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My best friend just passed away from cancer, at 22 years old.
I'm devastated but music is helping a little.
I know this is taboo but could I please get a few recs for music dealing with this subject matter..please and thanks.
So far these have been helping me cope..
City and color - little hell
Sun kil moon - benji
Nick Drake - pink moon
Eels - electro shock blues
Turbonegro - All My Friends Are Dead
i'm so sorry anon, i can't imagine the pain you're going through.
songs about leaving by clarissa's wierd and wish you were here by pink floyd helped me through the loss of my beloved dog
>>66378461
>I know this is taboo
do you know where you are? also, The Antlers - hospice
>>66378461
If you like Sun Kil Moon also try his album "April"
>>66378461
>My best friend just passed away from cancer, at 22 years old.
Check out Matt Elliott for some sad songs my man. Not exactly about people dying but it's about the feeling it conveys.
hospice certainly deals w/ this subject
https://youtu.be/4s7jLW0RvjU
Get better soon.
Sorry to hear that anon. Carrie and Lowell by Sufjan Stevens is a pretty tender record about dealing with loss. It's helped me out in some rough times and I hope it can do the same for you.
sorry about that op.
listen to some grouper
>>66378461
Haha glad he died
>>66378751
>that kid who still thinks being ironic is funny
>>66378751
>>66378564
Xdddddddddddddddddddd
>>66378657
bump
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yo6tvj4c1ko
Sort of related i guess
>Do you remember all the words to the songs we sang back when we were young?
>'Cause all I remember is coming home to empty bedrooms, heart attacks and "son, I'm Sorry"s
>depression is real
>>66378751
It was a female.
>>66378657
Thanks for reminding me I have that on my iPod.
>>66378551
I'm familiar with all his work.
>>66378513
Thanks for your input.
>>66378600
I'm biased towards him but I'll give his music another shot.
>>66378730
Thanks.. never heard of grouper what genre is it?
>>66379026
>I'm biased towards him but I'll give his music another shot.
Only Myocardial Infarction Can Break Your Heart is the best one imo.
>>66378967
Thanks for posting a link. This reminds me of Jeff rosenstock though not really my cup of tea.
Coil - The Ape of Naples
Swans - Soundtracks for the Blind
Joy Division - Closer
The Glow pt.2
Hospice
Mount Erie
Deathconciousness
>>66379082
Just checked it out. I like it a lot already. Thanks anon.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIqM54X4TqQ
Cheer up you fucking cunt, a lot of people die every day, you just don't care about them. Sorry for "your" loss.
>>66379234
>Deathconciousness
Also read that dank ass booklet.
>>66379336
Why bother when there's people like you too myopic to ascertain the difference between grief and despondency.
By your logic I should either be totally dismissive towards the issue because death is natural, either that or I should be upset everyday because people I don't know are dying and grieving too.
I'm heartbroken but my world isn't ending so what's your point in saying that?
Seek wisdom, that attitutde detracts from anything positive and I know it's summer but fuck you really had to type that out.
>>66378461
what cancer was it
>>66379336
This is why I become insensitive
Why show something human when you'll look like a meandering bitch.
Sun kil moon?
More like Cancer kil friend
>>66379799
kek
>>66378461
Try:
Bruce Springsteen - Nebraska
John Lennon - John Lennon / Plastic Ono Band
Neil Young - After the Goldrush and On The Beach
Pink Floyd - Wish You Were Here
>>66378751
Why?
>>66378751
sometimes I forget this is 4chan
>>66379738
three tumors that were benign but they couldn't suppress the growth. It was probably the medication she was taking that did her in but I'm so sure as of right now.
One behind her spine, one in her heart on her aorta, and one near her ovaries.
how do i get cancer so i can die young, get unconditional love and max out a dilaudid tolerance
Aw come on man, wildflower wasn´t THAT bad
>>66378461
LCD Soundsystem - Someone Great
https://youtu.be/bOHLeXxfNu0
Maybe one of the best songs about loss ever
>>66378461
Ocean man is a super happy song, listened to it 24/7 when my dog died couple years back.
Ween - Ocean Man
true love waits - radiohead
anything microphones/mount eerie
>>66378461
I'm really very sorry for your loss
She's in a better place yo. I... saw my mom's ghost, and she's fine... so I don't think the dead are unhappy. I know it means nothing. Seems like all the good ones die young. Have you poured out liquor for her? She must have been an amazing person.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFeHZCzaxZ4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXdmRgulv54
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOAeSDmj6ig
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzNM7Hjz_Qw&list=PLyiZONE5PjOoPwoffv2aabd1xw3MIbI7Q&index=9
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c8qrwON1-zE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pil9raVqYs
Much love OP
fuck these stupid niggers shitposting in this thread
i feel your pain, OP, i really do hope you get through this, i doubt your friend would want to see you suffer for too long, just take your time to mourn and readjust and you'll be ok.
king creosote & jon hopkins - diamond mine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i34ZOaWotrY
the best way to listen to this album is exhausted, crying on your bed with headphones in and you fall asleep during the middle of it
sufjan stevens
romulus - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KOuepo6DP4k
flint for the unemployed and underpaid https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7IMmsRGRpA
Casimir Pulaski Day - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxMYqsvgX8c
romulus and flint are just tender songs but casimir pulaski day is a song from the perspective of someone losing their lover to bone cancer, it's very touching.
the mountain goats - ezekiel 7 and the permanent efficacy of grace https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWMaarpJbig
this is about a man getting tortured to death in a shed in mexico, and the killer driving off into the distance, trying to wipe it from his memory; still makes me stop and listen to it every time, though, it commands attention
>>66381983
Microwave your balls, or start smoking and buy some radioactive shit from united nuclear and inhale/eat it.
>>66379336
Expecto PATRONUM!
>>66379234
>Hospice
THIS
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>this.jpg
>>66383116
Can you Hospice faggots fuck off please? Everybody fucking heard it summerretards.
>>66383152
op didn't mention it
>>66378461
ive seen this image a couple times on here, whats the name of the album?
>>66383202
r+7
this usually provided me with a significant consolation at dark times in my life
>>66378461
OP there is this stuff called Zembrin which is a natural SSRI with few side effects, if you become seriously depressed.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_y53V7a544
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRxHL0HDmG8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKheKNdDsjo
First off, I'm so fucking sorry to hear it dude, being no stranger to death I know it's awful. I hope you can get through it.
I'm generally recommending everything I've listened to while dealing with loss, you may not like them but I found them sorta helpful.
Current 93-Sleep has his house
Grandaddy-The Sophtware slump
Mount Eerie-Dawn
Bohren and der club of gore-Geisterfaust
Sibylle Baier-Colour green
Scott Tuma-Hard again
Of the wand and the moon-The lone descent
Red sled choir-Trades EP
I found these kinda helpful in similar situations, I can promise you the same but I wish you all the best, take care of yourself.
>>66379026
Grouper is very dreamy shoegaze, mostly centered around the concept of loss and disassociation.
Listen to dream loss and her most recent release, also Dragging a dead deer up a hill.
>>66383327
I second Scott Tuma's "Hard Again." Life-changing album.
depression has become a buzzword. it started spreading on tumblr and has even managed to influence the normie boards on 4chan. depression is not synonymous with sadness ok champ? If you were actually depressed your serotonin levels would be so low that you would feel the same type of emptiness from silence as you would listening to your favorite song.
sorry for your loss, but it's just death. Death (onto others) is very often out of your control and it happens naturally to anyone at any given time. I would be sad as fuck if my best friend died too but just remember attachment causes suffering. Just realize he's gone and that he'd want you to be happy after his passing. Be indifferent, not emotional
>>66383509
I can't put into words the level of bright emotion and euphoria it contains, it's so bright and simplistic. I always feel like I'm remembering childhood holidays in the outback while listening.
>>66378461
listen to this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9D_N5gL6zUc
>>66383327
>Bohren and der club of gore
now THIS is melancholic music, just like death. I always chill the fuck out and listen to Piano Nights when I'm feeling sad or lonely
>>66383601
yeah op you're not really depressed just sad
>>66383601
>>66383686
God, guys, you don't know how he feels. Attachment is another way of saying love. Would you have him not love someone unconditionally, even if they're gone? You can't just turn off your feelings, and if it's not "clinical" depression it still hurts. Have some fucking tact guys, OP needs some support.
>>66383686
>Why bother when there's people like you too myopic to ascertain the difference between grief and despondency.
>By your logic I should either be totally dismissive towards the issue because death is natural, either that or I should be upset everyday because people I don't know are dying and grieving too.
>I'm heartbroken but my world isn't ending so what's your point in saying that?
>Seek wisdom, that attitutde detracts from anything positive and I know it's summer but fuck you really had to type that out.
>>66383601
Suppose I shouldn't have made the title depressed, but fuck I'm despondent and downtrodden right now.
Sad doesn't convey how I feel right now, but thanks for your jaded insight.
>>66383755
You can still love without becoming attached to someone/something.
>>66383755
I'm sorry it's just that when you've experienced clinical depression you feel insulted when others use 'depression' so lightly when 'sad' could be used. I have been through family member deaths before but real depression feels 100 times worse than grief
OP's case is special though because it's his best friend and he died so early, so of course he has my condolences and support. Good luck OP. I can recommend Dean Blunt - The Redeemer just because for some reason I've turned to his music when I've felt down, and it's a pretty great album
>>66383846
just krishnamurti up my thread senpai
No recommendation but sorry for your loss I hope she was happy before she passed
>>66383846
Shut up
>>66383755
Thank you, I know I'll be fine in a few days but right now I just want to take a lot of drugs..
And I know that won't fix my pain nor is it a good solution but I feel so empty right now I need something to fill the void I feel right now..
>>66383954
kk pal ;)
>>66383981
Marijuana and TV man. Don't forget to eat. And I know it sounds crazy but pouring alcohol for her and talking to her may help. She may even hear you if she decided to hang around before going to the light.
>>66383981
the first half of your post is good advice but the other half is sp00ky shit. the fuck man
