Why people immedietly know i am gay? i dont have any problem with this but
i never told anyone, and dont behave like stereotypical gay male
Why they know? whats wrong with me? some of people told me i think like a girl, probalby to insult me
i have no idea what i do differently than others.
im really confused
>>6079633
Wow, dude, I am straight and I was about to make a post asking somewhat the same question. If it is some comfort, here is my shindig:
I'm straight, I never post here, I've only been here a couple of times to see if there are any cool dickgirls here. I'm not calling em trans, it sounds to similar to transvestite. Dickgirl is way better and more descriptive. Anyhow, people think I'm gay. It reached a climax some days ago when I found out more than 50% of my friends are gay boys, they've just gravitated towards me. Since then I've changed my fashion style a bit, I've bleached my hair and wear different clothes, but it doens't seem to be working. I've tried to grow beard, but it is just peach fuzz, so it's no use. But, to comfort you, I'm straight and they think I'm gay too, so there you have that for what it's worth. Even my parents think I'm gay, everytime I tell my best friend I got laid he is like "Well, with a girl or...?". I guess I'll have to live with it.
>>6079646
>bleached your hair
>not gay
Lol OK champ
>>6079664
Haha, well fuck you too sir.
I actually think I look straighter now. I look more like a player who lives out loud.
>>6079688
>i look more like a player
>lives out loud
Aaayyyyy. Just kiss boys, Anon.
>>6079688
You really sound like repressed homo. Any mtf with just a little self respect will laugh at you
Evaluating yourself and your behavior and looks is really difficult. Things that are normalized about yourself, to you, might be read as completely different to others. But there are always things we were not even consciously aware of.
Bodylanguage, voice, posture, mimesis, style, sociolect.
Several things can reveal states of your being that you weren't even aware of.
The white in your eyes reveals your objects of attention.
Arms or legs crossing reveals your openness and interest to new people at crucial moments.
A nervous touch or scratch of the back of your head reveals your confidence.
>>6079646
>I'm straight
>see if there are any cool dickgirls here
I am become bait.
>>6079633
>Fag voice?
>Takes care of yourself / looks?
>Acts like a beta depressed bitch boy from /r9k/?
>Dresses like someone from /fa/?
If one of these people will find out.
>>6079868
>Fag voice?
No
>Takes care of yourself / looks?
basic stuff, yes
>Acts like a beta depressed bitch boy from /r9k/?
not really
>Dresses like someone from /fa/?
nope, and never tried
>>6079855
>Bodylanguage, voice, posture
This. I can spot a gay guy in my peripheral vision from seeing the way he stands. Gay men tend to stand like girls. Also the voice. I don't know why, but even masculine gay men have the girly voice.
Ironically, trans gender people tend to stand like heterosexual people of their birth sex.
It pisses me off
I dont like cars, or dont give a shit about it. And they will insult me or treat me like an alien. And why it is wrong? Why i dont like cars? I was never interested in technology, moto industry, football, sport, i dont know anything about that, or i know only that what is necessary.
But I don't behave girly at all. I'm intrested in military, economy (free market), volunteering.
and then i go to work or anywhere and they know at first sight. why?
>>6079868
Let's see how well I do.
>Fag voice?
I don't think I have one, my voice is normal, I think it is pretty manly.
>Takes care of yourself / looks?
Yeah, I guess, since I changed my looks. Well, my hair is bleached. I treat my face to not have acne, that is pretty normal. I use perfume. I style my hair. Normal straight thing to do, but I can't have a beard. I do tan though.
>Acts like a beta depressed bitch boy from /r9k/?
I don't even know how they act. I think I act very striaght, I do martial arts.
>Dresses like someone from /fa/?
I don't know, I think I wear very straight clothes, but it is player-ish. But very normal clothes like, a white shirt, with contrasting on the inside of cuff and collar, and jeans, but stone bleached with some holes.
Is that gay now?
>>6079934
in military i mean uprisings, fight for freedom, beating communists, fight for human rights and so on
I think I know what the problem is.
Look at this video, the guy on the left is you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9FXR3mUVpQ
>>6079954
Flaming homosex.
>>6080012
YOUR GAY ASS HAIR
Seriously I'm mtf/honish femboy and I haven't bleached my hair yet because I think it's too feminine for me since I'm so far from passing. What makes you think you can bleach your hair and not seem like a huge faggot?
Smh
>>6080045
Because I see a lot of cool guys do it, like footballers, basketballers and so on. I haven't bleached my whole hair, just hood bleached it.
And it also makes you stand out a bit more, wich is good for getting attention.
>>6080012
the guy on the left has gayface, a gay hairstyle and the body language of a gay effeminate man.
if you think that is normal its no wonder that people know you are gay from just seeing you.
>>6079633
If it's true that people seem to know you're gay before you tell them, there is obviously something in your behavior that is giving you away. Something apparently obvious to other people that you don't see. It's almost impossible for strangers on the internet to tell you what that is without even knowing what you look like.
I have the opposite problem. Most people never guess that I'm gay and some people don't believe me.
>>6079646
>I'm not calling em trans, it sounds to similar to transvestite.
That's because it has the same prefix, dumbass; they're still obviously different words. "Trans" is an abbreviation of "transgender" or "transsexual". "Dickgirl" only applies if they actually have a dick too.
>>6079930
>Ironically, trans gender people tend to stand like heterosexual people of their birth sex.
>Ironically
No, that actually makes perfect sense with a moment's thought.
My mom always told me I stood "weird" when I looked at pictures of myself I looked like a total fag, what I try to do is position my legs farther apart and try not to cross my legs and some other minor stuff
>>6079646
>it sounds to similar to transvestite
A word that people haven't used since the 80s. I'm pretty sure the only place I've seen the word transvestite is on Craigslist. Dickgirl is arguably more rude than just saying mtf or transgirl or something.
>>6079868
>>Fag voice?
Fortunately no.
>>Takes care of yourself / looks?
I do!
>>Acts like a beta depressed bitch boy from /r9k/?
Y-Yes I do.
>>Dresses like someone from /fa/?
Holy shit I'm a fag
Because every time you open your mouth a cock falls out.
At least you'll never have to come out.
>>6079646
>I'm straight
>I've only been here a couple of times to see if there are any cool dickgirls here
>straight
>dickgirls
>straight
>dickgirls
>straight
You sure about that?
t. dickgirl
>>6079633
Better question:
How do I make it so that people immediately assume I am gay without being obnoxious about it?
>>6080590
why is transvestite a bad word? it just means someone that dresses the as the other sex (without the "muh dysphoria" crap).
>>6079959
>Fight for freedom
>Beat communists
Nigga you confused
>>6079915
>>Fag voice?
>No
You should record and post a clip here, your voice might be gayer than you realise.
>>6079930
Answermanfag detected.
You
Know
Fuckle
About us anon. Go die in a very heterosexual way. NOOB
>>6080629
Study Apple's early marketing strategies.
>>6080584
That feel when your mom repeatedly asked you if you were gay throughout your adolescence and you always said no, but you actually were a fag and for some reason didn't see that wanting to take dicks and such things made you gay.
Fuck I could have had so much fun with cute boys in middle school and high school if I just had put two and two together sooner ;.;
Straight guy again here, I'm only here because this thread is relevant to my interests, no homo!
>>6080626
Yeah sure, from what I've seen gays don't tend to go for your kind. Leaves only one other option, striaght people.
>>6080635
Because it isn't a dickgirl, it is a guy in a dress. At least according to porn, who we all know makes these decisions on a big scale. Shemale is a bad word too, because it could be a guy with a vagina. Call it dickgirls, or lady'ck if that makes it more apropriate. Thing is, we can't waste time. We need to know whats up, dickgirl is great, it's like elephant man, you know he is gonna have something in his face. That is why they called him elephant man.
>>6080072
Who would fuck a dickgirl without a dick? Whats the point? Thats like hotdog without hotdog.
>>6080063
No, he just spreads out. What is gay about that? He just looks young.
Anyhow, what OP and me needs is some good advice on looking straight.
>>6081095
>Yeah sure, from what I've seen gays don't tend to go for your kind. Leaves only one other option, striaght people.
>>6081095
>from what I've seen gays don't tend to go for your kind
>Leaves only one other option, striaght people.
>gay or straight nothing inbetween t. bisexual man in denial
Lol, you're forgetting all about bisexuality. Bisexuals are a thing, and if you are into trannies at all, congrats, you are automatically bisexual and cannot be considered 100% straight, even though you may be only a little bit away from it.
>>6081161
Sorry man, but I wasn't gonna find myself a gf in here. I just wanted to see if you guys actually pass.
>>6079633
iktf
I've been told that it's because I'm handsome yet never been interested in girls whatsoever.
It would probably bother me if I was straight, but then again I'd probably have a gf if I was
>>6081201
As a straight man, I too am looking forward to spreading my seed inside boys who dress like girls and I enjoy playing with their dicks and getting seed inside my own but those as well. It's absolutely not gay and completely what normal straight people do.
>>6081161
>you are automatically bisexual
>"I'm a REAL woman, use female pronouns on me!"
>"If a man dates me he's not straight"
I'm so done with this nonsense
>>6081225
Okay, thats gay.
To some degree dickgirls are gay, but not to a very big degree, more like anal-tier. Think of it, you have a perfectly good pussyhole and you go "I want to put in the ass", that is slighlty gay. But not very. A well passing dickgirl is like 175cm tall and has a dick about 12cm, that is less than 10% gay, im just talking lengths now, the numver further diminishes if you take into account the mass of the person. It's probably less than 5% gay.
>>6081281
tfw dickgirl with 165 cm tall and 5cm dick. ty genetics
>>6081336
Yeah, I mean, what else can you be at that point. That is well within sissy range.
>>6081409
idk. ive always liked having a small dick and being short
>>6079633
Did a question thread on this on another site and it was
>spaghetti
>voice/usage of words
>caught jacking off to a sausagefest of a video
>>6081611
Thats good for you, isn't that like typical dickgirl esthetics. Do you pass? Asian perhaps?
>>6081654
i pass. i started right before 21. i had really good genetics though. i looked 14 when i started. i dont think i went through puberty right because most people dont pass that well if they started at the age i did
>>6081657
you are soo lucky, good for you!
[dies inside]
>>6081657
Well, even you got to have some luck. And my condolences if you're just playing prentend in front of the keyboard.
In a way we kind of have the same problems, I'm trying to not look gay and you're trying to not look guy.
>>6081844
id post a pic but then everyone would know who i am lol. i know i pass in real life but i still struggle with being unhappy about my appearance. i think itll get better over time though, self acceptance can take years. its a process you know?
>>6081937
Is that because you're a camwhore?
Well fuck, who is ever happy about their appearance. I can't grow a fucking beard in my mid twenties, I'm fighting a never ending battle againste facial and shoulder acne, twice a week I put four different creams on my face. I'm lifting every day of the week, but OBVIOUSLY my body isn't that high on testosterone. I've just spent approximately 400usd on changing my style, bleaching my hair and getting a tan. Five weeks ago I found out 6 out of 9 nine friends of mine are gay, and the 3 straight ones are gamers who don't like going out on the weekend. At least they probably think I'm a top.
>>6079646
I've come to accept who I am. I really don't care about male, female, trans. I'm not even bi. I just have an unhealthy and deviant obsession of power that can only be satiated through violence, dehumanization and rape. My fantasies are unhealthy, And I mostly lurk here looking for prey.
Technically speaking, I'm that person behind those who hate fags and lend them a hand of tolerance and kindness only to take that away and lock them in a turmoil of despair upon realizing they aren't leaving. Ever.
I have a thing for dolls. Living dolls and joints.
I'm joking. I just collect dolls.
>>6082027
Wow man, you should try behaviorism. You fapped your way into this shit, you're gonna have to fap you way out. This week, only regular porn on wednesday! No funny shit with tentacles and shit. Next week, normal porn on monday and wednesday. Perhaps even try some self hypnotizing. Place some fake memories into your childhood about liking whatever gender you choose.
>>6082027
hey, guy who manages to be socially awkward even on 4chan. How does it feel to be a thread killer? Also, why the fuck did you quote my post you psycho. Fuck off.
