So I'm a female, and I've been dating a guy for about 6 months, who presented himself as completely straight. The other day, he showed me his porn. It's all transgender porn, mostly sissy. He says he can see himself fulfilling both rolls and he hates straight porn. Now I have no problem with him having fetishes, because I have them too. Except he's never been super into sex with me. His parents are really religious and I'm afraid he's just using me as a cover. I don't know how to approach the subject in a sensitive way that won't come across as accusatory.
>>6533556
Wrap yourself around his face, tingle his nose and gently whisper in his ear: [spoiler]AM I YOUR BEARD?[/spoiler]
>>6533556
dump his ass if you don't want to be in a realationship with a tranny
>>6533556
Start giving him hormones every morning, say it's a vitamin suplement you will make him happy.
>>6533556
He projects sexually onto you so when you fucks you he pretends he's you and getting fucked by a man
>>6533781
Is this common?
>>6533556
Ugh good god look at that skin.
>>6533556
He's probably completely straight, you're just too fat and ugly for him. That's the most likely scenario. It's always fat gross girls that complain why their bf won't sleep with them. Like go to the fucking gym, ham beast
It's agp
>>6533823
He finds you a somewhat ideal picture of the type of girl he would want to be if he was a girl and it turns him on
He self-inserts as you when he fucks you
He wants to be THE LITTLE GIRL
Feed him hormones
>>6533823
More or less how sex with women worked for me before I figured out what I was doing, and the process lost its subconscious appeal in the light of conscious awareness.
But no one here can tell you what's really going on. Talk to your bf about it, be receptive, and (if you're comfortable) explore his feelings with him.
Could be a whole lot of nothing.
>>6533823
Wow, the sex must be bad if you believed that immediately. But yes, it is exceedingly common. It seems to be the only way closeted trans women can manage to orgasm during sex. At least I have not once heard a different account.
>>6533556
Don't know if you browse this board much OP but there's a lot of hardcore memes going on right now in this thread. Tread carefully, a lot of people are going to just say he's a tranny but IIRC according to polls this board is somewhere around 50% trannies and trannies have a tendency of assuming people are trans on the off chance that maaaaybe they are, because all they think of is their own viewpoint (like most people in general).
Let me give you it straight here:
He could easily just like fapping to dickgirls man, and that's it. No repressed tranny feels, nothing. Maybe he just like girls with dicks. Maybe your troubles in bed with him are from you not having a dick.
I mean they could be right, it's possible, but I never could fap to trannies before I became one. Back then I exclusively dated girls and had sex with girls (I have no attraction to them for years but I digress). Trannies were completely unfappable to me because they just made me feel like shit mentally.
Although one thing is maybe that's not even his fap folder and he just looks at it to feel like shit about what he'll never be (or what he thinks he'll never be, guess it'd depend on his settings). Or just looks at it and wishes he could be.
Also it is totally possible that everyone saying he's probably a tranny in repression/denial is correct. I'm just putting it out there that there are other possibilities. Maybe he wants to be a grill, maybe not. Just having a bunch of tranny porn means nothing on its own.
Ask him this:
"If you could press a button and turn into a girl permanently, would you?"
Just don't be an assburger and find the correct time to say it and in the correct way.
If he says "yes" he's a tranny in repression or denial.
>>6537680
>It seems to be the only way closeted trans women can manage to orgasm during sex.
+1 from an MtF
>>6533823
It happens. So is him being bi, gay, having a fetish, not very interested in sex, etc. It's impossible for us to know.
But it doesn't seem very straight. As you said it's that lack of interest which is disturbing.
How old are you both? Have either of you had relationships before? If he's grown up in a strict/religious envionment, it's possible he hasn't been able to consider having a different sexuality/being transgender, but that given time and options it would become clear to him.
I don't know how you should bring it up and how to get any answers out of this but in the end I doubt this is going to last.
REMINDER:
Everyone saying he's self-inserting imagining himself to be his gf while fucking her, think of this fact!:
If that were the case he'd get off to straight porn no problem, because he'd just imagine that he's the girl getting fucked by the guy. I'm a tranny, and I usually fap to straight porn, but when I do it I'm imagining I'm the girl and am getting fucked by the guy.
There is no reason that, if he were a tranny in denial self-inserting as his gf during sex, he would hate straight porn yet like traps over that.
>>6537709
Additional info: I think OP's bf is probably repressed homo or just really into traps.
>>6533556
>I'm afraid he's just using me as a cover.
Just in case, I would get a check for STD's.
I can't believe everyone went for the trans theory before thinking he might just be bisexual.
ALSO keep in mind porn does not represent well sexuality. It is very different to actual sex.
>>6533556
TRY CALLING HIM GAY.
>>6537789
I don't fuck girls anymore, or anyone. I only get fucked. I had trouble performing in bed for sure with girls. Frequently lost erection or couldn't finish.
>STRAIGHT PEOPLE PROBLEMS
>>6537803
Careful, if he is repressed he might freak out.
>>6537836
oh okay, I couldn't have fucked girls even if I wanted to before I transitioned, every girl could see from a mile away that I wasn't a plausible partner, my best friend even told me I was too feminine looking for her, not to mention I was like 3 inches shorter
I don't think I'm ugly and I'm definitely not fat, but you could be right about him just being bi. And we are both 20 and have had other serious long term relationships. But I do know that his last girlfriend was bisexual.
>>6537874
Kek, I left a lot to be desired before hormones but I had thought myself into being alpha as fuck and I also had mad pussy pulling skills from being in several actively gigging (several gigs a week) local bands. I was nothing compared to our lead singer. He once had 4 girlfriends at once and none of them knew about each other. All of this while having a part-time job, being a full-time student at the university, and while having 3 band practices a week which all lasted several hours. I don't know how the fuck he did it but he did. Funniest shit was one time, he came to practice all bummmed out as fuck. We were like "what's wrong Ben?" "uuughhh..." "what?" "man, I gave a girl my weeed. FUck!" "lol dumbass"
>>6538143
>But I do know that his last girlfriend was bisexual.
what's that got to do with his orientation tho?
I was just saying that he is comfortable with that, despite him being raised super religious.
>>6533556
All the porn i look at is trans
Only attracted to cis and trans women
straight porn is too violent for me and it's grown boring over time
have had sex with cis and trans women enjoy both
People say i'm straight honestly not concerned about it though
>>6542957
My nigga
Speaking for myself here -
I'm 37, married 11yrs now. I like straight porn mostly... but LOVE shemale porn. (I know that's not necessarily the correct acceptable term, but it yields good search results)
My wife knows about my big tit asian fetish. But not about my fixation, craving for girlcock.
Try doing some buttplay on him, leading up to pegging. If he's like me, he'll love it!
It's because sex is gay.
WAY fucking gay.
>>6533556
say "I love you"
leave if he does not say the same
if you not love him, leave him too
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