http://nypost.com/2016/05/08/bride-wont-sign-prenup-throws-wedding-party-for-poor-instead/
>Yiru Sun was radiant in bridal white Saturday — even though she had called off her wedding at the last minute, instead turning her reception into a feast for the poor.
>The pretty Manhattan insurance executive was supposed to tie the knot in a lavish Upper East Side wedding Saturday. But after balking at the proposed prenup, she turned her heartbreak — and her non-refundable $8,000 reception deposit — into something beautiful: a luncheon for 60 needy kids and their families.
>“I should have been the bride. It was canceled,” Sun told her guests at the elegant Harold Pratt House at East 68th Street and Park Avenue. “Initially I felt frustrated,” said Sun, a vice president at New York Life Insurance, declining to dish about her former betrothed, not even to name him.
>“I don’t want to sign things I don’t feel comfortable with,” is all she’ll reveal of the prenup dust-up.
>>73461969
Typical status signaling
>>73462068
The wedding was status signaling. I actually think the giveaway is worse than that.
>>73461969
Can't trust em.
Don't think for a minute this guy wasn't in the right.
>>73462068
>>73462164
What is this? She just wants people to know she's a cunt?
That guy dodge a bullet, any bitch that won't sign a prenup is in it for your money.
"I should have been the bride. It was canceled."
Yeah, because you canceled it you hysterical fucking cunt.
This is why we used to put women in asylums for 'bad humors' and disobedience. Her mind is in another dimension because she cannot come to terms with how fucking conniving and selfish she is.
>>73462321
I think she wants to make the guy look bad by making herself look good (and sad - look at how she wore her wedding dress anyways).
>>73462518
Bullseye.
>>73461969
>The pretty Manhattan insurance executive was supposed to tie the knot in a lavish Upper East Side wedding Saturday
Really NYT? She's pretty huh? That's an objective fact for you to report here, not an emotive fnord stuck in the article deliberately to signal to the reader where his pretend-support should go?
OK fine she's an insurance executive. A well paid, well-dressed, thief.
Knowing nothing else about her other than that, I'm thinking anyone that would marry her without a pre-nup would be an utter idiot.
Whoever the guy was, it sounds like he just dodged a bullet.
>>73462518
This.
and
>>73462451
this
Luck SOB
>>73461969
She is a single mom. He dodged a bullet.
>>73461969
>Yiru Sun
Fucking korea dogs
Don't want to sign a pre-nup? Huge red flag there.
>>73461969
>refused to sign the prenup
That man dodged a bullet.
>>73462451
Seriously man. I am gonna get my wife to sign one.
>Why, don't you trust her?
Yeah I'm sure the 40-50% of marriages trusted each other too. Coming from parents that were divorced, my current gf's parents were divorced, and many other friends in the same boat, I won't get married without a pre-nup. Its for her security and mine. Doesn't the government get to do whatever they want if you don't sign one anyhow?
>>73463054
Based China.
Her daughter is a real qt
>>73461969
Refusing to sign the prenup confirms why it was necessary in the first place. If she didn't intend to screw him out of half his money, what's the problem with signing it? God people are stupid.
>>73463256
>Huge red flag there
Pic related. Chink women are disgusting. Fucking hideous autistic, black-eyed no-soul pan-faced gookerinos.
>>73461969
>pretty
>>73461969
>Bride won’t sign prenup
>>>/r9k/ for mysogyny
>>>/pol/ is for racism fucking spicnigger retard.
>refused to sign it cause she's been cheating on him this whole time
sounds like the guy dodged a bullet on that one, most judges throw out pre-nups anyways, and in jew york it get tossed and he'd still owe her everything.
>Manhattan insurance executive
I'm surprised she didn't want her own prenup drafted, a job like that sounds like it makes a lot of money.
Then again, men don't get money awarded in divorce settlements.
>>73463437
said by american...put down the food before speaking about your superior you fat disgrace
also pay your debts
>>73461969
YOU NO SIGN PRENUP?
YOU NO GET WEDDING
GO STARVE ON STREETS OF BEIJING
>>73463322
She's a female minority chemical engineer with a Ph.D. Somehow I don't think monetary issues are something she has.
>>73463437
>says the american
>>73463296
While I agree with this sentiment, any lawyer worth his salt will be able to invalidate any kind of prenup in this day and age.
>>73463616
You actually think PhD in Chem Engineering hit the holy grail of wealth?
WEW LAD
First year university student detected. Come back in 5 years let the adults talk,
>>73463654
That's not even the same person in both pics.
Low energy trolling.
>>73463687
Can you hire a lawyer to get it air tight though? Or does that not even matter?
>>73463563
>fat disgrace
I'm /fit/ as fuck, work in IB, fuck beautiful women all the time, and could probably snap your chink neck with one hand.
Don't you have some WoW gold farming to do or some anime to read, Xiaoping? Get off /pol/, you ugly socially-inept beta faggot.
>>73463687
>I am not a lawyer
>I have never had a prenup nor been divorced
>I don't even live in the country I am discussing nor am I familiar with it, or each individual state's laws
A FUCKING LEAF!
Her face screams ching chong potato.
I would draw up a pre nup if i were planning to marry her too. Can anyone watch that face grow old? I could maybe fuck her one night really drunk.
>>73463534
>most judges throw out pre-nups anyways
no they dont
>"Wow, he wanted me to sign a prenup? I mean, he's bad and I am good, right ladies? The gall of a bad person to ask something like that of a good person!"
>>73463563
Now looky here Shang Tsung, I ain't gonna beat around the bush and say our country don't owe a little debt here and there to the yella-fella, but I am gonna say we ain't payin' it. You lucky we don't Hiroshima Nagasaki Bang your Cock into the rice fields you crawled out of. That money we "owe" your kind, well sir that there is bribe money so we don't create a three billion people sized Gook Grave.
Now go on. Get. Hya, boy!
>>73461969
I love how they grabbed a few half-presentable kids for the photo, while the parents are probably out back being patted down.
I wonder how much silverware and china went missing.
>>73461969
What a little shit that groom was. Prenups shouldn't be signed on the wedding day. Do that before you start spending on the wedding.
>>73463687
Can we please ban leaf's
>>73463794
iirc the only way it's solid is if both sides lawyer up and negotiate something they're happy with before signing
>>73461969
AAAAAAGHH
>>73463826
While he is indeed a fucking leaf, I agree with him. I've hear numerous stories of lawyers skirting prenups to fuck over a man, but never a single story where a prenup saved the man.
>>73463654
>says the chink or self-loathing beta white nu-male faggot who has never touched a legitimately beautiful woman in his pathetic little life
>>73463821
>>73463951
How can you American afford time to go on internet while you owe Glorious People's Republic of China so much money? You no pay you will destroyed soon. You think 911 bad? Just wait for China nuclear winter
>>73463472
Marriage is a government contract. Pre nups amend that contract. This is 100% politics
>>73463794
It usually doesn't matter. A prenup is just that, Pre-Nuptial, any money you make after the marriage is usually fair game.
>>73461969
How ironic she wouldn't state the reasons for refusing the prenup, not even stating what was included in it. Even more ironically decides instead to cancel the wedding entirely, invite poor kids and coincidentally the press at the same time, making her look good and her ex-fiance look bad.
What a manipulative witch.
>>73464049
Rickets is a hell of a thing, eh?
Prenups are thrown out of court all the time. Not worth the paper they are written on or the ink they are written with. It doesn't matter if a girl signs it or not. LOL at all the cucks talking about how they'll get their wife to sign one.
THE JUDGE WILL THROW IT OUT KEKS
>>73464068
Still ugly as fuck
>>73463821
>IB
Either you fucked up your future on Physics or you're underage.
>>73463687
So much THIS. There are so many loopholes. If the hubby withdraws money from his personal private account to pay some home or family expense, it's now on the table for divorce courts. Some can even swing the "made her sign it under "duress" meme" and get it invalidated. Laws are fucked.
>>73464100
Nice proxy
>>73463563
Sucks being poor, doesn't it?
>>73464222
>>73464068
asians are fucking disgusting.
I'm glad to have had sex with over 30 women and not 1 be a chink or a nigger.
>>73461969
Am I the only one noticing that the prenup might just have been presented before the wedding? Do we have to be spergs and not realize that if she wasn't okay with a prenup she wouldn't have agreed to wedding planning, and this was a last minute panic deal by the groom, which IS disrespectful?
>>73463794
It does. But if you fail to disclose any bit of your wealth, for example, the whole agreement goes out the window. If she didn't have seperate legal representation while signing it, it can go out the window. If a judge deems it unfair, out the window.
Just don't get married. Shit's expensive as fuck and you end up divorcing half the time.
>>73463826
He's actually right believe it or not. Prenups can be thrown out if the other party can make the judge believe that it was signed under duress. Duress in this case being as simple as "being forced" to sign one for marriage, like >>73463972
or if it is written incorrectly by a shit lawyer. It's hard to say if they're actually worth anything because women get thrown into a fucking frenzy over them. Might be better off just going on without one and hoping your marriage doesn't fall apart. Or just not get married. Or live in a country where cohabitation for more than a year is not equivalent to marriage.
>>73464298
>implying Asa Akira would ever want to be in the same room as you
>>73464301
it's /pol/ don't be rational or logical
>Marrying a single mom
That groom should be breathing a sigh of relief.
>>73461969
>Yiru Sun
Bi-annual reminder that racial identity politics are a way for the ruling elites to eliminate class awareness. You are the real cucks.
Always get a prenup. When I married my ex she had a lot more money than I did. Then I started earning as much as her, and then more than her. She stopped working for a year, and when I kicked her out of the house she decided to go for alimony. Turns out she had been funneling a bunch of money to secret accounts and lying about a lot of our finances. Two years and $50,000 in legal bills I was free. Don't think for a second a woman won't try to take you for everything you've got just because she can. She will and her cunt friends will be cheering her on.
She was half Jewish by the way.
>>73464100
>terrible gook banter attempt
You should probably just kill yourself desu senpai
>>73461969
-Chick is from China
In China pre-nups are mandatory because so many Chinese women are gold diggers.
Wonder why
>>73464378
>>73464301
Does it matter? It's a test to see how she views the relationship, seeing her reaction is telling when being put on the spot.
>>73464466
>Yiru Sun
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE NOT HUMAN
That fucking space between it's eyes
>>73464100
How will your country even survive without selling poorly made knockoffs to the rest of the world?
>>73464100
kek'd
How empowering
>>73464239
What the fuck are you talking about, Alfons?
>>73464580
It's also revealing on how groom sees the relationship. Best that this didn't happen.
>>73463537
That is probably the reason she declined the pre-nup, because it stated that she would have to pay HIM. Assuming she made more money.
>>73464298
Your age? So I can get off on the humiliation of only having had 2 partners at age 28...
>>73464589
Chang, how good is that show beyond season 1? I watched the first 3 or 4 episodes and became bored
>>73464239
It's Investment Banking, not International Baccalaureate.
>>73463616
she's probably pulling in mid-six figures (effective low six figures cuz living-in-Manhattan) she's not poor but she still needs to work. clearly her would-be-boo was loaded and she was planning on sitting on your expanding ass til she got bored and divorced him
>>73464378
>implying any attractive worthwhile alpha male cares about some disgusting washed-up slant-eyed whore with fake tits
You know how I know you're an ugly beta faggot that jacks off to anime cartoons?
>>73464854
Peaks at season 3-4 then turns to utter dogcrap around 6
>>73464319
>>73464375
Lemme spell this one out for yall since I've seen it happen.
>bitch has a high paying job
>dude prolly has a high paying job
>but secretly dude was WAY MORE MONEY that he never told her about
>thinks she is the one, gets engaged etc.
>wedding day, delivers prenup that reveals WAY MORE MONEY
>hopes bitch will sign it and marry for love
>bitch learns she will miss out on WAY MORE MONEY and bails
>bitch cries for public support and tries to shit on dude
>dude enjoys his money and finds new bitch who isn't a complete cunt
THE END.
>>73464507
Reminder that niggers will still be niggers even if they have slightly more money
>>73464780
It's likely the marriage wouldn't have lasted. The fact she couldn't handle a bump in the road means that she wouldn't be able to handle issues that would arise in the future.
IE he gave her a shit test and showed the world her crazy
>>73464806
Step the fuck up, I've never had sex with anybody. Don't kill yourself, at least you've gotten laid. It's more than some people have ever gotten.
>>73465153
Well if this is true the dude is an asshole, you should be open about your finances and agree to the prenup months in advance.
My ex's kike father sprung a prenup on his 2nd wife the night before the wedding, after getting 500 people to fly to California. I have never seen a sadder looking bride. She went through with it unfortunately, hopefully that kike will die soon and leave her wealthy and kike-free
>>73464854
>how good is that show beyond season 1?
It was my favorite show in the '90s. The main alien conspiracy starts to pick up end of season 1, and through 2-5, kinda hit and miss after that. Episodes with the Smoking Man story are some of the best. Well worth torrenting, it was just re released in HD as well, which is a plus, as is ogling Scully
>>73463437
pay your debts
>>73465357
>you are an asshole if you don't reveal that you have millions of dollars a bitch can steal from you at a moment's notice
Okay.
Since you've never had a girlfriend before I'll let you in on a little secret. If they know you are rich they will suddenly become much nicer and push for marriage. They will do anything you want. ANYthing. It will seem nice until you are married, and they divorce you to go raise chad's baby with your alimony in your (former) house.
t. a happy poor dude with unhappy rich friends who have gone through this cycle repeatedly
>>73461969
>my husband won't be okay with me cheating on him, but if i don't sign this people might think i'm a slut, but i really want the option to cheat :(
>oh i know! i won't get married, i'll instead throw a party for kids, people won't think i'm a bad person now :D
>>73465061
>>73465405
Very well gentlemen, I shall procure this program. Thanks for the rec
>>73464222
>>With respect to financial issues ancillary to divorce, prenuptial agreements are routinely upheld and enforced by courts in virtually all states.
>A fucking leaf
This is the guy presumably
>>73464301
Yeah how sneaky and rude of him to almost cheat her out of her lifelong welfare at the last minute.
>>73466152
He looks like a Jew
>>73466152
>>73461969
I'm guessing she didn't even pay for that reception, yet she gets treated as the hero.
Yeah it's a nice gesture I guess since its non refundable but still.
>>73466152
>the guy presumably
Jesus Christ, that guy looks as if he could be a direct descendant of King Herod himself
>>73463951
Hearty kek, my man.
>>73466152
>BERG
every fucking time
>>73466152
>
How'd you find that? and LOL yeah he does look like a Jew.
No fault divorce destroyed marriage because it incentives a woman to divorce.
RIP the traditional family.
>>73463296Here is how to have a nice marriage and divorce:
>01. Find someone.
>02. At least 6 months before wedding give her prenup.
>03. Do not buy (Wedding Dress) or put a deposit down (Reception Hall) on ANYTHING till prenup is signed.
>04. Once you are married, live on twice the lowest income. i.e. she makes 500 a week. you make 1000 a week. Her salary x2 = 1000 week. Any extra money you have give to a trusted family member or friend to put into a trust or similar account/investment.
>05. If she decides she wants to stay at home with the children, that would be real hard since half the house payment/expenses are depending on her money too.
>06. If the marriage goes bad then no big loss because you have only put in half of the money for expenses.
>07. You can always claim you blew all the extra money.
>08. I don’t know what to do about alimony or child support.
>09. But at least you will have a nice restarting nest egg.
>>73464378
I have had sex with 2 extremely well known porn stars.
You talk as though they do not have agents. As long as they are not contract girls, just find out who represents them, and be prepared to pay.
>>73466152
>chinese gold digger
>jewish husband
I bet the ring had a tungsten core and she found out
>>73464222
Some poor cunt had to clean that leather afterwards...
>inb4 she'd already been paid.
>>73467921
>ring had a tungsten core
Probably a Cubic Zarcarbian as well
>>73467518
>>Here is how to have a nice marriage and divorce:
This read more accurately as
"How to fail at life before you even begin."
>>73467869
Was it worth the money?
>>73464780
Agreed.
When a pre-nup gets brought up it's like saying you know the marriage isn't going to last and you're going in with the mindset that you don't trust your wife.
>>73468288
Care to elaborate?
>“I should have been the bride. It was canceled,
She's the reason it was canceled though.
>>73468770
Women don't want to admit they cause problems.
>>73468424
Yes.
You have to go through some bullshit like blood tests, and paying some jackoff to "produce" it so it is legal. Also I am now on file in some seedy records office in the valley.
I have the the only tapes though, and I could legally release them if I wanted to. I won't though, because I am petrified of being recognized, and I have an... average... sized penis.
>>73468917
You could always pull a JAV producer and censor your face if you were inclined to.
>how dare you expect me to sign a prenup dont you love me
>hurr durr fuck you the wedding is off!
the guy got lucky
>>73468917
what did it cost, all in?
>>73468288
>>73467518
>>01. Find someone.
What, just wonder out the door and pick a grill? At random.
My grandad had a good turn of phrase about meeting women - "If you want to buy a pig, go see a pig farmer, not the pig-seller at the market". Ie. - if you look for potential mates at a place where people drink, take drugs , engage in promiscuous sex and listen to loud music - that's the sort of woman you'll find.
>>02. At least 6 months before wedding give her prenup.
Unless both parties sign the agreement (as agreed to) it's fancy toilet paper (as has been noted already in this thread).
>>03. Do not buy (Wedding Dress) or put a deposit down (Reception Hall) on ANYTHING till prenup is signed.
If she wants an expensive wedding (& you don't) you should probably be abit more concerned about that than any contract you've got her to sign
>>04. Once you are married, live on twice the lowest income. i.e. she makes 500 a week. you make 1000 a week. Her salary x2 = 1000 week.
Actually fairly sound advice.
>Any extra money you have give to a trusted family member or friend to put into a trust or similar account/investment.
Knock off the bit about "family or friend" - that's just asking for trouble. I trust my financial adviser and accountant - they were suggested to me by my family and friends, just... they're professionals and NOT family and friends.
>>05.
Maybe if you're really young or at the very start of the marriage but you really don't want to be in the position of not wanting to have children with you wife m8.
>>06.
Spoken like a true millenial
>>07.
If you're marrying an idiot who doesn't know how to money
>>08.
Aim to be married and have kids?
>>09.
If you're aiming to go into a marriage with the intent of setting yourself up for when it fails - well getting hitched to the wrong grill is probably the least of you problems...
Had to delete your points to fit.
>>73463563
>Mfw i am eating ribs
ferk yu chiner mern
man do they ever mention the dudes name? i want to high five him and tell him Well done man, u dodged the headshot!
This is a good thing for the husband. If a woman won't sign a pre-nup it blatantly says she is going to cuck you and is marrying you with the full intention of taking everything you own.
>>73469910
>Knock off the bit about "family or friend" - that's just asking for trouble. I trust my financial adviser and accountant - they were suggested to me by my family and friends, just... they're professionals and NOT family and friends.
The reason for this is because if you give the money to a professional then it is traceable back to you and it could be considered an asset to be split in the divorce.
>Maybe if you're really young or at the very start of the marriage but you really don't want to be in the position of not wanting to have children with you wife m8.
I want my woman to stay at home but alot of women use it to be lazy.
>Spoken like a true millenial
I am older than that
>If you're marrying an idiot who doesn't know how to money
I meant all of your extra money, the extra 500 a week.
An old man told me to never leat a woman know how much you make.
>Aim to be married and have kids?
I have 4 children
>If you're aiming to go into a marriage with the intent of setting yourself up for when it fails - well getting hitched to the wrong grill is probably the least of you problems...
It is no different than starting a new job. you put everything you have into but always have at least 6 months of extra money to pay bills incase something happens.(car accident- you get fired while in the hospital, business goes under, anything)
>>73462226
>>73462451
>>73462518
>>73463322
>>73462885
>>73463534
>>73463600
SEE THIS
>>73464789
It was actually a smart move on her part if we're assuming the prenup favored the guy.
>>73463563
China is in debt as well.
>>73464553
>In China pre-nups are mandatory
source?
in china, all money earned before a wedding belongs to the person who earned it. if a man is wealthy before a wedding and then gets divorced. the pre-wedding money is ignored from any divorce settlement.
there are a lot of gold diggers though. although it's a different society so one might argue that the filial duty of looking after the parents is the reason for girls wanting money in most cases, rather than designer goods. but this might change depending on class and city.
>>73461969
Guy was smart and dodged bullet at the last split of second, if he was retard he would cave in and let her into marriage without prenup, kudos to man for not being cuck.
>>73471234
>prenup favored the guy
It was just probably 'keep your shit in case of divorce' kind of prenup, that kind of prenup that totally destroys the singular reason for women to marry: to rob you legally
>>73463563
>pay your debts
Try and make us. :^)
>>73463472
poor commie
>>73470853
Married for nearly 20, couple of kids...
>An old man told me to never leat a woman know how much you make.
An old man told you how not to have a partner in life.
>It is no different than starting a new job.
seeing marriage as purely a financial transaction that you need to be ready to bail on is just so fucked up it doesn't even really justify me wasting my time arguing with you.
Good luck in your life m8, from what I've read here - you're going to need it.
>>73461969
>Manhattan insurance executive
>calls off her wedding because of prenup
>20 years later
>writing articles for Salon
>"How Man-Children Killed Marriage (and My Ovaries)"
Sad really.
>>73473094
Marriage is literally nothing but financial contract dumb-fuck, you can love without papers, but she won't love you because she won't get shit after she gets bored unless she marry you.
>>73473358
>but she won't love you because she won't get shit after she gets bored unless she marry you.
Being this disillusioned....
>My grandad had a good turn of phrase about meeting women - "If you want to buy a pig, go see a pig farmer, not the pig-seller at the market". Ie. - if you look for potential mates at a place where people drink, take drugs , engage in promiscuous sex and listen to loud music - that's the sort of woman you'll find.
>>73473094
>seeing marriage as purely a financial transaction that you need to be ready to bail on is just so fucked up it doesn't even really justify me wasting my time arguing with you.
>Good luck in your life m8, from what I've read here - you're going to need it.
Marriage is a contractual agreement with the bind of law that has far reach financial implications for both parties involved.
Seems you like romance but there is nothing wrong with taking an objective view of things.
I am perfectly fine if you and wife's kids never want to reply to me again.
>>73463654
Since when did this become a YRYL
She's too ugly to be a gold digger, unless the fiance was white
>>73473094
I am not arguing with you.
01. Since you use the same common words to describe the people in your life tells me you have group mentality. >Kids< are baby goats not children. You just referred to your children as animals. A wife as a >partner<. Women are not partners they are wives.
02. I did not say it was ">purely a financial transaction" I just used an example to elaborate based on time and space constraints. I do not like changing jobs like I do not like to change relationships so I try to choose wisely.
03. I just want to learn things not fight. I do not mind a rational(in reason and emotion) debate
>>73473992
>Seems you like romance but there is nothing wrong with taking an objective view of things.
No-one said anything about romance.
I entered into an agreement with my wife that we were a team who were going to go through our lives together. Not as two separate entities sharing a house and chattels. At least not as far as our marriage goes anyway....
>I am perfectly fine if you and wife's kids never want to reply to me again.
Is there any burn cream in the medicine cabinet for me for that zinger?
>>73474382
>I am not arguing with you.
Argues points.
>You just referred to your children as animals
wut? Simply not going into specifics on this Angolan Tapestry Lovers imageboard
>Women are not partners they are wives.
I think it's safe to say we don't agree on this.
02 - But using your argument, you start a new job with the express purpose of losing that job in the future?
I guess no job has permanence. If you work at MickeyD's...
I run my own business so I guess I intend to keep my job for as long as I can.
>03 I do not mind a rational(in reason and emotion) debate
Me neither. Then again seeing some of the denizens of this place - maybe not the best place to look for it.
>>73473094
>Married for nearly 20
I would guess that would put you somewhere between 38-48 years old.
>You called me a "true millenial" Me and you are close to the same age.
I never once said anything derogatory or other wise toward and I never once assumed anything about you. So it would seem you are wanting to verbally fight not have a debate(argue)
I live in the US. Every state has an attorney general and every attorney general has a division within his office that handles nothing but child support. The federal and state governments know what most marriages are about. Most marital problems are about/over money.
>>73475043
>Most marital problems are about/over money.
This I do agree with. So as adults who can handle [shared] money you and your missus should have sat down and discussed what to do about it if you split up/ one of you died etc. My and my wife talked about it when we did our first will together about 15 yrs ago.
It's not hard - it may be an uncomfortable discussion but sure as hell beats having to figure it out if/when it happens.
Nice to come across a fellow oldfag btw.
>>73468917
Full story?
>>73464242
Not trying to start an argument but can you <citation needed> for this:
>If the hubby withdraws money from his personal private account to pay some home or family expense, it's now on the table for divorce courts.
I'm super curious to read about the judges reasoning behind it
>>73475290
These are my only posts
>>73467518
>>73468609
>>73470853
>>73474382
>>73475043
I do not insult you in the other posts
I just find when people use the same language as the majority it demonstrates the majority mindset. I do not like most people.
My missus and I will not split, but in case of my/her untimely death everything is already laid out in a notebook. Step by Step instructions of who to call and what to do. Three copies of the important documents. 1st at the house. 2nd at family house in same town. 3rd about 250 miles away in case our town gets hit by tornado.
I do not mind talking about death. I asked my woman’s dad(70years old) about a week does he know which funeral home and cemetery he and his wife want to be buried at. I know his family will be to distraught to make decisions.
We bought him something off ebay this past week and he asked "how much do I owe you" I said we will just settle up when you are dead. I joke around with him alot. That is why I like old people they have alot of wisdom.
>>73464466
She looks almost like an eyebrow-less Yokono.
>>73476320
>I do not like most people.
This much is apparent. I'm guessing that for "most people" that feeling is reciprocated.
>>73476634
Probably, but I wouldn't know because I don't hang around alot of people. My family and I went to a city wide celebrations. Different events at different times in different locations around town. We were sitting in our lawn chairs watching the event. Two different people at two different times came up to us and said "Your children are so cute" I told them I do not give a fuck what you think of my children. I am trying to raise my children where they see beyond someone's outside appearance and watches their actions. I drill it into my children's head that you have "2 eyes and 2 ears and 1 mouth to look and listen twice as much as you talk and you will learn alot more. I have about 10,000 books at home to read. I read alot of different subjects to my children. With each generation they keep getting worse. I am trying to reverse that with my child. I want them to be better than me. I told my children's mother that if anything is spoiled that means it is bad(like fruit/food) and it needs to be thrown out so we do not spoil the children.
>>73461969
yeh its kinda douchey to surprise prenup signing on wedding day
but being a raging sjw while allfuent is just as terrible
desu they are meant for eachother
>>73476634
Don't quit on me now.
>>73462451
Too right, it is not like a prenup even offers any real legal protection - they regularly get shredded in court. At best it is a statement of good intentions, and she couldn't even do that.
Why are you guys assuming she didn't have money as well?
It says:
>>73461969
>Manhattan insurance executive
It clearly was not about her wanting to take her future husband's money, she is already rich.
>>73467518
Here is a better way to have a nice marriage:
>Sign prenup
>Get married
>Separate bank accounts
>No children
This is what my husband and I did and it works out great 10/10 would marry again. We have tons of money and pretty much do whatever the fuck we want while enjoying the company of each other.
>>73461969
>pretty
>>73461969
So, not a love match then?
>>73461969
Don't trust the intentions of someone who does charity and expects praise.
>>73480374
Is all joined(House, Electric) bills split evenly?
>>73480926
Yep, split right down the middle. If I want something, even if it is something that we both are going to use, I just buy it. He does the same. When we go out we take turns paying.
>>73466152
Looks like Gus from rooster teeth.
>>73461969
8000 Dollah is pretty cheap to get rid of a gook gold digger. Best deal for the groom.
A friendly reminder if a slope is born in a western country they won't adhere to their own mostly traditional values and culture at all.
So if you still want to racemix with a chink, it's fine with me but at least get one from their original country and not those spoiled white washed ones.
>>73470853
>It is no different than starting a new job.
ooh
edgy
>>73464222
not in my third world country, you maple negro.
>>73481041
assuming you're adults, aren't you just role-playing at being boyfriend and girlfriend of, like 2 months or so, instead of loving adults?
why not actually be a couple?
also: prenup, lol good luck with that in court
>>73481462
>8000 Dollah is pretty cheap to get rid of a gook gold digger
VP of insurance company = gold-digger
be serious
>>73481764
I have no idea what you mean. We are legally married. We get all kinds of benefits for that, like when purchasing a home or buying insurance. You don't have to have children or have a shared income to get those benefits either. We love each other so much that we don't think money is that important and just keep everything completely fair. We buy each other gifts when we feel like it or for holidays. You don't have to share money to love each other, that seems retarded. We pretty much rarely argue because there isn't really anything to argue about.
>>73479215
Evening meal and prep for P&C meeting.
>>73480374
>>No children
Seems a bit empty and vacuous.
>>Separate bank accounts
that and a joint "workday" account. The joint acct. can be for cheques (not always in one name or other), mortgage, loans etc.
>>73481041
Sounds like you're living a shared house rather being married.
>>73466152
she can do better than this guy
>>73463951
>Shang Tsung
topkek
>>73463821
Good on you, now get back to cleaning the toilets in Goldman
>>73481951
>We love each other so much that we don't think money is that important and just keep everything completely fair.
You'll be saying that right up until the day she gets half of EVERYTHING.
Alternatively you could behave like adults and discuss it in a mature and adult manner...
>>73482072
see
>>73481951
>We are legally married.
Neither of us want children. It isn't empty at all. We travel all over and all the time and can pretty much do and buy anything we want without being tied down to children. It is pretty much the complete opposite of "empty". I have other female friends with children and they pretty much do nothing with their lives but take care of their children, it sounds completely boring and empty to me.
>>73482318
I'm the female. We signed a prenup, see: >>73480374
>>73475290
I'm older than either of you.
now, why don't you ladies get a fucking room and discuss this behind closed doors.
>>73480374
faggot
>>73482318
*he*
>>73482321
>We travel all over and all the time and can pretty much do and buy anything we want without being tied down to children.
My kids have seen quite a lot of our country - my limitation has been their education. The fact that you have friends who would rather spend their lives on fb is immaterial.
>>73482424
Really?, when you get to my age (mid 40's) being the oldest ISN'T winning the pissing match m8.
>>73482365
>female
>on /pol/
Proof?
>>73465528
That's why you get into the relationship with full honesty about your finances AND your wish for a prenup. No last minute prenup or post marriage money unveiling. Letting her know in advance that there's no money to be had through divorce should weed out most gold diggers.
>>73482495
We have been to many different countries, we don't just stay in the US. None of my friends can do this because they have children. They also can't go out and drink or have fun either, because they have children.
My husband and I both also have really flexible jobs and can work remote pretty much any time we want.
>>73481951
>You don't have to share money to love each other,
Obviously. It's the not sharing that seems like the problem to outsiders, as if there's a trust issue; but if it works for you, all the best.
>>73482624
That is such fucking bullshit. Not wanting to share money is not a "trust issue" and I'm so tired of people who say this shit.
We both have jobs and make about the same amount of money. I think it's pretty fair to not want to share that money. I completely trust my husband and according to him he trusts me as well. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to keep your relationship on equal terms and not have money arguments, and it's not because of trust at all.
When I was growing up my parents shared a bank account and argued about money all the fucking time. It was awful. My husband and I both agreed we didn't want to deal with that shit and we rarely argue.
>>73463054
You're not allowed on the internet.
Called the party. Enjoy your punishment.
>>73482495
i got to your age before you did
I FUCKING WIN!
ps. you don't know shit about age until you turn 50. 20? 30? 40? 45? all affectation and bullshit. 50 will make you see the lie of all those other phoney "milestones".
you'll see.
>>73482604
>None of my friends can do this because they have children.
That's innacurate. You would rather spend your money on overseas holidays. That's important to you. The same way the recurve bow I'm buying for my youngest is important to me.
Priorities ≠ disposable income
>They also can't go out and drink or have fun either, because they have children.
This I'll kinda agree to. I don't drink and my in laws are really unreliable otherwise we'd be going to the movies
>>73482867
>tfw you say that to me, clutching your chest old man.
>>73468505
Not necessarily. I've always considered it insurance. You get your house insured not because you expect it to burn down. You get insurance because you're realistic about the world we live in. Houses burn down now and then. It's planning ahead. A lot of marriages end.
You can (and should) have faith in your relationship and work hard to make it last, but a prenup is insurance for when bad luck strikes.
>>73461969
who would want to marry a down syndrome woman?
>>73483002
>but a prenup is insurance for when bad luck strikes.
I'd call it planned obsolescence.
>>73482966
No I mean they can't travel any time they want because they have children and it complicates things. A lot of the places my husband and I go are not Disneyland and shit.
>>73482834
>Not wanting to share money is not a "trust issue" and I'm so tired of people who say this shit.
lol
you signed a prenup, you can't lecture anyone about love & trust.
you don't get to have it both ways.
you chose to protect yourself as an individual, then enter into a partnership. so you can lecture people on security, and love if you want to.
But you don't get to lecture anyone on trust.
Both of you know all of each others' passwords, right?
Did your parents not sign prenups, but have a shitty marriage and that's why you went the prenup route?
>>73482966
>>tfw you say that to me, clutching your chest old man.
>>73483151
My parents signed a prenup and had a good marriage outside of constantly arguing about money.
My husband and I both signed a prenup because in case we ever decide to divorce we didn't want to completely fuck each other over somehow. Like I said, we both work in the same field and make about the same amount of money. It's not about trust or anything. We both just don't want the law to fuck us over in case we ever want to divorce.
>>73483069
>because they have children and it complicates things.
Not unless they make it difficult for themselves. m8 of mine travelled a few years ago with his daughter aged 5. He was worried about her on the plane.
antihistamines were his friends....
Being a parent is a good thing, anyone who says otherwise really is just showing themselves as the selfish, self serving , immature man/grillchild they are.
What this >>73483151 guy said.
>>73483210
Enjoy your chamomile tea m8. Don't get too riled up this early in the day... ;^]
>>73483310
sounds pretty great, honestly
>>73461969
>I don't feel comfortable with not being able to fuck over my husband and take all of his shit whenever I want it.
erry time
>>73463296
>Why, don't you trust her?
But you know. It's not about trusting or not trusting, if she don't have any bad intentions then why won't she just sign it?
>>73461969
$8000 is nothing compared to what this guy no doubt would've lost had he married this bitch without a prenup. Hell, even with a prenup he still could've lost a fortune; depends on the judge.
>>73483457
I don't have anything against people who have children, I don't know why you seem to think so when I said I have friends with kids. My husband and I just both don't want children, is there really something wrong with that?
>>73483468
Yeah I have no idea why people are getting assmad about my marriage being completely equal in terms of money.
>>73464222
Looks like a tranny I fucked in Romford... good old days.
>>73481764
Let's check the facts:
She refused to sign a prenuptial agreement which would imply that she does have money based on the 8000 USD wedding but her would-be husband would have more, hence the prenup. If she indeed would have more money than her husband she should have signed that without blinking twice.
So yes, she is a gold-digger.
>>73483069
My aunt and uncle lived like this for a while before they eventually settled down and had two kids. There's really no reason to rush into parenthood. Live your life and have your adventures, and eventually you may find that the next adventure you want is to raise a child.
>>73483310
>we didn't want to completely fuck each other over somehow.
So... don't. It takes a special sort of person to need a piece of paper to be a sword of Damocles over their head to stop them from screwing over someone they're supposed to love.
>>73483604
>is there really something wrong with that?
When you're old alone and lonely, think on that.
Anyway, gotta go to aforementioned P&C meeting
>>73483210
Cheers old leaf cunt
>>73483604
>I have no idea why people are getting assmad
Insecure cunts can't stand other's happiness; it reminds them that their own suffering is pointless.
>>73483572
this. its a win for the guy 2bh he dodged a crazy gook girl
>>73483717
You don't understand. When you get a divorce, sometimes you are legally obligated to provide money for your wife or something, even if the wife declines the money. The law overrides it. I didn't want that, and neither did my husband obviously.
I'm not lonely, I have my husband and I have friends. I also have a fulfilling career and hobbies.
>>73483610
de ce futi ma barbati futu-ti biserica ma-tii de depravat
>>73479349
This is the fucking worst, you can't even protect yourself from gold diggers even with a prenup nowadays.
>>73483735
I pretty much get told all the time that I'm not *really* happy because my husband and I don't have or want children. Sometimes people are even like "well you must not be able to afford them then" or something, too. Bitch, please. Both my husband and I make around $90-100k a year each, we can easily afford to shit out some kids. But fuck that, neither of us wants them and we are pretty fucking happy without them. I guess we must just be pretending or something lol. How can anyone's life possibly be fulfilling if they don't have kids?!?! amirite
>>73471234
>>73464789
Bullshit reasoning. 'Manhattan Insurance Executive' could be fucking anything, and if you've ever met a woman, especially an Asian one, no money is too much. I guarantee the guy earned more, or else why would she not draft her own? You don't see your own prenup this close to the wedding...
>>73464806
Only a true degenerate bases his self-worth on the number of his sexual partners.
>>73484485
It's the same type of mentality that keeps people vehemently promoting cults, or oppressive religious doctrine, or identity politics etc.
There is shared trauma required to take part in a cult that binds the members (makes it seem valuable to them), and other people finding fulfillment without a similar experience makes them feel that their own sacrifice is devalued--that it didn't mean anything.
Really, they shouldn't give a fuck if they're content.
>>73461969
>Bride won't sign prenup
All anyone ever has to do is imagine pic related, if you still are willing to risk it then you are either brave or stupid.
>>73463296
The best argument against "Why, don't you trust her?" is a fire insurance analogy. I dont believe my house will ever burn down nor do I want that but its smart to be prepared for it.
>>73471387
Everyone is always in debt with the international jewish monetary system
How to property get married.
1) Don't.
>>73484011
De ce nu? Baietii nu fac ce fetele fac si invers :^)
>>73465153
That's asking for invalidation
Only a retard would give the judge a shred of evidence that you were anything but Jesus reincarnated
>>73486199
Get the FUCK off of your phone you cock sucking little bitch. I hope you bleed.
>>73463563
Only if you retro-adjust your renminbi to real levels, fucking liar.
>>73462451
Not to mention she is full of herself, seems arrogant to get your digs in like this. Like bitch you aren't Princess Diana.
He was lucky to dodge that bullet.
>>73466691
I thought Herod wasn't an ethnic Jew and he didn't observe religion.
>>73477340
Good man
>>73464068
I'd still fuck her desu.
>>73461969
for asians shes a 3.5/10 at best
guy dodged a bullet
>>73465357
i dont understand, why was she sad?
>>73466152
Looks like a Jewish John Oliver
>>73470853
that is ground for getting the screwed, i discovery time her lawyer will find out your employeer or by your taxes that you made more money then you said and "dont know where it is" so they will just claim you invested it all and that it exists somewhere and sue you for it all
>Doesn't want to sign a pre-nup
Confirmed whore.
>>73477340
>We were sitting in our lawn chairs watching the event. Two different people at two different times came up to us and said "Your children are so cute" I told them I do not give a fuck what you think of my children. I am trying to raise my children where they see beyond someone's outside appearance and watches their actions.
meet any based people from that? or did they all walk away
>>73464301
Pre nups have to be presented well before the marriage, if you show her the contract and make her sign it at the last minute it will be considered to have been signed under duress and it is invalidated
Its not likely that he just surprised her with it because then it wouldn't be legally binding
>>73461969
prenups are sure a good litmus test for gold diggers. it's funny how these chicks think they are fooling anybody.
>>73461969
>marrying that ugly ass thing
Props to the lawyer who wrote the prenup, saved that guy a ton of money from a gold-digging whore
>>73461969
Fuck that greedy whore.
>>73461969
Pol is turning into a lot of hormonal women, this is the type of story I'd expect to see on lose women or mumsnet.
It's tabloid rubbish.
>>73492919
>gold digger
>didn't read the article
>Yuri told her guests about how she had grown up poor in China before studying in America and winning a full scholarship to obtain her PhD in electrical engineering at Princeton.
>Yiru, the Corporate Vice President of New York Life Insurance, inspired guests with her story about growing up poor in China before obtaining a PhD from Princeton
Prenups are not always about protecting money, you can demand money in them as well. For all we know her future husband was demanding an allowance or some of her assets or something, or was trying to write her child from another father out of her will and transfer all her money to him instead. This definitely was not about her stealing money, she is already pretty wealthy and would be down to sign a prenup if it was about protecting her money, especially as someone who works in insurance.
>>73465357
>I have never seen a sadder looking bride.
Gee, I wonder why your ex is your ex.
Seems like her dad had a knack for choosing shitty women.
>>73461969
>Pretty
>>73468505
life isn't a disney fairy tale
>>73493103
Those are some wild assumptions without even any circumstantial evidence to back it up, its far more likely that it was a standard prenup that meant if they separate she doesn't get half his property
If it were about protecting her she surely would have mentioned it in her publicity shoot since it would have made her look better, and seeing as that's why she had cameras there in the first place that was obviously her goal
>>73464100
who the fuck thought this advert would be a good idea
>>73494122
Its not a real add
>>73494248
*ad, as if it matters
>>73494096
Nobody knows, she didn't go into the details about it. But a prenup isn't always about protecting your assets, you can also demand stuff from your partner in them.
People can put stuff like
>we have to fuck once a day
>you aren't allowed to gain more than 5 lbs
>you're not allowed to watch football or play video games
>you're not allowed to eat pork
Pretty much anything that isn't breaking the law, you can put in a prenup and ask someone to sign and legally agree to. Just make sure you have a judge present to show they didn't sign under duress, or video tape it. A prenup is not always just protecting your money, you can put pretty much anything you want in it as long as it's not breaking the law.
>>73484485
>How can anyone's life possibly be fulfilling if they don't have kids?!?! amirite
It's a complexity issue. Everything you do in life adds another layer to your existence. Peel back a layer to the time before...so in your case your marriage. Perceive your life without your husband, without love, without companionship - it's hard isn't it? And because of having him there is a certain level of emotional swing that it has caused you, the good times and bad. There is always a tiny amount of worry that something might happen to him, or he may do something. But that is certainly offset by all the joy and happiness you share together. You can extend the same level of thought all the way back to being a kid or having a NEET solitary life style, eventually there is no one but yourself. That can easily be seen as lonely, depressing, cold...but at the same time it affords one a level of emotional stability and safety. Kids are exactly the same, they add another layer of complexity. The love you have for them is beyond that of your spouse, yet there are times you want to bash their face in because that are so infuriating. They force another level of emotional growth on you, which is both good and bad.
Some people just aren't cut out for kids and that's fine. They are huge time, money, emotion sinks but a good parent will never resent or question if they are doing it for the right reasons. I think it's better for anyone who questions having kids to not until they can spend serious time and effort to resolving why.
>40+ year old men ITT arguing about women they obviously know nothing about and have never dated
Jesus christ.
>>73461969
She is fucking ugly
>>73493103
>PhD in electrical engineering at Princeton.
EE from Princeton...hell I didn't even know they did that. Why not MIT or Berkeley? Hell even Stanford if your going Ivy...
>>73494432
But if it were anything like that she would have told the everyone about it because it makes the guy look unreasonable, which is what this is about, making it look like he's bad for wanting a prenuptial agreement and she's good for providing some highly visible charity
There is no reason to believe it was anything beyond the common prenup besides you wanting to be on her side
>>73494833
40+...I'll have you know I'm only 36.
>>73494833
return2reddit so you can have a username and upboats xddD you can build a post history of being Above These Misogynist Losers and even maybe get some upboats yourself!!!!! !!! !
>>73495112
You're still almost double my age.
>>73495131
You dumb nigger, I'm not calling them losers, I'm saying that they have no experience with women who are 18-24 and are trying to lecture people (and yes, most of /pol/ is 18-24) about women around that age.
>>73494817
>Perceive your life without your husband, without love, without companionship - it's hard isn't it?
No, I had a life before I met him, and still have one now. He isn't my life, he is my partner. I don't need to be married or have children to not feel lonely or depressed, that's ridiculous. I got married because I really love my husband and wanted a contract to spend the rest of my life with him, that comes with benefits for us both like making it easier to buy a house, get insurance, etc. And then I signed a prenup to cut out the shitty parts of a marriage contract like having to pay alimony and such.
It's such a weird and ridiculous notion to me that you can't just be a happy individual enjoying your life unless you are married and have children. I was perfectly happy before I met my husband and got married, just as I am perfectly happy being with him now.
>>73495230
return
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>>73495283
Neck yourself.
>pretty
wow lads. looking that ugly on your wedding day is a fucking accomplishment. hideous. potato-faced oriental. would-be husband is a literal retard for allowing it to get this far.
>>73461969
What a bullet that guy dodged. Holy shit. He Prob saw the writing on the wall at the last second, woke up and pulled the rip cord. She's spinning like "oh I'm so empowered I decided not to".
>>73495313
>>/reddit/
>>73465357
In the OP story, it was three months in advance.
