Why are women given a pass when it comes to vocalizing their attraction?
If a man expresses his attraction to a woman, he's considered creepy or sexist, but if a woman does it, she's empowered or in touch with her inner woman.
>>80757725
This is how I know you're ugly.
>>80757725
Because men rape when they're attracted to someone, women don't.
>>80757843
Yes, and I'm sure you're a 10 and pull mad pussy.
>>80758057
Yes, all men are rapists, we get it.
>>80757725
>attractive male: "Wow you look great! What's your name?"
>wymen: "hehe thanks! Amelia =)"
>unattractive male: "Hey there gorgeous what's your name"
>wymen: "I have a boyfriend"
>>80758359
Not necessarily. I've seen plenty of handsome men try to pick up girls at bars and fail and I've also seen plenty of ugly men pick up good looking women.
It's not about looks, it's about confidence and how you present yourself.
>>80757725
They are given a pass, because there is noone to shame them for it.
Women shame men wholesale, but men are to individualistic to give a shit.
Women are running rampant with hypergamy and the only thing you can do is join the bandwaggon of casual sex and herpes.
Forget about all your notions of family and children.
You want pussy?
Lift and drive a nice car.
Travel and be active on social media.
Lastly Ill add that women are becoming hypermasculine in their sexual expression.
They think that men act like that and therefore think its socially acceptable to act in this way.
>>80758551
That is an extreme bluepilled thing to say my friend.
>>80758753
>TFW you just wanted a nice family but were born to the wrong time in history
I don't even want anymore women, they're basically children that you're not allowed to discipline and are a chore to be around unless you're about to cum.
>>80757725
Female privilege
>>80758965
t. Ugly nigger
>>80758965
How is telling men that confidence is everything blue pilled?
>>80758551
Of course confidence is very important, but looks still matter greatly.
Take a confident 6'2 blue eyes Chad and a 5'7 confident poo in loo; Chad will have it WAY easier and will have access to women out of poo's league.
The main difference is an ugly man has to do all the work, while an attractive man can just sit back and approach any girl that is staring/smiling at him
>>80759070
Yes and no.
Dont forget that nowadays there are ways to "scratch that itch" if you know what I mean.
Back in the day there was no porn. Women were ugly as fuck and probably hairy/smelly.
We live in the golden age of sexual liberation, which you should take advantage of.
The uncomfortable truth is that even in Victorian England you had to be wealthy/good looking.
Lift, get alot of hobbies, make alot of superficial social aquaintances etc.
Dont go MGTOW, because someday youll wake up from 20 years of gaming/drugs and regret having waste your youth, because you "didnt feel like it".
>>80757725
women are sluts who deserve no less than to be rounded up in camps and bred until they die.
>>80759624
Who doesn't wake up in 20 years full of regret. At least when you do it alone there's no one waiting to take half of your worldly gains.
>>80759262
Because it isn't. If two men have equal amounts of confidence, social status, charm, etc, but one physically looks better than the other one, the latter will get the girl every time.
Claiming looks don't matter at all is something uggos try and rationalize to themselves. Women also say this in order to make ugly men feel better. They also come off as less "superficial" in the process.
>>80757725
same reason vibrators are seen as fine but onaholes are disgusting
>>80760111
I disagree to an extent.
Ugly men can be successful with women, but you have to be charming as fuck, fit as fuck and probably even wealthy.
Noone has everything.
The few men who have:
>looks
>intelligence
>charisma
>height
>status
End up as politicians like JFK or an actor like Clooney.
If youre good looking, then you might attract alot of women for casual sex, but good luck trying to get one to settle who is on your SMV level.
This happens to me alot. I can easily get laid with attractive women, but since I fucked up my career and twenties with drugs and bad friendships/decisions, I now live at home with parents and have 100 bucks to my name, despite a degree.
My point is, I can easily snag the hottest 20-28 year olds for a ONS, but long term?
Fucking forget about it. Im a poor handsome loser in their eyes.
>>80757725
I bet its a fucking white woman making that first comment, doing exactly what hispanic women say white men say to them on dating apps and shit
fuck I hate white women so much
>>80757725
>MGS profile picture
>>80757725
because women are disgusting whores.
>>80760745
To be fair, I'm not the one who made the image.
of course objectification of men is completely fine, and men have no body image issues
>>80757843
you forgot your "virgin"
>>80759975
Then get alot of dogs and pray that youll have the money for a nursing home when youre 70.
>>80757725
Who cares if they get a pass? A pass from who, society?
I talk at women, not to women. How they respond or feel about my words has no bearing on my world unless they can come up with something intelligent.
Which is fucking rare.
Why would you compliment a girl anyway? Do you tell your buds they look hot today?
I might say "nice haircut dude", and not expect a response. Same goes for women, stop using their reactions to validate yourself
It's feeding the Trolls
>>80757725
el peruANO
>>80759210
Ugliness is as big as a problem as you make it.
If i just think to myself i'm not ugly, or there are way worse detriments than being ugly, or the sheer subjectivity of the concept, i have less anxiety about it.
If you're meeting people for the dorst time just rhink those facts in your mind and maybe feeling less ugly ~> be less ugly.
t. Ugly nigger
>>80757725
>Taste his papa la huancaina
>How his salchipapa taste
lewd/10
That nigga whiter than snow
>>80761619
>Brown nipples
Nope
El peruANO
>>80757725
Also when women do it, its just embarrasing and awkward like that salchipapa "joke". Women are so unfunny that its just incredibly. They tell jokes but they are only funny for women if funny at all.
>>80757725
because real men actually don't give a fuck what women say
>>80757725
>why do women x
the key is to ignore everything women do or say in public (written media, tv, radio). it's pointless to argue with them, it's pointless to argue about them. you will change nothing and gain nothing from that. engage only with women you like or that are attractive to you (and there is a chance of giving her the d), if you're forced to have contact with women that are neither (job, waitress), reduce social interaction to a minimum. don't change your behavior for them or let them ruin what you like . your live is now more enjoyable
inb4 womanhater, just experience
>>80762334
This.
>>80757725
God damn women suck at inuendo.
>>80759631
/thread
>>80758359
did you mean to write wyvern? Fantasy nerdcuck.
more like >whymen for you
>>80757725
ugly guys are considered creepy
women are insecure
put them both together you get le double standard they can do it you can't, ugly man.
>>80759624
Suggest some hobbies that I can get into
I'm 18 and I've never played sports or been particularly good at anything really. I just want something to work on and fill up my time. I like working with my hands if you have any suggestions
>>80762999
astronomy and astrophotography
mountainbiking
running
climbing (boulder)
work with a milling machine or lathe
>>80763258
+ welding (cool hobby)
>>80763258
>mountain biking
Interesting, will I die?
>>80758753
I do all of the things you recommend and I'm ignored by women. You literally cannot win in this rigged environment.
>>80759624
I've tried many times and failed. What's worse is that I didn't enjoy the exercise of chasing women. The conversation sucked, the activities I had to do to be around them sucked, the debasing work I had to do to earn money to impress them with sucked and ultimately they just treated me as worthless for my effort. Living with regret sucks but it's better to be a free man unshackled from all of this role-playing bullshit for the sake of female approval.
>>80762377
>if you are forced to have contact with women, reduce social interaction to a minimum
>inb4 womanhater, just experience
Most autistic thing I've read all day
>>80757725
Would still be degenerate even if it were a woman.
>>80762999
What Hans said works>>80763258
Bouldering is overall perfect, because you get fit as fuck, its great for your heart and you get to make friends meet qts.
Id add:
>archery
>fishing
>dog (technically not a hobby, but its alot of time consuption)
>write a book
>learning languages
>hiking
>camping
.
.
.
As for "working with hands":
>woodcarving
>making flies for flyfishing
>making arrows for archery
>painting tin soldiers
>displaying insects you caught
>learn to play the guitar
.
.
.
Just stay away from the computer and drugs.
>>80757725
Who actually fucking cares?
Sexual differences are always going to be a thing between men and women. They just act differently and respond differently by nature. There's always going to be people who are outraged over little things. So people think he's good looking and want to "taste his salchipapa"? Don't care. If you want to be vocal about a woman in the same way women are being vocal towards guys like this, go ahead.
>>80764420
Thanks m8 I appreciate it. I'll see if any of these are available locally
>>80763638
Then work on it.
Lift more.
Dress better.
Make a better career plan.
Learn to sell yourself.
Its only rigged, because youre playing by the rules.
Go rogue. Meet 18 year olds.
Make friends just to use them to meet girls etc.
You only live once. Why give a shit what others think?
Women love:
>FUN
>confidence
>fit body
Make her laugh, make her feel wild and youre im.
>>80763879
Same post for you bro.
Dont try to "meet the requirements".
Go above them. Dont meet women to fuck them. Do fun things which makes you irresistible to women.
Take a woman skydiving
Make her laugh and have FUN.
>>80764625
Shit wait.
I forgot the most important one.
>MARTIAL ARTS
Full contact ones, or even boxing.
>>80764993
>boxing
Did it for a while and loved it, but I don't fancy having a nose that looks like a sausage roll. I just wanted to learn enough to defend myself
>>80757843
This. Most women are fine with men complementing the attractiveness of them so long as it doesn't get too "misogynist" or "creepy" in their view.
why even fucking bother with women though
if you're feeling horny just fap and then go do something productive
if you want to play emotion chess with an uninteresting bitch only good for sex you're wasting your time.
>>80765431
Some people know what's it's like to be in love and what to experience that again
>pick the right girl
>don't be a bitch
>put your foot down once in a while
That's all it really takes to avoid everything /r9k/ is bitching about ITT
It's just behavior based on the assumption that men generally just want to spread their seed and aren't very selective, so they appreciate sexual attention, while women need to be especially selective and thus only appreciate sexual attention when it comes from men they consider desirable.
>>80765230
I'm an attractive man. Unless you're an attractive man, vocalizing your attraction to a woman unless she is literally asking for it will get you shamed.
The only exceptions:
1. If the ugly male is black, feminist activists won't dare criticize him
2. If the ugly male is wildly famous
Unattractive men can't even couch their complements in unrelated praise: "Incredibly skillful singing. You must put lots of effort into this. Oh, and you're gorgeous by the way." Nope, that's just showing weakness.
>>80758057
Looks like you accidentally typed 4chan into your url bar instead of tumblr
>>80765660
you wouldn't need to be in /r9k/ in the first place if you didn't assign so much importance to women in the first place.
man can be happy without women, perhaps even happier since it's based not on hollow feelings of 'love' but on genuine acheivement and pride in one's accomplishment.
and love doesn't work nearly as ideally as people think it does, you fall in love but very quickly you settle down and become unsatisfied and that's when it gets shit again.
and that's assuming you found "the right girl"
>>80765431
Best post.
>>80765660
>Some people know what's it's like to be in love
love is just a chemical reaction in your brain and you get attached to a person for no reason and they become your responsibility.
>>80762512
>more like whymen for you
My sides
>>80757725
el peruANO
>Peruvian
He is hardly Peruvian, he is Spaniard.
>>80757725
>Why won't they just treat us all equally, MOM
>>80766104
>hollow feelings of love
Who hurt you anon?
>>80766152
And yet it's great all the same
>>80757725
>HOW DARE WOMEN HAVE STANDARDS
so you rather have women breed with an ugly retard like you?
men and women are different and have different social expectations
>>80758551
>It's not about looks
yeah, well, when you actually understand human nature, give us a call
>>80757843
this
>>80766399
nobody, but I've had to hear plenty of people complain about how much love sucks/is amazing to the point that it justs seems so...meaningless. like some sort of drug with highs and bad side effects.
so I'm just wondering why not go and build acheivements and fulfill goals that give you real happiness in life? one that's not dependent on your pet whore's menstrual cycle.
>>80759631
supreme gentleman detected
>>80757725
>muh equality
>muh pay gap
>muh slut shaming
>muh uterus
>muh patriarchy
you never vocalize shit to women except insulting them and off the cuff comments that praise them a little but insult them more. Do this is women will be all over your benis
>>80760111
boo hoo why even try anon ?? you're so ugly why not just should yourself in the head with a pistol
Because we live in a gynocentric society that caters to women.
>>80767027
Elliot Rodger did nothing wrong.
>>80757725
> If a man expresses his attraction to a woman, he's considered creepy or sexist
Because americans have no culture.
>>80767315
That's what feminists/women want ugly to men to do. I say fuck them.
>>80764854
Why are women never told they have to improve themselves? Why are men the ones expected to do all the work? It's a load of bullshit. I see fatties all the time getting laid and I'm in better shape than 95% of people I see, still no chance. But I just don't see the point putting in all that effort, changing myself completely just so some stuck up cunt looks twice at me.
>>80766004
You are correct.
Compliments to any female occurs in a social context and affects their position in a loosely-defined but stable hierarchy of females, and their position in this social hierarchy affects how the woman of interest relates to other females and thus other males:
1. compliment from an unattractive male - if the woman responds, it supports the social connotation that this woman may be unattractive herself, or may be susceptible to steering downwards in the status hierarchy based on appearances where young, attractive and healthy connote higher status
2. compliment from an attractive male - if the woman responds, it supports the notion that the woman may be easily influenced and thus may be susceptible to sexually promiscuous acts which all men desire; this downgrades her status if the culture promotes chaste behavior in women
cold sell approaches are less likely because of these reasons unless the woman is horny and is just out to fuck
>>80766004
this is true
whenever i've told girls how I feel they've all been disgusted, even average women. just fuck it, i'll stick to fapping thanks
>>80767005
And what will you achieve?
Will you become the CEO of a vast international enterprise? Impressive as it may be, you will die alone and be replace by the next face in a suit and so on and so forth.
Or will you fall in love with a beautiful woman and see the fruits of your labour with her, shape her life for the better? And she will give you children, and you'll mould them like clay and send them off into the world and watch them stand on their own two feet just like you taught them. And then you won't die alone, your family will be there for you, and you won't be replaced because no one can replace and good father and a good husband.
Go and do it now before its too late
>>80763958
how am i autistic? if anything you're the autist for literalizing what i said, i bet you wear a nice, little helmet. what i was trying to tell OP: if you find a woman annoying or dealing with her is stressful for you, don't engage with her. you wouldn't treat males any differently, so why would you unnecessarily burden yourself with stress if the person is a woman.
>>80760111
No one said looks don't matter, nice strawman. They said confidence can trump looks. If they are tied in confidence, then they are on equal ground, allowing other factors to come at play.
>If a man expresses his attraction to a woman, he's considered creepy or sexist
Only if he's ugly. Hot guys can say anything and they also get a free pass.
I'm tired of ugly and fat people on-line crying about how much they suck and can't get laid.
>>80758551
Nice lies
>>80757725
I dunno why youre buttblasted. If youre ugly just get smart and take power over the world, or do something you love, like art, music, be a pro gamer. I dunno, just stop being a faggot about it. I get mad pussy and I regret having lost so much time in my life to girls because I could have been out there improving my musical skills or finding a CSGO team while I finish my degree. Yes, i'm projecting a little bit
>>80757725
>If a man expresses his attraction to a woman, he's considered creepy or sexist,
You probably look like an autistic pedo. I've never encountered this problem.
>>80767005
The thing is, you should be able to accomplish whatever you want and have someone by your side. I used to think like you too. But as humans we just can't be alone for too long. We are social animals. If you don't have that emotional support , you'll be wasting even more time on feeling lonely or just looking for someone.
>>80758359
More like
>attractive male: "Wow you look great! What's your name?"
>wymen: "hehe thanks! Amelia =)"
> (you): *stares autistically while drooling* "Hi, can you suck my penis"
> wymen: ew get away from me, creep
>>80768242
to each his own, I guess. your idea of success is different then mine, and im fine with that.
I came to my conclusions not after living in a bubble though, but after seeing many women (including my own mother) drive their men miserable when all they wanted was a simple vision like yours.
maybe all my acheivements will fade once I die, but I'd prefer to live in the present in reality, where I know my happiness can be guaranteed if I direct my energy where it should be going.
>>80769466
"creep" means ugly when women say, nothing more.
>>80769817
Fair enough, I can respect that.
Must be different experiences, I've seen plenty of women ruin good men, but my mother and father have endured 20 years of marriage and have no regrets, they've been to the brink a few times but I don't think they'd have it any other way
I suppose every man wants to be like his father in some way
>>80768663
You can also manage if you have good convo although it only works for a time
>>80770374
my parents are still together after that long too, had a normal upbringing. Still terrible with women and no desire to start a family. I really don't like my father, complete normie.
Because women are children, and it's expected of them. Much like how niggers can act like chimps and get away with it - because they're animals.
>>80767757
Because women are the gatekeeper of sex.
If a woman has sex, she subconsciously is either willingly, or unwillingly creating the possibility for getting pregnant.
That means that she gets 9 months + 18 years of raising a child.
That means that she has to be incredibly selective of whom she chooses to fuck.
Obviously the pill and condoms changed that dynamic, but the instinct still remains.
That means that men's strategy is to fuck as many women as possible to spread our DNA everwhere.
Women's strategy is to fuck the best of the best (hypergamy).
So to conclude, women get to chose who to have sex with, therefore they get to call the shots.
Since nowadays women have made sex so cheap (no marriage required), that means that they only need to spread their legs in the club/bar and some thirsty schmuck will jump at the opportunity.
Even fat ones.
Lastly, nothing in life is fair.
>>80770758
>I don't really like my father, complete normie
Get off 4chan and have a beer with your father immediately. I hope that was bait.
>>80758057
Tumblr
>>80771033
No. And I hate drinking too.
>>80758057
Bullshit
I've woke up drunk at a party to see a hamplanet trying to fuck my passed out chad-friend.
He ended up puking and pissing all over her, thank christ
>>80771160
I feel bad for your da.
Make an effort for him anon for Christ's sake
>>80771473
Don't see the point desu. He should've had me aborted.
>>80764492
>There's always going to be people who are outraged over little things.
But it's not just inconsequential outrage. Men can get fired from their jobs for saying things to women that no one would have cared about 30 years ago.
