You're probably sick of these types of threads, but, I'm a guy and I'm trying to figure out if I'm genuinely bisexual or not. There's little doubt that I'm attracted to women. I get off to porn and fantasies involving women, I've had girlfriends, I've enjoyed being sexual with them. But I also get off to porn and fantasies involving guys, sometimes quite strongly, which has led me to suspect I might be bi.
The thing is though, I've never done anything with a guy irl, and as far as I can tell, I have no desire to. There have been times when I've thought "I've figured it out, I'm bisexual!" then I go on a forum and see a post like "bi guy here, just fucked a guy for the first time and it was great" and I think "um, yeah... I don't want that." I've never even had a crush on another guy.
Most people would probably just say I'm repressing my homo desires, given that I can get off to gay porn, and frankly that's what I would assume if this was about someone else. But I have multiple fantasies that get me horny, but I know I wouldn't enjoy them in real life. For example, I love to think about a woman cutting my balls off. It gets me insanely hot. But I don't want it to happen in real life. I also love to fantasize about being sold into slavery to a rich woman and being stripped of all my rights, but again, that's not a scenario I want to have actually happen. Maybe my fantasies about men are in a similar category.
Mainly I'm just asking if anyone can relate. Any opinions /lgbt/? Inb4 "lol why do you care labels don't matter".
>>6176283
Honestly your best bet to figure out everything is to try it IRL. I felt much like you did at the start. I had been with girls, I could fap to them, but I could also fap to gay shit, yet I couldn't really think of fucking a guy IRL or anything like that, never had crushes on guys, etc.
And then, I actually tried it. I liked the everliving shit out of it when actually doing it in practice, nothing had ever gotten me hornier, it made so much sense why I could last ages with girls - because even though it seemed like they were my main attraction, in reality they didn't do much for me and I only was viewing them as the main attraction because I had never truly IRL been exposed to the other side of things. From the first moment I touched another man's dick I knew I loved it. I fucking loved sucking dick for the first time. I loved taking a dick for the first time. It was all amazing, and I never had had a crush or anything before in my life on a boy, and I never thought I'd truly like doing gay shit IRL, until I went and actually did it.
Now I'm a full on bottom and I can't even get off to girls anymore.
Maybe you'll wind up like me and turn full-on-fag, maybe you're bi, maybe you're barely even bi, maybe you're straight in practice, who knows. You will never find out until you actually try some shit IRL with another guy, so if you really want to find out what you really are, then you have to give it a shot. Just go into it being very open about how you've never been with a guy - they'll probably find that hot DESU - and make it clear that you have no idea whether you'll like it or not, but you just want to see.
If you don't feel the same or very similar feelings towards men that you feel towards women you're not bi. If you gravitate to the idea of being in a loving sexual relationship with a women but cringe and shy away if it's a man, you are not bi.
Think about it. Are you actively self inserting as one of them? Are you watching it thinking "damn I wish I could fuck/be fucked by that guy too" or is the tone of the film tickling some other insinct? Gay porn has a lot of sexual aggression and power play in it from what little I've seen.
Here one other thing to consider. Do you get off to lesibian porn for the same reasons you get off to gay porn?
You sound like a kinky bitch.
>>6176309
>can't even get off to girls anymore
This is definitely part of the reason I don't want to try anythin with a guy. What if I just liked it better? The thought of not being attracted to women anymore makes me so sad. It's been such a big part of who I am.
>>6176283
It's just fantasy.
And there's really nothing beneficial in knowing you're bisexual if you're straight.
>>6176283
God fucking damn it..
State you gender first you dumbass. Uke or seme!!!
>>6176451
This
Just say "biguy/bigirl here"
>>6176372
> What if I just liked it better?
Then it's a good thing. If you really do wind up liking it better, then you will have a more fulfilling life with more satisfaction.
Liking boys doesn't mean you have to change who you are at all. If you wind up like me then really you will just be more genuinely yourself. Either way you don't need to tell anyone about it, and can keep acting like you do. There is no reason to be afraid of discovering the real you.
