So I'm pretty sure I'm trans at this point and I'm lost as fuck. Transitioning would majorly fuck up my life and I can't afford it. I also fucking hate my body and want out. Does drinking to forget work? I just want to be pretty.
>>6466109
Also, I want to compete in kickboxing and transitioning would fuck that up. Gah.
>>6466109
Drinking to forget always works, but it will fuck your life up too.
>>6466109
You're a bit proper fucked, I'm afraid. Talk to a psych about it, and see west the two of you can come up with. Drinking the hurt away is not an optimal solution.
>>6466782
Not sure I even can properly transition. I have really broad shoulders and a masculine face.
>>6466852
Don't socially transition then, just pop skittles and feel a lot less dysphoric. If you don't change how you dress people will just think of you as that androgynous-looking dude.
>>6467179
Until the tits show up...
>>6467179
>just pop skittles and feel a lot less dysphoric
Passers need to take their shit advice and get out
>>6467823
It seems like a shit idea.
>>6467628
May as well kill yourself now if nothing's good enough for you.
>>6467823
>>6468729
Non-passer here, I still recommend >>6467179's advice. You may not ever feel great, and you'll wish you could have been one of the ones who pass or a cis girl, but you don't feel stuck between a rock and a hard place and that time is against you anymore, so that's a huge improvement right there.
Don't think all of us who suggest starting HRT pass and thus don't really understand what we're suggesting. We live it, and I'm telling you it's better than without HRT.
>>6469046
Is facial surgery effective? I'm starting to think I could maybe go for the butch look. Pic related.
>>6466109
work out and don't be a faggot
>>6470515
I'm already pretty muscular. I want to be feminine. How will working out more help that?
>>6470472
I haven't had it. You could check out Drs. Spiegel's, Van Der Bart's, and facial team's sites for before and afters. Also try to see if Youtube has any testimonials.
>>6471535
That is the plan. Downside is it costs a lot.
>>6471878
Have you had any consultations yet or are you waiting until you have the money so it feels more "real" that way?
You just want to be feminine to get attention and praise and because you are too lazy to just be a successful guy
>>6473722
I'm currently training to be an EMT. I lift. I compete in kyokushin karate. I have a gf. This shit has been bubbling under the surface since I was in kindergarten. I wanted to put on makeup and be pretty. I hate the way my body feels. And I hate that I feel that way.
