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How important is a gril's music taste in your decision to date her? I might give up on ever finding a patrician gf.
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>>65225726
I only care if she has a penis or not
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>>65225726
same here. They always listen to that shitty "indie" rock or Drake (and friends).
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>>65225866
Can you make a girl patrician by reccing her loads of stuff?
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>>65225726
It's not too important to be honest, My gf is pretty damn pleb but she's probably the greatest person Ive ever met. I wouldn't have it any other way

Plus Every /mu/tant would probably want a patrician gf, but a less patrician one at that. I don't think many people on here would be okay with a grill having superior taste and taking a backseat to her taste.
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>>65225726
The chances of finding a "patrician" girl are so slim that youre better off not focusing on finding someone with that kind of music taste.
What you want to do is find a girl with an open mind about music, not some dumb top 40s listener whod describe music she doesnt like as "weird". From this point, you can ease them into listening to other stuff that they might like.
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>>65225726
every girl I've dated with patrician taste is legit crazy.they all make horrible gfs who sleep with older guys or their drug dealers

just get a normal gf and keep music to yourself

T.guy who goes to a top tier liberal art university

stay away from girls with patrician taste
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just has to be open minded and accepting. i had a christian ex that tried to make me give up EVERYTHING, except for shitty christian music. fuck that noise.
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My gf and I saw DIIV last week. We met Dev too. It's fun when you're both pleb, OP.
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>>65226185
Kek
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>>65226185
>likes diiv
>calls others pleb
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not important at all

my obsession w/ music is representative of a depressing part of my life
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ITT: people that listen to /mu/core
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one of my favorite things about music is introducing others to new things so as long as she's willing to bear with me it's cool

preferably she's willing to go see concerts of bands i like but if not oh well
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>>65226231
I called myself pleb, you dolt.
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>>65226231
>clearly called himself and his gf pleb
>"calls others pleb"
we are hitting /x/ levels of IQ here
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Not really that important. I have enough friends that I share musical tastes with. What is important is that she's at least open-minded enough to appreciate what I listen to, even if she doesn't necessarily like it.

I had a gf for 2 years who started off with terrible taste (skrillex, avicii, drake, etc) but over the course of 2 years i introduced her to more and more stuff that she ended up really liking. im sure the dude she's with now was really impressed by "her" tastes
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>>65226260
sadly this
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I don't know that I'd be happy with someone who doesn't listen to music, but I don't care what she listens to, unless she's very close-minded about it.
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>>65225726
>I might give up on ever finding a patrician gf
The problem lies within your incorrect definition of patrician.
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I really don't care in the slightest. My favorite genres are hip hop and black metal and if I find a girl who likes both of these as much as I do, she's likely mentally ill. Yet, I don't care if I get a girlfriend who is devoted to being tr00 kvlt or just listens to top 40 pop bullshit and whatnot. All these girls who listen to /mu/core faggy indie-rock and post-punk are the most insufferable little shits I ever came across, I shit you not.

I'd much more prefer a super-pleb gf in contrast to my edgy underground tastes in black metal, industrial hip hop, black noise, harsh noise and so on. A girl who listens to girly pleb pop and electronic music can be refreshing for me when I come out of the cave where I work with black metal and black noise with my ears ringing.
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>>65226038
God, this is so fucking true. Every girl I've met with even borderline interest in avant-garde or esoteric music is fucking crazy. You just look into their eyes while they're talking non-stop and you can see the crazy. This girl I'm kinda seeing is just like that, she's into shit like Nurse With Wound and Faust, and always talks about her abusives exes that are like 10 years older than her, wtf man.
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>>65226038
Its disturbing hoe true that is

You can see it on facebook too, these girls are crazy
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>>65225726
its more important to surround yourself with different perspectives
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>>65226580
that's beautiful anon
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>>65226498
Still likes Faust tho :'( Patrician gone mental
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>>65226498
>talks about her exes all the time


What are you, some kind of cuck?
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I'd like a qt patrician bf very much so, yes.
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>>65226498
HOW MANY CRAZY BITCHES KNOW WHO FAUST IS
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>>65226498
>>65226564
I feel like these olders guys are us in the future. didn't get any pussy in college for our taste in art. and now fuck crazy 18 year old art chicks and we take all of our past aggression out on them
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>>65225726
Very important for one reason : people who are not into music are shitholes that should be wiped from the face of the earth. Everyone who answers the question "what do you listen to?" with "everything. I mean whatever is on the radio" is basically Donald Trump (usually without all the money)
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>>65226708
>everyone I don't like should just die
>Le Trump is the worst person in the world
Go back to 9gag and die there
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>>65225726
go to record stores and hipstery local shows you fucking dingus. best shot you have
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this filipino girl i'm seeing right now plays drums, guitar, and makes trance music

i play bass and guitar and we jam together so it's cool

when it comes to taste we listen to radiohead together but otherwise we don't have a lot of common taste - mostly chillwave stuff, tycho, trip hop... i keep my taste and she keeps hers and its alright desu
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>>65226744
He's not as bad as Hitler, but that's because Hitler is dead. Hitler and his kind should have been exterminated as well. And I'm saying that as a German. Thank the Lord for all the Muslims finally ending our terrible abomination of a culture.

(excepting Bach of course, he was an ok musician)
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>>65226260
This.
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>>65226498
Still remember the one time this girl met up with me at my dorm, grabbed my laptop, and proceeded to raid my spotify

>holy shit, Portishead?! I love them!

she's a cringey engineering major bordering on weeb now, 2 years later

Maybe I should stick with my own major, bio major girls are sane and open to stuff
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Not very, as long as she doesnt care what I play in the car than it's fine
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>>65226842
there is some powerful cuckoldry at work here
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>>65226185
You guys met the frogman?
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>>65226911
It is cuckoldry, but it's also a nice case of natural selection. Just 50 more years. I'm tearing up just thinking about the world without the humorless, stiff German scumbags who still believe in multiculturalism. We need someone like Trump to guide us. I love you anon. Many kisses.
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not terribly important, as long as it's not music that I hate.

i like showing people new music anyway, so that makes it interesting
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Its honestly best off finding a tumblr-core/indie chick. Their taste are usually terribly entry-level alternative, but they WANT to like obscure, interesting stuff. From their perspective, they actually think they are patrician, because they like the 1975 instead of drake. Once you threaten their faux-obscurity, they will learn.
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>>65227057
been there done that not worth it. they usually break up with you some older guy or somebody in a higher status than you once you show them better stuff.
they still crave the attention from being obscure it's not for the love of music it's just something to help boost their social status since they arent pretty. fuck them

got my ex-tumblr gf into idm now she fucks the local dj in my area.
just get a regular gf man.
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>>65225949
Yeah it takes a long time though
I'm doing it right now
U,fortunately pat/pleb is a troll meme meant to derail threads and destroy discussion, it doesn't actually matter, enjoy whatever music you like, fuck off
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Go to art school OP, seriously.
>met a group of qts there
>we used to hotbox in a car while listening to The Books, Tobbaco and Aphrodite's Child
>one day a qt ask me "What's the harshest shit you ever listened to?"
>can't go wrong with Merzbow
>ease in with Pulse Demon
>her mind is blown, she loves it

Most girls are open minded enough to tolerate and even like whatever shit you are in to.
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my gf is just not really interested in music at all. what do?
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My current gf got into shit like DG and Slint through friends and a previous bf. Used to be a lewronggenerashun type. Second is the best.

>tfw second in line
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>mfw I'm talking to this girl that's super into Mr. Bungle and Mars Volta

Shit's crazy
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>>65227222
wow that's pretty shitty taste
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>>65225726
>he thinks women can truly be patrician

reminder: music is nothing but an accessory for women and they have no emotional attachment to it what so ever
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>>65227293
>Look Ma, I posted it again!
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>>65227293
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>>65226666
I don't like these quads.
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Girls who like music like this are always beta emo chicks or fatties
Guys who like music like this aren't always beta
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>>65227623
"like this" meaning patrician
my b
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>>65225726
I like it when they have good taste, but taste that's different than mine. Loving all the same things as a girl you're dating is pretty boring honestly.
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>>65227246
Fuck you Mars Volta is fucking great
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>have you all ever considered that maybe the only reason the "patrician" girls are all "crazy" is because only crazy people will date someone who lives on 4chan, patrician taste or not
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>>65230060
nah, I can see why someone would like em, I don't
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this thread should be taken out and shot for extreme and inexscusably meme content
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>>65230409
underrated
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I don't think I believe its possible for a cosmic anomaly to exist such as a dateable girl having my taste in music
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literally who gives a fuck
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>>65226999
>>65226911
you're the true cucks here
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>>65226666
you've given me something to aspire towards, thanks buddy
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>>65230571
>>65230571
>>65230571
>>65230571
>>65230571
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i'd probably instantly fall in love with any moderately attractive girl into post-punk, prog rock, free jazz, or avant-shit like the residents, but generally i'm more concerned with a gf being intelligent and open-minded than with her taste aligning with mine. not that i've ever had a gf.
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I'd love to find a girl under 30 who's equally fixated on pre-Beatles rock 'n' roll, old country music, blues musicians who would be 100 by now and so on, but fat chance. Closest I've met is a female friend who will listen to me ramble about that stuff.

>>65226260
Fuck you for making me realize this.
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I once dated a girl who was into plunderphonics, onkyo, played chess (~2150 elo) and had great taste for movies, too. she stabbed my neck with a fork
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>>65226016
this is the correct answer. Just find a girl who's willing to listen to the shit you give her and you can help them find their own music taste. Works wonders for your relationship and now, because of your recommendations, she has a good taste in music
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Is Diiv Cole-Smith related to Anna Nick Cole-Smith??
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>>65230557
are you a dateable man?
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>tfw girl I like is into dadrock
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>>65233102
pls gib

I like dadrock and granddadrock.
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If she's uggo then a good taste won't save her, however a hot grill gets a boost if she has good taste
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>>65225968
>I don't think many people on here would be okay with a grill having superior taste and taking a backseat to her taste.
Why not? I would love to have someone show me new things, bonus points if she's into way different stuff than I am. It's cool to have a few favorites in common but it's cooler to exchange and build off each other.
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>>65226640
London?
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>>65227196
talk about something else. needing to have the same interests in common is pretty high school.
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It isn't, only that she's open to other stuff and doesn't think it's strange to like things outside of top 40.
Mine likes to pretend to give me flak over the time when I showed her Om and Earth though, which I find pretty funny.
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>>65227146
I miss the elitism on this board, it isnt as fun when no one is insulting you
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>>65225726
I dated a girl with taste almost exactly like mine. It was awesome. She would rec me albums, I would rec her albums, and I'll be damned if I had ever felt this way about any other girl.

Unfortunately, she turned out to be a huge slut and it seems like those things go hand in hand with every other girl I've met with good taste. It's a darn shame.

Really, I know we have fun with the whole "girls can't appreciate music" meme threads, but there is a hint of truth to it. Women just don't end up in the circumstances that drives men to fill their time with expanding their musical horizons. It isn't like every single woman has bland taste, but in my experience, it's pretty uncommon.
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>>65234141
think about it though. the average man has shit taste too. maybe you live in a pretty cool area with good taste, but here it's "weird" to listen something as accessible as jungle
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>>65234195
Well you're definitely not wrong.Most dudes I've met are pretty pleb save for a few - but in my experience, their tends to be a little more enthusiasm involved for men. Even if it is just seeking out shit like dadrock and what not, it's something I notice to be more common.

I ran into shit like this alot since I've done jazz band in school ever since MS, and it was always a sausage fest in jazz band, even though concert band was a pretty even split. The few girls in our jazz band seemed less than enthusiastic about it too. (There was one girl on drums though that has some pretty dank shoegaze taste, but we were never friends).

I honestly don't even know where to meet people with pretty solid music taste now that I'm older. Probably gonna look to rejoin my new uni's campus jazz band, since the music department will probably attract the highest concentration of people interested in music kek.
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>>65234141
hey shut the fuck up
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>>65225726
dont care at all. i'm not an asshole
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saw diiv last night. the sound people fucked up the show so the band ended it early. talked to dev and he was really drunk.
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>>65230913
she sounds cool
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music taste has literally nothing to do with personality
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>>65234048
you're an asshole and your opinions are d retched shit of the most disgusting caliber. Are you having fun now? /jk
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I'm sick of not having anyone to talk about the music I like with.
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>>65226260
o shit
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I don't care all that much. Being a pleb isn't a dealbreaker, but having good taste is a plus
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>>65226260
can you explain pls
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>tfw no qt gf to start a band with
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>>65226260
Damn....
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>>65235227
What the fuck? Do you live in a fucking barrel?
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>>65225726
If she won't listen to Britney and Ariana Grande with me she can fuck off.
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>>65236536
>Britney
How fucking elder are you?
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>>65236576
What are you trying to say, bitchboy?
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>>65236588
that it's past your bedtime grandma
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>>65236595
Eat my ass.
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>>65234397
I don't know why but i can't get into jazz.
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>>65236639
that would be very gross given you are 60 years old
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I haven't really met a girl with patrician taste
Heck, I have barely met guys with patrician taste either
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>>65225726
If I told you guys what music I genuinely love, you'd REEE the fuck out. That being said, my definition of "patrician" is different that yours, but it's still fucking hard to find. Current gf listens to more /mu/ core than I do, and shes nihilistic about alot of things?...

If she's into what you're into, celebrate it. But you're always going to have to compensate; just like we have our shit, every girl can relate to some shit that just isn't good if you're a proud male. Like Florence and the Machine or CocoRosie or whatever lesbians brainwash women with now
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>>65237300
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>>65225726
Don't care at all.

As long as she's open to try and find new music with me, I'd be happy.
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>>65226260
Damn
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>>65237300
What's this about lesbian brainwash?
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>>65234048
me too. It forces you to really dig, learn as much as you can, and listen to things you normally wouldn't.
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I can't even imagine what it'd be like to have a gf with pleb taste. Music is such a big part of my interests that I only ever feel close to someone if they're interested in it too. If my gf had shit taste than I would have ongoing internal cringe whenever talking about music. It'd be cute though if she tried to get into the music that I like.
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>>65237300
>>65237394
Kek what did he mean by lesbian brainwashing
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>>65226260
really makes you think
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>>65234048
you'll never amount to anything, you'll never find love, no one respects you, might as well off yrself my man

like that?
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>tfw no easily impressed qt gf with pleb indie taste
I remember in high school I sort of dated this girl who liked basic-ass Tumblr shit like Crystal Castles, I would have blown her away with my namedropping ability if we ever went out more than once.
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>>65238570
You sound pathetic lol. Do you people not respect the girl you're dating?
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>>65238623
Fuck off you white knight faggot
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>>65238854
Someone's still in high school. :)
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>>65238623
>jesus, guys don't even respect their gfs
>I'd respect my gf all the time if I had one, I'm such a nice guy
>why do girls date these assholes and not me
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>>65238926
Go chug your own dick over how you're the only one at your high school that knows death grips.
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>>65238891
>>65239041
"I am going to graduate high school next year and I'm so happy I can now call people older than me underage on the internet" - The Posts
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>>65238570
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>>65225726
very. very important.
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Don't fall for the patrician gf meme, more than likely you're gonna be dealing with a tumblr.

Having a pleb gf means you could play a cover of something entry level like an NMH song and she'll think you're a beautiful tortured soul
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>>65239248
this. pleb girls are so heartbreakingly cute. they're the type that cook pigs in blanket or other pleb things like mac&cheese send you letters just to say hi from their pleb public university 3.2 GPA dorm, send you pics from their vacation with senpai to a meme destination and in general are so helpless and adorable and affectionate, just seeking love and someone to come eat dinner with their family on holidays that have long become memes

i love pleb females, they dress exactly like their friends and are submissive and adorably awkward in bed because they aren't dirty and experienced but they love every second. then send you a meme "hope u got home safe <3" text after you drive home
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>>65239416
Fuck, I miss you, Triege.
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>>65226260
this post changed my life
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>>65239542
well, I should say that's highly specific.

I suppose that post could be enlightening if its true.

for me, music goes along with the celebration of life, it doesn't represent the escape.

then again, I also play an instrument and strive to get better, and this contributes toward my satisfaction as well.

obviously if you are a shut-in who "substitutes" the "good things" in life FOR music, the post could hold some weight...........
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>>65226260
truth
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>>65226038
This
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>>65226038
>>65226498
what the fuck
I just realized this has been true with almost all the girls i've been with and I never noticed the correlation
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my gf literally listens to Usher idgaf fampais pu$$y is ca$h af
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>>65239416
9/10 post
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It's not THAT important, but if she literally only listens to ICP and sings along loudly all the time, it will get on my nerves and I will probably break up with her.
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>>65225726
From experience, I'll have to say it depends. It depends how into music both of you are. If you're both really into music and your tastes oppose each other then I guess it can be a big deal.
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>>65225827
Pleb
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>>65239416
:´(
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most girls who've I've gotten into a music conversation with have pretty good taste. So I'd say it's not the music taste but the ability to hold a conversation, you virgin motherfucker.
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As long as she thinks my mixtape is fiyah, she's fine with me
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if she likes young thug then she's cool I guess
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>basing a relationship on music
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>>65230409
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>>65225827
yeah dude i only date girls with dicks as well
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My last gf had amazing taste, but was a terrible girlfriend and reckless drunk.

My current one has shit taste in music and movies, but she's smart, sweet, and fucks me a lot.

Depends what your priorities are brew...
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the only gf ive ever had was a huge kanye fan so that was cool as fuck, we used to listen to yeezus and mbdtf together often

the only thing that bothered me a bit is that she legitimately thinks that kanye is a musical and lyrical creative genius that can do no wrong, i just dont see kanye in the same light as she did
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>>65226666

those quads
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>>65239416
Taste in music doesn't correlate at all with sexual experience lel
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>>65226666
>us
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>>65225726
When you're a teenager it was almost mandatory but as you get older you slowly stop caring about that shit desu
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>>65234048
kllurselffggt
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>>65239625
>for me, music goes along with the celebration of life, it doesn't represent the escape.

Music can be celebration of, reflection of and escape from life all at once depending on the circumstances in which it is listened to.
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>>65225726
ITT: the reason of why you all will never have a gf
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>>65225726
Every fucking day this thread
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>>65226260
>26260>>65226351 >>65226875 >>65230703 >>65230887 >>65235322 >>65235484 >>65235728 >>65237389 >>65238071 >>65239542 >>65239758not important at all

dudeeeeeeeeeeee
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My girlfriend is normalfag as fuck, but no, it doesn't matter to me. It sometimes sort of annoys me when she wants to spam the fuck out of Panic at the disco or some shit, but its not like I can't enjoy good music myself.
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>>65226260
This hit home hard
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>tfw no gf
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Not so important.
But my girlfriend is the person I've met I consider to be the most patrician besides me.
She enjoys Classical music since early Byzantine Chants and Troubaudours to things like Stockhausen, Nono and the whole Spectral school. She also enjoys Dixieland and Swing as well as Free Jazz and Free Improv; and recently we are both listening to Blues, our favorites from the genre are Howlin' Wolf and Big Joe Williams.
As far as I know, her favorite works are:
Josquin Des Prés - Malheur me bat (Absolute favorite)
Giacinto Scelsi - String Quartet No. 1
George Antheil – Sonata No. 2 for Violin and Piano
AMM – AMMMusic
Peter Brötzmann – Live Berlin ´71
Herbie Nichols – Herbie Nichols Trio
>pic not related
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>>65226038
>>65226498
>haha, girls who like more obscure and patrician music are so crazy! not like us level-headed men who like the same stuff, huh guys? amirite?
>proceeds to spend 12 straight hours at the computer shitposting on a chinese cartoon site, occasionally opening a new tab to masturbate to fetish porn
>passes out at 4am in a pool of his own semen
>t-tomorrow will be better
>not crazy
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>>65225726

Oldfag here.

I'm a /lit/ tourist and I have patrician taste in art as a whole and I can tell you right now that all of that means precisely fuck all when it comes to these matters. And if it does mean a lot to you then you're probably just young and still too hung up on projecting a certain image out to the world instead of simply being yourself.

All you're going to want is chemistry. That trumps everything. And if we can cook well that's a bonus.
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>>65246518
why are mad?
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Very important. If we don't have parallel tastes in music/bands, forget it.
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>>65246518
this tbdesu
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>>65246689

>If we don't have parallel tastes in music/bands, forget it.

t. teenager
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>>65230409
the truth
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>>65246518

>>not crazy

nope. not crazy. just lame and sad. but not crazy. the crazy those anon are talking about is a very different thing and you know it.
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It doesn't bother me at all. If you let someone else's taste in music bother you that much then you need to lighten up.
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>>65230913
>she stabbed my neck with a fork
>played chess
>fork
It was just a visual pun dude.
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>>65246794
Is being a self-destructive artsy chick who has abusive relationships with 40 year old men really that much worse than being a self-destructive acne-ridden dude who wears the same pair of cum-crusted underpants for 3 days straight while whining about music on 4chan
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>>65246794
>the crazy those anon are talking about is a very different thing and you know it.
no it's not. it's 'just lame and sad'. just because it's a different flavour of lameness and sadness to that which the average /mu/tant has to bear that doesn't make it any different really. it's just losers trying to fill a void in their lives.
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>>65246809
kek
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>>65246812

typically the latter is hyper self-aware whereas the former is hyper narcissistic. the latter is an emotional ball of ruin whereas the former is emotionally calloused to the point of sharing traits with your common sociopath.

both aren't exactly winners, granted, but one is just a sadsack who could be fine if he could get his shit sorted whereas the other is legit crazy and will always probably have a certain lack of basic empathy for other people even if she did improve her immediate living situation.

and crazy isn't just a girl thing. there are a bunch of guys who are crazy i'm not trying to r9k this into a bias. but the particular brand of crazy you're talking about is way worse than your normal 4chan sadsack who is a bit out of pace with society. those chicks are the fucking devil. have you ever dealt with any? because buddy i have. they lack a kind of empathy that other normal women have that makes them legitimately predatory.
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>>65246856

>it's just losers trying to fill a void in their lives.

neither of us are trying to defend the time that we waste here. but people who waste time here aren't necessarily as bad as those crazies that lots of guys have horror stories about. it's just dudes being lazy. lazy isn't as bad as crazy, m8.
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>>65246895
Yeah I've "dealt with" them. I can see why you think the sociopath thing but it's weird and reductionistic. What underlies it is the same kind of insecurity, loneliness or whatever that basement dwellers feel, it's just a different manifestation of that.

It sounds like you have an ex you're bitter about.
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>>65246955

>It sounds like you have an ex you're bitter about.

i'm not letting any kind of bitterness bleed off into a blanket condemnation of all women. i made that clear in my last post. i know that most aren't like this.

you can think that it's a comparable situation underscoring all this but i think you're honestly being too generous in assigning equal levels of introspection between the two groups. women like these will streamroll and think very little about the insecurities that might be driving them - if they think of them at all - they simply blame everyone else around them and move on. it's like some wiring is missing in them. that kind of shit isn't the same as a lazy fucker on 4chan. it's a whole different level. they are habitual users.

this might seem like i'm projecting some huge gripe but my situation isn't as bad as all this is inferring. i doubt you'll believe me but i'm just speaking in general here.
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>>65246955
>What underlies it is the same kind of insecurity, loneliness or whatever that basement dwellers feel, it's just a different manifestation of that.
This desu.

My ex-gf was the sort of girl we are talking about, and she was just very insecure because her parents were shitty to her when she grew up.
Instead of being a typical cynical basement dweller, she was someone who did stuff IRL on a whim, and ended up in situations that made her feel stupid afterward, to put it mildly.
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>>65226744
Not that guy, but Trump is probably the most dangerous figure about if he gets into office, he supports that post-modern political idea that you should support and decry things seemingly at random so noone can attack ones power because they do not know what one actually supports. Literally just power for its own sake, which at a base level isn't what you want in any politician.
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>>65226666
so goddamn true
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>>65226260
Damn
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why don't you meet a nice girl with other qualities you like and then slip her good music over the course of your relationship

works like a charm really

i got exs who ask me for recs
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>>65248271
i rather slip it in her butthole
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>>65248279
you can slip it wherever is most comfortable for you and your lady friend
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>Now have first girlfriend ever
>She's from a small town in italy
>Likes prog, anco and baroque
>Really listens to music

>tfw i made it
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Doesn't matter to me.
My current girlfriendis pretty open-minded, so it's not hard to get her to like what I listen to. Sadly it's not the same way for me and her music
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>>65248345
>>Likes prog, anco and baroque
1/3's alright I suppose.
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>>65248375
>1/3's alright I suppose.

what you mean?

I shouldve said that those are the same genres i'm into.
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>>65248345
so you can listen to jams together. that's radical.
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>>65248461
for sure. she puts on my favorite songs from albums without knowing it, feels good man.
She also hates modernity and thinks women should stay home and look after the house and kids. no facebook, no make-up, all real

Never been so happy you guys
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>>65246518
This
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>>65248345
Why are you dating scaruffi?
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>>65231580

Cole is his middle name not part of his last name.
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If she doesn't listen to music at all, I don't mind.

But I dated a girl with really shitty music taste. When I asked her about it, I was shocked that it took me this long to ask her.
When she answered, I realized how everything shit about her could be explained by her music taste.

She was unroriginal, bland, basic, vapid, whatever you name it.
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>>65246518
My life
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>>65234141
oh cmon, that shit that "women just don't end up in the circumstances that drives men to fill their time with expanding musical horizons" is bullshit. thats a human thing, not a gender thing. girls can live music just the way boys do i mean come on, if a guy said this to my face i would pretty much leave and never talk to him again
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>>65251145
A guy would never say this to your face because he'd already have figured out what a vapid, oversensitive cunt you are.

However >50% of the guys you've spoken to have thought it had similar thoughts, including most of your closest male friends and all your sexual partners.
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>>65251268
and you know why all the guys in this thread complain they cant have gfs who listen to music? because girls who actually care and have a passion for it cant stand being told that their interests are not real because only men can "apprecite music". you guys should get your heads out of your asses because this attitude is just fucking retarded. maybe you need to actually talk to girls from a human standpoint and not like they're little retards who act only to prove themselves to other people
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>>65251268
Another girl here, stop projecting so hard. Just because you hate women doesn't mean a) it's justified or b) that everyone agrees. If my male friends and sexual partners have thought that then I guess that just means they're as pathetic as you. Maybe the reason you think all women are desperate attention whores with emotional problems and no taste is because the only girls who ever go out with you are the ones with standards through the fucking floor.
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>>65251366
>>65251534
yr not supposed to go on 4chan when you're on your period
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I literally have an asian gf who mostly listens to shitty kpop and god knows what else for shitty east asian karaoke-sounding shit, and it truly doesn't mean a shit if you love her.
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>>65251654
Were you saying I was on my period? I'm not, but sorry if I've misunderstood you. I could barely hear through your cum crusted neckbeard.
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>>65251696
Wrap those lips around my cock and suck your mom's pussy juice off it.
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>>65251654
ay, Luke. How's the treatment for prostate cancer going? I hope you're doing good say hi to the family.
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My girlfriend is on her period and she doesn't necessarily have the same taste in music as me but she's always open-minded which is great because I never have to worry about playing something she's not going to like :)
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why would you pretend to be a girl on the internet?

at least i assume that's what's happening here, since i can't imagine how tragic your life would have to be to end up here as a woman

lose some weight, put on some makeup and leave the fucking house. you don't even have to be attractive, just don't be a whale and make a vague fucking effort.
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>>65251799
guys: complaing girls are basic and dont "really care about music" // think girls should put on make up and leave the house and just be basic
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>>65251799
>why would you pretend to be a girl on the internet?

it's called Tumblr
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>>65251896
>girls: thinking /mu/ is one person

I don't want to be here and I think you can do better than this
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>>65251799
lol you know what maybe my life is tragic thats why im here interacting with retards, thanks for opening my eyes, i didnt think i could leave the house if i wanted if you didnt tell me i could
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>>65251268
Wow! u sure showed them! how edgy, my good sir!
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Met tons of patrician qts, they are usually better rounded people. All the normie bitches I know are just miserable and boring.
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>>65251950
>I don't want to be here
Give me one good reason why you're still here
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>>65251145
Prove ur a grill. Don't even have to post boobs or puss
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