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>Relationship satisfaction and the energy devoted to keeping a partner are dependent on how the partner compares with other potential mates,
>people choose partners whose collective qualities most closely reflect what they would prefer in an ideal mate.
>The study discovered that satisfaction was not reliably dependent on how a partner compared with a person’s idea of the perfect mate, but rather whether others in the mating pool better matched a person’s ideal preferences.
>But, participants with partners less desirable than themselves were happy with their relationship only if their partner fulfilled their ideal preferences better than most other potential mates in the group,
>“Relationship dissatisfaction and mate guarding intensity, in turn, are key processes linked to outcomes such as infidelity and breaking up, both of which can be costly in evolutionary currencies,”
http://news.utexas.edu/2016/05/17/relationship-satisfaction-depends-on-the-mating-pool
My grandfather had a good phrase when it came to finding a potential mate -
>If you want to buy a pig, go to the pig farmer not the man at the market stall.
I'm 29 and I agree. Im ready to comprimise somewhat for an upstanding moral girl. They actually exist you just have to do certain things to meet them.
Also Torpedos.
Dude, the movie just looks shit.
Go away.
>>74685849
FUCK YOU REEEEEEEEEEEE
I WANT A 9/10 THAT LOOKS LIKE MY PORN WAIFUS
In all seriousness, I am pretty picky and I'm not going out looking hard enough. I've got a shallow, nihilistic, shitty attitude, and if I let it consume me, I'll be alone for the rest of my life.
I'm trying to change and not be such a douche, but it's tough. I see average qts checking me out all the time but I never talk or acknowledge them. Kinda fucked up. I don't know what I'm looking for in life really, I'm a haughty, greedy fucker.
>>74686758
this is exactly how i feel
>>74686381
Are you that guy that was on Stefan's podcast that's fucking his ex boss while she's still married?
>>74686381
>>74686758
>They actually exist you just have to do certain things to meet them.
What I got from grandpappy's adv was - if you go to a bar or club (where people engage in lewd/promiscuous behavior, drink and or take drugs etc.) that's the type of grill you're going to find - a substance abusing slut. Look further afield anons.
>>74686549
Well there's an in-joke I've missed.
>>74686947
No
t. married for nearly 20yrs,couple of kids.
>>74685849
So cast a wider net catch a tastier fish?
>>74686758
>>74686909
Poor bastards.
Start immersing yourself in hot bitches and you'll soon stop being shallow.
High out of 10 looking women are typically cunts. Lower your standards to "pretty/normal" and you'll feel more satisfied.
If you are too autistic to get surrounded by bitches watch some TV shows aimed at young women. You should start vomiting after a few hours of exposure and never want their lips around your cock unless they are being paid cold hard cash.
>>74687136
Well put.
>>74686947
No but I have fucked friends ex-wives and single mothers.
There really is a true meaning to the virtues espoused by the past. It sucks that we didn't all hit the goals but doesn't mean it's all over.
>>74687092
Shes def a jew.
At this point im positive jews picked up all the big titty bitches back in the day and started a matrilineal cult around it.
>>74687136
But these twats won't eat a fish unless it looks great. They're so picky they'll starve.
>>74685849
Nah, I just do not try at all. Whenever I see a girl I like I always think to myself, there is no point in trying because you will never be good enough to get her. I think that about most girls.
>>74687544
Case in point:
I see: a big titted woman with nice hips and a lovely smile (all the better to imagine her licking my dick)
Anon sees: A Jew.
>>74687825
Thats not out of the question. She's listed as hispanic but she's obviously not the indian kind. Quite possibly German but possibly an Ashkenazi/mestizo.
>>74687611
>tfw the only thing really killing out the white race is a bunch of manchildren wanking themselves silly to hentai....
>>74685849
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk
>>74687825
Dick status: muh
>>74685849
>implying i ever wanted a relationship
>>74685849
>finally get in shape since hs
>finally get a tan
>finally get confident
>meet girl at gas station
>she has an ankle cast
Why would I mate with a physically inferior specimen?
>>74688809
dem tits
>>74687825
>>74688809
If I ever needed any more proof that a pretty face can make me diamonds even with a sub par body (lets be honest she probably looks better dressed than naked)
>>74685849
Maybe Im just tired, but I have no idea what this study is trying to say. Can someone explain it to me like you would a 2nd grader?
>>74689295
>>she has an ankle cast
How is getting injured (whether it's her fault or not) an indication of being inferior?
Fucken' hell, if it's not the wannabe Chads it's the mgtowidiots.
>>74689377
>lets be honest she probably looks better dressed than naked
Dunno about that m8.
>>74689583
Don't be so picky, your ideal woman isn't that 10/10 you idolise and your happiness within a relationship will be greater if your missus ISN'T being oggled by every other bloke.
>my take anyway....
post more
>>74689893
Got to be afk, sauces for you
http://www.curvyerotic.com/galleries/zishy/lanie_morgan_thick_bubbly_beauty/
https://losmuertevideanos.wordpress.com/2016/05/07/lanie-morgan-de-regreso/
>>74689838
I found your jewtube channel.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rZg9jjbU2U
>>74687136
>eating fish
>>74690462
>Being hungry yet too fussy to eat what's on hand.
good definition
>>74691491
sadly not enough people stave to death, hence exploding population.
>>74687323
she looks like a jew
>JUST MAN UP AND MARRY THEM SHITLORD
No.
>wake up 6 AM
>go to work
>leave work at 4 PM
>go straight for the pc
>browse the chinz or play vidya till i go to bed
>repeat every day
yeah, i'm not really picky i just never leave my house
>>74689838
Low T Beta Bones detected
>I deserve a 7/10
>>74692425
>grill just as likely to have been injured playing sport/partaking in outdoors activities as anything else
>4chinz anon is too fussy and criticizes possibility that her bone density may be lacking
You really couldn't have proven my point any more clearly m8. Cheers! ;^]
>>74685849
Fapping is still better then getting some ugly woman, who makes my dick limp
>>74692916
I'm not running the risks. You know who's disproportionately represented in risk management? Das rite nigga
>>74685849
Great story, but why do fat chicks love me so much?
>>74685849
It's not about being picky.
I'm a 6'2" good looking guy with a decent high school history of relationships. I have women complimenting and acting awkward around me all the time. I still haven't been with a woman for a few years.
It's not because I'm scared of talking to women, it's that the current trends in society have turned women into complete and utter assholes.
If I'm an 8/10 and settle for a 6/10 who has good personality and genetic traits, she's more likely to get an inflated ego from my choosing her and start flirting with other 8/10 men than she is to remain loyal and happy that she punched above her weight, like it was in the old days and like how men see relationships.
Women, when given agency and unlimited freedom, are complete and total assholes. They didn't follow monogamous societal rules because they wanted to, they did because they were forced to by male-dominated societies. Naturally they are hypergamous cunts, and giving them free reign has resulted in their rapid return to such.
>>74687821
There are a million more women than men in Russia. Is it really that difficult to get a decent one?
>>74686381
>Also Torpedos.
What does this mean?
>>74685849
I had to wade through a lot of shitty women to find a good one. It's hard, but not impossible.
>>74687821
It's not about BEING good enough, it's about constantly striving to be better, Your women are traditional, they want men who make every attempt to be upwardly mobile.
As we say in English, it is the thought that counts. That's why Russkie girls tend to like Americans pretty well, because we're raised in a competitive ruthlessly capitalistic society.
I'm not saying we're better, just that our way of life overlaps what women naturally look for better.
>>74693622
you can't blame them, they are literally handed currency for being hypergamous.
Imagine if you got not only the pleasure of havign sex with multiple females, but you also got endless entertainment and monetary rewards for each female you decided to "let" fuck you.
There really isnt a downside
>>74685849
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22gtSCJd9jA
>>74685849
Basically what they're saying is that muslims are right in everything except polygamy. Put burkas on women, ban porn, make divorce almost illegal, everyone happy.
Actually it's maybe true, american divorce rate skyrocketed when marriage law was changed and infidelity was no longer the only valid reason to break up, they changed it to "dissatisfaction" which can mean pretty much anything.
>>74687821
if you have to try that means you have to be something other than your natural self.
Eventually everyone reverts to their natural true self in a relationship, so trying is disingenuous and will always fail because you wont be able to sustain it.
>>74693761
torpedo tits i think
>>74685849
now i get it
your that neet hate faggot from a few hours ago.
now shit makes sense you were venting so much hate and frustration because you were resently kicked out by your neet girl that couldent take your shit anymore.
fucks sake your a faggot
beta cucked by a neet girl.
willing wageslave for the jews.
arguing for the things that make you unhappy.
vent on /pol so you dont an hero.
fucks sake m8 you have to work hard to be that massive a faggot
well done must be some cind of record
>>74687092
damn that bitch is fat. You guys have terrible standards.
>>74694250
Low test
>>74685849
How can I be picky when women won't even give me a shot because I'm fat?
>>74693956
>eastern JEWropeans
>not just looking to take your shekels
>>74693761
The general shape of the titties.
Also now that i notice the watermark
>zishy
this site overwhelmingly features jew girls, oddly enough. They have some pretty ones but man, this jew thing gets weirder and weirder.
>>74685849
Manchildren virgin neet here.
>You are fucking picky.
>implying that autistic neets have at least 1 opportunity to get a girl.
Guys open the eyes, no woman want an autistic neet. you can't be sure that we are picky because most of us never had 1 real opportunity. take your unproven facts and fairy tales to the trash.
>>74694391
Lose some fucking weight.
>>74691491
She looks fun.
>>74693622
>it's that the current trends in society have turned women into complete and utter assholes.
Again, I think the calibre of your women is about where you're looking for them rather than just about their gender.
>>74693761
Torpedo tits, also nice nubbins.
>>74694071
>Put burkas on women, ban porn, make divorce almost illegal, everyone happy.
Be interested to see muslim vs. christian divorce rates.
>>74694226
Uh, mistaken identity m8. Your post says more about you than the other bloke btw.
>>74694391
Eat better, exercise more - self confidence is a real turn on for women.
>>74694480
Get off here, go outside, do something active
>tfw some of the posters here are just reinforcing my point more & more.
>>74692916
Fucking hell I want to mount that ass and pump all of my seed into this semen demon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk
>constantly shame and emasculate men
>turn 35 with no kids and ask where the good men have gone
>now it doesn't matter there's millions of shitskins not concerned with shaming or emasculating their men
>your culture and genes die because of feminazi mind cancer.
gg roasties
>>74695390
>It's all da wimmin/jooz/niggaz fault, waaaaah!
Seriously? At least >>74692072
had
>>JUST MAN UP
right.
I don't know what my ideal mate would be. I prefer being alone so I guess someone who goes away when I don't want them around and comes during brief periods of loneliness, then is happy to leave as soon as I want them gone again. Also never sleep in the same bed that would drive me insane.
As usual, Austrailia is shitposting.
>>74695594
>>74695594
>shaming men has gotten us to this point
>good idea let's shame them some more
>this will surely get them to re-engage!
>>74695594
>dairy
>>74695033
> I think the calibre of your women is about where you're looking for them
Stop this, your kissless virgin is showing. Meeting compatible, single women in real life is almost completely random with slight modifiers based on looks, personality, and wealth. Going to specific areas to find women is either stalking or soliciting prostitution.
'Normal' women are very much corrupted by social media feminist empowerment culture. If you have to trawl through backwater churches and free public libraries to find the odd woman out, it is indicative that we have a massive problem on our hands concerning the general population.
The average woman thinks nothing of wearing veneer thin yoga pants without a skirt and going to public places, knowing full well she's being ogled. We passed the point of trouble a decade or so ago.
>>74694711
I'm working on it. I'm actually doing cardio instead of just lifting and I'm eating nothing but lean meat and vegetables until I lose the last of my extra fat.
Speaking of which, I heard about ketosis diets here and /fit/ didn't respond to me because they were too busy talking about off-topic shit. Any of you guys trying ketosis? It seems to be working for me so far.
>>74695033
>self confidence is a real turn on for women.
Confidence is great and all but, at least in my experience, it means nothing when you've got to compete with guys who look like pic related. My neighbor in the dorms had a body like this dude. I once hit on a girl with all the confidence that I could muster. She got all bashful and flirtatious, said I "had balls", and then rejected me and proceeded to follow my neighbor around like a puppy, even though he pointblank told her that it wasn't going to happen. Multiple times. She wasn't uncommon either. My college experience has been just like /pol/ described. The vast majority of women will pursue the top 10-20% of men, and apparently if one of these Ubermenschen is pretty enough, they'll keep pursing even if they're directly rejected.
Sad thing is, I'm not even that fat. I'm in the gym all the time and strong as fuck, it's just that I've got got some bodyfat around the middle because I drank a ton of beer and had a really carb heavy diet.
>>74695594
Please stop OP, I can't take this anymore.
>>74695866
Aside from you no-one else has mentioned "shaming".
see >>74695033
>Eat better, exercise more - self confidence is a real turn on for women.
>Get off here, go outside, do something active
>>74696075
>Stop this, your kissless virgin is showing.
Ummm
>>74687092
>t. married for nearly 20yrs,couple of kids.
>The average woman thinks nothing of wearing veneer thin yoga pants without a skirt and going to public places,
Literally NONE of the women I know would dream of going out in public dressed like that.
I don't know man, here the woman are in their majority leftists and cultural marxists. I want a conservative gf to create my own family and have children with, but women today are just too much "liberated".
I think my fascist ideas don't help finding someone, especially girls, who tend to be more sensitive with immigrants and human trash. I only want a traditional marriage, I don't want to be a Don Juan or have sucess with girls, just a traditional-fascist life.
>>74696076
its funny watching women get mad getting rejected by attractive guys. They look like agitated cats. Too bad there are not enough chads to cause these butthurt and lols.
>>74696076
Actually it's because you are under 6 feet tall.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22gtSCJd9jA
>>74695999
>not white so her lactose shits will be extra juicy
>>74685849
I just want a woman that isn't completely fucking insane.
In other words, a woman that doesn't exist.
>>74689838
>Why would I mate with a physically inferior specimen?
>if it's not the wannabe Chads it's the mgtowidiots.
I dont get it what does mgtow have to do with anons lack of understanding for injuries?
>>74690105
Also why would you upload this garbage? It is literally two idiots unable to use a fucking app designed for children robbing me of 30 seconds that I am now demanding back in form of an answer!
>>74696277
>Literally NONE of the women I know would dream of going out in public dressed like that.
Maybe because you live in a Hell-like environment, Baza. I'm in Jersey, it's everywhere. I went to Norway a little while back and it's much the same.
I mean, I complain about it from a logical standpoint, but when it's a 9/10 and you can see the curvature of her spine and childbearing capabilities with nothing left to guesswork, it's instinctively awesome at first.
Fuark
>>74696561
>with nothing left to guesswork
Thats precisely what some take issue with. Its the old question miniskirt or hotpants and the isle splits with the sole point of either seeing or leaving it up to the imagination which appears to some as a stimuli. These people are most likely the same that take issue with yoga pants and the likes.
>>74696293
First of all, you are a fucking retard.
>I want ma waifu 2 b redpilled fascist bae ;___;
Good women aren't found. They're made.
If you're a fascist you'd know not to waste your time looking for an intellectual woman. You want a woman from a rural place who is feminine and traditional out of nature and culture, not because she's against degeneracy or whatever.
YOU LIVE IN A COUNTRY WHERE IT'S LEGAL TO GET 'EM YOUNG! 13 and you can start a relationship. Don't be a retard looking for a full grown mature woman with her own opinions and a sexual past. Teach a girl to be a housewife and a mother, and she'll motivate you to be a better man.
>>74694250
LOW TEST
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>>74696453
But I am six feet tall bro.
>>74685849
Well.... I pretty much accept that there will always be a better option than me. Never fails. I'm not mgtow but I kinda don't have a choice. I'm gonna die alone. I've accepted it.
>>74693622
>I'm a 6'2" good looking guy
prove it
>>74696551
>Also why would you upload this garbage?
I didn't, anon was incorrect.
>>74696561
>it's instinctively awesome at first.
Not disagreeing - but pic related. As is oft repeated in our house
>Leggings aren't pants!
>be 5'5
>be 28
>have literally like one or two low quality women interested in me in the past 7 years
just kill me now senpai
>>74697017
Pedro, you know nothing. I don't search between them because the don't exist.
Also,I live in a big city. This is a shit
>>74697912
don't be a fucking fag and sit about mopping on the internet how you are such a failure get up and fucking do something you umotivated lazy piece of shit that's the only way you are going to get somewhere
>>74698616
Thanks for the pep talk. But I wouldn't even know where to start. And don't say gym; I go 5 days a week, and have what I think would be considered a decent build. Hasn't helped a fucking bit.
>>74698616
Also an apprentice electrician.
>>74698607
>be me
>ignore every single woman that shows a smidgen of interest
>don't feel like a shitter
>>74698794
Try reading osmething. Philosophy or history
>>74698794
J U S T
be yourself :^)
>>74698910
Recommendations?
>>74698972
Plato, the Republic. If you are fascist you will enjoy it. Also Marcus Aurelius in order to get out of depression and anxiety.
Then, read Polybius and Amianus Marcelinus.
>>74698927
I'm a hardcore introvert and there isn't any getting around it. Don't mean to sound like a defeatist, but fuck. It is what it is.
>>74699122
Screenshotted. Thanks for the recommendations. I'll give them a read.
>>74699172
good, other people are only a hindrance in your life
>>74696453
>>74694063
I'm not saying I don't believe you, but I've had a lot of manlet friends who are really good at getting chicks. There's a lot to be said for a combination of muscles and social skills.
>>74698794
> have what I think would be considered a decent build.
Just speaking from experience here, but decent probably isn't going to be good enough. Decent looks like garbage next to guys like this.
By the way, how do you resign yourself to a life alone, but deal with having to be around normies, couples, hot women etc. on a daily basis? I tried to give up not too long ago, but I just couldn't. I'm either going to get to level I want or kill myself.
>>74687092
I would definitely wife this whore
>>74698613
How do you know my name?
So the entire thread has been the following:
>Stop being so fucking picky about the women you fuck and start diving into that 4/10 muff
>But I am overweight and women don't pick me anyway
>EAT RIGHT AND GET FIT AND MUSCULAR FAGGOT WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
OP is a feminist cuntbag. Sage in all fields.
>>74699334
Alright maybe I have a shit build. But I'm leaps and bounds above the average American. That I know.
And I dunno, man. I guess you just resign yourself when you get shit on one too many times. When a dead average girl turns you down, there's something wrong and I don't fucking even know how to fix it. So fuck it. Best I can do is just not fucking care anymore. Anyway, excuse me while I relocate myself to /r9k/...
>married to a nice pretty girl
>she's warm, kind and just wonderful
>honestly she's also not very intelligent and is borderline incompetent
I don't know, I'm completely happy with this. I'm not saying that's how women have to be, i'm actually way more pro-equality than most people on /pol/, i'm aware women can be smarter and more more competent than men, i'm just saying i personally prefer it when my spouse ISN'T that. i like to take care of a girl. i don't see why that's sexist. is it? i dunno
>>74687092
poppy morgan, a pornwhore
I'm sorry but I just watched the new seth rogen movie last night called the Night Before Chrismas and the main character Justin gordan levit JGL or something was a NEET and he was able to get an extremely hot girlfriend who was in love with him. So it's not true that girls only care about money, some actually look past that to the person you actually are.
>>74700171
>movies
>real life
>>74700312
he was jesting.
actually i'm not sure, he might not have been. that's how far we've gone...
>>74699758
>Alright maybe I have a shit build.
>But I'm leaps and bounds above the average American. That I know.
No no, your build probably is decent. Mine is too. The problem is just that the standard we're being held to is extremely high. What's your diet like? If you're in the gym 5 days a week, the thing keeping you stuck at decent is probably what you're eating.
No fat chicks, no retards, no horse faces, and nobody over my age by more than 2 years.
That doesn't seem that picky.
>>74700171
lel
>>74700171
Joseph Gordon Levitt is the kind of dude who could pull of being a NEET and getting women to fawn over him. Also >>74700312
>>74700417
I do carb backloading. Basically the tl;dr is that I wait to spike my insulin after the gym. I'm actually a hell of a lot better now that I do legs (and I mean really fucking do them) twice a week. I really need to just put the last piece of the puzzle in and do HIIT as much as I hate cardio. That's honestly what is holding me back.
>>74687136
That is not what the greentext says.
What it says is: if your gf/bf isnt that great but is great compared to what you regulary see than you are more satisfied. Means: If all women at work are fucking hamplanets but your gf is kinda ok than she is a fucking godess compared to the hamplanets for you.
I didnt read the study but i assume this effect is greater for women than for men.
>>74700517
REALLY? what is it with you americfags and that guy? he's Joe McAverage the Average Guy
>>74699894
>i'm aware women can be smarter and more more competent than men,
Well said fellow married phamalam
>>74700015
News just in - married men fap too!
>>74700891
>If all women at work are fucking hamplanets but your gf is kinda ok than she is a fucking godess compared to the hamplanets for you.
Actually quite succinct. I think anons comment was to my grandpappy's quote.
>>74700417
Oh and drinking on the weekend... just on Saturday nights. That's one of my pitfalls too. Trying to talk myself out of a 6 pack and a pint of jack right now, actually.
>>74693839
>It's hard
Therefore impossible for the likes of most anons.
27 y/o kissless virgin with good job reporting in.
Been doing a lot of research on Thailand, highly considering taking a couple weeks off and just going on a sex marathon.
I'm a christian man, so the thought troubles me a bit. But the more and more I go on it gets harder to live like this. I still can't look cute girls in the eye or hold normal conversations with them. Two weeks of straight fucking 9/10 asians on the cheap should get me closer to being a normal human being.
Any advice?
>>74701041
>Trying to talk myself out of a 6 pack and a pint of jack right now, actually.
Cheezus! Alco/pol/ic here - that was basically a Tuesday for me. Go easy m8.
>>74693622
You are really fucking stupid and delusional and by the way you talk and your ideas you sound like you've never so much as had a normal friendship, let alone a relationship with a woman
You are the living breathing embodiment of 4chan autism.
>>74701286
I'm not saying I'm an alcoholic. Just saying that even that amount can be a detriment to progress in physical fitness.
>>74701236
i wouldn't go to thailand, it's the mcdonalds of asia to put it in terms a simple american mind would understand(i'm kidding). go to Seoul or Tokyo. The homogeny assures you'll get laid just from the novelty of being white and over five feet tall, and the girls are much better quality-they don't even have penises
>>74701348
>wah wah doesn't conform to my bias!
Grow up, you child.
>>74701019
He's just the right kind of average, bro. American girls just dig him. My best friend looks just like him, and gets more ass than a toilet seat.
>>74701041
I don't know your exact build or anything, but I'd say lay off the alcohol. I've completely given up drinking until I hit my goal weight/body fat percentage. The only sweet thing I eat is my morning bowl of cereal, and it's basically the only carbs I eat all day.
>>74701415
>Just saying that even that amount can be a detriment to progress in physical fitness.
Fucken' oath! Wasn't trying to suggest anything - as I said, if that was your daily, THEN you'd need to be worried. Also remember that beer and premixes are basically sugar/carbs.
>>74701236
>thailand
>9/10 asians
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>74685849
>>If you want to buy a pig, go to the pig farmer not the man at the market stall.
What is this backwoods riddle?
>>74701482
Japanese women would be my first choice but I hear being white isn't enough anymore, and it's expensive as fuck. It looks like in Thailand for $100 you can get an 8 or 9/10 to stay with you all day and night, and they actually pretend to be your girlfriend.
The videos I've seen were full of hot girls. I think the whole experience would be easier and more helpful to developing my social skills and confidence for a virgin like me where I can stay with the girl for a full day rather than a quick business transaction.
>>74701703
see
>>74687092
>if you go to a bar or club (where people engage in lewd/promiscuous behavior, drink and or take drugs etc.) that's the type of grill you're going to find - a substance abusing slut.
>>74701666
Well, I used to think that too but I've been watching this guys videos a lot and the women are gorgeous. Sure some are ruff but more than enough hot ones to go around it seems.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5y7AgY2nwk
>>74701727
well, if you like like south-east asians give it a go. i've never really liked them myself, they seem like what happens when you cross black people with east asians
>>74701817
hmm. Good advice.
>>74692835
could benefit from plastic surgery
>>74701996
>>74701817
Well duh, it's hard to meet girls anywhere else though. All the decent ones met their dream dude in the library at college or were engaged by the end of high school.
If you're over 25 working full time there are really no other options to meet girls.
>>74701996
>tfw I met my missus at the library...
>>74701236
You should do it anon, not gonna be able to when you're dead
>>74702181
>All the decent ones met their dream dude in the library at college
Oh snap!
>>74685849
It's literally just a wet hole.
You're devoting your entire life and lines of reasoning towards getting more wet holes.
Settling down with a good woman to have kids and secure the future generation is one thing; but I'm not some nigger that goes "MUP DA DOO DIDDA GIMME DAT ASS" over every woman I see, nor do I compromise my ideals to get said ass.
>>74701236
>Any advice?
I turn 27 in just under two weeks and the only sex I've had that didn't involve prostitutes was with really drunk low-quality women, so I think I understand where you're coming from.
You can go to Thailand if you want but in my experience, the act of sex isn't going to make you feel better in the long run. If you're anything like me, and I think we're fairly similar, what you really want is some combination of companionship and being wanted/desired by someone you're actually attracted to.
As far as your Christian morals go, I wouldn't really sweat it. As far as sins go, premarital sex and prostitution aren't big ones, and if you're not a Catholic, forgiveness is either a prayer away or already granted to you depending on your denomination. I won't get into the philosophy of feeling guilt over an action would either be the result of God's will or of an untenable situation that he put you in, lest you tip a fedora at me.
No.
My goal is a freckled pale redhead Christian qt, with big tits and ass, and is a Virgin.
And 16 to 18 is the best to go for, higher then that is impossible for my standards.
Course I can always be alone and fuck girls easy, and fall back on that crazy brunette for "love". But I'd rather go for the former.
>>74702254
Yeah you're right guess I'll just start hanging out on college campuses during my lunch breaks...
>>74702387
Thanks a lot man this is a good post.
I think I might go through with it...you're right I so much don't want the sex, and want companionship. That's why I chose Thailand even though the women aren't as attractive becuase they act like a real girlfriend would...I just want to know what it feels like.
I just feel if I do it I'll have some major improvements in my social skills and interactions with women. Thanks a lot for the response, I'll consider it though. Who knows...
>>74701703
Instead of trying to date the conventional way like bars, clubs, etc. (the market stalls) , get in good with the parents (farmers) of some nice young (late teens) girls and hope they offer to set you up with them.
I've actually got a greenlight from the parents of two very attractive and feminine girls who were sheltered from being whores, one of whom just turned 18, because my she's a friend of my mother's.
The only reason I haven't made a move yet is because I figure once they're out in the wider world, they'll trade up to a Chad. My options are either wife one of them up and lock them in the house forever, or improve myself. I'm going with the latter.
I've always had pretty low standards
I can easily get a gf
I dont want one right now
>>74702438
Maybe it's just the superficial nature of the college I attend (Commiefornian here), but unless you've got really good social skills and/or are fairly attractive, hanging out at a college campus will be a frustrating experience for you.
>>74702896
>That's why I chose Thailand even though the women aren't as attractive becuase they act like a real girlfriend would...I just want to know what it feels like.
Maybe look into the Philippines. I haven't actually been myself, but from what I understand there are some cities with the same cheap but but pretty whores who'll do the girlfriend experience thing, and plenty of other places with regular girls who are way less slutty than American girls because of Catholic and East Asian upbringings, that also love white guys.
>>74703182
Walk me (18 yr old noob) through how you would get one. You walk up to a girl and then
>>74702387
This is incorrect in terms of Christian morals. All sins are equally bad in the eyes of the lord. Sins aren't 'weighted' with ones being 'bigger' or 'smaller than others. While using the Lord's name in vain, or telling a white lie have smaller consequences here on earth than murdering someone, they are all sin and all count the same spiritually.
If you walk around with this nonsense mindset of committing any sin you want because "forgiveness is a prayer away" you are directly violating what Jesus instructed his followers to do when they "Go and sin no more." John 8:11. You are supposed to TRY not to sin and avoid it as best you can. Indulging in your favorite ones intentionally and then being fake 'repentant' later is not being true to the spirit of the command. You can live however you want to live, but I am not the one who is going to hold you accountable for your actions in the end.
>>74687092
this jew makes me rock hard holy shit
It's a fallacy that if you lower your standards in looks for a woman -- which is their primary value, both in terms of being aesthetically-pleasing and/or fuckable, as well as genetic value for offspring -- that you will somehow end up with someone more loyal and grateful.
While it may seem true in the immediate sense because she has less options than the hotter women who have either not yet hit the looks wall (if the uglier woman you're choosing is older and was previously cute, and her ticket on the cock carousel expired), or if she was never pretty in the first place, she will still be eternally broken by the previous cocks she's had.
You will never be special. Eventually, she will grow discontent with you; the more dick she has had, the sooner she will long for new dick. If by chance you land a chaste religious virgin, you may have some hope. But, even those women are endlessly dazzled by the Sex in the City culture promulgated by popular culture: it's on her phone, it's at the grocery store, it's at her job, and unless you take that chaste religious virgin and move to the isolated country and have her do the dishes, sew, and do hobbies, sooner or later...
... SHE'S GONNA GET BLACKED
I'm extremely picky but it's because I have no issue getting dates. There's only 2 girls I've felt an insane connection with and until I find another, I'm not settling for someone I'll be unhappy with. I see so many people in relationships that cause stress and negativity in their life, they complain and complain but never do anything about it because they can't live being single. Only the weak settle because they can't function in life alone. There is a difference between choosing to be alone and not being able to attract anyone. Those that monkey branch are even more unstable.
>>74691873
under rated
>>74704250
oh or fucks sake, believeing a supreme being who created the universe morally cares about how microbes on a small rock planet choose to mate is so preposterous it's absolutely mind-blowing.
>i made all the galaxies of the cosmos, but i take personal offense this lower being stuck its dick into this other lower being's asshole!
come the fuck on
>>74697017
>this post
Beautiful
>>74685849
I cant stand girls who, if they were thin, would have tiny A-cup tits, but because they're fat they have fat man tits. They think their flabby c-cup man-tits look the same as a thin womans natural c-cup tits
>>74694250
Let's see a picture of you
>>74693530
Probably because you've cooked something at public or semipublic get-togethers and are passable-or-better at it.
>>74704510
what's your method for acquiring a date?
>>74689838
>lets be honest she probably looks better dressed than naked
Confirmed. Hot degenerate for comparison.
>>74703976
at your age the best way is to meet them through friends. look for body language to see if they seem interested (fixing themselves, eye contact, body position) then talk to them like you would anyone else then flirt.
>>74704250
That's how I feel which is giving me pause.
I don't want to be a virgin loser anymore but I don't want to disappoint my family by burning an eternity in hell just so I could fuck dead eyed asian sluts and fit in with society while they are all happy and together in heaven.
WOULD GOD REALLY DENY ME THIS?
Maybe I'll talk it over with my preacher.
>>74687544
"Goyim, give me your sheckels and ill let you fuck me tonight. I might also restrain from accusing you of raping me tonight if you help me raise the child I am 2 months pregnant with from my unemployed lover, Tyrone."
>>74704250
At the risk of you tipping a fedora at me, I actually don't believe in God anymore. My loose interpretation of sin and morality comes from what I've learned about the Bible throughout childhood combined with my own interpretation of morality.
Anyway, if all sins are equal, and all of us are born with Original Sin that prevents us from ever truly knowing God without accepting Christ and repenting, then it really doesn't matter how much one sins in life does it?
>>74705095
She's cute, but I think I'd take my chances with the thicker one.
Just find an Aryan /pol/-tier woman like Evalion.
Pic related. Clearly would fit right in with NS Germany; well, maybe Weimar Berlin...
>>74705173
Very good! Can I just ask for their number after like 5 minutes of chatting? I don't know how to flirt and would prefer a black-and-white process - again, what is YOUR advice and what has worked for you?
>>74685849
if I can't get a hot girl I don't want nothing, I would rather be single
>>74705798
Spend less time around here and threads like this and your natural instinct will take control naturally.
>>74705592
I always love a nice white box.
>>74685849
I moved to 2nd best Korea from Bongland and get all the qt3.14 I need here with little effort. Easily punch well above my weight here.
>>74705592
It's not true!
Right?......
>>74705592
You need to post this image without the bar so we can be sure it's her.
Dunno about you guys, but women in my fucking city are just not worth the effort. I have a good job, my own place/apartment near the CBD, ottermode body, etc and holy shit the lengths these cunts want you to go to in order to be 'worthy' to date is astounding. Sydney may have some decent qties but they're mostly the cool backpacking euros desu.
I cant imagine the hellhole of Melbourne, you probably need to cut off your balls and have a vote green tattoo to meet a local woman.
Then they wonder why they're alone in their 30s, cannot honestly wait till Im 30, you arleady see the tables turning at 25. Just keep focusing on yourself and dont go cheetoes mode and you can afford to be picky.
>>74705798
flirting isn't really black and white. You should read this to get a general idea
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
I would practice at a party where people are drinking because it's easier. If the girl seems like she likes talking with you then I would ask for her number
>>74705971
That kid's still young, but I wouldn't put much stock in natural instinct. I was an awkward failure with girls before I found 4chan, and while I'm sure it hasn't made me much better, I doubt it's made me worse.
>>74706250
It is worse and you know it. This place warps minds man. Especially someone who is 18 can be easily warped into BS.
Not trying to argue I'm just saying.
>>74701727
I now exclusively date Korean and Jap women and I still think they are far superior to my native women (ugly Brits) and never found it hard to get a date here. They are all very submissive in bed though but will basically do anything g and most of them quite like being fetishised.
what are your guy's views on rape?
>>74706132
> going to identify her by her labia majora
wew lad
>>74706488
I understand why it's wrong, but like massive amount female rape fetishists out there, I can't deny that it's sexy under certain circumstances.
>>74706488
>>74706629
Get out and start your own thread jamal.
>>74706460
Different strokes, nu-male faggot.
All I ask for in a woman is for her not to be hideous, to be a virgin, to want at least 4 children, and to not be atheist.
Not that picky, but good luck finding a Western female that ticks all those boxes, or even one.
>>74706792
Seems like if you find the right young girl in a Catholic church you could guarantee everything but the 4 children.
>>74699172
>I'm a hardcore introvert and there isn't any getting around it.
While I kind of like being an introvert, I will say the downside is it is so difficult to pick up women. Really the only downside imo.
>>74706845
>le meet girls at chuch meme
>>74685849
>If you want to buy a pig, go to the pig farmer not the man at the market stall.
So... arranged marriages?
>>74695033
>aisle 6
>but dat ass
>>74685849
is this girl a pornstar? i need to fap
>>74685849
I'm not too picky. I'm just extremely depressed and don't want to get involved in a relationship right now, I have to focus on other things.
>>74690462
>Eating poultry
What are you, gay?
fuck yeah thanks boobpedia
>>74685849
if you need a scientist/sociologist to explain this to you.........then there's really no hope anyway
>>74706962
Oh le fuck off.
I know a girl who, except for the for the kids thing, checks every box on the dude's list and she's in Church a lot.
The only reason I haven't wifed her up myself is because she's my cousin.
>>74707358
let me guess you live in alabama
Relationships are fucked up
>average women know she can get almost every guy she want to fuck
>most women say they treat bad men "because they deserve it"
>many women don't like man that want to fuck them in the first night because they feel used.
>for all of this, men who don't want serious relatinships (like me) see that it's very difficult
>and if you want to find a serious relationship is very hard to because women act like fucking concited
>Big name university once again devotes significant resources and time to once again prove that water is in fact wet
Women are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they have a hold on another.
game is everything. women are dumb. they are easily persuaded.
>>74691873
>Paris Kennedy
Man, she has always given me a stiffy for looking like my milf neighbour that I'll never fuck.
>>74707358
Are you me?
>conservative
>she's essentially the female version of me just not autistic and somewhat successful
>a bright, level headed, whatever
>wants a bunch of kids
>is virgin apparently
>constantly bitches to her mom, and a lot of the family actually, that all the guys she know are either manwhores or those fruity in the closet church guys who go on all the church functions
>she's like my third cousin
Fuck
>>74707443
California. She's just literally so perfect she brings out the redneck in me.
>>74701826
I've been to pattaya in 1987 USN. Go the distance and head to Bangkok instead. Not far away by bus. Also wach your back don't ever go it alone. Guys were getting jacked up and that was back in the 80s. Lots of fun and yes tons of pussy BUT warning. Weed out the ladyboys. The four warning signs of ladyboys. Adams apple, large hands, deeper voice and biggest sign..........a penis. Look for the signs before touching. Good Luck shipmate.
i never know what to say to a girl for the first time. Wat do?
Can someone tell me what's the point of having a relationship if you just don't like people? I've tried to find people I like and I've met many different types of people, they're just boring and I prefer to spend my time alone. I just don't see the point of a relationship, it seems like a lot of work for little gain.
Easy. Go up and say do you give free hugs I'm a lonely guy needing a hug. Go from there. Keep asking and you will drown in pussy. They love honesty. Your courage will build.
>>74707659
Pretty sure third cousins are fair game bro. I mean, you'll have some explaining to do to your family, but if you're actually in love with her, they might understand.
I'm not quite the same as you. This girl is my first cousin. My mom and my aunt are only half-siblings, so I guess she's only my half cousin, but there's no talking my way into this one.
>>74687223
> Lower your standards to "pretty/normal"
It doesn't matter, even the ugly ones are degenerate entitled cunts.
I meet uglies all the time who tell me that they are the cream of the crop and all guys want them.
Turn off the welfare, that is what needs to happen soon I hope.
>>74707809
One word Bro. Hookers. You pay them to go away after you've nutted.
>>74707270
>Those labia
barf
>>74705592
>>74706008
>>74706101
>>74706132
it's fake but this is real
>>74705095
>>74707809
There's no point. Even if you have libido you don't need another person to solve it.
>>74708239
>>74708032
I've thought about this and it's what I plan to do if all else fails. I just want to concentrate on my business, get hookers, and then marry some dumb/nice housewife to breed with, because I eventually want children to pass on my genes.
>>74707472
>>for all of this, men who don't want serious relatinships (like me) see that it's very difficult
Man, I don't want serious relationships or any kind of relationships simply because I don't have the time and energy to commit myself to them.
The only things I want to do whenever I'm home are sleeping and playing vidya, everything else is just too tiresome to bother with.
nah
women flirt with me all the time, friends tell me I'm wasting my prime years rejecting them
kill yourselves, hope the human race dies out with you selfish cunts
>>74708244
Have you ever had a blowjob?
Satisfaction in a relationship is directly proportional to underwear size.
>>74708318
You kill yourself, faggot. Nobody fucking flirts with me and my prime years are all behind me now. I don't think I even asked for much.
>>74708295
Only other option is meeting a professional concentrating on her career also but wants sex after a few drinks but nothing long term. Their out there too.
>>74708315
The pussy need will make that you try harder than that.
>>74708435
gladly you potato looking mother fucker
>>74685849
Oh boy, another inexperienced kid citing a 'study' conducted by government funded 'professional experts'.
Whenever I see 'study' I stop taking you seriously.
Western women were corrupted by multi-wave feminazism. It was bad enough when Margaret Thatcher called it 'toxic' but now women see men as the enemy. Evny, resentment and blame are their starting points of reference. This is part and parcel of cultural marxism's demoralization and destabilization.
On the other end, males have been intentionally emasculated since the feminized began to view masculinity as pathology and overprescribed ADHD drugs, boys could no longer be boys; they were 'defective'. To this, the technocracy with its pornography have contributed greatly to both sexes' inability to develop proper social skills and coping mechanisms. So it's no wonder young men are filled with anger and resentment, too.
Given this climate; with few maturing in a healthy way having learned about male / female interaction from a mother and father in a stable household, the majority, especially of females, have become increasingly narcissistic, manipulative and emotionally abusive. So I don't fault young MGTOWs a whole hell of a lot for escapism to seek peace of mind.
Sincerely, a worldy old man who's experienced enough women, seen it all and done more than I can recall.
>>74707703
Thanks man.
Is it really dangerous to go it alone? I've been reading up a lot on it and it looks like I'd be O.K. if I mind my own business and don't piss anyone off.
>>74687323
That porn cunt is not white. That's a mulatto and that's what they look like when they are mostly white. Definitely still gas chamber fodder
>>74708350
>implying i've ever had a friend let alone a sexual relationship
>>74708145
Wow, there's multiple shots of this I've seen. I have the other uncensored one, but I thought nudity is forbidden on pol?
>>74707948
>Pretty sure third cousins are fair game bro.
In Muslim countries or the 19th century, sure.
>I mean, you'll have some explaining to do to your family, but if you're actually in love with her, they might understand.
Well I don't actually "love" her like that because she's my cousin breh. Also even if I did she wouldn't reciprocate, obviously. Are you autistic?
>I'm not quite the same as you. This girl is my first cousin. My mom and my aunt are only half-siblings, so I guess she's only my half cousin, but there's no talking my way into this one.
Wew lad
>>74708811
Good post
Women hate men now and porn has made us weak
Iinternet since teenage years without control and not having other interest or social activities in your life is a very very bad idea
I think that is what fucked up me.
>>74709134
You will eventually find someone who will make you happier. They are currently looking for you. Keep your head up and be confident in yourself regardless of your self image in your brain. Trust that.
>>74709445
Well, at least you know whats wrong and how to address the problem. Experience as you will and interact until you find one with whom you click. When you get knocked down, get up quickly. Each defeat only makes you stronger. Good luck.
>>74687825
Any woman who acts like this in public or around friends is an attention seeking whore.
Throw her in the gas chamber
>>74709651
Nice joke. How will this person find me if I stay inside my house for five years, never exiting it? I won't look for this peron so good luck is all I can say.
I'm just an autistus maximus, obviously I'm not gonna bother trying to converse with people and form relationships when I don't like them.
>>74709975
>>74708820
The military had my back when I was there. If your in a foreign country alone and have legal or crime issues it's much harder to find a way out. It's much harder for others to then travel there to bail you out. Going with one or two other vacationers gives you a fighting chance if the wrong people target you. But with the attitude you posted yes you could still be fine and not regret it. Personally it's even more fun when I shared the expierence with a few friends and we took turns getting drunk while the others were recovering from their hangovers but watched our backs and kept us on the straight and narrow. If your American you area target in any foreign country, been that way since the early 80s. Thugs always go for the loner or easiest target. A group of friends even just one friend increases survival rates plus you can share memories 20 years later. Good Luck and yes stay at good places and don't get gobsmacking alone if you go alone and you will be safer. Last tip. Always find where the US Embasy is and contact info incase of personal disaster/problems/safety. Have fun and do it. I'll NEVER forget my days in Bangkok. Never.
>>74709222
>In Muslim countries or the 19th century, sure.
You'd be surprised how many states it's legal to marry your first or half cousin in.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States_by_state
Third is so far removed you're barely fucking related unless I'm misunderstanding.
Never say never. Life even yours is always constantly changeing. How you feel now may not be your feelings in the future. I do understand you but still life has a funny way of making things happen for you all the time, plus take a chance once in awhile as you feel more comfortable doing interactions with all types of people. Kinda like pol.
>>74710618
It's still a cousin senpai. The family would never be alright with it.
>>74710205
The never say never comment was for you. Fyi
>>74710229
>projecting this hard
its women that are way too fucking picky, not to mention they have no loyalty whatsoever
>>74711114
Nah, his pic was rather accurate.
>>74710765
I had to look it up just to be sure, but shit man your only real blood tie is your great great grand parents. Your family would probably hear you out. Especially since most of them probably wouldn't be able to tell you exactly how you're related to each other anyway. I mean, who the fuck actually remembers how cousin rules work past first and second anyway.
Plus, if she's really perfect for you and you love her, you could elope if you think she'd go for it. I'd elope with my cousin, but I doubt I could convince her.
>>74708288
had sex for the first time in 2+ years last night, pic related my face all day today
>>74711349
>letting "love" aka your dick tell you who it's okay to marry
>>74711639
How do you do it?
>>74701348
Calm down tumblr. You've had a little too much to trigger.
>>74711700
First off, by not marrying and having kids with your cousin.
>>74711821
Oh fuck you. She's your third cousin.
>>74711212
Because I have standards, that makes me an overweight, socially awkward, mouth breathing cunt?
Try again
>>74688809
THOSE UGLY NAILS.
THEY PAINT THE TIP OF THEIR NAILS BLACK... IT LOOKS LIKE SHE'S JUST DUG UP A PILE OF DIRT SHIT.
IMPOSSIBLE TO APPRECIATE A WOMAN. I ALMOST GAVE HER A CHANCE AND THEN I SAW HER NAILS.
BRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRr.... FUCKING ANNOYING NAILS.
>>74709764
Thanks anon.
