I need help deciding my sexuality...
I mean I love looking at guys dicks but I don't really like the way guys look, I can't find myself attracted to their bodies.
But I love the way women look but I find their pussies repulsive. I like crossdressing and I can see myself getting fucked by a dude but I also can't see myself doing that if that makes sense...
If anyone can help me/guide me that'd be great. If you need I have a kik as well.
>>6423695
Are you a virgin?
>>6423706
Yes
I also can't get off to gay porn unless the dudes are really feminine and I can't get off to straight porn either.
I really like crossdressing porn tho
>>6423695
First off, what's your sex and how old are you, OP?
Second, what turns you on more? The idea having sex with a man or a woman?
Third, if you don't know if you're trans or not then you probably aren't. Being into crossdressing doesn't make you trans.
>>6423717
Go out
Find a girl of adequate attractiveness and looseness
Fuck her
Then come back
It seriously sounds like all you need is a fuck to figure out your mind
>>6423695
Sounds simple. Find a qt mtf gf
>>6423767
If it seems gross in the moment then you're definitely not attracted to women
What I'm trying to say is actual sex is very different from porn in more ways than just the senses involved
Go fuck a girl lad
>>6423797
wew lad
If I do I kinda want it to be with a girl that I love
Having sex with a hooker sounds fun tho, cuz we could play Blackjack after and go to a theme park after.
Side question: what if I'm only attracted to crossdressers? Or maybe I want to become one? That wouldn't answer the question of finding the right gender love though
>>6423767
1. You really don't sound 18.
2. But if you really are 18 and have a penis, go ahead and download a hookup app, find a guy you think is cute, and hookup with him. Only then, after you've had sex with a man, will you be able to say if you like men.
You said you like the idea of being fucked by a guy. Do you play with you ass and have you gotten any toys?
3.Why not elaborate on what you mean by 'it's not that simple'?
And stop with the emoticons. This is 4chan, fag.
>>6423835
Sexuality and romance aren't the same thing. Go fuck someone and get it out of your system.
>>6423835
Stop acting like a girl man
Just fuck someone and see what you like
You've been corrupted by the internet and your tastes are all fucking whacked up
>>6423863
1. ok
2. I'll probably end up doing both and seeing from there. Yeah I play with my ass sometimes and no I haven't.
3. I mean like I've been thinking about whether I'm trans for years now. I always felt a little weird about how I look and about my gender, but I kinda don't think I am since I can't talk to girls for the life of me. I did like 'girly' stuff as a kid like 'girl' toys or cooking and whatnot. I kinda grew out of it though but it feels like it's coming back.
>>6423878
Yeah I kinda do feel corrupted
>>6423953
Hookup with a man for some mutual masturbation or oral sex then. No ass stuff. Buy yourself an ass toy and get comfortable with that first. Also, learn how to clean out your ass.
It should be easier to hookup with a man since for whatever reason you can't talk to women.
Just because you like 'girly' things doesn't mean you're trans. Just because you enjoy crossdressing doesn't mean you're trans. Everyone feels uncomfortable and unsure of their own body when they're in their teens.
If you want an honest opinion on your appearance, post a pic of yourself.
>>6423992
Thanks! I appreciate the advice.
I dunno why I can't talk to women though, it's probably just a thing that comes with being a nerd.
I suppose you're right. I have imagined what it would be like being a girl, and it seems a bit tempting I must say. Although I feel like I wouldn't enjoy having the responsibilities of a woman so I suppose I'm not.
I would but I'm pretty shy and I don't feel comfortable...
>>6424025
At work, find a woman that you work with who's not a total bitch and talk with her. Try to find out if you have something in common with her.
Sounds more like you've got a fetish for being feminized than actually being trans. It's not an uncommon fetish but that's all it is: a fetish. You need to learn to be more comfortable with your own body. It's a part of who you are.
>>6424101
I guess you might be right. I appreciate your help!
If you don't mind would you be able to contact me via kik so I can talk with you more? I have a bunch of questions still that I need help with.
>>6424111
Yeah mate, we can talk. Post kik
>>6424157
Sorry mate, I'm high as balls and didn't realize you meant that person in particular
Sound pretty similar to me. You're probably a kinsey 4 or 5 who isn't into vaginas but likes femininity. Maybe you want to become a crossdresser because you're attracted to gay porn with crossdressing. Nothing wrong with that either. Don't fall for the memes. You don't have to be a straight guy.
>>6424111
Sorry, I don't use kik.
But if it's something that's that personal that you can't post about it anonymously you probably shouldn't be talking about it to some gay guy you don't know, either
>>6424324
Hope you learn to be more comfortable in your own skin, man. Be sure to post on here after you hookup with a guy.
But seriously, stop with emoticons. They aren't appreciated.
>>6423767
Ask your gay friend if you can suck his dick to figure out if you're Gay or not.
I do it all the time
