>be earlier this year
>Decide to come out to two to of my friends that I've known for two years
>'just so you guys know im gay'
>send picture of me kissing my bf
>female friend (They're a couple) sends a really long response about how great it is and blah blah blah
>male friend: April fools?
>realize its april first
and thats the story of how i went back into the closet.
>>6565081
>sat down with parents, eating dinner
>the radio is on in the background
>finally muster up the courage to tell them I'm MtF trans
>"Man! I Feel Like a Woman" suddenly plays on the radio
>I gag
>don't come out for 6 more months
My "friend's" mom walked in on us having some semi kinky awkward teenager sex.
She lost her mind and yelled at my gf for several minutes while I had like a pantie gag in my mouth and my hands tied to her bed and all I could do was like, roll over a bit and just show my butt to them.
Her mom called my family and my mom was like "yeah we've heard them having sex here before we just let them be though, I thought you knew already I mean (my gfs name) is obviously gay"
>>6565357
she knows.
>Be 20
>Come out to dad as a trans woman via text on Christmas Eve
> ur not trans its they japs who are brainwashing you through all they cartoons you watch its the devil giving you those thoughts
>>6565533
Holy shit is that a pic of you?
>>6565549
yah
>>6565555
Damn, you're cute as fuck, no offense to your old man, but he should tell everyone he has a hot daughter instead!
>>6565569
Haha thank you, I've not spoke to or seen my dad in a few years, I wish he could see me now :c
>>6565587
Sorry to hear that. Try to keep contact to the people around him. I had a similar issue with my dad, after I broke my wrist in basic training and come back home I moved away. We weren't on best terms, still aren't, but damn I still try to talk to my old man. Keep being yourself, I think parents simply just want to see dedication and not a phase-esque approach to lifestyle changes.
>>6565533
Well your dad is right.
>>6565607
tbf all the androgynous fembois in anime were probably one of the positive influences I had, western media seems to see androgyny as a joke in comparison (other than in modeling, but its always male centric)
>be 15
>come out to parents as a lesbian
>my dad tries to make it as uncomfortable as possible
Here are a few quotes:
"Does your girlfriend know you're gay?"
"Who tops?"
"You know your mother's got toys if you need them."
"You do the alphabet?"
*points to the carpet* "That make you as hungry as it makes me?"
And by far, my favorite: "Hi, Gay. I'm Dad."
>>6565637
>> points to the carpet* "That make you as hungry as it makes me?"
MY SIDES
I came home from college my freshman year with my hormones. My parents didn't know. My mom went into the room I was sleeping in (guest bedroom) to look for a photo album she left in there and found my needles. She freaked out and was asking me if I was shooting dope, and when I told her it's for injecting estrogen because I want to be a woman, she came really close to me and started whispering in my ear. I thought she was going to kick me out or disown me, but she just said "Will my doctor give me estrogen shots for my hot flashes?" I told her she could probably get estrogen pills for that if she asked. She said okay and never mentioned my trans-ness again. My parents just kind of pretend I'm not trans, which is sort of nice. I wish they'd call me the right name and pronoun though.
>>6565637
lmfao thats so inappropriate but hilarious
>>6565637
>Does your girlfriend know you're gay?
>Hi Gay, I'm Dad
Dem Bantz
>>6565081
>Have a bad habit of getting pissed and coming out of my friends
>It usually just goes "Hello friend I like men"
>Then they either say "Yeah I knew/ Yeah I thought so"
Could be worse
>be me
>was masterbating to anime trap
>brother walks in
>been flamingly gay in secret for years
>at a bar, drunk off my ass
>friend asks if I'm seeing anyone
>tell him I'm gay
>immediately begin dancing on everyone, get slapped for slapping a girls ass, seduce a few country boys who honestly were straight but can't help it when they have a little too much bud light
>friend finds me in the stall passed out with one foot in the other stall in an attempt to suck all the dicks
>>6565637
Your dad sounds awesome
>>6565674
You're more than just your pronouns.
Ignore the pebbles, fear the stones.
>hanging out at apartment fapping to /hm/ and drinking whisky
>busted nut, it was pretty cool
>mom texted me "your dads in town he's at the bar want me to give you a ride,"
>k. Sure
>get to bar and I'm catching up with my dad
>he makes some reference to something and I said I had a funny picture to go along with it on my phone
>I pull up my phone, were both staring at my screen
>an asshole and balls shows on my screen
>I didn't close my tab
>dad says "so you're gay then or what?"
>I say yeah, I'm drunk and no regrets yet
>he says "well you're mother owes me a hundred bucks then"
>everything went all right
>>6566626
I know, but the ideal would be getting called the right name and pronouns. Literally everyone but my parents and siblings do. It would just be nice.
>>6565081
>>driving the car with my mom in the passenger seat to go pick up my aunt one night
>>trying to figure out how to tell my mom i'm trans for awhile, really want to do it while it's just us in the car
>>too nervous, get all the way to my aunt's house without saying anything
>>mom calls aunt to let her know we're here
>>well now or never
>>"mom i think i'm transgender."
>>mom doesn't know what to say, aunt gets in car
>>not talked about again until i develop a serious drug addiction and end up in rehab
>>6566752
I seriously hope you're doing better now. What was your addiction? H for me. I sucked enough dick thru grindr to get myself out of homelesssess.
>>6566752
LOL
>go in to my brother's room
>say that I need to tell him something
>spend 5 minutes building up to it because I'm a pussy
>he's literally shaking with fear
>"anyway yeah I want to be a woman."
>"oh I thought you were gonna say you had cancer or something."
And he was like the third person I came out to thought I was going to tell them I was dying or something. shit's weird.
>be out only to mother
>pre-hrt
>grandparents come from out of state for visit
>when they leave they call my mom on the phone and ask if I am trans
I don't even have to come out
>>6565081
>be me a few months before I left for college
>just started antiandrogens behind their back
>having a dream where I come out to a lot of people and they're all accepting
>mom comes into my room and wakes me up
>in half asleep delirious stage
>really happily say "momimtrans"
>mom leaves room and I roll over and try to go back to sleep
>realize what I've done
>she acts really weird and unsure around me for a couple weeks
>hope she didn't know what trans means since I didn't explain it or say transgender, just trans, and the awkwardness is just all in my head
>mfw 2 years later and I'm completely back in the closet but on full hormones for 6 months
At least it wasn't an angry reaction, just a really awkward one so I'm less worried for when I actually come out.
>>6566992
They are from Illinois
I dunno about my grandfather but my grandma was pretty poor growing up.
They are fairly upper middle class now tho
>>6565637
>points to the carpet* "That make you as hungry as it makes me?"
God fucking damnit
>>6567003
I am from Illinois Too homie. Posting in Stockton illinois.
Fuck me please.
>>6567117
my grandparents are
I'm not
>>6567117
are you trans? im not that person but im in il
>>6566895
opiates. mostly iv hydromorphone. sometimes i still wish i had just overdosed but i'm still pretty much clean and doing better now. hope you're doing okay, i know it's a bad place to be.
> be gay male
> out to all to all my friends at uni
> not out to old friends and family in home town yet
> be home visiting
> at bar with older brother, couple cousins and some high school friends
> everyone is getting a good buzz going
> lots of banter
> cousin calls me gay
> brother says "I've always wanted a gay brother" all sarcastically
> already had planned on comming out to family that weekend so fuck it
> down the rest of my rum and coke
> quickly blurt out "well funny story, I'm really gay"
Spent the rest of the night fucking with most of them because no one knew if I was serious or not. Shortly after bro and I dip out for a cig and I clarify that I am gay, he's cool with it.
> mfw, everything went better then expected
>>6567174
I'm gay not trans where in il tho?
>I came out and everyone was fine with it.
>mfw happiest 48 hours of my life.png
>week or two later
>I'm not fine with it
>I was already conditioned being gay was wrong by my peers, teammates, parents, and church (forced church)
>I don't believe that, but these supportive people when I came out are the same people who got me to hate myself growing up
>Now it's too late, the damage is already done
>At this point a relationship would be toxic unhealthy
>A hookup? Would prob break down in tears
hahahaha my life
