*** Kink / Fetish discussion Thread ***
'Last thread was actually pretty decent' edition.
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>>23769294
KINK & FETISH DISCUSSION FAQ
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>What is this thread for and what should I do?
This is a thread for chatting, discussing and talking about fetishes. Feel free to lurk, but if you are going to post try to be social and not the kind that only looks and posts their contact just to get into someones pants. There are threads for that already.
>This is not a 'No-Contactfagging' thread
Just as it says, you are free to post contact but that's not the point of this thread, note below.
>Why is there no blank kinksheet attached
Reason for not posting kinksheet is because those threads specifically becomes contactfag threads. It's a hungerfest with -little to no discussions- and a 'post sheet only thread' with minimal interest in the subjectmatter; with sheets, people will never bother other than to contactfag. You are however free to post one if you have it, just note why it's omitted.
>THIS IS NOT A KINK-SHEET SPECIFIC THREAD.
It doesn't foster discussions at all just because you filled one out, try to stick around and actually discuss.
This isn't strictly a no-contactfagging thread as mentioned.
>Yet.
If the thread turns too much into a contactfagging thread it will convert into a no-contactfag one.
>Standard /soc/ rules applied
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>ASL
>IRC name
>General Kinks/Fetishes
>Your experience/experiences
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Im a literal cuck who wants a domme waifu to spend my money, fuck whoever she wants, and boss me around. I'd worship her and cook all her meals and wear whatever she wants and rub her feet when she comes home.
>ASL
25/m
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Dominatrixs latex leather pvc , being sub to a dom woman.
>Your experience/experiences
So far only fucked women in some vinyl pants and rough sex.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Not really , don't talk about that stuff too much.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Since about 16 I've always thought of naked women as attractive but a bit plain and latex somehow seem'd to be the closest thing to a naked women but more interesting. But after time the whole dom and sub thing grew on me as it kinda goes hand in hand with latex I guess.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
So far I've let a girl finger me and rub the prostate , then she choked me as she fucked the shit out of me on top.But not really much more than that
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I really want to find a women with a catsuit who'd dominate me , haven't managed to find one so far.
>>23854082
>>23854422
You sub men warm my heart. Thus I am taking this opportunity to express my appreciation, I hope to counter at least some of the shit you guys take from assholes in these threads. Don't let anyone belittle you (except dommes I guess).
23/m/Canada/straight I'm really into hypnosis, being hypnotized or doing the hypnotizing. Even non sexual scenes popping up in unrelated shows and movies turns me on.
I get that you can't mind control people like in the movies, but just the process of people going under does it for me.
I've been able to hypnotize a few people, but I've also never been under myself, so that's something. I guess my limits are the usual scat, guro, watersports.
Anyone else /hypno/ here?
>ASL
24/M/US Dom
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Where to begin? BDSM, petplay, pain play D/s relationships, servitude,feminisation
>Your experience/experiences
Fairly well experienced. I've had a few subs, male and female in the past.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Some of my close friends are aware of some of my activities, none have ever been curious enough to ask in detail though. And I won't say more than general trivia unless asked.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Something About chinese water torture in 5th grade. My teacher had mentioned it off hand while discussing Alice and Wonderland. I'm still not quite sure how that all went.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
bondage/light choking in my car in a convention parking lot. Or training a girl as a housemaid.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Hucow stuff. mostly because good vacuum are a tad pricey.
>ASL
24/m
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Crossdressing, cock-worshipping
>Your experience/experiences
Gave blowjob with lipstick to a childhood friend from 12 to 16.
Spent 8 hours on meth kneeling in front of a guy I met in a sex shop.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Since I stopped sucking my friend not at all. Everyone think I'm straight.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
My early porn memory were mostly male domination, it took me a while to understand I wanted to be in the girl role. It was later on when I dressed as a girl for halloween and got very positive response from the men that my desires to be feminized by a male kicked in. Before that I really was rationalizing my early blowjobs as naive mistake and though I could go straight.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Wore panties and buttplug secretly at my friends house. Stole his cum-stain tissues, stole his homemade porn. I'm obsessed with his cock.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
It will always remain just a fantasy but I'd love to be my friend sexual servant. Dress in whorish lingerie, let him be the boss, make sure he doesnt have to masturbate ever again. For some reason I crave to feel inferior to him, sexually.
>>23854446
I'm pretty switchy but subbing for a girl just seems way more intimate.
It's really awkward trying to sub for a girl i don't know very well but if we're in a committed relationship it just feels so natural. Domming random tinder girls is fun as hell though.
>ASL
22/F/CA
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Most things that I enjoy the most deal with teasing and seduction. Things that don't provide quick or instant satisfaction. Also kinks that involve an "I want to but I shouldn't" forbidden feel.
-Outercourse (Assjobs, handjobs, even thighjobs)
Basically actions that involve penetration denial.
-Discreet public play
I love messing around in semi-public places and being sneaky about it. It's the risk of being caught that really gets me going.
-"Accidental" exhibition and hidden voyeurs
I enjoy being a tease but a tease that's being coy about it. Accidentally-on-purpose giving a flash down my shirt to a random stranger or even better, to a guy I'm platonic with. Wearing a skirt without panties, walking around me house nude or semi-nude with the windows partially open, etc.
I like to be seen exposed but not "know" about it. Like its a secret.
>Fantasies
-Ageplay
Some of my most favorite experiences were in high school and as such, I like to play or replay high school-aged fantasies. There's limitations to being that age that you can't recreate now. Like being caught by my parents and sneaking around to do stuff.
-Incest roleplay
Although I've never been attracted to a family member, I have had a lot of b/s fantasies. It goes along with the recurring "we shouldn't be doing this/what if we get caught" theme in my kinks. I like the forbidden aspect of it.
-Cheating roleplay
Once again, just a fantasy. It's very specific to a type of roleplay where I am reluctant to cheat, wanting to stay faithful but circumstances more than the guy, leads me to bring down my inhibitions.
I like other kinks too. These are just my major ones.
I'm open to penpals and online play. I currently have a boyfriend so anything physical is out unless he's involved.
My kik is HeartstringsXO
I only pic trade with people I trust so don't ask if we've only talked for 5 minutes.
>>23854620
Is that you (op)?
Sure, let's fill another one of these out.
>ASL
24/m (feminine)
>IRC name
kittykat_
>General Kinks/Fetishes
I'm slightly to the vanilla side of things. I light petplay, mild embarassment, and bondage. Lots of bondage. I have fantasies for public play (in secret), and naughty tentacles but I don't see myself fulfilling either of those. First one because I'm too scared and second because well, should be obvious.
>Your experience/experiences
Limited. My experience has been mostly vanilla, but my ex boyfriend tied me up a few times, blindfolded me once as well which was really nice. Petplay I have no real experience with, but I've had that kink ever since a guy made me meow in bed.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nope, I keep this part of me fairly well hidden in general.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Well, I wouldn't say that vanilla 'isn't enough' but I found my interest in more kinky stuff through I guess exploration, mostly with my ex, some on my own. I've always liked ears and tails and feeling cute and at some point, maybe when someone had me meow for them, I just sort of realized that I liked it in a sexual setting as well. The bondage I don't know where it came from. Even as a kid I liked the idea of getting tied up, though obviously it wasn't really sexual to me back then I don't think. That kinda came later when I realized that it was a thing I just sort of immediately wanted to try it out.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Probably gotten tied up and blindfolded by my ex so that he could play with me as much as he wanted.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Shibari. It looks really interesting and I'm super keen on trying it, but it's a rare thing for people to be good at, and I don't tend to really look for people in kink communities. Maybe that'll change eventually.
25/M/Hamilton Ontario
Switch, Sadomasochist.
Heteroflexible.
I like pain, giving and receiving. Turns me on when someone wants me to hurt them.
10 years of experience and interest, been active in local communities since I've been legal, etc.
I've done pretty much everything- barring really extreme stuff.
Not into scat, piss, etc.
I once tied a girl to a bed and used her all day- doing whatever I wanted. Caning, wax, whips, paddles, choking/asphyxiation play, manhandling, fucked her brains out and came in all of her holes. She loved it and we dated for 2 years.
If you're on fetlife- feel free to creep/add me: 5335.
Cheers.
Alright kinksters, I need some ideas.
In a few days I'll be in a hotelroom with a nice girl, she has never done any bondage ever, but she is VERY eager to try.
I myself like tying a girl up, spanking, chocking.. basic light bondage stuff.
2 days of this woman, non stop. Lot's of fucking. NO restrictions.
I need IDEAS on how to go on with this. What can I try, that isn't too hardcore. I don't like to inflict pain, and I doubt she'll want pain on her first go.
She likes cum swallowing and has tried anal before, it was an "ok experience" so I'm in the clear in that department..I just need some inspiration to fill the days.
>>23854890
>NO restrictions
Bullshit. Construct ground rules before you're in there.
People differ on their limits. Some people are into bloodplay, some people don't want single mark, some people like a bit of bruising.
Try to pick her mind about why she is drawn to BDSM. When you find out more about what she doesn't want, it'll be more clear what you should do.
>>23854890
Numer one thing is communication.
This goes without saying- but you're claiming to be inexperienced.
Sit down with them to discuss limits before you do anything and use a safeword. The red, yellow, green system works best in my experience.
Other than that it should be smooth sailing.
Watch some kink porn if you're looking for ideas.
>>23854534
Hi Canada. Fellow hypnosis fan checking in, 22/M/Netherlands
I just love me some hypnosis as well, yes, even if I'm the one who does the hypnotising. There's something wonderful about feeling someone's mind open up to you so much, and I enjoy it every single time.
Nobody else, though? Usually there's at least a few more interested souls around on these threads.
>>23854906
Ah yes, I forgot how saying "no restrictions" triggers in this context.
Obviously there will be safewords, I intend to fully disclose my intentions with her before we begin and I will make her feel at ease and wanted.
I just wanted some good examples of some kinky play.
I'm not familiar with rope stuff, so I was thinking of getting bondagetape and making cuffs, hogties, ... stuff like that, out of that material. I have never used it before though, so I don't know if it is actually strong enough for, for example, a hogtie.
>ASL
19,F,Europe
>General Kinks/Fetishes
I have several (to my shame)
>passionate lesbian domme
want to be a brat with a domme until she can't take my arrogance anymore and punish me hard, and when she is finished i am trembling (and then she would gently take care of me, until i fall asleep or something). And she would remind me of it sometimes and i would be really embarassed and tsundere about it to her amusement)
>tentacle porn
Kinda turns me on? I just want slimy tentacles sliding all over my body,as if it needed my body fluids, teasing my nipples and my clit until i can't hold it anymore and cum in shame
>uniforms
maid/school/..non slutty cute uniforms.
>soft bdsm
Tied,blindfolded,shibari,...
>denial
Would deny enjoying it, and have to endure being on the verge of cumming for the night in a cage with only cute little panties on,soaked by how wet i would be, and a tight shirt showing my erected nipple
>tongue fucking
Penetration kinda scares me but tongue arouses me so much.
>Your experience/experiences
I only held hands,kissed with two girls (including one that was my gf back then) and did soft "lesbian things" but no penetration or anything. It scares me. I mean I can barely fit one finger down there...
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Only very very close friends but they are "worse" than me in the kink department and think i am a pure precious baby (i'm not!)
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish
I don't really know actually but it wasn't a "trigger" it just kind of like...slowly happened?
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
When ex gf touched me and during a blackout when people were next door and i had to not make any noise or they would catch me in that embarassing situation and that would have been the death of me.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why
Probably? But no idea right now
>>23855115
You gotta be really fucking careful with handmaking any kind of restraint, whether its rope or tape. Nothing will kill a boner like seeing your girl with restricted bloodflow or a dislocated shoulder.
>ASL
24/M/Canada
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Dominant with some switch aspects such as fighting, switching power dynamic, etc. I would call myself Switch but I'm happy to just be dominant while I wouldn't be happy being just submissive. Degradation/humiliation is pretty good for me sometimes, depends on how I feel. I also like outdoors, public, and voyeur separately or combined together. I'm into being Daddy as well with brats or good girls though not something required. Pain is fun but I stick to using hands such as with spanking, slapping, choking, oh and teeth as well for biting. Pretty open-minded in general as well but here's a little list I guess. I also like consensual missionary.
>Your experience/experiences
Most of the above, I'm hoping to get consensual missionary though.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Mainly only any girl I've done things with.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I mean, probably the first non-vanilla thing I've seen is hentai but I don't remember what. I just know that's most likely true.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Probably a bit of blood play or fucking at the penthouse suite of one of the taller buildings in Toronto. Windows everywhere.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
More bondage probably like shibari.
>Contact
E-mail: [email protected]
>ASL 19/f/UK
>General Kinks/Fetishes
lost little girl looking for older emotionally abusive daddy figure. fucks other girls in front of me, tell me they are more beautiful and my asian body is dirty and worthless. degrade me
skype: swallow.songs
23/mtf/sub
I'm into really elaborate, layered bondage and gags. Adding more and more restraints, just to make me uncomfortable and helpless, way beyond what's necessary.
Also humiliation and pain to some extent, but very much as an accompaniment to the bondage side of things.
contact is [email protected] if anyone is interested.
tfw just want to choke and forced deepthroats. Been having dreams girls cosplaying or using a swimming suit and sitting on my lap while playing around and then having my way with them.
25/m/Northern Europe
Sadomasochism, D/s, c.rape, monster rape, public-secret groping/molesting & remote toyplay, rough stuff, mindbreak, objectification <- cumdump; pocketpussy, human toy, etc.
A few regular things would be:
>Anal, creampie, collars, bindings, toys
Harder kinks would be:
>bestiality (animal on girl, note monster rape above)
Only bad point would be possessiveness I guess?
Other stuffs I really prefer to do:
>Leaving marks and bruises
>Choking, to many degrees
>Excessive dominance and overpowering
>'Breeding' the cumdump
>Using the cumdump all the time when passed out or sleeping and recording it
>Blackmailing them into being a toy forever
>>23856273
>tfw love to be choked, but not a masochist
I hope you find some cutie to wrap your fingers around.
>>23856316
Choking is more or less a standard thing lately, don't need to be a masochist to enjoy your windpipe closed and becoming lightheaded from it.
>ASL
22/m/WI
>IRC name
meow_zedong
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Spanking, BDSM, Hypnosis, Being dominated, large guys (Buff or fat), Vore
>Your experience/experiences
One four way, lots of pretty standard kinky sex. Quite a bit of chasing my weirder interests on the internet
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
In an open relationship, he pretty much knows all the weird shit im into. We have a pretty standard dom/sub relationship. Mostly look for stuff on the side relating to my strange tastes hes not interested in
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Just doesn't provide the stimulus I need for satisfying sex, its much better for me with either a physical pain aspect or a certain cerebral appeal
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Got hammered on beltaine, fucked in front of a party at the Church of Satan in Poughkeepsie then went home with a dude, his husband and his friend and got railed
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
L O T S
>asl
20/mtf/US
I'll post my list and contact info
I'm tall, kinda chubby, and into all sorts of things!
I like other trans women and cis women and sometimes traps or cute boys
>I really enjoy stuff like:
General D/s and M/s dynamics
Pain oriented stuff like impact play / spanking, slapping, choking, and biting
Clothes, which includes lingerie and uniforms
Body worship, including feet worship, ass worship, and facesitting
Orgasm control, which includes orgasm denial, forced orgasms and multiple orgasms
Pet play, specifically puppy play
Chastity
Electrostimulation, vibrators, and other toys
Bondage of most kinds
Emotional / verbal humiliation and embarrassment
Chubby people (I don’t really consider that a kink or fetish, just a preference)
Small cocks
Sounding
my kik is AlexErin9 if anyone wants to chat about kinky things or anything else
>>23854970
Good taste hypno anon, couldn't have put it better myself.
Yeah I'm surprised as well, I saw a hypnosis thread up a few days ago so you'd think there would be more.
Anyways, what got you into it?
>>23854620
Well thought out and presented post.
>>23854604
How do you manage that? Domming random tinder girls? I keep fucking blowing it
>>23856408
The two guys I've tried it with got a bit freaked out about how into it I got. I was grinning and pushing their hands down harder. When I'm released I fall into a giggle fit where I'm semi-nonresponsive.
Apparently my face gets really red and my eyes roll back.
They complied occasionally, but they didn't always like it.
And I honestly crave choking more than I do sex (though that's not saying much)
Those I've met who are interested choking others, they do it because they want to inflict pain. They like the fear in her eyes.
Which isn't what I do.
>the struggle
>>23855264
I have a female friend that would love you. Also Europe.
>>23857553
I feel like I'm decent looking and i live in a pretty populous city. I'm not talking anything extreme, just lots of hair pulling, choking and face sucking.
>>23854604
>>23854604
>Domming random tinder girls is fun as hell though.
I feel you. Ever since I set up a tinder profile in a Dom way, I have been getting less matches in general, but the matches I get are almost all a sure thing.
It's easy in europe to switch to different cities all the time because the travel distance is nothing. I change my tinder location every once in a while to another major city and just watch the matches flow it, pick a few for a date and let the fun begin.
I don't even have a profile picture up of myself. By the time I share pictures of myself they are too entranced by the idea, that they don't give a fuck how I look like (but I'm also not ugly so I guess that helps)
>>23854890
If one dildo gets lost up anywhere, make sure to have a spare dildo to try and knock it loose.
>>23857671
>Ever since I set up a tinder profile in a Dom way
What sort of way is that?
>I don't even have a profile picture up of myself.
What do you have then? How does that work? One of the reasons I haven't set up tinder is that I don't want to paste my face out there, to probably be seen by people I know.
>>23857773
Direct, intelligent and mentioning that you have and are looking for "a kinky mind to have fun with".
My profile picture is some stock image of a tied up woman.
This makes the women I match with curious.
And occasionally, you just get lucky. Pic related.
>>23857639
That sounds kind of hot
>>23857788
She sounds wonderful! Are you using your computer?
>>23857803
Hey bb
>>23857813
Yes. You can use Tinder on Windows 10.
I find it easier on the computer.
inb4 >windows 10
Yeah I know, it's the lewdest thing in this thread.
>>23857427
Thank you, I try :)
>>23857813
Just saying.
If a woman had a giggle fit choking me it would drive me crazy. Would probably endnotes put her hands on my throat myself.
Being chocked does absolutely nothing for me, but seeing her enjoy herself that much would be a little slice of heaven.
>>23857651
R-Really?
(Even though i act all bratty and mighty i am kinda awkward,shy and kinda self conscious in real life)
>>23857818
Can I do it on Windows 7?
>>23857880
It does feel soooo good to me! It's my own slice of heaven. I get lost a bit, forget where I am, just revel in it. I don't think I fully black out. Brown out? It's amazing.
Afterwards it's like someone's hypnotized me to be a horny submissive. I usually dive in for a bj to show my deep gratitude.
Hm, maybe I should hit up the hypnodoms! Maybe they'll choke me in the loving way I desire!
>>23857995
Yes. Really.
She told me she would love to dominate a woman (or girl, in your case) alone, and together with me.
>>23857995
No, it requires the windows app store.
>>23858011
>No, it requires the windows app store.
Darn. Won't work on Chromebook either?
>>23858032
I have no idea about that.
>>23857995
Have you ever been chocked while getting fucked? Something else might be getting chocked while vibrators are strategically placed all over your body
>>23858055
Yes, of course. Excuse me.
On topic: so seems you have some experience with using tinder for kink experiences. Do you have any advice for the other side of the coin? What should a submissive girl put on hers?
Any ideas for a picture I could use that shows what I want, but doesn't imply that I'm the actual girl in the picture?
>>23854828
Hey kitty, you should change your nick to kittycatfish_
>ASL
30/m/Nordic
>IRC name
jizzlord
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Rapeplay, overpowering/pinning down a struggling chick, choking, creampies, roleplaying weird scenarios
>Your experience/experiences
None, never been in a serious relationship and I'm not cool enough to ask one-night-stands to do this stuff
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nope, I'm creepy enough as it is
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Not really. I think I just gradually checked out harder and harder pornography and realized I liked it
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Vanilla sex
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Rapeplay
>>23857871
In this case you succeeded.
Terrific content as well, thank you for sharing
>>23858082
Not simultaneously with fucking, but directly before or after.
I've had a hand on my throat while being fucked, but it's kind of hard to keep the firm, steady pressure with all the movement.
>>23858086
I really like that webm!
>>23858096
Just a matter of positioning.
Getting fucked from behind with his hands firmly around your neck. Also aids like a silk scarf wrapped around your neck and pulled back
>>23858085
A picture of a tied up woman should also do the trick for a submissive woman. I think you would get a lot of hits with that alone. Any stock image of anything that slightly shows what you want is pretty ok I guess.
Just don't forget to add you are open minded and have a kinky mind, and you are good to go.
Be sure to vet out the creeps and always go on a first date in a public area.
>>23858113
From behind! I didn't think of that. I wonder if the angle would be right for getting just the right choke.
>>23858096
Chocking a girl while fucking her is reallly hot. Do recommend. The girls I did it with always like it.
Also chocking while giving a blowjob, pretty good.
And yeah, it should be possible with a chromebook, I think chromebooks can use any android aps..
>>23858121
I think that may depend on the size of his hands more than anything.
Almost certainly a good idea to have a mirror in front of you for added safety. Mirror could also make it more erotic since you could see yourself as it's happening.
>ASL
22/M/Los Angeles
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Panties and really anything pussy related.
>Your experience/experiences
Used to steal panties. I switched to buying off craigslist. From there I have met people in person, taken the panties off of them, and have had women masturbate in from of me. I unknowingly bought panties from a sex worker and have been slowly working my way with her and currently spend time eating her out.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Yes. Surprisingly open about it. My two close female friends were a bit supportive. A romantic interest cut me off though.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Probs stealing panties, and the fact that one of my exes gave me her soaked panties after we fucked. So 16 lol
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
With panties? Meeting up a prostitue. Normally? Fucking in public.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Actually something resembling necrophilia. Just fucking someone lying still or being cold to the touch. Voltaire's Dead Girls sums it up well.
>>23857994
Yes. Really.
She told me she would love to dominate a woman (or girl, in your case) alone, and together with me.
Where Europe are you from?
Heh, I just realized I misquoted on that one before.
>>23858450
France!
It's ok.
>>23858496
Cool. I'm in Belgium myself, the woman I referred to is German.
Guys I have a problem.
I like to think I'm kinky, and there are a lot of ideas that turn me on, but when I actually get into the bedroom it's just easier to have vanilla sex and nothing kinky ever happens.
What do
Also I don't have a partner currently, this is based on past experiences
>>23858565
sounds like you're a pansy ass bitch then
>>23858573
I'm not into this.
>>23858532
So close! I wish i could meet but i'm so anxious with being social/meeting people in general,and i'm all talk on the internet but in real life i am extremely shy and nervous when it comes to kinks and all that stuff. I feel like i would probably explose in that kind of situation haha.
>tfw scared of social contacts
>tfw scared of relationships and sex
>will probably only continue fantasizing by myself
>>23858695
>tfw scared of social contacts
That is perfectly fine.
>tfw scared of relationships and sex
Who cares abotu relationships? They blow. It's the sex that is fun.
>will probably only continue fantasizing by myself
That is an option. Or you can find someone to talk to, someone to open up to and build a (non-romantic) relationship with, and build up the courage to meet.
You need to act on your instincts and fantasies while there is still time, girly. Trust me when I say you do not want to start too late with this stuff.
>>23857639
This is actually my fetish. Though not just with choking.
>>23856273
>>23857639
Ooh mama. Choking is my fetish for sure. Anything neck or clavicle area related, not to mention the breath play.
Also giggling is my exact fetish, my last gf giggled everytime she orgasmed and it made for some fun times. My current sub does choking but she doesn't profusely enjoy it, which I have a specific fetish for, their eyes rolling back, stuttered words, etc. So fucking hot.
>>23854446
I don't mind being the dominant one either but sometimes it's nice to let the woman be the dom and it's hot as fuck seeing a confident strong woman in latex mmm.
>>23858086
So rude, I don't even catfish. It's not my fault if everyone thinks I'm a girl randomly.
>ASL
25/M/Europe|Germany but born in America
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Dominant Play, D/S, Mind-Games, Light Bondage to a bit harder one (marks make me proud x3), Pet-play (but never done it until now), being a reliable dom-person-friend, outdoor, choking well just the feeling of having the upper hand, rapeplay and challenges
>Your experience/experiences
I'm atm in a relationship with a wonderful girl and I see how much I get her to do, where in 2 relationships with being the top, tried being a sub for once with a female domme-friend of mine
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Some of my close friends and I think a few are taking guesses, most of them can't see me that way, but I switch for some situations and they were all like "Wow" so yeah
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
My first gf somehow forced me into getting to know dominant-stuff, from then on it was automatically, i did it because she was happy with it and somehow I ended up liking it myself, was 15 at that time
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Having a threesome with 2 friends of mine, while taking the control and leading the whole get together
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like to try 24/7, pet play and having full control, also I would like to completely be egoistic and rough like treating her like a fucktoy - why i didnt do it? Because I fear to get over the line, therefore I want to ensure too much what I can do and when to stop
If ya got question's feel free to ask. Here or on Kik. If you're interested in my Kik, just ask. Have a good day then ;)
>>23858714
Hm..Maybe you're right.
I'm just "that" girl who has a hard time trusting people and when it comes to sex i need to reallyyyy trust/be totally at ease with that person, if that makes sense?.
>>23859022
>if that makes sense?
What, that makes perfect sense and it's fucking great you feel that way. It's what makes you normal. Especially since you say you have never been with anyone like that before, you should definitely do that kind of stuff with a man or a woman you have known for a while and trust. No rushing. That's never good.
>>23858968
Kik please.
You're perfect. Do you mind traps? <3
>>23859037
Ahh i'm glad someone understand.
I'll gladly wait. But anon said i should "not start too late with that kind of stuff" and all,... not too sure what he meant by that?
>ASL
20/m/Netherlands
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Bondage, Domination, Spanking,
>Your experience/experiences
I have done some bondage before, my previous relation was alot of bondage and power play
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Only one friend does, and she really doesnt mind, or at least, thats how she acts about it.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Pretty rough bondage and some minor humiliation.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I want to have somebody, who enjoys being submissive as much as I enjoy being dominant, somebody.
I want to have somebody to be my permanent sub.
I havent tried this before, I never had the chance.
>>23859066
Yes, that anon was me.
I'm saying, you are young and impressionable. If you wait too long and these are your true desires, but they go unfulfilled for too long, or you meet a partner you think will be the love of your life.. And he isn't into any of the things you are, then you are screwed.
I made the mistake of ending up with a partner, after I repressed my desires for so long, thinking I was abnormal. Now I know that there are many more like me, and it changed my life for the best.
You are lucky, you know what you like at an early age and you are not afraid to express it, even if it is just online. It will only make you stronger, IF you give in to your desires. Don't end up like me and repress them for years on end. Because then once you let them out, you will feel like shit for waiting so long.
I would talk to you and get to know you, but I don't want to come off as a creeper, so I won't ask for your info.
>>23859082
Oh, k i see what you meant now. Man, that must suck for you, hope you feel better. I actually don't even know if i'll end up with someone at all since muh aspergers, + i like being alone but at the same time i just want some sweet sweet love. I'm so weird really. But we don't know what tomorrow is made of so i just try not to worry too much over it.
Nah it's ok, i've been approached by many many creeps already, i could litteraly write a novel about it.
>>23854592
i wanna see that homemade porn
>>23859111
Nice trips.
Yes, I can imagine. Plenty of creeps and contactfags on /soc/.
And yes, I feel better. Much better. I can do what I want with whoever I want right now, and that's amazing. If only I could have lived this life sooner.
I hope you will find a partner soon, my French friend. Good luck in your future.
>>23859124
I wish you happiness anon
>btw i lied i'm from belgium too, i just usually say "france" or something, just by security because of something that happened last year
>>23858742
Which part of it do you like? What stuff do you do other than choking?
>>23858820
I'm glad to hear my giggling is appealing to some! I always felt it made me look insane.
I really miss my Daddy. He hasn't talked to me in a month. I hope he reads this.
>>23859152
well shucks, the one girl from /soc/ I meet here that is also from Belgium, and I'm too noble to contactfag.
Oh well. Thanks for the wishes, anon.
>>23859206
The idea of someone really really enjoying unpleasant shit they shouldn't be enjoying to the point where they look like they're losing it. I've got a thing for crazy depraved girls. I do like choking, but anything that's at least semi-kinky works as long as they're really noticeably insanely into it.
The bit where you mentioned you held their hands down is a nice detail I really like (see also self-spanking, self-degradation, etc).
>>23859211
Don't be impatient. Just try to relax, get your thoughts straight, do something else, concentrate on yourself and your goals and time flies by. Just dont be depressed. Be brave and positive :)
>>23859211
Get a grip, you're a grown woman
>>23859052
As I said, question me what u want, I try to answer. Just did see the post now, therefore it took me a while to answer :D
Kik is: SirMuugen
>>23859246
Hah, I think we'd get along then!
I've never really understood the appeal of looking like you don't want it. I'm not going to stay "stop" or "you're scaring me" unless I really mean it.
I much prefer, "yes, sir."
I always say, if I'm grinning, you're doing something right.
I'll be biting back happy moans while being spanked, lips pulled into a smile while my head's against a wall with a cock down my throat, and curling my toes when a hand finds its way to my neck.
I wouldn't want it any other way.
>>23859418
I dunno, I do get the appeal non-con, but the other extreme end of the spectrum is so much more fun. The more enthusiastic and shameless someone is about the weird dirty shit they're into, the more it turns me on.
Sprinkle some hints of desperation or addiction on it and it becomes even hotter. But in general I just want to be constantly reminded that I'm fucking someone possibly kinkier than me and not a whimpering virgin playing coy.
>>23857064
That was my thread, actually, and the response was good! Makes me find it a touch strange this place is so quiet. Then again, I'm still in contact with two people who replied to me on that thread, so that's nice.
And it's just.. Something I developed an interest in, once. It's not a terribly interesting story to talk about how I ended up hypnotising people, but I'm very, very good at doing so. The voice helps a lot.
>>23857639
It's more about the enjoyment of being strangled than anything really, it's especially hormone inducing if the person leads my hand to their throats; makes me go diamonds. It all depends on the person I am with really, and that's what it's all about if I want to see fear or enjoyment since it's all interchangable depending on whom you are with.
>>23855264
I'd hold on to your contact for a long time because I know someone, but she isn't actually looking -right now- so it would only look like I wanted your contact (But I wouldn't mind just straight up talking).
>>23858121
From behind is tricky really, if you don't have the hands or nimble fingers all you are doing is pressing the back of the neck with the fingers holding it steady rather than choking the windpipe. Choking technique is important and when I see someone do it wrong I tell them 'that's how you damage someone'. People think it's all holding your hands anywhere on the throat (well, technically it is, right pressure and grip is important) but when you turn older that neck damage is going to hunt you down like mad.
>>23859494
Why not? Anyway maybe i'm gonna make myself a throwaway email to talk with people that want to talk to me so it's more "safe" and all.
I've had a stalker before. So now i'm extra cautious.
>>23858096
It's mostly hard to keep the pressure if the person is as tall as yourself or the person is a lightweight, I'm a heavy dude so it's a bit easier for me to just relax my upper body and balance myself with my hand on their throats if they are laying down.
>>23858883
Haha! well yeah that's their fault to begin with, but still, HAHA!
>>23859111
Having a d/s relationship has helped a ton of people with minor autism/aspergers. The issue mostly comes to the creepers who immediately thinks the person likes them and follows them around as an orbiter; hoping 'something' will happen.
>>23859501
Yeah it's extremely good to be cautious, I know 2 people from this thread who currently are being stalked (but the stalkers are convinced they are just 'friends') and for whatever reason or another they are too friendly to remove them.
I guess you and her could just talk normally, but I am -completely sure- that she is not a person who talks to multiple people at once just to secure herself a sub if another fails. But I could see.
>>23859570
>Yeah it's extremely good to be cautious, I know 2 people from this thread who currently are being stalked (but the stalkers are convinced they are just 'friends') and for whatever reason or another they are too friendly to remove them.
GG
>>23859597
Yeah, exactly.
>>23859570
That's reassuring to know.
Oh boy...It was the same here, "i'm just your friend anon, don't be scared hurr", and i'm not a pushover but i didn't "dare" to remove him first and he threatened to commit suicide if i did bla bla bla then when i blocked him he found my goddamn facebook and then one day i posted about going somewhere and he messaged me with another email saying he was not so far and would come to search for me,that he just wants to see me,... he disappeared all of a sudden when i blocked him for the 6th time. Never saw him again.
Ah, and don't bother! There's no need to bother her or yourself about it
>>23859635
Yeah, I will never understand how they think looking up someones facebook isn't considered creepy if you know their info.
It's there, what exactly went on in their heads to even bother with that extra step? "OO I JUST WANTED TO SEE HER FRIENDS AND PICTURES BECAUSE I AM INTERESTED IN HER LIFE :3 IT'S NOT CREEPY AT ALL".
But more power to you really.
>>23859597
Thinking back on it, one of the stalkers actually used GG quite a lot and used GG in capitals when trying to unironically disperse a situation that was pointing fingers towards him.
Hi to you.
>>23859635
You need to be really careful. And only give IM info after enough email contact, or at least throwaway IM stuff.
A friend of mine got her twitch account (that she also uses for streaming, so she can't throw it away) so heavily stalked by this creeper that keeps making new accounts.. It's unbelievable.
>>23859661
Considering i never use "GG" in capitals but this one instance, probably not me then.
>>23857639
>When I'm released I fall into a giggle fit where I'm semi-nonresponsive.
>Apparently my face gets really red and my eyes roll back.
Just like japanese hentais
Where you from?
I really want to cheat on my girlfriend. I think it would be so fucking hot to fuck some slut and then go home and nut inside of my girlfriend. I have no idea how I could pull it off though, unless it was with a stripper.
>>23859570
I-I really can't help it, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't think it's amusing or even somehow kinda nice on some level.
Also ---
>ASL
23, M, FLORIDA
>IRC name
>General Kinks/Fetishes
I love to dominate women, I also like to be dominated by women to some extent; facesitting, being rode, being forced to cum inside of a girl. When I was younger I was really into public exhibitionism and was a bit of a webcam whore.
>Your experience/experiences
Threesome with two girls, masturbated in public plenty of times, masturbated in gym showers while other dudes watched (I'm 100% straight), lots of anal, lots of creampies, been a dom and a sub (only with girls).
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Just my girlfriend and previous partners, they only know what they have experienced with me.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I still like regular vanilla sex with my girlfriend. I go through phases of wanting regular sex and phases of kinky shit.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
I had a really great threesome with two heroin addict girls a while back. Ass to mouth from one girl to the other, came inside the one girl and made it drip into the others mouth. I've had public sex quite a bit, a lot of cam sex, and I've jerked off in front of a lot of people.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
This is my first "real" relationship, but I'd really like to cheat on my girlfriend solely for the thrill. I care about her a lot, but I fucking love sex and being sexual with new people. It would be purely physical with a complete stranger.
I'd also like to be a bull for some cuck couple. I'm pretty hung (about 8 inches, very thick too), and I've had people ask me but I never went through with it. I'm white, 6 foot, fairly lean but not too muscular, pretty average looking, but being the bull would put myself on a pedestal and I love getting attention.
>ASL
24/m/Europe
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Beast (fantasy)
Toys of all sizes
Excessive cum/slime/overflow/cum inflation
Monster/rape because why not both
Tentacles/Consentacles, the more slime the better
Cumdump
>Your experience/experiences
Quite a lot, done most of my fetishes, except the fantasy ones of course.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
"Accidentally" found horse porn, escalated from there.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Used bad dragon toys and cum inflation i guess. NOT ON MYSELF <. >
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Not really. Maybe anal lol
>>23859798
Also, hi kitty. :>
>>23859661
Hi to you too rice! :>
>>23859494
>Choking technique is important and when I see someone do it wrong I tell them 'that's how you damage someone'.
Any tips on how to do it right?
I do agree that angle and pressure is everything. There's a certain position that sends me into bliss, whereas other ones are really painful. I kind of just shift the hands around until it feels right, but I wouldn't be able to describe where it needs to be.
I'm guessing that what I enjoy is a blood choke and not an actual trachea choke.
I know that choking is really dangerous. I honestly feel pretty irresponsible for liking it so much.
It's such a bother! I'm not even that extreme in the majority of my kinks. Why do things like even knife play have to be safer than breath play? It's not fair!
I'd really like to go to a breath play seminiar. But breath play is strictly controlled in my local bdsm club. If someone accidentally passes out, the both of you are completely barred from anything that could progress into breath play.
Spooky because I honestly don't know when to tap out. I get really out of it and lose sense of what's going on, I just revel in the feeling. It's always been them who decide to let go. I guess when I get too limp. Sometimes it's too soon though, and I get such blue balls.
>>23859570
Where did you get this picture of me? I love it!
>>23859732
Where are you?
>>23859876
Hiyas person-whose-identity-I-havent-ascertained-yet
>ASL
21/f
>General Kinks/Fetishes
S/m (strictly on the maso side, sorry but I don't want to beat you up)
General mind-fuckery (mental sadism), especially in the form of gaslighting. Basically everything I'm into revolves around this. I like being condescended, mansplained, and not being taken seriously.
I like calling someone Mama/Daddy, but as really only a form of degradation. This ties into the whole mind-fuckery thing. You 'care' for me, because I'm useless and can't do it myself.
I like cages, not sure how I feel committing to anything else pet-related. Collars? I guess.
Toys like butt things and vibrators!
Orgasm control. Physical or mental denial, eg topical anesthetics to actually numb me, or just verbal commands. Same with multiple orgasms. It's up to u~
Anal only
These are the most important ones that I can think of...
>Your experience/experiences
I've learned what I don't like. And that I can be pushed to like *some* things. Haven't had a dynamic that lasted very long. Right now I'm in a vanilla relationship so that's fun.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Yeah, my current partner knows some stuff but doesn't know the extent. A couple of friends know the extent of stuff, but they're just as nasty so it's all good
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I was in the shitty half of my longest relationship and when they weren't comfortable enough doing what I needed I had to leave. One trigger was when a partner accidentally choked me out. I had never been that wet in my entire life.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
This dude was beating the shit out of me with his belt, and whenever I moved too much he just flushed my face in the toilet. I wasn't great at handling pain yet, so he ended up losing patience and pissing down my throat/in my eyes.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Electro! Knives! And maybe waterboarding?
>>23859935
>Where are you?
Brazil, which I imagine you're not from but it's worth a try.
>>23859949
Anon867, ring a bell? :^)
>>23859973
>>23859872
>>23859876
Hm, why did the id change?
I'm a switch.
As a Dom, pretty big into spanking, punishment, anal, cumplay, tying/bondage, and always trying to push a sub to do things that are a little out of her comfort zone. For example, one girl I dated loved it when I made her do things like try to cum in class.
As a sub: chastity, pegging, cum, various other anal things, worship, cbt, etc. Not really a cuckolding person though.
>>23859488
Hypno fetish here as well. I've had it ever since I can remember. I think my first introduction to the subject was Donald Duck comics (seriously).
The sad part is, I've never done it on anyone. I just have amassed a lot of knowledge and hypno-related stuff. I wish I'd had the guts to bring it up with my gf before we broke up, and now it's too late.
Got any tips for someone with a fair amount of passive knowledge but zero actual experience? I'd love to see if I have the voice and temper for it. And to find a willing subject to practice on. Do you think it might make any sense to try making recordings, and see what people think about them?
>>23859973
Oh, right, cool. Heyas!
>>23860070
Internet. Hypnosis through text works for many, and vocal hypnosis is exactly as effective as audiovisual hypnosis is on a subject who's not being completely stupid.
Also, if you wanna drop your email/kik, I'm not opposed to showing you the ropes for a bit. Coming by good material isn't easy.
>>23859488
Oh wow that's awesome, yeah I was in there too.
What's your preferred method of induction? just curious. I have a good voice for it but I need more experience.
>>23857995
>maybe I should hit up the hypnodoms
I think maybe you should haha
>>23860235
I'm a person who enjoys some slow buildup, and so goes for the meditative route: breathing exercises, relaxation, focus on simple things, then simply bring them under by counting down. One might want to call it cliche, but it works so very, very well.
>>23860321
Same here I go for the drawn out full body relaxation and a nice countdown...probably because the actual induction of the person into hypnosis nails me right in the fetish.
>>23859954
Seems very hot to me. Like your kinks and hope you can fulfill them. You want to with your current partner? Or just some "Lets enjoy this vanilla thing a while and see whats up for"?
>>23860149
That'd be really kind of you. Any kind of pointers are appreciated. Throwaway at [email protected] . If you do write, I probably won't answer until tomorrow as it's getting late here in Europe.
>>23860378
I'm from Europe as well, so.. I think we'll match up fairly well in fact. Gonna send that email now.
>>23856131
my kik is gag_slave , because a couple of people asked via email.
Some are giving me the creeps, only a few anons and OP aren't giving off a creep vibe, but at least the feminineanon is qt
>>23859935
You know, odds and ends of the internet. I am right behind you, so don't look back.
>>23859901
>trachea choke
Yeah no, that's how you damage someone further down the line, it might feel like whiplash a little later in the weeks or months and then goes away, but you can bet your ass that life won't agree with you down the line. It's all about how the nerves got knocked around along the spine really, worst case is that one of your limbs when you are old will go limp/crippled. And it WILL happen.
Passing out is bad because you need to do CPR right away if it happens and they can't take the risk if it's a person who passed out from the enjoyment or lack of oxygen. The risk is too high and you'd need to actually know the person quite deeply to know the difference.
The general gist is that it requires finesse if you are going to do a proper grip or choker that includes the trachea, and the basic principle is that you apply the right pressure to the windpipe and trachea is held, not gripped. It's only extremely dangerous if the hand holding the trachea is doing the movement.
>>23861387
It's 4chan, if it was a contactfag thread it would have been much worse for sure.
>>23859954
Wow! you are solid.
You should try electroknife.
>>23861483
>ever doing trachea chokes
I seriously hope you dont do this
24 F USA
>into
Roleplaying & costumes, monsters, me crossdressing, rape play, pet play, age play, some violence, some bondage, oviposition, mentor/pupil relationships
>experience
I have attempted each of my kinks that are possible IRL. I have come to the conclusion that I love sex in theory but don't enjoy it in practice. My favorite way to get off is by ERP.
>who knows
My Ex and a few friends.
>When did it begin?
I was fantasizing about being kidnapped and tied up when I was 4 years old. Realized it was sexual when I was 13 and watching a cartoon about superheroes. There was never a vanilla stage.
>Kinkiest accomplishment
Kinkiest thing I did was crossdress up as a butler while my ex crossdressed as a french maid and we did some rape roleplay. I don't usually like to be the aggressor character but that was a lot of fun.
A kink thread was decent for once? Sorry, I'll shit it right back up again.
>ASL
35, Male, Indiana
>IRC name
tamlin42, same as my skype
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Cuckold/Cuckquean, trashy girls, scene girls.
>Your experience/experiences
None, literally.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nope.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Probably just looking at the weird bondage stuff prevalent on the 90's internet as a teenager.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
e-dommed some chicks, it was pretty sad in the end.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Lots.
>ASL
23/F/TX
>General Kinks/Fetishes
i'm a bratty sub, into bondage, exhibitionism, vanilla sometimes, petplay, oral
>Your experience/experiences
several years, current bf is dominant and indulges me on most of my fetishes/interests. I am bi but only have been with one female.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
only my bf; past partners know of some of them
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
When I first started having sex I remember feeling like I wanted to be punished. I remember asking my bf to "fuck me like you hate me, be rough, choke me" and he was like wtf
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
sex in public
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'm curious about petplay, I want to be a kitty. I also want to have a FMF threesome, have a male watch my bf and I fuck, and I'd like more experience with other women. Also curious about polyamory if the fmf works out
>>23854620
>kinks that involve an "I want to but I shouldn't" forbidden feel
hnng
>>23855264
>passionate lesbian domme
hnng
>>23861715
i think we have some things in common :P
18 yr old male sub.
likes anal and basically everything else
petplay, light cbt, gagging, feminization, sissification, forced to act slutty, maybe blackmailing to make me do stuff
just kik me and spread the word!
kik: shadowlurker
>>23861793
Yeah, pet play and it seems we both like being bratty subs.
Bratty is definitely the best way to be a sub. I'm not at all submissive in my daily life and if someone's gonna dom me I want to make them fight me for it.
My preferred subtype of pet play is to be a human forced into the role of a pet, not necessarily taking it well.
>>23859684
So, you're a liar? Thats reassuring, didn't need a winded creepy guarantee of an answer o_O
>>23861855
> I'm not at all submissive in my daily life and if someone's gonna dom me I want to make them fight me for it.
Yesss me too. I love struggling, saying no and smirking, running away, etc. and being punished until I comply
>My preferred subtype of pet play is to be a human forced into the role of a pet, not necessarily taking it well.
That honestly sounds kind of hilarious haha
>>23861890
Yeah "human pet play" does have tremendous comic potential imo. But usually when I've done it we've had pretty serious stories/sessions.
The main premise of the last one I did was playing a character who was a teenager who had been low nobility of some conquered nation. She ends up as the "pet" of some emotionally sadistic rich person from the conquering nation.
>ASL
25/F/Aus
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Ddlg, petplay, spanking, humiliation for the sake of punishment..
Basically a strict Daddy or Mummy dom. But I have trouble getting into the mindset just by myself because I've been so guarded about it for so long.. I need someone who can push me just enough to let go
>Your experience/experiences
Never had a relationship before.. Had a few dates, a few hookups, and one of my friends occasionally turns really dominant if I tease him enough which is ridiculously hot
But he's not ready for a relationship so it's just a bit of fun
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
A few close friends, but only those equally dirty minded
I've kept it hidden from anyone else even though it's probably fine, I just worry too much
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Being choked and fucked quietly with a hand over my mouth and someone asleep in the same room
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Like.. Everything I've mentioned and more, because I'm a potato and can't start it myself
>ASL
34/m/Utah
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Pegging, facesitting, lactation, spending literal hours eating pussy, possibly watersports? Also unimaginably attracted to pregnant women.
>Your experience/experiences
Longest pussy eating session, ended because she couldn't handle any more, was ~3.5 hours.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Couple lovers but it's not something I really advertise.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Sex with a couple. He came inside me right as I came inside her. I liked it but truthfully while I'm into being penetrated, guys are not attractive to me AT ALL. Toys and girls though are A-OK!
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Watersports. Always been curious, never had the chance.
>>23862010
Kik?
am I in the wrong IRC channel or is the channel topic pointing to the wrong thread?
>>23862064
Would prefer not to post, it isn't a throwaway and kik likes to delete my entire history if I log out
But I'll add people who wanna chat, preferably locals though..
I tried a long distance relationship once and it was just too hard
>>23861483
>and the basic principle is that you apply the right pressure to the windpipe and trachea is held, not gripped. It's only extremely dangerous if the hand holding the trachea is doing the movement.
I'm having a hard time visualizing this. Could you help me?
>>23859206
Yeah I mean you don't live on the west coast US do you?
>>23862408
I actually am on the west. Where are you?
>>23860362
Most of what I'm into stemmed from coping methods I developed for a period of rough anxiety/remembering a lot of repressed bullshit. Really unhealthy. So right now I'm just doing the vanilla thing. He slaps my ass sometimes.
>>23861483
Oh fuck. That exists?? *sweats*
>>23857788
Just posting a follow-up for those interested in tinder shenanigans. We moved to whatsapp and are making dinner plans.
This woman is fantastic.
>>23861793
>>23861855
>>23861890
Bratty subs unite ahoy!
I just love it, being arrogant, refusing orders, talking back ("oh really?" "Make me")..And them struggling to make us comply. Hng.
I am "small and cute" (according to my friends) in real life but i can be pretty sassy (can't defend myself physically though...that earned me some beatings by high school bitches)
Good morning bump
>>23862144
No, #pervysocplebs on rizon is right. There ought to be some lurkers in there at the very least at any given time I'm assuming.
>>23862010
No details but what state in Aus you in ?
>27/M/WA
>In to AB/DL and DD/LG
>Looking to explore other kinks as well.
>Craziest thing i've done was model before.
>Kik me if you want = floplife
>>23862996
*raises fist in unity*
For me it's not even on purpose though it's just part of who I am..
A few times I've met some Daddy doms who were just too gentle and didn't know how to handle me
>>23863314
Brisbane, but I'm staying in Perth for the month.
Forgot to mention before, my bad
>>23863477
>Brisbane, but I'm staying in Perth for the month.Forgot to mention before, my bad
All good, I'm not from either of those places anyway , hope you have some luck finding someone up there.
>>23862378
Another way to look at it would be; just make sure that the hand holding the trachea is not doing the movement, the hand should follow where the throat is moving.
>>23862144
It gets fixed now and then.
>>23861778
Poly gets harder to manage as you get older, even if you want it really badly you have to put yourself into a situation where someone MIGHT be jealous in some way. This isn't to say that it doesn't work at all, there are people who have it work quite well actually.
>>23861600
If you re-read it then you'd know I am not exactly encouraging it.
>>23863477
The 'gentle' dom type usually ends up being a person who really had limited experience at all.
>>23862464
Some buy light stunguns from SEA (mostly Thailand) and they always come with attachable screws that form the pins that shoot the electricity out. They usually come in the form of flashlights/torches so if you have the expertise just get a swiss army-knife or any blade that can be detached and enjoy your electroknife.
Now just mod it, and you're set for life.
>>23862010
john.davis1 is my kik
Anyone from NJ/Nyc area into meeting up and stroking? Specially love stroking to girls or women we know gfs wife mom etc. Also into 420. Kik: pvsp12
M 27
Going to fuck a squirter for the first time tomorrow, so excited. I want her to squirt all over me.
19/m/sub
dating a 19/f/sub
I can kinda switch but im not real good at it. She tries but she's such a little its hard. I think i'm mostly into guys too. Anyone ever wind up in a relationship like this before?
No because I'm not a retard
>>23865321
Respect to you for being a male sub.
Generally people in this kind of relationship manage to find an older person who is not jealous or a 'picks a favorite' kind of person and is usually there when subs need them.
I like femdom, more as a dynamic than a fetish, but it seems impossible to find a good dom. I'm naturally a switch so I always seem to be the one to take charge after a while.
Although I've only tried long distance stuff online because it's so hard to find...
Anyone who can relate or give me advice?
>>23865321
I ended up just sticking vanilla in my sub/sub relationship. Sorry.
Idk what it is, but i love choking and being choked. Its just gets me off like crazy. I love looking at a girl with my hands wrapped around her throat, gagging, spitting everywhere, it just gets me crazy, same with being choked, i love the feeling. Not being able to breathe gives me an ectasy that just makes everything loose and fun, and no worries.
My kik is psyhcoactive if you wanna hear me ramble on about this shit.
>>ASL
23/F/Western USA
>>General Kinks/Fetishes
BDSM, DD/lg (no ageplay), age gap, breath-play, impact-play, hands, breeding, verbal degradation, etc.
>>Your experience/experiences
Currently in a 24/7 D/s relationship
>>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Yes, they're friends and they're super chill, if not more kinky.
>>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I had to convince the first guy I've ever had sex with to tie me up, spank me, finger my ass, etc. because vanilla wasn't cutting it anymore.
>>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Breeding-play without contraceptives.
>>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like to fuck an anthropomorphic robot, but that's not going to happen any time soon.
>>23865321
I'll dom you both if you want.
>>23867374
Are you bi? Can you tell us more about the 24/7?
>>23867374
its not her on the picture though, its a polish tumblr girl/model
>>23867441
> Are you bi?
I have a thing for a girl, and I find myself sexually attracted to some women, but I've never experienced it. If the girl I'm crushing on offered, I'd go for it but not in a kink sort of way.
> Can you tell us more about the 24/7?
My partner is my Daddy Dom. There's a mild age gap but not what I'd usually go for. He's extremely experienced in many facets of BDSM which means I'm not his first 24/7.
We live together, which works in our favor since he can correct me any time we're in each others presence. If I'm out of line, my punishments range from a stern talking-to, to forced blowjobs, spankings, hair pulling or verbal degradation. I cook, clean and keep his papers in order, while making sure he's satisfied with my performance both in and out of a bedroom setting. I'm very happy with our situation :3
>>23867448
Precisely. I figured that photo was popular enough to not be misconstrued as my own, but I guess I should've clarified.
>>23862435
oregon, pdx. kik me Pdxanon75
>>23862996
>>23863477
Yep. It's just a personality thing.
Maybe it comes from a sense of pride in a way, like I'd be embarrassed to just bow down and obey but if I am forced into it I feel absolved. I also like the roughness and making doms prove themselves
>>23867374
>I'd like to fuck an anthropomorphic robot
The Future is not far away.
>>23867742
Oh, and just a nitpick. Anthropomorphic robots are usually just referred to as androids. Androids have no biological parts. If they did, they would be cyborgs.
Humped
>>23867742
Crossing my fingers for that sweet, cold metal in between my thighs
>>23867755
Thanks anon!
>>23868691
Now I won't be able to watch Terminator without laughing.
>>23862996
Hooray! I recently found my brat label and it makes so much sense so now all I need is to figure out if my partner can magically turn from a vanilla into a Dom. Fingers crossed
>>23869053
"Skinless" T-X could terminate me anytime ;)
>>23857671
Gulp...
Girls
What you use a strapon on a guys ass
If yes why, no why?
>>23869151
I hope for you anon. A brat needs his/her dom because deep down, we are sensitive puff pastries and we love them.
(E...even though i don't have one)
>>23870287
I can't speak for other girls, but every time women have shown interest in me (which isn't often, usually it's guys) that's what they've suggested. I'm not 100% sure why it is in most cases, but I think one of them said because it'd be weird to see me in a man's position in bed. I'm pretty sure that's not the usual reason though. I guess some girls might like the dominance aspect of it?
Well if you're looking for a S/m I would gladly do it your kinks sound very hot to me
Kik:ultsubguy
>>23871414
lel
>ASL
18, female, Europe
>General Kinks/Fetishes
BDSM, I'm a sub, but can be dom as well, light torture, and somewhat of a daddy kink.
Also, necks. I have a thing for them.
>Your experience/experiences
Just few hookups. Nothing too serious
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My close friends know. They're also into some kinky stuff.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I was pretty young, around 13 or 14. I think I saw some of my favorite artists draw bdsm-related art so I guess that's how it started. Also, the first guy I've been with was pretty rough, and I overly enjoyed that.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Use toys.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Basically anything involving dbsm, with the exception of whips and floggers (I prefer crops) and clamps.
>>23871508
that's a super hot photo
>>23862010
not sure if you want to say, but where abouts in brisbane are you from? :)
>ASL
21/m/US
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Light bondage, crossdressing, I could be on either side of the situation but prefer sub/bottom
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nope
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I figured out I was bi, I /gif/ introduced me to sissies
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Jerked it into panties.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to?
Being fucked while tied up, being fucked while wearing lingerie and fucking a crossdresser or trans person.
>>23871592
Sunnybank area.
I quite like it, easy access to everything, people all keep to themselves because of the language gap...
Only downside is the drivers >.>
Honestly who taught them to stop 4 car lengths away from the traffic lights?
But oh well, traffic doesn't slow me down anyways
>ASL
20/f/Aus
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Sub with males but dom with females, BDSM, petplay, dd/lg, master/slave, shibari and bondage in general, rape play and verbal abuse
>Your experience/experiences
A few years, with current bf fulfilling some of my kinks
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
A few friends who have similar kinks or lewd minded
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Honestly watching hentai/reading doujin and browsing gif, h and d triggered most of it.
I've always like the idea of forced/rough sex and being degraded verbally.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Be fucked while tied up, tortoise shell shibari, rape play and master/pet play.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
A threesome with another female involved, maybe an orgy as well. Being suspended from the ceiling. Always wondered what it'd be like to peg a guy also.
>>23871842
Ah that's cool. Sunnybank is an awesome part of Brisbane, I used to live there a few years ago. If you ever want to chat or anything I'd like to :)
>>23871508
Where are you located?
>>23854052
>>ASL
>23/f/Canada
>>General Kinks/Fetishes
>Bondage, sub, orgasm denial/forced orgasm
>>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
>my best friend. She accepted it
>>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
>I delved into 'weird' porn found out that was the best
>>Kinkiest thing you've done?
>Made out naked with multiple partners of different genders with an audience
>>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to?
>Being subtly finger fucked in public. Like in a restaurant under the table. OMG. Would die for it.
>>23873184
Sure
I'm not particularly confident in public (though I'm apparently good at faking it) so I do most of my socializing online..
And you can never have too many friends
..except those people on facebook with like 10,000+ friends just to play silly flash games.. they have too many
>>23873387
awesome :) my kik is dodokrad if you use it, or I could skype you too if that's easier
>>23873257
Got a kik? Add me, Ironborne901, super into that kink.
>>23869206
Why does that make you gulp?
>>23872717
where abouts in Australia are you from? Melb here
>>23856741
I know this isn't a chart thread, but I figured it might be helpful
>>23871508
Daria?
>>23873668
Sydney, unfortunately.
>>23873664
Sigh I need to be dommed and trying to figure out what to do to get my partner into it. That post sounds yummy.
>>23873831
if you'd still like to chat, my kik is kyle.choc, have a few ideas i'd like to share with you!
'fuck I'm so tired' bump
>>23872717
How do you even find people that know shibari? Do you find them online?
I'm in my 30's
I'm married, I live in Western PA.
I like younger submissive girls, especially if they're beyond kinky. I enjoy rough sex, DD/lg, petplay, choking, spanking, mental fun, control, and letting a girl explore things she's never thought of before.
Downside, I'm employed and can't be online or around 24/7 like the younger - jobless guys and net doms.
Skype is DD4gg4chan
I don't have many limits and prefer direct honest communication. Please be respectful, and I won't be boring.
>>23875476
I hate cucking guys. But goddamn if she doesn't have a sweet pair of DSL's on her.
>>23875602
Wouldn't be that hard to do that.
Some drinks conversation with a new friend, guy hits on your wife, can read her reaction.
If she's up for it, the alcohol will help show her hand. I much prefer having a girl watch, but I've had done this before. In my opinion, and my preference, I'd bring a girl with me, just because having one guy watch is awkward. But fuck if it's a party it's a lot more fun. Also with another girl there, your wifey would let her guard down even more. Before long, a few suggestions, some teasing, me whispering bad things in her ear while you go to the kitchen, she'd be on her knees before 11 PM.
However if she's not up for it, you'd know a lot sooner.
>>23875552
>>23875602
Please take this somewhere else, it's not just cringey to read, it also always results in endless replies to some photos he's pulling off the Facebook or Instagram of some girl he's orbiting but who doesn't even know him.
>>23875664
Are you saying there are people that just come on the internet and lie!?
last bump for today
>>23873257
Yah interested in you. Where in Canada?
>>23873831
Why unfortunately? Sydney here also ... towards Cronulla
>>23876711
I live more south of Sydney, more on the south coast. Shit place.
>>23874801
I've never actively looked for people who're interested in/know about it. I just learnt myself.
>M/19/NY
> Straight
Kik:Rambo974
>General Kinks/Fetishes : Anal
>Your experience/experiences: None Sadly :'(
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted? My best friends know and they cool with it. They're into it too.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish? The trigger was seeing beautiful women or futa girls getting drilled in the ass and busting a good nut.
>Kinkiest thing you've done? - Hug a girl lol, idk
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?- I really want to try anal(giving it) or hotdogging, I'm open minded.
>30/m/NYC
>bi
Kik: fredfoobar42
>General Kinks/Fetishes
crossdressing, spanking (receiving), biting (giving/receiving), anal play (receiving), mild femdom, hosiery, pregnant women
>Your experience/experiences
Anal play, spanking, biting, and some mild femdom
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My partner knows about all of it save for the pregnancy thing. They're cool with it all.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough?
what was the trigger for that specific fetish? The Oh, god, who knows.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
aside from anal play, i got bit so hard it left a nasty bruise on my neck once. not into biting that much!
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd kill to fuck a pregnant woman. I don't want kids, but lord, pregnant women get me so fucking turned on.
27/M/US
Mostly dominant switch
Interested in 18+ girls and feminine looking creatures
Kinks include group sex, pet play, "rape" play (with safeword),
collars and leashes, butt plugs, choking, spanking, punishment,
humiliation, public play, impregnation and really dirty mouths.
[email protected]
I don't know if it's a fetish of some kind but I need to talk. I don't know what's wrong with me but I only get horny in weird places or in my dreams. My bf won't touch me, even if I give him bj and hj, so there's that. The other day I was in a train almost alone and I felt the urge to touch myself (I never masturbate)... I rushed into the bathroom and took photos of myself naked, but never send them to someone. I was really frustrated after that. Send them to whom annyway ? Even on soc I don't know where I belong, I am a bit chubby with small boobs and my body is horrible and I hate myself and I want sex but I don't want to talk it to my bf cause I dont want him to think I'm shaby.
Sorry for the wall, needed to rant
>>23877954
Sounds like a regular case of exhibitionism really, and no need to worry about the 'ranting' really.
I'm in possibly the worst boat in the kink world.
I'm a submissive as fuck... bear mode straight male. And I absolutely cannot stand being degraded.
I have disappointed so many women. I can't be a good dom if my life depends on it.
And regardless of people claiming that this is totally a thing, I have yet to even be made aware of a single female seriously interested in a 6'2" 300 lbs sub with a beard who didn't just want to degrade and cuck me.
>>23877954
Everyone is different, don't worry about fitting into a group or definition. Try to explore your own desires a bit more. Like, what is it that turns you on about the train? The naughtiness? Getting caught? Work your way to understanding yourself a bit better and you'll be fine. I'm always up for a chat about kinks and fetishes, if that would help: kik is anon1throwaway
I'm just looking for someone with a thing for blood to chat with. Someone who wants to make me feel like a sexy goddess when i'm on my period and my boyfriend thinks i'm disgusting.
Before i leave any contact info i'd like to see if this person i'm looking for actually exists.
>>23878311
>6'2'
>300lbs
For one thing the odds are you're just fat mate
Want a slave/extreme submissive female with almost no hard limits. Someone I can wake up by Cumming on their face and they need to say thank you sir even they realize what's happened. I would like to dabble more in torture as well. I want someone I can put cigarettes out on.
I'm a 28 year old male dom. I have several years of experience and I'm professional/understanding. Gmail: JustASpanking
>>23858096
>I really like that webm!
Me too, I wish I knew the source though :/
I want to find out if he catches that damned tease
Hi. So I pretty much love to watch huge dildo porn and would also like to meet a girl who enjoys it but from what I understand then even if there are women who like it they won't share that because most men might feel intimidated.
But I've been wondering if size queens want the biggest always or if it is fun and amazing a few times but you still want something normal or in this case your boyfriends cock?
I know there are cock sleeves but I have never wore one.
>>23878989
It doesn't feel as good as one might expect if it isn't well done or has grooves in it. Other than that the sensation is pretty gone of the man otherwise.
Check baddragon or any other website they relate to.
>>23880478
That's something I've fantasized about, as the guy in charge.
It sounds like you expect regular sex, but not emotional attachment. Do you imagine it as being mechanical and one-sided? i.e., he simply ruts against you until he gets off?
20/male
I'm into femdom and anything femdom related
I want a girl to torture me physically, emotionally and mentally until i cry, and beg her to stop then cuddle and confront me afterwards while telling me that everything will be alright and whispering into my ear and kissing me. I would want her to get turned on by this, seeing me cry and vulnerable and in pain and enjoy tormenting me but also caring about my well being at the same time, asking me if i really want this so i'd have a choice. We'd play this game where she is determined to make me scream and cry with all sorts of creative methods as i try to resist but eventually give in while she laughs and teases me, then at the end she'd reward me with sex or a blowjob or something depending on how well i did.
I'm talking about extreme stuff rape, bloodplay, painplay, electric shock like tasers and alike, breaking my legs so that i can't move and me being dependent on her 24/7, and she'd enjoy taking care of me. For example she'd ask me if i'm thirsty, then bring me a glass of water and spit in it then force me to drink it while calling me a good boy.
Only thing i don't want is long term chastity and someone who doesn't care about me.
Idk i'm really fucked up in the head. Anyone wants this or any girls who'd get turned on by this? I talked with a girl before who wanted something like this, full control over someone with no safe words and abuse someone but she was too cold and hateful for me. When i asked more, said she couldn't guarantee anything and she talked about how suiciding with someone's partner is the purest form of love and such so that was too extreme
>>23880739
>I'm talking about extreme stuff rape, bloodplay, painplay
Come on now breh, that's all starter pack stuff.
Good fetishes tho. I see shades of myself in you.
>ASL
31/M/NY
>General Kinks/Fetishes
D/s, M/s, DD/lg, spankings, bondage/restraints, confinement, orgasm control, edging, forced orgasm, impact play, choking, slapping, biting, humiliation (verbal/emotional/physical), facials, cream pies, light public play, voyeurism, cuckquean, clothing control, chastity, and more I can't think of right now
>Your experience/experiences
Five long term (at least one year) submissives and a dozen or so short term subs or play mates
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My sister found out and was pretty cool about it. My mom has an idea but no specifics. Most of my close friends know.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I grew up sexually dysfunctional due to childhood trauma and a woman I was dating when I was 19 turned me on to BDSM. After she allowed me to dominate her I felt safer and more secure in my sexuality and I've been at it ever since.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Had a sub tied up in my apartment for most of a weekend. I kept her tied to either the bed or an office chair, playing with her how and when I felt like it. Lots of edging, impact play, facials and rough sex were had that weekend.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'm really into the cuckquean idea. I'm still looking for a woman who would try it out with me. I'd also like to have a threesome where my sub and I dominate a bottom together. There's much more to both, but those are the basics for now.
I'm looking for submissive friends to play and chat with online, if there's any interest kik/skype are wildlyawake
>ASL
18,F,England
>General Kinks/Fetishes
DDLG,Brat,Age Play
>Your experience/experiences
Basic BDSM eg: Guy was too scared incase if he was gonna hurt me but being tied up and fucked doggy
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My ex .... We broke up
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough?
When I always wanted guys to choke me and struggled to cum if they didn't...
what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Dating older guys being kicked out I believe
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Fucked in a back of a bus
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why
Really want to find a partner who would enjoy the same fetishes and would literally hate fuck the shit out of me
>>23880821
22M if interested talking more? Sound like my type. Maybe kik?
>>23880866
Kik is eleener
>>23880866
Probably a fake. Those sound like guy fetishes.
>>23881571
How is a fetish more for guys than girls? that makes literally no sense
Plus I agree with pretty much everything there. Who doesn't want a good hate fuck every now and then?
>>23881770
Because it's something that men like more than woman.
And yes it was a fake by the way. It's easy to tell when a guy is writing something when he puts a bunch of things that guys typically like.
>ASL
19/f/uk
>Skype name
laurahevans
>General Kinks/Fetishes
bondage, humiliation, ageplay
>Your experience/experiences
none really, i mainly just read about it on the internet or you know, in my head
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
nope. would die
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
i dont think ive reached that point
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
everything.
>ASL
25/F/California
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Age/Power/Forced fantasies
>Your experience/experiences
In undergrad, I was a sugar baby for 4 years to help pay for things. A lot of the sex involved these fantasies.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My friend from high school, they knew about the experiences and they weren't surprised I was into the fantasies.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
When I read an erotica book at home and read it thinking it was a normal book and it involved a rape scene that was really detailed and I got really wet for the first time. After that, I imagined that scene and similar ones to masturbate to.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Letting a TA from a chemistry class use different objects from lab (he cleaned beforehand) to stick inside me and then fuck in random areas in the lab.
>Anything you'd like to try?
Outdoors like parks, parking lots, etc?
It's really easy to know what I like or enjoy if you visit my tumblr
http://winniethesiligirl.tumblr.com/
>>23881934
What does "older man" mean to you?
>>23882183
30 is usually what I'll be okay with but I love mid-forties. I mean if the Dom mindset is there and the imagination is set, it'll be fun
>>23881934
This guy is a professional roleplayer, by the way. Not real.
>I don’t post or send personal pictures.
>I love dirty talk so feel free to send me naughty messages to read while I’m at work ;)
>I wonder how many teachers, neighbors or bosses wanted to fuck me? I want to know how many grown men I gave a hard-on to and had to stay behind a desk or table to hide his bulge?
He just wants you to kik him messages at work.
>>23882391
That's a shame. They picked a nice, believable picture for their kik profile pic though.
>ASL
24 FtM
>General Kinks/Fetishes
DDLB (as the little), submissive, slight ageplay, slight watersports, corruption play, bondage as a whole, begging, edging, being used roughly, semi-public sexual experiences
>Your experience/experiences
Went to a dungeon a couple of times and had a few small scenes, lots of roleplay online
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Sorta? I'm not sure where to start to find someone to play with so I don't hide it so much as just haven't found someone
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Not in particular, but I have learned more about littles recently. While fucking around on Omegle I had a small chat and found myself slipping into littlespace, and it was so freeing even as I was really confused by my comfort with acting a different age
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Iunno, flogged, whipped (not my thing), masturbated in the backroom at work? That's probably the most.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I want to find a Daddy dom to play with so I can do some Littlespace. It doesn't have to be a relationship or anything, but I really want to get into littlespace and get fucked while being "corrupted" by the "daddy."
And to keep with the discussion, are there any other littles here? I'd love to see the different interpretations and ages they use in their spaces.
>ASL
20/m (hetrofelixble)/CA (Sf-Bay area)
>Fetlife User Name
BrownChemStudent
>kik
Kb_lnW
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Bondage, Consensual Non Consent, Brat Tameing, Breath, Orgasm Denial(giveing), D&S, Squirting, Impact alot of stuff.... Oh Exhibitionism
>Your experience/experiences
Me and my Gf have been practicing a flogging scene that where gonna do at doungene party in Sf. I'm quite familiar with clubs. So far I've been active for about a year now. I also help run a Kink Club at my University.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
I live with non judgemental Berkeley hippies so their reaction was "cool can I hit your bong". Also alot them are kinky too.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough?
When I was young I was play fighting with a neighbor girl and ended pinning her down. The rest was history.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Not the kinkest thing I have everdone but I made my girl pick her faveriot porno She chose a forced film from kink.com. I hand cuffed her so she couldn't pleasure her self. She thought she was being clever by selecting a film that apealled to both our fetishes. I striped her down and she started being bratty egging me on to fucker.
I started pulling out toys from her bag as the movie rolled. Found a little clit stimulator. And started edging her. The movie was two hours long and I tortured her through out the hole thing. I let her know that if challenges me she will always lose. Alfter the moive I spanked her till she was sorry for being a brat then I fucked her the rest of night.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Haven't really done to much exhibtion mostly because my girl isn't really into it. So hmu if you are where poly oh and she is bi too.
If you want to hang out with me or both us. Oh no single dudes who wanna "tag team my girl" like fuck introduce your self first.
>>23882617
Oh I'm a switch btw
>>23878796
This is what I want too, but a cute guy to do it to... And maybe no cigarettes since smoking is disgusting
24/m/USA
I absolutely adore hairy women.
Not just bush. Legs and armpits are nice, but what always dries me wild is happy trails, hairy backs and hairy cracks.
Only problem is women like that are damned near impossible to find.
Kik is clocks1234 if anyone is interested.
>>23882564
Got a skype?
>>23880804
Too bad you dont have SC. I would love to discuss your tastes ;)
>>23854052
Submissive 22 M
Looking for any females interested talking more, lots of kinks/fetishes to share and talk about. My personal favorite is the taste and cumplay of womens juices, having the cum sit in my mouth is too sweet. If interested ask for kik!
>>23882830
I have a kik! name is Rachrar
>>23881571
Wow, really I thought some girls actually enjoyed what I enjoy but yeah if you think that just hit me up on kik
