I hate myself. Everytime I meet a girl I like, I always end up friend zoning myself. I've known this girl for 3 months. And we've been flirting a bit and I kinda like her. Anyways, we had a discussion last night and she mentioned that she kinda likes me too. That's good. Except ever since then, I almost feel like I've lost interest. I don't understand. I like this girl, but as soon as I figure out she likes me, my interest starts to drift away. Maybe it's just my shit self esteem. But it bothers me if I find out someone likes me. I'm worried...
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You don't like her as much as you think you do. Perhaps as you go to know her, you realized you don't really want a relationship with her.
>>24989132
But I do it everytime. Like tomorrow, a different girl that I've known for a while said she thinks it would be fun to GOP Debate and Chill tomorrow. She has daddy issues and said she wants to get fucked while watching the debate. I said no and put myself in the friend zone there too.
Force yourself, had the same issue, turned out to be subconcious insecurities. Force yourself, even if is loveless at first.
I need a new fetish. I've seen all the content for my current fetish 1000 times before and all other content for it is trash.
Please help.
>>24988989
feet, bro
>>24988989
How about enf?
>>24988989
Get into BDSM.
If that's too boring, try Guro.
Just poke around some unconventional pornsites, you'll find something.
This is the first time I'm visiting this bored so I have no idea as to what considered the norm here.
But judging by your guidelines I would say this is the best place to receive a logical response.
So here is my question:
>Why am I so alone?
>I'm not ugly,
>I'm friendly for the most part. if you talk to me I'll reply.
>I try to be nice and to care for those that provide me with entertainment and/or distractions from the...
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No help, unfortunately, but I feel pretty much the same tbqh with you friend
If you hang out with friends, you are a normie. If you do drugs with friends, you are a normie.
>>24988890
Nothing wrong with that tbqh
How do you spend your day as a NEET? I need some references.
I'm too focused on one objective per month and sometimes I can't do what I want to do. For example, I would play an MMOPRG for an entire month or lurk in 4chan boards, and completely miss many episodes of anime and TV shows.
How do you do it. Do you have a schedule per day?
>>24988438
I spent the past week mostly covering my parent's house with Christmas lights. Looks fucking great and our neighbors get so jealous.
You have a lot of free time, you can consume all the media you want
No schedule needed, just occasionally switch things up
>>24988438
Tell me what you do as a neet over Christmas.
I'm jelly of neets over christmas, must be so comfy.
Oh them days in school and college, long Christmas breaks, hot cup of tea, counter strike 1.6 in the box room playing comfy christmad maps.
Tell me neet, tell me..is it still like that?
Who here has virtually no sex drive?
I'm a virgin and have virtually no interest in sex, I find women attractive and like tits and ass like any guy but I have no desire for sex or any intimacy at all.
I had my testosterone checked and it's normal, I can see me just staying a virgin for life desu.
>>24988419
Same here, except I get a sex drive under the effects of Adderall.
>>24988419
Same here mann.
>>24988449
Yeah it's like I find the pic in the op attractive, nice face, nice tits, ass and feet but I still don't want to have sex with her or have her near my penis or touch her in any way.
>Be ugly, poor, stupid, introverted and short
>Some people ask me why I don't have a gf
>I tell them that is because i got that shit
>They keep saying me that these things don't matter
Why do they delude themselves into thinking that?
Why can't they accept the harsh truth that being a genetic trash is a lifetime mark with the consequences of being lonely?
>>24988256
>Why can't they accept the harsh truth that being a genetic trash is a lifetime mark with the consequences of being lonely?
Why can't you accept the harsh truth that you're intrinsically capable of finding a gf and are just sabotaging yourself?
>>24988289
Lets play "How to Spot the Spoiled Kid with no Real Life Experience."
Oh, holy shit, I spotted one!
>>24988289
>intrinsically capable of finding a gf
>just sabotaging yourself?
kek, do you really think that someone poor, ugly and introverted is capable of find a gf? tell me how many guys with those characteristics got a gf IRL
Reminder that if you kill yourself without taking someone else without you you're a pathetic kuck faggot nigger manlet roastie beta
>>24988178
>le school shooting maymay
calm down whitey
>>24988178
TFW I'm not you
No you are a faggot who has to ruin everyone else's lives
Armchair psychologists, gather around
I was just watching this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKB58CS1sYQ&index=14&list=PLQKlHp9A8xVTGoLtJePs8WnZpJs6xkB2o (what, you're not subscribed to Rob Dyke? Fucking pleb), and I can't get over how depression affects some people. So the guy that crashed a plane into the French Alps, killing 150, didn't feel he had a fulfilling life? He was /fit/, dated, ran marathons and ffs he's a pilot, not a lot of people become pilots. I'm a worthless fat NEET with NO relationships let alone failed, but I've never come close to debilitating depression. We're different people, I get it, but how does it get so bad that you're on multiple medications that may drive you to murder? Why is it even legal for minors to be on mental health drugs? At least anti-depressants. Amphetamines never seem to hurt anyone, but those anti-depressants man.
Can these people truly be helped? Even if we invested more in mental health care, does that mean we just put more people on pills? That's not safe to me. We never needed it before, but that begs the question, is the human experience significantly more miserable than it ever was? Are people less happy as a whole? For the inevitable "things were always this way" posters, can you like, think before you say that? Thank you.
The vid also mentions the Rodge, I know you all like that
>>24988102
Who knows if these people can be helped, as it stands we just give people anti depressants which we have no clue how they actually function and alter your mind. Most of the time medication as a whole is just ignoring the problem and giving the necessary medication to assist the patient in ignoring it, rather than making steps to heal or cure it.
We honestly don't know very much about the functionings of the brain right now and how mental illness develops and if it can be stopped, a lot of research is...
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>>24988468
Thanks for your input. I find it interesting that essentially the modernist basis of psychology (your past affects your future, your environment means everything) means very little. It's as if severe mental problems happen completely randomly.
>chronic migraines
>already called off last month once
>if I call in again ill get fired probably
>cant get disability because its not frequent enough I guess
>cant keep job longer than 5 months
HELP
Just lie and say you have them frequently, get disability. Duh
Take some paracetamol you pussy ass Kek
>>24988010
this OP, you dumb fuck
>have two jobs
>they're related
>worked one of them but it made me late for the other one
>want to skip the second work but I don't know what excuse to use
would diarrhea work?
I've never called sick before
>>24987913
go in and stop being weak
>>24987913
First time calling in sick is always the tricky one. Don't try to fake the sick voice unless you're really good.
>>24987913
I'm sick
OK
That's it they can't ask why or anything
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elongated_labia
>a feature of certain Khoisan groups, whose female members develop relatively elongated labia minora, hanging up to four inches outside their vulva when they are standing in an upright position.
NEVER DATE A FEMALE NEGRO /R9K/ THEY ARE THE ULTIMATE FINAL FORM OF ROASTIE
>>24987886
I don't think you understand the roastie meme.
>>24987886
Absolutely DISGUSTING holy shit what the FUCK and to think people actually want to literally eat it!
>>24987886
Now if THESE females had active sex lives.
Who here has fantasies of becoming a Chad and getting revenge on women?
Denying them access to my flawless cock and incredible SMV would smash their fragile subhuman egos REEEEEEEE
Revenge fantasies are a waste of time, OP.
Saying you require revenge is acknowledging that someone has hurt you and that you were/are unable to do anything about it.
>>24987860
>acknowledging that someone has hurt you and that you were/are unable to do anything about it
What is this supposed to be, some deep insight? That is already assumed with these threads friend. Lurk More.
She isn't ugly in the first pic, she just has bad acme
>"No come on, tell me! I don't mind if it's a long story, I mean you've listened to me talking for long enough. I'm all ears!"
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DKh0bQsE60]
>"Thanks for coming to visit my hometown Anon, it really means a lot. Sorry about the snow, it hasn't snowed this much in a long time! Are you sure you're not cold? Well here, will you hold my hand at least? My hands get so cold in this weather. Hey, we better be heading back, my mother will have dinner ready soon. Hey Anon, I love you a whole lot. And I can't say I ever expected to feel this way about someone, but I'm so glad I do."
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dPkMZJUN0oQ]
>"Anon. Anon! Wake up, I can see your eyes moving! Hey look, look outside. It's the first snowfall of the year. Isn't it pretty. Promise me you'll come for a walk with me when it begins to stick? I'll cook us something nice and warm when we get back, okay?"
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDoc5fikkuQ]
>"Oh and that's my uncle, you know the one I told you about who got divorced and...oh god I'm boring you aren't I? Are you sure? God I can't believe I'm like telling you my life story after we've pretty much just started getting to know each other. You know you seem really hard to approach and stuff but since we've started talking, I don't know, there's just something really calming about you. I don't know what it is, but I feel like you're someone I can actually have a meaningful conversation...
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Would you date a girl who could grow a better beard than you?
>>24987656
Dreadful cheek coverage, she ought to shave that.
That is honestly extremely cute
>>24987656
looks like a dwarf woman
>cheat on gf
>she gets mad
what gives, I thought girls liked it when guys were players
Nah, they just like it when other women want to fuck you, but you don't act on it.
>>24987619
Well that is just unreasonable
what's that guys name again? i can't seem to remember