Cisgendered lesbian here. I am exclusively attracted to women (as in: not predominantly lesbian but exclusively lesbian). No gender dysphoria whatsoever.
I can only get off by imagining I'm a straight man fucking a woman. Anyone else feel this way? Like, lesbians who feel the same or gay guys who can only get off when they picture themselves as a woman fucking a man? It really bums me out because I know I will never be able to morph into a guy. :(
inb4 strap-ons, I know strap-ons exist, but I will never feel a girl from the inside.
Not the same but similar situation.
I'm a gay guy that is 100% cis for sure. No gender disphoria or anything like that. I'm 100% a bottom and when I'm having sex, I like to imagine myself as a girl. I have no issues with my dick getting touched or anything like that. I love being a guy in every other aspect of my life, but treated like a woman in bed.
What do?
>>6484307
EXACTLY!!! God, I hate this. Do you feel insecure about telling your partners too?
Sounds like a mild case of Autoandrophilia, commonly shortened to AAP. Since 4chan has way more biological men than women its sister condition, Autogynephilia, is seen far more often.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blanchard%27s_transsexualism_typology#Autogynephilia_and_autoandrophilia
In the mild form it can just be a fetish, though a strong one. In extreme cases it might lead to dysphoria and the desire to transition. Don't worry too much if that's not the case for you. Some transsexuals are AAP/AGP but not all AAP/AGPs are transsexual.
For more info, though focused on your condition's mirror image, see:
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>>6484225
Also if you frequent cis lesgen then I know at least one other poster there experiences the same thing so ask around.
>>6484334
So you just picture your anus is a vagina? I unfortunately cannot picture my clit as a penis, seeing as it's not comparable shape-wise. I'm thinking about getting a strap-on. Maybe I don't even have to tell my partners.
>>6484225
...sure you're not bi? x_x
How sexually experience are you? It may be that it's just easier for you to imagine a guy than a girl in those situations.
>>6484340
Pretty much. More than actually imagine a backwards-facing pussy, I like to envision a cross-section view of my rectum as if it were a vagina. Complete with uterus and all the usual fixins'.
In many ways the act of bottoming as a man in an S&D relationship is very similar to bottoming as a vanilla woman, so asking my partner to rub my lower back, to refer to my ass using slang for vagina, or to pull my hair, he just assumes it's a kink and goes along with it. There really is nowhere for a male role in traditional lesbian sex.
That makes me think your problem could be your partner's attitude during sex. Check out buying a Feeldoe. You'll probably also want to tell all that to partners. Ask her to treat you like a man in the bedroom and explain to her exactly how you want to be treated.
>>6484444
>Ask her to treat you like a man in the bedroom
Problem with this is gold stars will have no fucking clue how that works.
>>6484483
Right, because it's something they're probably not used to hearing from their other female partners.
>explain to her exactly how you want to be treated.
Explain to her what being treated like a man means to you personally and what she could do to make you more comfortable during sex.
>>6484225
you have a fetish for imagining yourself as a man. Who cares?
>>6484225
>No gender dysphoria whatsoever.
>I can only get off by imagining I'm a straight man fucking a woman.
