hey /pol/, how many of you are/were married ? do you regret it ?
>>73727314
Some days it's the best decision I ever made, some days it's the worst.
>>73727314
Jesus Christ what a fluid druid
>>73727314
I regret only having kids. I did not know we will be a German working camp and life is not a movie.
yes, I was married quite young
yes, I regret it
my ex left me a shitton of debt
>>73727762
Based Iberian genes.
>>73727314
Are you married to a hot Muslim women? I'll trade you a Western prostitute for your hot Muslim wife.
>>73727396
Admit it bud, your life would probably be royally fucked without her and we all feel the same but we all say the same shit as you.
>>73727396
i feel that way when my woman is bitching for hours on end, until the post-argument sex
married... 5 1/2 years in... starting to regret it to be quite honest family.
wife hasn't worked the whole time. we don't have kids. she doesn't speak english well. she does all the housework/cooking/cleaning/laundry but lately i feel like it's not enough. bedroom has been dead the past couple months.
i could see it getting ugly soon. or not, who knows.
>>73727314
always nice to include a poll
http://www.strawpoll.me/10188279
http://www.strawpoll.me/10188279
http://www.strawpoll.me/10188279
ive never had a gf and i want to kill normies
>>73728307
>bedroom has been dead the past couple months
then take her in and fuck her and knock her up
also why the fuck did you marry a chcik who can't speak english properly?
>>73728307
>she doesn't speak english well
well that's where you fucked up.
you are a traitor to your nation, and you deserve an unhappy marriage
Got married at 23.
Divorced at 25.
Regret it? No.
Would I do it again? No.
>you will never marry a traditional virgin qt who wants 4-to-5 children and who wants to be a stay-at-home mother
Why bother?
>>73727396
Couldn't say it better myself Anon
Not getting married till I want to have kids. Not having kids until the schools change.
>>73727314
I will never rmarry and my gf is ok with this.
>>73728512
she can speak it well enough for conversation, maybe well enough for a shitty job. i dunno, love? fear of dying alone?
>>73728593
dated many american girls. every single one cheated on me or lied about tons of shit or was completely mental. so fuck them.
>>73728865
You sound like a real winner.
>not good enough for american women
>get a colored slut from overseas
>still the marriage falls apart
top keke
Married my high school sweetheart when I was 27. We've been married for a year but we've been together for 11 years.
Regret nothing, best decision I've ever made in my life.
>>73728865
>i dunno, love? fear of dying alone?
Literally the worst reason to get married
Got married, Got Divorced. Shit sucked
>Married 10 years
>Slowly the sex started getting rarer and rarer
>NEw job means I work longer
>She quits her job to be a stay at home mom
>We dont have kids
>A year passes
>more fighting, she stops cooking, cleaning, etc
>Always comes home late
>Try to work it out, met with bullshit
>She says she found someone better, hands me divorce papers
>Looking like alimony is in the works for me, lawyer says
JUST
I got my marriage license on monday, waiting a little bit for the ceremony and get the certificate.
My only regret would be that I won't be able to fuck girls like in OP's pic, but my girl is a good 7/10
>>73727314
32. Divorced. Was married for 6 years. Together for 9.
Consciously I know it was the right thing to end it. That if I hadn't I'd feel so much worse. Maybe even have suicided. Grateful not to have brought kids into that mess.
On the other hand. So lonely. Haven't been touched by another human being besides incidental contact in going on three years. Soul deep longing for intimacy of any kind.
Wanted to be a father, still do, but this world is fucked and could not in good conscience bring a conscious being into it.
My social skills are pretty much zero. No idea how to properly talk with people much less pick up girls.
So yeah it could be worse. But I'm probably going to kill myself soon, knowing I'll be alone the rest of my life otherwise.
I was with my ex for 9 years 16-25.
We would have been common law if we didn't move states, but we never married.
We had 3 kids together, she left when our son was 4 months old. She had a complete and total mental breakdown brought on by the postpartum depression mixing with her other mental issues.
2/10 would not go through again.
>>73727396
Fpbp
>>73729169
>marry a crackpot
>off of women for good
lol idiot
>>73728865
You sound like a pathetic motherfucker. Grow up.
>>73728948
why would i want to be good enough for american women? being good enough for feminist little princesses that will ruin your life in the blink of an eye for no other reason than "you didn't pay enough attention to me," yeah i'm glad to not be good enough for that shit.
>>73728606
I really pray that shit like this wont happen to me but if it would be really that case, I would just murder the bitch.
>>73728792
i was prepared for anger, but not for this
>>73729437
I never said I was off of women lol. I just said I wouldn't go through it again if I knew what I was in for.
I learned a lesson, and have a better understanding of my standards.
>>73728374
>http://www.strawpoll.me/10188279
No and I don't regret it. Doesn't mean I won't get married.
Married with a few kids. Great decision, changed my life immeasurably for the better. My wife and I get along great, she's a conservative country girl so we understand each other pretty well.
>>73728792
this always really gets to me and my parents never divorced. feel bad for you bros who have divorced parents, that must have been shit
>>73727314
I'm married and get a ton of pussy from other married women. Both being married bonds you together and having no strings attached makes the experience even better. The best sex I have is fucking the wife of another man knowing it is wrong. It's the fucking best.
>>73727314
Currently married. I don't know, sometimes I regret it, sometimes I don't. When we got married, the nagging about stupid shit got ramped up to 11, and sex went down quite a bit. Other than that though, our relationship is pretty good. She's supportive about the big things, and we have the same basic goals in life. I probably wouldn't care about the nagging if I just got my fucking dick wet more than once or twice a week.
>>73727314
Married for 10 years here. I do regret it. If I were to give advice on marriage, I would say do everything that you think you're supposed to do in a marriage, just don't get married. Live together, have kids, be faithful, own a home together, or whatever it is you think marriage is... just don't actually go through the ritual or the legal process. (Obviously, this is a problem in some states as some of them consider you married under certain circumstances even if you haven't undergone the ceremony)
My wife and I had lived together for 2 years in bliss, and then everything turned to shit literally three WEEKS after we tied the knot. If it wasn't for the kids, I would have left long ago.
>>73728307
>>73728865
where is she from?
>>73727314
I'm working up to the idea; adventuring, although way cool, tends to be irregular when you have the means and impossible when you don't
The only thing I regret is having developed a codependency. I mean I could do the things she does for me myself but it's easier not to
Being married or in a long term relationship: You need to put in 110% effort for 200% of the time for something that will only ever be "ok" at best.
>>73729091
You're only 32 dude, figure your shit out
>>73727762
>>73728055
she's actually mixed, US (probably germanic)/Colombian
>>73729529
you sound so god damn pathetic
>>73729884
This was really depressing
sometimes I feel like everyone on this board is a fucking boomer planning on retiring. what happened to you /pol
I have never even had a gf never mind a wife.
>>73727314
I was married.
It was a big mistake, lost my best friend.
Got a girl again now but not trying to make that mistake again. Not mixing finances.
>>73730290
it's a net positive ime, you learn something every time, just like with anything else, put yourself out there anon
>tfw married with no kids and go to the gym instead of listening to little shits scream all day.
>>73729949
glorious nippon. honestly we'll probably end up moving back there in the next 3-4 years. i'll teach english, whatever, should have a ton saved up by then (150k+). we'll both be in our late 30s and who knows, we'll see what happens.
all in all i don't regret getting married, definitely love my wife, she's really a perfect match for me. we're just in a lull right now, partly over my resentment of her not working and she definitely misses japan, can't blame her.
>>73727396
this desu desu
>>73730436
Too poor, too ugly. Not going to happen.
>>73728307
What race and nationality?
I was married, had a son, got divorced after 6 years.
>>73730495
>>73730527
Nevermind.
>>73729944
>My wife and I had lived together for 2 years in bliss, and then everything turned to shit literally three WEEKS after we tied the knot. If it wasn't for the kids, I would have left long ago.
Ha. Been with since 15, lived together for 10 years since we were 20. Everyone says "been so long, why not married?"
THAT IS WHY. THREE. FUCKING. WEEKS.
Fell for the "taxes" meme. Fig'd I'd be safe, 15 years invested. One day I might just leave. When she turns the kids into assholes that treat me like she does. They respect me now, but the way she tries to undermine anything i say will probably change that one day.
>>73730245
its actually this guys
>>73729008
but with no kids
>>73730163
Jesus Christ, that has to be the most perfect body ive seen.
I kind of want kids, but after seeing how the divorce of my parents worked out, I'm quite reluctant of any relationships
>>73729552
yeah desu. I feel like this kinda shit only happens to you if you let it i.e. you're incapable of going mental
>>73730155
And what would you fucking suggest Mr. Experience social director?
>>73730447
>>tfw married with no kids and go to the gym instead of listening to little shits scream all day.
In the same boat, but while I don't miss the screaming stuff (I hated kids my own age growing up, always wanted to hang with the older crowd), you may be like me and reach a point where the feeling of "what am I doing this all for" creeps in.
Too late for us now in mid-40s, and with multiple businesses that may eventually be able to be passed on, it's weird wondering what to do with the empire you built when there's nobody in line waiting to take it over.
I have a love/hate relationship with not having kids. I want a legacy, but I just don't like handling kids/hearing kids/seeing kids most of the time, which means I'm pretty much fucked.
Divorced twice. Currently working on the third.
Current future wife actually said, "There is literally no reason for a man to be in a monogamous relationship in this day and age. He gains nothing and stands to lose everything."
I was a bit smarter this time around and got a young one and redpilled her hard for the last 5 years.
Even still, there are days when I just don't think it's worth it.
Marriage is dumb from a financial standpoint. Buy a home under your name and rent it to your "wife". Use your parent's address or something else for your own address so the government doesn't know that you are living together. Have her apply for government gibs under the guise that she is a single mother without a job. Roll in the free welfare money.
>>73727314
>hey /pol/, how many of you are/were married ? do you regret it ?
OldMidwestFagHere
Been married 25+ years
Kids- 2 are college graduates (PhD, and MBA), Other 2 are in college.
Wife (blonde, blue eyes, well built) is still sexy as hell and we fuck almost every day (except those few days amonth and 1 of those I usually get a BJ)
Me- Own an engineering business.
Regret it? There are times when I get hit on (I'm still quite handsome, and wealthy) but I've never strayed. Never wanted to take home a disease to the Mother of my children.
THIS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU, TOO.
>>73728650
>i don't know that feel
>>73727958
Damn stir up those feels pole, just fucking stir em
>>73727314
>Algeria.
>>73730930
>There is literally no reason for a man to be in a monogamous relationship in this day and age.
sounds like she's easing you into the idea of being cucked, you dumbass
>>73730512
master of your destiny m8
>>73730758
>mfw shitty family
>i lived as a chess piece in their constant bickering.
>dad loved me but left because mom was a hysterical mess, that could start screaming for leaving the shower wet.
This left me quite a sour taste about relationships, i dont care about being a KHV at 20, i still would love for someone to be happy knowing i existed
>>73728792
I wasn't ready for these feels anon.
>>73730930
Test her resolve. Dont marry or get jount bank accounts. Use that quote of hers if she asks why
>>73731145
I'm happy you exist senpai
>>73731059
Not even a little.
She is the most faithful, loyal person I've ever met. She just can't understand why any man in his right mind would put up with all the bullshit women put them through...herself included.
>>73728077
By Quranic logic the exchange rate is 2 Muslim wives for 1 non Muslim, seeing as how one Muslim woman is only worth 0.5 of a man.
You're getting swindled mate, but be careful, you break the seal on the first wife and soon enough you have a Harem eating through your assets.
>>73730758
Same boat. I promised my gf to make her pregnant when she turns 26. So in 2 years.
I just don't know anymore. I feel like I don't want to look back in 15 years and think to myself: what a stupid decision you fool.
Why can't this fucking life give me a break?
Why is this world full of insanity?
Refugees, Liberals, Soros, female stupidity, Feminism.
I feel like I'm surrounded by insanity. My instincts tell me life shouldn't be this hard.
>>73731145
I'm sorry that happened to you
>>73730163
I thought they were Chilean?
Anyway mixed latinas both her and her sister are fluid druids
>>73730086
I want this to be real, feminism wants this to be real
>>73731419
Put the spic outta his misery, amirite
>>73730879
I let go of the desire for children after seeing what having them did to so many of my friends, I'm far too selfish anyway.
>>73730225
>Does turning the volume down on a game boy color save battery?
pic related
>>73727314
Am married 4+ years. Do not regret. (Because I married a Russian.)
>>73728792
dat pic... just fucked my day up...
>>73730959
fuck man congrats. sounds like an amazing life.
>>73730879
Take me in anon, I'll be your step son you never knew you wanted
>>73731779
yes, it uses less energy to power parts. pic unrelated
Been married for 10 years, everything is still pretty awesome. We have very similar senses of humor, outlooks, and political views. Not much conflict, and both of us take the time to do little things for one another often.
Thinking about having a kid but we both enjoy having a stupidly large amount of disposable income, freedom to go wherever we want whenever we want, and having no responsibilities past work.
We thought this feeling would go away but even as we passed that milestone where all of our female friends went crazy and needed to have a baby. Whatever, we have a few years before it becomes an issue to conceive.
Meet the right girl and life only gets better as time goes on.
>>73732070
sound awesome, how old are you anon?
>>73732057
>that hole
>>73732057
What happens if after divorce the man become a a NEET?
>>73729866
>The best sex I have is fucking the wife of another man knowing it is wrong. It's nigger-tier because I'm a filthy nigger.
Some days, when I can't do things I'd like I regret it, but that's just being selfish. Having a home and children is one of the greatest joys in the world. It gives you purpose. Also I appreciate my old hobbies like vidya, tabletop, and 4chan where as before they were just vices.
>>73732070
>>73731803
>>73730959
Congrats for your luck.
>>73732070
Do it eventually man. I regret not having a second child, even though my wife wanted one at the time
>>73731732
Keep making excuses, virgins. But women are only as good as their boyfriends/husbands are strong. My wife would be an utter shithole if left to her own devices. That's why I run my house the way nature intended- with the man as king.
>>73732192
I'm 37, she's 32.
>>73732243
In Germany the man gets the money.
I know Germany is cucked in every way except marriage laws.
My uncle married a wealthy girl and cheated on her 8 years later. After she divorced she was furious that she had to pay HIM monthly.
They even have a kid. He lives the DegenEET life. Basically drugs sex and parties paid by his ex wife. Dog bless equality
>>73727396
First post is best post.....as always.
>>73732473
I'm sure we will, we just haven't had that trigger moment yet.
If we do have kids our plan is to have them relatively one after the other. I was less than 2 years difference from my brother and it has made all the difference in my life.
>>73732666
That's good to hear. Glad there is a place in the world were the woman gets cucked.
>>73732666
sounds cool Satan, more reason to marry a German qt
>>73732666
Its because she earned more and he was a lazy fuck or earned lower. Just because he cheated on her does not undo his 8 years of commitment. Its not like the american law (guess)
Married for little over a year now. There have been some really hard days when I feel less like a husband and more like a psychiatrist, dealing with the emotional ups and downs with my wife instead of enjoying being married. I can't remember the last time I got to spend the day doing things I enjoy without feeling guilty for not spending enough time with her.. I really really miss playing video games.
However, I've experienced so many wonderful and new things with her that it is worth it. I just wish she would sit down and play a video game once or twice a week so I don't feel like I'm neglecting my babysitting duties.
I truly do love her with all my heart and would never cheat on her. I'll do anything for her, even though I feel miserable some of the time because I can't relax.
Got married at 23. When I was 25 nearly 26, 2 months after she passed her degree with the desired result and only working for a short amount of time whilst living off my money, 4 police burst into my house and arrest me on suspicion of rape.
Got locked up overnight, interviewed with a public defender (duty sol) present. Released on bail, all electronic equipment seized. Walked back home in pyjamas to find all her stuff gone - police shuttled her off to a woman's refugee.
Had to cycle to a shop to buy a throwaway phone to call my parents. They drove 250 miles next day and I went back to my home town whilst on bail and took 2 weeks off work where I considered suicide for the first time in my life.
When I returned to where I lived the police gave me my electronics back, and 5 weeks later the entire case was dropped. Ended up in the family court because she took a restraining order against me accusing me of all sorts of abuse emotionally, physically and financially. I contested it and won.
Result - she applied for permanent British residency via the Domestic Violence Visa concession route, while I have a record of arrest for rape which I am in the process of getting removed (already had DNA and fingerprints deleted). Managed to keep my job, she left me with thousands of pounds of debt.
I met someone new though and have been with her for 7 months. Took her virginity and she knows about the shit I went through.
Ex-wife was Russian by the way - avoid (P.S. not mail order, she was highly educated and mentally fucked up).
Pic related - my bail cancellation
>>73727396
FPBP.
>>73733038
Forgot pic
>>73732552
In turkey people say "behind every strong man is a strong women (mother/wife)". But you are right, for a good relationship both partner must contribute.
>>73732860
Do it faggot. This country is not worth saving anymore.
My advice: Go on the internet and start an affair with an old German woman.
Sure you have to fuck an ugly bitch but now you're in Germany.
Next step is visit Berlin a lot. Or any big city for that matter.
Seek an ultra liberal girl and start an affair and make her fall in love with you.
Now make up a story how you got a letter from the feds that you have to go back to Algeria.
Ask her to marry you because you believe in your future together.
Divorce and enjoy being paid to fuck German women.
>>73728792
>>73731393
I don't know why you would promise something like that like it's a puppy. It's probably the biggest decision in your life and I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, but you shouldn't do something like that just because you promised to.
>>73731145
>severely depressed mother who is all alone having financial, emotional and family issues
>just sits at home in the weekends sleeping or watching tv depressed
>father lives alone close by in effectively a trailer park (small house)
>mental issues and getting old
>had a gf but she's gone, few friends but getting sick
>both have financial issues
>father hates my mother guts for some reason
>every time he sends an angry email, mother is an emotional wreck
I kind of keep my distance from everyone, sort of in peace with being lonely now.
>>73733038
That's fucked up lad
>>73733086
you should have raped her harder
>>73733086
>>73733038
Jesus christ why can't I be gay
>>73728865
Everyone dies alone.
Im married and love every minute. We dated for 13 years and have been married for almost 3.
>>73733038
Bloody hell, mate, I will pour one out for you.
Dated a girl 10 years, she made 150k I made 70k, fought the whole 10 years. Broke up best thing.
With current girlfriend for 2 years, downgrade on looks and money. But she fuck like a champ and never gets pissed off.
Thinking about ending it cause she just took a job that's less money because it's less stress...
Senpai I need your opinion ...she's been married twice with one kid who's 12.
I'm a solid 7/10 and make 150k/yr what should I do.
>>73731145
i am excited to see you new wall senpai
>>73733145
>behind every strong man is a strong women
that might be true, but only because it's the man who is strong.
Women are followers, men are leaders.
>>73730959
Bless you anon
>>73733559
Do what you think is best for you.
Sex and no fighting is a godsend believe me.
If you feel like you could fuck other women with easy then do it if that is what your heart desires.
>>73733038
>Russian wife
Are there any good Russian wives? I've never heard of a story that ended in a happily-ever-after for a Russian relationship.
>>73729091
nah. man loneliness sucks, but get into some stuff like video games, synthesizers, or get a dog or a cat, that will help out alot. hang in there :)
>>73727314
Long term GF. Daren't get married!
>>73733419
Oh yeah and at Christmas one of our mutual friends from Lithuania invited me over cause she saw how much shit I was going through.
Whilst in the pub and quite merry she revealed that ex-wife had told her she had met someone new.
We didn't have sex for at least 3 months before this kicked off. And at least 6 months prior she went cold.
If you ever get married and sex is withdrawn by your spouse, just get the fuck out ASAP because that is the number one sign you're about to be fucked over.
Luckily I have a supportive family and decent job that kept me distracted.
I hit up tinder after and dated so many women to cleanse myself of that filth after. Worked quite well.
I could tell the police were taking her claims pretty half-heartedly (I work in a prestigious field)
>>73727314
I have a gf but I want to fuck other women. It sucks. She's great personality -wise but I crave other women.
>>73730086
whats wrong with white people
>>73733038
>Ex-wife was Russian by the way - avoid
can confirm from the little experience i hade with Russian chicks, they were all fucked in the head, there is no middle ground.
>>73733559
>married twice
See >>73732421
Its a trap.png
>>73733201
damn Hans, thats depressing get your shit together bruh, you can do it
>>73733038
Sorry for all this shit man
>>73733722
I could, but the whole not fighting is what keeps me in, and the sex, that too.
My knew that the first chick that was nice to me I would settle on.
I'll give it the summer, but my ass is getting old and i want kids.
>>73732421
>lowest divorce rate:
>agriculture engineers
Tfw im an agricultural engineer
Lmao good shit. I should get married
>>73733038
For a foreigner, marrying a Russian or Ukrainian girl (EU is canceling visas with them, so you'll be seeing those a lot soon) is a BAD idea. Those that go abroad, unless they have a really rich family - they can totally be qt and caring and all for a long time, even for a few years, but they are totally after your money and citizenship.
Morality is not very high around here, and many girls consider all foreigners to be moneybags (which is not very far from true considering how the local currencies have fallen recently and how low the local wages are).
>>73727314
not yet
>in my 30ies
>had many gfs and mostly fuckfriends/fucking around
>unclde of one
>another one coming soon from another sibling
>best friend arranged marriage today
yeah seriously, I regret falling for the memes and not just starting getting married and kids at 20 as our parents, even though it would meaning living like in a 3rd wrdl ctry not affording food and soo while studing(most go to rent and books, and you can only earn so much extra. I worked full time on master courses just cheated the system by taking half the courses over longer time).
stoned..
yes I regret it
But I am still a man, I think very much of this now.
>stop fucking around
>find younger qt
>marry
>get children
>4 at least if possible
fucking tempting to steal an nord looking eastern european qt. Though I think it's time to finally nail one of the local cousines for good, that is just smack her up and get it done with.
>>73730512
start working out. Not for the body. For the mind. Fucking do it. And take your life back from these people.
>>73732057
neat
>>73729008
Stay at home mom with no kids?
How did not not suspect this would happen?
>>73730959
I'm on my way there. Thanks for paving the way. Keep plowing, champ.
>>73727314
Worst mistake i ever made
>Dont do it!
>>73729884
Would've killed the cunt if that happened to me,
>>73733559
>she's been married twice with one kid who's 12
We call this "paзвeдeнкa c пpицeпoм" ("divorced and with a wagon") around here. Dump her while you can.
>>73734214
She wasn't from the countryside.
She was middle class from Moscow. Had a degree in Russian Civil Law from Moscow State, and a degree in English Common Law from UK.
Spoke English, Russian, Lithuanian, Polish and German.
She was ok for 3 years until it all turned sour. I was married to her AND her mother pretty much (single mother), and Russian women criticise you for EVERYTHING.
She was mentally unstable as fuck and once she realised she wanted out, she had nothing to lose so took a punt for a way to leave the marriage without sacrificing her ability to continue her legal career in UK and painting herself as a victim as to not lose reputation to friends or family.
I told her I wanted a divorce in the run up to this, which means deportation for her. So that was probably a contributing factor.
>>73727314
>>73730163
She's got a wonderful body, but her head looks like it belongs on a child/teenager. Fucking weird.
>>73727314
Trouble with the goat again Ahmed?
>>73729008
Don't pay that shit. Make like Tyrone and fly! fly away!
>>73734381
this one is fucking universal from all married men in I bet all languages in all countries all over the world.
>Being paranoid I think gov last 30-40 years have tried to break down what was left of the big families/clans/ætts
>>73733038
and this is why i am completely freaked out by commitment despite wanting heaps of kids and dreaming of a family house like my own
>>73727958
you guys definitely get the worst of everything. Now you're sandwiched between a suicidal EU and Russia wanting to regain it's former glory. Good times
>>73734536
Kid lives 8 hours away with the father
>>73727314
Married going on 24 years. Love it. Pick your wife well. 95% of your happiness or 95% of your misery depends on your choice.
>>73730959
>THIS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU, TOO.
>wealthy
Stop being wealthy and see how great your wife is.
>>73727396
Married for 7 years now, this is the best description
>>73727314
Married a girl I met in 7th grade. We're in our mid thirties now and have 4 kids . No regrets.
>>73732057
I dated a girl for 6 years. We broke up about half a year ago.
I'm glad we didn't get married, but I don't regret our relationship.
>>73734725
> kid lives with father
drop her.
>>73733728
>Are there any good Russian wives?
Yes. In Russia. The ones who are not looking to marry a foreigner.
>>73734575
That's a bad thing?
Over 18 is over 18, who cares if she looks like she's 12.
Married at 20 to my 18 year old wife. Am now 26, still happily married. Best decision of my life. She honestly makes me a better person (except we're both raging WN's).
Wouldn't change it for the world. She's pregnant with twins, so we have at least two little shitlords coming into the world. I'm hoping for at least two more.
>>73733336
Try asking your dad why he doesn't like your mom, maybe he just needs someone to talk to.
If he tells you it's personal, insist that you're someone he can trust.
>>73731145
bloody hell are we brothers?
only difference is my father did not leave the house because he thinks it's his property but they scream at each other every moment.
i am 27 desu
>>73730959
sup dad
>>73731393
sounds like someone needs reactionary politics
>>73734575
hummm ?
i think she was like 18 or 19 on that gif
she's a bit older on this one
at least when we all get cucked by islam we won't be paying alimony, or losing anything upon divorce
But fuck islam.
but really. The fact that people consider divorce so easily is wrong. Marriage is supposed to be eternal.
I never want to be divorced.
I don't mind if I never get married; but at all ends I never want to be divorced.
>>73730959
kek wills it
Married an Iranian girl so she could come her to live, her uncle set us up.
It's alright, the language barrier is difficult though.
>>73735086
How did you manage this? Sounds amazing ;_;
>>73727314
>be me
>31
>single
>teacher salary
>tons of disposable income
>play vidya all day
>smoke weed
>fuck 10/10 hookers in TJ about twice a month.
>life is gud.
>cousin
>married some single mom/nurse
>they have a kid
>hes not even sure the kid is his
>they get married
>the nurse eventually has an affair with a security guard at the hospital
>they divorce
>she dumps the two kids off at his place and disappears with her new guy.
>he is now raising two kids, one definitely not his and one probably not his and is 27
>Jesus christ how horrfying.
>>73729091
get a mail-order bride. some eastern-european qt
>>73735086
This sounds comfy as fuck. Wish the best for both of you and your kids m8.
>>73728502
Go in peace.
Been married <1 year and am white Muslim, wife is Iranian. Been pretty good. She's gets shit done around the house and I don't let her wear a hijab inside.
I'm not married but I know my dad regrets married. I asked him once how much the divorce cost him and it was well over $200k.
my fuckface parents literally spent mine and my siblings college fund my grandparents left us to fuck each other over in court.
I worked two jobs to get through college. My sister did the same. My brother didn't even bother.
Fuck divorce, it should be illegal.
>>73729091
go take George Soros and a few Jews with you if you plan on an hero. At least help the cause.
>>73735361
Honestly, got lucky. There are very few women of her caliber in the world, in terms of mix of beauty, intelligence, and traditional outlook (She was a virgin, too).
Your best bet is to find women who are either religious or at least raised around the church and are close with their family.
>>73728650
Maybe because a working spouse is probably the best financial decision you can make, and once kids are in school theres no reason to stay at home with them
>>73734102
I always wanted to own an estate and run a farm. What's your plan?
>>73735575
>am white Muslim
> I don't let her wear a hijab inside.
you blew it, muslim women dont wear hijab at home/around their family
>>73727314
Legit proposing to my girlfriend on Saturday.
I'm a divorce lawyer so I plan to write off the wedding as a work expense.
>>73735554
Many thanks, brother. Can confirm, /comfy/ as fuck. Came home from work to caramelized chicken & quinoa dinner prepared and waiting. Going to pet my dog, spend some time with her and my dog, and have some sex later.
>>73733086
You should get that shit framed dude
>>73727396
This.
>>73735783
looks disgusting but that sounds comfy too
>>73727314 I'm getting married next month and very excited, kek.
>>73735763
>I'm a divorce lawyer so I plan to write off the wedding as a work expense.
Made me chuckle.
>>73735915
Haha, it might look disgusting but I find it tasty.
>>73735448
>play vidya all day
>life is gud.
damn m8 you sure about that?
I want to be married
Im done wading through droves of shallow liberal shit for brains women looking for a good one
>>73731145
>>73735129
mexico and duplicate mexico have the same problems, imagine that
>>73735783
who gives a shit? stop bragging about your typical life to these virgin losers to make yourself feel better
>>73730959
>sheds manly tear
>>73735448
>fucking a hooker
Thats just so gross man
>>73728792
That fucking file name
>>73735971
I claim gifts to other people's wedding as a business expense, with the funds paid out of the firm's general account. I only get 25% deduction (my accountant has it fall under "entertainment", like meals etc, and that is how that deduction works in Canada). Still, if I give $300 at a wedding, I save $75 x .466 = $35 at tax time.
>>73727314
currently married. we've been married for over 5 years, in a relationship for a total of 11 years.
it's starting to fall apart--and when it does i'm dead.
>>73728792
fuck i hope some mengotheirownway faggot made that up
>>73735988
still luckier than me, I do all the cooking
>>73730959
>still fucks almost every day
Married two years, I've known her for 7.
I don't regret a moment of it, no kids currently.
>>73736249
Why not try to change things up a little bit? Take a vacation?
>>73736144
It must be tough, to see others have the things you wish you had. Good luck with your search for love, friendo.
>>73727314
Married in '99. 3 kids - 18, 17 and 13. Zero regrets. Selling the house this summer and buying 40+ acres to build our retirement cabin. Feels good, man.
>>73732243
He'll be thrown in jail for failing to follow the judgment of the court.
>>73734549
>She wasn't from the countryside.
Most girls from the Russian countryside will have problems finding money for the ticket alone, never mind the habitat and other expenses. Also, they are less likely to fuck you over like that (except for the ones that go to "conquer" Moscow or London or whatever).
>She was middle class from Moscow.
Middle class in Moscow is almost dirty-poor by US or UK or Germany standards. An average Moscow salary is about $6k/year.
>Had a degree in Russian Civil Law from Moscow State
That's even worse.
>>73735634
Yep. My wife is very similar. She was raised in a military family. Both her father and her mother were officers in the Navy.
She was a good Christian women who lives to be a good wife and a even better mother. I got lucky.
>>73736255
>I do all the cooking
>>73736355
good point. we have never taken a vacation that didn't involve family obligations. she's a workaholic.
>>73736376
i'm married, and got all that you have and more
i'm just not bragging about what's for supper like a little girl on instagram, as you are.
>>73730959
>married 25 years
>4 kids, one kid has a PhD
When did you have your kids? When you were 16? Did you have her children like ten years before you married her?
>>73736255
>I do all the cooking
>>73731450
They were both born in Kentucky I think then moved to South America.
I regret the first one.
The second one is pretty chill.
>>73736376
Could there be a more attractive family than that pic?
>>73736664
Uh huh. That's why you're so salty.
>>73733559
>Been married twice
> has a kid who's 12, that isn't yours
this isn't a hard decision mate
>>73730959
Go in peace till the end of your days glorious anon. And may Valhalla accept you with open arms when deaths kiss embraces you.
later everybody, i'm headed to marriage counseling. wish me luck!
>>73728792
I call bullshit, or the dad was still a cunt for not visiting his son, I mean cool u gave him letters but why didn't u visit u cunt
>>73736821
I'm working on it. ;)
>>73736731
>>73736606
basically the only thing i do. I kinda enjoy it
>>73736626
Surprise her with two tickets for a cruise ship anon. Trust me.
Surprise is key, rekindle the flame. You have to be the one taking action as a man. Start by buying her flowers randomly tomorrow.
>>73736823
desu maybe I am a bit jealous of your chicken and quinoa
>>73736962
thanks for the advice. i've been so distraught and depressed, i haven't even considered anything other than dying.
>>73732421
>extruding machine operator
>>73729529
I think we figured out the problem in your relationship.
>>73736959
Oh, I'm just giving you shit, anon. A great meal is always worth knowing how to make.
>>73729091
Look up some RSD on YouTube and get better at socializing and eventually u can pick up chicks
>>73736976
Have a photo of my cute pup to cheer you up.
>>73734875
THIS
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>>73737174
Fugg it keeps posting sideways wtf
>>73736959
/pol/ he is french after all, the cooking is probably better than his wife's.
>tfw wife's cook but the best chefs are men
>>73729008
>>She says she found someone better, hands me divorce papers
Ah yes the inevitable conclusion of almost all modern marriages.
I've never had a girlfriend and am 28
>>73736921
The courts have ways of keeping you from your children.
>>73727314
One year anniversary next monday, its pretty damn sweet.
>>73736962
>>73737039
Do not do that. Cruise trips are fantastic, but also quite expensive. Unless money isn't a huge deal, I wouldn't suggest popping something that big out of the blue like that.
Flowers for sure though. Look at her clothes, are they mostly bright coloured? Then I would assume she prefers bright flowers.
>>73729091
>, knowing I'll be alone the rest of my life otherwise.
Meh, you will get over it in a few more years.
It started happening at 36 for me.
>>73728502
If you can't procreate just go on a rampage and kill SJWs, niggers and sandniggers.
>>73737039
It happens man, not just in relationships but in all aspects in life. Slaving to a routine will slowly kill you and affect people around you. You have to mix it up, ESPECIALLY with women. Once they get bored, you're fucking dropped.
Honestly man I cant shill taking a cruise hard enough. If you want I can tell you a lot about it if youve never been on one.
>>73737249
wife is austrian. she cant cook shit
>>73736959
include some garlic, ginger, and lentil or sweet potato.
