It does seem petty because he paid you basically a compliment

But i understand it to some degree, what you need to learn though is to not be soo desperate. Honestly its the thing that will keep you from finding love. First comes a little bit of self love of confidence, Your worth cannot be based around wanting to find a partner. also you cannot get your hopes up on people giving you compliments or you are setting yourself up to be disappointed

Real talk though, Desperation and self pitty are going to be the things that keep you from getting a partner.

>>5959386
once a straight guy told me he'd be my bf if i sucked his dick but then he changed his mind saying i gave him the worst bj ever he was just too big and i gagged and his cum made me cough and he said fuck off you are a good for nothing whore and i cried

i still love him

>>5959429
OP here, thanks for the advice anon, I know I'm working on it. I'm not open about how desperate I am but I guess it still fucks me over even if I keep it to myself
>>5959432
Lmao I hope this isn't real, girl get it together.

Adding another heartbreak
>be 17
>yeah no one is ever gonna love me
>idc
>my friends and I go out to drink
>"hey anon let's buy a pizza "
>realize we wasted too much money on food and have none left for beer
>this day can't end like thiusd
>mfw we run into a bunch of cool metalheads
>"let's get drunk"
>"sure anon"
>"wait really?"
>proceed to drink our asses off and play pool
>my friends and I chat about how cute one of the guys is
>we keep being a drunk mess while everyone else is sober
>a few of my friends leave
>am left with only my friend Diana
>"I'm gonna do it diana I'm gonna kiss him"
>"be a slut do whatever you want anon"
>start saying buy to people, kiss girls on the cheek cause that's what you do
>get to cute guy and try to kiss him
>he dodges me
>"lol you're too drunk anon"
>leave sad
>next day I wake up and I'm wearing his sweater and shirt
>hug the sweater
>go to work
>mfw he's hanging outside my work with my coworkers
>freak out and avoid them
>fuck I don't wanna feel
>they aren't leaving soon
>walk outside and say hi
>I want to die
>we actually start having a good conversation
>we have so much in common
>oh my god he's perfect
>he leaves and I have a huge crush on him now
>start texting him frequently
>he's just so cute and nice
>start feeling like he's the one for some reason
>I feel good fore once
>don't see him for like 3 weeks
>start to tell myself I'm not enough and this isn't gonna happen
>get depressed and basicly break myself down so he can't hurt me
>confirned after seeing him ridiculously being affectionate with some girl
>I thought this time it was different
>end up just being his friend
>we start hanging out more but I don't feel anything anymore
>okay this is better
>back to giving up on love

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>>5959386
>he's starts being all comprehensive and nice saying its okay but he's just not into guys
>comprehensive

I don't think that means what you think it means.
Compassionate? Commiserative? Comforting? Understanding? I don't know.
Sorry about the heartbreak though bro. I know that feel.

>>5959536
Op must be a spanishfag thinking of compresivo

>>5959635
Actually yes, I thought it meant that

>>5959642
Comprehensive = abarcativo
Comprensivo = understanding, sympathetic, compassionate

Just got off of work, bumping for anyone to share there feels

>>5959386
Sharing is cathartic, or some shit like that. Greentext incoming shortly.

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>be mtf
>basically never had any physical contact or relationship of any kind (virgin)
>have feelings for an old high school buddy I see every now and then
>after I come out he is very supportive
>we actually start hanging out more
>he is probably one of the few people I know who treats me like a woman and thinks of me as one
>feelings intensify
>don't want to say anything because potential to ruin friendship
>friend is dating women but nothing lasts very long, usually like 3 months or so
>after his last break up he asks for me to come over
>he is drunk and talking about why his relationship ended
>comfort him
>we watch some dumb movie to take his mind of things
>about to leave after that
>'anon if only I could find a girl like you who wasn't born a guy'
>passes out
>leave and cry while driving home

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>>5962711
>be in high school
>highly religious background
>realized I was gay when I was little but managed to repress it for years
>meet a handsome as hell guy in AP Bio
>looks like a jock but is a huge nerd at heart
>start a friendly competition with him over test scores
>end up joining his circle of friends, good group of people
>end up going on vacation in california with him
>senior year
>many, many more classes together
>we always stick together, still compete over grades
>start getting close to him
>really, really close
>after months of struggling with how I feel I finally realize I'm in love with him
>he's straight, dating one of our mutual friends
>he's always been chill, and has a few lesbian friends
>still afraid of what'll happen if I tell him
>try and block out feelings for him
>it only gets worse
>he's pretty oblivious
>the worst is when he talks about sex
>graduate
>we keep in contact, but he starts getting more and more distant
>finally can't take it anymore
>decide to tell him so I can finally get over him
>ask him if we can talk about us
>"Us? We're not in a relationship or anything lol"
>insist
>agree to meet for coffee later that week
>text him the day of to confirm
>he flaked out and was with other friends
>try again, same result
>finally give up
>never see him again

I still miss him. He was one of my best friends and I don't think I ever really meant anything to him, even as friends. At least he didn't break my heart intentionally.

>>5962743
Come clean and tell him how you feel. This is how romance starts. Convince him to give it a try. To fit together mentally is worth more than any physical stuff.

>>5962889
This, but if it doesn't work or he's not interested, stop trying immediately. Trying to force it would only ruin your friendship.

>>5962889
>>5962889
But doesn't the statement 'if only you weren't born a guy' kinda indicate that this person doesn't really see their friend as a woman? Kinda sounds like he wouldn't be interested or would think he was gay for dating her.

My interpretation anyway. Also how do you 'convince' someone to date you? It more kinda just happens in my experience.

>>5962930
The guy accepts her more than others do, so maybe he just needs time to adapt to the idea that she could be a partner to him. He already admitted that he could be with her 'if she was normal'. That's halfway there. But I agree with >>5962897 though. The key is to try but not push it.

>>5959514
Seems like you find people you like quite often. I'm personally just a straight male browsing /lgbt/ rn for some reason, but my problem is that I don't ever find anyone I like, at all. Sure, plenty of people that look hot but nobody that makes me think "I want to be with you"

>>5962998
>plenty of people that look hot but nobody that makes me think "I want to be with you"
That's what personalities are for, anon.

Am I the only faggot who never fell for a straight guy?

>>5963156
Sort of. I've fallen for 3 straight guys, but they all lied and said they were gay, made efforts to act all gay too. Does it count then?

>>5963185
Why would they do that?

>>5963189
Well, nearest I could figure, one was an asexual who was forbidden from so much as masturbating as a child in a Christian household, and was a little autistic, so he was still figuring things out. Another was a horny teenager, and openly admitted to being a coward about everything, so it was easier for him to pretend to be effeminate then to growl and grunt and puff out his chest. The third was a male whore who temporarily ran out of female clients.

>>5963199
>falling for whores and autists
You deserve it desu.

>>5963220
I'd known the whore for years before I figured out he was a whore, and the autist made for better conversation then I've ever seen on this dank website. But go ahead and try again Mr. Retard.

>>5959386
Not that much of a heart break, but my high-school crush was a HUGE fan of Arctics Monkeys. I always feel about him when I heard this song.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpOSxM0rNPM (a song about unrequited love, how convenient)

>>5962743
That's so fucked :( He insulted you and broke your heart, he was drunk but still. Stay strong anon

>>5962749
This fucking sucks, having a long term crush on someone is the biggest waste of time, not only that but you just end up hurt and gain nothing.
>>5963156
Fucking lucky
>>5964987
We accept all heartbreaks big or small don't worry anon

>Have slight crush on this qt girl
>she has a bf tho
>playing truth or dare with friends one day
>total bro dares her to kiss me
>just a peck
>this was the greatest moment of my baby dyke life this far
>months pass
>fucking smitten with her
>she and her boyfriend are on a "break" (whatever that even means)
>she asks to spend the night at my house on New Year's Eve
>we get wasted alone together
>she asks me to be her New Years kiss
>end up making out
>in her panties when she tells me to stop, she has a bf
>oh
>ok then
>more shots and pass out
>she breaks up with her bf for real a few weeks later
>we spend more and more time together
>not too sure if she's really into me
>ask her about sexuality, she says she's bi
>aight good to go
>outta nowhere she fucks the bro that dared me to kiss her
>he tells me that she said she's not into girls
>then she gets back with her old bf
god damn it

>>5967240
I say it wasn't (really) a heart break because he was so comprensive and nice to me, even after I came out

On the other hand, now that I'm in college
>this cute little guy says to everyone he's "curious"
>jokingly flirt with me
>try to flirt back
>that time he tickled me, I think "this guy can't be straight"
>I say fuck it, let's do it
>Casually mention his TWO Years GF just as I engaged conversation
>fvck

>>5967509
this is literally bisexual girls in a nutshell lmao

>avoid them