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>A/S/L
>What you're looking for
>What you're not looking for
>Something about yourself
>How to contact you
19 f nz
Fun daddys to talk to that aren't going to ask for nudes 3 messages in. No fucbois
Kik: agicalgirlsilk
whoops just realised that should say magicalgirlsilk
22/M/UK
>Was in a DD/lg relationship for 3 years
>First true love
>INCREDIBLE in the bedroom
>Loved the power dynamic and the nurturing, cute side too
>Loved cooking for her, watching her colour, watch disney filns with her and braid her hair
>Paradise in a nutshell
>Broke up not too long ago due to personal issues and other external shit
>Still sort of keep contact
>Cant cum while fucking a girl unless im choking her and she shouts "FUCK ME HARDER DADDY!"
Its a bastard when they dont
>>23869592
That sounds lovely.
37 m ky
Looking for a lg who is not a sugar. Im not opposed to sending presents just dont want it to be the basis of it.
I work a lot. Sometimes i can chat all day, sometimes I cant. Im told Im decently attractive :)
Kik snap. Psxburn
Hey guys, I'm currently in a ddlg relationship but me and my daddy are growing apart. He doesn't shower much anymore, lives with his mom, and doesn't seem to give me the time of day. It's easy to say "okay break up then" but when he does speak to me he says something like "How do you feel princess?" and I just melt again. I feel guilty. He's my first daddy but we fight so much over politics and linux (yeah, I know. weird.)
So..is it harder to end a relationship when you're in this dynamic? How did you feel after a breakup from a ddlg relationship?
I'm a 20 year old little girl, depressed and too anxious to eat because of all this.
>>23871988
>politics and linux
Why bother catfishing a /g/entooman or a /pol/ack? I'm curious, what could you possibly gain of substance?
>>23871988
He's a 'daddy' who lives with his mom and doesn't shower. Sounds like you picked a winner.
>>23872014
>catfishing
I don't think you're using that right.
and actually he's a berniebro. Years ago he wasn't a linux user or as interested in politics.
>asl
18 f us
>what you're looking for
Cool guys to talk to. I like good conversation but if it turned into something a little more I'm down for that
>what you're not looking for
Guys who only want nudes and to sext
>something about me
Iv never been in a dd/lg relationship before but Iv always wanted to so it would be cool if I had someone more experienced to show me the ropes
>contact info
Reply with a Kik
Let's talk. Kik gorgeman16
>>23872103
Alanburnan hit me up
Hey Alex who just went hunting for the first time last year and won't turn your camera on. Are you lurking in this thread? You're the daddy, how could you leave me and not take responsibility?
>>23872103
Where in the US?
>>23872103
I'm 27 been in several ddlg relationships. Longest one was my first (for the both of us). If you're after information i can help you out.
Kik: slurms_mckenzee
>>23873042
My longest one lasted three years. Forgot to add that part.
>A/S/L
22 f usa
>What you're looking for
Conversation and connection
>What you're not looking for
Sending nudes
>Something about yourself
Im sassy and random
>How to contact you
Kik: twiddlydoo
>>23872103
Etk1295
>>23872103
22 m USA
doctorgonzo745
>>23873081
Just Added, Ironborne901
>>23868557
I'll be honest; I've never done done and roleplayed this sort of stuff before, but it seems interesting and i want to give it a go..
23/M/AUS
I'm a 28 yo guy, and i like voice calls. If you're a little girl and you want to talk to someone, feel free to add me.
skype: voidandslan
>A/S/L
22¾/MtF/California (though in Canada for the next month)
>What you're looking for
The usual, I guess. Someone who makes me feel safe and doesn't mind me being a little childish. Online at first, then meeting in person when I feel comfortable with it (which can take a while, I won't lie).
>What you're not looking for
I don't mind sending lewd pictures sometimes but it's not really what I want out of this.
>Something about yourself
I'm really good at puzzles and memorizing stuff and giving gifts.
>How to contact you
Leave your Kik and I'll message you.
We are looking to double Dom a girl add me on Kik Randomuserlol1298.
No guys!
F19 and another guy.
We want a girl add me and we'll talk.
Found a daddy here once that had me wrapped around his finger for nearly a year. A shame he ended up being a complete liar and neglectful as fuck.
Found a couple of littles on here in the past. Sadly most of them just seem to be needy as heck, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, I'd expect a level of neediness. But they basically just wanted attention and didn't care who it was from. Very rarely have they ever cared how Daddy felt, only caring about whether Daddy could give them 24/7 attention and spoil them. The second I wasn't giving them what they wanted (because I was busy, or couldn't spend an evening with them or something) they'd just up and leave because it's super easy to find other guys willing to daddy them. It's definitely a confidence killer, being made to feel so disposable like that, multiple times. I've been away from Daddying for a while, mostly because the littles I've met are just awful partners for me. Maybe they'd be right for someone else but I can't deal with one-sided relationships like that.
>>23871988
Yes, and it should be a lot harder to end such a relationship because it should also be harder to get into in the first place and a lot more meaningful than a regular relationship.
You can do this relationship in two ways - either you focus on all the props and the buzzwords and the rest of the superficial things that make you feel good, or you focus on the underlying dynamic and get most of your happiness from deeper emotions like the trust, respect, admiration, vulnerability, sense of permanence and whatever else you give each other.
I see every "new" girl make the same mistake and just focus on the superficial stuff because that's what they know and crave from tumblr or because it gives an easy fix.
It's a lot more promising to instead wait for that one person who might take forever to come along who really fits you and fits the role. That role includes taking responsibility, giving guidance, letting adoration feel real, makes you as important in his life as a real child would be.
Once you realise it's not the real thing, the breakup shouldn't be that hard either. Just take the time to actually find out what you want instead of jumping at the next rebound to get those fuzzy feelings again right away.
Now it's easy to stay away from people with red flags like not showering, but also get a sense for the kink-specific red flags. I've never seen a good daddy who calls anyone princess within a week, and so on.
And remember you're young and you'll experience the next 60 years in your country, so you'll better be voting for Trump.
>>23874487
Talks shit about previous SO, huge red flag guys.
>>23874487
What happened?
Could I have a daddy in a non sexual way?
I just found my first daddy and I already love him and he keeps saying he likes me a lot. But I don't wanna get sexual. We both have relationships and he also has two real daughters. I called him daddy once and he seemed to like it.
What do you think???
>>23875422
Hardly. I'm not name dropping or witch hunting. Just sharing my experience. As you can see I'm not even searching for a new one, anyway. You can continue with the lynch mob though if you like.
>>23875424
Things were wonderful. I genuinely felt loved and cared for and gave my all in return. He disappeared on me and showed up some time later with an extravagant story about his whereabouts. I asked for simple proof of this and he gave me excuses in return. Mind you I was stupid enough to believe him at first, and tried giving him the benefit of the doubt. As time went on, things just didn't add up, and I confronted him. He disappeared again immediately. It seems as if he was never really honest with me to begin with.
>>23874487
>>23874506
Maybe it's a bit pessimistic of me but I rarely see DD/lg relationships last long term. It's the kind of thing that requires a certain state of mind in both parties but the state of mind it requires is rarely one that lasts forever. I met a little on here several years back and it was a great relationship but eventually she outgrew it so to speak and we became quite vanilla. It was fun while it lasted but I think it's sort of a unicorn situation to see these kinda things last more than a couple years. I rarely see, either online or real life, a DD/lg couple that's more than a few years old and still following the dynamic. Which isn't to say you can't have fulfilling DD/lg relationships but it never surprises me when people talk about breakups.
>>23875466
You could take it as advice to mature a little bit. Instead of being defensive.
>>23875475
I could, but the same could be said about "red flagging" me. There's nothing wrong with discussing my experience with this. By no means am I trying to divert people from this lifestyle. It can be fantastic once you've found someone you click with and trust.
>>23875486
Well now you're just being serious, and I was trying to be an asshole.
Tips for slowly breaking a girl into this stuff
I'm marrying a virgin, but I've got to have ageplay
I know I can't overwhelm her all at once lol
>>23875577
>I know I can't overwhelm her all at once lol
Open and honest communication.
I'm not joking.
If you think I am, you're not ready.
Be upfront and direct about what you like.
Even a virgin has fetishes and ideas that get them off, ask what she's into, be reassuring you won't judge her on what she likes, let her fully explain before interrupting anything. If she asks tell her things you do like, keep personal talks that might make her nervous relaxed, and happy.
Again never judgmental. If she hits something you like, bring it back up. Talk about aspects you like, things you could try together.
If she doesn't open up and talk to you, just jam it in. Rape is a common fetish for shy girls.
>>23875459
Of course you can, but if you already love him rather than seeing him as just an older mentor you like and respect, then it will be hard for you to keep the sexual side away forever.
More than that, though, there is a 99% chance that he's in it for the sexual element, whatever he says. There's the off-chance that you're a homeless girl he pities and wants to rescue and guide through college or something, but please don't be delusional about why older men have any interest in younger girls.
>>23875466
Never give anyone in this kink the benefit of the doubt once you're suspicious. I'd say maby 5% of the people are real, 35% are a bit shady with somewhat good intentions, and the other 60% are borderline sociopaths.
>>23875468
Relationships in general usually don't last, relationships among the damaged people common in this kink even less, relationships that start based on a kink instead of common values etc. even less again, and then there's that element of outgrowing that you mention.
This isn't a dynamic to grow old in and keep up into your 60s unless you're really carrying a lot of baggage. But it's okay to enjoy it while it feels right or necessary, and then to transition it either into a different kink dynamic or simply a normal, good relationship. Nothing wrong with that.
>>23875577
Uh some background would be useful so we know how you're marrying a virgin even though you're full of kinks you can't live without, why you're marrying someone who you're not super close to, how much she already knows etc.
Age play is also kind of different from DD/lg.
>>23875650
>This isn't a dynamic to grow old in and keep up into your 60s
Well said. Whenever I see breakup posts it always makes me wonder what people expected going in. It seems in 95% of cases DD/lg have a lifespan on them but no one ever wants to talk about that part. I mean I don't go into these relationships thinking about the inevitable end but I'm also not thinking they'll last forever either.
>>23875408
I am voting Trump, lol. My daddy is the berniefag. He says I must be dumb for liking Trump..
>>23875468
Yeah, I'm not sure. They seem to either last forever or go to shit quickly. It's a very involved, intense kind of relationship I think, so it's bound to end up going one of those two ways. You have to find a good balance of intensity with the other person, as with any sub/dom relationship.
>>23875930
>Daddy is a berniefag while Girl wants to MAGA
Is "cuck/daddy" a thing now?
>>23875930
Couldn't be more proud of you.
>>23872103
I'd love to talk! bossman1573
18/M/USA
I'm looking for a little girl to love, make safe, and make happy. In a super affectionate and caring daddy and just a need a princess!
I'm not looking for a sugar baby, gifts shouldn't be the only basis of our interaction.
I guess you can ask all about me when we talk. I'm 6'4 which I'm sure is nice, and I think pretty good looking. But you can be the judge of that haha
My kik: bossman1573
>A/S/L
44/M/UK
>What you're looking for
Located with an hour of London
Willing to start online then eventually meet
Someone willing to obey my rules (sample rules later)
Someone needy who needs a lot of attention
Someone okay with a Poly relationship
What else
Age is not super important, anyone 18+ is okay
Size/Ethnicity is not important
Experience in DD/LG is not necessary - I'm happy to teach if you bring an open mind
Q&A
What about limits
Limits are totally respected. If there is some aspect of DDLG you are not comfortable with then I will never go there. If there is something you are not comfortable with but are willing to explore then I may push you to explore that.
Do I need to send Photos?
Only selfies/Non sexual. if you are comfortable with more explicit photos we can see what happens.
What type of punishments do you give for breaking rules
Punishments would respect your limits. There would never be a punishment that leaves permanent damage/pain.
How do we stay in contact
We will start with KIK and move to Phone. I will also use choremonster
Sample rules
Always say good morning and good evening to Daddy. Selfie is optional
Never use bad language with Daddy - swearing or curse words
Always call Daddy Daddy
Never refer to yourself as stupid, fat or any other shaming words
No alcohol without prior permission from Daddy
No dates without prior permission from Daddy
Always eat breakfast and lunch
No mastrubation without permission from Daddy
Ask Daddy which outfit to wear each Day
Bedtime is 10:30pm unless permission is asked in advance
>What you're not looking for
roleplay
>How to contact you
KIK: flyer200
>>23878740
Seems more like a long application than a wish list.
>A/S/L
40
>What you're looking for
Willing Submissive women-all ages
>What you're not looking for
Men or Trans, I am a 100% straight dom
>Something about yourself
I worked in the porn industry
>How to contact you
kik:speedwulf
Pic related, my 23 year old sub.
21/F/Charleston, SC
Looking for a daddy who is genuinely hung. Little boys need not apply.
Skype: vera.dales
>>23872103
Hey what's up, kik me: ACEMANFP
>>23871988
you need to woman up and dump him
>>23872103
Hidingout55
m/27/california
>What you're looking for
a little, ofc
>What you're not looking for
sugar babby
>Something about yourself
I'm very affectionate and caring, and I can teach you a lot of stuff. Just want a little to love and spoil
>How to contact you
kik: white.noise616
let me know you're from this thread
>A/S/L
24/M/Toronto Canada
>What you're looking for
Anything from casual to more serious with a girl who is into or curious of Dd/Lg. I'm also into other things from a more general Dominant side. Also, I'm into good girls or bratty girls, both are great.
>What you're not looking for
Well I guess under 18 would not be good.
>Something about yourself
I can be a caring Daddy but I should say I'm definitely not always nice and caring. It can go pretty far with degradation and pain if you're also into those things. Outside of sexual things, I'd say I have more "geekier" interests I guess.
>How to contact you
Lame e-mail: [email protected]
>M/20/IN
>Looking for little girls and older mommy's, thicc and chubby is ideal but I love all shapes and sizes
>Not looking for dudes, boring girls, paywhores, normies or just plain bitches
>Kinda chubby but I have nice hair and will make you laugh, all about those cartoons, anime, specially jojo's bizarre adventure, vidya, star wars, dank memes, and all things booty.
>Kik and skype are both skippymisfits24, but i check kik far more often.
Currently sick at home with mono right now so come distract me please ;3;
I have a daddy with a daughter 5 or 6 years younger than me. I'm not really sure how I feel about it I love the dynamic but I feel like it's kind of weird, Can I have some advice from anyone?
>>23880666
How old are you?
>>23880680
I turned 18 this year. he's almost twice my age
>>23880680
>>23880666
I just want to clarify, Biological daughter. Not anything weird.
>>23880703
Nice i see. I don't find it weird or anything at all, it's just life you know. If you feel like talking more about it, would love to chat more on kik?
>>23880745
How about skype?
give your kik or skype and i'll message you.
>>23872103
My kik is nomak1990
>>23880765
>>23880666
skype - sm00thtr00per
this sounds interesting
>A/S/L
25/M/NYC
>What you're looking for
Steady casual fun, no drama or diseases. Stress relief, companionship and physical contact.
>What you're not looking for
Fuccbois and neckbeards.
>Something about yourself
Asian, athletic build, bicurious, tatted.
>How to contact you
Kik - vincethehuman
>>23873750
Don't know if you're still checking this thread but I'm a 24 year old guy from California as well. Kik is Raynonamoose
>>23870787
It was, but shit, nothing usually lasts forever.
I'm looking for another relationship now, the lone wanderer life just aint for me any more
>>23875930
I suppose it makes sense for Trump to appeal to a little, Immature politics tend to attract Immature minds
I'm more attracted to girls...is there any mommy...?
>>23878740
Gosh you sound amazing
>>23878740
>neediness as a prereq
She's right, you do sound amazing. But oh so far away.
>>23880908
I sent you a message but it doesn't look like it's gone through.
