im a verbally abusive person , and i manipulate those closest to me. it's causing me to lose my relationship. i would love more than anything to change but im not quite sure how.
>>29360834
psychologist, go see one
>>29360834
Therapy. Only someone who's trained can help you.
Good luck, OP.
>>29360954
i know it's not your job to tell me but if i dont have health care how do i go about seeing a professional ?
I'm at a strip club right now and none of the girls are coming up to ask me for a lap dance
Even here, my money cannot overcome my ugliness/creepiness
>>29360813
sucks to be you anon!!!
>>29360944
Truly, the sucketh belongs to me
>>29360813
must be a shitty club, most i've been too have 0 standards, as they should
>he thinks being a neet is something to be proud of
Oh yeah lets open that can of worms on a board that is mostly about self loathing and self deception
>>29360798
For some people, it is all they have. They have nothing else to take pride in other than their failures.
It's not something to be proud of. But it's a brotherhood.
Is there a shift towards waging in r9k?seems like more robots and neets alike are realizing that neeting is cucking oneself and it's better to earn some income from a job you enjoy and experience more from life.
When robots work it's to pay rent. Most robots live alone
>>29360770
Nice try wagecuck. Enjoy the fleeting moment of freedom that is your weekend!
>>29360770
>a job you enjoy
literally no one
I live in a third world shithole.
I earn $180 a MONTH. The average pay here is $250 a month and the highest ones are about $600. I'm going to college but in this country you might as well use it to wipe your ass because it's useless.
I have a chance to go to work on a Cruise ship for $1700 a month which for me is huge. You work 9 months a contract non stop and then for 3 months you're free. I'm planing to work this job for a couple years, save money and buy an apartment in my shitty country, then rent it to some fuckers so i don't have to...
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Money hungry pleb.
>>29360734
Seems like a solid plan. You could also try freelancing stuff from American clients if you have any skills like coding or web design. They'd probably pay well by your standards.
>>29360734
What country is it ? Could someone live confortably for 250$ a month in a somewhat safe place there? Just curious
how do I get up every day and do something I don't want to? work, school
Alcohol? Weed? I'm a NEET so I don't have to worry about any of that.
>>29360750
me too but I can't be a neet forever
Read meditations
>dad buys me Furby for Chistmas
>every once in awhile throughout the night Furby would wake up and say, "Furrrrrrby."
>don't really mind it because I'm a kid and all the cools kids had a Furby
>until one night
>I was sleeping in bed and eventually Furby sounded off in his usual tone, "Furrrrrrby."
>all of a sudden dad barges into room with nothing but underwear...
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>>29360717
Shouldn't have owned that Ferby ! Got what was coming.
Lmao I laughed hard
holy fuck i don't know why but this is the funniest fucking thing i've seen all week
Anyone here play QuizUp?
>Tfw the only people still playing my topic are all uberplayers from India
I used to use a website called quizyourfriends like 15 years ago.
>>29360687
Holy duck I completely forgot about this thing
>>29360762
Did you ever get high up on the leaderboards or anything?
Blackbots of /r9k/, why haven't you moved to Japan and gotten yourself a waifu yet?
>>29360551
Because nips don't like foreigners. These kinds of threads are getting stale, can we please move on to the next interracial meme?
>>29360551
But I have, not the waifu part though, the casual sex is fine.
Jap girls love the exotic dark meat.
3D women can't be waifus you reddit fuck
Having lived in Japan for over 6 months now, and originally being from Scandinavia, I have arrived at the conclusion that multi-cultural societies are not the way to go. Multi-ethnic? Sure. But multi-cultural? No.
I don't think my fellow Europeans can fully appreciate what it's like to live in a safe, silent place like Japan. The absence of lesser-races inadvertently creates a peaceful society.
I suppose that multi-culturalism stems from some notion of moral rightness, but it's obvious that two incompatible cultures cannot share the same country....
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>>29360534
idk, i did the same thing, spent several 3 month periods there, in the end i much preferred a multicultural environment, japan, although beautiful, seemed like this dying country desu
>>29360534
Have lived here for the past 3 months, as well as several study abroads in the past. Intend to live here the rest of my life. So peaceful. Lots of middle easterners in my town who just integrate and become brown Japanese people. Every day I discard a little more of my home culture to fit in a bit more, and you know what? I don't miss it. Foreigners online talk about never feeling at home here, never feeling like they fit in, but this is something I've never felt ever. Maybe it depends on local culture,...
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>>29360534
Is that Himeji castle? If so, I've been there..
how do i get my girlfriend to stop kissing me after she drives me home? we spend like 5 minutes kissing and she rubs my dick and makes me touch her boobs i just want to go watch movies i figure you guys know a lot about not kissing girls pls help me thanks
Shiturpantz
break up with her obviously
>>29360522
im a nervous pooer i dont think anything will come out if theres ppl around
>start eating healthy (1 pound raw veggies, 1-2 pounds cooked veggies, 3 servings raw fruits, 1 serving raw seeds, 1 serving raw nuts, 1 serving unrefined whole grains, 2 servings legumes, some b12, d and d7, k2, iodine, and zinc supplements every day)
>start doing yoga in the morning
>start going on walks in the evening
>start swimming laps in the evening
>start brushing teeth every morning and night
>start...
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>>29360464
if you don't enjoy it you don't enjoy, I wouldn't expect to develop a liking to it now since you're been doing those things for a year.
>>29360464
>When does the happiness come?
Never.
I'm 3 months into a similar path.
IDK OP it's good that we're trying and I commend your discipline for sticking it out a year. But maybe we're just destined for misery.
But maybe it's a thing where if you suddenly went back to how you were feeling before you started the process, you could appreciate the difference a lot more. Maybe because it happened so gradually you don't realize how much better things have gotten. Not to say they're good now, just not as bad.
I don't really know. I'm scrambling here because...
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>mom found the AR-15
>mom found the manifesto
>mom found the misogyny dungeon
Babysitter found the Quaran
Just so you know Chris Hanson, I do realize that r9k is just an elobrate sting operation you're running.
You can't fool me you mask faced fuck
>>29360367
Scared huh
That I saw through your elaborate plan
chris hanson is busy leeching money from morons and convalescing from alcoholism
>>29360905
Sounds just like what Chris told you to say, you Hockney fucking snitch
Friendly reminder that sitting on your ass and collecting NEETbux makes you just as bad as any other person who abuses welfare
>hoarding neetbux for emergencies is as bad as spending $100 a week on ciggies and booze
>>29360294
who gives a shit
let the normies work
>>29360294
>implying that there is anything wrong with exploiting a system that the 1% already exploits much more than I do.
whatever helps you sleep at night, wagie