ITT: ask the opposite gender anything
>>23813163
Any females, how is it to be creampied? Always wanted to give one..
Femanons: Wife has shown interest in other women during sex, but not outside of the bedroom really. Threesome seems to be a bedroom fantasy only, she became skittish when we got close to actually having one. I've done my best to not push her into anything and feel I've been fairly supportive of her "exploring" her bisexual side without expecting a threesome- but it is very internally frustrating watching her go back and forth between what she wants so often.
>tl;dr is this normal?
Any bicurious femanons out there willing to shed some light on this kind of stuff?
Ladies (and/or guys if/when applicable as it relates to being approached in a romantic context):
If you are approached by someone for the first time, do you consciously fall back on prejudices when forming an opinion on them, or are you completely neutral to them and then form an opinion after you've heard what they have to say/offer?
(Could be seen in terms of race, ethnicity, or just general appearance, within the bounds of reason obviously.)
>>23813206
Race/gender I am completely neutral when I first meet someone. I don't assume a woman wants to fuck me the same way I don't assume a man wants to. I moved around a lot and lived in many different demographic neighborhoods so race was never an issue either. A chill guy/girl is cool no matter their ethnicity. Religion however I'm more wary of- and not in an islamaphobic sense. I have more problems with Pentecostals because they are by and large very common in my area and will attempt to convert a sog if they can catch it.
Are there any guys here who don't change their socks every day? Be honest :p
>>23813234
I work overnights and when I get off I sleep in my socks. Wake up and wear them until night time when I shower before work and change them. Is this close enough?
>>23813234
I wear my socks on me until they break down usually, which can be from one week to two months
>>23813234
If i forget lol sometimes. Wanna kik? :p
>>23813194
If she's never experienced being with another woman it may be a bit overwhelming for her. She wants to but worries how to do it, will she do it right etc. She may also be worried about how it would affect your marriage.
If it's something you both want to pursue make sure you are both able to handle the feelings and emotions that will come with it.
>>23813243
This should not turn me on, but it does.
>>23813256
You into feet play? I'd let you suck on mine if so..
>>23813254
We've talked about it for years, she confessed to dating several girls in highschool but that was nearly a decade ago. She never sexually explored with them, just kissing/heavy petting. I wonder if it's mostly a feeling of "what if" and her just regretting never actually fucking a girl before we married. She has said that she isn't overwhelmingly attracted to women anymore, but the thought of seeing me inside of another woman is exciting to her. It's a confusing thing for sure.
>>23813256
yeah? what else turn you on?
>>23813266
Understandable. It may just be a bedroom fantasy for her now then. If she ever does want to go through with it though a lot of communication between everyone involved is important.
It isn't worth destroying what you have together if it is just curiosity. Good luck on whatever you choose to do anon.
>>23813261
Yeah, I am hehe
>>23813302
Thanks! For archival purposes, femanon or mananon?
>>23813312
Sorry...femanon and I'm bi but I do lean more toward the feminine side of things.
>>23813289
Feet in general, light bondage too
>>23813314
Cool. Perfect perspective then, I doubt I'd find a better person to ask. If your lurking around this thread for a while I may poke your brain a little more if I can think of anything worth asking.
>>23813323
You're welcome and sure, feel free to ask me anything. I'm no expert though lol. I've just seen people I know go through some shit in similar situations. You have to have a really strong relationship with lot's of communication like I said.
The fantasy of it and the reality are two separate things. She may not know exactly how'd she feel for sure seeing you with someone else or how you'd feel seeing her doing it. It's a bit of pressure when it comes down to physically doing the act.
Ladies: does a guys car matter? If so, in what ways?
>>23813329
Have you had any experience in any of these areas?
>threesome
>group sex with one party services by other two but not a full threesome
>triad relationship
>open relationship
>polyamourous relationship
Also how old are you?
>inb4 I'm not scouting you
Just curious mostly not a lot of women are open with these things so it's good to find out what I can
>>23813338
I have had a threesome (mmf) and group sex but not full on threesome (ffm).
Never tried poly or open but I can be a bit too jealous in that area. Haven't completely ruled it out but it would depend on the arrangement probably.
I am 30+ so I been around for a bit lol.
>>23813234
I tend to wear a pair of socks twice, mainly because after years of working in an outdoor pursuits place, I have an obsession with technical socks and know they are made to be worn more than once.
>>23813346
30+ is experience, not mileage ;) no worries. Early 30's for myself, wife is mid 20's.
How did the threesome effect you emotionally/whatev? No details needed unless of course you'd like to give them, but I'm mainly asking about the fallout of the experience.
Was she pretty? Was he attentive to you both? Did the act of him penetrating her upset you? Etc those things I guess.
>>23813365
The ffm was myself and my gf. We had a very strange arrangement to begin with but no we never had any bad feelings from it. Her and I actually experimented a few times that way.
The mmf was a friends with benifits type thing and there again no one was hurt.
I was married at one time though and even though he and I did fantasize a bit about a threesome I don't know that I could have gone through with it because of the jealousy thing. After we split I've become quite a bit more open minded to things.I know for a fact that our marriage could not have withstood something like that though.
>>23813234
Weird as shit. I take them off and toss them in the hamper as soon as I get home.
>>23813383
From your perspective in a marriage is a threesome an overall poor idea? Yes communication is key, but we've been married for nearly a decade. We married young so in our "adult life" we are basically the only partners we've had out of highschool. I'm wary of this becoming an issue if something were to happen with a threesome and her feeling inadequate as I used to be quite the playboy. We have a very strong marriage and I feel very confident in us as a couple, but I don't see a point in straining something great for an experience that may be less than its expected to be if that makes sense.
Are threesomes all their cracked up to be? We're a very sexual couple and fuck daily still, so it's not Iike we need a "spice up". She's expressed wanting to have a girl suck her nipples while I fuck her etc. though, and asked me how other women's pussy tastes compared to hers. Would you say it's worth a shot or best as a fantasy? Or case by case?
>>23813398
I'd personally never tell anyone to do anything either way. I'd hate to feel responsible for something bad happening. That being said, if you do decide to pursue a threesome I'd lay out ground rules between the three of you before it ever happened. Sounds really business like but if she is hesitant it'd probably be best.
May not be wise to pick someone who you are already close to. If things go south you would be a friend or whatever. Not saying to choose a stranger but maybe join a dating site and choose someone together. Depending on how things go it could be a one time deal or not. Then there's the whole STD thing so be careful about that.
It sounds like a lot of work and not very romantic but it could be a good thing for you both. Make sure all parties can say no to anything that makes them uncomfortable.
Hmm, I'd say case by case. It can be a wonderful sexual experience if everyone enjoys it and understands the rules. If you feel like it'd put a strain in your marriage in any way then best to leave it as a fantasy.
>>23813234
If I'm tired I'll just sleep in them then depending on what time I get up I'll either leave them on or replace.
>>23813337
Honestly cleanliness. Because it's not fun sitting in dirty seats. And also the smell. Which goes hand in hand with cleanliness. Other than that. I don't have a problem with any type of car but some ladies are different.
>>23813420
Great honest answers thanks. Now slightly shifting subject more to you while I have this chance - m/f
which do you prefer romantically?
Sexually?
When's the last time you were with a woman? Same for man?
How important is sex for you in a relationship, and when's the last time you masturbated? These are all questions any femanon can answer I suppose but I'll direct them at you due to our ongoing discussion.
>>23813443
Honestly I think I have always been a little more lesbian than not lol. Come from a small town and judgmental people so I went for guys. Had I grown up in a more open place I'd probably have dated girls.
I have been single for a bit....so maybe 4 yrs ago for either.
Sex is important but I've found the older I get the more companionship, friendship and love matter to me. With the right person though you can have all that.
Last time I masturbated probably a week or so maybe lol.
>>23813454
>week or so ago
Cmon girl you gotta use it or you'll lose it. To be fair thought my wife rarely masturbated before we dated- and she says she leans more to the female side as she accepts her "bisexual side".
She says she's never been overly attracted to dicks or male bodies, always been more attracted to tits and ass etc, but she didn't know what an orgasm felt like until we started dating.
>inb4 faking orgasms or lying about me being her first to stroke my ego
Thought about that at first but her first orgasm with me she actually cried so it was legit. Unless I'm that bad.
Back to masturbation, is it because you are lacking a strong sex drive or do you think it has more to do with not having a partner? My wife explained to me that she has to be in the mood to masturbate, and doesn't go "looking for porn" to mastrubate to, and feels weird thinking about girls on her own. That's not the case obviously with you, so what gives? Take care of that pussy, you deserve it!
>>23813484
My gf gave me much better and stronger orgasms than my husband did and I really think it had to do with preferring females over males.
I've cried before when I had a good one so I'm sure you weren't bad lol. It's a woman thing I guess.
Well, I deal with anxiety and depression so that does come into play as far as sex drive sometimes. I don't normally go for porn myself either. I mean I watch it sometimes but not often. I think about girls way more when I masturbate, almost exclusively I guess.
But yeah if my anxiety is high it usually makes the sex drive lower.
>>23813508
>fistbump
I almost exclusively think about women when masturbating too.
My wife's birth control reks her sex drive so we made a conscious decision to show eachother physically we still appreciate and want eachother.
Have you thought about doing something similar for yourself? I get the anxiety killing the mood, but maybe once a week or so set aside some personal time for just you. Fuck the world, fuck work, fuck bills whatever. Just give yourself an hour a week to enjoy yourself. Try some lesbian audio recordings with headphones in your room alone with lights off- shut everything out and get yourself a good old fashioned orgasm. It's good for you emotionally to allow yourself to cum, it releases a lot of positive chemicals into your brain that can help you deal with the anxiety causing you to NOT want to take that time. It's a vicious circle I know, but a month or so is all it takes to create behavioral habits and then you will subconsciously want to cum due to habit.
Basically in my professional opinion everyone needs to cum, all the time- and after all, ladies first.
>>23813523
It's usually way more often for me. I enjoy it very much though lol.
Yep if people came more they'd be more tired and no time for all the bullshit that goes on in the world! You may be onto something there anon.
>>23813179
The thought of it is hot but honestly we can't feel shit.
>>23813541
I call it the cumming for world piece movement. It's hard to rob a bank with your hands between your legs, near impossible to hijack a plane. Now I just need a change.org petition to allow public masturbation so people don't die in their houses when I become president and make it mandatory to cum at least 4 times a day.
>>23813546
You'd have to make it public or that's exactly what would happen lol.
>>23813544
Weird, my gf has said sometimes she I can feel it. Or at least feel the heat of it.
>>23813549
I wonder if that would create a new fetish instead of voyeurism or public nudity, where people got off more on masturbating alone in their houses bc it was taboo.
>>23813557
Well, you could be onto something there lol. I can see people sneaking home to masturbate.
>>23813163
Asked this on /adv/ yesterday, but still curious.
Girls (or guys if you think you have an answer),
I come to you bearing a wuestion that's kinda unusual, so here's some background first
>been with gf for roughly two and a half years now
>met gf through her best friend whom I lost my virginity to (a few months before I got with gf)
>about two months back, gf, best friend and me had a drunk threesome
We're all adults though, so this didn't make our friendship "weird" or anything.
>both women are into BDSM to varying degrees
Now here's what happened:
>gf is on vacation atm, soend the evening at her best friend's, talking
And no, this isn't going where you think it might.
>over the course of the evening, receive several WhatsApp (voice) messages from gf
>one of those stating she ordered a buttload of sex toys, among them a whip
>topic of best friend's favourite whip (which belonged to an ex of her's) comes up
>gf manages to find an online shop that sells the exact model
>later, conversation with gf is orivate again
>suggest we get her best friend said whip as a present (it's somewhat expensive, best friend doesn't have too much money)
>honestly only thought of it as a nice gesture
>gf gets kinda hurt, because I wanna get another woman a sex toy
I may be borderline autistic here, but is it really that bad?
Disclaimer: Of course the idea's off the table now and I feel really bad about hurting my gf. I just don't think it was/is/would be that big a deal.
(1/2)
>>23813705
Just in case this isn't clear: Up to the point where gf found the shop, her best friend was in on the convi as well, because voice mail is played via phone's speakers.
Anything after that (my suggestion and the following events) were betwenn my gf and me only.
Things I got from yesterdays /adv/ thread:
>even though I already apologized, I will have to talk this out with my gf in person
>gf might be jealous of best friend
>even though I see it otherwise, this might've come across as me having some deeper intersst in her best friend (which I don't)
>>23813454
Why do bisexuals girls (most of the time) still go for manly tall men more then other guys?
>>23813206
>Guy
I try not to judge them before talking to them, but that isn't always possible/easy. But I'm obviously reacting to looks, if the person is attractive I will be more receptive to their advances. Race or ethnicity don't matter to me, at least I don't think or judge them based on that.
>>23813234
I sometimes even change them during the day.
>>23813243
This is kind of disgusting imo, you put your dirty socks on again after showering?
>>23813552
Female friends said they can feel the dick twitching and that's about it
> is it an odd fantasy to wanna wake up to a stranger sneaking in my house and molesting me? 22/f
>>23813720
I can't speak for anyone else but I personally don't go for that. I prefer feminine men as well.
>>23813234
Put on my stuff from yesterday after waking up. Change them after showering, which is only every day when I have to leave the house :(
To feel comfortable I’d need switch Shirts and underwear daily.
>>23813789
I (male) do not think so. When you are not into one-nighter and are more looking for serious relationships, it would be a good open for a sex fantasy, because you can blame it on somebody else. It’s also different from a real molestation, since you are still in full control.
>>23813789
It's common as fuck, if that's what you're wondering.
>>23813705
>>23813715
she might be insecure or unsure about your relationship with her friend, I don't see it as a big deal, but I have a friend who buys sex toys for all her friends and i'm down for getting that more normalized.
>>23813720
I can't deal with body hair or muscles, I like androgyny from guys and girls. Some bi girls i've known though felt differently about their relationships with guys and girls, and wanted the opposite ends of the feminine and masculine spectrum, you know wanting to be more masculine than her girlfriend but more feminine than her boyfriend.
>>23813789
super common along with a whole spectrum of other rape/ravishment fantasies.
For girls. If you really like a guy how important is it that he has a huge dick? If not what size is a deal breaker for you that even if you did like him you don't see yourself being with him for very long?
Females, would you consider a relationship where you're clearly the dominant one almost all the time, or would you only do it occasionally with a mostly dominant partner?
Also, what do you like sexually (if you're dominant)?
Never had a blowjob I've liked. Always feel teeth and it feels uncomfortable. My dick's on the wide side, but I'm not sure if there's something my gf can do differently
>>23814096
Well it can be fun to be dominant in certain situations, kinda hot! But to have to make all the decisions all the time can get very irritating and this sounds harsh, but the guy can come across as a lil pathetic
>>23813805
Same!
>>23814361
>decisions all the time
I suppose I should have specified sexually. Obviously I wouldn't expect someone to make investment decisions or something for me.
>>23814397
Well as long you're keeping those bank accounts separate, I don't think it matters m8! xD
Male here.
My name is Chris.
I was wondering if any females could post a picture of their fully spread pussy lips, so that I could stick it in the art behind the cd of my next musical album. No face necessary, just graphic vaginal lips. I need to do this legally, so please be 18+, and make it your own content?
>>23814084
Its only too small if I can't feel anything. Or too big if it hurts even though I'm wet
Can't really say any measurements, but I can get off with two fingers so about that? Though If you're that small you might have to use some extra tricks. Rub the clit, suck on nipples - depending on girls preference
>>23814406
Are there any other decisions you wouldn't want to make like what to eat, where to go on a date, or what to watch?
I'm generally more willing to go with the flow unless it's something I absolutely despise.
>>23813338
My girlfriend and I had an FFM threesome with a cute girl. I can't speak for everyone but for us it was fantastic--everything was very comfortable and natural, and there was no jealousy or problems resulting from it. We argue and bicker a lot but we've never fought over that, everyone involved agrees that it was great and that we'd love to do it again.
So, for what it's worth, if you have the opportunity I highly recommend it.
>>23814424
>>23813705/>>23813715 here. My experience was similar. And even though we were hella drunk, none of us regret it.
Then again, our relationship with each other was kinda special from the beginning, seeing as I lost my virginity to one of them and then became the other's bf.
>>23814422
It would be the same as if you were meeting with a friend. It can get needlessly annoying if you have to make all the plans. One particular aspect like where to go.. What time.. Is fine by itself, but if no opinion is expressed at all, it can get frustrating. As long as an opinion is expressed, I can choose whether or not I'm gonna ignore it!
>>23813234
I change my socks two or three times a day. I also like the way it feels to put on fresh socks. It's not sexual it just makes me happy.
>>23814413
I am not small just average so I wasn't sure if women would look down on that.
>>23814930
If youre average sized u got nothing to worry about. Unless the girl is a whore and only wants supersized dicks u can pleasure any girl
>>23814871
>I also like the way it feels to put on fresh socks.
Try over knee socks, takes longer to put on and take off that stuff.
chubby/fat straight boys: do you prefer to have an overweight partner or are you okay with having a skinny/underweight partner?
Serious question to femanons: why is it thay many women of all shapes and sizes talk about how they want a larger partner? And why is it when those same women get to a partner who is 7inches plus they half of time bail or make excuses?
Question for my fellow male anons, why do so many guys want a bigger dick? Its not some throphy that'll land you more ladies. Why is it that men seem to be able to handle larger cocks better then women? Should i just go full homo to save myself the embrasment of having someone tell me it hurts halfway through?
guys, how would you react if a girl is blowing you and suddenly pushes a finger or two up your butt?
>>23815059
Well i would slpa her but after that i wold try to do her some anal rage fucking
>>23815059
I would marry her
>>23815059
That's literally a form of rape if she doesn't ask. No, thanks!
>>23815097
>>23815094
virgo neckbeards
>>23815094
>>23815095
>>23815097
hm so 2/3 chance he wouldnt like it. Wanted to surpsise him like this one day
>>23815059
I don't know
>>23815143
Don't do it as a surprise, be sure he likes it
>>23815059
I would love it, but I'm far from "normal."
>>23815059
I would love that, but you wouldn't be able to go in dry anyway. You're better off prodding at the hole and see how he reacts, if he likes it slowly work your way in with enough spit/lube.
Femanons boxers or briefs?
>>23815288
Boxer briefs
>>23814970
>implying only whores enjoy large cocks
>projecting this hard
Found the tiny cock
>>23815047
Get better at foreplay and sex in general. Sounds like you're just shoving it in there and hoping it works.
> No one asks why women wear necklaces and earrings.
(from a similar thread)
So why you do that? Especially those big ones, which are everything but subtle? Do you really like their look or do they have a special meaning for you or do you just wanna guide glances?
>>23815047
>why do so many guys want a bigger dick?
I never did, just looked like it’s working.
> Why is it that men seem to be able to handle larger cocks
If I’d ever have sex with a guy, I’d avoid guys over 6.5 inches.
>>23815059
Well I think I would like or even love that, but better use lube and make sure your nails aren’t sharp. I have no high expectations of blowjobs, though.
Better ask ... and get mentally prepared for some pegging next time.
Also asking would lower the risk having poop on your finger afterward.
Even if he likes it, it’s possible he’s saying otherwise especially when you catch him off-guard. Some people think this isn’t straight behaviour.
>tfw you get rejected for the 237th time in your life and you just want to kill yourself
someone please just talk to me. i am so sad and so incredibly lonely. why do girls play these games. i honestly thought this was something
>>23815992
Sorry for you bro.
> why do girls play these games.
Which games? Never tried to approach one of those ten girls, I liked.
Maybe wrong thread for this.
>>23815861
personal pleasure is a large part if not all of it. i only wear necklaces now, and if want to do something to set my tits off chances are they look pretty good anyways.
I hate asking sexual questions but it's one I've had on my mind for a while.
Femanons: It's not exactly a fetish I guess but I enjoy cumming on a womans body. My girlfriend of a few years doesn't know that I'm kind of into that and I've only done that with her maybe 3 or 4 times and it was usually accidental. Is there a way I can talk about it and get across exactly what I want to do?
We talked about it lightly once after seeing porn and she couldn't figure out why guys want to do it, so when I talk to her about it, I don't want to just be like "ughhh i don't know". Any advice?
>>23813163
where can I find a super loose woman who will fuck me if I asked her? Where would she hang out? I feel like the only way I'll get laid anytime soon is if she's the village bike.
>>23816206
That's not uncommon , just be straight about it!
>>23816766
I want to be but I don't exactly know how to even begin to explain why I want to do it/why I like it without it sounding weird.
>>23816757
go to your local bar
get drunk
find floozy
profit
>>23816776
Dude start out with "this might sound weird but.." Because in their mind it will be something awfully fucked up (because some people really are into weird shit) so when you do say it, it won't actually sound all that weird.
>>23816757
backpage
>>23817781
went to local bar
got drunk
found floozy
she threw a (half full) beer bottle at me
It's not always easy.
Girls. If your (actually irl biological) dad caught you playing with yourself on the couch and taking pictures of it, then told you "if you suck my cock I won't tell mom" would you suck him off?
>>23815617
I think she's implying whores are only able to get off with huge dicks. Anything less won't satisfy them. Of course most women love huge dicks.
>>23820021
how old am i in this scenario
>>23819860
Did you literally ask her to fuck?
>>23820048
13 year old.
>>23820109
it would take more than threat to tell my mom, but maybe
>>23820129
If you didn't he'd tell your mom and confiscate your phone.
What is the least awkward way to tell a girl you've been talking to that you want to be in a relationship with her?
>>23814984
I would much prefer an overweight partner to an honestly underweight partner; also, a woman being incredibly weak and inflexible is a turn-off, too, since it contributes to worries about hurting her accidentally.
>>23820021
wtf that is creepy as fuck.
and no i wouldn't, i dont give a fuck if he told my mom that i was diddling myself and grounded me for 100 years. i'd definitely call the cops as well.
>>23815861
i think it looks good? i personally don't wear big jewelry (esp not earrings, those can be heavy and hurt lol). and although men probably dont notice finer details of jewelry, most guys i've dated seemed to prefer me with jewelry if we were going out somewhere fancy.
>>23815047
many women say they like bigger dicks because visually, they "look" better. kinda evolutionary, like how most guys prefer how big tits look even though cup size has no actual impact on how well a woman can nurse. women biologically see a big dick and subconsciously think "damn that would be GREAT at getting me pregnant!" even tho size doesn't impact sperm count.
if a guy is bad at texting is he just bad or does it mean he's doesn't care? My boyfriend sucks at replying back.
also do guys seriously believe "beef curtains" are from having a lot of sex?
>>23820522
People can just be really bad at texting and prefer IRL conversation instead. That's the way I am anyway.
How is he at IRL conversation?
>>23820522
This is a really tricky one.
I guess the only answer I can give, is that there isn't enough information provided to give a good answer to your question.
Texting someone back right after they text you is a way of showing you care. Asking 4chan why your boyfriend is so slow to text you back, rather than you boyfriend, is a sign that the communication in your relationship isn't the best.
However there's just a lot of information missing here.
Does he show up at your house to chill 4 times a week, have sex with you, then leave shortly after he cums? If the answer is yes, then this combined with the texting thing means he doesn't care about you.
>>23820547
Yes unfortunately many idiots believe this even though it's factually incorrect. Part of this is because children have innies, therefore innies are associated with innocence.
The best way to avoid being mistreated by ignorant people, is to not associate with ignorant people.
>>23820565
actually we're really open. We're both virgins and he doesn't push me into anything he's fine with waiting. He's not very romantic and when he's tired he's a grouch. He's always been shitty at texting and he just says he forgets but it really annoys me when I'm like telling him how awesome he is and then he doesn't reply for hours if at all.
>>23820555
In person he's great, unless he's sleepy then he's an asshole
>>23820584
Then he does care, he's just terrible at texting and probably prefers face to face interaction. It's impossible to read someones feelings through text which is why I hate it and pretty much hardly use it.
What's he usually like when he's sleepy? Examples?
Females: do you consider sex to be a requirement for mental stability as an adult? Do you think it's any different for men?
>>23820579
I don't have an outie it just bothers me that I hear it said a lot.
>>23820584
Ok from the sound of this, my guess is that he's just generally apathetic.
Like he could care about you more than anything or anyone else in the world, but in general not care very much and when he does not be comfortable with expressing it.
>>23820595
When he's ready for bed he can be kind of short, like once I was crying and it woke him up and he told me to be quiet and went back to sleep. When I broke my foot I had to use crutches to get up and pee at night and I'd have to wake him so I could get out of bed and he'd get pretty annoyed and grumble in his sleep.
After he apologizes or when he wakes up and remembers he apologizes. But most times he's not a dick. He's huge on cuddling and when I get out of bed he pouts but when I get back he pulls me extra close
And I know texting isn't ideal but we got to college together but on break we live in different areas and it's hard to talk on the phone or find time to skype.
>>23820596
I don't know. I'm a virgin and it's all I've ever known. But for guys I think so, they always excuse cheating by saying they needed more sex.
>>23820614
>they always excuse cheating by saying they needed more sex.
It's not an excuse, most of the time it's literally the entire reason for cheating.
Did you know that biologically a man needs to cum on a regular basis, or else he'll experience quite a bit of physical discomfort and will just cum in his sleep to wet dreams anyway? It's gross yellow stale cum when that happens too.
So your boyfriend is jerking off even though you and him are not having sex. It's probably a good idea to chat with him about what he jerks off to so you're not in this uncomfortable situation where his sex life is hidden from you.
>>23820608
Sleep is important to some people. I'm pretty irritable myself when woken up. But at least he apologizes and pulls you close when you get back, otherwise that would be pretty shitty. Maybe try phone calls instead when you can?
>>23820670
>or else he'll experience quite a bit of physical discomfort
No kidding about that. I recall reading something about it and that it also causes mayhem with the prostate and causes some blood pooling. It's not life threatening and such obviously but is extremely bad in the long term, including increasing the risk of prostate cancer.
>>23820670
I know what he jerks off to. We bought sex toys together that we can use separately or together when the time comes, and idc if he watches porn.
And I get it guys get horny but that doesn't mean you have to cheat.
>>23820700
we skype and have phone calls it's just not often, like maybe twice a week.
>>23820710
Maybe try and do it a little more. Have you talked to him about it and how it's made you feel?
>>23820732
yea and he always apologizes but I try not complain too much because I don't want to be clingy. We watch GOT together and justice league, we play diablo together sometimes so he makes an effort
>>23820750
I think it sounds like he's just not very good at non face to face things. It's annoying I know but that's how some people are, it's not something that can change really.
But if you're happy with him in just about every other way, don't worry about it.
>>23819860
>backpage
???
>>23820772
To be fair I get really snappy with him when I'm hungry. He's a good guy, sometimes he's too blunt but I can live with it.
>>23820795
The back of a newspaper is what backpage means... I think...
Femanons:
Would leading an extremely adventurous lifestyle be a deal breaker? would it be intimidating?
I'm talking about exploratory diving / underwater photography, mountaineering, paramotoring etc etc
>>23821886
No, it's pretty sexy.
>>23820547
I don’t, never did and have no idea where this is comming from. To me it just looks better.
But well I’m just a non-social nerd.
>>23820584
> when I'm like telling him how awesome
I mean how to even reply to such a thing.
Just a “thx” feels narcisstic and a also giving a complement feels kinda forced.
>>23820608
Well some people are just different when they are sleepy. If you wake me and catch me in semi-sleep I’ll do and say anything to get rid of you. It’s also very likely I won’t even remember any conversation I had in that state.
>>23820670
> reason for cheating
I mean there is stuff like porn
>>23820596
>do you consider sex to be a requirement for mental stability as an adult?
I'm a HHKV but it seems like quite a few guys look at girls who are on-edge/bitchy/critical/etc and will immediately wonder if she's going through a dry-spell. I think there must be something to it.
>>23813206
yeah i do, a lot of it may have to do more with looks. I do feel bad about it, but if you look like the type of person i generally had issues with and its all of the things you listed not just one thing and most of the time its a combination.
>My question.
Any guys here go from ugly to good looking? Do women hit on you when you're say at the gym or in class?
Just asking because Ive been trying to improve my appearance I was never fat, just wanted to look better so girls would talk to me.
>>23813705
I'm a dude, but where you fucked up is:
>she was your first
>you guys slept with her again
>you're trying to get her an expensive gift
Just the first two alone is fine, but when you throw the third in, it's the tipping point where it's going to make your girlfriend worry about you still having feelings for your other friend.
E.G. My best friend is a girl. We've been FWB's in the past. My girlfriend knows this. If I were to suggest a 3 some, maybe she'd be ok with it. If we had a 3 some and I started having sex with her and then started paying more attention to her, she would NOT be ok with that because it makes it look like i'm having doubts about our relationship.
>>23820547
>also do guys seriously believe "beef curtains" are from having a lot of sex?
Only /r9k/ and inexperienced lonely frogs.
Females,
Why are you so against someone finishing on your face. I kinda see why but gf will let me finish in her mouth but won't let me finish on her face. I've asked once, and got a very hesitant no, I don't want to push it but I can't connect the dots.
>>23823849
I'm personally okay with it and have let my boyfriend, buuuut
The texture is pretty gross, and it's hard to get completely off.
>>23821886
I would worry about him, but being adventurous and daredevilish myself, I would want to join in on some non life threatening adventures.
>>23824028
sooo purely because it's gross? Nothing to do with it being 'disrespectful' or something along those lines? Happy to hear that but that was very anti-climactic
>>23816206
Have unprotected sex. After you've gotten her off and are about to bust your nut, ask her if you can cum on her tits or whatever. Be direct about what you want!
"It would be really hot for me to see you covered in my hot cum..."
>>23824047
Yep. I prefer swollowing for this reason alone: the residue on my skin isn't pleasant.
>>23820183
Depends on whether or not you've gone out on a date together. If not, invite her out to test the waters. If you have, ask her to go on a serious one and tell her you genuinely like her while on that date.
You'll never get anywhere walking on the treadmill of friendship. Directness is the easiest way to let her know what you're feeling.
>>23824072
I wish I could convince her to swallow to prevent a mess, but that excuse is another thing she won't swallow
Females: would a guy being a wheelchair be a deal breaker?
>>23824072
>Yep. I prefer swollowing for this reason alone: the residue on my skin isn't pleasant.
Always wondered and it's not exactly something I can ask women in my circle irl. Doesn't it make you feel powerless and weak? I mean you're literally on your knees while he stands over you with his dick in your mouth. t's a one-way street, he gets off and that's the end of it. I don't think you can get anymore passive than that. Don't get me wrong, shit's amazing if you're on the male side of things on this...
>>23824121
>powerless and weak?
>passive
She’s doing all the work and has complete control over your orgasm - or am I wrong on that?
>>23815861
18f. I actually don't wear long or annoying necklaces- at most, it's small things that have meaning to me, and only at special/fancy events where wearing no jewelry is looked down upon. And, it's hard to wear anything nice when you have a key around your neck, too.
As for earrings, I like to fiddle with my ears a lot, and always have. So I have two small, light aluminum rings on my earlobes that I flick, and two piercings in the cartilage (currently only studs, they're healing) that I like to spin and wiggle. Antsy hands.
>>23813234
I change mine twice a day; one pair for work and another pair for the gym and the ride home after.
Femanons:
How do I approach you for casual sex without sounding like a douchebag while still being completely honest with my intent? Would you be offended if I just straight up asked you "Do you want to have casual sex?"
See, I'm in an open relationship which lets me fuck/fwb people other than my gf, but romance with other people is not allowed, and I don't wanna be the douche who picks up girls that want more than a bone.
>>23813163
>ITT: ask the opposite gender anything
Lets keep it to the fem-anons
So I get hard and last over 45 minutes laying pipe ... much lube, multiple positions, usually anal before to very long .... go soft
eat some pussy get hard within minutes go for another round total time over 90 minutes
only complaint I ever had was not being vocal enough during these extended sessions .... what do our fem-anons around here think about the wish and/or experience with a guy like myself .... is this sort of thing a talent ... if I don't cum within 20 minutes, I'm going to lay pipe till my body is ready to collapse in a heap caused by cramps
To guys: By what age do you expect a female to have lost her virginity? And what's your take on women who don't have a popped cherry by 16, 18, 21, 25, and older?
>>23825274
>By what age do you expect a female to have lost her virginity?
Knowing what I know now, I *expect* a woman to have lost her virginity fairly, although I acknowledge I'm an incredibly cynical individual.
>And what's your take on women who don't have a popped cherry by 16, 18, 21, 25, and older?
Respectable, in earnest, though having one's virginity in tact should not be the be all and end all of finding a partner. Assuming you're not a virgin, having a low number of sexual partners is still better than being a slut.
>>23821890
>>23824038
Would you say that it would be more the idea that they like?
Can't for the life of me get women I'm dating to participate.
I just end up dropping them by after a month or so.
>>23825274
>By what age do you expect a female to have lost her virginity?
About 15
When Roger Elliot was in the news, a girl told me that if a guy is a virgin past 20 the government should put him in jail just to be safe. I decided not to tell her that I lost it at 24.
Ladies, how do I talk to women?
I'm extremely socially inept, and have anxiety problems. This has stopped me my entire life from even asking a girl out. I get too nervous, shut down and just say fuck it. I guess it's from a fear of rejection.
I've recently tried PoF to try to meet girls, but I'm from a small town so there isn't many to talk to.
I'm not even ugly, I'm average looking and skinny. On top of that, I can't meet women at bars because I'm a recovering alcoholic.
I just feel like it's pointless to even try at this point.
>>23825274
To me this doesn’t matter. Whenever they are ready for it.
Even though I’m watching lots of porn and thinking about how sex would be. It’s not that important.
It also does not matter how many partner a girl had as long as I do understand why they did that and they didn’t get STI on the way.
But well, I would also allow a parallel relationship if somebody is not fully satisfied, but only if that other person offers something which I can’t and therefore is no direct competition to me. I’m probably not representing the norm in that case.
Isn’t it all just about being happy?
>>23826130
>virgin past 20 the government should put him in jail just to be safe.
Victimless crimes are one of the most fucked up things in the world. It’s oppression for no reason.
For girls
>on public transport
>there are empty pairs of seats available
>girl sits next to me anyway
Does this ever mean something, or am I reading too much into things?
>>23827682
she may:
a) feel unsafe alone, maybe you look like a trustworthy defender or something
b) be into you!
at least from my personal experience, i don't know why i would CHOOSE to sit next to someone if i could get a double seat to myself, unless it was under these circumstances
>>23825187
that's probably not the best opener haha. but it's good that you want to be transparent with your intent. honestly i think online sites/apps like tinder would be best. you can easily state in your description that you're only looking for casual sex.
i can't imagine most girls would react well to some guy just asking for casual sex. best of luck tho.
Ladies:Do you know when a guy is checking you out? Even if he is being some what discreet about it.
Femanons:
I had a girlfriend who I was really, really into, and she was really into me. In fact, at one point I thought she was going to be the one I'd marry.
However, we went through some rough times, and eventually we split up. I thought at first it would be a temporary thing to give us some space, but then she didn't talk to me for three months straight. When she did contact me again the first thing she told me was that she felt nothing for me anymore, which hurt like hell, made me more upset, and eventually led to us not talking again.
I guess what I want to know is...did she ever really feel anything for me? Did she ever feel the same way about me as I did for her? Was she deliberately trying to hurt me when she told me she felt nothing for me anymore?
It's been a while since then - we haven't talked in about a year. But it still hurts to think that someone I loved so, so much that I would have married them could stop loving me in just a few months. I'm having trouble opening up again, because how can I ever tell if someone really loves me if the person I loved the most can so easily abandon me? There's so much I don't understand about how this all ended up.
Women who believe in equality, why should you make as much money as a man for doing the same amount of work? The same task costs the male body more energy/nutrients due to our biological differences. Males require more food than females, but you would have more than your share?
>>23827682
Not a girl, but I public transit 24/7.
If the empty duals are in the back of the bus... sometimes people just don't like sitting in the back. If there were empty duals in the front though, odds are very good she at least wants you to talk to her. Either way, it wouldn't be discourteous to chat her up; she's already put herself into your (relative) personal space for no apparent non-social reason. Say hello!
>>23825274
...expecting someone to have lost their virginity? I mean, the age, in conjunction with other things about her life, tells you things about where she's at in her sexual exploration; that said, I'd assume that a woman who became sexually active before high school was probably abused, and a woman with any adult social life at all (even going to work or school) in the USA who hasn't lost her virginity probably doesn't really want to.
And... that's it. Read much further in and you start to impose your morals on her sexuality. Ew.
>>23813179
depending on vaginal sensitivity, some women can't really feel much except a warmth. I personally think it feels nice when it leaks out and he's still slamming away, just feels primal.
It's honestly more the thought than anything else that's a turn on, than what it actually feels like.
I'm a 31 year old virgin (male). Am I just a lost cause and should I even bother trying to get a gf at this point? Feel like it's just too late.
>>23829221
Wade?
>>23829243
Nope
>>23829264
Oh. Well I wonder if Wade feels the same way because I'm pretty sure he's a virgin.
>>23829279
Don't know who Wade is.
>>23828958
I know this is probably bait, but that's bullshit and you know it, by the time you hit mid twenties and get an actual job that matters, your metabolism goes to shit regardless of sex. And besides, for a job that actually matters you're using your brain and not your body. Considering your brain uses up more energy than anything at that point, the person who contributes the most to the company should get paid the most; nobody cares about your physical abilities to lift boxes in the office if you can't contribute intellectually.
>>23829433
Not trolling although maybe I should have put a trigger warning.
Its pretty much common knowledge that men and women have different nutritional needs. Why do you think men and womens multivitamins are different?
It's also a fact of pretty much every nutrition system on earth that men have higher metabolic rates and require more protein and carbs on average. Yes you can apply anecdotal cases of fat men or strong women, but the majority of men require a greater amount of energy to sustain the same activities.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietary_Reference_Intake
>>23825274
I've abandoned expectations. I prefer a virgin, so I'm not bothered by a girl being a virgin at an older age.
>>23829615
Are you a virgin?
>>23829711
No, I was engaged before and had sex with her. I want my next partner to be my last, though.
>>23827682
I would only sit next to a stranger in this situation if I felt the area was unsafe but you look trustworthy.
>>23828917
I would say not every time but most of the time.
>>23829747
>>23827943
>I would only sit next to a stranger in this situation if I felt the area was unsafe but you look trustworthy.
I'm not the one that asked originally but these are some interesting answers. I never considered for a second that people would sit next to me simply because they'd feel more secure around me.
As for saying hi when someone sits next to you, I don't know about that one. I usually think people are on the bus to get somewhere and are in no mood for talking or getting chatted up. Just my guess though.
Femanons: Is being fat a real reason why you wouldn't date someone? or at least, give a chance?
>>23814984
Im okay with a skinny partner? probably underweight too? it just depends lol but probably i'd be okay with that
Femanons:
Are any of you interested in diplomatic/military history?
Would you enter a relationship with someone who can't feel romantic love?
What is your favorite potato-based food?
Femanons: What prompts a girl to cheat in a long term relationship? Is it money? Is it because the so called spark died out? Or is the thought of being with a single person too nightmarish for some?
>>23829980
>Are any of you interested in diplomatic/military history?
Yes, it can be interesting.
>Would you enter a relationship with someone who can't feel romantic love?
I don't think so.
>What is your favorite potato-based food?
French fries.
>>23831586
>What prompts a girl to cheat in a long term relationship?
I have never cheated, but when I thought about it, it was because I wasn't feeling appreciated in my relationship and I wanted someone else that made me feel good.
Luckily I grew up and when I have a problem I talk to my significant other instead of seeking reassurance in someone else.
>>23823310
bump since no one responded in days.
I feel that as an average looking guy I have almost no chance with women because most people think they deserve the best even average looking women. Is the way I feel all in my head or do average guys have no hope of hooking up?
>>23831638
Then change it up bro. Try to look at least a bit not bland, try new things. My "average" looks have never stopped me before. Find your style and go with it.
do straight girls watch gay porn like people like straight men watch lesbian porn?
I have a few friends that like browse the internet all day and watch japanese cartoons, ive never seen a woman initiate a conversation with them.
Is it true that women view guys like that in a asexual way or something?
I cant really see them losing their virginity anytime soon unless they change, alot.
why is it that if in a relationship a man asks for a ffm threesome it's okay but if it's a woman asking for a fmm threesome she's a slut and it''s grounds for a breakup?
>>23831782
no straight girls watch girl-on-girl, not even joking
>>23831800
They see all men who are not tall, charismatic social butterflies as this alien creature and sex doesn't even compute
Women -Why are you all evil?
Why do you feel that promiscuity is acceptable for anyone?
Why do you desire the collapse of western society, and destruction of traditional values?
Why are you all so racist, ESPECIALLY the nonwhite ones (no one is more self-hating than a nonwhite woman)?
Girls: Why don't any of you like me?
>>23833004
because guys are insecure macho hypocrite dumbshits
Femanons: I'm a bigger guy and I see small cute girls with bigger(like husky) guys. Is this a common thing? I can't seem to find a girl like that but always manage to see it.
>>23833011
Well...
>>23829736
why do you get to ask a girl be a virgin if you're no one yourself?
>>23829928
my boyfriend is chunky and I don't mind but if you're big and have a cute face some girls might not mind but attraction or lackthereof would be a reason I wouldn't give someone a chance. If I make sure I keep my body in shape and take care of it I want someone who does the same.
>>23829980
no, no and any potato is a good potato.
>>23831586
It's different in every case. Some girls might not feel the spark or they feel they need more attention. Maybe the relationship isn't emotionally satisfying anymore.
>>23831782
I do, gay porn actors are so much hotter than straight porn actors. And in straight porn they treat the girls so poorly.
>>23831800
If a woman doesn't find someone attractive she probably wont view him in a sexual way. I feel that goes both ways tho.
>>23813163
>>23825228
left with questions ... i hear from old friends that they are either into it and many others that find it hard to consider as they get soar ... i'd ;like some feedback here just the same and of late i hear nothing unfortunately
T_T
>>23833011
I'm straight and like girl on girl porn, it's not 958 years of dick sucking then 12 seconds of fucking and then the guy cums and the girl has to take it all over her face, it's so gross.
>>23833019
That's untrue
>>23833044
my 5'5" friend who's a size 8 likes guys with dad bods. So it can happen but different people like different things.
>>23833030
you look like you sit inside all day and hit on girls online even when they say they're not interested. Get out and meet people, if you want a 10/10 girl make sure you're 10/10 yourself.
>>23833079
depends on the girl. Some more experienced girls might enjoy it, some unexperienced girls might get sore or they could very well enjoy too. I wouldn't but I can't speak for everyone.
>>23833101
I just wasn't sure if it was a common thing girls think about or not. I know girls like the cuddles but they don't like the bear haha.
Also hook me up tho! Jpjp
>>23833112
she deals with so many dadbod fuck boys it's sad. Currently not talking to her tho cause she took her shirt off in front of my boyfriend.
My favorite body type is the bear. Just my luck that I'm dating an iItalian guy with little to no chest hair.
But most girls who like the bear body like masculine traits and like looking smaller in comparison to their boyfriends.
Guys: If you're sexting with a girl and she's asking you for nudes and dick picks and has already sent you a couple pics, why do you say no and demand more of her pics? It kinda kills the mood.
This has happened to me three times already. All I wanted was to watch you jack off and cum. Jeez.
>>23833132
I think that's what it is here most dudes are fuckwads or boys that thrive off their parents. So I just get the shit end usually haha and it's a small place so there's not many people unless you wanna travel.
>>23833141
I mean if you give me what I'm looking for to get my nut I'd probably wouldn't need any more some people are just greedy
>>23833172
Yeah, that's what I figured. But it's be nice if they'd realize I'm trying to get off too and spammed me with their dick and some good jizz shots.
>>23833277
It's a mural thing girls do it to haha
You have a kik or SC?
>>23833141
Seems like running into more desperate guys desu, not all of us are like that lol. You interested talking more by chance? Have sc or kik if you want to.
>>23833141
You're getting used, anon.
>>23833345
Right
>>23833277
Like if you want some dick pics they free lol
>>23833141
I'm a girl but if they're unwilling to send more pics I'd think they were lying and using a fake dick.
>>23833371
Probably as a dude idc what people think about my dick cause it's mine lol but that is definitely a valid thing men are intimidated by women's standards
>>23833066
http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/prefer
>Like (one thing or person) better than another or others
>>23833322
Oh yeah, I know they do. I try not to be "that girl" but if you're being greedy, I politely thank you for your time, explain why I'm done, then stop responding. Just because I'll never meet you IRL doesn't mean I need to be rude.
>>23833331
I'm done talking for now and decided to take a bit of a chastity break. The constant arousal/ blue balls (blue vagina??) was making it hard to get any work done.
>>23833345
>>23833371
I came to that conclusion after the third guy bailed on me. I'm irritated to say the least.
>>23833427
I mean I've already done my business tonight but I don't see why it's so hard to just send some dick pics especially if you had someone who wanted to mutually exchange
Guys would a girl being black make you not want to date her? I constantly hear that black women are the least desired. Is this true?
>>23833331
lol
>not all of us are desperate
>kik or sc???
>>23833447
Male here, it does seem like some out there are that way sadly but not me personally. I enjoy it actually, any type of ethnicity.
>>23833447
I don't mind a light skinned girl but I'm not really into dark skinned females not really any reasoning behind it just how I tick. It also depends on their personality too because I've met a wide variety at parties.
>>23833464
Learn to read moron, was referring to the guys who constantly ask for more pics when it's not needed. Nice try though.
>>23833447
It's 99% personality.
Be feminine. Be sweet.
>>23833484
meh, i just thought that was funny
For all: what is your age and gender and an acceptable age for a potential partner?
>>23833510
Male 21
I'd go as far as like saying 18 and 28 as extremes for a relationship that is.
>>23833510
Male 27
Potential partner's age range would be about 22-29
>>23833510
20f
20-23
>>23833510
Lol all good!
>>23833641
Up to talk more if interested? (22m)
>>23833661
as friends I wouldn't mind but I'm in a relationship currently.
>>23833044
This is just my take on it, but I'm 5'2 and date pretty much exclusively husky/chubby guys. I've wondered why and I guess it's all about the personality. Guys who grow up fat, but taller and usually strong, tend to be very gentle, kind and with a good sense of humour.
Being able to cuddle up to someone so warm and so much bigger is also pretty great.
>all these girls saying they like husky/chubby guys
>no girls still ever liked you
girls how should i murder myself?
>>23833447
Depends if you're fat
Fat white girls can still be kinda cute, fat black girls are garbage
Thin black girls are the hottest thing in the world
But you're only asking because you exclusively want tall white guys just like every other female so fuck off slut
>>23833814
>assuming that your body is what is stopping you from getting women
>>23833820
Well I'm dating a white guy already I was just askn. He's pudgy and he's nerdy and I love it. Be salty some more.
>>23833510
21M, age range probs. 20-26 but I have some wiggle space there.
>>23833447
There are guys that dismiss black women because of their race; these people you shouldn't even associate with. Sometimes people are just less likely to find certain people attractive; I've got nothing against Latina women, for example, but there aren't many I've been into. There are always going to be people who dismiss you out of hand though, no matter how privileged, whole, sexy, or extraordinary you are. You've got it worse than some, and I can't speak to your racial experience, but I'd be very surprised if you couldn't find a date at all for your race, at least in the US.
>>23831638
Ordinary guys totally can. That said, assuming you're remotely young, walking up to women in bars is probably not a productive strategy for you. Join a large social crowd, be genuinely good to everyone, flirt for the sake of it; you'll have your chance.
>>23833864
>says assuming instead of implying when using implication arrows
you're right, it's probably my face. fuck.
>>23831782
depends on the girl. i prefer facials/anal(love seeing other girls get humiliated.)
Females, what do you honestly think of guys who enjoy being submissive in bed?
>>23833983
complete and utter turn off. need/want dominance in bed.
>>23833447
Not for me personally, I've always wanted to date a black chick actually, but I've never met one that likes white guys and is still single.
>>23833510
female, 19.
the ideal range would be 20-25, but i'd accept up to 30 if he was the right guy.
>>23833044
i wouldn't really consider myself small (pretty average in both height and weight) but i've personally always had a thing for bigger guys, like linebackers. i'd say it's... relatively common? out of my closest 5 female friends, i know at least 1 of them also prefers bigger, huskier, stronger guys.
>>23833983
i like it, as long as he can be dominant as well. i'm a switch, so to be completely satisfied in bed, i need a partner who can fit both rolls. and that picture is actually kinda relevant, i especially love big tough looking guys who can also be submissive lol
Sup,im new to Snapchat and texting because I used to hate the idea of it.
I'm talking to a girl on snap chat and Im wondering what's a good way to move from text to pics. I feel like just sending a random pic is creepy,but I see people doing it all the time.
Thx
>>23834566
Subtly building up to it and then asking is probably the best way.
>>23833983
I think that the whole "submissive/dominant" thing is retarded.
I do enjoy taking charge in bed sometimes, and if he's able to do the same sometimes I'm okay with it.
>>23834478
>>23833928
>>23833641
>>23833521
Interesting how everyone is willing to go more older than younger
>>23833447
Numerically, this is true, and... to a certain extent in personal experience, I find it to be true.
Being "Black" in and of itself is not a turn-off, there's a fair few desirable black birds out there. However, due to my own personal convictions, I'd date you, etc. But we'd never have children.
>>23833510
>For all: what is your age and gender and an acceptable age for a potential partner?
25, male - Anywhere from 19 to 35
>>23835470
>Interesting how everyone is willing to go more older than younger
If you're 21 or under, it's ILLEGAL to go younger (depending on the country).
>>23835529
In America I varies by state, lots have the age of consent at 16
>>23833510
28 F
I would be willing to go as low as 22 and maybe early 40's as the max.
25 to 30 would be ideal, but I don't care about age a whole lot as you can tell from the range.
>>23815992
iktf man
>meet girl
>hit off pretty good
>she's affectionate as hell
>texts me first, writes a lot etc.
>get drunk while in a bad mood one night
>talk about depression a bit with her and chat about our problems
>suddenly only one word replies and never texts first
>just simple "hahaha"
>ask her what the fuck her problem is
>message read no reply
I sure love this.
girls how unattractive is virginity? I'm 26 and didn't had a gf since I was 16, I'm a sad sack of shit, depressed, suicidal, shy and submissive. Is there saving me or should I just really off myself?
I have this friend...usually we r not handsy but sometimes out of nowhere she initiates play fights with me and i end up sometimes grazing her boobs ( not intentionally, but doesnt mean i didnt want to) or touching her ass or i end up giving her a light head lock and she is pretty much grinding her ass into me. She is younger than me and sometimes i guess i am protective of her and give her adult life advice and shit. Is what she is doing just something she does b.c she is comfortable with me and trusts me and doesnt think of my accidental touches as sexual or is she trying to give me a hint towards something sexual?
>>23829209
All of my this. I absolutely adore it when a guy keeps going after cumming inside of me. Bonus points if he cums multiple times inside. Major turn on because it feels soooo primal. Wish I could feel it inside of me more though.
>>23835718
This is exactly what i want a woman to think, I've always wanted to cum multiple loads and fill up her pussy so much. The feeling of our cum and mess all inside you. Want to talk more if interested? Kik/Sc?
>>23835616
The virginity itself is no issue, its the fucking attitude you have because of it. Seriously sex is not a big goddamn deal and the defining factor of your life. I guarantee you if you can pretend you have even an ounce of confidence and know what you're doing, no girl could even tell.
> I'm a sad sack of shit, depressed, suicidal, shy and submissive.
This is what's unattractive. Easier said than done I know, I've been there, but fucking git gud and work on yourself before you can dream of being with another person. Getting in a relationship or having sex will not solve the issues you have, you'll just make another person miserable with you. Learn to love yourself before you love others. That's the best advice I can give you.
Also if you're that concerned, never tell a girl you're a virgin unless she asks. And I'm willing to bet money no girl would even ask. Theres literally no reason she even needs to know, telling her is basically saying "Btw, I've already decided I'm going to be the worst lay possible and that you're going to have a shitty time with me, so this is my excuse for being shitty". If it's bad, it's bad. But at least you went into it not already counting yourself out. It's a self fulfilling prophecy, you think you'll suck, you're going to suck. You think you'll be fine, you'll be fine.
>>23835685
>She is younger than me and sometimes i guess i am protective of her and give her adult life advice and shit.
I hope she's at least legal lol.
Frankly, I don't know any woman who would do shit like that if she didn't want the D.
>>23833983
While I prefer to be dominated, I'll switch it up and initiate / dominate in bed. I get it... If you have a stressful job and or are having to constantly make decisions and manage at work, it's nice to be able to submit when it comes to sex. I don't expect my man to be dominating 24/7. It's exhausting.
Ask away
>>23833983
I am a switch. Highly prefer being dominated, but if it is requested I will take charge. It is a turn off if he is a full time sub though.
>>23836227
Whats your top 3 attributes you look for in a guy?
