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The vilification of Male Virginity
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This is why Women control you. This. Virginity. Its a dirty word, particularly for men. Your very self image is based around not being a virgin, being promiscuous instead.

You have given your power over to women. They, and not you, decide how you see yourself. You've been cucked.

Your desperate need to fuck promiscuous women is what makes you a cuck - their cuck. Their sweaty, yeasty, disease ridden vaginas rule you

> inb4 40 year old virgin - I'm 50
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>>76676767
This. I don't want forgettable sex with a stranger who does not respect me.
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>>76676767
>>76677099
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sex is overrated
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>>76676767
2 years of banging dumb whores doing stupid fucking degrees at my uni made me realise how hollow and empty it really was.
Funnily enough none of the girls on my chemistry course were sluts, they all had long term boyfriends or looked for relationships rather than sleeping around.
But the media and fashion girls were drunken, depraved cock hungry whores, and I revelled in it.
I'm just happy that I realised how degenerate it all was, that I somehow never caught anything, and that a promiscuous past does not destroy a mans value as it does a womans.
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>>76676767
Nice digits.

I'm not a virgin. I've had a ton of sex, just with one woman. Milky white skin, black hair, green eyes, pink nipples. I was with her, living together for about a decade. Then she turned out to be a whore, and betrayed me. Not even going to get into it, but I haven't been with a bitch since. But I did fuck that pussy thousands of times. Her ass, her mouth, obviously. I blew loads in all her holes. Was nice while it was there, but her betrayal fucked me over for a long while. One day I will get back on the horse.
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>inb4 permavirgin basement dwellers flood this thread and say they don't need such carnal desires
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>>76677498
you bet man, and sex is a adiction like porn , imaging hav to rubb your body everyday to a diferent women and vomit your sperm
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>>76676767
fuck you OP.
virgin men are superior to those whoring out their youth like children.
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>>76676767
>Read post
>check flag
>see the flag
>ignore OP
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>>76676767
Your standards are too high, man. So many of you guys agonize over chasing those 10/10s, with their high-maintenance lifestyles and bitch personalities. It's entirely possible for even the most NEETish loser to find a pleasant plain girl who will love you and be devoted to you your whole life, without being a gigantic demanding bitch. I'm currently dating a 5/10, and while a part of me hates taking her out in public, you know what? I have a lot of fun. She's caring, sweet, kinky as all fuck, and never turns me down for sex like my other prettier girlfriends did. Plus, she always makes me lunch and dinner, and buys me little gifts to let me know she cares.
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>>76677806
boring
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>>76677688
tfw this is actually true
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>>76676767
Being not a virgin is a male fad, something that other men judge you for, not something females want out of you.

Females want acceptable sex and whoring around doesn't necessarily make you good at it. Plus you're spreading all the fucking hpv and giving out cancer.
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>>76676767
>inb4 40 year old virgin - I'm 50
So, 50yo virgin?
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>>76676767
26 year old virgin here.

I used to be like that and then I realized my life is pretty fuckin great. I use all my money for shit I want and need, not to impress or "make a moment" with a roastie.

I dont have a kid, I dont have any weird sex problems, and best of all? Free time, is my time. Not spending X amount of time on trying to maintain a relationship.

I've come to grips with the soul crushing loneliness that stares me in the face every morning I wake up alone. But fuck it, at least im not craving sex or acting like a dipshit on the reg to impress vapid whores.
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>>76677979
Why the fuck do Aussies need to look up suicide methods.
Just stick your hand under a set of drawers or other dark space and a gang of spiders will do the work for you.
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>>76677688
>replying to /r9k/ threads
Wait
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>>76677586
Well I'm a permavirgin, but I won't deny I'm pathetic and ugly. Not fat, just insanely anxious around women. I have no idea how to flirt or how people even get sex/relationships, just seems impossible to me. Never even kissed a woman.
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>>76676767
I can't fucking stand it okay?

I admit it: If I could get away with having casual sex with sluts every weekend I'd do it in a heartbeat.

I'm tired of being a KHV. I am a shitty evolutionary dead end and nobody will ever love me.
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Fucked about 20 women. Can confirm its overrated. The knowledge that I will never be able to marry a qt church girl is crippling
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>>76678119
>at least im not craving sex
what's your secret
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I'm a 28 year old virgin and I barely even have a sex drive any more. There's been weeks at a time where I've been unable to get an erection and I haven't had the desire to be in a relationship in over 5 years.
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>>76678226
I feel you. Especially the bit about being a genetic dead end. Feels shit. But at least the world will be improved, hey?
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>>76677979
>English speaking antions search more in English than non english speakers
Gee who would've thought?
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>>76676767
The thing is, it's actually so easy for a man to get laid in modern western society that if he hasn't managed to do it then something is clearly wrong with him. If I really wanted to, I could go out tonight and fuck a slut who's name I don't even know. So if you're a virgin then something must clearly be wrong with you on multiple levels.
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american pie really did a number on western culture.
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>>76678223
Once you have a real relationship women get completely demystified
You realize all their bitchiness is just insecurity and nervousness and they become really easy to talk to
the key is getting a girl first
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>>76678060
I'll agree that whoring around doesn't actually make you good at it - screwing the same chick 50 times would be much better at increasing your skill than having 50 one night stands - those one night stands aren't going to communicate as you go, and won't appreciate your weird untested tricks.
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>>76678407
it's the other way around, hence the old:
>girl over 16
>virgin
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I'm a fireman so often at the firehoues the guys talk about the chicks they've fucked and so on.

They all know I'm a virgin since I have no stories to share and all my female friends know it too. Male virginity only bothers you if you let it.

Yea people think less of you for a little while but it goes away.
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>>76678223
Best advice for getting women ever. Stop trying, just stop completely. Just talk to a girl like anyone else and be generally likeable. If you go in with the goal to make sex they will sense it by some voodoo magic

Talk about FORD, Family. Occupation. Relationships. And Dreams.

Don't talk about RAPE. Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics.

Dress yourself better, pick up a hobby (video games aren't a hobby). Something remotely masculine, I play airsoft it's still nerdy but girls actually like playing so you can make a date of it. Even if they are shit at it
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yeesti pucci
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>>76676767

Even "TRADITIONALIST" /pol/ fucking despises male virgins.

All of western society does. I'm not a virgin, but I get angry when people use that as ain insult against me or others, The very idea that female sluts are accepted and male virgins are demonized tells you everything you need to know about the era we live in.
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>>76678435
>the key is getting a girl first

Yeah, well I doubt that'll happen any time soon. I'm only capable of talking to them if it's about a specific task, when it comes to small talk/normal conversation, it turns to shit and I can tell they're uncomfortable.
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>>76678330
dude what.

that's not from lack of sex. you have low testosterone or some other underlying issue.
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>>76676767
23 year old aspergerfag here.

Since dating today is all done online, and since I'm fucking terrible at flirting through text and typing like a moron, I'm accepting my fate and opting to remain alone.

At least I can shitpost with other autists in a similar position.
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>>76677979
that was a kiwi not a kangaroo you silly huehue
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>>76678865
roosh v has an 11 page texting guide. give it a whirl.
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>>76678285
If I have to substantiate anything about what I "crave" its the companionship. I cant crave sex because I've never had sex. I'm speaking in a general sense of course. I'll have my lapses
where I'll get really depressed and lose my marbles for a little bit. But I usually come around, working 2 jobs and keeping busy really helps with this.

But my personality doesn't mesh with most people and I'm not gonna water myself down for someone who'll end up getting dicked down by jamal and taking all my shit.
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>>76678865
Just find a hooker
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>>76676767

nice trips.

100% correct m8.
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>>76676767
This issue was explicitly discussed in the Protocol material. No surprise here.

Well, except to illiterates who cannot or will not read.
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>>76678640
Don't really have many hobbies, would reading and running count? I like some sports (golf, football, tennis), just never really get the chance to play them. Social hobbies tend to be very mentally draining for me, unfortunately. Even learning languages, I do alone.

I do try to be polite to everyone I meet, and I do try to treat everyone the same. Unfortunately the things you say not to talk about are my interests (abortion aside).
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>>76676767
I just want to be in love
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>>76679053
Can't speak for him but it holds no real appeal to me. Don't see the point personally. It would just make me think lower of myself.
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>MFW I'm a grand wizard

For over 60 years I've studied the wonder of the universe.

Ask me anything.
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Bros, you will go insane with rage without pussy. I know things seem bleak and there is a spiteful appeal in this MGTOW etc nonsense but there is hope for the least of you! Go to a bar, drink sensibly, let her talk about herself, say little, smile in a playful yet masculine way. Success
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>>76676767
I honestly don't know why I'm still a virgin. I'm not particularly ugly and I'm not fat.

I guess it has to do with extreme social anxiety. Thankfully I just got my dosage of Seroquel increased so I'm less anxious now.

I'm starting to try though, with Tinder, and PoF and so on. I even asked a girl out but she kind of had a boyfriend.

Baby steps.
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>>76676767
Nice digits.

pic is relevant, trust me on this I am a wizard.
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>>76678271
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhnderAV2I0
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>>76677586

pussy keeps you sane, man.

i'll never tell that lie
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>>76678477
It feels much more special to be with a virgin guy and it's the emotional aspect of the relationship that takes sex from "yeah this is ok" to actual bliss.
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I read every post in this thread. Read no more Mr nice guy. Read the superior man. Lift weights. You all are going to make it, do not give up. Never.
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>>76679053
Too much money when I can just fuck a fleshlight and skip the STD risk.
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>>76679461

Unfortunately this doesn't work for me as I don't drink and women immediately are turned off by it.

I also look like I'm 16 despite being 25.
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>>76679389
>wanting a kid
>wanting disease
>wanting to assosciate with someone who's actually retarded for 30 seconds of fun

The only dipshit I willfully associate with is my weed dealer, and thats because he's fucking stupid and I get free weed for doing IT shit for him.
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>>76679586
m8 I'm a recovering alcoholic and recovering drug addict. I'm 25 as well.
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>having sex out of wedlock with someone else's leftovers
The thought literally disgusts me. Like imagine kissing a girl knowing her mouth has been fill of another man's semen? Full cuck mode.
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OP posts cold hard truth and lo and behold all the male equivalents of roasties come barrelling in trying to justify their low sexual value. Sad!
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I walk up to complete strange women and get their numbers. I am very good looking though so that helps.
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>>76679660
>wanting a kid

More than anything.
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>>76679461
>Seroquel
>anxiety

get a new psychiatrist
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>>76679688

My bad m8, I meant to respond to >>76679389
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>>76679389
After 24 empty years those yearning parts are dead
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>>76679461
GET OFF THE DRUGS
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>>76679779
this seriously

Seroquel fucks your shit up
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>>76676767
This isn't R9k its /pol/ we are a majority mid 20's

Fuck off whore you've probably fucked one of us
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>>76676767

Hormones are not social constructs. The urge to mate, at any cost, does not vanish if you ignore it.
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I was born in '70 and women definitely did not "control" men when i as coming up. And we still made fun of virgins when we were in our 20's. Well, we joked about it, I doubt any of us actually believed that anybody was a virgin. That would have been sad as fuck.

Because getting pussy isn't hard. You just have to do something other then curl up at home online.

Also you're too fruity and passive aggressive from talking too much shit without ever having to back it up in any way at all. Get into a few fights too, it will be good for you.
You are a man, you've just been allowed to atrophy. But you have all the instinct to accomplish anything you need to do, if you listen to it.


Also OP is a homosexual, like an actual homosexual, his disgust for pussy betrays him. He wants a whole planet of fags. And honestly you're sort've helping him right now, but it doesn't have to be that way.
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>>76679389
>smile in a playful yet masculine way

What does that even mean? Also places like pubs make my anxiety go off the charts.

I'm not MGTOW. I'm too useless for any movement. Most MGTOWs I see are men angry from divorce.
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Lost my virginity yesterday and I don't feel any difference. Just ashamed.
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>>76679731
Oh man, complete strangers dont find me attractive, I dont have enough money, and I'm a fuckin loser! Mystery solved gang!

And I would have gotten laid too if it wasn't for those pesky chads!
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>>76679932
>The urge to mate, at any cost, does not vanish if you ignore it.
The same is true of the urge to kill morons, yet we restrain ourselves from doing that for some reason.
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>>76676767
cool
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>>76676767
Nice digits, but I'm not a slave to my genitals. It'll happen when it happens
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>>76679389
>you will go insane with rage without pussy
No.
>Go to a bar
No.
>let her talk about herself
Who?
>say little
A surefire way to break the ice.
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Lost the only true love I had seven month's ago

Feelsbadman.jpg
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>>76679779
>Canada
>Psychiatrist
top kek, good luck finding one, or even finding a half-competent one.
>>76679901
I've actually found it very benign compared to other drugs like Lexapro. I'm on a really high dose of Lexapro and a lower dose of Seroquel.
>>76679853
I don't get high off of them, they just make me feel like I can function.
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>>76679968
>Leaf
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>>76679660
You are looking at it the wrong way, anon. How do you know she's not a decent companion without talking to her? If she's not, oh well there are plenty more where she came from. You just got laid and that is mental health GOLD
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>>76678640
>Don't talk about RAPE. Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics.
https://youtu.be/hmMfESCPWY8?t=177

>tfw you will never have a conservative waifu to laugh at liberals and commies with
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>>76679461
>Seroquel
You're going to grow tits and develop psychosis if you don't drop that like a shitty stick.

>but she kind of had a boyfriend
What is that cunt doing on a casual sex app then?
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>>76677259
))<>((
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>>76679099
Those are good hobbies. But they should be social hobbies. I actually reccomend airsoft all you have to be good at is running and not being a pussy about being shot. You can also make a ton of friends naturally if you just play well and aren't a tacticool douche.

And if you want to change how people view you in a social aspect then it doesn't matter what your interests are. You can have them just don't bring them up, if she brings them up fine but if she disagrees with you don't argue with her, it's pointless, it just leaves you both angry and impedes your goals.

You don't necessarily have to be polite all the time either. It could make you seem like a pushover.

To put all of it simply get a neat or interesting social hobby. Airsoft, Teams Sport, Painting, RC car racing, Motorcycling, anything that is remotely cool. And say the first thing that comes to mind in a conversation as long as you avoid RAPE. And say it with confidence.

"Hey Jen, would you like to have lunch with me this afternoon?"

"Sure, where do you want to eat?"

This is the part where you don't say, "I don't know, what do you want, you pick, what do you like?"

Simply say "Okay, how about blah blah blah on 14th Ave?"

We could all go on for hours about this shit giving you directions but you need to find some Red Pill literature. Specifically making you a more valuable sexual partner and social friend to your peers.

After that you need to actually put it in action the worst thing they can say to you is No. In which case who gives a fuck. Your mother told you no when you asked for ice cream at 8am and you cried when you were a child. Are you going to cry and hide in your own depression now that you're an adult? Or will you take action and turn yourself into a man.
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>>76676767
Implying I'm not already a high level wizard
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>>76679774
Are you a real Anglo or part of the invasion?
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>>76680180
1/1000000 odds they don't agree with any of our opinions so we need to avoid mentioning them early on
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>>76680119
I guess it wasn't just for me even a small dose of Seroquel makes me unable to function
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>>76679814
Doubt it as you probably damn near rip your dick off to porn each day
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>>76678640

I have only ever had sex with women I debated politics with first. I think it's because I'm more assertive in an argument. Regardless, you don't absolutely have to stick to that list. When I try anything other than arguing her into bed I strike out lel
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>>76678640
I d rather pay a whore than talk about crap ..

Also dressing doesn t mean shit . I have a job and my car , i dress well , but i m ugly
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>>76679974
Mad Men is a low energy show but watch 2 minutes of Don Draper
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>>76677806
You may want to marry her. Sounds like she really loves you and has personality.
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>>76680063
You're right, I guess women don't like to talk about themselves
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>>76680384
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqSD0w8vXGs

2:30

Real. I don't see a point in living if I don't have a family
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>>76678715
talk on the internet, skype if you can
it's all about exposure
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>>76679389
No.

And btw i don t watch porn nor masturbate . Still well and alive
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>>76680119
>I don't get high off of them, they just make me feel like I can function.
thats the point, you're growing dependent. unless your depression is borne from a chemical imbalance, you shouldn't be on anti-depressants
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>>76680416
That's what sex drive is, just pressure to release, as it always has been.

You are the one who attaches meaning unscrupulously.
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>>76680179
You know whats better mentally? Using my free time in a sure fire way that isn't fucking useless.

I could be going shooting, going on a hike, Sitting here with a fat blunt and vidya, or working on my discipleship.

Every single woman I've ever had a conversation with beyond smalltalk has revealed the simple fact that they are untrustworthy motherfuckin carnivores. The ones that weren't were married or in already stable and healthy relationships.

Like anything I'm sure in this case there are exceptions, but I'm also pretty sure those exceptions are punching above their weight in attractiveness/attitude with better dudes who can and will provide more in all regards.
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>>76679814
This feeling. It's.... Not even a feeling, just nothing.
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>>76676767
The vilification of virginity in general is a huge problem. For modern teenagers, its almost worse to be a virgin as a girl than a boy. 'slut shaming' barely happens anymore, and when it does there is an army of girls to stand up for the slut. When I was in high school, girls who were 'prudes' were more frowned upon than the 'sluts', and when we played drinking games where you had to tell the truth, girls were much more afraid to admit they were virgins than to say they'd had sex, to the point where some would even lie and say they weren't virgins. Basically they are now made to feel the same way about virginity as teenage boys have always been.

Why? why why why why why. Why do we do this to our society? There has never been any evidence ever that making a society obsess over sex is a good thing. In fact, there is a lot of evidence pointing towards the contrary.

Like many of these battles though, I think we have already lost. It is just simply too uncool to ever stand up for sexual purity anymore. Hell, you will even get called a nazi for it. I have. And I wasn't even talking about just girls.
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> Tfw I'm gay
Sucks to be cucks, cucks. I get all the ass I could want.
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>>76677979
im surprised that japan is not #1 on every topic
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>>76680618
They seldom have anything to talk about.
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is it ok to lose your virginity to single mothers?
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>>76680180
>Trump Senpai
brilliant
to contribute to the thread, I agree that you should try and not let shaming affect you but if you're holding out for your virgin waifu it ain't gonna happen in your room
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I lost my virginity a week ago. It was okay I guess, but I'm going back to my regular old lifestyle.
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AM i a virgin if iv had oral sex with like 5 dudes/ taking and giving but never been fully penetrated? im a guy btw never been with a woman
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>>76679765
I do not envy you. I shudder to think what kind of women would give their number to a stranger who approaches them cold. Yuck!
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>>76678271
Not true I'm a church girl and my hubs is my first and only. He whored his teens and early 20's and fucked 40+ Sluts. Just be sure you don't have anything Sti wise.
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>>76679389
I have no problem talking to women and I can't go to a bar alone
Start with baby steps like tinder
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>>76680669
Good for you, monk-anon
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>>76680820
Japan searches using Japanese words, so they don't register
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>>76680677
Doubt it as I love my GF. You can have this too, anon
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>>76676767
You wasted this get for this shitty bait thread, u dun goofed
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6'0 15% BF athletic white male with fair hair and blue eyes here, I'm 22 years old and I've done everything but stick it in the vaggo, but I have absolutely no desire for sex, even though I want female companionship, is this just because I haven't had sex before or what
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>>76679986
lol, the shame goes away
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>>76680669
Nice, I'm jealous. I try nofap but it's very difficult.
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>>76681128
Temporarily
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>>76680691
Man needs woman to ease his mind and put aside distractions to his progress. Seriously bro, just go a little out of your element to accomplish this and the rewards will be massive
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>>76680908
that's kinda gay dude
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>>76681210
I CRY EVERYNIGHT BECAUSE OF IT

I have never felt more alone in my entire life. And I can't stop. I don't want to stop.
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>>76680834
They all have something to talk about. One of them will be interesting, either way the contact is beneficial
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>>76677570
>>76677570
hope you bounce back senpai. It's more action then I'll ever get
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>>76681391
>And I can't stop. I don't want to stop.
crying or wanking?
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>>76680691
>those exceptions are punching above their weight in attractiveness/attitude with better dudes who can and will provide more in all regards
The guy always has to be better or believe he's better. If the woman is leading the relationship she's on her way to Jamal.
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A lot of people are suggesting to use tinder, but I have three gripes I'm not sure I'll ever be able to get over:

1. I don't ever use social media. I just don't like the thought of people being able to read all about me.

2. I hate hate HAAATE taking pictures of myself. I think I have some deep seated insecurity, but I hate looking at myself unless it's a plain mirror. I'm not photogenic at all

3. I don't think I'm all that attractive. And on tinder attraction is everything.
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>>76679586
Not all females like drinking. I never drank as my father and grandfather are alcoholics. One of the main reasons I started dating hubs is he did not drink.
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>>76679389
>Bros, you will go insane with rage without pussy
replace pussy with anything else and you sound like a crazy addict.

yeah every guy instinctually wants pussy, but theres more to life than going to a bar to pick up some skank.

the best advice I can give any guy about trying to meet women is just stop going out of your way to meet women and improve yourself.
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>>76680633
Anglo men are the best.

Please go make lots of Anglo babies and live in a happy functioning family.
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>>76676767
It's actually pretty great too be honest family. Loneliness you can get over, rape charges are forever.
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You're missing the fact that having sex at a young age is the normal thing to do. Its very abnormal to be a grown man and still be a virgin.

If you didn't like a girl who liked you back growing up then you're a fuck ugly cunt and nobody wants your penis anyway.
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>>76680834
You've got to realize that you aren't gonna have any emotional chemistry with 99 maybe 99.9% of the girls out there
This is just a basic fact
You don't need to try to fuck every girl you talk to (even though you probably want to) you just need to put yourself out there and be receptive to the 1 in 100 or 1,000 girl
When you find a girl you're compatible with the talking will happen on it's own, you'll be surprised how easy it is to talk to girls when they start playing biting their fingers and laughing at everything you say
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I'm past the stage where just sex is fulfilling. I want an actual relationship now.

Any other anons in the same boat?
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>>76678865
I have Asperger and I found a potential wife online without even really trying
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>>76680282
Alright anon, I'll try to self improve

>>76680541
I've seen Mad Men already m8, I don't exactly have Jon Hamm's face

>>76680658
Yeah I am more comfortable online (to nobody's surprise). I know I can get better with practice, it's just very hard and slow.

>>76681502
I agree with you there. I'm a very private person anyway (no social media) and I don't have the gall/attraction to pull it off.
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>>76680971
Find a wingman, won't be a problem
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>>76681611
>If you didn't like a girl who liked you back growing up then you're a fuck ugly cunt and nobody wants your penis anyway.
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>>76681455
I used to be emotionless and edgy years ago.

In the real world I have enough willpower to suppress my feels and get on with life. Work, go to the gym, socialise with friends

Since nofap. I cry every night when I'm alone. But it's better than no feelings at all.
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>>76676767
has anyone tried visiting that site
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>>76681672
same I don't even care about sex like when I was younger
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>>76681576
Agreed, meet women through friends. But it's a start.
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>>76677806
And then when you marry her she will instantly turn butch whore like the rest
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Take it from someone who has been around:

>sex is overrated

The chase, the staring her in the eye knowing that youll end up fucking, but both are pretending to be cool about it, is 100% more erotic than the actual act.

Maybe its my 90s upbringing with soft-core porn that gave me a warped idea of sex, but take it from me lads. Youre not missing out.

99% of women dont know how to be sexy. Sure, theyll look hot if youre into them, but they dont know how to look sexy while queefing and making a dumb face.

Furthermore, sex is very paradoxical. If you have "chemistry" aka "shes into you", the first 10 times will be amazing. Youll get super hard, come huge loads and will be crazy for more. Then eventually. youll grow bored of it, or youll get together, but the "magic" aka "oxytocin" will be gone.

So the idea of sex is what keeps us going, not the act itself.

Focus on life. Focus on hobbies and enjoy the ride.

At age 50 noone fucks anymore, unless you got enough money for good hookers.
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>>76676767
MGTOW faggot detected

real men dont give a fuck what women think
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>>76677498
>>76677570
>Sex totally like, just doesn't really matter man
>t. Person who's had tons of sex

Every time
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>>76681611
>If you didn't like a girl who liked you back growing up then you're a fuck ugly cunt and nobody wants your penis anyway.
???????????
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>>76680908
If you been at all penetrated or did penetrating penis to ass you are not a virgin.
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>>76681829
So you only feel when you don't fap?
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>>76681611
You don't have to put us down even more m8
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>>76676767

pretty much

you're only alpha if you fuck to impregnate a decent woman who would raise your children as your wife

anything else you're being more destructive to the white race than if you didn't fuck it
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>>76681579
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSdXpiL-d8U

Never giving up
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>>76676767
29 yr old virgin checking in
>i'll be 30 next month
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>>76676767
So what's the number? Prostitutes or some kinda love advice hotline?
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>>76682159
Congrats on your mastery of the arcane
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>>76677806
This is shit. We aren't chasing anyone, in part because the ugliest girl who ever lived thought she was a twelve and deserved a body-building brain surgeon.
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>>76676767
>He thinks sex exists
When will this meme die?

Sex does not exist.

If you THINK sex exists, you are a retard.

WHO in their right mind would get naked in front of someone else, put the 2 nastiest parts of their bodies together and proceed to perform animistic positions.

You would have to be mentally ill to do such a vile act.

I don't even think the mentally ill would actually do, because it simply does not exist.

EVERY human being on this Earth as we speak is a ''''''''''virgin''''''''''' because sex is a product of our imagination.

>But anon, then how are babies made.
Simple.

All you need to do is be male and touch a female's hand and hope for the best. If you two are compatible, your cells will attach to hers and go through the bloodstream to the ovaries and a baby is created.

As I said, simple.

This nonsensical notion that sex exists is beyond me, nobody has sex, no one.

Anyone who brags about having sex is a complete and utter liar, no ifs and r buts about it.

If you claim to have sex, just stop saying that. We all know you're bullshitting for attention and it makes you out to be an incredibly beta loser.

There is no fucking, sex, kissing, making out or anything of the sort, PERIOD.
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>>76681178
I'm 25 and I feel the same. The prospect of sex (that is, losing my virginity) feels more like a dreadful responsibility than a thing to enjoy. I feel completely inadequate. I feel ugly even though I'm showered in complements. That feeling of ugliness goes into overdrive when I think of the prospect of sex - Am I too lank and unfit? Am I too hairy? Is my dick too average? Do I smell? Will I be disheveled and disgusting after sex? Am I off-putting? There is no way I want to be naked in front of someone.

I'd also never want to lose my virginity to a non-virgin, if only because of the feeling of inadequacy. How can an inexperienced person provide any satisfaction whatsoever to someone as experienced as every female my age? It's pretty intimidating.

I've heard from my own mother (thanks) that "9 sexual partners by 25 is really not many". So as every day passes I feel more inadequate and incapable of keeping companionship.

I don't know whether to blame society, the media, the jews, or myself.
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>>76681930
Plus you realize it's a roulette game of gross bodies and even grosser vaginas
That's why people get into weird shit because after a few times you realize there's a good chance this it's gonna be gross and regrettable
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>>76681901
yeah, I guess. I can't see a lot of the socially awkward guys ITT going out to the bar and slaying pussy.

again, more advice: if you're a guy in this thread that fits that description, just pretend to be confident, fake it till you make it. if you can pull it off, you'll have some success with women and that leads to real confidence.

>>76681672
this is my position. me and my friends like to hang out but if its a boring night people will usually want to go to the bar to pick up chicks and I can't be bothered to do that anymore. bars are a big fat ripoff, too
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>>76676767
Hoes love bbc more than us. We have to hang it up
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>>76676767
https://soundcloud.com/fecshrooms/a666s
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>>76682274
Yourself, you're being autistic
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>>76682097
It was more than no feels. Like don't care.

I was overweight and unhealthy. No fap made me aware of what I was. Making have this urge to train everyday And gave me healthy control of my testosterone. I lost weight. And it made me hopeful again.

I don't ever want to no feel again
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>>76682256
I like this post.
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>>76682256
Noice
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>>76677259
That's because we are weak whitebois. Blacks are the best at sex. They have the biggest cocks. Sex is great for them and the women they fuck. But for us it sucks. We cant make the women we love cum. Our dicks are so small that our women will cheat.
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>>76678407
>If I really wanted to, I could go out tonight and fuck a slut who's name I don't even know. So if you're a virgin then something must clearly be wrong with you on multiple levels.

you just contradicted yourself in the same sentence.
what a faggot
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>>76682159
Any powers yet mr wizard?

>>76682274
I have a lot of those insecurities too anon. I blame myself. I've always lacked self-esteem.
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>>76681512
Tip for having successful relationships: find a girl who sucks shit at lying and finds computers hopelessly confusing.

My fiancee can't keep a secret to save her life. Like, if she said something sorta mean about me to her best friend she'll blurt it out at dinner the next evening. She can't be assed to set a password on her phone and I legitimately don't think she knows how to clear her browser history or delete her texts, doesn't really care if I look. I'll admit it, I've gone looking and occasionally seen shit I really shouldn't have seen, but thank god, nothing cheating-related. I suppose it's technically possible that it's all an act and that she's actually the most conniving woman to walk the planet, but if so, she's kept it up since she was practically a teenager, and at that point if I haven't caught on I really only have myself to blame.

So seriously, guys: if you want peace of mind in your relationship, find a girl who's too scattered to keep a lie going and who's technologically illiterate. Just a word to the wise. Maybe then you wouldn't feel the need to post >cuck this and >cuck that constantly.
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>>76682274
>I've heard from my own mother (thanks) that "9 sexual partners by 25 is really not many"
I can guarantee you that is indeed many.
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>>76682321
>just pretend to be confident, fake it till you make it. if you can pull it off,

I see this said a lot, but how? Should I just try to mimic people? Won't I come off as insincere and odd?
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>>76682601
t. the guy who always accidentally quotes the wrong post
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>>76682601
Your fiance is only deleting her naughty texts, cuck
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>>76682274
Your mom is a slut, I'm sorry.
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>tfw no gf
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>>76682460
It sounds like you've managed to put yourself in a position that might lead to improvement. I wish I could do the same, nofap doesn't really change my life at all, I'm too far gone.
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>>76682753
True but it sounds like everyone else is too.
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>>76682735
Like I said, that's technically a possibility!
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>>76682217
thanks senpai.
no sex outside of marriage for me.
but the thread is right, male virgins are looked down upon by women.
even virgin women don't want virgin men.

wtf
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>>76676767
those fucking digits
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With how women are I'm glad I'm gay
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>>76678640
>Talk about FORD, Family. Occupation. Relationships. And Dreams.
>Don't talk about RAPE. Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics.
Simple. Actionable advice. Well done /pol/
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>>76676767
gays are gods
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>>76676767
Virgnity is a dirty word because of my fellow bitter robots, who have nothing to offer, and do nothing to better themselves and still expect pussy to rain down on them.
mosts men through out history died virgins, hell most did not even procreate.

any female that uses this as an insult, is just being self conscious of the amount of dicks that have been inside of her.

I have only told one girl in real life I am virgin.
she has been trying none stop to fuck me.
quite disgusting honestly.
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>>76679369
Did the universe have any answers to life questions? It seems to just shit on me instead of answering my questions.
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>>76681512

Where did you meet your husband?
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>Tfw mom and dad were each other's first partners
>tfw there is no way it's possible for that to happen in this era
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>>76682274
easy does it man, just relax. you're working yourself into a tizzy over nothing

when you eventually meet the girl you lose your v-card to, just don't have a seizure at the thought of being inadequate. don't tell her you're a virgin because then that might scare her off or something

>>76682665
for some people, talking to themselves helps build charisma. I did it at first to build charisma, now its a habit.

what kind of guy would the ideal version of yourself be? work to make yourself more like him, and act like him.
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Honestly who cares. I don't think about it that often. I do want a gf but if that happens it happens.

Bottom line I'm awful with people in general and especially women. A lot of women plain don't like me from first sight, I rarely have that issue with guys.

I kind of hate women sometimes anyway. My mother was/is a bitch and women just seem disloyal and shallow to me. My biggest fear would be to open up to someone and then have them totally fuck my over somehow.

At least with my bros that I've known for years we can talk about anything and I feel secure.

But yeah, as for sex it would be nice but it's simply not on my priority list in day to day life.
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Lost it a month ago after struggling a while, now seeing the girl every couple days

Heres what I learned: If you want sex and aren't getting you are either a cripple or have psychological problems that must be solved, you are Unconsciously CHOOSING to not have sex
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>>76682573
>Any powers yet mr wizard?
nope. no powers.
>>76683120
>she has been trying none stop to fuck me.
hang in there senpai
i've also had sluts throw themselves at me but i've never fucked with them
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>>76682256
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Sex is a great way to sell products. Advertisers like to convince how great sex is so they can sell you stuff that will purportedly get you more sex.

Lot’s of idiots will blatantly listen to whatever advertisers tell them. So you have a lot of people overvaluing sex, and pretending it was good when it wasn’t.

That said, sex can be really, really great. It can also be smelly nasty awkward shit.
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>25 KHV

I only ever feel bad about being a virgin when it comes up around women. If I were smarter I'd just lie.
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>>76683377
Do you hate life
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>>76683162
>for some people, talking to themselves helps build charisma. I did it at first to build charisma, now its a habit.
>what kind of guy would the ideal version of yourself be? work to make yourself more like him, and act like him.

kek I actually do talk to myself a lot already, helps me unwind my thoughts and reflect on the day gone by.

I suppose a more ideal version of myself would be calmer and more sociable, more active and outgoing, more commanding. I'll try to work on that.
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>>76683609
You're a smart and sensitive young man
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>>76683624
nope.
i have a great career (electrical engineering)
bachelor's, master's degrees
i have some money in the bank
i don't smoke, drink, or do drugs (never have)
i play guitar
i have investments.
i love God with all my heart.

life is good senpai

happiness comes from God, not from a slut
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>>76683771
I just want to give a shit about something.
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>>76683848
Cool
You will have a great wife someday
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God is good all the time.
All the time God is good.
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>>76683848
Honestly, man, the fact that to you women = sluts is a big part of your problem.
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>>76683728
glad I could help
>>76683912
get a constructive hobby.
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>>76677099
>I don't want forgettable sex with a stranger who does not respect me.

Yes. Yes you do.
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>>76684127
How is forgettable sex even possible? Is that just a woman thing?
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>>76683848
>happiness comes from god, not a slut

Somehow you managed to tip a fedora while simultaneously being religious. I'm impressed as shit.
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I'M SO LONELY. OH GOD.
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>>76684023
He has no problem, he has a good life
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>>76684256
It's an attitude thing, go talk to people and stop being autistic
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>lost virginity last year
Feels good to get that gorilla off your back mane
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26 year old virgin reporting:

after finally overcoming my social anxieties, i've been going out quite a lot for the past 2 years. At least six women showed strong interest in me, some were random encounters and some were more or less friends of other friends.

Every time I recognized their interest I got so shitscared that I disappeared from the situation.

Two of the women were top tier, especially a dark haired german-austrian medicine student goddess.

We went partying with the same crowd a few times and I already had a feeling that she was checking me out. One night she approaches me and demands dancing in a very distinctive way.Guess what: I wasn't into dancing that night, unlucky her.

Story of my life.
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>>76683954
thanks. i had a good girl but i messed it up.
>>76684260
thanks for sticking up for me.

>>76684023
sorry, i was just raised different than most people

>>76684217
>Somehow you managed to tip a fedora while simultaneously being religious. I'm impressed as shit.
kek. i dont know if you're insulting me or giving me a compliment.
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>>76684256
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3 years away from wizardry. I'm past the point of giving a fuck.
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>>76683162
>for some people, talking to themselves helps build charisma. I did it at first to build charisma, now its a habit.
>what kind of guy would the ideal version of yourself be? work to make yourself more like him, and act like him.
This, I was the guy at the back of the party, and when people talked to me I didn't now how to respond. It took 3 years, but I have reached motherfucking Bill Murray levels of social mastery just by imagining what people might say to me, and trying to come up with the best responses possible. Usually they don't say anything you planned on, but it wont matter because your mind is then ready to make something on the spot.
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>>76684588
Me neither.
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>>76684648
Is it like this every night anun?
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>>76684764
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8mPu9RX_Pg
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>>76681837
It isn't a real site, just some advertisement for some degenerate Jewwood movie.
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Thou shall not fornicate
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>>76685194

Thou shall construct wall.
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>>76678340
Considering our sons will most probably be degenerates considering the modern cultural trends, I don't think we are missing out on much.

Just sit back, relax and enjoy watching the end of 4000 years of western civilization.
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Fucking is a skill. If you're a virgin, it just means you'll be bad at sex.

Everybody's first time is awful, whether they want to admit it or not.
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>>76682256
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>>76682256

Wow that was fucking ret-

>Canadian flag

Nevermind
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>tfw this thread is more meaningful and interesting than any current /r9k/'s
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I'm too angry to want to fuck
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>>76678640
>Best advice for getting women ever. Stop trying, just stop completely.

That's what I did and I'm now 39 years old and a virgin.
Well, I didn't exactly do that per se, since I never started trying.
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>>76680855
Is it worth it in the end or should I keep my virginity?
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>>76682256
Can we get the shitposters committee for a vote on making this guy a honorary non-leaf? America votes yes.
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>>76678330
I wish I was you. I just turned 26 and I probably masturbate 3 times a day on average, much more than I did even when I was 16.
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>>76678119
>I've come to grips with the soul crushing loneliness

27 here, still working on this

Tell me your secrets
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>>76686214
r9k is a shit board
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>>76686554
Stop living your life based on what other people expect you to do. Improve the things about yourself that YOU care about.
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>>76686554

Become schizoid
I haven't wanted to talk to anyone in real life or have a relationship or friends for 15 years now, instead I love being alone
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>>76676767
>50 year old bitter virgin
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from the popular view of love in the afterlife: he says that if two people who were together in life weren't really in love, then they won't be together in heaven either. describes incompatible couples as gradually growing farther and farther apart. Each is attracted to people with whom they have more in common: "Like are drawn toward like." However, if two people are truly in love, they will grow closer to each other in heaven.

If people in the afterlife find themselves incompatible with their former partners, or if they never experienced that kind of deep love while on earth, they can find their match in heaven

So a spiritual marriage happens when two people who embody these complementary ideas come together, each bringing different perspectives to the union but at the same time like-minded in their goals and values. Althougho stresses that only two people can share this state at any one time, he leaves open the possibility that we might have more than one potentially right partner-in other words, that it's not a matter of finding the one person in all the universe who's right for you, but just a matter of finding a person who's right for you. And once partners have chosen each other, he adds, their love brings them closer and closer in the afterlife until they appear to be a single person.

For those who aspire to spiritual union with another person, cautions that true marriage love is very rare in this world. While he stresses that people who are married on earth should respect their vows as a sacred obligation, he also says that most people (married or not!) don't achieve an ideal state until they cross into the afterlife-and maybe not even then. He describes a diverse heaven where the differences between people help to create a greater perfection. People who would rather live alone can do so forever if they like, but people who want a spiritual union can always find that too.

>ywn love someone so much you both become one beautiful spirit in the afterlife
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>>76677570
Feels good that another man had his penis in the same hole as you? Fucking beta cuck.
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this thread should be banned like the mgtow one

MODS
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>>76686554
Self improvement and hobbies. Get reading, coding, playing guitar, stuff like that.
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>>76687029
This is an important thread
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>>76685664
Society just feels very alien to me. I wonder if there's any time period where I would've been comfy.
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>>76678119
Too ugly or too beta to get pussy?
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>>76677806
This. fuck high standards
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>>76687190
>>76686943
>>76686803
Having fun shitting up the thread you fucking cuck swede? Don't you have some Muhammads to welcome into your village?
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>>76687185
I often wonder that too. At least in this era of chaos and disintegration I am free to find my own happiness.
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>>76677806
yup

as a non-virgin failed normie that browses r9k this is the conclusions I've come to
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>>76687348
Feel the butthurt, beta virgin.
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>>76687518
I don't want or try to get a 10/10 woman, they just intimidate me. my standards are pretty low anyway. Even now I'm considering just going for a fatty. But women of all types seem to dislike me.
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>tfw lost virginity at 8 years old
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>>76686520
Just castrate yourself, you will never want to jack your virgin dick again.
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>>76687830
Was your asshole sore after your brother raped you?
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>>76687830
was your uncle cute?
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