We all have horrible experiences online dating, but which groups suffer the most?
Do you need to vent?
What advice can you give to others?
What about lesbians?
What's the lesbian experience like?
Do lesbians like BBC (Big Black Clit), too?
Anyway, I'm gay and asian. I've given up, so I'm giving celibacy a shot, because I don't want to settle for a nasty weeaboo.
>>6420922
>I won't reply to you ching chongs
l m a o
>>6420942
Oh op to contribute
I hate how I always get rejected for being 5'8 unless I act like a slut and flaunt my massive penis around. I hate doing it and have only had to do it twice.
It's not impossible to get guys but it's frustrating as fuck that they care so much about physical things instead of what's inside (cliche I know, but it has some truth to it)
also op I feel you, I fucking hate gay weebs they're always the same with acting like some damn anime girl all the time.
That shit gets annoying
>>6420971
Yeah, it sucks, but then I remember that I'm on a hookup app, which is aimed towards being shallow AF.
But, what gets to me is, when I'm on on non-hook up sites like Okcupid, that's when I get bummed.
Have guys mentioned anything about your height?
>>6420942
it fucking sucks ok ?
shh
>>6420922
>gay and Asian
Every time I download a gay app I remember why I uninstalled it in the first place
>desperate 50 year olds
>"No blacks no Asians"
>Masc4Masc
100% nuclear
>>6421041
cute
>>6421021
I only use hookup sites desu, not looking for a relationship right now, so I don't know that specific feel.
Yeah a few guys have, maybe like 4 in my entire life but still. It doesn't bother me though because if they knew I was packing a 9 incher they'd be getting in line (I'm seriously not joking, I've had offers so bizzare from grindr it's unreal)
You can't let your height get in the way my man, just get your dick wet and satisfy yourself, only care what the other person thinks if you're in love with them.
>>6421031
I was just laughing at the way he said it, I'd never reject an asain dude solely because he's asian
>Anyway, I'm gay and asian. I've given up, so I'm giving celibacy a shot, because I don't want to settle for a nasty weeaboo.
>mfw asians will rather be celibate than date each other
lolol you get what you deserve
>>6421112
weeaboos are fucking cancer mate, they always act like some archetype of an anime character.
fucking weebs man.
>>6421068
:^)
>>6421118
I don't get the point of this post. Is it supposed to signify something?
Am I missing the bigger picture here?
>>6420922
>>6421041
Dating apps for us Asians are terrible (and for minorities in general), I agree. When you're just a picture it's a lot easier for people to rely on their prejudices and assume so many things about you.
I personally try to chat only briefly on those apps and then meet in person. You can gauge a lot more easily if you click...
I've met my boyfriends through mutual friends for the most part, though. Friends are a much better filter for determining who you want to hang out with.
Good luck OP.
>>6420922
>which groups suffer the most?
Probs trans folk. Especially if you don't pass. In terms of cis gay guys, probably us Asians.
If I can remember, there were some statistics released from one of these dating sites (perhaps Match or eHarmony) where it was determined that Asian males were the least attractive to the general American populace.
Asian females were the most attractive and black females were the least. White males were the most attractive.
>also gay and Asian (well, mixed)
>>6421112
As a gay Asian I've dated/slept with (in descending order)
>Latinos
>Asian
>Middle Eastern
>White
I find that dating/sleeping with other minorities feels more relaxed. They "get it." With white guys I feel weirded out a lot of the times because they won't shut up about how I'm handsome (for an Asian guy) or some shit like that.
So you know? You don't want to end up with people who make you uncomfortable anyway.
>>6421130
neh Im just relieved that you wont reject asians just because of yaknow
>>6421168
>because they won't shut up about how I'm handsome (for an Asian guy) or some shit like that.
Does this happen all the time?
>sign up for ebonymeet.com
>meet up with older guy
>it's my dad
>get fucked
>mfw
>>6421180
Yes.
>Usually I'm not attracted to Asian guys but...
>You're handsome... for an Asian guy
>Are you mixed?
>Implying implications
Usually I just follow with
>You're perceptive for a __________
If they can take that joke and stab back, ok they're probably cool. If not, well, fuggit you've got better things to do.
>>6421174
>"ya know"
why is there something I should know?
>>6421140
I'm confused why asian women are seen as the most attractive, if 43% of all interracial marriages were white+hispanic, whereas 14% was white+asian
Shouldn't white+asian be the highest? I have a feeling that the results are skewed and that, for a lack of a better term, weebs are more likely to use online dating
http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2012/02/16/chapter-1-overview/
>>6421214
you should know that I'm glad guys like you exist
I've used POF and okcupid quite a bit and it's literally confirmed that gays really are all basically the exact same conglomerated hivemind of flamers obsessed with theatre, arts, all have gay lisps, etc.
This board totally lied when they said gays were diverse, I have been on hundreds of dates and every guy is basically the same. It's gotten to the point where I can predict peoples careers based on their hobbies because gays literally all go into the same fucking jobs and it's always insurance brokers, interior decorators, nurses, or they'll just work some shitty job at a retail store.
Plus what is it with gays and not owning cars? Jesus christ I have yet to even meet a single gay guy that has a car. How do these people even function in life?
>>6421225
There are thousands of men like me who would date an Asian man, pls don't let 4chan memes get to you.
>>6421230
>what is public transport
at where I'm at I just use it
>>6421194
Op and you are both raging faggets. Hitler was right.
>>6421241
Our public transit system is rated the worst in North America. They actually calculated it out that our LRT system and bus system actually harms the environment more than if every single person had a car simply because it clogs up the streets so much causing so many idling cars
The city actually fired every single person on the transportation board just a little while ago due to them wasting millions of dollars to basically do nothing other than ruin our city.
>>6421230
I hear that DC has a very competitive gay scene, where they're classist, racist, and discriminate based on education.
>>6421237
No, why don't you use your own eyes and see how unwanted gaysians are. You're being delusional if you think it's a 4chan meme. If anything, 4chan likes asians.
Out there, I see more often than not written on profiles
>sugar and spice, no chocolate and rice
>>6421280
I'd for straight asians that's the case, but in the gay community? lolno
asians and whites are masterrace
>>6421295
>asians and whites are masterrace
You mean asian women
Asian men are not wanted by women either. Needless to say, asian women are usually with gross white men, too. All the hapas I know are socially fucked and awkward. I tell my sister to avoid white men, because
>her kids will come out looking like they have down syndrome
>White guys who like asian girls are nerdy autists
Being asian, I prefer other asians, but most are self-loathing. Latinos, arabs, blacks and mixes are fine with me, but I want to be able to have something in common with my partner. I can't with white men.
>>6421263
Not really looking for competitiveness, would just be nice to find someone that's not a complete stereotype. Like everyone I've met is pretty much exactly what the media stereotypes gays as. Everyone keeps telling me to keep looking but it's all the same shit
Actually the only times I've met some that have differed is asians. Blacks and whites tend to be really stereotypical and very very conforming, like aggressively conforming and they'll attack you for differing ideas or behaviour. There's not a lot of the other races like Latinos, Arab, etc here so I have no experience with them
>>6421317
Yeah I will say that yellow fever white guys are just low test betas, but it's kind of rash to say that asian men aren't wanted
I don't actively go out chasing asian guys but wouldn't mind if my partner was asian.
also wf/am produce the best offspring
>>6421354
You still get a disgusting hapa. Hapas are shit tier offspring. They don't see themselves as white or asian, therefore, they act like retards especially around asians. All the hapas I've known have either completely disregarded their asian heritage, feel like they're inadequate, or feel completely justified being racist towards minorities including asians.
>>6421376
>Brandon lee, Keanu reeves, and literally every other white female and asian male
>disgusting
coming from a white guy, pls take a look at what you just said
>>6421376
That's racist
>>6420922
I'm a lesbian and it hasn't gotten me very far yet because it's hard to find a legit lesbian on Tinder in my area. I mostly see an abundance of nonbinary panplatonic kweer girls
>>6421317
>asian women are usually with gross white men, too.
true
>>6421376
Nigga wot
All I've seen was like, some super white passing diasporic hapa born in the west acting like an authority on the Asian culture she barely has any link with anymore
Where did you find chill hapas with no retarded race overcompensation
>>6421394
I don't particularly find them attractive. However, I do find blasians to be very attractive. Every blasian guy I've seen has been very handsome, but none have been gay.
>>6421522
I never said I found chill hapas. I said they act retarded around us. But you pretty much hit the nail on the head.
>>6421256
what country?
>>6420922
Probably gonna die alone, and soon, but from what I have experienced, it's basically just oldies and bis hitting on me, and honestly, I'm above that.
Olds are just obsessed with youth. And wanting to feel young again.
And "bi" is just another way of saying "straight" but desperate, or fetishizes penis. Absolute scum.
Sadly I'll probably end up with a bi (if anyone) because most true gays are total bottoms... and that includes me ;-; (well, vers bottom, but ya know).
Also, he'll probably be either white, spic, or mutt. No offense, but some races just tend to not be attractive. Yes, exceptions, but we call them exceptions for a reason.
Also I'm ugly (again, this is why I only get bis and olds), so everything I say doesn't count anyways.
>>6421429
Do you ever find yourself meeting girls who aren't really into other girls? I have straight girlfriends who say they're bisexual or that they're into girls, but they've admitted that they wouldn't go further than kissing a girl
>>6421556
Have you tried working out? I'm not that great looking, but I started to work out. 2 years ago I had man boobs, and now I'm actually pretty fit. I've had better luck with guys since I've been in shape.
>>6421583
Yeah, I used to be fat, then I worked out.
Now I can get old people and ugly/NSA bis into me. I went from nothing to shit.
>>6421136
asians are my favourite race tb.h
although I am heteroflexible with a raceplay fetish and think all low t asians were made to serve white dick
>>6421735
kms
>>6420922
"Douchebag" or not, that guy's face should really be blurred or something. You could destroy his marriage by spreading that around.
>>6421904
No, my dear biscum. Their marriage was destroyed the moment he decided to cheat on her. And be stupid enough to flaunt it. And stupid enough to put a face pic on grindr. And stupid enough to write inflammatory rhetoric to trigger picker of cotton (poc) that would no doubt screen cap it and post it elsewhere.
>>6421947
I'm not bisexual, but I've been with enough married dudes to know that they're not soulless monsters. A lot of them will proudly show off photos of their wives and kids, and it's obvious from the way they speak that they love their families dearly. Having both a wife and a grindr profile does not preclude a happy marriage. For those of us who also use the app for the same ends, we shouldn't be moralizing or judging the needs of others.
Same goes for the charges of "racism". I'm personally not attracted to Asians either, and while I'd never advertise that fact, I can understand those who do as a time-saving measure. As fags, I think we of all people would have learned to be a bit more tolerant of sexual preferences. Again, this general holier-than-thou attitude is ridiculous on a hook-up app.
>tfw my ex cheated on me for an asian
Lmao
I should have known, he only watched asian porn too.
>>6422069
>Having both a wife and a grindr profile does not preclude a happy marriage
Infidelity is the strongest indicator of an unhappy marriage. That's why it is grounds for immediate divorce.
>charges of "racism"
Dude, he called Asians "ching chongs", it's blatantly racist. Fuck you for defending this total douchebag.
I like manly asians. Why are ALL out gay asians so terribly effeminate? I am not even that picky, I don't mind short dudes or chub but these guys are just pre-op trannies with skinny jeans.
I wish they didn't pigeonhole themselves into submissive bottom bitches.
>>6422097
>POZZE'D nip nong ching chong triggered this badly
Hahaha hahaha that's what you get with an order of fried rice and cat.
>>6422113
Western asian fags are shit-tier t b h
>>6422097
You'd see a man's life (and potentially the lives of his children) destroyed just because he needs to be with another man every once in a while? I hope I never achieve that level of self-righteousness.
You don't know the circumstances of his marriage. You're in no position to judge on the basis of infidelity alone. What if he's an awesome husband/father/provider with just this one little weakness? What if his family could live fulfilling lives with perfectly mutual love for one another if only this secret was kept? Would you seriously deny them that?
I can understand if you're upset over the use of a slur. I agree that preferences shouldn't be denoted that way, but you can't take a single expression of prejudice as the sum total of a person's life.
>>6422164
If he loved his wife he would not betray her. It really is just as simple as that. He does not 'need' to sleep around anymore than I 'need' to eat a bowl of chocolate ice cream. His willingness to betray his wife means he is not an awesome husband, period. I might be self-righteous but at least I know what a marriage is.
>>6422113
Fuck, asians are so cute. I'm glad for every stupid wanna-be pol faggot who doesn't do asians because there is more for me.
>>6420922
As a gay ftm I've pretty much given up trying to date and finally accepted that I'm never going to find a partner. I pass and all but all the gays I meet are effeminate-yet-ugly twinks who don't understand that sex can be more than 'penis in anus.' Right now my best bet to loose virginity is finding a dom guy who doesn't care whether he's pounding an anus or vagina, being dominant myself is mostly out of the question because even with dildos or strapons because all the submissive fags I find only do "real dicks." Which is impossible in itself because there are so many twinks... none of the gays I know ever wants to top so they're always super desperate and single but still unwilling to get with me because even if I topped it would be "lol no dick." Gay dating is the circle jerk of a lifetime. Sometimes I think about trying to date women but then I'd rather be alone than deal with all their self-inflicted problems and emotions.
>>6422179
You don't because you're a homo
>>6422179
>If he loved his wife he would not betray her. It really is just as simple as that.
It must be so much easier to view the world in such black and white terms. I can't bring myself to do it though. Love is a particularly complicated aspect of life and I'd never appoint myself judge and jury on the matter.
>I might be self-righteous but at least I know what a marriage is.
Do you really? How?
>>6422227
Playing the part of a good, loving husband to his wife while sleeping around behind her back is just the worst betrayal I can imagine. You speak of nuance and understanding, and I get where you're coming from with that, but there is a time and a place. It's not as if he had a momentary lapse in judgment, he's actively looking for opportunities to betray her, and for what? A few shameful bouts of meaningless sex? How can he be justified dishonouring his wife this way and lying to her just for some sex on the side?
I've never been married myself, but EVERYONE knows infidelity is not supposed to be a part of it. He shames his wife and he shames himself.
>>6422200
>more for me
ayyyy
>>6422250
No you stupid fag, that's just your aids talking. This is more nuanced than that, stop cheater-shaming!
>>6422113
Asians twinks are the best twinks in the world though, whites have nothing on them, even whites on horomones
I think if you are asian you should probably just get used to being a submissive and just go after dominant bi masc guys which are the best
All the gay "masc" guys that are muscled up tend to have lisps and STD's
Give up on being masc or even a top if you are asian, it's a waste of time
>>6422258
there are quite a few asian masc tho
>>6422263
They need to transition if they want that bi master race cock.
>>6422263
They are bottom of the pile when it comes to other masc guys though
They'd get more dick if they just submitted to other masc guys rather than trying to compete if they just learned their place
Cute fem guys have no problem getting dick, it's only the ugly fem guys that do
>>6422113
He's unattractively yellow
>>6422298
You're delusional. On grindr, and other apps asians tend to be how you describe, yet they're still unwanted. Your fetish for femme asians blinds you to the sad reality that asians masc and femme are less desirable than other groups. Just because you might like femme asians, it doesn't mean that the gay community, especially the masc scene is attracted to asians-much less femme asians
>>6420922
Stop being such a beta and man up.
>>6422250
I'm not saying he's justified. I just don't think anyone is qualified to pass judgement on the love he has for his wife. It's a personal matter and no one has the right to interfere with that. Who are any of us to say what should be done in this situation?
You don't even know him at all as a person. You're basing your entire appraisal of him on a grindr profile. I don't think any of us would come out looking much better by that standard.
Also, how do you know he doesn't feel genuine guilt and shame over this? It could be hanging over his head all the time; the burden he has to bear on account of his actions. He could already be punishing himself every second of every day. We don't know, and that's the point.
>>6422200
The whole concept of ftms used to really freak me out, especially after encountering some insanely hot ones. Getting hard over someone who was technically female is disconcerting as a fag. I've come to terms with it and I'm pretty open to the idea of fucking one now, but I'm still perturbed by the vagina. You people generally have no qualms over anal, right?
>>6422318
If he truly did love his wife, and truly did feel guilty and ashamed of himself (as he clearly should), then he would stop what he is doing, he would come clean and beg his wife for forgiveness.
You're right that there is no way for me to know for sure how he feels about his wife and about himself. I can only speak about what I do know: he claims to be a married man, looking for opportunities to betray his wife in secret, just for some 'fun'. It's disgusting. I would never forgive someone that betrayed me that way.
>>6422334
I prefer vaginal but I am open to anal, I'm just kind of scared by the idea of accidental poopy sex and whether or not douching actually cleans you enough so it's not a problem. I guess I just don't get gay mens adversity to vaginas like I'm not asking you to eat it out or anything but why they would rather do anal than fuck a self lubricating hole that I can get more pleasure from (no prostate here).
>>6422391
It's the meat curtains and the teeth and tentacles, and in the case of ftms the enlarged clitoriceaes don't do you any favors either. A nice clean asshole is more... minimalistic.
>>6422391
vaginas look like scary aliens mate, there is no real logic to not liking them
being transgender must suck desu, especially FTM, why dont you try find another "gay" FTM and use strapons on each other?
That's probably what most people in your situation do, waiting for a twink or gay masc guy to come along when you have a vagina is just not gonna happen
>>6422404
If I ever start a punk band I'm going to name it meat curtains. Having tentacles would be great.
>>6422410
I think it's far more likely that I'm going to find a gay guy whos okay with vagina than another gay ftm... hell I'm the only trans person I know that doesn't identify as "nonbinary" and gives a shit about passing. But whatever for now I'm just biding my time and working out, I'm just gonna get so ripped that the gays are gonna wish they could suck my clit.
>>6422391
There are all kinds of guides online for cleaning yourself out back there. We've got enemas down to a science at this point.
If you really want to be one of us, you need to accept the fact that your butt is going to be seeing a lot more traffic. It doesn't matter whether you get any pleasure out of it - the other hole simply isn't an option, unless you find a bisexual.
I'm actually surprised that FtMs are into vaginal penetration at all. I thought they'd have the same aversion to using their natural genitalia that MtFs do.
>>6422365
I think it's just something endemic to bisexuals that we cannot understand. They genuinely appear incapable of controlling themselves. It's why I personally would never knowingly date one.
However, our own feelings shouldn't enter into this. What you or I think he should do is irrelevant.
>>6422258
Thats like your opinion though, I've been Japan and the guys there are quite decent imho.
Its just gaysians in America/Canada that do the whole submissive fag shit.
>>6422580
I'm bisexual and I'm the anon you just replied to. Not all bisexuals are whores.
>>6422113
The try-hard Asian dudes who overcompensate by becoming gymrats and acting all belligerent can be pretty adorable. They'll still never be anything more than bottom bitches in my eyes.
>>6422651
That's fair enough. Yet men like the one we were discussing are indeed quite common.
My own experience has led me to believe that entering into a serious relationship with one comes with undue risk. I don't mind being the guy on the side, but I sure as hell won't let myself be the one that's cheated on.
>>6422722
Unfortunately, I believe that unfaithfulness is also quite common with heterosexuals and homosexuals. Most people in general are just terrible people.
>>6422656
>tfw dominating a muscly asian man and making him your bitch after you break his macho act
feels fucking good man
>>6420922
That image is nothing, OP
>>6421330
Latinos are the same as blacks and whites
Anyway it's just that gays are fucking trash
I cant believe it's taken some of you this long to realize it
The community is focused on hyper sexuality and that means everyone is vain as fuck
Gay dating is the fucking worse and the chance that you find love on gay apps (even ones based around dating) is slim as fuck
Just hook up or shut up
>>6422599
Japanese in Japan are even more effeminate than americanized asians who try and act ghetto a lot of the time
They are very shy though, gotta be assertive
>Grindr
>dating
Yeah, no. It's pretty much exclusively a hook-up app. There may be some 1% of guys who actually go on there looking for serious long-term relationships, but that's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
As for my personal experience with dating, it's always a pain in the ass due to the limited pool of (non-closeted) guys available in my area. It doesn't help that I'm stuck in the South where - thanks to extensive religious indoctrination - half the gay dudes here can't even admit it to themselves. The few guys I have met just weren't compatible in terms of relationship needs, or they were frankly batshit insane.
>>6420922
>Anyway, I'm gay and asian. I've given up, so I'm giving celibacy a shot, because I don't want to settle for a nasty weeaboo.
I can dig Asian guys, although you generally don't see that in the South. I took Asian studies off and on and learned some rudimentary Japanese, so I'm a bit immersed in East Asian culture at least.
The only thing I'm concerned about is finding a decent, sane guy to settle down with. The physical stuff is all secondary. I'm not into the hook-up scene, and I'm mostly adverse to dating younger guys for this reason. Seems a lot of them are still stuck in the mindset that they need to sleep around with the hottest, fittest dudes in town in a desperate bid to validate their own self-worth.
>>6422794
>Finding a decent, sane guy to settle down with
Ahahahahahaah
He still has hope
Is there a good way of filtering out the people who turn out to be flamers ? I met with a pretty masculine looking guy yesterday but his mannerisms were the biggest fucking turn-off. It's weird meeting up with people who I really didn't think would be flamers and then finding out that they are.
>>6422820
No
You have to meet them in order to figure it out
>>6422820
Exchange numbers, call him. Or use skype.
>>6422850
Over text
Tell them you're just not interested and then stop responding to them
>>6422854
But what if I'm meeting them in person and then realize that I don't find them attractive ? How do I explain that I don't want to fuck because of their personality ?
>>6422867
Just don't fuck then
Don't invite them to your house
Go on a date
>>6422867
My strategy:
>Meet in a public place where you can both easily leave. Always.
>"I'll be there wearing a red cap"
>Wear sun glasses, no red cap
>Scope out the guy and see if he looks good in person. Be discreet, find a good place to observe the area
>Take off the sunglasses and go talk to him if he is attractive in person
>Talk about hobbies and stuff
>If he seems cool tell him it was nice to meet him and that I'd like to see him again
>"Do you use condoms?"
>"Do you get tested?"
>Ok bye I gotta go
If you go into it telling yourself "I'm not gonna sleep with the guy even if I like him or not" it relieves a lot of pressure. Tell him ahead of time that you can only meet briefly to give yourself an exit.
Good luck operator.
>>6423715
Just go on a food date
God damn it's not hard and you don't have to pull bullshit
If you like go on a walk afterwards to talk more then leave
You guys make dating seem really complicated
The whole point of a first date is to see if you like a guy
>>6423731
Coffee sure, food no. I don't wanna be stuck somewhere watching someone eat while I try to figure out how to get the fuck out, I have better things to do.
Coffee -->take your cup and leave if you don't like the person. It offers more flexibility. If you click you can take the coffee and walk around and stuff too.
>>6423760
Food yes
It's so fucking easy
If you don't like a guy just be friendly
It'll only be like 30 min tops
God it's not science
>>6422200
What do you look like?
>>6422767
>>Racist, thinks he has a big dick (probably <7 inches), and has/is looking for AIDS
Why do people like this even use Grindr? Are there genuinely people out there desperate enough to fuck something like that?
>>6422200
>tfw a dominant ftm doing bdsm on me and being into me will never happen
>tfw I can't be Vers with an ftm and fuck him right in the pussy after a long hard day of work
>mfw life is suffering
i'm currently dating my first guy, we hang out a lot and i really like him, no idea what i should do now though, I really want to suck his dick
>>6421168
Yeah the fetishization a lot of white guys do is really weird and borderline racist desu
>>6421230
>I have yet to even meet a single gay guy that has a car.
Are you only meeting guys who live in a city? Urban gays tend to be ultra liberal, a group that hates cars because they pollute and don't realize how cool a hobby cars can be. Also it's hard to own a car in a city.
>>6429573
>Thinking it doesn't go both ways
>Thinking it's just the whites
Lad...
>>6429573
And the fetishization black guys have with white guys where they think we all want to be their fuckpuppets.
I block every black man I see on grindr now because I'm fucking tired of explaining to someone that I don't care about you or your black dingus.
The worst part of gay dating would have to be all the easily offended egos
Like holy shit I thought gays could take jokes until I started using grindr
>>6429582
I just call them niggers when they bother me
Normally shuts them the fuck up or gets them to block me
>>6421947
This
>>6421947
How do you even know it's real?
I swear you faggots can't spot fakes even when it's obvious
>>6429641
You throw that word around quite a bit
You know every time you use it, it loses more and more meaning right?
>>6429641
If you are referring to the ching chong comment, I urge you to check out the profile again. The guy is mixed himself. Clearly the way you see racism is something that is taught to you.
Grindr and gay dating at large is all about cutting down time. The ching chong comment will to those that are overtly sensitive make them cry, but I found it funny which means we probably have similar type of humor and therefore would click easier than someone that finds it problematic.
Same reason why I block all black guys, I get fed up hearing them talk about their black dicks and how they think every white guy wants to be used by them. Waste of time.
This, blood, and bathrooms are the next things on the gay agenda
Get ready for it to be pushed at prides everywhere soon
Youre not allowed to reject guys based on their race height weight or masc/femness anymore
It's 2016 after all
>>6422794
>. It doesn't help that I'm stuck in the South where - thanks to extensive religious indoctrination - half the gay dudes here can't even admit it to themselves. The few guys I have met just weren't compatible in terms of relationship needs, or they were frankly batshit insane.
It's true. I'm in the South and I'm insane.
Because I'm in the South.
Go fucking figure.
>>6429650
>it loses more and more meaning right?
Not really
>>6422820
>met up with a pretty masculine guy
>turned out to be flamer
You do know he's probably mathc4mathc right? Vast majority of "masc" guys are completely flamers that's why they're so insecure
>>6429376
>Are there genuinely people out there desperate enough to fuck something like that?
Yes. Other old and ugly people.
>>6429711
You keep telling yourself that
I for one invite you to weaken the power of that word
God it's such a stupid word that shuts up discussion
>>6429544
Suck his dick! Why haven't you already?
>>6429376
It gets even better. This guy keeps messaging me and for some reason believes that I'm a stormfag like him. I put in my description that I'm from Germany and he sent me this.
>>6429724
Then what do I do if I want an actual masculine man ?
>>6420922
I've noticed a pattern on Grindr. I'm an Asian twink, I find my face more attractive than my twinky body (trying to get fit and bulk up)
I tend to get more messages from mostly older men when I show off my body (face is hidden, I don't say what race I am in my profile either) then when I show my face. People seem to like a racially ambiguous twinky body more than seeing an actual Asian face.
Or I'm just ugly and I just haven't gotten used to old men liking tiny little twink bodies.
Also kind of pisses me off knowing under-average white twinks are probably better off than objectively attractive Asian boys, but you can't really do anything about it
>>6430153
Do you like other asians or whites more ?
What's wrong with racism though?
>>6422164
You're an idiot. No ones going to intentionally destroy his marriage but why the fuck should anyone bother blurring out his face? It's his fucking responsibility, no one else's.
>>6429653
>no asians
>ching chong
>not racist
>I black all black guys because of my prejudices
>the way you see racism is something that is taught to you
clearly
>>6430215
he worships white masc dick obviously, just like every other demographic
>>6430690
>>6421735
I hope you're not one of those guys that assume asians want to sleep with you because you're a white boy
>>6430690
>am a white bottom
am gonna meet a asian guy from grindr on Friday. inb4 you scream chaser/fetishist, I've dated mostly white guys.
What to do not to screw this up ?
>>6430757
>>6430757
Treat him like a person.
Don't pull the guessing game shit about his ethnicity and don't ask "where are you from" unless you actually mutually show interest in getting to know one another. In that case ask "what's your heritage" or something.
Don't end sentences with "......for an Asian"
it's not rocket science
>>6422200
>As a gay ftm I've pretty much given up trying to date and finally accepted that I'm never going to find a partner. I pass and all but all the gays I meet are effeminate-yet-ugly twinks who don't understand that sex can be more than 'penis in anus.' Right now my best bet to loose virginity is finding a dom guy who doesn't care whether he's pounding an anus or vagina, being dominant myself is mostly out of the question because even with dildos or strapons because all the submissive fags I find only do "real dicks." Which is impossible in itself because there are so many twinks... none of the gays I know ever wants to top so they're always super desperate and single but still unwilling to get with me because even if I topped it would be "lol no dick." Gay dating is the circle jerk of a lifetime. Sometimes I think about trying to date women but then I'd rather be alone than deal with all their self-inflicted problems and emotions.
PM me on reddit if you're still lurking in this thread. My username is Sailor_Mooninite. I'm a legit bi male that loves the way FTM physically look. I prefer vaginal over anal for the same reasons you do. Anal is gross to me whether it's with a man or woman. There's that chance....of doody....and I want nothing to do with it. Even the smell is more than enough to kill my hard on and make me suggest we do something else.
Sadly, that's also why I can relate to you because gay men can't fathom a world where butt sex doesn't exist.
Soooo yeah.....maybe I'll hear from you?
> not saying no to niggs spics and Asians
Lol fuck them but in Netherlands these people are less than 5% or so.
