>just confessed my feelings to my best friend and she denied me
Music for this feel bros? pic unrelated
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGL5SXrCFXk
>>64172802
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4uK5r4YaiIg
Same thing happened to me a couple years back.
It doesn't get better.
>>64172802
You did good anon, but...
Hopefully you didn't sperg out and pressured her to make a decision, girls hate that shit and always back out
Next time it's better to make things flow by themselves, and let the girl be comfy
>>64172802
>confessed my feelings to my best friend
beta af and gay 2bh
>>64172925
Yeah luckily neither of us sperged out and it should be same as before except for the shitty feeling inside
>>64172802
you done goofed anon... Why didn't you roofie her at a party first!
>>64172802
Nows the time to get into punk
>>64172957
Yea man, give it 3 week, if you both arn't plumbfucks and she's not one of them asshole girls, should be fine, should be back to normal...ish.
>>64172957
you fucked up OP it's never gonna be the same, time to move on listen to pic related roly porter third law
>She called Chad afterwards
>they're fucking right now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Y8w2W1uy2A
>>64173008
the best breakup/whatever album of all time
make that everything jeff has ever done too
>>64172802
let's bring this shit back to High School for the sad boy over here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZIBc7ZS7ATw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=km8AwsqNFw8
>>64172802
I have Austism and my first two sexual relationships started like this. It was extremely painful You should have taken the blue pill and just stuck to practice girls
>>64172802
>tfw did the same 5 years ago
>now married to my best friend
how did you fuck this up?
Try to save as much face and handle it as well as you can and I'd bet you a dollar to a donut that you get a real good shot at banging her later.
Also social distortion and alcohol is the cure to heart ache
>>64173200
alcohol got me in this position
>>64172847
kek
>>64173200
this right here
she'll mull over it and if you're not a beta cuck you can stick it in her pooper
>>64173075
>married
you were supposed to just practice with her, anon. but you fucked up
>>64173350
nah man life is pretty swell
>>64173049
???
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hji4gBuOvIQ
>maybe in time you'll want to be minee
>>64173408
good for you mane
i actually broke up with the girl i was gonna marry so
life is shit
>>64173748
im sorry my dude
keep plugging along, it's worth it regardless
Back away from her. Hit the gym. Stop being a pussy. When you spend too much time with a girl and never make a move they start seeing you as an listening tool and distraction and less of a sexual being with emotions.
>>64173240
Well then la la la la la la la fucking story of my life la la la la
>>64173748
Same happened to me.
5 years in which I dreamed and thought of a happy future gone to shit. Since then (almost 2 yrs) I haven't felt any true desire to pursue a vision for tomorrow. It broke me and my ambitions.
Saw a photo of her with her current bf some weeks ago and I still felt a bit bad about it.
I'm now stuck at a job where I don't meet new people and I don't have any contact with females and it's making socializing extremely difficult. I got /fit/ but I'm the same awkward guy.
Haven't found any better job too...
I honestly only have a few great things remaining in life, this place is one of them. You guys are alright sometimes.
>best friend
You never had a shot, OP
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Krz11xrRcaE
I gotchu
>Best friend
Hahaha nice
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tL-fohhu_FI
Give it a week OP but if its weird then... you are fucked. Just delete all trace and move on.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IKddfxkDWk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9GT5PbRIpA
if I was lucky enough to ever have a girl as a literal best friend I would never ever ruin that shit
you were weak and you got what you deserved
I'm in a similar boat. I was gone for a couple months but before I left we were almost dating (hard to explain other than just super flirty). Now that I'm back she's dating someone, we've grown apart and it's super awkward.
Feels bad man
>>64173251
I think this might be the first time Giles Corey might have ever made anyone laugh
>>64172802
>>64172925
no you virgin morons. The problem is two-sided.
Firstly, men and women can't be friends. You don't enjoy this woman's presence, you just maintain a relationship because you are hoping she will eventually come around and fuck you.
Women are not attracted to men who wait for women to initiate and attraction can not be negotiated. You a make a bold, confident move, and you make it early.
OP, let me tell you what you are going to do after this if you don't listen to my advice. You will remain convinced that attraction can be negotiated, and if it can't, then that this girl is different. You will keep talking to her in the hopes that if you present yourself in the right light she will eventually come around to liking you. You will waste your life sending this girl meaningless messages and trying to court her with grand gestures. Maybe if you keep this up for a few more years she will give you a pity fuck that is as pleasurable as putting your dick in bread.
>>64172802
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWNIajNpsAA
>>64174255
I'm in the same position.
EXACTLY the same.
It's nice, in a reassuring way, to know I'm not the only one.
Thank you anon
>>64175532
>Women are not attracted to men who wait for women to initiate
fuck.
>>64175532
>You will remain convinced that attraction can be negotiated, and if it can't, then that this girl is different. You will keep talking to her in the hopes that if you present yourself in the right light she will eventually come around to liking you.
Dude, I did this shit with a girl I was actually banging. Like, a fwb for a whole year who was still somehow embarrassed of me. It was a secret and rarely ever romantic in any sense. She never told any of her friends. Which was hard on me, to say the least. A dirty little secret that wasn't very fun, just plainly obvious that she didn't like me beyond fulfilling a need.
For context, I'm a very handsome but very short manlet dude.
>confessing your feelings to a womeme
>not bottling up your feelings and letting them out in short bursts until the feeling passes
fuckin pleb
>>64175532
>Firstly, men and women can't be friends.
stopped reading there.
>>64176074
>male feminist and PROUD!!
>>64176074
enjoy your meaningful relationships with a person who is "equal" and just like a man. Screw evolution. Even if there is a biological reason why men should be friends and feel comradery, and why men and women should interface romantically THAT IS ALL NONSENSE I KNOW BECAUSE WOMAN TOLD ME SHE IS SAME
what's a good song for the feel when a girl asks to see your dick and then she says it's small when she sees it
>>64176245
lol
>>64172802
>tfw I'm thinking about doing this too
>tfw i probably won't do it because she'd reject me
>tfw i have to meet with her this friday and my heart hurts just from thinking about her
wat do
>>64172802
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=linwITW5XvI
>>64172898
Don't listen to this guy OP.
Happened to me about four years ago.
First year was total shit and I wanted to die. Second year slightly less but I still hung out with her. Third year was shit but I distanced myself which was very painful. Last year I cut off contact and now I feel totally better about it.
It gets better, it does take years though.
>>64172943
>this fucking picture
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYUliw8Pybg
>>64178143
wear a loose fitting bath robe and have a few "oopsy" moments, nom sayin playa
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-PumOzDYUjk
>tfw lost a bet and have to make a mixtape to give to gril
>don't know what to put on it
fug help me guys
>>64178432
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErhbJgEL5jQ
>>64178494
thanks doc
>>64178143
Tell her how you feel, anon. Even if it's a crapshoot it's so much better having closure than always knowing you never had the balls to tell her.
>>64178507
This. Regret sucks, man
>>64178432
pls
>>64172802
Neil Young - After the Goldrush
>>64172802
>she
oh fuck off it's literally 2016
