>almost 22
>kissless virgin
>never had a girlfriend
any music for these feels?
I'm 27 and no gf ever. There is no music for this feel.
Los Campesinos
>>61427430
just get a hooker, pretty much the same as a gf except you get to kick her out after sex
>>61427430
elliot rodger?
>>61427435
Dang ;_;
>>61427456
Maybe in a couple years when I'm a little more desperate.
>>61427460
No, I'm not a Red Piller
>>61427430
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAp9BKosZXs
>>61427456
>Thought about getting a hooker so I'd know what it feels like to hold hands and cuddle
>Didn't even want to fuck, just wanted to experience affection
>Got too scared and didn't do it
Big Black
>>61427454
Hey this is actually pretty good, Anon. Might play this when I finally decide to off myself.
Please, tell about your life. Maybe it was just my upbringing, but despite being lonely for a while it was pretty damn impossible to not get a girlfriend. How attractive are you? Were you able to socialize much as a teen?
>tfw considering online dating
meeting people irl is too hard. anyone have experience with this?
Fiona Apple
Most pop music made by chicks is aimed at forever alone males who are so disconnected from the opposite sex that they idealize and fall in love with a pop star. I mean really, how many straight male Bjork fans are well adjusted and in healthy relationships?
>>61427577
nice bait fuckface
>>61427577
Get fucked troll
>>61427597
almost everyone nowadays has an okcupid account, other than school this is how ppl meet
>Set up a Tinder account
>Swiped right on almost every girl
>Only got a few likes back
>All were spam or unliked me fast
It was the most embarrassing experience of my life. I kept it for a couple months too. Just thinking about it makes me want to kill myself.
>>61427577
>Please, tell about your life.
No.
>How attractive are you?
Solid 2
>Were you able to socialize much as a teen?
Not really, but I'm in uni now and decent at socializating.
808s & Heartbreak
>>61427666
Tinder has been one of my worst experiences as well. Met up with a girl, she decides to bail after two dates and I was suicidal for like a month after
>>61427632
>>61427636
i feel like i'm not the one baiting here if you guys seriously found it that difficult. there are more women than men in the world, lower your standards
>>61427747
I hope you die in your sleep tonight.
>>61427758
what the hell is wrong with you, man? i'm sorry it's that important to you
>graduated collage this past semester
>manages to somehow go through 4 years without making any friends
>tfw living with my parents again with no intention of moving
I'm afraid of the real world guys pls help
>>61427747
i will never date a fatty but i would date an ugly skinny girl
>>61427770
Deal with it fuckboy
>>61427747
"whoops i accidentally a gf" - you
kill yourself scumbag
>>61427790
>>61427788
okay forget it, now i know why you guys never got girlfriends
>>61427747
end yourself
>>61427772
I have friends but I'm scared about what will happen when I graduate in a year :(
Definitely won't be getting a gf after college though, so I have one year to fix this
>>61427775
I'm not very attractive so I'd be happy dating a fat girl or an ugly one.
>graduated high school 8 years ago
>went to college
>never really made any new friends
>have a few co worker friends and a couple friends I picked up over the years
>25 now
>still no gf
>nearly 23
>have plenty of opportunities to get a gf
>cant because I'm so self-concious I can't bring myself to have sex or be intimate with someone
Am I the only one?
>>61427817
what does getting a gf have to do with sex
>>61427804
I hope someone breaks into your house and wakes you up in the middle of the night and slits your throat and watches as you slowly bleed to death.
I hope the entire thing is posted on Youtube so I can watch.
>>61427430
>30
>wizard
>never had a gf
I just listen to kpop. Waifu music is good music.
look up heaven knows I'm miserable now
>>61427825
I fucking hate when people say this. Want to punch them in the face, fuck.
>>61427822
(most) people have needs Anon.
>>61427804
>Come in here trolling
>Get mad when you get trolled back
>>61427830
yikes
>>61427809
>>61427830
sorry if i'm getting memed on and don't realize it, i don't come here often
if i did, i'm almost certain i'd end up like you guys and believe me, i'd rather actually kill myself than let that happen
>>61427813
I actually did have a friend who was into anime and we'd sometimes watch it together. Surprisingly, he wasnt some fat neckbeard, but a skinny asian dude. I found out he was filthy normie who was hiding a relationship from me.
I majored in IT security. I keep telling my folks that im on vacation and ill get a job this month, but I really dont plan too.
Post some essential angry virgin-core
>>61427430
Why are you a kissless virgin?
Unless your standards are too high, you can probably change the kissless part within three months.
Get Tinder right now. Dress like somebody your age.
>>61427874
ok now leave and don't return
>>61427430
That isn't as bad as you think. Don't get a hooker, if you're like me you'll regret it. If you do decide to get a hooker, do a lot of research and get a really hot one.
>>61427874
>i don't come here often
and let's hope you never do again
>>61427859
how was i trolling
if you ever went outside you'd know it's the truth
>>61427825
i'm literally a 5/10 at best
>>61427899
aight, sorry i stepped into your secret hideout my good man
>>61427804
I hope you go into septic shock and die in agony as your blood poisons you.
I hope you spend your final hours begging the nurse to end your life now.
>>61427890
>Get Tinder right now.
Please see >>61427698
>>61427907
Why isn't it as bad as I think? And yeah, not getting a hooker senpai
>>61427874
i want to make love to you anon. i want you to be my little dolly-boy. i smell you through my speakers, and now i thirst for you. you belong to me now.
this is a good one to eff yourself if nothing else works
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33_5MuXN3Qg
Everybody finds love in the end...
>>61427929
I got tinder and was fucking miserable. It doesn't work if you're ugly and weird looking.
>in same situation
>never had bad feels about it
I don't want what I know I can't have nigga
>>61427918
I hope you get falsely accused of a murder you had nothing to do with and spend the rest of your life rotting away in prison.
>>61427817
describes me perfectly
>>61427817
You're weird one. Just tap dat pussy bruh, you'll get over it.
>>61428012
lmao senpai
>>61427929
It's fucking terrible, but sometimes things don't work out. Please don't be discouraged if a girl doesn't want to go very far with you. Let it be an inspiration.
It's really cool that a girl went on two dates with you. The first two dates are honestly the hardest part. It might not have worked out with that girl, but fuck her. There are others.
The fact that somebody found you attractive enough to go out with you twice means you absolutely have hope. Keep using Tinder, and try sites like OK Cupid as well.
>>61427526
who are you, Holden Caulfield?
>>61427926
>>61427984
>>61427916
i hope you register in some sort of schooling program that allows you to sit next to a cute girl, one you think wouldn't ever want to talk to you, until she sends you a facebook friend request one day and on a whim you message her. the two of you start up a conversation, one that's awkward at first since neither of you know what to say, until you realize you're both in the same boat and it's like a heavy curtain of nervousness has been lifted. the two of you start meeting up, and the nervousness is still there, but you feel a sense of comfort as well, as if being with her has made a distinct, immediate change. you go out for dinner one night. the place isn't especially nice, but it's that diner on 5th she told you she likes. the lights are low and the two of you talk over the table for what feels like hours, but in the good way- you could get lost in her eyes, her voice, forever. she tells you about herself for a time- her upbringing, her last boyfriend- he was actually her first boyfriend, but she doesn't dwell on him much- and what she's doing in the class. turns out she shares a lot of interests with you. but soon, she catches herself and stops talking, wanting instead to hear about you. you're nervous, but you manage to avoid any kind of spaghetti moment, thank christ. after dinner is over, she cuddles up next to you on the taxi ride home. the cab pulls up to her apartment, and she opens the door to get out, but before she does, she turns and gives you a quick kiss on the mouth. "i'll call you," she says, and runs up to the door, giving you one last glance as she disappears into her house.
you can still taste her on your lips.
>>61427454
i was just about to make the same thread op
these feels suck
Does anyone else feel fucking stupid listening to lyrics about love and relationships? Or even worse, connecting the lyrics to a girl you talked to like twice that you're not even friends with because that's all you have?
i wanna die
>>61428090
pls stop
>>61428090
>it's not a pasta
this fucking thread
>>61428012
>>61428024
It's not that easy. I've felt this way since I was 13. That's literally 10 years, it's fucking scary.
>>61427999
Really? I didn't think anyone here would empathise with me.
>>61428059
Thanks, that actually made me feel better. I'm taking steps to better myself, so hopefully I won't be a suicidal betafag in a couple months.
It's not even the lack of sex that bothers me; it's the crippling lack of intimacy.
>>61428090
r u 4real fammy
did you just create a new pasta
>>61428137
it just pisses me off how you, me, and so many like us are getting fucked like this
this is the most crippilingly awful way to feel ever
i mean, yeah it sucks, say, getting a girl pregnant and having to raise a kid while unprepared, but at least that's a....respectable, real problem.
this is just fucking hell
>>61428096
>Does anyone else feel fucking stupid listening to lyrics about love and relationships? Or even worse, connecting the lyrics to a girl you talked to like twice that you're not even friends with because that's all you have?
All the fucking time bro
All the fucking time
who /welladjustednormie/ here?
cuddling>sex
also, handjobs>blowjobs
>>61428163
Yeah the loneliness and feeling of helplessness is just the worst.
I wish I was never born because I'm too much of a pussy to even kill myself.
>>61428090
END YOURSELF
>>61427622
this post opened my eyes
>>61427622
Fantano?
>>61427454
are you taking the piss m8
LC is all about sex and relationships
>>61428169
you must be getting bad blowjobs
>>61427435
My uncle was 28 and depressed and hadn't been on a single date, ever. He's been married for over 30 years now. Just relax and love will happen when it happens, try to better yourself. Go to the gym, join a club or something. :)
>>61427622
I don't have a gf, love Björk, and have never once indulged in a waifu desu
>>61428273
no that way we can cuddle and i can kiss her and look deep into her big blue eyes while she tells me she loves me
any basic bitch/ugly fat skank can suck my dick, blowjobs are inferior to handjobs in every way
>>61427430
Belle and Sebastian is really underrated feels music imo. It's not as obvious as something like The Smiths but it has a melancholy flavor, especially Tigermilk.
>>61428364
i mean blowjobs do feel better most of the time, and if she swallows she's worth it
maybe that's just me
if i was someone else i could have been happy and had a gf
instead i'm me so i'll be alone until the day i die
Primus - Harold Of The Rocks
>Inb4 shit music choice
>>61428395
my gf always swallows at the end, i usually only make her blow me before i fuck her
>>61428410
quality post
>>61428410
I'll be your girlfriend, anon.
We'll meet someday so wait until then.
>>61427430
>Don't want to have a girlfriend or too many close friends because I might off myself
>Also had a few chances but she had a boyfriend I know in that if I was in his shoes I would feel suicidal
The feels in this thread are real
time to listen to these faggots
>>61427888
>>61427816
iktf bro
commuted to uni and never really got a new social group. it's cool tho i am close w/ the friends who stayed here :^)
>>61428090
>It's not a pasta
Holy shit how fucking long did you spend typing this?
>>61428877
>Tired of Sex
>>61427817
Know that feel. I don't even know man. All I have to do is talk to them, like some girls are clearly interested into getting to know me that I feel bad I'm not able to respond. Probably making them feel like shit just because anxiety.
>>61427817
you just haven't met the right person yet. keep trying :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX-ZSZvJfz8
Does the >tfw no gf feel ever go away? I've pretty much accepted my fate. If my sex drive and desperate need for companionship went away tomorrow, I'd be so much happier.
basically purchased the equipment necessary for a helium hoody
will probably do it some time next february
just wondering which album to soundtrack my ending. thinking of just doing portishead
Official thread theme
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Vaz8mi_g4E
>>61429026
pls no anon i love you :(
>>61428096
>because that's all you have
;-;
>>61428323
>Go to the gym, join a club or something. :)
hahahahhahaa
>>61429026
i dont get it why do you want to kill yourself? if you hate your life just do drugs everyday or do risky shit because nothing matters
>>61427430
>>61428999
your sex drive definitely will. i don't even jerk off anymore, which is really nice. i never had a "desperate" need for companionship, so i can't help you there. personally, the thought of having to share any of my life with another person has always made extremely uncomfortable and i've avoided it at all costs, but if it's something you feel incomplete without i'd suggest this lifestyle is not for you.
>>61429112
just be yourself
>>61427747
>there are more women than men in the world
Well actually there aren't; global sex ratio is approximately 1.01 males to 1 female.
>>61428948
Yeah, it's such an irrational feeling too, that's the worst part. I know I'm not THAT unattractive, but at the same time I just feel too hideous to allow myself to be seen sexually by another person.
>>61429222
proof?
>>61428090
Thanks
idk can someone give me music for this feel
>attractive boy
>horrible repulsive personality causes misery to all my friends as a side effect of my own self hatred and low self confidence.
>kisses pillow and talks to imaginary versions of people to act out scenes that could never happen
>>61429364
>talks to imaginary versions of people to act out scenes that could never happen
literally >>61428376
>>61429364
>attractive boy
>low self confidence
you wouldn't call yourself attractive if that were true.
>>61429268
Most western countries do in fact have a higher female population.
Only in countries in which men are considered superior is this different. Those include China and India which, due to their enormous size, drag the global average into the already mentioned direction.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio
>>61429364
>tfw i know those feels
I'm sure i have more imaginary conversations than real ones by now
>>61427830
LE EDGE
>>61429506
haha same ;_;
>>61428090
bravo
>>61428071
underrated
>>61427622
>how many male Bjork fans are well-adjusted and in healthy relationships
I've never realized this but this is entirely true
>>61428832
for real tho
>>61428131
I also know that feel. Im 24, and right now i could get intimate with a 8/10 japense qt. I cant bring myself to it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o
>tfw no gf who will laugh for no one else
>>61430674
>tfw no gf who lives in a small city of japan
>>61428131
describes me too, senpai . self conciousness is a curse.
I mean, I come close to being normal all the time, but there is this abstract voice deep inside my head that just keeps me from being completely there. I am always somewhere else, deep inside my own thought, and it feels awkward as fuck.
I just want to pass into oblivion, man. I just want to kill my inner self, become like the others. Where the hell did we hide happiness?
>>61428090
>>61427804
>>61427747
>>61427577
Seriously fuck off. You are incapable of feeling empathy you piece of shit normalfag. But that's why you've succeeded because empathy is inherently a negative trait among normal people. You'll never be able to see the world from a view of people below at a 4/10 or below. You'll never know what it feels like to be undesirable.
>BUT DUDE WHY CANT YOU GET A GF ITS SO EASY xDD
>>61430337
Perfect music to cut to senpai
>>61431255
>normalfag
Dude fuck off to /r9k/ please, you don't have to be the most socially autistic deformed ugly cunt ever to be hable to empathise with other anons, you can be "desirable" and still feel feels
Smh
brandon? is this you? call me bud im awake
>>61431255
>be 300+ lb
>shy and socially awkward
>multiple GF's in my life and not 21 yet
Trust me buddy, it's you.
>>61431332
Sorry I had to stoop low and use meme words, but no, you cannot empathize with true losers whenever you've never had a true struggle in your entire life. You are a poser to the highest degree. You should probably be on facebook if we are being honest. Coming here strictly to be edgy(correct use of the word non-/v/ definition) because it's cool to pretend to be a loser is pretty pathetic.
>But I went 6 months without sex :'((
>>61427430
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlbuPvda_Jc
>>61431434
Thanks for the blog post/special snowflake story/ bait or whatever you were trying to accomplish with this post.
I hope you guys are memeing. I'm one of the quietest, most socially awkward people I know and I lost my virginity at 15. It's not hard, it's special or anything. What's more important and what feels better in the long run is the connection you make, the feeling when you know someone will be by your side and care no matter what.
Anyone here ever have short snippets of their lives where you are a normie for maybe a month, maybe longer and then quickly fuck up and go back be being >tfw no gf and a NEET?
>>61431474
>I'm one of the quietest, most socially awkward people
yea, sure
>>61431474
*not special
>>61431474
You're hilarious dude. Keep samfagging. Have a another (you) for your troubles my /b/rother *crying while laughing emoji*
>>61431489
Really. The only person I've spent time with in the past week is my bandmate.
>>61431511
That was my first post in this thread.
>>61431530
>>61431474
see >>61431464
This thread isn't about how awesome you're life is. Fuck off.
>>>/f/acebook/
>>61431474
exactly
>>61431474
Some people are going to be aggressive for the sake of it. I hold no animosity, good for you. You may be introverted but I doubt you are that socially awkward if you can manage to have sex with another person.
I interact with people but only in the most superficial of ways. Most people I'm not comfortable with, especially females, to the extent that I can be near them without getting nervous and panicking.
>>61427430
>tfw made plans with an ex
>regretting doing so as you've fallen back into her web of bullshit
>>61431530
Yeah then you just had good connections with people already, good for you
>>61431596
let her bro, she's not worth it.
>>61431592
*I can't be
>>61431578
My life isn't awesome by any stretch of the imagination. I'm just trying to say that sex isn't really some big "goal" to achieve; it is much healthier to just aim to connect with another human, because what most of you need is emotional intimacy and support.
>>61431578
oh fuck off to /r9k/ please
Everyone in this thread knows they're secretly gay in the back of their head. Including me.
>>61431618
>Sex isn't that important Ive only done it dozens of times lol don't worry about it
Fuck off you meme spewing faggot. I bet you also unironically believe "You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else anon!1"
>>61431633
I may be a loser, but I can tell you that I don't frequent /r9k/.
>>61431659
I wish.
>>61431592
I'm really sorry to hear that, I can't imagine what it would be like. Obviously it doesn't work to just say "don't be nervous", but all I can say is that my personal experience has been that it always helps to have someone to talk to about your shit, and someone to support you. It doesn't have to be a girlfriend or anything, just someone you are comfortable with and trust.
>>61431694
Why are you so bitter? Is your life really so poor that you can't stand anyone who has had it an ounce better than you?
>>61431659
it's lit
>>61431446
This is pretty good, thanks
>>61431474
Honestly, being socially awkward really isn't a deterrent. A lot of girls find that quirky and cute.
If you're ugly as fuck though, you're out of luck.
>never really have a problem talking to girls and my friends say that I have "game"
>still a virgin
i just dont know anymore
>>61431725
I just wish people could feel empathy. I also wish assholes like you wouldn't come in to these threads and belittle people for being unable to obtain something that you say is easy as fuck to get.
>I hope you guys are joking!!! YOU CANT BE SERIOUS. YOU HAVE NEVER HAD SEX ORRR A GF?? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE.
>Dude it's so easy lmao!!! Just b yourself worked for me every time.
>>61431784
I agree with your second point 100%, but that desire for quirkiness is VERY niche.
JUST B URSLEF
>>61427430
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IA3ZvCkRkQ
i hope you get laid this year op
>>61431842
It's only niche if you're ugly.
If you're decently good looking and don't start hyperventilating when you talk to girls (like that one guy up there), then it's ok being socially awkward.
Trust, I've heard a lot of my girl friends fawn over 6.5-7/10 socially awkward dudes and call them "awkward in a cute way" and shit. But ugly dudes with the same personality? gg wp no re
>>61431892
new year, new me right?
>>61431893
Thanks brother, me too.
you should invest in a pocket pussy op
>>61431659
>2016
>not being bi
c'mon son
>>61431694
Fuck that, it's not about loving yourself is about bettering one's self until you can fool other people into liking you, but you are one of those people that would rather shit up a thread on a japanese themed image board by being the biggest self pitying cunt ever, please get over all that and start helping yourself
>>61431899
>6.5-7/10 socially awkward dudes
aw ye time 2 fuk bitches
>>61431842
I wasn't trying to be an asshole, sorry if I came off like that.
>>61431982
get out of here normie
>>61431982
You're not truly sorry. You're thinking in the back of you're head: "God I sure am glad i'm not this bitter asshole, I'm glad my life worked out and i'm in a position to critique people's lifestyle choices on the internet, and tell everyone how great my life is.
>>61427622
This person is me
You're totally right
>>61432030
>>61432050
Think whatever you want guys, I'm about to go cry myself to sleep for like the fourth week straight over my girlfriend who was the only real friend I had and who left me 6 months ago. My life is not fucking sunshine and you would realize that if you cared to understand what I said.
>>61427622
Suddenly I'm remembering the Bjork suicide guy.
>>61431938
>Bettering one's self
It's fucking hard. You can just throw things around on the internet, but I'm sure that is a struggle you have never truly faced.
i wonder what people from 3rd world countries would think about this thread baka
>>61432182
OP here, grew up in a third world country; loneliness knows no socio-economic bounds
>>61432119
Finally it's the last blog post! Have fun crying, I hope you think about me before bed too desu!
>>61432182
I would rather live in a third world country (or hunter gatherer society) where my only struggles were surviving. First world problems are a true hell. They are a slow suffering that end in shame, and suicide.
>>61432238
>loneliness knows no socio-economic bounds
Name of my new emo/math rock band
>>61432241
I genuinely hope it ends in suicide for you. No wonder no one cares about you, you pathetic shitstain of a life form.
>>61432263
Bad band name, would make a good emo song title though
>>61432241
You're so bitter, please get better anon
>>61432162
You're right, i'm still in the place where i need to get around to bettering myself, i'm a gloomy sad guy but i don't try and put other people down because of my shit and i'm a bit proud of that desu
>>61432263
I'm honoured desu
>>61432273
There's literally an emo band called The World Is A Beautiful Place And I Am No Longer Afraid To Die
>>61432270
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuaiYgmf9lQ
>See, the luck I've had Can make a good man turn bad
If only you could walk a mile in my shoes anon. But thanks for that beautiful reply.
>>61427430
Here's the secret, man, it's always nerve racking kissing a girl for the first time.
Sure, you get better at it and some of the nerves go away, but making that first move is supposed to have that energy.
If you didn't feel that way there'd be something wrong. So relax a bit. It's not that big a deal.
>>61432182
>lol i cant read
>>61432404
Omg 2016 is over
>>61432385
It is when you're a 22 year old virgin senpai
What girl would ever want to date a 22 year old virgin who has literally never been in a relationship lmao
There is no pepe sad enough to describe this feel
>>61432429
You just suck it up and just not tell them you are one lol it aint hard to lie nigga
>>61427698
>Met up with a girl, she decides to bail after two dates and I was suicidal for like a month after
oh fuck me man dont say that. met a girl at a friend's birthday and we've been on 2 dates but she hasn't replied to me in nearly a day and the last thing i said was "when are you free next?"
fucking hell mate
>>61432454
>implying I don't lie to everyone about my virginity anyway
The inexperience shows bruh :(
>>61432468
like i said suck it up or start sucking dick or something man idk
>>61432458
That shit will never stop sucking man
This chick I'm talking about made plans *herself* for the next date like "hey let's go to <this place> next time" so I thought I was in.
Half an hour before the date she gives me a bullshit excuse and then never replies to a text ever again.
Like if she said straight up after the second date "hey i'm not feeling this sorry" I wouldn't even be that sad.
But it was the blow-off that hurt the most.
>>61432491
Not attracted to dudes man trust me life would be so much easier if I was
Ah well we'll see how 2016 goes, hopefully it's not as bad as 2015
>>61432503
>Like if she said straight up after the second date "hey i'm not feeling this sorry" I wouldn't even be that sad.
yeah exactly man! if they're just straight with you and tell you that they're not interested well then at least it's some sort of closure, and you're not left floating in a weird fucking limbo.
being completely alone (before) when i didn't have this prospect is arguably better since it's not like you're that close to getting one -- but now? shit is doing my head in familia haha
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ssdgFoHLwnk
>>61432547
Yeah why the fuck do girls think this retarded fade away / half assed blow off shit is better than being up front? What kind of dumbass logic is that "hey i'll randomly keep this dude guessing by being vague af and sending mixed signals yeah that's the best course of action to let him know i'm not into him"
ey man don't psych yourself out tho, maybe she's busy af plus it was new years so she might be hungover. give it another day
and if she still bails then yeah it'll suck for a week or three but after that you'll be like "man fuck being sad over this useless bitch" but yeah it fucking sucks for a couple weeks
>>61432534
Well I hope the best for you man and hope you lose your V card, just get out there dude
>>61432603
Thanks man i appreciate it
>>61432602
girls are a fucking meme man. it's coming up on the 3rd though and i know she's not hung over from NYE, even sent her a snapchat to see if she got my messaged cause texts haven't been received in the past.
i don't know, senpai. girls are a genuine fucking meme.
>>61432602
Because females don't know how to function as normal human beings, you just have to not care when they pull that kinda shit bitch clearly not worth any effort
>>61432620
yeah thats fucked up man if she saw your snap and didn't reply or anything i'm sorry duder :(
>>61432634
nah she hasn't seen it yet so there's still a feint glimmer of hope
>>61432628
>you just have to not care when they pull that kinda shit
pill that makes you stop feeling emotions when
fucking martin shrekli better get on that shit after he does his time
>>61432643
Oh yeah then that's not that bad man. Have faith bro hopefully things will work out and if they don't, don't wallow in your sadness for over a week cause you'll regret it like I did. Trust I know these feels intimately
>>61427817
Fuck this feel. This is the first I'm feeling in a feel thread in ages.
Are the posts ITT actually serious?
>>61432602
because she found somebody else you dumb dumb and she out you on the backburner just incase that guy doesn't work out
>>61432665
Drink enough and pop some pills and you might get that effect. Varies from person to person
>>61432717
if you read through 200+ posts just to leave a holier than thou comment at the end then truly you are the saddest poster in this thread
>>61432665
its called cocaine or lean
why do you think future and young thug brag about it in everysong. got to have a no fucks attitude to make trap music
>>61431694
I'm speaking as a virgin, but really c'mon sex isn't that important. Have some perspective, anon.
>>61432728
I sort of skimmed it and basically every post was just delusion and misogynistic bollocks
>>61432720
Fuck that redpill shit bro but yeah I know I probably got cucked
>>61432726
I've stayed away from addiction so far and wanna keep it that was desu
I'd rather be a virginfag than a tweaker
>>61431842
holy fuck you guys are so easily baited
>>61432643
Sorry man but if she was interested in you she'd be texting you back right away
they aren't memes they're the same as men, if you aren't interested in a girl that's hitting you up you're going to ignore her texts until she forgets about you. just move on
my girlfriend fell in love with me as soon as we started talking, it happens quickly and unexpectedly, you'll find someone eventually man, just keep your chin up
>>61432758
Unless theyre memebers of the clergy, adult virgins tend not to be very mentally stable
>>61432789
When will this "virgins are mentally retarded" meme end?
>>61432749
Does addiction run in your family? its not that hard to do drugs and not be a total addict lol
>>61432682
hows things been for you since then?
>>61432782
yeah nah i could grasp that but there's been 3 instances that makes me think differently
1. on our first date she told me she liked me
2. when i asked her if she was still keen for a 3rd date because i put her on the spot she said something in the vein of "i really enjoy your company and would love to see you again"
3. then when my texts didn't come through she hit me up with pic related
>>61432749
you didn't get cucked. she just didn't like you enough and didn't want to hurt your feelings, just incase for some reason she likes you again in the future.
>>61432819
no when a girl starts acting formal. you're done m8
what you said on number 2 is some shit you tell ur parents. it's over bruv move on before you embarrass yourself more.
delete her number, if you run into her at a public place be nice say hello. don't act like a bitter faggot. be the better man.
>>61432806
I didn't say retarded
I said unstable. Thanks for sort of proving my point tho
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnpILIIo9ek
>There's a club if you'd like to go
>you could meet somebody who really loves you
>so you go, and you stand on your own
>and you leave on your own
>and you go home, and you cry
>and you want to die
>When you say it's gonna happen "now"
>well, when exactly do you mean?
>see I've already waited too long
>and all my hope is gone
>I am human and I need to be loved just like everybody else does
>>61432819
>hows things been for you since then?
It really fucking sucked for a month. I was legit suicidal for like 2 weeks. After that though I got busy with work and going out with coworkers and friends and shit and the bad feels kinda went away. Now, whenever I think about it, I still feel a little bad but not because that girl rejected me, but because I realize I am projecting her rejection onto other potential girls, you know? Like if she rejected me, won't everyone else too? Which is a retarded thought, but I can't help it, you know? So I figured the only way to make that feel go away was to better myself and make sure this shit didn't happen again, so I started counting calories and walking a lot and now I feel better. So I'm gonna start actually going to the gym now and see where life leads me.
I just have some really lonely days sometimes, completely randomly (due to my clinical depression - I mean 2 days ago I was out getting fucked up with my friends for New Years) which is why I made this thread.
>>61432865
h-haha alright any music for this new found realisation in that case?
>>61432873
going to the gym is a really good distraction, mate. i completely understand what you mean when you say you're projecting that experience onto other girls -- i mean what if that experience is the high light of your romantic love life?
Had a pretty big opportunity to be in a relationship with a 8/10 when I was like 14 or 15. I Know that she found me really attractive but I fucked up. Even back then I was too autistic, afraid to make mistakes.
>>61432819
hmm yea I can't really talk because my girl was head over heels for me on our first date
My guess is that if you didn't at least kiss on the 2nd date you're hooped
move on
>>61432865
also this
>>61432895
Recently stalked her facebook profile.. Damn I I'm so stupid, that was probably my only opportunity
>>61432825
Fuck dealing with this shit bruv. Rather get straight up rejected than deal with this crap
>>61432870
>unstable
>retarded
what's even the difference? one is just more PC
>>61432903
nah we kissed on both of them
anyway if she doesn't respond tomorrow night i'll just send her a message essentially asking what the go is
>>61432874
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKD2sEX3TO8
just watch lil b do stupid shit all day. promise you'll be laughing and forget her soon enough.
used to listen to hanl and typical /mu/ sadcore and it just made me feel worse. LIL B made me realize there's plenty of other bitches done to fuck you all over the world
stay based
>>61432891
>i mean what if that experience is the high light of your romantic love life?
haha, i fucking hope not man. that would be so sad, that would finally be the last straw and i'd probably kill myself, damn.
>>61432916
oh nice, good work anon
try messaging her on Facebook, or calling if you haven't tried that already
just don't look desperate
>>61432807
>its not that hard to do drugs and not be a total addict lol
Not if you are having those issues that most of the people in the thread have.
Don't start with drugs that make you feel comfortable if you are already depressed, anxious / very socially awkward.
-An opioid addict
>>61432916
no no no, wait a bit more, you will come up as an insecure clingly guy to her, it doesn't matter if you think "it's her fault" or anything, wait for a bit longer m8
>>61432935
she doesn't have fb and i reckon calling her may be a bit desperate
>>61432940
how long? fuck mate if she doesn't reply to me tomorrow then would there even be a point me messaging her?
>>61432927
That is a very based outlook on life
>>61432944
if she doesn't reply to you tomorrow she's most likely over you
>>61432913
Because 'retarded' means stupid. someone with social anxiety/depression probably isn't retarded unlike a downie or some autists
>>61432944
look man it's over. start looking for a new girl,
she is supposed to be chasing you not the other way around especially after the 2nd date. Go jackoff to some porn or something
>>61432979
When I think "mentally unstable" I don't think socially awkward or depressed, I think autistic, downs, or BPD or something.
>>61427430
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtRKJw6jfxc
>>61427430
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m3-hY-hlhBg
Anything from Nightwish, I always liked "The Poet and the Pendulum" a lot.
>>61429506
>that feel when replay the same imagined conversations with the same people over and over all damn day
It is like a not autistic form of autism.
>>61427841
this. 27 never had gf/sex
>>61433002
Potato Patata
>>61432665
Do some opioids, even mild ones like kratom help
>tfw you never kissed her when you had the chance
>>61429424
Wrong. I also think that I'm good looking, but that doesn't help me talking to people or hating myself. Fear isn't a rational thing
>>61433551
>tfw never had the chance but if I wasn't an anxious mess of a sperg there could have been a chance
About tinder... I've been using that app for a long time now and i guess I'm a little "weird looking" too, but still, I've met two girls in real life with it (one of them was really beautiful) and got plenty of cellphone numbers. The thing you've got to do is just put on a picture of you playing the guitar and you'll get all the artsy chicks. I'm not kidding.
