Longstory short, I'm a cis "straight" guy in his early 30s dating a much younger transgirl.
We've been together for 3 years and it's been great, she's great and she wants to go longterm but I'm afraid of commiting and all that it would entail.
Just asking for tips and advice
Do it faggot.
Or send her my way.
>>6529681
>commiting and all that it would entail
Meaning what exactly?
>>6530373
>yourwifesadudelol
Other than that I wanna have kids and I'm not sold on adoption, there's also the fact that there's an 11year age-gap between us, also the fact that she's technically rich and I'm not.
The big one is age, right now she's fucking hot and I'm not sure how well that's gonna hold up over the years, the idea scares the fuck out of me.
>>6530522
Why does everyone think Shinji is trans?
>>6531030
Have her give you a small loan and make yourself rich. If you can't do that kys.
>>6531030
how rich is technically rich?
and you met her while you were 27 and she was 16?
dafuq is wrong with you
>>6531385
Trustfund with loving parents kind of rich.
It started when she was 19 and I had just turned 30 actually, had gone through a bad breakup and wanted to try something new.
>>6531030
Have you seen Lynn Conway? Some hold up nicely.
>>6531030
Why has no one called you out on this bullshit?
You are biscum that is only using her to fuck. As soon as she stops looking good you will drop her and you'd take any cis girl who looks good instead in a flash.
You don't have any feelings for her and you're a piece of shit giving her hope of a real relationship when you see it just as a passtime.
>>6532304
This.
>>6532304
Because that's how most men treat most women :^)
>>6529681
>3 years already and no commitment
Wtf
>>6529681
I think as a rule if you need to make a decision about a three year relationship with someone and your first idea is to ask 4chan what to do you need to stop being in that relationship
>>6532304
Newsflash, honey:
That's as good as it gets for us, literally the best we can hope for.
If she wants to keep him around she better remain cute and keep the sex exciting.
>>6529681
Whats wrong with 6 months? (no homo)
>>6533348
"I'm lonely and miserable and keep spreading this bullshit around in an attempt to bring others down with me."
>>6529681
drink bleach
>>6533348
this
>>6531053
Trans people are misogynists who think femininity = you must be a chick.
>>6533489
yeah there's probably a good deal of emotional manipulation going on if she's cute/passable, is over 10 years younger and has money
she could probably do much better in every aspect
>>6534531
Well he must be doing something right, otherwise why would she stick around him for 36 months?
>>6531053
>>6534511
He apparently saw himself as a woman in the ocean of LCL. I think the original tumblr account is gone, but this shows the screenshot. http://slaysbelles.tumblr.com/post/92082342665/eva-analysis-shinji-ikari-as-transgender
>>6534531
That's what I'm thinking. What makes him think he can score better?
>>6537859
Low self-esteem, fetish for older men, and thinking if he hadn't dumped her by now he must want to be with her long-term instead of just leading her on are what come to mind for me.
Honestly it doesn't look like its in the cards. You seem flighty, and in what world is 3 years not long term already? You just don't like commitment.
Adoption is perfectly fine, why wouldn't you be ok with that?
Looks are temporary for all, personality is forever.
11 years is too much honestly, 95% chance she still hasn't done maturing into who she will be for the rest of her life and she may change her mind about what she wants in a partner.
Obviously I dont know anything about your actual dynamic, all gut reaction judgement
>>6537973
Or maybe, and this is a huge maybe, he's good to her and makes her happy
Treat her well or destroy her, no reason to do anything else desu
>>6533456
no child bearing hips
>>6531030
>doesn't wanna adopt
dumb
>age gap
Why are you even dating her in the first place if you think she's too young for you?
>she makes more money than me
Get some balls
>she might not be hot as she ages
Shallow.
Honestly dude, you're fucking selfish and she deserves better. Do her a favor and break up with her.
>>6533348
Imagine hating yourself this much.
>>6547161
>child-bearing
Not sure you understand how the anatomy of a trans woman works, lmao.
>>6547778
someone has finally said this
>>6547782
Child-bearing hips usually refers to shape of the hips.