>What could you have done differently?
>Is her new guy better than you (she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't, right)?
>In what ways are you better than him?
>How often do you think of her?
>Have you dated girls better than her? If so, why are you still hung up on her?
>Why would you be too good for her?
>In what way is she bad for you?
>Why would she be too good for you?
>In what ways were you bad for her?
>How long did it take you to get over your last girl and the girl before that?
>What would you tell yourself as a warning if you could go back in time before you met this girl you can't stop thinking about now?
>Did you ever love each other? Do you still?
>>22943035
is this survey thread 2.0? i ain't about to answer any of that shit
>What could you have done differently?
Shit... I guess I could have done a lot of things differently. But I did everything as best I could with the knowledge I had. I mean:
hold on. gonna move this over to my phone, so gf doesn't see.
>What could you have done differently?
Shit... I guess I could have done a lot of things differently. But I did everything as best I could with the knowledge I had. I mean: She was addicted to fucking heroin and admitted that she had done every drug known to man except 2. Then on top of that, she started stripping while we were together. She asked for permission, but I felt that since she was a bit more attractive than most girls I've dated, I knew she would do what she would want to do, and if I tried to stop her, she would only go and do it anyway; which I then proved to be true with her, because at one point she said she didn't want to go stripping, so I gave her money from my hard earned minimum wage job so that she could pay her bills. But she took my money and went stripping anyway without telling me. I felt so used.
>Is her new guy better than you (she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't, right)?
Well, she admitted to me that he is taller by about an inch. He is blonde and blue eye'd. I'm dark skinned (not black, but latino looking) with brown eyes and black hair. She's green eye'd redhead. He drives a BMW, but I'm not too concerned about that, I'm perfectly fine with my Toyota. And repairs on a BMW would be expensive as fuck.
>In what ways are you better than him?
I know my dick is bigger than his. I'm older than him. In fact she's older than him too. She's really just going for him because he's younger and innexperienced with girls, so he basically does everything she tells him. She leaves out information when we talk about how she fucked up in our relationship just so that she won't look bad in his eyes. I mean, I'm sure he's catching on slowly though. Thing is, they're engaged now. Everytime I look at her profile pic with him together I sear in jealousy.
>How often do you think of her?
Every waking moment. Whether she's in the back of my mind or on my mind.
>Have you dated girls better than her? If so, why are you still hung up on her?
I've dated girls hotter than her and even more compitent, Iguess. But I guess I just never saw it work with them. They were all pretty conceited. One girl was nearly a perfect 10, but she was still married at the time, and then went back to her husband. I wanted to go out and fuck other women at the time too. It just wasn't the right time. Plus her ass wasn't that great, and I'm an ass man. I guess I just saw myself dating girls hotter than this girl I'm hung up on. And I did find one who was even hotter than her and had an even better ass and her head on straight. She had PTSD from being raped by her dad though, and she would change her mind about our relationship on a whim.
>Why would you be too good for her?
I can actually keep a job when I have to pay bills. I am confident and don't change my mind every few seconds. Pretty much every problem she's had, I've helped her tackle it.
and this is why i just fuck escorts. you save more money in the long run and there's no emotional drama. they will fuck beta 5/10's so long as they have the cash.
everyone's happy in the end
>In what way is she bad for you?
Jeez. This girl is dislexic, so she can't really read well or write well. She has PTSD from being raped when she was 17. She also is addicted to heroin, and the way her addiction is, there's no way she'll ever get over it. They say that once you're hooked on it after a few times of taking it, you'll never really stop thinking about wanted to use again. I've seen retired Navy generals with the strongest wills I've ever seen admit to me that they think about heroin every day at least every few hours, even though they had not taken it in 20 years. That's how strong its grasp is. This girl I'm obsessing over doesn't have a strong will at all. In fact, she was born 6 weeks premature, so her immune system and higher reasoning in her brain hasn't fully developed either (at least that's what I conclude judging by her actions and what she's told me). She also fucking threw me under a bus so many times telling her friends shit about me and never giving me any credit for helping her; even to her parents. She's had an abortion and I'm a very public person. People who would find out about her and me would rip her apart for that. She regrets her abortion every time she thinks of it.
>Why would she be too good for you?
I guess maybe because she's white and I'm brown skinned? I've always wanted a white girlfriend, and I've never even had a brown one. I seem to be a minority here by far. I've never even gotten a brown girl to like me as far as I can tell anyway.
>In what ways were you bad for her?
I cheated on her. But I guess she cheated on me too. But I ultimately wanted to be with her. I figured since she was so liberal like stripping and all, we'd have an open relationship and eventually close it up.
How long did it take you to get over your last girl and the girl before that?
My last big crush took me nearly 10 years to get over her. And the big crush before that about 5 years.
>What would you tell yourself as a warning if you could go back in time before you met this girl you can't stop thinking about now?
This girl you're about to date, she's mentally unstable. She's bipolar and denies it, but takes meds for it. If you don't marry her on 12/12/12 like she wanted, she'll move on to the next guy. You've not had a proper girlfriend in the 28 years that you've been alive. She may be the best you can do for a girl in your age range. She will encounter your ex, and you've been fatasizing about them meeting for a while, but they will come together and file false charges against you and you'll have to sue them both for thousands. You'll win, but you'll be without them, because your girl will be dating someone else. I think about suicide every day since this has happened now. Please be aware of that before you proceed. My life is still in pieces even 3 years later. And it looksl ike now she's about to marry someone else.
>Did you ever love each other? Do you still?
I didn't know I really loved her until she was gone...
She said she loved me, but then later said it was a lie. But afterwards she still sometimes said that she loved me. She doesn't answer any questions as to what our relationship was. I ask her if she loved me or what I meant to her or what she saw in our future together, and all I ever got from her is: "I don't know..."
Sometimes I feel like I blew my chances with her, by not treating her a certain way, but the truth is, I was good to her. I was way good to her. I fixed her car, took her to the doctor, took her cats to the vet, cleaned her room that was always fucking filthy, brought her food whenever she was hungry (even if it was in the middle of the night). I briefly spent time with her, and she actually goes out and buys her boyfriend food. cont'd
>>22943163
cont'd
She never did that for me. that's what hurts the most. I can see how he's more attractive than me. And... oh... I guess in my mind I thought when I first was with her, that I finally had found someone who was genuine and loved me for me. But it turns out, she only was with me, because, at the time, I was the only guy who would be with her. I was the best she could get at the time. And as soon as she found someone better, she went with them and cheated on me. She even chated on me with a girl. Then she cheated on me with a room mate who moved into another room in her house she was living in.
This new guy... he seems to be so careless about everything because he's a stoner. He basically works and just serves her.
A few times I've heard him talk when I was around him. He said these exact words: "No, don't worry, if I break up with her, it's not going to be over something you did." After I had said that I wasn't trying to break them up by making her look bad. He said it in such a way that he was planning to break up with her. That was almost a year ago now. And they are now engaged and living together.
But would I take her back if she was single again or wanted to be with me? I mean, the whole reaosn I didn't marry her on 12/12/12 was because she didn't really seem worthy in my eyes.
I guess I just saw potential and greatness in her if she changed.
But one thing she told me when I asked her what he had that I didn't was: He doesn't try to change me. He accepts me for who I am.
Ironic. Because I did a lot of the changing on her before he dated her. But yeah... everyone keeps telling me, you cannot change a heroin addict. Nor a stripper. Or a girl with PTSD.
She's so fucked up... I don't see even her current man being happy with her in the future.
>What could you have done differently?
nothing im an alcoholic
>Is her new guy better than you (she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't, right)?
he works at a vape shop and likes marvel so no, he is pleb trash
>In what ways are you better than him?
im creative and have poems (even about her) that have been published in magazines. I also don't mouth fedora and hate marvel.
>How often do you think of her?
every fucking day
>Have you dated girls better than her? If so, why are you still hung up on her?
no i have not, the last two girls were boring student trash going into politics
>Why would you be too good for her?
im not
>In what way is she bad for you?
the fact that i can't get past her is unhealthy
>Why would she be too good for you?
because i suck and she doesn't
>In what ways were you bad for her?
i was a selfish alcoholic and i mistreated her a lot
>How long did it take you to get over your last girl and the girl before that?
i have only ever loved one girl
>What would you tell yourself as a warning if you could go back in time before you met this girl you can't stop thinking about now?
stop drinking and lying about it
>Did you ever love each other? Do you still?
i still love her (after two years) but its unrequited
fuck 3d im 2d girls now
>>22943801
Does she still have the ability to see your facebook?
Maybe if you find someone hotter and cuter and post pics with her, your old girl will want you back. I don't know if you want to go back then, though.
>>22943801
get sober
>>22943035
>no
>Don't know him
>Probably none
>too often
>no
>I'm not
>she was too sensitive when I was offensive
>I was too offensive
>a week
>nothing
>we liked each other a lot but i think love is the wrong word for how i felt at the time
>>22944314
i deleted it because i hate everyone, its like cancer that you dont even know you have
>>22945372
ill have been sober for a year this monday
>>22946155
I've been thinking about deleted my Facebook for a long time.
All the girls I care about have me blocked and so I don't really see a use for it.
I've been using Twitter for a few years now. I kind of see myself a celebrity. That's kind of why girls go for me because I'm kind of cocky.
But anyway, none of the girls I date really use Twitter as well as my exes.
So they've learned to kind of just look at my Twitter every so often even without an account, you can see that shit.
Make yourself a twitter and post absolutely everything you're doing. Make sure you hang out at clubs and bars and get hot drunk girls to take pics with you.
I linked my Twitter account to my Facebook and don't even log into Facebook anymore and it basically puts all my Tweets on Facebook so that my old friends can still see what I'm up to.
But yeah, my ex checks out my Twitter all the time. Sometimes I'll post Tweets about her that offend her so much, she'll call me. And they're not even about her.
>What could you have done differently?
A lot of fucking things
>Is her new guy better than you (she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't, right)?
Have no idea
>In what ways are you better than him?
Again,no idea
>How often do you think of her?
Constantly
>Have you dated girls better than her? If so, why are you still hung up on her?
Haven't,that's the only reason I'm still hung up on her,can't find anybody even close.
>Why would you be too good for her?
I'm not,in fact,I'm just right
>In what way is she bad for you?
In all the right ways
>Why would she be too good for you?
She's not
>How long did it take you to get over your last girl and the girl before that?
She's the only girl I haven't gotten over in a day or two
>What would you tell yourself as a warning if you could go back in time before you met this girl you can't stop thinking about now?
Don't be an idiot,tell her how you feel before it's too late,don't be a pompous ass
>Did you ever love each other? Do you still?
She used to love me,I used to love her,the only problem was that we were too young and hid it for too long,things got bad,we still loved each other,and still probably do.At least I do.
>>22946198
thank you very much for the advice but i dont like anybody who goes to nightclubs. I am also sober.
i have also had a twitter before but i deleted it too
im just going to leave her alone and feel sorry for myself but thank you anon
>What could you have done differently?
Not joined the Army
>Is her new guy better than you (she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't, right)?
No, she has told me I was the best man she ever had.
>In what ways are you better than him?
Older, better job, more mature, better at sex.
>How often do you think of her?
Everyday
>Have you dated girls better than her? If so, why are you still hung up on her?
I haven't had a girlfriend since we broke up, many hookups tho.
>Why would you be too good for her?
When a girl breaks up with you in Afghanistan, you will always be better than her.
>In what way is she bad for you?
She is everything I ever wanted
>Why would she be too good for you?
She isn't
>In what ways were you bad for her?
Having so much distance between us since I joined the military
>How long did it take you to get over your last girl and the girl before that?
a couple months. But her, I have never gotten over her
>What would you tell yourself as a warning if you could go back in time before you met this girl you can't stop thinking about now?
nothing
>Did you ever love each other? Do you still?
I still feel like I do, I feel like she does too. Her and her dude recently broke up and she and I talk on the daily. We talked before they broke up too. about a month before they broke up.
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