment is actually people jeering at me, secretly telling me I am disgusting & I hate having to make eye contact with people.
I know I don't look bad. it's a mental problem. I hate what I see & I wish I saw something else. I've only rarely posted here before, but man do I fucking hate myself.
>>22572539
You look great. The only thing is wrong in you - bad phone camera.
>>22571687
>short hair
>blonde
>that face
>clearly skinny body type
I don't see what the problem is, you're definitely cute, attractive, hot, whatever word floats your boat. Hell I'd make you my precious little baby multiple times over.
Apparently I have a butter nose
>>22573631
You don't look so bad, could do with a facial piercing or two or three. I like septum or the bullring ones on faces like that but eyebrow and mouth are nice too.
>>22576027
Hardly unattractive but face reminds me of lenny face.
>>22576027
I can't see that. Maybe it's noticeable from another angle or maybe it's in your mind.
>>22576027
I can not tell anything being wrong with your nose. But I can't stop staring at your great tits
>>22571687
You are mentally ill
Kill yourself you weeaboo self hating fuck tbh
>>22572539
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, you look great.
Lifes weird to people. just gotta deal with stuff. like we all do
I mean, I am very insecure about my looks. But mostly I'm insecure about reality. How many conflicting opinions there are on everything, not even academics have a firm grasp on much. Even those that are confident that they do can be proven to be as wrong as the idea of "humors" somewhere down the line. The worlds so confusing and jumbled, best go to fictional worlds made by authors, game designers, etc where everything makes sense
>>22576027
>>22572539
>>22571687
>Really cute girls with this much insecurity
For fuck sake
>>22572785
You should actually wear an eye patch, they look cool as fuck and you have a reason to wear one
>>22571721
Do you have a skype?
>tfw you don't know if you're insecure about your appearance or if you're genuinely 0/10 and just really self aware
Why could women possibly not like my face in this picture? I legit don't know wtf is wrong. I think this is a good photo but nobody likes it. Srs just what exactly is ugly here?
Men think I look good so it's probably not helpful for male opinions.
>>22578044
You look great friendo, eyes are a bit glossy, but that could just be the photo
Been insecure about my body for as long as I can remember
>>22578050
Yeah I can't see what's bad... But something is off that only women see... Physically speaking... Jawline maybe? Looks weak. Lips aren't very nice. Chin could be better... I can't tell which thing in particular, to me the jawline looks the worst here.
i guess i know my answer
>>22578094
Maybe its your Boo Radley stare, you're more than fine friendo
>Please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair
It is all I am ever worried about. I get it, it is a focal point and great conversation starter, but the amount of ass-backwards racism, harasment and disrespect I get as a person in any circumstance is too often, obnoxious and ridiculous to the point where I can't even socialize.
No, I'm not cutting it. Just tired of people focusing on it.
>>22578107
You're like a 3.5, lost some weight and you'd probably be a 6+
>>22578044
the "women" that you speak of, are femanons who by definition are batshit insane
>>22571687
it takes its meds, everyday
or it gets the straitjacket again
>>22578127
You gotta make some compromises
You can't expect to have a big fro like that and not expect everybody to want to touch it, it's only human nature
>>22578147
I don't know about women on here they probably give me good scores, I'm talking about on Tinder etc, no girls like this picture. There's something ugly dude. Probably jawline weakness.
>>22578127
With great fro, comes great responsibility
On a serious note I think you'd look good with a buzz. Not a super short one, but something around my length or longer and you'd look great
>>22578138
3.5-2 (/soc/ politeness buffer)-1(compliment)=0.5/10 adjusted
anyways i don't see why you're insecure, society is a facade anyways and none of it really matters. and you're above average appearance-wise, as long as you're not a super manlet
>>22578159
I dont know man, just take a different pic then. You're good looking, I'd do you and I'm scarcely attracted to men ever
>>22578216
>6'0
I-im okay, right?
No I was giving you the most honest answer, this isn't a rate thread. You'd have to be disfigured, have severe birth defects, over 300LB+, etc to be below a 1
>>22578219
Yeah men LOVE my appearance. I should probably turn gay. I have to fall back on game to pick up women.
>>22578228
there are disfigured people, people with severe birth defects, and 300+ lbers who have had people find them attractive enough to have sex. thus i am below this level
6' is definitely okay
>>22578441
If you want to get better you could lose weight and get filler into the frontal cheekbone area.
To the OP, you are definitely one of the youngest looking 19 year olds I've ever seen. It's really cute. I know you don't know me nor I you, but if you ever need ears to listen, my kik is ffaustin. I'm very good at listening.
>>22571687
I just recently found out that I'm insecure in that I'm looking for validation and try to hold onto those people who give it to me like a koala.
>>22571687
Well fam at least you aren't am ugly shit like me. I think you're super kawaii
why are you fucking dweebs so god damn normal
>>22571687
>and be the precious little baby of someone
That's exactly how I feel, only I'm a "straight" male (I'm just not particularly attracted to men, nothing to do with sexuality as I'd gladly date a man)
Mobile always forces pictures to be sideways
>>22572484
You can add me on kik as well. nekochandesunyan
(dont mind the name)
>>22571687
>5'3
>Too tall
Bitch, the top of your head is at my shoulder level. I would literally have to lean down to kiss you.
>>22571687
I don't have a neck and it's pretty much fucked me harder than anyone can imagine.
What are you talking bout, OP? You're cute as hell.
Thanks to a congenital (from birth) medical condition, I have a bigger head than average (not freakishly huge or disfigured, but my forehead is kinda big)
>>22580077
hey bud you need some lip balm
>>22580077
and my hair as I normally have it
>>22571687
OP you're pretty. You certainly got better genetics than I did. Enjoy yourself!
>>22580080
That's another thing. My skin is shit.
>>22580074
>>22580077
To be honest that's not even as bad as you made it sound. I think you're cute
>>22580074
Just saw this.
Have you tried different styles of shirt to give you the appearance of a longer neck?
>>22580136
Yea that's not really possible, honestly no matter what shirt I wear it just looks horribly awkward. Collared shirts come half way up the back of my head
>>22580074
Wut
Are you sure you don't just have a short neck and shit posture?
>>22580156
Have you tried a V-neck?
I'm not at all good with this, but I would think that maybe a lower neckline might help.
>>22580157
I'm pretty fucking sure considering the major surgeries I've had to keep me upright.
>>22580166
Nah V-necks make me look weird as fuck on me too, honestly normal t shirts are my best bet
>>22580074
How are you even alive? Greentext how it fucks your life?
>>22580204
Your face is handsome and you just look like a nice person
I agree with
>>22580211
>>22580204
Dude I'm sorry you didn't win the genetic lottery. But to make myself feel okay I think of it like this:
I will never be a 10/10, but I'm not hideously repulsive (just like you aren't, obviously), there is better out there and there is worse. I'm right in the middle and I can be okay with that.
I don't know if that thought will help you at all.
>>22580204
Huh that's really interesting. Can you give more info on why you're like that and what the surgeries did?
>>22580206
I'm not about to greentext my life problems for your entertainment
>>22580211
>>22580223
Honestly I appreciate it, it's ok. I've accepted, it's hard as fuck though. It really weighs on me what my life could've been and it's tough not to dwell on that. Especially when you see yourself everyday in the mirror.
>>22580239
I don't know what to say man. I wish things could have been easier/better for you.
>>22580225
I have golden hard syndrome, hemifacial microsomnia and scoliosis. They don't know exactly what happned to me tbh. I had multiple back surgeries from the ages 4-6 including spinal fusion, rods placed in my back, then removed, wore a back brace for 4 years.
>>22580239
Not for my entertainment but for my edification. I'd like to understand a bit more how good I have it and to learn a bit about challenges I've never envisioned.
>>22580251
I don't know anything at all about those.. Conditions? Is that the right word?
But I did a quick google image search and I do wonder.. If it's not too much to answer.. Is yours severe or mild? The facial ones, that is. I'm aware what scoliosis is... :/
My biggest problem tonight is being attracted to two different, dysmorphic, dumb-yet-beautiful girls
First, the brat:
>>22571687
>>22571721
You're a beautiful little - lithe and tiny. You embrace your cute - but then don't see your 'weird' as a good thing.
Couldn't read much of the frenchie, but hey - you're q-tay - no need to shame yourself, you’re kawaii as hell.
And then there's the bimbo:
>>22572539
Who doesn’t believe in kindness - so maybe you need a good wake-up call - rough sex probably. Get drunk and feel your model and get over that stupid cunt.
Also, I get depression too - therapy is def a good call, imo. Maybe then you can see yourself the way anon does.
Anyway, that's what brought me here - to write to two hot mess women that I'd get with in a minute.
Because that's my insecurity. Romance, alcohol, and writing.
>picture not related
>>22580258
>one kidney
>made fun of through every grade, school, job
>21 year old virgin
>can't lift left arm in the air past shoulder length
>can't wear collered shirts
>never been able to wear a suit/tie
>can't play football/contact sports
>spent years in and out of hospitals
>people are afraid to approach me
Honestly I could go on forever.
>>22580267
The scoliosis is very major, the golden hars and hemifacial microsomnia is very mild.
>>22580297
How does scoliosis affect your day to day life? I have lordosis and a tilted pelvis that hurts me quite frequently. I can't imagine what scoliosis does.
>>22580297
I don't have back pain anymore since they fused my spine, the scoliosis doesn't really affect me that much in day to day life besides the fact that I look like I am constantly leaning to the right in pictures. I worked my ass off when I was younger and have very strong legs to make up for my shitty upper body so I do ok in the everyday life. Honestly I don't feel pain from these issues hardly ever. Just made me very emotionless and depressed.
>>22580324
Yeah man I can't imagine. This is a shamefully and needlessly cruel and unaccepting world we live in,based usually entirely on things we were born with. If only we could just value unique human life its self and not exclusively normalcy. I'm really sorry for it all, but what can I say. It's just life, and this is the form your existence apparently took
>>22580324
I really don't know what to say, you easily make me speechless. I hope the future gives you better luck :(
>>22580354
It's okay honestly, I know there isn't anything anyone can do, I just push through. It has benefited me in some ways as well. >>22580358
I appreciate it, like i said I just keep pushing through. I have a loving family and some good friends.
>>22580364
Your attitude and the way you seem like a good dude makes me want to have a beer with you.
>>22580376
I never turn down a beer that's for sure, nice talking to you guys. Don't let me depress the fuck out of yall, sometimes it's nice to complain to internet strangers cause no one knows how much this actually affects me, I play it off really cool in real life. Well I have to go to bed, have an 9am class tomorrow!
>>22580383
You're not depressing in the least, and I hope you're feeling a bit better now. 'Cause you are handsome, I'll say that much.
Have a great day tomorrow man.
And good job for already doing more with your life than I am. kek
>>22571687
I dont see anything wrong with you. I think youre one of the prettiest girls in the world and id go on a date with you in a heart beat. I think your short hair is cute. You have a drop dead gorgeous face and body. If youre in wa id like to have lunch with you.
>>22573087
i actually think you look very nice~
i like your nose and lips, don't worry they git your face
>>22580647
*fit, lol
>>22572785
That eye is bad ass
>>22572785
Y-you're adorable anon, pls cuddle with me
>>22578044
Girls don't want to tell anybody they're special, they want to be told they're special. Part of unconscious gender roles tbh. Or perhaps that goes as deep as biology, how animals choose mates. You're easily an objective 7 though, subjective range probably 6.5-8.5. Just because girls aren't telling you you're attractive doesn't mean you aren't
>>22580410
Boy, that escalated quickly.
>>22578044
hair, beard, hat.
your beard is patchy where it tends to grow in last so you like kinda young. the backwards hat doesnt make you look older either
>>22571687
Anime isnt real life, you're distorting reality.
Ok Im a male:
>only 7-8/10 looks
> white skin, girls want dark/black
>i dont like my hair
>My dick is small 6.5"x5"
>my skin doesnt look like porcelain. I actually tried to achieve it but skin got irritated and broke out
>my teeth arent white and perfect
> Im kind of hairy
> I want to have the body that is unattainable naturally
> I feel im not smart enough, so i feel like i have to out shine everyone at university. I kill myself on course load and enjoy showing off how good i am at math so people think im smart.
>I feel like I might a Phd, just to prove to people how smart I am, even though it doesnt make much sense for me career wise.
I have BDD and general low self esteem. When people compliment me on my intelligence i just say oh im not that smart anyone could do that.
>>22581523
I should add, this feeling of low self esteem and BDD, forced me to only leave my house for work ,school, and gym. If im not studying, im working,or at the gym. My goal is perfection mentally and physically and thats not possible to achieve, so i never feel good enough for anyone.
>>22571687
you do look cute though.
Also not sure what some of the other anons are saying. You look between 18-21 years old.
>>22581667
also smile more :D
>>22571936
i wouldnt tbh shes pretty uggo
>male, 20
>college junior
>4/10 ugly, looks like an autist
>severe social anxiety and avoidant personality
>cant really talk to people casually
>ugly voice
>not overweight but looks fat
>cutting scars all over body
>awful looking hair
>stupid, probably the dumbest person I know
>cant make friends, complete loner
>ugly personality, horrible to be around
>lazy eye and horrible facial structure
>awful teeth
>big eyebrows
>normal face looks mad
>fucked up spine
>eyes always look intense and weird
>cant even make eye contact anymore
>extremely lazy, no motivation
>body shape is ugly and looks like an old man's
>short
>never been on a date or really had any sort of emotional or physical intimacy
>multiple suicide attempts in HS
>severe depression, antidepressants/therapy didnt help much
>ugly hands and feet
>never done anything I can be proud of with my life
>didnt get into any of my top 3 colleges
>pretty much an awful mistake of a person
>despite all this parents still tolerate me
I am tired of existing like this, I just want to die.
>>22571687
you watched too much anime,quit it
Also, spent all my money last year on books and stuff thinking I could turn my life around.
i don't like my nose or my shoulders lately zzzzz
>>22581935
mmm
>>22571687
Fellow female here, I feel all those feels but like you really are pretty cute dollish/baby like. Like in a Elf-ish kind of way. Idk you really are cute. I know what BDD is like and stuff. But for real its tragic as hell that you don't know it. And like as I say this I think of how many people have told ME that and I never believed them so you prob wont believe me. I have like no reason to want to get in your pants, and I don't care to post my own pic so I don't want compliments in return. I just truly think you are cute and like shit. BDD is like this horrible accumulation of depression feels. It's terrible. It has nothing to do with actual looks or reality though.
>>22572539
>Honestly, I never believe people who call me pretty. During the day when people "hit on me" or "catcall" I assume they are making fun of me. Any romantic or flirtacious advances are really cruel tricks.
THESE FEELS!
>I feel ugly a lot. When I drink, I think I'm cute. When I drug I think I'm a model.
Kind of relate to this but like it wildly depends sometimes I feel MORE ugly when I drink and drug.
>>22581935
Your nose rings bring more attention to it I think. All my attention is drawn there.
>>22572775
>I fucking despise myself. I probably won't even end up submitting this message because I don't believe in burdening other people with my pathetic and essentially non exists any problems. I have some friends and I can get on reasonably well in social settings but inside I just feel constantly distant. I consider myself to be too ugly to be worth looking at so I won't post a picture on here, and I always assume the most negative outcome in any situation. I used to do well when I was in highschool and I still consider myself somewhat intelligent but I don't have the self confidence to ever believe that I can succeed at anything and I'll downplay any tiny skills that I have. I'm resolved to living a life of boredome and mediocrity, though people tell me I can do better. I think they're only saying it out of sympathy and I don't consider myself to be a special person that could succeed if only they had the motivation, I know that I am shit.
I feel all of these feels completely.
>>22572785
The pirate eye is rather striking at first, but if you had a chill personality for the most part it would be kind of neat actually. I have like a really weird fascination/affinity for small flaws like that. The rest of you isn't really ugly in any way. Baby faces are a good thing imo, though I hate my own. Timid is hot too.
>>22572929
Adorable.
Tiny eyes and my hair is dry
nothing special about my looks
I
>>22573631
Poor thing. You don't look unusual in any way. You look normal.
>>22573171
I personally find this look adorable...
>>22576027
You look stunning, I don't even know why you are in this thread.
>>22580204
I had two friends who had this and it like never really bothered people at all it even took them a while to notice it.
>>22582192
Literally nothing to be worried about. You look fine.
>>22582200
I'm 21 and only relationship I had wasn't even a real relationship I was 12
>>22582208
I honestly dont think your looks would stop you from being in a relationship. You look quite cute to me.
i cant tell or girls look at me because theyre attracted to me, or if it's because they think I look like a bizarre lunatic.
I don't know if I have delusions of grandeur, or inferiority.
Any clarification is welcome, I have very thick skin, I just want to act appropriately.
>>22582226
And...this kills the thread.
>>22572940
>>22573231
>>22578018
>>22580684
>>22582180
Thanks, i think im gonna try the eyepatch
>>22581143
Can't, 2 far 4 me
you're getting old
14-17 is ideal
19 is too old
>>22571721
>Aw. I'm like 5"3
>i just feel so big in this world,
>i wish i was so small i could crawl in a hole sometimes.
ROFLMAO, dumbass
Try spending a month on /fit/, if you haven't killed yourself for being so short by then it should sort you out
>>22581935
Neither of those body parts make you look like a cunt though, just everything else.
>>22582192
Dem lips doe
>>22582226
you're what's known in academic circles as a fucking moron
every problem you have can likely be attributed to this
Insecure about my weight and hair
Basically starving myself to lose weight and no matter what I still feel fat. I keep seeing skinnier girls and it just infuriates me
>>22584622
Is that you in the picture?
>>22584622
You have a huge thigh gap, you're skinny
>>22573087
Grow your hair out super long if you have a baby face man
Back in highschool I was an emotional mess because I had uncontrolled anxiety which led me to do the stupid thing of cutting up my arm. I'm trying to save money for plastic surgery as its been years and I'm 100% over it. I just look bad on it with so much regret and I still have issues going places in t-shirts. I just, I'm so angry at myself because the person I am now would never do it. And I know people judge me. Its just aggrivating...since its not who I am.
Only picture I had that showed it is pretty low quality so bare with me.
>>22584801
Yes? Haha
>>22584808
Nah I don't. I was standing on my toes and leaning forward. This is what my legs look like normally
Short fat legs
>>22584835
>impyling the mental illness ever leaves
>>22581224
Ya but its my honest thoughts. Even if she was in wa she wouldnt go for lunch with a random person.
>>22584961
uh no. your legs are the best part of your body.
>>22579596
just get a haircut, otherwise nothing too bad
>>22584622
you're looking great, also a good workout is better than not eating
If I don't wear makeup people are like
>Hey anon, why don't you wear any makeup? You're super cute, you should wear a little XYZ and fancy it up a bit!
But when I do wear makeup I feel like I look like a drag queen. I don't even wear a lot - BB cream, eyeliner, mascara. But it's so fucking jarring and makes me feel too tarted up.
>>22582192
>isqBPvUP
nah ur good and pretty
>>22584969
It doesn't leave its just under proper control now where I dont use that method to calm down (which is why I said uncontrollable anxiety)
Self harm is a result of a mental illness not a mental illness itself
I'm 5'6
>>22584622
wtf, woman, you look better than other bitches that believe that they are perfect
>dark skin
>five head
>have a terrible smile
>am basically a butter face
If I could wear a bag over my head, I would.
>>22571687
Stop eating animal products. Stop bleaching your hair. Stop over-plucking your eyebrows. Take care of yourself. Exercise.
>>22572785
Oh shit I love your eye. Beautiful.
To everyone in this thread: perception is reality, but nothing is what it seems.
>>22585625
you are defiantly someone id hang with. you look fun , someone anyone could relate to. in my opinion you arnt a super model. but you defiantly arnt ugly.
>>22584961
please stop fishing for compliments. your gorgeous ...i mean..uterly stunning, you have to body that would turn heads in the street even though your fully clothed. i for one would srsly give anything to taste that peach between your legs. no adjustments needed. your welcome
>>22584961
>short fat legs
This kind of shit is why no one takes you seriously.
babyface
i'm 20
>>22585675
>please stop fishing for compliments
I don't really think that is what is going on, a lot of women (and men) just had terrible self image. Half the time who you see when you look in the mirror isn't at all what you actually look like. I know super hot girls who genuinely had shit self worth and super average girls who are confident through the roof.
Generally when you want to lay on the nice telling her she'll turn heads and stuff you don't start off with a jab like fishing for compliments, negging is lame.
Im insecure about not being white thin and beautiful
>18/f
>5'3, tan skin, i forgot my weight but im thick/borderine chubby
>every guy I go out with eventually starts liking a conventionally attractive white girl
>sometimes during relationships they ask me to basically change for them
>tfw they just want a white girl and got tired of me
I dont think im bad looking I just think I'm never good enough
I just want to be good enough the way I am
>>22586201
You've been dating really shitty guys. There are plenty of people that think you're like the epitome of sexiness. May be harder to find one, but please don't think you've gotta change to find love. You should change for you and you alone.
>>22584622
>>22584961
You're clearly not fat, so likely you're body dysmorphia due to low self esteem, or your father fingering you once too often.
>>22586201
As a naturally tanned guy I have to tell you you should be proud of that golden brown skin. I am and I think it's a one up one pasties. Don't ever wish you were white
Let's see that face?
>>22586201
>thick, borderline chubby
Go workout you lazy ass. No guy really wants a chubby girl. They are not ideal. In be4 whiteknights.
>>22578044
It's the stupid cap I guess, makes you look like one of those "bros" and like an asshole, but just my opinion.
Your face and everything else looks good
>>22582398
tfw 5'11
>>22571687
Dye your hair pink, Sugartits.
You're well on your way.
Bonus points if you have tiny hands and feet.
>>22586335
t-thanks
>>22586345
im not keen on posting pics so the most i can do is make myself in a shitty anime character maker
>>22586351
shut up you stinky scrub its like you cant read
>>22586401
Jusr embrace the brown. Never ever say you wish you were white again
you look like Sera from Dragon Age II
>>22571687
wtf? you're cutie. just mor smile. maybe eyeliners, but i definitly would accept as you are. Yeah, long hair is sexy, would not hurt if you let it grow.
Smile more qt3.14!
>>22584622
i would measure your weight all night and day babe. You are perfect
>jew nose
>big forehead
>bad smile
>bags under eyes
>pointy chin
>resting bitch face
>chubby tummy
>small ass
Still somewhat insecure though I've come to terms with not being super attractive. I think im ok enough.
>>22586480
I remember your body. Honestly you have a beautiful body.
>>22586480
Damn you are so sexy i dont know what your talking about!!
>>22586201
lol you're a fucking retard if you equate being fit to being white
>>22580204
You're a good looking dude, I'll give ya that.
>>22586480
id fuck you. you do have rbf, and i dont really like your style, but i bet you look decent naked
>>22586480
>Meth, not even once
>>22584622
More...
>>22584961
...Dysmorphia.
